HOW TO KNOW WHEN YOU'RE NOT BEING LOVED ENOUGH by RC Blakes
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HOW TO KNOW WHEN YOU'RE NOT BEING LOVED ENOUGH by RC Blakes
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1. They don’t really hear you
2. They don’t learn you
3. They don’t respect you
4. They don’t support you
5. They don’t prioritize you
6. They don’t apologize or take responsibility for their actions
7. They don’t show consistent affection and care
Solutions:
1. Communicate your feelings openly and honestly
2. Set clear boundaries and expectations
3. Seek couples counseling or therapy
4. Focus on self care and personal growth
5. Evaluate the relationship and consider your options
Thanks! Be blessed!
🙏🏾 thank you
Thank you
You’re welcome ❤
Thank you for writing ✍️ this down!
“Never ruin an apology with an excuse.”
Who else likes Father RC Blakes videos before you even watch them? Already know it's good!
I love watching Bishop Blakes videos, I am still learning more and more about me as a Queen and to behave as one!! Amen never can get enough!
"My daddy made me a man, my mommy made me a gentleman". Absolutely brilliant 👏🏿 👌🏽 😊
I’ve always said,” You can’t have a marriage by yourself “
You shouldn’t feel lonely when your spouse is around.
Amen
I was in a relationship almost 3 years. Both very laid back without any altercations. My first time very calmly needing to discuss relationship concerns he stormed out. My first time realizing he cared about nothing I had to say. Relationship ended that day.
Wow, sorry to hear that. Men do not want to put in the effort to listen. Yet they want us to actively listen to them. They're selfish. I prefer being single myself. It's more peaceful.
@@realtalk64definitely peaceful
Omgthis where I'm at right now. I ended up spitting on his driveway after kicking the dust off my feet and up telling him if you hate and do not want to communicate w women so bad go find you a MAN that can fullfill your needs 😂 God bless you!
Period.
I agree men want all of the love and nurturing the kind of love i seen my grandparents had for each other. But the one true thing a woman want and need is a man that can listen and nurture her mind and they can't do that.
It hits hard as a young man how much i have not been taught, God bless your ministries Sir, you are raising a different level of People.
I love this… I pray that you and many others will get the correct training to be great partners and to equally find a great partner that loves & compliments you.
thank you so much for the prayer, i don't take it for granted. @@christinao-o6668
And thank you for being one of the young man that gets it and is listening. 😊
I was married before and I made the mistake of not listening to her but now I'm listening to God and finding out who I am so I can be stronger
I have & it was sooooo hurtful for years until I had enough & walked away from a 21.5 years marriage with NO REGRETS!! HALLELUJAH FOR DELIVERANCE!!!
Keeping my distance. No contact. Not invested. Protecting my peace., space and spiriual growth. Empowering self with knowledge. Thank you Pastor for the word and teaching.
I needed to hear this so much. My relationship is a mess, 20 years of not being loved right. Every time I try to make him aware of what I need from him, he turns it into an argument and year after year we get nowhere.
I totally know the feeling and I'm also 20 yrs in now and experiencing the exact same thing. Not listening, talking down to me, trying to make his self feel superior, attacking my spiritual beliefs, my family and all etc....He's been making his birth family more of a priority other than me and what family we may have wanted to create. So I'm divorcing my spouse! I guess he don't want a wife!
Try putting it in a letter.
Start with a love letter!
I’m sorry to hear that. I’m in the same boat at almost 19 years but not married. I should have left a long time ago. I think I’ve finally had enough. 🥺
Wow so many are in the same situation as me been in a 18yr marriage and I’m lonely 😢 I pray for each and every one on here 🙏🏾
Listening to this makes me want to pray to be an amazing future spouse to my husband. Thank you so much for this lesson.
Amen me too 🙌🏾
Me as well!!!
Me too! I hope you all on this post be blessed with what you need and want.
I TRULY THANK GOD FOR SUCH A TRUE FATHER FIGURE LIKE BISHOP RC BLAKES!!!
Yes ! He is so graceful with his wise words he gives all covered with love ... sometimes tough but strong. Bishop is always willing to help you out of any needed trouble. With God's word to show you the way out!
This song is my anthem! I feel so powerful every time I listen to it. It feels different the more I heal.
