I spent a day with AUTISTIC PEOPLE

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  • I spent a day with people on the autism spectrium to learn the truth about this often misunderstood disorder.
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  • @AnthonyPadilla
    @AnthonyPadilla  Před 4 lety +35325

    NOTE: some misinformed people are recommending i call the video “people with autism” to be more respectful but i reached out to the autistic community and “autistic people” is heavily preferred. please listen to the community before spreading potentially incorrect* information.
    ORIGINAL POST: come back next week for *I spent a day with 911 EMERGENCY DISPATCHERS* -- thank you so much for supporting me and this series :)
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    • @SylviaRustyFae
      @SylviaRustyFae Před 4 lety +740

      Nonbinary people and binary trans people are both deserving of a spent a day with from you.

    • @badentertainment5062
      @badentertainment5062 Před 4 lety +47

      I turned it on

    • @pennywise3279
      @pennywise3279 Před 4 lety +356

      Thanks Anthony I have autism have a great day

    • @hayzmation5354
      @hayzmation5354 Před 4 lety +143

      Man of the people right here

    • @bluefishinthecut
      @bluefishinthecut Před 4 lety +60

      What about spending a day with people who love gore in horror movies

  • @VOLAIRE
    @VOLAIRE Před 4 lety +6682

    The girl talking about getting bullied and being mistreated by her teacher and students. Heartbreaking.

  • @Jasonzvo
    @Jasonzvo Před 3 lety +6812

    I always question why do we teach people with disabilities how to behave around others but not teach people without disabilities how to treat people with disabilities properly and behave around them

    • @movedaccountcheckinchannel8404
      @movedaccountcheckinchannel8404 Před 3 lety +293

      As an autistic person I agree with this SO. MUCH. I could go on a whole rant about it!

    • @zotial5937
      @zotial5937 Před 3 lety +126

      Snowpod AGREED with being on the autism spectrum myself, whats the point of being diagnosed with a mental disorder or something like that if you can’t tell people you may act weird due to it without people saying you’re making excuses when you can’t help it!

    • @ItsMe-ch1yp
      @ItsMe-ch1yp Před 3 lety +147

      I went to an elementary school that had a classroom for kids with severe autism, and I was asked to help out that class often because the teachers said I was so nice to them, and at first I played it off as a, "aren't everybody nice?" But the older I got the more I learned the cruel reality. I was often asked offensive things like, "how could you be around them? They are scary." And it is completely untrue. People with disabilities get treated so terribly and it is a shame.

    • @remuslupin1713
      @remuslupin1713 Před 3 lety +49

      i don’t have autism but i do have adhd and sometimes ill zone out on my teachers, i have motor tics so sometimes my hands will shake or i’ll jerk my head and people think im being weird, i have a very hard time finishing things and i forget a lot and people think im ignoring them or smth and it makes me feel really bad about myself because i can’t help it

    • @leaff123
      @leaff123 Před 3 lety +14

      fr man. I used to help teach a class of kids with autism and they were literally the sweetest. tbh no one would make fun of them but they didn’t want to help out the class either.

  • @gay-flower
    @gay-flower Před rokem +5866

    "i mean. i may be autistic but at least i'm not dying???"
    had me cackling ngl

    • @cristianjuarez1086
      @cristianjuarez1086 Před rokem +20

      ye, but sadly some people in the spectrum do die because of it

    • @1amChrlie
      @1amChrlie Před rokem +98

      @David Welch We aren’t something that can be prayed away man 💀💀

    • @JB-mh5xy
      @JB-mh5xy Před rokem

      @David Welch You... renounce? Autism?

    • @somedudethatdoesthings8057
      @somedudethatdoesthings8057 Před rokem +97

      @@davidwelch42 This is really stupid. We don't renounce these things. We use them to glorify and honor Jesus by overcoming the challenges that things like autism can give us.

    • @-thunderstar-6414
      @-thunderstar-6414 Před rokem

      ​@@davidwelch421.) Autism can't be prayed away
      2.) Even if it could, many people with autism would choose to keep it.

  • @Georgei_xx
    @Georgei_xx Před rokem +724

    Im autistic and a lot of people think im just a stupid immature person and it really hurts. I really appreciate this video lol

    • @splitsee2526
      @splitsee2526 Před rokem +27

      yea. i still feel like im unfunny or disliked, its just smth you gotta come into terms with

    • @sonicfan82
      @sonicfan82 Před rokem +10

      I don’t View you like that, I think you’re very smart, and very loving.

    • @okjeffy6581
      @okjeffy6581 Před rokem +7

      When I was in 5th grade, people liked me for being Autistic.

    • @sailoragitate900
      @sailoragitate900 Před 11 měsĂ­ci +8

      their opinion is not a reflection of your true worth. never doubt yourself ♥

    • @Georgei_xx
      @Georgei_xx Před 11 měsĂ­ci +10

      ​@@sonicfan82bless you you're very nice ❤

  • @themuffinman7278
    @themuffinman7278 Před 4 lety +18603

    Lmao that guy is so funny “Why are people more worried about their child having autism than having polio” 😂

    • @ItzYoGyalCuTiE
      @ItzYoGyalCuTiE Před 4 lety +347

      True, some folks just got this all wrong. Like, are afraid to have a kid with autism.

    • @sabinethegaydragongeek
      @sabinethegaydragongeek Před 4 lety +104

      Because people are afraid of kids being the r word I guess? People are fucking crazy.

    • @bellac6311
      @bellac6311 Před 4 lety +346

      Exactly, i always say id take my autism over a being dead by 4.

    • @mr.mcthicc1073
      @mr.mcthicc1073 Před 4 lety +43

      I mean hes right though

    • @RainbowRoadCrashTest
      @RainbowRoadCrashTest Před 4 lety +182

      @Hello Satan I have Mild Autism, and all I can say, It's really not that bad. My autism is so mild most people can't tell that I have autism. I rather have severe autism than laying in bed with a lifebox covering my body 24/7 of my life as some people with polio had. Basically what I'm saying, "Damn nigga, you crazy" to anyone who rather have polio than autism.

  • @saakhiesingh404
    @saakhiesingh404 Před 4 lety +4254

    "I may be autistic but at least im not dying" OH MY GOD😂😂SHOW THIS TO ALL THE KARENS

    • @jokolelono4606
      @jokolelono4606 Před 4 lety +3

      hey there its me, ja that guy

    • @cynthiapoulose6000
      @cynthiapoulose6000 Před 4 lety +71

      @@CrustyUgg No,I think they mean cos,"Karens" typically don't vaccinate their kids, but have a giant hatred against autistic people. They even say vaccines cause autism. That is obviously so not true,autism is a totally different thing.

    • @angelfrick7297
      @angelfrick7297 Před 4 lety +5

      @@jokolelono4606 huh?

    • @Ohokk0
      @Ohokk0 Před 4 lety +14

      Jack Mehoff sounds like we have a karen on our hands here trying to defend the karens

    • @macarooni4023
      @macarooni4023 Před 4 lety +7

      Jack Mehoff tf are you saying re read the damn comment and come back when you can use reasoning skills

  • @XELLAluvsU
    @XELLAluvsU Před rokem +1017

    Me watching it because I needed a reminder that I’m not the only autistic person

    • @stasialii
      @stasialii Před rokem +34

      It's fascinating that we think differently. I also have autism and I don't give a fuck about who else that has.

    • @fdjgkhfsdkghfskjghdf_
      @fdjgkhfsdkghfskjghdf_ Před rokem +3

      @@stasialii i do all the time hahahh

    • @dionysus4742
      @dionysus4742 Před rokem +2

      Same, so relateable fam

    • @GeneralCatDad
      @GeneralCatDad Před rokem

      @@stasialii honest to god same

    • @-M00N-
      @-M00N- Před rokem +13

      Yea,I’m getting tested in a couple days!!I struggle with sensory+communication issues so at least if i get diagnosed i can get more support

  • @ellencristini3936
    @ellencristini3936 Před 8 měsĂ­ci +141

    I'm autistic, and I like the fact that he invited two women and a black man, in the media autism is often portrayed by white boys, and also women and poc are usually underdiagnosed or are diagnosed later, so I think it's very nice to show autism in different faces and not in the usual representation ♾❤

    • @skullwund8676
      @skullwund8676 Před 7 měsĂ­ci +2

      or maybe he doesn't care bout any of that and just ivited 3 people or 2 woman and a man

    • @ellencristini3936
      @ellencristini3936 Před 7 měsĂ­ci +2

      yeah, but good representation is always nice to see anyways @@skullwund8676

    • @daryissaplayz2312
      @daryissaplayz2312 Před 4 měsĂ­ci +23

      ​@@skullwund8676Even if he didn't care, it's still good he invited them.

  • @doomdong69420
    @doomdong69420 Před 4 lety +8041

    At first I thought these “I spent a day with...” videos were clickbaitey and annoying. But after watching a few I see that he is genuinely trying to remove stigma and have some well educated entertainment. As someone who is on the spectrum, I really appreciate how polite he was and how he was factual yet kind.

    • @darkhorseash4337
      @darkhorseash4337 Před 4 lety +319

      Yeah like, the titles are definitely a little clickbaity (which, it's youtube, fair enough) But he genuinely does seem to put the effort in to educate himself about the topics

    • @taillesshalo8373
      @taillesshalo8373 Před 4 lety +251

      @@darkhorseash4337 I'm pretty sure he does the clickbaity titles/thumbnails to get more people to click. I mean..the more people click the more get educated and learn

    • @darkhorseash4337
      @darkhorseash4337 Před 4 lety +92

      @@taillesshalo8373 oh for sure that's why I said I understand it. Like, it's youtube, that's definitely the best way to get people to learn.

