I blocked my grandmother on Facebook: NCAA swimmer comes out transgender | Schuyler Bailar | TEDxJHU

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  • čas přidán 14. 05. 2018
  • Schuyler Bailar is the first openly transgender athlete to compete in any sport on an NCAA Division 1 men’s team. By 15, he was one of the nation’s top 20 15-year-old breast strokers. By 17, he set a national age group record. Now he swims for Harvard University. Schuyler’s difficult choice - to transition while potentially giving up the prospect of being an NCAA Champion - was historic and timely. His story has appeared everywhere from The Washington Post to 60 Minutes and The Ellen Show. Schuyler chronicles his experiences on Instagram - @pinkmantaray - so others may explore his example in their journey.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 71

  • @Aquariuspeg
    @Aquariuspeg Před 6 lety +88

    He is an amazing person and true inspiration. I've been following him on IG for some time now and every single time his posts give me strength to push forward, to not give up, to hope for better tommorow. I was smiling throughout the whole talk, proud for him, and his achievements. Truly beautiful person, on the inside and the outside.

  • @bigwingboy2748
    @bigwingboy2748 Před 6 lety +56

    Absolutely inspirational, can't believe this doesn't have more views or comments. I love this guy, he's so wise. What an array of lessons to take away from this talk. Fantastic job!

  • @scott1957able
    @scott1957able Před 6 lety +39

    One of the finest speeches I've ever heard! Well done, Schuyler Bailar!

  • @afsanaparvez6112
    @afsanaparvez6112 Před 5 lety +28

    Truly inspiring and he is so filling the shoes of being a role model for young trans ppl
    He certainly is my role model

  • @pixieanna2058
    @pixieanna2058 Před 4 lety +15

    Terrific young man! So thankful he got the support and love from his grandparents and family.

    • @elizabethchwakanowski5067
      @elizabethchwakanowski5067 Před rokem +3

      Woman* and she’s not terrific

    • @dylangarcia3898
      @dylangarcia3898 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@elizabethchwakanowski5067he is a man not a woman, I don't see why you feel the need to disrespect him

    • @elizabethchwakanowski5067
      @elizabethchwakanowski5067 Před 10 měsíci

      @@dylangarcia3898 and you’re deIusionaI and a Iiar

    • @Rin22730
      @Rin22730 Před měsícem

      ​@@dylangarcia3898 She will never be a man.

  • @yelenafang7896
    @yelenafang7896 Před 4 lety +17

    success is not about winning. success is about continuously not giving up.

  • @runnershigh4life
    @runnershigh4life Před rokem +2

    Lol. Dude has another video with the human rights organization where he tried to debunk myths about transgendered people in sports.
    The 2nd myth he attempts to debunk is about it not being fair physically for transgendered woman to compete in women’s sports.
    His only arguments are how in men’s sports, size and strength differences are celebrated. In women’s sports they are not celebrated and women are looked down upon for looking like men.
    He says in rooted in transphobia and racism. He says nothing, absolutely nothing about the biological differences in strength, muscularity, time of muscle growth etc.
    Moronic for that one.

  • @justinthyme5730
    @justinthyme5730 Před 2 lety +4

    Why did you block the comments on your trans women in sport CZcams video? I guess we really know why.

  • @micktierney2779
    @micktierney2779 Před 3 lety +10

    Such an inspirational ambassador for the trans ( my) community ❤.

  • @trinityhamilton5822
    @trinityhamilton5822 Před 3 lety +10

    this was so inspirational Im legitimatey crying

  • @Akio_F
    @Akio_F Před 4 lety +10

    Amazing speech. Thank you, I got really inspired by your words.

  • @Intuitivedreams
    @Intuitivedreams Před 4 lety +9

    This is very inspirational. This is a great message that you should keep going no matter what 🙌🏻✨

  • @hopenguyen2687
    @hopenguyen2687 Před 3 lety +4

    Love will conquer anything. Your family gave you the love that you have needed to conquer those challenging in your life.

  • @Sophia-wcDM9
    @Sophia-wcDM9 Před rokem

    We care what you have to say because it's not common knowledge. 🙂

  • @CandaceEsponosa
    @CandaceEsponosa Před 2 lety +4

    I love this so much!!! He’s outstanding❤️😍😍😍😍💕✨

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 Před rokem +1

    Who has their grandmother on fb??

  • @desireeallen9649
    @desireeallen9649 Před 4 lety +11

    im trans and an athlete , just comming out and its tarrifying

  • @orsors2129
    @orsors2129 Před měsícem

    Yah, but you never stole a spot from a man on the podium or broke records by ridiculous lengths. Save Women's Sports.