I agree! Would love to be able to purchase it!❤
Amen!’ Same here I cried my eyes out when I first came across this song I was in such a low place of my life. Thank the lord that he has brought not only me but all of us through! Blessings! God is so good🙏🏼🔥🔥❤️🔥
"SHE," by the legendary Dave Hollister. Originally featured @ Queenology in 2K17. Exclusive for/ to Bishop R.C. Blakes, Jr. & the Queenology conference & movement itself. Great women's empowerment music!
Yes
I agree with you 💯. When I first started watching Bishop and the song came on, I'd cry because of the all pain I've put myself through. I'm on the road to healing but this song will forever move me ❤
Respect is a fundamental aspect of Love.❤
My husband is listening, Thank you Jesus
My husband has shutdown and it's the most painful thing I've experienced. I just feel so u unworthy. Help me Jesus.
Write him a letter with no complaints. Ask him what can you do to become a better wife.
Bishop, your mom is a divine feminine woman. She raised you well and she guided you well. So beautiful that she knew what was the best thing for you and looked out for it because a lot of mothers still want to be selfish with their son's love even if it costs them their relationships.
I’m so blessed to have stumbled across this site 2years ago… blessings to Bishop and Mrs. Blakes … I walk differently now in all areas of my life 🙏🏽
“ respect is a fundamental value of love “ perfect!!
This was right on time. Just left a 19 year marriage unfortunately with a narcissist who was a serial cheater. It's almost been a year this March 2024 and cannot wait to restore my life abd heal which has been going great. So blessed abd grateful for your channel Unc RC and looking forward to greatness ❤.
Practice Being Yourself and Watch Your Self Love Grow!
Your videos are a blessing now that I am going through my divorce. Thank you!!
It's hard to realize that you're not being loved enough by your own mother 💔
Listening this message today and it's on top 👍👍. I'm also turning 60 this year and looking forward to a bright, healthy future
"Set Clear Boundaries And Expectations"📌
I listen to this RC Blake's all day and all night. I asked God for a new messenger and he delivered more than I expected. 🙏🏾💙
😂❤😂The theme song is more than just a catchy tune, it's such a powerful anthem. I've memorized all the words an feel empower every time I hear it. BRAVO.
I love this song and I also too memorize the words!! God bless you David Hollister for letting God use your song as your ministry to Queens!!!!
R C is right. Relationships are much too much work though. I enjoy being single. It's less stressful. Men don't listen to women I find. Blakes is unique and respects women. I value his advice. Thanks for helping all of us from all over the world.❤
I feel the same way. I do t even miss being in a relationship.
Boys don't listen to women men do.
My husband and I are separated since May of last year, married nine years and he fits every thing you mentioned Bishop. I’ve tried talking with him about my feelings. He never wants to have a conversation concerning anything. Always want to do what he wants to do. I’ve mentioned counseling several times for us to go to, his response is … “no, counseling is for people with problems and there’s nothing wrong with me”.
He sounds just like my EX
Sounds like a narcissist they don’t change
Time to close the deal. He hasn’t been a husband or acted like he has a covenant. Go love you Queen
"Communicate your Feelings Openly and Honestly"📌
Been talking 30 years. His answer "that's BS" "Whatever" "you're living in the past" "you're not perfect" "I'm not changing"
Why keep talking when no one is listening🤷🏾♀️
I'm ready!! I am committing to my healing and singleness. Learning to love me!
This was such a helpful message and always on time. When I first started learning from you a a single broken mother in 2014 getting my fathwr daighter talks, I needed your teachings to help me move forward, now my King has arrived we are very happily married going on 2 years and your teachings always confirm what a healthy love is. And teaches me to love appreciate and value what we have. You have no idea how paramount your instruction has been in our lives. May Jah keep you and your family covered and in His service.
Bishop I pray you can see how much your voice and wisdom is needed for women. My life has been transformed by your ministry. Keep doing what you do!!!!!
I wish I could "like" this lesson a million times!!! It was on point to a tee in describing how I felt in my last situationship.
#2. I allowed this to resonate with me for a long time. And I have concluded that after 20 years, he does not care.🛐
So sad how we can take Love so easily but are not so free to give it out to others.😢
Thank you, Pastor R C Blakes - I just walked away from an 8 year relationship. 🙏🏾
I trusted him and he sold everything we've worked for. 22yrs and he's still making mistakes that make me question what he's in my life for.
Yep I know that feeling 😒 when u start feeling like they are more of a liability than an asset it's like why are u in my life 😒 😢 2 is supposed to be better than 1, but that's not always the case!