    • @raspberry__4395
      @raspberry__4395 Před 4 lety +6

      Same

    • @nonewem5180
      @nonewem5180 Před 4 lety +2

      Saaaame

  • @blazeyoung8106
    @blazeyoung8106 Před 4 lety +9674

    My little brother is autistic, he didn’t realize that it’s a “disability” until he saw a scholarship notice addressed to him for being disabled. His response was “I thought autism just made me smart” I love him.
    Edit: just to clarify a little bit the scholarship is offered to every “disabled” child in my state to go to private school grades k-12 not college. My brother goes to normal public school and does not need an aid or attend ESE classes and excels academically. I do know someone personally who used this scholarship so that they went to a year round private school and that helped them tremendously with having a consistent schedule and help alleviate some of the obstacles they faced when in normal public school.

    • @saperoi
      @saperoi Před 4 lety +68

      Me in a nutshell

    • @chikenduk
      @chikenduk Před 4 lety +101

      Blaze Young aw so wholesome 😁

    • @jsharkly
      @jsharkly Před 4 lety +53

      i- autistic people can get scholarships for being autism 👀👀 is that possible?

    • @requirementsrequired4384
      @requirementsrequired4384 Před 4 lety +11

      Blaze Young Bless his soul!

    • @Jolien_birbwhisperer
      @Jolien_birbwhisperer Před 4 lety +134

      He's not disabled. He has a developmental disorder but that doesn't cripple him from learning and evolving as a person. If you love your brother, make sure that he understands that because if he grows up to believe that he's disabled, it will prevent him from functioning to the best of his ability and put a constant downer on him.

  • @valness3017
    @valness3017 Před rokem +211

    I was pleasantly surprised to hear "I really like bubbly people".
    Im often described as being very bubbly and social, and my husband is on the spectrum along with several of my friends. I always thought my kind of personality would actually be annoying for someone on the spectrum because im so giggly and struggle to remain quiet. However, my husband always tells me I'm super expressive and warm to people which makes it very easy to read me. Its kinda nice to know my energy actually works for some people.

    • @eeeaten
      @eeeaten Před rokem +24

      introverts love extroverts when it's 1-1 or small groups :)

    • @dudedude31415
      @dudedude31415 Před 9 měsĂ­ci +16

      As someone on the spectrum, I really appreciate people that behave like you. I feel more comfortable with direct and expressive people, than with very controlled people. (Not saving you don't self-control).
      It really irritates me when people behave according to etiquette because that makes me feel like not getting the social queue or even worse when I get the actual queue, I feel like they are viewing me as dumb enough to not see it.
      I really like it when people are just very direct. And it reduces my efforts to find the subtext queues.

  • @FedGrod
    @FedGrod Před rokem +266

    The worst part of having it is hearing people call things or people acting stupid "autistic" like autistic means disturbing and threatening a no more than an insult

    • @kilargo4588
      @kilargo4588 Před 11 měsĂ­ci +10

      I'm autistic and I don't care if people call things autistic. I think it's kinda funny.

    • @BotchuLeeSim
      @BotchuLeeSim Před 11 měsĂ­ci

      I’m autistic and I don’t care, as long as they aren’t trying to offend autistic people I don’t give a flying… you get the picture

    • @LootFragg
      @LootFragg Před 10 měsĂ­ci +12

      ​@@kilargo4588 I don't think I can take your statement at face value, since many people self-denigrate for acceptance as a coping mechanism. In other words: If I was autistic, I'd be happy about people using "autistic" as an insult if I felt marginalized and this tolerance would put me more on display. I'd make self-deprecating jokes because being cool with it is a way of at least not being "that guy". Also, I'd do it to protest against the fakeness of people instrumentalizing my condition to gain social standing by pretending to be an ally without listening to me.
      But really, in a very unrealistic, very far off utopia, in the ideal circumstances, in a perfect world where everybody listens, and everything is better, I wouldn't want people to use an attribute that describes me to also describe something we all agree is bad. Because it would mean I'd always be bad, even if I was cool enough to deal with it. You know?
      I'm not autistic and I don't know how an autistic perspective differs from mine, but this is my long-winded explanation on why I don't trust general statements like yours. I'm just abstracting my experience as racial minority and it just feels so similar, with me making self-deprecating jokes for fun, but with an eternal little wound underneath and a deep-seated desire to just be considered adequate and not inferior.
      Let me know if this sounds about right to you or if you genuinely love when people equate "bad = autistic".

    • @FedGrod
      @FedGrod Před 10 měsĂ­ci +5

      @@kilargo4588 I do not believe you. I think you are a person without autism who uses the word autistic like that and you're trying to make it sound as if it isn't a horrible thing to do to validate yourself.

    • @FedGrod
      @FedGrod Před 10 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@LootFragg thank you.

  • @levyk1020
    @levyk1020 Před 4 lety +5270

    When she said the teacher told the kids to be mean to her breaks my heart. That teacher should’ve been fired. That’s honestly so sad :(

    • @spookberryette5523
      @spookberryette5523 Před 4 lety +68

      Yeah, that's not right. And it is sad too

    • @heleninglis9961
      @heleninglis9961 Před 4 lety +25

      That part broke me 😢

    • @TheJesusAlejandra
      @TheJesusAlejandra Před 4 lety +3

    • @Frankieky
      @Frankieky Před 4 lety +145

      For me I have autism and last year in school ny teacher bullied me so much that I went into a early state of depression but since I had asutism it was really deap but my teacher this year made me feel better about myself and helped my cope and I think he's why I'm not dead rn

    • @makototakara7025
      @makototakara7025 Před 4 lety +6

      I agree, that is messed up.

  • @eeurydicee
    @eeurydicee Před 4 lety +4924

    “People get built different; we don’t have to understand it, we just have to respect it”
    -Bubblegum

    • @jaaaaaane
      @jaaaaaane Před 4 lety +50

      Meurtre Du Corbeau YES. YES. THAT IS MY FAVORITE QUOTE FROM THE SHOW 😤👏👏👏 AND IT IS SO VERY TRUE.

    • @annathelesbian2605
      @annathelesbian2605 Před 4 lety +24

      Yes RESPECT. Aretha Franklin knew it well.

    • @supergekume7615
      @supergekume7615 Před 4 lety +43

      you really gonna make me cry. adventure time is the show of the decade

    • @dalicia1322
      @dalicia1322 Před 4 lety +29

      Who else read this in princess Bubblegums voice 😂

    • @jesuschrist4752
      @jesuschrist4752 Před 4 lety +30

      "Something weird is just something familiar, viewed from a different angle"

  • @cookiekhad8106
    @cookiekhad8106 Před rokem +697

    Shit, if I was in this episode, I would’ve gone on and on about my knowledge and experiences in art. I’m an autistic 17 yr old art student that loves art 😂

    • @pandora3425
      @pandora3425 Před rokem +32

      that’s so cool!! i’m a 15 year old with autism =) i love drawing a lot too ! it’s fun & i love making characters ( ✌︎'ω')✌︎

    • @cookiekhad8106
      @cookiekhad8106 Před rokem +13

      @@pandora3425 that’s so cool, I like doing that too 😊

    • @andyavisand
      @andyavisand Před rokem +12

      Good for you two!
      I'm a 16yo autistic who loves to make music!

    • @pandora3425
      @pandora3425 Před rokem +8

      @@andyavisand that’s sweet =D what type of music?

    • @andyavisand
      @andyavisand Před rokem +10

      @@pandora3425 I dont even know! I just... do whatever i feel like, and publish it as "5 Green Bunnies"

  • @G0lly_G33
    @G0lly_G33 Před rokem +409

    My friend is autistic and she said this to me: I prefer autistic person because for the longest time I always tried to figure out where my autism ended and I started but I learned it wasn't black and white it was a rainbow though it is hard sometimes to deal with it I can also learn ways to help myself.

    • @agsilverradio2225
      @agsilverradio2225 Před rokem +1

      Exacly. An autistic person's autism is a part of them, not a condition seperate from them.

    • @G0lly_G33
      @G0lly_G33 Před rokem +2

      @agsilverradio2225 for me that's what I find easiest but some people prefer diffrent terms :3

    • @emporioalnino4670
      @emporioalnino4670 Před rokem +17

      I'm not a person with a condition. I am autistic. It's an integral part of who I am, not an illness I've contracted.

    • @jess_lomas
      @jess_lomas Před rokem +4

      ​@Emporio Alniño same I'm like I'm autistic but it causes challenges and also enjoyment and everything I do is because I'm autistic I think it makes it easier to not be occasionally upset that I have it

    • @SonnyB.Greenware
      @SonnyB.Greenware Před 7 měsĂ­ci

      it’s kind of funny cause black and white thinking is common for autism lol. i personally don’t care if i’m called autistic or an autistic person but i’m glad your friend found something that works for them

  • @slaylations8880
    @slaylations8880 Před 4 lety +3931

    The girl with the blonde-ish brown hair is honestly the biggest sweetheart ever

  • @Gcool243
    @Gcool243 Před 4 lety +7851

    do a “I spent a day with ghosts” and just have a one sided interview as if your talking to other people

  • @OverlordMalarkey
    @OverlordMalarkey Před rokem +112

    One thing I can not stand as I'm with Asperger's/Autism myself is being looked down and talked to like I'm a child.
    It angers me when people do this. I'm not a child, I am in my mid 20s. Talk to me and treat me like an adult. I put with it when I was younger but I sure as hell not putting up with it as an adult.

    • @DarkStarCoreX
      @DarkStarCoreX Před 11 měsĂ­ci +21

      OH MY GOD TELL ME ABOUT IT. I have classmates who are constantly talking to me like i'm a fucking 5 year old. I'm 15 not a baby, so talk to me like I'm 15.

