WHAT ARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP CHOICES TELLING YOU ABOUT YOURSELF?
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
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WHAT ARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP CHOICES TELLING YOU ABOUT YOURSELF?
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God lead me to get out of a relationship, so I ended it this morning. I feel incredibly sad and keep crying but I’m putting my faith in him.
You will be okay. I know it’s hard😞
The end of a thing is greater than the beginning hold onto God.
I know it’s hard but you’ll get through it. Look in that mirror and say “I love you”. You’re worth it, you deserve so much more. ❤
He will lead you, if you will follow Him. You can't do it RIGHT on your own. It's His will for you, or yours.
Remember, 'choices' reveals who and what you are.
Please follow him and don't look back! I wish I never went back because I would of saved myself SO much heartache and pain. Praying for you ❤ 🫂
I have been single and celibate for almost 2 years and listening to you have help me so much. I have people around me who acts as if I am crazy for not pursuing a relationship with a man but honestly I am content with being alone right now
You go girl! Work on you!!
You got that right
Love having peace of mind now gets lonely but not desperate
I here you so am I amen!
Good for you, I'm having a hard time adjusting but I know God will be by my side!
Amen!
Birds of a feather flock together . Who you have in your life speaks volumes about you.
Bishop, I love that you hold no punches. We need ALL OF THIS. So happy God handpicked you to do his good work.
Where were you when I needed you. Magnificent.
"Middle of the bed" gets me EVERYTIME 😂
It deserves a T-shirt, for sure. 😅😂
@ChevronChick-717 for sure😂😂😂😂
The hidden messages of your relationship choices...what does it tell about you?
Psychoanalize yourself first...not who you're dating. Grow, spiritually and emotionally. Don't be a 'dog catcher' thinking you don't want a dog.
Choices says where you are between the ears. They (choices) are a 'mirror' of where you're going.
1) Your choices are a direct reflection of your intelligence. Prov 18:15, 13:20
2) Do you have self-love or not? Anything you love, you will protect; have the ability to separate from anything that does not serve you well or value you. Matt 5:29-30
3) You have low/high self-esteem. Who do you attract or reject? Gen 1:27 We are the likeness and image of God. We don't settle.
4) Your future vision will tell where you're going. Amos 3:3, Jeremiah 29:11
5) Are you emotionally mature or not? Self-awareness of your truth vs your partner's will tell your emotional maturity level. 1 Cor 13:11 You know a 'mind-gamer'
6) What's your dominant energy...feminine or masculine?? Gen 1:27-28
7) What is God's place in your life? Have you chosen him/her over God?
Very nutritional. Thank you, Bishop!
Thank you ❤
@@jan854
You're welcome!
Remember, 'choices' and your 'mirror' will reveal who and what you are.❤️
Thank you so much for posting the notes I appreciate you!
@@OrchidTingz
Your so very welcome!😊
Bishop fires straight from the hips and blows the smoke away.
The most impactful man I knew before I discovered you was Myles Munroe because of his multiplication effect; he taught Teachers who taught Teachers.
Bishop, I know for certain that YOU have exceeded him by far with your international impact on the internet in the last 10 years!👑🌟
With millions of views, across generations it is impossible to know EXACTLY how many lives you have changed, how many marriages you have saved, how many children you have rescued from tormented lives by Healing their parents. Just amazing! ❤
I am honoured to tell people I am one of your daughters.
God Bless you Bishop. May God grant you many more years and continue to expand your Territory across language and Cultural barriers.
Africa loves you!!❤❤❤
I have NEVER read a more humbling compliment. This gives me energy.♥️😊🙏🏽
Don’t settle for valley dwellers choose the one who can climb the mountain !!!!
I hit the “like button “ even before the message started. RC ALWAYS brings the gems 💎. Let’s goooo
This is going to be so good! The men I have dated and married in my pass have been horrible. To be honest I'm so scared to date again because of the many bad choices in men I have chosen. So, I really can't wait to see what pastor RC Blakes has to say.
Relatable
Same here with myself..I haven't dated in 14 years because some of the men's that I meet r liars and cheats(Pastor Blakes-I said some of them ..I KNOW THAT ALL MEN'S CLAIMS THEY'RE NOT THE SAME..PLS GIVE ME FEEDBACK ON THIS. THZ A MILLION AND GOD BLESS YOU)😇😇😇
Yep
I am enjoying my singleness and have retired from dating after 2 long term relationships back to back the men where setting up a life with the women they got married to within a year of me breaking up with them. It's a wrap for me. Loving me some ME!!!!❤❤
Don't be fearful trust God in the direction he's taking u in. Work on you that way we don't keep choosing the same thing but in different bodies.
