WHAT DOES THE LOVE OF A REAL MAN LOOK LIKE by RC Blakes

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    WHAT DOES THE LOVE OF A REAL MAN LOOK LIKE by RC Blakes
    In this CZcams video, RC Blakes discusses what a real man's love looks like and how it can benefit both men and women. He focuses on the importance of understanding and recognizing authentic love in order to avoid falling for counterfeit versions. Blakes emphasizes the need for women to know the qualities and behaviors of a loving man and the impact their responses to that love can have. He mentions that dysfunctional love patterns can be learned from past examples or the absence of positive role models, leading to the breaking of relationships. Blakes stresses the responsibility of men to love, protect, and defend womanhood, acknowledging past mistreatment of women and the need to rectify it. He covers several aspects of genuine love, including pursuit and devotion, affirmation and appreciation, sacrifice, respect and honor, emotional intimacy and companionship, and protection. Blakes also addresses how women can unintentionally sabotage a man's love by not recognizing or responding properly to it. He concludes by encouraging therapy and personal growth to heal from past experiences and better understand healthy relationships.
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Komentáře • 886

  • @noorjahanbegum5687
    @noorjahanbegum5687 Před 6 měsíci +1203

    I am a Muslim woman from the UK. I grew up with a very angry and violent father, then lived with a narcissistic husband for decades. following my divorce I am finding peace and perspective. Thank you for guiding me and my friends. we just never got this type of sage affirmation, guidance and support.

    • @TheDivergirl1
      @TheDivergirl1 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Salam habibti

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 6 měsíci +78

      Thank you for saying this 🙏🏽😊♥️

    • @nicoletucker4552
      @nicoletucker4552 Před 6 měsíci +40

      My prayers for your healing and you are supported here! I’m so glad I came I cross this platform sober a year ago and Pastor Blake and Lisa are a GODSEND! ❤ Much love to you dear!

    • @raechellnichole9472
      @raechellnichole9472 Před 6 měsíci +50

      I pray one day that a good godly man finds me.

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@raechellnichole9472He will sis. Just continue to work on you, love on you, honor you, grow closer to God and there he'll be... believe it. 🩷🙏🏾

  • @TheAmazinBlazian
    @TheAmazinBlazian Před 6 měsíci +1187

    When a man loves you he:
    1. Pursues and is devoted to you
    2. Affirms, appreciates, and cherishes you
    3. Sacrifices for you
    4. Treats you with respect, honor, and as an equal partner
    5. Wants to spend time with you outside of the bed (emotional intimacy/companionship)
    6. Grows with you
    7. Is very protective (not controlling)

  • @FrankiesXpress
    @FrankiesXpress Před 6 měsíci +535

    Hearing this made me realize in all my 44 years, I haven’t experienced real love from a man. This is sad but I thank God for Pastor RC Blake’s teachings. ❤

    • @diana5253
      @diana5253 Před 6 měsíci +31

      Same, I'm 39 and my father is a narcissist. He never poured into me growing up so I easily fell for my narcissistic ex. 6yrs out and God & Pastor Blakes are pouring into me.

    • @kw3036
      @kw3036 Před 6 měsíci +15

      EXACTLY, its mind blowing! I was with a man for 20 years, married for 7 and thought it was love! I know for a fact it was NEVER love, he was a narcissist and my father is toxic 😢

    • @tiasimmons6594
      @tiasimmons6594 Před 6 měsíci +25

      Don't feel bad hon...I'm 52 and haven't felt the real deal ever. This podcast is what I needed to invest time in. Great topic and insight Pastor. Thank you so much.

    • @SimplySheryl
      @SimplySheryl Před 6 měsíci +8

      your not alone 😩😭

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 Před 6 měsíci +27

      Ladies please show yourself some grace...I was in an abusive marriage for 10 years...since I filed for a divorce in 2019..I have been single, healing and praying more than before... I blamed myself so much it took me some time to even talk to a man...due to trauma..I love myself now and put God before everything I do...ladies surround yourself with people who love you and be gentle with yourself 🙏🏾

  • @brittneyhall5378
    @brittneyhall5378 Před 6 měsíci +370

    I’ve been listening to you for at least 4 years…got married 2 years ago. A lot of what you taught got me ready to be in the mindset of a wife. I love your videos and they bring me to tears because I do have an amazing and supportive husband. Thank you for sharing your message, I don’t know where I’d be today without it!❤

    • @JustAGalAndHerDog
      @JustAGalAndHerDog Před 6 měsíci +5

      Beautiful testimony

    • @beautiful_wonderfullymade
      @beautiful_wonderfullymade Před 6 měsíci +14

      I hope I find a loving and supporting husband as well. I’m tired of the kind of men I’ve been entertaining. I worry that I won’t find a good man because I gave my ex a baby 15 months ago. I don’t regret my daughter however. I just hope I find a good man that will love the both of us and that will be a good step dad to a little girl.