My mom told me “you can’t make a man love you.” It’s my mantra today. I refuse to settle!
“I didn’t mean it that way. I apologize if it made you feel like that. I’ll never do that gain.”
Great Birthday message for me. Thank God for 🎉 my birthday blessing of another year and a great word!!!! Can’t wait
Happy Purpose Day!! Mine is on Wednesday.
🎉 Happy Birthday, my birthday blessing today also. Have an abundant year!
Happy birthday!! 🥳
@@chatfrancois32 Thanks soo much Queen!!!
Thanks for THIS. I was married for a minute, and when you start to question someone else, love, it's time to go. I continue to love myself, and I am sticking close God.
I need these videos like every day. Your really a father figure that speaks truth! Much love pastor
Thank you for being the virtual Dad I needed!
7) "TheY don'T ShoW Consistent~ Effective~Love AnD Care"📌
Wow last night I sent the James 1:19-20 to a friend of mine that was contemplating on how to react to a specific situation. Just to hear that it also aligns with the topic of tonight’s episode is amazing. God used me last night 🙏🏾🙏🏾
His idea of love is control. I pray to GOD for continued strength to walk away. Love is not mean and impatient.
And the father wound is real as a woman now abandoned by my real father he left us at 2 yrs old never knew him. My mom was beautiful soul she raised us up. NOW anytime I come across abusive, men I try to heal fix love the man it never works they end up not hearing me or loving me for marriage. I am not dating anymore just loving God he is dependable never changes and loves my soul unconditionally ❤
THANK you Bishop Blakes and Lady Lisa
Omg - thank you Jesus for RC Blake’s / this was total confirmation : HE NEVER CARED ENOUGH TO REPAIR US - he chose to walk with snd in the evil darkness 💔
1) "They Don'T Really HeaR YoU'"📌
Thank you dear RC for turning me into a trully Queen Conacious woman!
Hard to believe, at the beginning I had to listen to your messages for hours a day as those information were not sitting well with me back then. I didnt know I am worthy and it felt untrue.
Now I am so much different. i have done my healing ans all is good now.
Ladies, listen to RC 🌹🌹🌹
So grateful for his teachings, listening to RCs videos have been a God sent. God bless you ❤
I know this song word from word now from listening to your teachings & I sing it with so much passion & empowerment. Thank you🙏🏽
These teachings are so appreciated. God Bless you and Lisa. Your time and teachings are profound and provide so much truth ❤❤❤
All of these points (excluding sexual affection) apply to parents and their grown children. I wish my parents would hear this. Thank you for your insight, Bishop Blake!
Wow can’t wait to hear this ❤
Thank you for your words and knowledge ❤
Thanks for sharing! This was helpful and enlightening.
Such a valuable message, thank you 🙏🏻
2) "TheY Don'T LearN YoU"📌
This was so good! Thank you, Brother Blakes!
Be Blessed 🙌
Beautiful message! Thank you, R.C! Bless you! 💯🙏❤️
I’m sooooo soooo thankful for you & Lisa! Thank you 🙏
Thank goodness for you and Lisa. It’s the biblical education surrounding relationships for e🙌🏾💕
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.❤
Bishop Thanks For This Message Appreciate it I feel exactly what you're explaining truthful
Thank you for the prayer at the end Bishop. 😢🙏🏾
Thank you for this videos.. you are helping a lot of people. God Bless
This was so very good and helpful. Thank you🙏🏾👏🙌🔥
I came across this just now and I love it. THANK YOU.
This is a perfect pre marriage counseling...
Let me say that .. this teaching is a prompting of the Holy Spirit.. although pastor talking about romantic relationships the lord revealed to me things with my relationship with my parents that I need to recognize..
thank you Jesus for pastor Blake’s and his honesty… help us lord help our spiritual ears hear you Lord
Absolutely!
Love is a Beautiful Thing ❤❤
This message is definitely for me. Thank you!
I needed to hear this myself!!!!
Thank you Pastor for your teachings. May God continue blessing you. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Amen you are preaching the truth
Beautiful message Mr. Blakes
Thank you, Bishop and First Lady Lisa! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is an excellent teaching. Thank you so much.
Thanks for sharing very good message much needed God bless
Blessings, Brother!
Ty for that information pastor Blake's 🙏 🙏
Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr! I enjoyed your message today!😊
This is really good. When we love people we are willing to change frfr. We are willing to grow.
Thank you for your transparency.