    • @komisan_
      @komisan_ Před 10 měsĂ­ci +16

      oh same, I'm also in my mid 20s. usually I can feel the vibes change straight as I tell someone I am autistic, they start treating me like I'm a child and I'm unable to look after myself or do anything. drives me insane

    • @the_crystal_artist8873
      @the_crystal_artist8873 Před 10 měsĂ­ci +11

      So many times, someone will make like a dirty joke and I will ask them to explain because I didn’t get it, and they’re always like, “No! You too sweet and innocent!” I’m 16 almost 17. I know what sex is. Just explain the joke so I can laugh with you guys.

    • @owengraziano7288
      @owengraziano7288 Před 9 měsĂ­ci +3

      Same. 1000% same.

    • @PowerSpirit50
      @PowerSpirit50 Před 6 měsĂ­ci +4

      I find that being straightforward with telling them that speeds up development. And you can always call them out on it after and be in the right.

  • @corey3642
    @corey3642 Před rokem +295

    It broke my heart when Jasmine talked about being bullied in school and to this day, even. I have had very similar experiences. She seems so smart and friendly. I would love to have a friend like her.

  • @helenpatatfanas
    @helenpatatfanas Před 3 lety +3230

    "Why do you have your license if you have autism?
    I'm not blind"
    OMG I'M DECEASED

    • @talentlesscommenter1329
      @talentlesscommenter1329 Před 3 lety +29

      May you rest in peace

    • @morgan3918
      @morgan3918 Před 3 lety +68

      I am autistic and cannot drive. That said, I am but one of 7 BILLION humans, and my best friend, a fellow aspie, has her license and is a successful driver. I just don't understand why autism = an inability to do certain things across the board.

    • @NaudVanDalen
      @NaudVanDalen Před 3 lety +16

      I had trouble driving because of having to focus on many different things including stick shift. Turns out most Americans drive automatic cars so I don't feel bad for my trouble with stick shift driving.

    • @nem5217
      @nem5217 Před 3 lety +7

      @@NaudVanDalen I don’t know about you but I’m high functioning autistic and one of my biggest fears about driving is hitting somebody’s car or hitting walking or crashing etc is there a way to overcome that?

    • @NaudVanDalen
      @NaudVanDalen Před 3 lety

      @@nem5217 I don't know. I stopped getting driving lessons because it was too stressful.

  • @jasmine-zf5hv
    @jasmine-zf5hv Před 4 lety +1768

    "i may be autistic but at least im not dying"
    MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD

  • @emporioalnino4670
    @emporioalnino4670 Před rokem +47

    The worst part of being autistic is not being treated like an equal, as if I'm not even human. They regard me as a thoughtless child to be pitied, or some cold unfeeling genius straight out of (insert autism media here). Even worse is when people get scared of me for not "behaving normal". I'm a big tall guy with the classic autistic "resting bitch face" so a lot of people especially women tend to think I'm a potential threat. The reality is I'm a total softy but because it's not tattooed on my forehead they think I'm a creep and a weirdo. What the hell am I doing here, I don't below here.

    • @eeeaten
      @eeeaten Před rokem +5

      i hear you emporio. it is not easy.

    • @emporioalnino4670
      @emporioalnino4670 Před rokem +7

      I do like being autistic and i wouldn't change that about myself even if I could. It's part of my identity. I just wish I got treated better lmao

    • @anarchy1236
      @anarchy1236 Před 7 měsĂ­ci +2

      True, it sucks not being treated like a human just because I was born different than the majority (also, love the Radiohead reference)

  • @leafcerulean92
    @leafcerulean92 Před rokem +82

    I have both ADHD and Autism. I was diagnosed last year at the age of 27. It is rarely picked up on early because of the male diagnostic criteria and the fact we show ourselves so differently. I am crippled by exhaustion all the time from it and nowadays I'm very isolated and spend all day in my room just playing video games with the lights off. I'm in permanent burnout from pretending I wasn't autistic for over 25 years of my life. I barely make it to work 2 days a week right now. It can really be a struggle when you're this way.

    • @boosyaa
      @boosyaa Před 11 měsĂ­ci +12

      Hey man. I’m 29 years old and only got diagnosed recently as well. Lived my whole life very confused and riddled with anxiety. Thought I had social anxiety but turns out it’s that and autism. I can’t really hold a job and have no friends. I used to be popular and in a band but had to drink to numb myself. Now I am away from substances and trying to figure out how to live. Hope things get better for you.

    • @leafcerulean92
      @leafcerulean92 Před 11 měsĂ­ci +5

      @@boosyaa Unmasking is a chore within itself, and I wish you the best of luck man. Keep your chin up brother, hope you find yourself soon.

    • @XSR_RUGGER
      @XSR_RUGGER Před 10 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@leafcerulean92 I'm autistic but wasn't diagnosed until 36. I thought I was bipolar because of the ups and downs I had but then realized it was burnout after being turned on and going crazy with so much stuff along with all the acting I had to do to fit in. I get burnt out frequently due to the nature of my job. What about a career/job change or is that not what causes your burnout?
      Do you desire to be social occasionally?

    • @leafcerulean92
      @leafcerulean92 Před 10 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@XSR_RUGGER I've changed jobs constantly. My psych actually agrees that work is dangerous for me and could actually kill me. Autism has taken my quality of life away entirely.

    • @user-kg3tm7ue1s
      @user-kg3tm7ue1s Před 8 měsĂ­ci

      Adhd can be a struggle. ASD is about routine. So having both is very confusing cos you need routine but can't keep to it

  • @calipigenia
    @calipigenia Před 4 lety +3351

    Spend a day with people with OCD.
    More people need to realize that their quirks aren't OCD.

    • @skyesnowfeather2427
      @skyesnowfeather2427 Před 4 lety +153

      I don't even have OCD and I FULLY agree!

    • @ghostqpid3079
      @ghostqpid3079 Před 4 lety +72

      I have OCD and I agree!

    • @DragonPanda131
      @DragonPanda131 Před 4 lety +25

      I'm on the fence on if I have OCD or not, so I definitely need this.

    • @ayanda5967
      @ayanda5967 Před 4 lety +122

      Timothy Crowther no, you need to see someone if that’s the case

    • @PrincessofKeys
      @PrincessofKeys Před 4 lety +4

      Have yet to be diagnosed but Im sure I have it

  • @emmi5277
    @emmi5277 Před 3 lety +7439

    I love how he’s not using the baby voice like other people use when talking to someone who has autism

    • @lisemagic208
      @lisemagic208 Před 3 lety +418

      YES! I go to a public high school and I witness people using that voice and being condescending towards more obviously autistic kids in my classes all the time! (I also have it but I can mask it pretty well). I’ve named it the Hamster Phenomenon, because they are treated like class pets.

    • @Coffee.spider
      @Coffee.spider Před 3 lety +281

      FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!!!

    • @grease317
      @grease317 Před 3 lety +192

      @@lisemagic208 ehh i don’t think people are trying to be Condescending their just trying to be considerate but it just comes douchey

    • @ItsMe-ch1yp
      @ItsMe-ch1yp Před 3 lety +177

      As someone who has spent a lot of time around the autistic community I can say that THIS is true. I don't have that problem, but when ever my friends join me it's like they are talking to a puppy.

    • @Myliu903
      @Myliu903 Před 3 lety +167

      Yes, very true. My older brother has autism but ran into a psychiatrist that used baby talk on him. He was 24 at the time. It was very offensive. Although my brother was pretty calm about it. I was more upset than he was but I respect that about him very much.

  • @sandysutherland-sy3py
    @sandysutherland-sy3py Před 3 měsĂ­ci +8

    People have this idea that autism is bad which is just so wrong.

    • @eeeaten
      @eeeaten Před 2 měsĂ­ci +3

      Well it’s not “good”

  • @guitarmama06
    @guitarmama06 Před rokem +110

    When I was a kid and a young adult, I truly wanted to be 'normal' more than anything in the world. When I was in grade school, I had to take a developmental test. This was back in the early 90s mind you, and the physiatrist didn't say I was autistic, but she did tell my mom that I was "borderline mentally retarded" (I was still in the room, btw, and I do believe that at one point she urged my mom to leave me at a psych ward/mental institution so I wouldn't be a burden on my family, I was terrified for a long time after that. I was actually afraid for my siblings when they acted out, because I was convinced that they would also go to a mental institution).
    My mom did extensive research and told me, when I was 14, that she was fairly certain that I was autistic.

    • @eeeaten
      @eeeaten Před rokem +10

      interesting experience. MR or ID (intellectual disability) was a common diagnosis for kids who are now diagnosed as asd. it wasn't actually meant as an insult or criticism, just a category, but it definitely has negative connotations. the rate of ID diagnosis has fallen around the same speed as the rise in asd diagnosis, which is partly why there appears to be such a rise in asd diagnosis.

    • @flamingpaxtsc
      @flamingpaxtsc Před 11 měsĂ­ci +4

      I’m so sorry you had to be scared like that ❤

    • @Kyra-qn3nh
      @Kyra-qn3nh Před 10 měsĂ­ci +4

      My dad said the exact same thing when I was young. He was sure I was "retarded" (his words). He kept rubbing in my face how stupid he thought I was. I still haven't gotten over it 🙃

    • @blaxx6662
      @blaxx6662 Před 10 měsĂ­ci +3

      ​@@Kyra-qn3nhHope you healed from that experience

    • @k.ferguson2982
      @k.ferguson2982 Před 9 měsĂ­ci +3

      ​​@@Kyra-qn3nhThat's on him. Any parent who would treat ANY child like that is a thoughtless jerk. You deserve love and respect. ❤ Keep your chin up. Sincerely hoping things improve. 👍

  • @keeganlillith9694
    @keeganlillith9694 Před 4 lety +2940

    “It’s an invisible disorder.”
    UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE CENTURY
    I’ve been told I was lying or that I simply couldn’t be autistic because I’m high functioning.