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Excellent for you! Much Blessings as you both grow together. Love that your mindset changed - bravo!!!

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@beautiful_wonderfullymadeu must believe you deserve having a great man... without focusing on your past mistakes...u have to heal from your past... remember who is for us is praying for us as well...

    • @patriciajones134
      @patriciajones134 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Wow this is awesome, evert woman and man need to hear this. I've learned so much. Stuff I never heard. Didn't have a father growing up, so I didn't know how I should have been treated, I've been through a lot, been married twice, and both failed, and now I'm waiting on God to send me who he have for me.who will love me and respect me. Thank you so much. Keep allowing God to use you.

  • @portiachang1644
    @portiachang1644 Před 6 měsíci +146

    When a man loves you, he sacrifices for you

  • @kristiemelendez7188
    @kristiemelendez7188 Před měsícem +19

    I agree with this entire video. I was fortunate to have an amazing father who loved my mother until his last breathe. Although my mom worked, he took care of her. He was her peace. They never had issues. He never cheated, disrespected her or swore at her. My mom took good care of my dad and submitted to him. They both valued each other and were a blessing to each other. Neither one lacked bc of the other. Even being both sick as they got older, sacrificed for each other. It’s very difficult for me to settle with any man bc of witnessing the example I had as a father. And it is also very disappointing to me witnessing what I see in men today.

  • @meditationwithatwist6685
    @meditationwithatwist6685 Před 6 měsíci +252

    Wow wow.. "A husband is a man that fulfills all the responsibilities of a good Father" Took me to my knees....I have just that, couldn't put it in those words.

    • @andreawinton6797
      @andreawinton6797 Před 6 měsíci +6

      MIC DROP RIGHT THATS IT THATS IT HOME RUN TO HIM ❤❤❤AND YOU STAY BLESSED😊HOPE YOUR 2024 IS AMAZING

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney Před 6 měsíci +12

      All the other cultures know this already. We hard headed bad

    • @DiamondRubyJewel
      @DiamondRubyJewel Před 4 měsíci +1

      *THANK YOU SIR. THANK YOU*

  • @GracefullyMe82
    @GracefullyMe82 Před 6 měsíci +138

    “A man that really loves you, will grow with you” -Bishop RC blakes 🙏🏼🙂

  • @BecomingaQueen
    @BecomingaQueen Před 6 měsíci +245

    So happy to be a part of this Queen conscious community ❤ thank you RC Blakes for making a Queen out of me 👑 I did find my crown and I wont never loose it again

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 6 měsíci +23

      Thank you for your very kind words

    • @gladysmuthara1904
      @gladysmuthara1904 Před 6 měsíci +18

      Well said! I wish he would know just how many broken souls like myself he has helped fix, and how many crowns have been recovered as a result. This is the best thing that ever happened to me this year. I was feeling so broken and lost after my marriage broke up and I even lost my company and job as a result. But God found me in time and led me to this Channel. Eternal blessings to you and your generations, Bishop RC!

    • @dorothyjones6220
      @dorothyjones6220 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Pp

    • @ChiamakaAnih
      @ChiamakaAnih Před 6 měsíci +3

      Your testimony is mine as well. God bless you bishop

  • @user-jq1kg7yl1k
    @user-jq1kg7yl1k Před 6 měsíci +161

    This morning I was just remembering so many actions that were hurtful -- nothing physical, but no support. No protection. No covering. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your obedience to the Lord.

    • @LivingHabs
      @LivingHabs Před 6 měsíci +7

      That's exactly what I got in my marriage that lead to divorce.

    • @Lovelifebeautiful1143
      @Lovelifebeautiful1143 Před 6 měsíci +3

      I’m single and celibate but I’m not used to being covered even when I was in a relationship so I ended it and put him out. End of story.. 😐

    • @alishadennis7769
      @alishadennis7769 Před 5 měsíci +2

      The good part is the self love 💕😘 & respect we ladies are being taught & now know what a quality man looks like with his actions, and vwhat a qualifier man 👞 💪 🌹 😁 to date sounds like with his words to protect, care for, honor, respect & adore 💕 us & not settle for less & his color & cuiture can be different from ours but loving, kind fun, protection 💟🎉.

  • @ChatswithLashay
    @ChatswithLashay Před 6 měsíci +125

    Here’s what I learned: Pursuit + Devotion, Affirmation + Appreciation, Sacrifice, Respect + Honor (values as equal partner), Emotional Intimacy + Companionship (time outside of bed), Grows with you: Equally Yolked(mutual evolution), and finally Protective(not toxic masculine manipulation) I loved this video and this will help me make a very important decision.