Thank you Mr Blakes. This lesson is so clear and beautifully explained. ❤ 🙏
So blessed to be here tonight. God bless you and Lady Lisa! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
So excited for this message!
This man is a true Light worker such a good word of wisdom God bless this man and his empire that is doing Kingdom work.
Many Blessings💜
Thank you so much for your ministry. It is empowering me to get the hierarchy right.
I love you and first Lady Bishop Blakes very much, thank you so much for your ministry and helping me grow
This is such a great and much needed conversation Bishop RC! Thank You So Much! God bless You and Lady Lisa 🙏🏾♥️
Fantastic! 💯
So, you say EVERYBODY deserves and NEEDS to be heard. But I have a quandary regarding that belief (which, btw, I do share!). Just yesterday I was calmly explaining to my man that I didn't feel heard. And I thought I was handling this conversation very diplomatic, you know? Reminding him no one is to blame. We are both adult children of toxic parents and we are SAFE to learn and grow in OUR relationship with EACH OTHER. I reminded him that we will make mistakes or repeat learned behaviors along our path, and that's "okay" too...not okay okay, but okay in the sense that we can learn and grow from it. As im saying all this he is staring STRAIGHT AHEAD like an angry statue?! I'm like "Babe?!" And he goes "What?!" So I repeat most of all that. Especially the I DONT FEEL HEARD part because HELLO?! He appears to be not hearing me! And he turns to me and says "Why would I hear you when you don't hear me huh?" So I felt hopeful like this is a start....we can heal From this! So I said "OK! Thsnk you for sharing how you feel babe! Yes! Tell me more! In what ways am I not listening? Or how can I listen better?" And he goes "See right there! That BS! You won't 5hut up! You always talking! How can you hear if you talk!" So that was frustrating because like WHAT am I supposed to HEAR??? So I was like "im not trying to defy your wishes babe. I want to honor and respect your wishes-" He rolled his eyes and said "yeah but you DON'T LISTEN! You gon talk huh?!" I finished "-but I am so confused...you aren't really giving me good clarification here or direction. What do you WANT me to hear specifically? I want to hear you so bad. I want to know everything there is to know about you so I can support you best and-" 😒He just gives me this sour look and interrupts and says "You never LISTEN!!! LISTEN!" Then he starts talking about wives submitting to their husband's in the Bible...and how I yap yap yap and that's why he is so withdrawn because I'm not THAT Godly in his eyes if I can cherry pick which Biblical principles to apply to my life and behavior! It was hurtful, I won't lie. It shut me up, and it shut me down
I cried all day yesterday! When I woke up yesterday I said it's gonna be a great day...but he ruined it with his energy. I don't get it. Am I really the problem? Will things really improve if I simply STOP ✋️ talking in his presence? Is this how I can best show him that I HEAR him??? 😢
🙏🏻 PLEASE Bishop...Help me! Help me understand? Ty! God bless you 🙏🏻 ❤️
I've got someone exactly like this. We DO listen. We DO.. There the one's who want "FULL CONTROL " Over us. It's Not love at all. Oh they tell us they love us. But it's "CONDITIONAL ". Using Biblical scripture is exactly what l was told. Woman are too Submit..That means too them: SHUT UP AND JUST LISTEN TOO ME..... Stop talking so much... In the end your going too lose who you are. Your end up,Depressed and your Self Esteem will be gone. That's the end result. Do yourself a favour....Stop it... Say whatever you want,when you want. If he and you've told him your concerns and he keeps not listening....MOVE ON.. Get someone that, REALLY LOVES YOU AND RESPECTS YOU. Cause what you have now is: CONTROL AND DISRESPECT....That's it... Control is NOT LOVE....❤
PS: You know your listening. Don't have ANYONE tell you your not when you KNOW you are...Ever....
@privacy9175 ty soooo much for responding to me. For saying the uplifting things you said. And I hope you understand that if you truly believe these things apply to me, and you are in the same boat, then they apply to you as well? You matter. Please 🙏🏻 pray on it. Let God lead you to your best life. Because this can't be it. Feeling less than is no way to go through life. I hope you find your peace and your true soul mate! Bless you. And again, ty for taking time to respond to me. God's love be with you! 💝
Thank you so much Pastor
Thank you for the Father love you show I miss in my life ❤️🔥
Bishop, thank you for sharing all the wonderful wisdom with us. I pray God's continued blessings upon you and Lisa and your ministry!💜🙏🏽😊