    • @Nemome10
      @Nemome10 Před 4 lety +89

      This!! And also just because it may not be obvious in an adult, that doesn't mean that the symptoms were always invisible. Many people worked really hard and went through a lot to get to where they are as adults and it can be really hurtful for someone to say things like "oh but your autism isn't severe".

    • @jessilynnweibel5254
      @jessilynnweibel5254 Před 4 lety +19

      THANK. YOU.

    • @asuari7305
      @asuari7305 Před 4 lety +39

      I was told that I’m too high functioning to have autism by a psychiatrist but I still feel connected to the community

    • @annathelesbian2605
      @annathelesbian2605 Před 4 lety +15

      Yeah my friend is really not that different, so people don't believe him when he tells them.

    • @Voo9999
      @Voo9999 Před 4 lety

      dang

  • @certlovrboy1089
    @certlovrboy1089 Před 4 lety +3198

    "Why do you have a license?"
    *"Im not blind."*

  • @jackd.rifter3299
    @jackd.rifter3299 Před 8 měsĂ­ci +24

    I found out a few years ago that I'm autistic. My family hid it from me my whole life hoping I would eventually outgrow it and I finally understand more after a few years of research and honestly, I wish I would have known sooner because I would have known what community I should talk with instead of just isolating like I've always done. It's very inspiring though to see all of the great things other autistics have accomplished even if I can't do what they do and it gives me hope and makes me feel pride in something for once. I feel proud to be me instead of feeling ashamed for existing.

    • @ChaosVixen
      @ChaosVixen Před 8 měsĂ­ci +4

      Honey, I spent my whole life thinking I was weird. Turns out - autism. But are we the broken ones? Because in my opinion we care more.

    • @SonnyB.Greenware
      @SonnyB.Greenware Před 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      I just found out a year ago at the age of 21 and it’s changed so much for me. Everything makes sense now! 😂 I’m able to unmask now and it’s so nice. Sometimes I feel like I’m normal and neurotypicals are the “weird” ones 😂😂

    • @jackd.rifter3299
      @jackd.rifter3299 Před 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@SonnyB.Greenware So far I haven't figured out how to unmask and what makes it "funny" is that I was never good at masking anyway and people could tell. 😆

    • @SonnyB.Greenware
      @SonnyB.Greenware Před 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@jackd.rifter3299 it feels weird at first. i felt like i was faking it or performing because i struggle with being perceived. when i would stim it would feel .. silly? but now it feels good and natural for me and it helps me a lot i don’t get burnout so easily! i wish you well on your unmasking journey !!

    • @jackd.rifter3299
      @jackd.rifter3299 Před 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@SonnyB.Greenware I've actually noticed similar with myself! I was taught not to stim as a child to appear "normal" but kept having meltdowns and burnouts.

  • @laislyra5512
    @laislyra5512 Před rokem +193

    My boyfriend has autism and normally I just feel like he's "normal", as in neurotypical. But he does have some time management issues that come with autism, and I have to be patient and remind myself that he's not neurotypical, because it would be easy to conclude any shortcomings happen because he's "just being lazy/irresponsible". Anyway, thanks for this episode.

    • @LordoremiRosa66
      @LordoremiRosa66 Před rokem +1

      Did you dump him?

    • @laislyra5512
      @laislyra5512 Před rokem +56

      @@LordoremiRosa66 what? No, we just started dating. And no, he's not actually lazy.

    • @stewdotart
      @stewdotart Před rokem +36

      @@LordoremiRosa66 that's ridiculous

    • @therealmarkzuckerberg
      @therealmarkzuckerberg Před rokem +45

      @@LordoremiRosa66 Why would she dump him over his disorder if he isn’t doing anything wrong?

    • @george4821
      @george4821 Před rokem +8

      Idk if this is the same with him, but my ultimate goal is to have my friends hold me to an equal standard. That's far more important to me than equal treatment.
      I can't speak for him, but in his postition, I wouldn't want you to be more patient than you would be with anyone else. If I cause issues by being 10 minutes late, there is nothing more respectful than having them say 'Bitch where have you been for the last 10 minutes?'.

  • @nickgrice7288
    @nickgrice7288 Před 4 lety +2912

    “I may be autistic but atleast I’m not dying” -2020
    Love this dude call them out bro sending you love

  • @idkman2633
    @idkman2633 Před 4 lety +2323

    “Why is autism worse than polio” amen brother

    • @Project_Slagharen
      @Project_Slagharen Před 4 lety +17

      It's like saying diarhea tastes better then milk smh.

    • @sammybaby7846
      @sammybaby7846 Před 4 lety +5

      Kraken Rebellion do you want a cookie 🤔

    • @RJIS
      @RJIS Před 4 lety +5

      Idk man and the dumbest comment of the year award goes to you

    • @autumnsprite
      @autumnsprite Před 4 lety +33

      @@Craig_edge2002 the comment is meant to reflect on how antivax people use the false claim that vaccines cause autism seem to prefer the risk of the child getting polio over them getting autism

    • @bruhgrranger4606
      @bruhgrranger4606 Před 4 lety +4

      Kraken Rebellion Nice essay bro

  • @legohunter1020
    @legohunter1020 Před 3 měsĂ­ci +5

    I have autism. Aspergers syndrome. And honestly, if there were to be "cure" for it in the future, I wouldn't take it.
    I don't want to risk my intelligence. I love my level of genius so I don't want to lose it.

  • @viperdemonz-jenkins
    @viperdemonz-jenkins Před rokem +30

    have mild Autism and my little sister has mildly severe Autism. we all knew my sister had Autism her whole life but was only a year ago I found out that I did also. it all makes sense now why she was always drawn to me and we seemed to always understand each other on a level nobody else could.

    • @AldinRamic
      @AldinRamic Před rokem +7

      That's sweet I wish you too well You seem to have a good relationship You seem to have a good relationship With each other

  • @skelly9381
    @skelly9381 Před 4 lety +4935

    i love how the series started as a joke and now its just Anthony being educated by ppl lmao

  • @lepropheteduquebec
    @lepropheteduquebec Před 4 lety +1449

    "Yeah, I have autism but at least I'm not dying!"
    That was perfect.

  • @jgwmain
    @jgwmain Před rokem +37

    News flash: I am autistic too. I was actually born with it.
    I really appreciate your respect and support you’ve showed through this video by trying to understand it instead of acting like you know what we’ve been through (most people I encountered have reacted this way). You’re a great person and I will always support you like I have for the past ten years. Stay true to yourself and keep being you. Anthony, you’re the GOAT.
    Best regards,
    Jonah Waxman (professionally known as JGW)

  • @chiedzawith2ds
    @chiedzawith2ds Před rokem +6

    8:20 I've always felt like having a shutdown is like having a very long, extended panic attack. Days and days or even weeks. It's awful.

  • @In_TheMoonlight
    @In_TheMoonlight Před 4 lety +4929

    “even if it did, why is having autism worse than having, like, polio”
    honestly though
    also just such a great video! amazing job

    • @muhammadsmith5792
      @muhammadsmith5792 Před 4 lety +3

      Bill Gates doesn't have polio, Donald Trump doesn't, Dr Oz doesn't. All the people who tells us to get vaccinated but don't get their own families vaccinated

    • @tiramisumochi4787
      @tiramisumochi4787 Před 4 lety +37

      In The Moonlight this has always been my thought!! Even if the study was valid and there was some concern about vaccines “causing” autism then how is that worse than watching your child suffer with a horrible disease that could potentially cause death 😅

    • @tiramisumochi4787
      @tiramisumochi4787 Před 4 lety +49

      Muhammad Smith im sorry are you saying vaccines are dangerous? 😅 trump doesn’t think vaccines or even most science is real haha. If you haven’t been vaccinated however and you are lucky enough to not catch the disease then it’s literally because you’ve been lucky or are relying on others around you to be vaccinated 😅🤦‍♀️ gamble away if you think it’s the right decision though lol

    • @hiinsanity
      @hiinsanity Před 4 lety +1

      If a disease even broke out, they have enough money to be protected from it.

    • @Tasoq
      @Tasoq Před 4 lety +2

      Pretty much what I've always said in regards to anti-vax

  • @stayquiet476
    @stayquiet476 Před 4 lety +3063

    When the girl started talking about being bullied it really broke my heart she seems so sweet

    • @bridgetison
      @bridgetison Před 4 lety +18

      Stay Quiet Films mine too 💔💔

    • @evolveds2302
      @evolveds2302 Před 4 lety +3

      Dude she’s fucking sped what are you talking about

    • @michellewan2dance
      @michellewan2dance Před 4 lety +5

      @@evolveds2302 What is Sped?

    • @user-oy6hk1gn7l
      @user-oy6hk1gn7l Před 4 lety +62

      @@michellewan2dance Report them. They're going through every top comment with this shit and it's obviously a derogatory term. Not even trying to troll creatively lmao

    • @skyestarseed1778
      @skyestarseed1778 Před 4 lety +12

      Me too :( it's so sad she had to go through that

  • @knotsoangelic
    @knotsoangelic Před rokem +18

    I was diagnosed at 21 (am still, got it recently). It has been a life changer. I went my whole life wondering “what was wrong with me?” and constantly breaking down thinking I was just a failure. Nowadays there’s more compassion for myself and my struggles from me and I’m able to forgive my mistakes.
    We are not broken. We may struggle but there is nothing wrong with us.