  • @wallyshomestead9034
    @wallyshomestead9034 Před 6 měsíci +42

    I never experience love of my father, no affection, no attention, no conversation, no protection. I attract men who ignore me and won't show love or affection. If they do, it doesn't continue or is short lived. Its hard to find or even accept love that feels uncomfortable when you want it so desperately but are always in fear of losing it.

    • @EyebrowQueen
      @EyebrowQueen Před 5 měsíci +3

      Would you know what love is when you run into it now? Learn what it is so that you will be able to recognize it and learn to leave as soon as you know its not there, leave respectfully. Give more love to people around you and you will get more love attracted you❤

  • @Carliakua
    @Carliakua Před 3 měsíci +12

    As a 35 year old I never experienced a love from a man I just realized I only been used as a sex object never had a Father. But watching Mr.Blake I can feel the love and teaching thru the screen You are my thru Christ my father figure.

    • @reshmiesharma6692
      @reshmiesharma6692 Před měsícem

      Ditto! I never had a father and men including the partner I m with have just used me as an object . I have never experienced intimacy or emotional connect with anyone . Sad!!

  • @corinneviens5546
    @corinneviens5546 Před 5 měsíci +29

    I was married 41 years and he never loved me. These teachings are strengthening the insecurities he instilled in me. He passed away 3 yrs ago.

  • @theSamandtheMoon
    @theSamandtheMoon Před 6 měsíci +13

    Date to marry the father you wanted, not the father you had.

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před 6 měsíci +119

    PLEASE SHARE THIS AND LIKE FAMILY. God Bless ❤

    • @embassysweets8607
      @embassysweets8607 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I have no idea and I give up. Bless you for trying to help people.

    • @lakendraadams1077
      @lakendraadams1077 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I been turning in to your platform since 2019. I’m single my father died very young he wasn’t there for me. I was abused by my mother ex husband. My uncle’s are not a good example either. I have no real father figure but you. Thank you for your help !

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@lakendraadams1077 That is such an honor for me. 🙏🏽♥️

    • @lakendraadams1077
      @lakendraadams1077 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I also realize I have a broken heart 💔 and a broken consciousness

  • @mom2suns857
    @mom2suns857 Před 6 měsíci +70

    This video comes at a time when I’ve been questioning my worth as a woman bc I’ve never been poured into by a good man. It’s a struggle to not be depressed but God’s grace is bountiful and we are blessed to have your ministry, thank you pastor ❤

  • @lorettadavis2195
    @lorettadavis2195 Před 6 měsíci +31

    This sounds like my girlfriend relationship with her husband. She said that she didn't love her husband at first, but the way he treated her she felled in loved with him. She said that he was good for her by doing things for her. She said that when they start having children they came to an agreement that they children would come first and now they had been married over 40 years. I was there to witness up and downs but they made it through the hard times. She said that she fears no woman and that sounds like true love under a solid rock.❤❤️❤️

  • @shelleyanne77
    @shelleyanne77 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I wish I heard this 20 years ago...I'm 46 now. BUT-at the same time, I know that I wouldn't have been READY to hear this advice- out of stubbornness and naivety. Some people just learn better from their own mistakes.

  • @amstarr7337
    @amstarr7337 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Hearing this made me realize that my dad didnt love my mother like he should have. I developed my own idea of love.

  • @Kpleaides
    @Kpleaides Před 6 měsíci +17

    A husband should be like a father with intimacy.......TRUE
    Love of a real man =
    Pursuit and devotion

  • @juanadrianrobaina5763
    @juanadrianrobaina5763 Před 6 měsíci +71

    I was with a really good man who never lied to me,never betrayed me and was always there for me but because I came from a broken home with a highly narcissistic father I thought I did not deserve such love and left the only man who ever loved me...and life showed me that true ,authentic love is rare and hard to find and I ended up in an abusive relationship with a man who lied to me and betrayed me ...something I was used to as a little girl...I know that I have to heal first from my childhood trauma before I can ever get back into a relationship with a good man😊

    • @JoannA-sweetly
      @JoannA-sweetly Před 6 měsíci +7

      God spared me, so many of us find ourselves in abusive, narcissistic relationships. Heal, keep it moving, reject regret!

    • @MrsK976
      @MrsK976 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I did the same. Left one who really loved me and married a narcissist not understanding it all for 16 years…..

    • @eaglespreston8056
      @eaglespreston8056 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Too many black fathers don't realize the damage they create in the lives of their children, especially their girls. Having a supportive and wise father is one of the best blessings that I have ever experienced. He is next to God and the Holy Spirit! Amen!