I’m doing the work on why I keep ignoring red flags and don’t ever leave sooner. I’m never the one to leave because I believe in sitting down and communicating on what we both can work on and do better. Especially if he has most of the qualities I want and need. We all have flaws. I just can’t wait to meet a great man who is willing to stick things out together. Depending on what it is of course.
I won't give the man any time if he doesn't treat me like a queen
That I need more patience, I have to ask more intelligent questions, pay attention to behaviors that bring up red flags in the beginning, and stop betting on someone’s potential
I need to stop dating until I'm done healing😅😂😂😢 self love❤
That song from Beyoncé is toxic when you look at the lyrics, “I could have another you in a minute, he’ll be here in a minute.” It shows a lack of stopping to self-reflect and sit with ourselves and turn inward. Great breakdown, Pastor Blakes! ✨
Interesting p.o.v. But I think it’s get back, at finding out he cheated…which is totally toxic by the way.
aint that the truth! self love got me single, single for almost 3yrs & I'm completely content 😌
That I need to finish my healing process and Focus on GOD
I have only had one relationship in my adult life. We were married 32 years. Its scary out here. I dont think i can ever trust another man.
It's scary and ugly!
@MoncLD Please don't be fearful. God has not given us a spirit of fear. 2 Timothy 1:7I've been in two failed relationships. I asked the Lord to send the one He has ordained for me. Pray for His will to be done in your life. 🙏🏼
Yes you will trust, THE RIGHT GODLY MAN. Trust the process, keep listening to Bishop RC. 🙏
"Settle with a Valley dweller, you will never get to the Mountain Peak" 🔥🔥🔥
"Some of his STUPID children in the world!" LOLLLLLL
LORD forgive us! 😂
🤣Was not expecting that. Almost spit out my water. But 🎯
😭
@@justjess86baby98 😂
@@k.alboyd9020 😂
Pastor, I have witness in my own families where there is so much disrepect for marriage as well as relationships...I just thank the Lord that i dont have to be another Notch on some man's belt...Because I don't have to settle for a man that doesn't Respect me as a woman ..Since i have been listening to u I have built character and I have learned to be patience when it comes to the Lord sending me the right Christian man.🙏🙏🙏Yes my friends talk about me because, I'm not in a relationship..I need someone who would love and Respect me as a woman and Not just for a Bed Partner.(So I am who i am today because, the Lord deliver me from these past Toxic Relationships..❤)
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IM 60 ,JULY 5TH-A WIDOW...many men today lack RESPECT,AND dont VALUE QUEENS...IM CAREFUL WHO I LET IN MY LIFE-i do not go out much,that is my obstacle in meeting a partner/husband.your shows keep me positive,thank you
I’ve never considered myself as having a low self esteem, until I paid attention to this Live. I’ve reflected on my past relationship and then looked at my present person, who says I must accept him and his present co habitation because he owes me no explanation. This is low self esteem personified!! I prayed this Sunday and asked God for clarity and vision.
Sometimes it's not low self esteem. I was raised to think I was too snobby, but now I learned I was right in the beginning.
I never thought I deserved to be abused. I have always wanted the best for myself. BUT I had to walk away from my abusive family and that left me open for the enemy.(in the church)...and I walked away from all of it.
I never believed that my self esteem was now, but yes, I have been through somethings.
@@kameshiam1674 Thank you! I was also nurtured by two educated and loving parents, who instilled in myself and my sister that we are God Fearing, beautiful, and intelligent individuals. You’re correct we are not snobby; more like confident…Hence unsure why and where I lost Me. I’m on my personal mission to clarity🙏🏽
Thank you for this RC Blakes Jr. This goes for friendships as well. God has revealed some things to me about a year about some friendships.
YOU ARE TEACHING BISHOP!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
We never was create to love no one more than our Father up above .. Our Father will never leave us nor for sake us.. Walking out on Faith is the most powerful step you can make and that you or heading in the right direction..