  • @MacLeodddd
    @MacLeodddd Před 4 měsĂ­ci +3

    Im autistic and people always tell me I dont "look autistic." Then they hang out with me and realize how boring and strange I am. 😢 I dont drink, smoke, or like to socialize in crowds. It's awful.

  • @warmcozyasmr4094
    @warmcozyasmr4094 Před 4 lety +3509

    “I felt like the world was against me just for existing” that broke me 🥺

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 Před 4 lety +5

      12345678910 i-

    • @MrsMangaLove
      @MrsMangaLove Před 4 lety +16

      That would be nice if Everyone thought the same way you do! As someone with autism i have been bullied for it for such a long time as well, and had an extremely hard time accepting it... It was like i didn't want to be the way i am because people disliked it too much. But i ended up accepting my disorder, cause in the end it's not wrong and i wouldn't be the way i am if i didn't have it. Sure sometimes that's harder to function and think things properly but i can also laugh at myself sometimes and stop blaming myself. Alot of autistic people don't feel accepted and that's really sad

    • @soph1097
      @soph1097 Před 4 lety +8

      @@MrsMangaLove it took me till i was 17 to actually start loving myself and accepting myself
      I got bullied for 12 years straight (all the way through primary and high school) and it made me feel like I should hate myself and that I shouldn't be here but in college I found the most accepting group of friends and the right support staff who encouraged me and made me realise its nothing to be ashamed of
      I get suuuuuper hyper at times and it annoys people so they have to calm me down and I have frequent anxiety attacks but that's just a part of life now.
      My boyfriend calls me quirky and barking mad but he loves it and he helps me through the tough times lol

    • @delyricoracle
      @delyricoracle Před 4 lety +2

      I cried when she said it and again when I read the comment

    • @KingXNYCTallSosa
      @KingXNYCTallSosa Před 4 lety

      @@delyricoracle Me too

  • @_.-_
    @_.-_ Před 4 lety +1938

    Wow, as an autistic person, ive never been so impressed with the way someone has handled the topic of autism, whilst not having it themselves. Im so glad that you were willing to ask questions and really listen to the community on how best to address or phrase certain things. I think every allistic could learn something from the allyship youve shown!

    • @shytown7083
      @shytown7083 Před 4 lety +17

      - how sweet is this comment! i completely agree :'). i hope you have a great day!!!

    • @penpalpenpal2401
      @penpalpenpal2401 Před 4 lety +14

      Same man. Though I have aspergers, its kinda warming to see these people think of autism more so as a trait then a disability. It tends to get you down sometimes what with having a different way of thinking.

    • @cawfrige
      @cawfrige Před 4 lety +6

      i personally have autism as well, but i’m higher functioning than most. i am capable of spotting someone with autism and sometimes i try to give them a friendly introduction to myself. however, when i was little, even though i learnt how to talk at 2, i never talked again until i was 5. i went through countless therapies and other things. my mother was and is so caring for me. i now have 5 siblings, and three of us 3 have something associated with a mental disorder. i love how this video shows the multiple sides to a person with autism!

    • @penpalpenpal2401
      @penpalpenpal2401 Před 4 lety +5

      @@cawfrige Lol I feel ya man. I didn't talk till I was 4 but my really big problem was motor skills. Ironically enough I turned out to be an artist haha.

    • @snowysnowwish
      @snowysnowwish Před 4 lety +2

      very much agreed. im so happy he spoke about it in such a respectful way.

  • @HappyHoney41
    @HappyHoney41 Před rokem +29

    I'm 60 and just found out. It is nice people can find out when they are younger. It is rough to have everything be hard and not understand why. It is difficult to have to 'act normal'. Some Autistic people have very high IQ and can focus on a particular subject and have insight that others may not. Many great people in history have contributed to vast human advancements.

    • @nobodyyou_know7836
      @nobodyyou_know7836 Před rokem +4

      I just got diagnosed at 53. Struggled all my life, particularly with socialisation. Its been a very lonely and difficult journey.

    • @HappyHoney41
      @HappyHoney41 Před rokem +1

      @@nobodyyou_know7836 I don't get lonely. I amuse the heck out of myself. There's no drama. I can be myself. I don't have to do anything anyone else tells me, unless they are the police or the IRS. :)

  • @josephblomstrand2129
    @josephblomstrand2129 Před rokem +13

    As a autistic person myself, I think that these people present a great representation for those of us on the spectrum, and I appreciate how kind and understanding your of us.

  • @sarabeaarr
    @sarabeaarr Před 4 lety +2816

    Oof, I seriously teared up when Jasmine was talking about how she was bullied in school and still get bullied by adults. People can be so cruel.

    • @borizzch
      @borizzch Před 4 lety +9

      SAME HERE

    • @JessieJamesPlays
      @JessieJamesPlays Před 4 lety +49

      Reality is often dissapointing

    • @kotanovakota
      @kotanovakota Před 4 lety +30

      As a former bully myself I had never moved on from my mistakes in life and regretted everyday to take it back

    • @Reblobler
      @Reblobler Před 4 lety +4

      @@kotanovakota asshole

    • @Kim_Marie97
      @Kim_Marie97 Před 4 lety +39

      I nearly killed myself at school right before my graduation because there were these girls who didn't care or want to understand me. Schools need better understanding and discipline because I had every right to be there and not in a special school

  • @smellyrat6009
    @smellyrat6009 Před 4 lety +2987

    It’s so stupid when someone’s using autism as a insult “do you have autism?” Or are just hating

    • @senseispud2197
      @senseispud2197 Před 4 lety +225

      But just owning that shit is funny. Being like "yes I do! Thank you for being so considerate!" is just... great. Leaves them dumbfounded.

    • @happykaeya
      @happykaeya Před 3 lety +176

      Same with when people use gay as an insult

    • @jean_the_bean
      @jean_the_bean Před 3 lety +52

      ikr someone once said to me 'the only test you can pass without studying is autism' - now (waiting for an autism assessment) I'm like yeah, and?

    • @croissant._.003
      @croissant._.003 Před 3 lety +24

      Smelly Rat dude my entire family does that. It makes me want to slap them so bad.

    • @jean_the_bean
      @jean_the_bean Před 3 lety +41

      @Rebecca Ellner sorry - we're saying that people are mean to us or mean to others. I was NOT supporting that insult, I was saying it's really inconsiderate when people say "you have autism" as an offence 😕

  • @sherbetthesheep3916
    @sherbetthesheep3916 Před rokem +98

    I’m extremely happy to see these types of videos! I have been diagnosed with autism for a few years now, and it makes me sooooo happy to see this video! I have struggled with autism for my whole life, and it truly is a tough jorney! It’s hard to be told to “stand out” or “be yourself”, when from an age as young as 3, you learn that yourself is not accepted. I have high functioning autism, aka, I can look you in the eye and can communicate (This is just my high functioning, it’s different for everyone else) but, it’s really hard, because those signs make me seem like a regular old person at first, but then, when I do something off, people become unbelievably cruel, and will rip you to shreds. I do have ptsd, and got it from bullying, (no surprise there) and my trauma lasted from 3rd grade, to 6th, and during that, I completely lost myself. I have a horrible fear of school now, as that’s where it all occurred, and I do get a ptsd induced panic attack about every other day. It’s never been sunshine and rainbows, and this is JUST the bullying aspect of autism, because there is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much more! (I am not saying everyone with autism has ptsd, or was bullied, again, just my personal experience. I was just sharing some social aspects that are hard to deal with, and used my ptsd as an example of a result of all that) But even though all of this is on my plate, I would never EVER change! I love myself, and I find my ability to be able to think differently as truly astounding! I can still do amazing things! Albert Einstein had autism, and look what he accomplished! This disorder is a part of me, and it will be till the day I die! I love my autism, and I am proud to have it! 🧩❤

    • @DavidBowman-mq1bm
      @DavidBowman-mq1bm Před rokem +1

      Carl Sagan and Niel Armstrong were as well.

    • @DavidBowman-mq1bm
      @DavidBowman-mq1bm Před rokem

      Neil rather than Niel. My bad

    • @sherbetthesheep3916
      @sherbetthesheep3916 Před rokem

      @@DavidBowman-mq1bm it’s okay. Didn’t know they had Autism.

    • @AllyFin
      @AllyFin Před rokem +5

      Yeah I hate it when people say 'you can just be yourself' like they'd actually accept you. As if! It seems they just can't handle autistic people.
      People always think people aren't themselves because they make up bad scenarios that'll actually never happen .
      The only reason I'm not completely myself is because other people taught me not to be and because all the bad scenarios happened before I even knew they could happen. I was myself until other people stopped me.

    • @sherbetthesheep3916
      @sherbetthesheep3916 Před rokem +4

      @@AllyFin I agree with everything you said! It’s so true! From a very young age, I was taught not to be myself, cause I would be shut out when I was myself, but now the people who shut me out are telling me to be myself!? I also hate how people treat you like crap and say horrible things, but once you say you have Autism, they only feel bad for saying mean things to you because you have a disorder! Don’t say mean things in the first place!

  • @ReubenAStern
    @ReubenAStern Před rokem +9

    I hope no one thinks autism is a super power. People with low functioning autism need care 24/7. Some of them act like babies their entire life. Their carers need to grip their arm tightly when they walk down the street.

    • @hikaru9624
      @hikaru9624 Před rokem +3

      That's the problem with how media portrays disorders such as autism. It's either vegetable or superman but weird.

  • @lauracourtney3791
    @lauracourtney3791 Před 4 lety +3808

    As a person with Autism, I feel appreciated and respected. I appreciate the way you handled this.
    Edit: oml thank you so much for all the likes! Usually I get like 2 lol ❤😊
    2nd edit: omg almost 4k likes!? You people are too nice. ❤

    • @logician9116
      @logician9116 Před 4 lety +25

      Laura, I noticed you used person first language in that disclosure. How do you feel about the title being labeled as "Autistic people" instead of "People with autism?" Just curious.