    • @Orionglow
      @Orionglow Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@eaglespreston8056🧡 Thank you for reminding us of our high+spiritual Father.
      When our human father hasn't been able to be a loving, comprehensive father:
      THERE ARE STILL OTHER GOOD MASCULINE FIGURES THAT CAN EXEMPLIFY THE LOVE+COMPREHENSION...
      BUT THE FULL SOURCE IS.... DIVINE.

    • @eaglespreston8056
      @eaglespreston8056 Před 6 měsíci

      Too many black males have become the oppressor. Narcissism like oppression are forms of control. Study those males and seriously protect yourself from them. Finally, avoid them at all cost. They mission is to steal, kill, and destroy. Shalom!

  • @spiritualqueen3423
    @spiritualqueen3423 Před 6 měsíci +62

    I’m tired of playing these games, I just want to be loved and cherished like the Queen that I am 👑🩷❤️

    • @mspj6008
      @mspj6008 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Then you must love yourself 1st. Then once you have achieved that Then what you think you are looking for is not what you WANT or NEED.. TRY IT. once you love yourself the GAMES WILL STOP. because you will not subject yourself to GAMES from ANYONE.

    • @spiritualqueen3423
      @spiritualqueen3423 Před 6 měsíci

      @@mspj6008Thank you I am doing some soul searching and discovering myself again to pick and choose who fits right with me.

    • @cynthiareynolds1941
      @cynthiareynolds1941 Před 6 měsíci +6

      God will send the man that you deserve in due season

    • @Iamgorgeousbri.
      @Iamgorgeousbri. Před 2 měsíci +1

      Don’t play them the Queen! You are far more worth the bs and there are no rules to love other than what you make it! Forgive yourself for the past and start to congratulate yourself for the future! ❤

    • @joyessien5803
      @joyessien5803 Před měsícem

      That is all we need really

  • @cheekytitaable
    @cheekytitaable Před 5 měsíci +4

    I was married to a so called “Alpha “ male. 20 years! Nothing but loneliness. Sage words he’s speaking !

  • @nakitarobinson274
    @nakitarobinson274 Před 6 měsíci +20

    It all starts from the kind of love the man got from his mother, father, or whomever raised them.😮

    • @tashaequeen8935
      @tashaequeen8935 Před 5 měsíci

      You are Absolutely right me and a close friend was just talking about this. It started at home. It's who we were birth from both parents and how we were raised and the environment and what we saw in the house hold. And how much love we was shown or how much toxicity was shown. Now that we are adults it still hurts. I can't believe how many of us experienced these types of parents not loving or being there for their children properly I thought I was alone. Smh

  • @FavorsMeChelC
    @FavorsMeChelC Před 6 měsíci +44

    Can we get Part II to this? A convo is needed for the men whose father wasn’t good and only witnessed their moms in an unfaithful and abusive marriage. And for the women who are healthy, healed, and not broken.

  • @carmelariley9491
    @carmelariley9491 Před 6 měsíci +56

    A lot of us never had Good Father Role models in our lives, and because of that..... I had bad relationships 😞😢looking for love in wrong places......Thank You Sir ✊🏽continue to allow GOD THE FATHER to SPEAK THROUGH YOU TO HIS DAUGHTERS! 👑 👑 👑

  • @kristinalabella1177
    @kristinalabella1177 Před 6 měsíci +70

    This is the message I needed. My husband and I are divorcing and although I am beginning to find acceptance in it, I find I slip into the feelings of rejection and being discarded. We have the most beautiful family so it saddens me to think we weren't enough in his eyes. This message gives me hope and helps me to have vision for something real and authentic.

    • @krystalgardiner5591
      @krystalgardiner5591 Před 6 měsíci +11

      I feel the same way, not feeling good enough keeps me with him to “try harder” we have a history of him actually telling me I ain’t enough for him and him threatening me with other women, during a high risk pregnancy etc. I need to leave so bad. I been a SAHM for 10 years now, I have nothing and my kids are homeschooled. I don’t even know where to start to dig myself out. I’m so desperate at this point.

    • @susansmith4003
      @susansmith4003 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Hey, you have everything, a unique you and a beautiful family, God Almighty made you to be strong, when you feel weak, carry on, God is at the steering wheel ……

    • @kristinalabella1177
      @kristinalabella1177 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@susansmith4003 Thank you for the encouragement! 🙏🏼

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 Před 6 měsíci

      @@krystalgardiner5591my prayers for you and your family. You are enough! God sees and will walk with you through it all.

    • @mercymfula9728
      @mercymfula9728 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Hey sis. Join Jenny Weaver's core group.We just completed a 3vday fast for our husbands. God is doing amazing things.

