How to forgive yourself... | Buddhism In English
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It's difficult to forget past mistakes that affect our present life and that have changed our life forever.
I know, feels bad, bad.😪
yeah ,in beginning it is difficult to forget about past but when you start to forgive yourself or either someone else ,you will feel good then you will realised that you were thinking about past are pointless ,take past as a lesson which you had been through and i must say that i have experienced it.....Namo Buddhaya🙏🕊️
@@mariovallego5214have you managed to forgive yourself now?
@@ShaunHolden Well I would be lying if I say I feel ok now, I have my ups and downs still but as soon as I have extra money to go to a therapy, I will do that, I'm just waiting for that right now, there's so much to tell, but I have to push and help my self otherwise who will, god can help me but if I'm willing to help my self none one will, but my self, that's where am at right now, just waiting for some extra money and trust me, I'mma go with a psychology and let everything know how I feel and get a little help.
Everything changes at every moment. We don't live forever.
"Those that don't learned from history are doomed to repeat it, but those who obsess over history repeat it throw anger"
Very profound!
Sorry, I don’t understand your grammar. What are you saying?
Best Teachings Ever.
Then what should I do
This is very valuable . I am from Srilanka. I offer my gratitude deep in my heart as you all try to wake up people by the merit of the universe. Buddhism is the law of universe. I'm proud to be a congenital buddhism soul.❤
same , proud buddhist i respect my religion and thus undestand the values of it also!
What s it like in shri lanka with rstrictions? Wish all people great awakening
I’m an atheist which means I don’t believe in any gods, but lately I’ve been reading a lot about the teachings of Buddhism.
Namo Buddhay
can we contact
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Buddhists don't believe in a God either.
Its "namo buddhaya"
Thank the Supreme Buddha for giving me the best chance to change my thinking.
I was waiting for this video😭😭😭
I worried my life before being here but fortunately I found Buddha medication speech in you tube channel. I so happy to listening too and I change the my life style.
Even if I belong to another religion I found this helpful, thank you
i am a follower of Jesus Christ and i like Buddha's teaching 🙏
🌷🌷🌷🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Muslim here appreciating Buddhist wisdom 😻
If u still can't change it, then don't focus on it nor worry about it, it's better for u, what u an change and focus in the now so don't waste that on regretting your past, best of luck, u can still do what's best for u
Jesus was a yogi, spent much time in TM.
Regret is painful than any other thing
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏Anumodana bhante 🙏🙏🙏
May all beings be happy, free from suffering.
Sadhu, sadhu, sadhu 🙏🙏🙏
This took me a long time to find, self forgiveness, for actions that changed the lives of others forever. And now finding a meaning to life. To move to Cambodia and create a healing space for all.
How was that possible?? Can u please share with us ur experience..really i dont understand thz concept..m living in the thoughts of my past deeds since years, its really verry tough for me to move forward, to face the present..so i want to know how was it possible for u...
@@arcane2307 hey Arcane. Hope your well. I will make a vid around this for you and others from my mindset and how my life went :)
@@OutYourShell 🙏🏻
@@arcane2307 hey, just made a video on my channel around your comment. Hope it helps ☮️☮️☮️
@@OutYourShell sure sure.. Thanks a loot 🙏🏻
Sadhu sadhu sadhu🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏 Vandami Bhanteji🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐
Thank you for this video, very helpful. Instead of watching it once, I think I’ll make a habit of watching this brief talk every morning, & deepen my understanding more later on.
Have you been able to solve this problem now?
@@ShaunHolden MUCH improved. I’ve learned to talk to myself the way I would do with a friend. Instead of “you’re so stupid, why’d you do that”, I’ll think “well, you’re human, we’re all fallible, & you’ve been improving”. ☮️
@@jordanwood183 I love this! If you would like to learn more about self forgiveness and compassion, feel free to check my channel out but well done that is incredible! Keep at it!
Namooo Buddhayyy..🙏😌💐
Thanks for all your videos sir .im born again christian but i watch your videos
Namo Buddham 🌺
Namo Buddhaya!
Thank you v.much Rev. Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
สาธุครับหลวงพี่ 🙏🏻
Take my respect Bhante 🙏🌹. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌹
That stright of teach for person.and wisdom. 🙏☸️ shadu sahdu sahdu.namo buddhaya 🙂
Please sir, also tell us about our great teacher Buddha's teaching or thought, or how to approach our life... Or sometimes you use to say "namo buddhay" Or you use something like shlok, please tell us more about it.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻.
You are too nice 💜
namo buddhya [pali]= homage to the supreem buddha
theruwan saranay [sinhala] = bless u triple gems[ buddha dhamma and sangha]
I do care about getting over the past. But, I can’t get over it yet!
There is no mistake. You have chosen your,
Own Life experience in this Life time .
The creator he created only God’s.
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Thank you for choosing this topic 🙏🙏
I needed more than just making a little mistake...
There are way more serious mistakes that affect your present and your future... that's the kind of " how to forgive yourself ".. some of us really were searching for.
I never killed, steal, engaged in sexual misconduct or lied too big, if I have lied to anyone it was so small that I was always ready to accept it. Or may be those lies like, I have always pretend like I do not care about unnecessary things but sometime I did were my biggest mistakes for myself, but I will never do the same again. And, one more thing I find bad about myself is I yell sometime but I have lessen it so far. Thanks how you taught it so well that it is about being good in own self and realize our mistakes and never do the same thing again.