    • @melu0o
      @melu0o Před 4 lety +11

      Jimmy Burner Autistic people and people with autism are the same thing just labeled differently

    • @theatrics
      @theatrics Před 4 lety

      not really

    • @logician9116
      @logician9116 Před 4 lety +5

      pineapplehead • 28 years ago While that’s technically true, people have different preferences. As one commenter with autism mentioned, “autistic” has had too much use as a pejorative to feel positively about being called.

    • @lamusico7746
      @lamusico7746 Před 4 lety +6

      This was a wholesome episode tbh

  • @callmekremit7147
    @callmekremit7147 Před 4 lety +22494

    Not saying Anthony doesn’t have his flaws, he’s only human, but if everyone on earth had even a fraction of Anthony’s kindness and acceptance the world would be a better place

    • @adampatel8763
      @adampatel8763 Před 4 lety +247

      Damn straight.

    • @Xervolmao
      @Xervolmao Před 4 lety +240

      *creeps out of the shadows*
      I just want people to stop associating autistic (and a variety of other things) with furries. Like, lemme just be me. Stop, just brainlessly attacking me as soon as you know I'm a furry. One half of me gets pissed off, the other gets a true taste of the cruel and crippling world. Either way, it's not great.
      K bye now!

    • @SillyChickens222
      @SillyChickens222 Před 4 lety +54

      CallMeKremit he vibes with each person so well! I love it!

    • @callmekremit7147
      @callmekremit7147 Před 4 lety +23

      Infinity_ Tivon_ it must be pretty tough out there for you guys, hang in there

    • @erin7014
      @erin7014 Před 4 lety +9

      Well said friend

  • @KittyPlays4Evry1
    @KittyPlays4Evry1 Před rokem +11

    I doubt this comment will be seen, but the puzzle piece is actually more of a hate symbol for autistic people! It represents autistic people "missing a piece" of themselves, and to encourage us to "find that piece". This is insinuating we are broken and need to be fixed

    • @e.l.studios455
      @e.l.studios455 Před rokem +2

      for me the missing piece means to seek the missing piece of being happy with yourself and your disorder

    • @heythisanimalcantalk
      @heythisanimalcantalk Před rokem +2

      ​@@e.l.studios455 it's good that you can interpet it that way, but that's not what it is intended to mean.

    • @rainespells1273
      @rainespells1273 Před 3 měsĂ­ci

      Yep and we’re “puzzling” to these people who make no effort to learn our language whereas we’re constantly having to communicate in theirs

  • @machazychaz
    @machazychaz Před rokem +9

    6:33 was such a sweet moment. I think most parents want to give their child the best chance at being happy, but while they may have not known what they found out with the diagnosis, it seems you still had a good relationship.

  • @Bri-ss1gu
    @Bri-ss1gu Před 4 lety +791

    I cried when Jasmine said that a teacher used to ask children to bully her during recess. Some people should not be allowed to work with children.

    • @mortalcoral2196
      @mortalcoral2196 Před 4 lety +25

      Some really terrible people are drawn to teaching because it’s a position of power over the kids

    • @juliuskazunaga8916
      @juliuskazunaga8916 Před 4 lety

      Or some people should just die.

    • @glassegg4119
      @glassegg4119 Před 4 lety +7

      That honestly made me so mad

    • @xanderg.1070
      @xanderg.1070 Před 4 lety +2

      I know exactly how she feels, I am autistic myself, and I was bullied and treated like an embarrassment when I was in elementary, middle, and high school, by a lot of students,even some of the teachers and counselors, especially in elementary school. And it was so bad that I would often think that life would of been better if I never existed, and that the people around me would be happier.

    • @Bri-ss1gu
      @Bri-ss1gu Před 4 lety +1

      Mortal Coral I honestly feel like those people never grew up themselves - they’re still mentally in whatever grade they’re teaching. I guess part of the reason why that hit me so hard is because I could relate to it, I got bullied a lot as a kid and some immature teachers would participate. Thankfully most of my teachers were very kind and were great examples of how adults are supposed to behave, so I always saw the few mean teachers as pathetic. Like how much does your life have to suck to be trying to impress 10-year-old bullies?

  • @kitaichisora5141
    @kitaichisora5141 Před 4 lety +4114

    I swear Anthony is the most respectful, caring and supportive person. I wish more people were like Anthony because they always keep an open mind and tries to understand everyone

    • @muhammadsmith5792
      @muhammadsmith5792 Před 4 lety +17

      Unless it's flat earthers. He just hired actors and made fun of them. He needs to do that video again

    • @rabihalawani7174
      @rabihalawani7174 Před 4 lety +37

      Muhammad Smith tbh it’s really hard to take those people seriously. They’re almost trying to get made fun of

    • @bones22j
      @bones22j Před 4 lety

      He’s trying to run a successful CZcams channel, and not ruffle any feathers. So of course he’s respectful.

    • @TheJesusAlejandra
      @TheJesusAlejandra Před 4 lety +11

      SpecialBooksBySpecialKids is a channel that does these kinds of interviews as well. He is a saint, he interviews and gives people with all kinds of disabilities a voice

    • @heysaucemikehere1804
      @heysaucemikehere1804 Před 4 lety +2

      Ale Lagarda Thank you for introducing me to this channel!

  • @NikkiNotion
    @NikkiNotion Před 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    From the start supporting artist. Thanks Anthony for supporting all you collaborate with. ❤

  • @vampchan3339
    @vampchan3339 Před 4 lety +1445

    bro im actually in tears rn, no joke. listening to that girl who got bullied made me feel so bad for her. nobody deserves to be treated that way especially if they have a disorder. i grew up having multiple friends with autism and it rlly breaks my heart to see people with it being mistreated just bc others don't fully understand what it is.

    • @faerielle2389
      @faerielle2389 Před 4 lety +7

      knives I know, people are so cruel and judgmental tbh it just makes them look ignorant really. I haven’t really met a lot of people with autism but seriously know they’re still people with feelings just like every human on this earth .

    • @5lomar
      @5lomar Před 4 lety +3

      I'd leave a like but this already has the perfect number of likes lol
      Damn it, it was at 420 lol

    • @mattspencer3773
      @mattspencer3773 Před 4 lety +4

      I'm literally in tears right now too after hearing her story. People are so mean for no damn reason. She's a normal human being and she gets bullied for being slightly different? That killed me.

    • @CrixJoki
      @CrixJoki Před 4 lety +6

      unfortunately most of us have gone through a lot of shit growing up....not only in schools, with doctors too, but that´s been evolving lately, I didn´t get my diagnoses until I was 27, had to go through over 10 years wrongly diagnosed and wrongly (heavy) medicated, meanwhile they accused me of not wanting to get better or that I didn't try hard enough, they said I was lazy and that all my problems were just in my head, that I really had no problem besides laziness.
      Even as an adult, if I have someone with me when I go to the doctors, they usually talk over my head to the person I have with me, like I´m not even there, or they treat me as a child, deaf, blind and/or stupid....it´s sad that they still does it, like come on, it´s 2020 now, doctors SHOULD know what Autism is by now.....

    • @chacharoni9638
      @chacharoni9638 Před 4 lety +2

      same i just wanted to give her a hug

  • @ayojadxn
    @ayojadxn Před 3 lety +3928

    “People get built different; we don’t have to understand it, we just have to respect it”

    • @ChristainVonBerryStein
      @ChristainVonBerryStein Před 3 lety +51

      Is this a quote from adventure Time?

    • @chickenfdisoruhg4915
      @chickenfdisoruhg4915 Před 3 lety +48

      @@ChristainVonBerryStein you know it dawg. It was from Season 7 too.

    • @dreamcost7227
      @dreamcost7227 Před 3 lety +18

      @@ChristainVonBerryStein i knew i heard that quote from somewhere

    • @iam_sherlocked8421
      @iam_sherlocked8421 Před 2 lety +6

      I don't know why that "people get built different" reminded me of that tiktok meme, where the muscular man breaks an egg with his muscle and says, "I'm built different" :D but very good point and quote nonetheless!

    • @SunIsLost
      @SunIsLost Před 2 lety

      True yes

  • @peery_continental
    @peery_continental Před rokem +13

    That girl seems very nice, I think I relate to her experiences because for a short time I was bullied and teachers accused me of being rebellious and incapable of learning. As someone with autism (unfortunately) I had it before anyone understood it on a larger scale. We just seemed….off-beat…but actually, it’s like music. Many people are so used to living life in 4/4 time signatures but as autistic people (high functioning especially) we tend to operate in the odd-time…it’s only odd because everyone generally stays in 4/4 that’s all they know. Try listening to Dizzie Gellespie’s “Salt Peanuts” and you get it. Being autistic or having Asperger’s is a lot like Jazz music to the ears of a pophead. Nothing wrong with pop but other genre’s do exist and perhaps aren’t as widely accepted and takes certain people to get it but you know, we are extremely open to your efforts at communicating and building friendships with us.

  • @quinnost-volmers
    @quinnost-volmers Před rokem +2

    Thx for taking the time to do this Anthony. As a person on the spectrum it’s great to see that I’m not just some social outcast who doesn’t blend in with the world. And to all of the people that took the time to watch this video, thx. Because I know that a lot of you care.🙏

  • @Rei-go4hw
    @Rei-go4hw Před 4 lety +1839

    I have an autistic person in my class, and the teachers are very rude to her. Not directly, because that would be too straightforward, but more like, they make her sit on her bench all alone, and if some student misbehaves, they make them sit with her.
    And that’s so horrible.
    The other students make no effort to be kind to her, and I think that’s very unhealthy for her mental health.