  • @Kpleaides
    @Kpleaides Před 6 měsíci +14

    A dog will pursue you.
    The man that loves you is devoted and Pursuits.
    Unwavering devotion
    Affirmation
    Appreciation
    Tell you your beautiful

    • @JacquelineMatthews-es3vf
      @JacquelineMatthews-es3vf Před 3 měsíci +2

      A man of God loves God, knows who he is, where a man finds a wife, he finds a good women, and can loves and appreciates his Queen ❤

    • @LinetNyanchera-hg9pf
      @LinetNyanchera-hg9pf Před 2 měsíci

      True A dog will pursue you,the man that loves you is devoted and pursuits,unwavering devotion

  • @Luvand4GiveOthers
    @Luvand4GiveOthers Před 6 měsíci +7

    A dog will pursue u! Wow, what a life-opening metaphor😮❤

  • @patriciabarclay8521
    @patriciabarclay8521 Před 6 měsíci +32

    The man that loves has a deep pursuit and devotion what a man !!!

  • @danawilliams8705
    @danawilliams8705 Před 6 měsíci +28

    Awesome message ❤.
    A few concerns or points needed.
    1. A message to men on what the love of a good woman looks like.
    2. A message to men and women on it's never too late to transform their mindsets to a healthier mindset to be with the one God called for them to be with.

  • @eagleeyes2121
    @eagleeyes2121 Před 6 měsíci +65

    I'm greatful for the teaching. Not everyone has someone to guide them the right way. I'm thankful for my spiritual father🖤👑

  • @pamelarobinson6087
    @pamelarobinson6087 Před 6 měsíci +15

    My father died when I was 7😭 and I wish that I had these type of talks with him ,and that age of 52 it’s hard for me to recognize true love I wish that I had someone like you to talk to me and teach me the right way this video today is nothing but the truth thank you so much♥️😭

  • @StrawberryLeo1
    @StrawberryLeo1 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Thanks for pouring into a woman's heart. Many women need that and prefer a male opinion. Especially a man of God. I appreciate your word ❤

  • @cfleagle1
    @cfleagle1 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Smart men listen to you.

  • @withlove.renita
    @withlove.renita Před 6 měsíci +12

    Yess I’m loving the new intro. I found you 2 years ago after my 5 year break up, I just want to say I will never waste any more of my time nor will I ever settle for anything I do not deserve. Thank you so much for helping me stand on the queen in me. I love you

  • @queencrissy5980
    @queencrissy5980 Před 6 měsíci +32

    I love this because it’s through these teaching and counseling that I was able to see the amazing man that god allowed to walk into my life. I was not looking for it at all. But through listening to these teaching I was able to change my ways. And adopt new ideas that allowed me to let this man love me. Because I knew from day one he would not force himself to love me but that it should and would happen naturally. I let go and have been enjoying the ride ever since.

  • @SuzyLemke
    @SuzyLemke Před 5 měsíci +5

    Thank you so much for this video above. It was Excellent!!! I am 58 years old now, never married, and still looking for a loving man to one day marry. I have watched many red pill community videos lately to see what the men are watching and its been disheartening to say the least so I drank in your wise words like someone drinking their first glass of water after 10 days in the desert. God Bless you for giving your guidance to the women!!! I wish more men would follow you rather than these red pill community leaders out there spreading their ugliness and disrespect towards women.

  • @VivaLaJudy
    @VivaLaJudy Před 6 měsíci +7

    Yes; no counterfeits! 🎉🎉

  • @trinawilliams3459
    @trinawilliams3459 Před 6 měsíci +20

    Getting off work get situated and tuned in for my lesson tonight praise GOD AMEN 🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Před 6 měsíci +17

    I haven't experience what true love is being raised by a narcissistic father and toxic mother caused me to get into relationships I had no business being involved in I thank God I found pastor Bishop Blake's channel years ago ,last year I went on Amazon and purchased two of his books plan on buying more always praying for Bishop and First Lady their ministry 😊🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @edithhughes5256
    @edithhughes5256 Před 6 měsíci +8

    That is truly the problem with a woman's inability to recognize the true authentic love of a real man. We must be taught what it looks like.

  • @pattaylor8757
    @pattaylor8757 Před 6 měsíci +20

    I attended that conference in Detroit. I was so blessed. Thank you so much.

  • @user-fz7ck3ud4z
    @user-fz7ck3ud4z Před 6 měsíci +13

    So happy for this teaching. My father was physically present but emotionally absent .

  • @jussjess2829
    @jussjess2829 Před 6 měsíci +21

    I am always so impressed by RC.. his messages and his spirit is so refreshing. I look forward to everything he does 😊. We love you pastor

  • @sistabrowneyes1213
    @sistabrowneyes1213 Před 6 měsíci +9

    As soon as this is over, I’ll be watching what I missed plus what I already saw. This was very important for me to see. Thank you for this. I really appreciate it.