-that I need to stay single 🤣😅
Word😂😂😂
"She married self-discovery" 🥰
I’m smarter than average people and it upsets the predators and some who I would have never guessed that were as evil as they are so twisted that’s what I learned.
Trust in myself more ✌🏾 old news vs new news 📰
Sex is not until I get married and find the right King for me. I will not settle for less. I am patient. I like to work in the spirit to see who I'm dealing with in a relationship. Red flags I will drop him like a bad habit.
Lord God, I realized that I allowed a man to use and disrespect me in a struggle with self-love. This was a true eye-opener for me I believe that God will raise a man that fits me perfectly and I will do the same for him.
Pastor good word…but you got me rolling 😂😂😂
Pastor Blakes you are a blessing on this Earth! The way you speak the truth in order to make it reach women's soul in order to help them get rid of the toxic men on their lives is a gift! I am beyond grateful for discovering you, thank you for all of your work to empower us women to heal and show our crown!
That’s why I’m waiting… Did my work and now trusting God.
I've learned that 'doing the work' on myself never ends.
Amen 🙏🏽 the work isn’t done until we stop breathing.
I’ve done the bulk of it but it takes a man to provide the space and guess what? Things can still surface to be healed. ❤
I haven’t been in a relationship since 2007.
And before that that had three relationships.
That does that say about me?
Smh…. I’m told I’m attractive but I’m also told that I am no nonsense.
If I see any hint of something that doesn’t make sense, I’M OUT!
If they curse, lye, can’t keep their word, or hands to themselves early on is a turn off.
Lord help me, if he can’t treat me and make me feel like you do, I still don’t want him.
Preach! Your videos give me strength to keep choosing myself and my self development every day. God bless you
You don’t hold back, thank you!!! Awesome ❤❤
I need to be patient and be sensitive to Holy Spirit guidance. find the motive someone shows up in my life. Don't be fooled by your flesh someone can come in the right package and be hell on wheels.
Praying safe travels back home in Jesus mighty name 🙏
I had a few years to get myself back together after my last relationship 4 years ago. God made whole again. Thank you most high 🙏
When you said “dog catcher”I totally agree. I have caught nothing but dogs in my life. But now I am realizing that it was my broken conscious that I was not healed from. (Thanks to you)
I apparently haven’t had self love for many years and after childhood traumas and several unhealthy relationships. 3 failed marriages, God has blessed me to be celibate and single for close to 4 years. I’ve been praying for peace and God has blessed me with it now that I am alone and focused on my relationship with Him. Peace and happiness is not found in a man. It’s found in closeness with God and getting to know myself better. Thank you for being the father I wish I had sooner
May God continue to bless your ministry
Black people traveling=Happiness for me. It truly makes me joy to hear. 🥰
What an odd statement. As if its uncommon for black people to travel.
@@wentzel812 What a foolish individual you may be. There was a time in history where traveling was difficult for black people in the United States, and on and about other particular continents.
Yes, I stated such a comment, initially. What of it? I am a black individual, and I have been traveling since I was a child, all thanks to God, Christ, and my parents. As I stated before, I joy to hear black people traveling and doing well. I know of many who do such a thing, and I get excited for them everytime. Aces.
@@wentzel812 Is it? And should I state, what an ignoramus you may be for questioning my intent? I said it, what of it? Look here, there was a time in this country when it was difficult for black people to travel about in the "Americas" let alone abroad to other continents. I have been traveling since I was a child, and that is due to God, Christ, and my parents. As I stated initially, I joy to hear black people traveling and doing well in their endeavors, for I get excited everytime. I am a black individual, and it makes me happy. Aces.
Amen I am valuable and have worth
because I am made in the image and likeness of God .
Thank you a safe travels 🙏🏾❤️
The suspense is building. Getting notification on this!
This is so good!
Tuned in! Great message tonight Bishop ❤
This is a word. Spoke STRAIGHT to ME, I said it was me too. I will do better with myself this time. Thank youuuuu Bishop. You keep it so real💜
Thank you! Great message❤
Thank you for this much needed word🙏🏽🥰
Watching you all the time, from Croatia. Thank you for helping us women of all ages (even delivering messages that saved some of us from destruction). I am VERY, truly grateful ❤
Awesome message!!!!
This session had me saying ouch throughout the entire talk. So many gems. Thanks again Bishop for giving it to us straight with supporting scriptures. Another one for the books. God bless you.