    • @howclassy2148
      @howclassy2148 Před 4 lety +115

      Rei Maybe you could talk to her? Ask her how she’s feeling

    • @voidworm8377
      @voidworm8377 Před 4 lety +94

      drop the addy i’ll fight them

    • @Rei-go4hw
      @Rei-go4hw Před 4 lety +39

      cherrywhoop, Protection squad unite!

    • @sarahcreasey8592
      @sarahcreasey8592 Před 4 lety +22

      This makes me sad 😞

    • @alyssarasmussen1723
      @alyssarasmussen1723 Před 4 lety +53

      Be nice and become her friend! Who cares what other people or what your friends think. Be a kind person and show everyone they're wrong!

  • @fannywessinger3856
    @fannywessinger3856 Před 4 lety +4759

    “I spent a day with psychopaths” that’s something I would love to see. I feel like everyone thinks psychopaths = serial killers which isn’t really true. Anyways I would love to hear how they see the world and stuff. Please do a video on that

    • @feliciasisk494
      @feliciasisk494 Před 4 lety +44

      Jessica Kent talked about this on her channel as she is diagnosed that.

    • @novahmartin2770
      @novahmartin2770 Před 4 lety +24

      That would be an interesting video and so would I spent a day with serial killers

    • @frace3824
      @frace3824 Před 4 lety +112

      Most psychopaths wouldn't want to expose themselves.

    • @sarahlynn4721
      @sarahlynn4721 Před 4 lety +16

      @@feliciasisk494 I LOVE JESS!!! I've been watching her for about a year and I absolutely adore her. I was just about to come down here and bring up anti-social personality disorder and how they're commonly viewed negatively because of the psychopath thing. It would be amazing if he interviewed her.

    • @feliciasisk494
      @feliciasisk494 Před 4 lety

      @@sarahlynn4721 i found her through Christina Randall, admittedly I watch Christina every time and Jess sometimes

  • @nadinec4895
    @nadinec4895 Před rokem +2

    I have autism and struggle with loud spaces and social interaction and this is just like awesome to bring up the topic

  • @AisBarks
    @AisBarks Před 4 měsĂ­ci +4

    Thank you for this, @AnthonyPadilla. Autism and autistic people really need to be brought into the light today. It’s not a disease, nor something to be feared. Autistic people can do amazing things, if society would only give us a chance. Thank you for supporting us instead of believing the stereotypical hype. Bless. 🌈♾️

  • @xxk4ixx2001
    @xxk4ixx2001 Před 4 lety +2340

    Do a “I spent the day with homeless people or past homeless” it could help knowledge some people on their situation or past and how common it is

    • @RICK-APEX
      @RICK-APEX Před 4 lety +12

      Let Anthony see this comment please!

    • @Purin_cupps
      @Purin_cupps Před 4 lety

      Yes

    • @enra1695
      @enra1695 Před 4 lety

      omg yes!!

    • @david90mm33
      @david90mm33 Před 4 lety +14

      People can become homeless overnight. What i always wanted to hear is story's of people who went from homeless to actually living a decent life and HOW did they do it.

    • @serenityconsole8792
      @serenityconsole8792 Před 4 lety

      Kailah L yes

  • @Jacob-od3jh
    @Jacob-od3jh Před 4 lety +2365

    “You didn’t notice that other people did not have aids?” IM SCREAMING

  • @abigail9606
    @abigail9606 Před rokem +1

    I have autism and this made me tear up. Thank you for taking the time and letting people from the community have a voice to share what it's like.

  • @kokoduspcy
    @kokoduspcy Před 11 měsĂ­ci +4

    I'd love a part 2 of Anthony inviting autistic people because there's a lot unsaid in this video and it would be amazing to talk about other aspects of autism on this channel

  • @sl2815
    @sl2815 Před 4 lety +1701

    Dang the way that Anthony changed his ending from "completely understand" to "understand just a little bit more" of their world. I appreciate that.

    • @cashtonisok
      @cashtonisok Před 4 lety +5

      Sorry I don’t think I can like your comment because it would be unsatisfying since it’s as 444

    • @conor7474
      @conor7474 Před 4 lety

      CashtonIsOk however now it’s at 465 and could’ve been 466 if you had liked it ;-;

    • @jarod160
      @jarod160 Před 4 lety

      Sledge Main I just got it to 600 😂

  • @augusth7975
    @augusth7975 Před 3 lety +4590

    "I felt like the world was against me for existing" breaks my heart :(

    • @ThatDevMatOfficial
      @ThatDevMatOfficial Před 3 lety +142

      As an autistic person, I know I experienced so much bullying and I had no idea why. I believe most autistic people can relate to feeling the world was against them. I’m 20 and have never had a long term friendship with anyone. My longest real friendship was less than a year. It can be more effort for Nurotypical people but I like to think that I bring a lot to a friendship.

    • @ciaran4135
      @ciaran4135 Před 3 lety +63

      @@ThatDevMatOfficial I can relate. For me as an autistic person, I was bullied and misunderstood by students and teachers alike. I've really struggled with relationships. I have really been trying, but opening up is so difficult, especially after so much time being sidelined by everyone. I'm 18 and am still trying, but COVID has made it so hard for me, and I'm not exactly an outgoing person to begin with.

    • @IamAwsomeYouAreNot
      @IamAwsomeYouAreNot Před 3 lety +40

      I am autistic and I can say for sure..I felt like the world was against me. I got bullied by both teachers and students alike and babytalked to when I argued with them to stop. I just felt no one took me seriously at all and treated my life like it was a joke. I was punched in the stomach and in the face once for merely standing by a flower bed staring off into space. I know I am hated..but please respect me and take me seriously.

    • @mikesgirl8304
      @mikesgirl8304 Před 3 lety +7

      My son is Autistic and I just want to give her the biggest hug (if she would let me) and just tell her she's perfect the way she is and she could always have me as a friend

    • @manicpepsicola3431
      @manicpepsicola3431 Před 3 lety +5

      Im autistic and this is so relateable ive only had one long term friend and shes also neurodivergent and we met when i was 22

  • @lalaberretta2487
    @lalaberretta2487 Před rokem

    i’m so late to watching this video, but i would love to see an updated version of this! since 2020, so much research has come out about the spectrum and there’s new debates about self diagnosis that people are once again, leaving autistic people out of. anthony did a great job navigating this, however i think a wider range of the spectrum is possible to be shown. it’s just continuously developing and the developments are important to keep up with

  • @tuxninja7
    @tuxninja7 Před rokem +1

    i absolutely adore that Anthony starts every single episode asking individually how they like to be referred to in regards to the discussed disorder/experience etc

  • @reziiel
    @reziiel Před 4 lety +1346

    Did no one notice how he changed the conversation ending? So instead of, "I feel like I fully understand the wondrous world of autism." he said, "I feel like I understand the wondrous world of autism, just a little bit more." Which I found really sweet.
    Great job on this whole series Anthony, you've changed me to be more open-minded and understanding. :)

  • @ruthrivas3235
    @ruthrivas3235 Před 4 lety +677

    "I fee like I am a normal person sometimes."
    That broke my heart. I literally cried.
    Just because you're different doesnt mean your less human. Just because you're not neurotypical doesn't mean you're not normal.

    • @danig.6454
      @danig.6454 Před 4 lety +10

      I feel the same, my little girl is autistic, I fear so much for the future.

    • @matchamochi781
      @matchamochi781 Před 4 lety +11

      It’s not even the matter of being different everyone is different, no two people are the same. Don’t ever feel ashamed to not be like someone else. I wasn’t born with autism, but I was born with a physical disability. Sometimes the fact that you are constantly being called different is the worst part. I can’t speak for autistic people because I don’t understand the Inter working of each person with autism, but I do know that if the “norm” was the minority, than the people in the minority wouldn’t be nearly as strong as they are. If you have autism or anything else seen as a disability there is nothing wrong with you, it is just the way others see you because they don’t understand. Thank you for being so strong, treat those out that don’t get you with patience, because for as many people who will mock you and turn a blind eye, there are others that will sit down by you and listen. There are people who will see you not as a label or stereotype and assume a role of you, rather as a individual. It’s good to have differences because differences are normal, and they open up a whole new world of perspective, something needed for growth in the world.

    • @Mar-velousMarlenak8
      @Mar-velousMarlenak8 Před 4 lety

      Well said!

    • @retrothecake1921
      @retrothecake1921 Před 4 lety +2

      The thing is people with autism are normal people

    • @chasewalters5425
      @chasewalters5425 Před 4 lety +1

      Raven Murdoc that made me sad to this whole video made me sad

  • @WoofN
    @WoofN Před rokem +1

    Thank you for making this. As someone autistic, we need more of this.

  • @manditee28
    @manditee28 Před rokem +4

    As a person who has autism. This video is so enlightening, and I appreciate it. I appreciate feeling seen.

  • @FloatyyBrain
    @FloatyyBrain Před rokem +4817

    Me two years ago: Oh this is such a cool video! Some of my friends with autism would like this ha ha.
    Me now: *diagnosed with autism*

  • @zia9861
    @zia9861 Před 4 lety +5145

    We are currently learning about autism in my school and our teacher showed this video to us
    (unnecessary) edit: for everyone who doesn't believe this for whatever reason- i'd just like to clarify that I'm from another time zone so when this was first uploaded, it wasn't early in the morning for me :) what's really important is that lots of people at my school got to be educated about autism! so let's try not to change the subject.

    • @xMika_
      @xMika_ Před 4 lety +181

      I wish they had that in my school.