  • @ThrivingWithGaylaDGaia
    @ThrivingWithGaylaDGaia Před 6 měsíci +7

    ❤ I'm realizing that there are adult men in my life who have watched me deeply struggling to keep a foundation and watched me being continually threatened and mistreated in all kinds of living situations and have been ineffective in securing any type of long term support, supportive education on buying a home, e.t.c. I have realized listening to this that this is dysfunctional male character and I truly need transformation! Spiritual cleansing, therapy maybe, and to stop turning to the male family members who have been listening but not stepping up to really help me with this foundation building. This was really helpful and revealing. Why are so many men falling short on really protecting and providing and helping the women in their lives become more secure? My brother is providing me a place to stay and I am grateful and I need to make a significant transformation in my entire life and mindset and spirit.

  • @cynthiareynolds1941
    @cynthiareynolds1941 Před 6 měsíci +9

    You are so right! My boyfriend is totally different from what I am use to. He has pursued. Me from day one. He is very understanding. And now he is talking about marriage 😊

  • @teew1895
    @teew1895 Před 6 měsíci +36

    Thank you Bishop for speaking on this because I was missing seeing my father love my mother properly. He was an excellent provider and protector, however he was cold and hard. Later in life, I realized he and my mother did an excellent job! My mother was raised by her grandmother until 7; when her mother came to get her. From 7 my mom took care of 3 children, all under 2; by herself, 24 hours a day. She wasn't allowed to go to school and was beaten regularly for the smallest infractions. Her only escape was marrying my father when she was 15 and he was 25. My father had been living with his single mother; he raised his siblings; putting 2 in college. He had no example from his father about loving your wife and kids . I don't have time to get into what my grandparents' deal was. Throughout it all, they stayed together and raised their children. So my take away is, each generation should learn better and do better. I learned loyalty and a love that didn't have to be spoken, but it was seen and felt. We all should grow in love because love never ends........

  • @yolandabrown6905
    @yolandabrown6905 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I am grateful for your fathering heart. Blessings Bishop RC Blake.❤❤

  • @irinanikole3181
    @irinanikole3181 Před 6 měsíci +36

    Pastor your have no idea how this message was needed exactly tonight in my life. This is a divine word. It amazed me how in tune you are with the Father. Keep your ministry and keep close to Father.

  • @SimpleFamily828
    @SimpleFamily828 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I’ve made mistakes , I rest with that accountability . I am going forward with different boundaries but I don’t want them back 😒 … I learned 😊

  • @pattreac3429
    @pattreac3429 Před 6 měsíci +36

    I am so grateful for Dr RC Blake's. I stumbled on his video about narcissistic behaviors and from then I just love him. He has so much wisdom. I wish I knew him years ago. He opened my eyes and helped me define the marriage I'm in. Thank you Sir. May God continue to pour into you and that you continue to have the wisdom like Solomon. 🙏

  • @bridgettehollie1499
    @bridgettehollie1499 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I feel u are speaking to the old me! My fam & environment was very UNGODLY. My earthly father was a preacher! He & momma weren't dependable. I found it hard to trust GOD for decades because I saw no one I could trust on earth! Thank Bishop for this beautiful message! I'm married to a good man, but I let him know my 1st love is JESUS!!!

  • @AskEsh
    @AskEsh Před 6 měsíci +11

    You are needed more than ever for our community 😌

  • @deborahfranklin9370
    @deborahfranklin9370 Před 6 měsíci +4

    👋 just hopped in from Ohio. Love you RC Blakes & Lady Lisa ❤

  • @SunshineSpring-ye2wl
    @SunshineSpring-ye2wl Před 6 měsíci +5

    R.C you have truly been anointed. . Thank you for helping so many...

  • @Jessie-rz8zk
    @Jessie-rz8zk Před 6 měsíci +8

    Thank you so much. Now I'll know when a man is really seriously in love with me. I've had a few good pretenders that started out doing some of things you mentioned but they can only pretend for so long and then things start getting ugly I thought I was responsible and was causing men to fall out of love with me.

  • @Africangyal
    @Africangyal Před 6 měsíci +7

    Your talks are REALLY helping me 🙏🏾 Thankyou RC Blakes Jr

  • @alisasutton74
    @alisasutton74 Před 6 měsíci +29

    Thank you RC for helping me understand the personality of a narcissist. You are also helping me truly see what the love of a man is supposed to be like and should be. All my life I have lived in abuse (as a child seeing my Dad abuse my Mom), and my Dad never showed my sisters and I love like I see the father daughter relationship in some of my friends. I’ve always wanted a true loving relationship from my Dad. My Dad beat on my Mom in front of me and my sisters. We also knew about all his adulterous relationships. But I just wanted to say that you are helping me with so many messed up feelings and relationships with my Dad, etc.