  • @iremultanir3425
    @iremultanir3425 Před 3 lety +2

    Amazing speech!

  • @floridagators4life
    @floridagators4life Před 2 lety +1

    0:27 HAHAHA

  • @joecole7122
    @joecole7122 Před 7 měsíci

    Of course it it was a trans woman, it would be totally unfair. Does he get that?

  • @00hahahoho00
    @00hahahoho00 Před 6 lety +3

    존경합니다

  • @micktierney2779
    @micktierney2779 Před 3 lety +6

    ❤👍

  • @tenorprimo
    @tenorprimo Před 3 lety +4

    All I can say is “Wow!” That was fantastic. I am still crying. You are the coolest and real man Thank you.

  • @annabellelee4535
    @annabellelee4535 Před 9 měsíci

    Good for whatever.

  • @ahahayeah9930
    @ahahayeah9930 Před 3 lety +4

    i’m a swimmer and i’m scared to come out

  • @sentral.gaming3181
    @sentral.gaming3181 Před 6 lety +2

    Hello,
    First Lol...

  • @CookieMonster-wu3nf
    @CookieMonster-wu3nf Před 2 lety +1

    You wearing your Fruit of the Looms I see

  • @bondabandi5322
    @bondabandi5322 Před 4 lety

    Is He woman before?

    • @sundalosketch4769
      @sundalosketch4769 Před 2 lety +3

      2 years late but yes! Trans man means female-to-male and Trans woman means male-to-female.

  • @merbear76
    @merbear76 Před rokem +3

    Sounds like people in your life just exist to appease you instead of speaking truth. In reality, when your bones are dug up a thousand years from now they will still know you are a woman, just as every person in existence could be catalogued as man or woman. You need help, I only blame your family which refuses to tell you the truth, and the people that promulgate delusion all in service to their own self interests (cue the self-righteous accusations of transphobia or some other -ism in the replies). Those who speak the truth are brandished as hateful. Those who are feeding to delusion are brandished as brave and beautiful. It’s time to wake up everyone.

  • @mgh62000
    @mgh62000 Před 3 lety +4

    He probably gave up his Olympic dream to transition. He probably had a good chance to go had he not transitioned.

  • @scottrocks1000
    @scottrocks1000 Před 2 lety +4

    This is not fair to women !!!!

  • @MIDOGALI
    @MIDOGALI Před 3 lety +10

    This woman openly promotes hormones and appears to have deals with pharma companies. Young kids see this and it's not appropriate. She also has tonnes of CRT ideology on her IG and has posted false information about police shootings. Not an honest, moral or admirable person at all, and kids should not be exposed to her!

    • @sundalosketch4769
      @sundalosketch4769 Před 2 lety +1

      6 months later, how are you feeling about him now? Also, hope everything is going well for you, with this pandemic and all

    • @Rosebro111
      @Rosebro111 Před 5 měsíci

      I was a trans kid with no representation. I didn’t figure out I was trans until my mid 30s. That’s when I felt joy for the first time I can ever remember. I would have killed to know someone else like me existed when I was little.

  • @AndweleHarris
    @AndweleHarris Před 3 lety +6

    If transgeders compete, it would only be fair for them too have a whole category for themselves...
    They're high on testosterone and other stuff....the other athletes aren't

    • @alista4987
      @alista4987 Před 3 lety +20

      Please educate yourself more.

    • @danielm6871
      @danielm6871 Před 2 lety +2

      @@alista4987 please educate yourself more...

    • @maraschwartz6731
      @maraschwartz6731 Před 2 lety +6

      @@danielm6871 Please educate YOURSELF more...

    • @danielm6871
      @danielm6871 Před 2 lety +2

      @@maraschwartz6731 a huh, biology exists and the earth isn't flat, just an fyi

    • @MrJm323
      @MrJm323 Před rokem

      @@maraschwartz6731 Please GET an education.

  • @justin_grindley
    @justin_grindley Před 3 lety +8

    This girl acts way too much like what she did involved any sort of bravery.

    • @FuyuKaga
      @FuyuKaga Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah sure only a cis man like you know about the bravery behind coming out as a guy because you were born with a d-ck. Must have been terrifying for you eh? I simply cannot imagine how your family would react. I mean, since when is being born with a d-ck qualifies for being a man?

    • @elizabethchwakanowski5067
      @elizabethchwakanowski5067 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly.

  • @mashtabula
    @mashtabula Před 6 lety +9

    This helps President Trump get re-elected.

  • @AmericanSpartan
    @AmericanSpartan Před rokem +1

    Completely ridiculous