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹
Thank you , this is really helpful to heal my soul.
Exactly what I needed to hear today.
නමෝ බුද්ධාය .
Venerable Bhikku Ariyavimukthi Thero,
May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation.
තෙරුවන් සරණයි!
Namo budhhya 🙏
🌸🌹Namo buddhaya. Good to hear you,!!
Thank you for giving us valuable guidance. Vandami bhante 🙏
It’s NOT over with when past mistakes effect your children, whom are effected daily.
Namo Buddhaya🙏🌼
Namo buddhaya! I like this video . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Sir. 🙏
Not sir this is monk
Namo buddhay sir
One of the best videos on your tube.
☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️
I learn about lot of knowledge in the video.... thank you
Thank you so much!!
How to be free from addiction ? Make a video on this ?
Sadhu 🌺 Sadhu 🌺 Sadhu 🌺
🙏🙏🙏 💐🌹Namo Buddhay 🌹 💐
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Sadhu ! Sadhu! Sadhu !🌷🙏
Nice explained thank you so much❤❤
Namo Buddaya 🙏☸️
Thank you so much. I’m a sri lankan buddhist and this was very pleasing.
Sadhu sadhu bandami Bhante ji
Namo Buddhaya
I am an Indian, I wana be a Buddhist monk, how it is possible for me.?
Go Thailand or our country
I think Thailand is better than srilanka. Srilanka face economic crisis. There are many foreign monks in Thailand. Go bhai
Yes sir ,
we cant change the past ? Shoud we not try to change the present and future , the enviorent around us ,the people around us ? Thank you !
Thank you very much venerable Thero 🙏really enjoyed 🌼🌼🌼🙏🙏🙏🌼🌼🌼
I forgiven my self. I forgiven all human.
This is truth. Live and learn.
My great respect
Well speech bhante 🙏🙏🙏
Is being hard to forgive my self
Thank you for this important lesson bhante.☸️
Nice bhantê Ji NAMO Buddhay 🙏🙏🙏
I make mistakes in historie where a shaming too much that is happen and another people knows it that i do such things... I can't forgive me this... And often.i thaught about this why it is happen and why i was such a guy without brain i am...
Harekrishna 🙏🌷❤️
Sadu sadu sadu 🙏🏽
Thank you sir ❤️🙏will you please recommend some effectively ways on how to not thinking anymore some mistakes ,inorder to forget totally the past just to achieve totally healing ,forgiveness and most of all peace of mind🙏❤️
Most important a preach.
🙏🙏🙏 thank u
Namo buddha
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I agree completely with what you just said, BUT, sometimes in life you meet some people who are sick in the "HEAD" and they hurt your feelings and it's not easy to forget the past of what happened to you. How do you handle that??
May I answer your question
@@jayakamalabeysekera8951 OK! Go ahead.
How you been handling it?
@@mariovallego5214 Mario, my answer for you is turn to PRAYERS and Trust in the Lord. My Faith is very strong and that's all I can do and I do.🙏🕯🙏
@@marciadesouza3314 That's what I been doing, I made mistakes that I feel I have to pay for it and grow from it, it's hard but whatever god says let be his will, thank's for replying, it means a lot to me right now, have a good day.🤝
Thank u very much venerable Thero...💗🙏🌷🌻
Namo Buddhaya. Namo Amitabha.
Thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏
It's very difficult with PTSD or cPTSD
Correct, difficult but possible
Also, with ADHD.
Pastvis over. But action of past are showing results in present. How to get rid of the results affecting the present
Seeing those teachings, mindfulness see so many small amount of people chose narrow path but all of majority beings of this planet Walk wide and wrong path, that's why these channels have very low views rate. These are universal truth.
Thank you. Great tips and teachings...
if you truly love yourself, then you don't need to forgive yourself
Sowing good seeds as cause would result in reaping marvelous fruits as effects.
Giving away little would bring considerable in return.
To help others is to help yourself.
I would change his theory to : "Once we purify our behavior and soul, we make far fewer mistakes. The mistakes we still make are much more easily corrected".
Yes I want to change myself many things
I needed this. Thank you
Heel goed uitgelegd 👍 dank u wel 👍♥️🍀🙏
Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🏽
🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!
𑄚𑄧𑄟𑄮 𑄝𑄪𑄙𑄴𑄘𑄠 🙏
People who believe that they are winners, make winner choices. People who believe they are losers, make loser choices. Purify your thoughts and souls. focus on being a winner.
Scratch
Remorse
Mindfulness
Determination
Buddhism began when Gautama Buddha sat by a Bodhi Tree (Ficus religiosa or sacred fig) in Bodh Gaya and received "Awakenings"..
Why do people ignore the Bible when it's be around for thousands of years and proven w/ Archaeological digs.
The teachings of the Bible not only show a good way to live, but a Spiritual way to Heaven.. What does Buddah promise to do ?
I did some mistakes and I had instant regret but the problem is should I forget it fully? do I have to share this mistake of my past to someone who will come in future like life partner?
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu🙏
Thank you, Bhante.
Thank you 😢 😊
i dont forgive myself , i told my mistakes 4 a coworker and he told to my boss and my boss fire me and i loved that job that i lose
You are a good person nd. only good people suffer in this evil world
@@shahnawazalam1268 t k s
Thank you.😊
But karma comes to make us suffer in future I personally experience it from the past 5 years
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Sadu Sadu Sadu!!!