  • @dulcecaramel972
    @dulcecaramel972 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am finally experiencing this kind of love after being in survival mode for 30 years of my life, let me tell you how hard it is to surrender and not being paranoid about all those attentions my man give me. He told me he just want me to be happy, and he prays for me in addition to being my support and comfort ❤ I love him so much but I’m afraid to lose him because I’ve never been used to this kind of safe love. Our meeting was so unpredictable and we learn to know each other each and every day at a distance. The long distance relationship is hard but definitely worth it when you encounter such a pure hearted person ❤ I thank God everyday for putting this man in my life at a point I needed this kind of energy ✨

  • @generationk2095
    @generationk2095 Před 6 měsíci +23

    Pastor Blake’s is a blessing that generations of women need❤

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes indeed he is!! I am continually learning a lot! What a treat to have a man of God teaching women and dropping pearls of Wisdom in our Spirit. God is continuing to use him! Thank You Lord for pouring YOUR Wisdom and instructions into us🦁🐑🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿Amen!!!❤

  • @T_Nice
    @T_Nice Před 6 měsíci +3

    Mr. R.C. Blakes is my earthly Father!🙏🏽💝

  • @BelleMaria267
    @BelleMaria267 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Your knowledge is so valuable and deep. My mother is a difficult narcissist and kept me from my father after I was born. He didn’t fight or try to see me; was never around. I met him in my 20’s and the experience was horrible. His wife was rude and disrespectful to me and he did nothing about it. He wasn’t a person I could have looked up to. I was so angry for my mother taking away my decision to know him and decide for myself if I wanted him in my life. It has caused me much heartache and pain trying to find love and support from a good man, but God has used this for His and my good and I’m learning how to make smarter decisions; gaining wisdom and discernment.
    I just recently started watching you and I can honestly say that no one has ever been so direct and knowledgeable in this subject. You have blessed my life with so much promise and given me hope. You truly are a blessing from God and I’m so thankful for your teachings and understanding of women and their needs and struggles. God bless you, Pastor Blakes. ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @paulap9763
    @paulap9763 Před 6 měsíci +5

    What a great piece👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lanbabe100
    @lanbabe100 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Thank you for being a sound voice with meaning and intentions we never have to question, we are blessed to have you as a father

  • @gloriabarke4527
    @gloriabarke4527 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This is all Pure TRUTH

  • @eileenedwards5302
    @eileenedwards5302 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Your words have arrived at JUST the right time in my life, everything is nicely coming together! Had me smiling and laughing...thank you!❤

  • @genxx2724
    @genxx2724 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Men haven’t measured up to my father, my two stepfathers, and my uncles. Therefore I remain single.

  • @stefblanco3887
    @stefblanco3887 Před 6 měsíci +2

    We enjoyed you in Detroit! I’m still so overjoyed to finally have met my mentor! 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @user-nd4op2qw8d
    @user-nd4op2qw8d Před 6 měsíci +5

    I could tell you what love is not, all day long. I have yet to be able to define love for myself, let alone anyone else loving me!

  • @ministerwwoods
    @ministerwwoods Před 6 měsíci +5

    Watching the replay and this was awesome topic that I didn't know I needed. Bless you Bishop

  • @sabrinaj9529
    @sabrinaj9529 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you ao much Mr. BLAKE and LISA. Love the wisdom.

  • @BrieLani
    @BrieLani Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am very particular of who I let my ears listen to and eyes see but this title led me to select the video and the message was right on time . I literally have journaled and removed all toxic people including family ( which was the hardest to let go ) but because I knew it was necessary as I seek peace and my faith journey with God , thank you for this video. I love how God allows us to hear confirmation.

  • @kereentatham-brown2948
    @kereentatham-brown2948 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I greatly appreciate your videos Bishop... God bless you, Lisa and the family too!

  • @jesssands5349
    @jesssands5349 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you so much it has been about 2 years since I discovered your teachings and 2 years since I walked away from soul ties. From bread crumbs. And I am ok without it. I’ve concentrated on my career, family and earning more money. Time has gone by fast. Still no love offerings but I am ok with that. It just hurts to reaffirm what love is not. What love really is because like someone said before 44 + years in this world and still I haven’t experienced it❤

  • @patriciacampbell7296
    @patriciacampbell7296 Před 6 měsíci +19

    Thanks Pastor Blakes for another great teaching. I truly appreciate you and Lady Lisa dedication to helping women. ❤❤

  • @appliedknowledgeispower2024
    @appliedknowledgeispower2024 Před 6 měsíci +4

    This was amazing ❤❤❤ please do one about love of a Real Woman❤❤❤thanks ❤tuning in from NYC

  • @angelaspringfield5584
    @angelaspringfield5584 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Very good content. Men and women take their cue from the relationship examples they have observed. Most haven't seen a really healthy one on display unfortunately.