This punched me so many times between the 👀…Thank you and God bless you Bishop. I watch your life changing teachings daily and I am always blessed, informed, and inspired. You’re the best!! ❤ Happy Birthday🥳, and May God continue to uplift and use you for His glory! 🙌🏾
You Are Absolutely Right!
My partner departed this earth in 2016. I started to date two people. One man (dummy) I had to be honest about where my heart was; I wasn't emotionally ready to completely be in a relationship. I just wanted him for physical and attention🤦🏾♀️ I realized I didn't need him then I stopped wanting him. He seemed to understand until I started dating someone else. 🤭 I first felt bad about hurting his feelings other times I felt I shouldn't feel bad cause I told him I didn't want a relationship.
Anyway, this othe man I've been dating. We are in a relationship. I tried to deny his caring heart several times. But this Man makes me feel better, happier, and loved in a way I really needed and want. I Thank God for a patient man. A respected man. A man who is generous and humble. Thank you God for bringing him too me. Keep revealing what you want this relationship to be. 🙏🏾
Thank you Bishop. I started listening during Covid. I believe you helped me heal my heart❤😇
This going to be deep. The title of video make good sermon and book name.
It may trigger some come with open mind and ask God for wisdom and healing.
Learned and heard some hard truths about myself. But I’m thankful👍🏾😊
Thank you for this awesome message Bishop Blake's Amen
This was a great video, thank you RC!
Powerful Message I learn so much from your teaching 🙏🏾
I needed this so much!
Thanks!
Can’t wait! I was just thinking about this very thing.
Thank you Pastor for this message❤
Thank you for speaking this TRUTH !!
A whole WORD. Thank you Pastor ❤
Awesome Message!
Wow ..Pastor Blakes, what a true blow❤.I'm glad u r speaking to us on this message..
Love this! ❤️ Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Welcome back, Blakes' family.
Yes you are right.
Thank you, Bishop ❤
Thank you ❤
Good stuff so far Pastor!!
“Fundamental consciousness of a person”❤
Thank you Pastor
You are doing great works RC
This is a message that woman NEED
Thank you Bishop. This word was definitely needed and brought clarity to mistakes that we sometimes keep making. God Bless you and Lisa.
This is really good. I like that you are teaching us that our relationship choices say a lot about us. They reflect what our internal condition is. This encourages me to continue to do some self discovery and inner work. I love myself, I think I am intelligent, have good character and want to be healthy. This is what I want my relationships to reflect.
This was Good Bishop thank you 🙏🏾
This Boi is in RARE FORM tonight!!!
WOO!!
This message was brutally good, 😃thank you.
Lol Bishop with the video evidence first! Lmao yall better peep game. Think rationally first, those emotions can wait! On a serious note, there were so many gems in this video!! I write my notes down to reflect on them and am also sharing what I learn with my daughter. My favorite quote from this video is the statement about how our relationships are a reflection of our intelligence!! Imagine if more people thought this way. I know I would have made much better choices when I was younger if I knew this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us Bishop!
To God be the Glorrrrrry for such wisdom. Bless this ministry and strengthen Pastor Blakes and Lady Lisa❤. Safe trip home.
The most god gifted teacher.
So True
So True
This could not have been said better
Love this !!!! ❤
Every word of this was so good. I’ve listened to it three or four times definitely saving it to come back to amazing message today.
Wow, this is good, Bishop. I received this message 🙌
Checking in from ATL ❤ I absolutely loveeeee your content so helpful
Yes, I say this all this time!! Speak!!
Amen 🙏🏾thank you Bishop, may God continue to bless you and your family always x 🤍
Talk to us then Dad. These are all facts. I just kept hearing playtime over its the big leagues.
If we say were grown and emotionally mature, and learning from all these consistent teachings, then our choices must reflect it.
Thank you Sir. Im putting all these into practice..ive been doing some, i need to tighten up on the other ones.
God Bless This Message!! Ok Senior Pastor Blakes 🙏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
Thank you 💜
Phew pops you went in on this one! This video might need on repeat for a lil while. Thank you! 🙏🏾🎯✨
Hello Pastor Blake’s and First Lady Lisa
You are so right I had to realize when enough was enough
Don’t have time for the games thank God I love myself enough to be alone
and my heart is safe
Character is important
This word is for me for sure!!!
Preach, preach!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Thank you