  • @Carmella92627
    @Carmella92627 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Beloved 🙏🏼First Lady Lisa & Bishop RC: You have enriched my🔥 Holy Spirit and my 🧠metacognition with your Biblical ✝relationship teachings... while navigating my life. It is "not" forgetting what I have learned from your ordained wisdom and making sure my mind is consciously aware & in control of my subconscious body, whereas, I am not in some low level hummmmmm . (Dang that flesh😖). With sincere gratitude for your "purposeful Jesus work"... Don't stop because I really love the way you school me! Respectfully USN VET cc

  • @sheiladavis2942
    @sheiladavis2942 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Looking forward to this message. I need it right now. Guidance and understanding as God leads me.

  • @rastafarian6253
    @rastafarian6253 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Wow just wow this touch so deep down into my heart ❤️ I have cried listening to you …. I never knew how I was supposed to be loved, I was raped by my father and all men that have come across my life had hurt me in so many ways and I was just being used and abused , Not having a father figure I didn’t figure out how broken I am, but still have faith and a lots of love,
    just met someone, now I know how I am supposed to be loved and if it’s not this way you talk about, I will walk away from this man ❤ thank you ❤I want to listen more from you

  • @darlenebernard4288
    @darlenebernard4288 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Awesome awesome awesome. Thank you Pastor. I love your love story about you and your wife. Both of you are blessed to have each other.

  • @tracymalone2855
    @tracymalone2855 Před 6 měsíci +2

    ❤ This was one of my top favorite videos by @RCBLAKES

  • @inspiredchange5573
    @inspiredchange5573 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Your words mean so much to us women who were not validated by our fathers

  • @lynisecassimere6935
    @lynisecassimere6935 Před 6 měsíci +4

    From: Beaumont Texas. Blessings to you Pastor and Lady Blake

  • @mariono244
    @mariono244 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Yes!!!

  • @lurdesmaldonado
    @lurdesmaldonado Před 6 měsíci +2

    You are awesome! My father taught me LOVE!!! 100 % he raised me at a young age when my mother left the home he build for her!! I just did not have a healthy, safe partner. Period!

  • @user-nd4op2qw8d
    @user-nd4op2qw8d Před 6 měsíci +4

    I learned a lot from this one. Thank you

  • @reeree-tareem
    @reeree-tareem Před 6 měsíci +4

    Once again a wonderful message ❤

  • @yolandaburt2136
    @yolandaburt2136 Před 6 měsíci +1

    ❤Thank u Mr. Blake And your Beautiful QUEEN by your side This QUEEN is keeping her Crown 👑 on no matter how many times it trys to fall off To GOD BE the GLORY 😊

  • @ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431
    @ajeedapoetreincarnatedquee1431 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much my spiritual father & thank you Queen Lisa for sharing him with us! Continued blessings to the both of you!❤️❤️❤️

  • @inspiredchange5573
    @inspiredchange5573 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Your words mean so much to us women who were not validated by our fathers.

  • @eaglespreston8056
    @eaglespreston8056 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Thank you for your ministry. Twenty-seven years ago, I married a male who is verbally abusive and very distant in every way. He has experienced multiple affairs outside of our marriage. He seems to know how to use women without knowing how to love a woman. I have questioned his sexuality. I have also advised him to get mental therapy. He said that I am crazy. I grew tired of his negativity, so I left him although we are legally married. Too many black males have a difficult time growing up. Please speak on this topic. Peace and blessings to you and your family.

  • @DonnamarieLilla-mr5sv
    @DonnamarieLilla-mr5sv Před 6 měsíci +5

    Come on now Bishop

  • @mpomwendaveronica7841
    @mpomwendaveronica7841 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I've never heard a preaching this good based on the Songs of Solomon......Thanks Bishop ❤

  • @gigioso241
    @gigioso241 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Thank you once again Pastor RC Blakes. You never fail on dropping gems after gems 💎 We appreciate you. ❤ God bless you and your family.

  • @Amy-ys2od
    @Amy-ys2od Před 6 měsíci +15

    This is soo deep and timely, i feel like the father i deserved is finally speaking truth to me..God bless you Bishop

  • @remofiloemonageng5494
    @remofiloemonageng5494 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Sir you have no idea how your messages are helping us as women! This video came at just the right time! My God!! I feel like I'm dreaming in a sense that, how can this message be so timely. Thank you thank you and may God continue to give you wisdom as you strive to help women at large. May God also bless your wife as you are a gift to us as well❤