    • @_alysia
      @_alysia Před 4 lety +140

      That's honestly great your teacher is doing something like that. Hopefully this will become a common thing for all schools. I honestly wish I had something like that when I was in school. I didn't know what asperger's was until I was diagnosed with it when I was 18.

    • @Tyler-xs5id
      @Tyler-xs5id Před 4 lety +19

      Yup wish ours did that so they understand me

    • @deni69
      @deni69 Před 4 lety +14

      Yeah 100 %

    • @kerrysue9280
      @kerrysue9280 Před 4 lety +12

      That is really awesome! So much can be learned from this video!

  • @JohnPork640
    @JohnPork640 Před 11 měsĂ­ci +5

    For me, having autism makes me feel like I’m playing Minecraft creative mode and hardcore mode at the same time.

  • @elliestar8758
    @elliestar8758 Před rokem +1

    Anthony is so good at making the world and people around us understand physical and mental abilities great guy

  • @zoepatton6626
    @zoepatton6626 Před 4 lety +2001

    I really appreciate that 2 out of the 3 people you interviewed were girls, because autism in girls is considerably less diagnosed than in boys because we often present differently and a lot of the studies and information available on autism is based on boys behaviour and studies on boys. This video almost made me cry and I am so glad you're doing this amazing series that is educating people in a positive and informative way. It feels good to be recognised and represented

    • @The_killing_moon
      @The_killing_moon Před 4 lety +51

      I feel the same! I’m also a girl and I’ve just recently been speculating that I have Asperger’s syndrome. My therapist highly expects my to have AS but I still need to be officially diagnosed, so I won’t claim to have AS I just claim to have a lot of the same struggles that come with AS. But it is true, I’m almost 15 and the only reason I’m getting tested is because me and my parents started doing research on our own, I’ve been seeing therapists since I was 7 and NOBODY has ever talked about the possibility of AS, just because I’m ‘good’ at talking. They’ve said I’m depressed, have an anxiety disorder, highly sensitive and even that I have anger issues. AS connects all of my struggles and it feels so relieving, I never knew where to start because all my issues where separate things that I didn’t know how to ‘fix’. Even finding a place that separates masculine and feminine cases of AS was extremely hard. There needs to be a lot more awareness about this issue since most women go undiagnosed their whole life.

    • @katelynmorley6795
      @katelynmorley6795 Před 4 lety +19

      I thought the exact same thing, I'm an autistic woman and it was the first thing I noticed.

    • @moonwalkerangel7008
      @moonwalkerangel7008 Před 4 lety +18

      I'm a woman diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. I was diagnosed originally when I was 4 but I did not know until I was 13 in 2005. It does affect girls differently to boys, but it also affects people on an individual level. The reason boys are more commonly researched is due to the chromosome affecting the male gene on the father's side. If anyone is looking for research done on Girls with Asperger's Syndrome (now called High Functioning Autism) I would recommend looking at DR Tony Attwood's research. He's one of the experts who has done research on the subject. I'm proud to be an Aspie woman.

    • @LauraGln
      @LauraGln Před 4 lety +1

      I actually think I'm an aspie, but I did a test and basically the results were "you can talk and are very adult-ish so maybe you are maybe you're not". I feel like I have been tested on the base of male autism characteristic and that they excluded the fact that I'm grown up and that I had plenty of time to learn to look at people, to talk to them naturally and to "hide" my differences. They were really, "so you think this person is sad by looking at her face? So you're not aspie" but I only knew it because I read books about expressions and I know that the eyes are like this when someone is sad, that's all.
      Well... It sounds like I'm complaining... I just wanted to add that I think the tests aren't so effective when you had time to learn to understand the world and not to be too strange.
      And I wanted to add the fact that asperger syndrome mixed with high intellectual potential is even harder to find, and if you're a girl... You will struggle to know if you're really not asperger or if someone just missed it.

    • @lilleewakefield6862
      @lilleewakefield6862 Před 4 lety +9

      Yea did you notice the boy was diagnosed at 4 but the girl wasn't diagnosed until teenage years

  • @NCon-to5wn
    @NCon-to5wn Před 4 lety +1583

    I just wish people would stop using autism as an insult or a replacement for the word “bad”. That goes for any disorder or disease in my opinion.

    • @meinmyaveragelife537
      @meinmyaveragelife537 Před 4 lety +7

      Yep like I suffer from something and can only express "feelings" through writing or typing of sum sort that's a lil hint

    • @green--apple
      @green--apple Před 4 lety +51

      Yeah it's pretty stupid. Back in the day, it was gay. Now it's autistic. People suck lol

    • @romangonzalezadrianmaurici6302
      @romangonzalezadrianmaurici6302 Před 4 lety +7

      Your comment grave me cancer

    • @NCon-to5wn
      @NCon-to5wn Před 4 lety +13

      You are hilarious, absolutely the most funny person on the planet... go purposefully be a jerk somewhere else please and thank you

    • @stikk_bugg
      @stikk_bugg Před 4 lety +28

      "Gay" and "autistic"
      None of them should be used as an insult
      I'm gay and I can relate how you can feel really bad about people using who you are as an insult
      It makes yourself look like some bad thing
      Even my friends use the word gay to insult people even if I've told them it makes me uncomfortable because "gay" isn't an insult
      Neither should "autistic" be

  • @boobunnylovesyou
    @boobunnylovesyou Před 6 měsĂ­ci +2

    I love being autistic, it’s the misunderstanding that others have that I hate. People don’t educate themselves about it and therefore treat me and other autistic people with disrespect and hate.

  • @KingBalusa
    @KingBalusa Před 3 dny

    Great content and big respect for everyone coming to speak their truth 🤲🏾👂🏾💯

  • @BP9000
    @BP9000 Před 4 lety +705

    "How is having autism worse than dying of polio"
    This guys sense of humor is out of sight

  • @shirogoma4315
    @shirogoma4315 Před 4 lety +1090

    I have a girl in my art class who’s told me she has autism & she’s honestly the nicest person I’ve ever met + she’s a very talented artist!
    (update 3 years later: uhh turns out im also autistic LOL no wonder why we got along so well)

    • @christianweber7435
      @christianweber7435 Před 4 lety +3

      She must be “artistic”

    • @RandomMre.
      @RandomMre. Před 4 lety

      Something Sketchy I knew someone would say that😬

    • @himbokyles
      @himbokyles Před 4 lety +4

      Having autism can have its good points,some people have advantages form it (art,singing,maths and things like that)

    • @Sosabidoce
      @Sosabidoce Před 4 lety +1

      That's cool but I don't remember asking

    • @elis.9862
      @elis.9862 Před 4 lety

      Rue Akuma 900th like

  • @Raccoonboi634
    @Raccoonboi634 Před rokem

    As someone with ASD I’m very glad that it’s getting more word out there

  • @aidensudeyko183
    @aidensudeyko183 Před 9 měsĂ­ci

    Anthony is doing amazing things interviewing these people getting their voices out and educating people keep it up man ❤

  • @luutas
    @luutas Před 4 lety +1715

    Some indication for next videos:
    * Tourette's syndrome;
    * Deaf community;
    * Albinism;
    * Dwarfism;
    * Vitiligo;
    * Blindness;
    * Stutterer.
    This channel is amazing 👏👏👏
    Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷

    • @Username-it8co
      @Username-it8co Před 4 lety +35

      OCD would be interesting

    • @floppa5032
      @floppa5032 Před 4 lety +13

      Would be hard to make a video with the deaf community as he would need a sign language translator which could possibly be hard

    • @luutas
      @luutas Před 4 lety +19

      @@floppa5032. That's one more reason to make this video. To show people how it can be hard for a deaf person to communicate

    • @luutas
      @luutas Před 4 lety +1

      @@_nom_, in portuguese this disease is called "SĂ­ndrome de Bolsonaro"

    • @tabithayates4761
      @tabithayates4761 Před 4 lety +2

      Omg id love for him to be in a video with Molly!!! (Blind youtuber)

  • @notcallie2003
    @notcallie2003 Před 4 lety +1727

    I really like how he interviewed people that are on different places on the spectrum. It really shines a different light on autism rather than the way a lot of people try to scare people away from people with autism.

    • @hobelarge6389
      @hobelarge6389 Před 4 lety +10

      Out of genuine curiosity, which people were on which parts of the spectrum

    • @sophiehimlin6722
      @sophiehimlin6722 Před 4 lety +7

      I feel as tho hey talked with peps with higher functionality on purpose

    • @kellyjokanovich3939
      @kellyjokanovich3939 Před 4 lety +65

      Sophie Himlin to be fair he had to make sure they were people who could hold a conversation and wouldn’t get too anxious around the cameras and lights, as well as were able to communicate by themselves

    • @sophiehimlin6722
      @sophiehimlin6722 Před 4 lety +3

      Kelly Jokanovich yea I 100% understand why I’m just saying the original comment saying he got people from all over the spectrum was false

    • @bottlebound1860
      @bottlebound1860 Před 4 lety

      Exempt my area but yeh

  • @Bbkntenn
    @Bbkntenn Před 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Thank you for making beautiful videos like these my brother has autism and this helped me understand it more❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ssomeeoonee
    @Ssomeeoonee Před 10 měsĂ­ci +3

    9:44, as someone who doesn’t have autism I still agree. My friend said “I have autism” one day and I just said “oh cool” and we kept on talking like nothing ever happened

  • @darlingdarylann3453
    @darlingdarylann3453 Před 4 lety +4414

    He is actually the best guy ever, we need more people like him if we had a world with only him it would be the best place ever.

  • @chloenicole8518
    @chloenicole8518 Před 3 lety +3302

    My boyfriend is autistic and it breaks my heart when he tells me he wishes he didn’t have it. I think his brain is beautiful.

    • @rubensdungeon8171
      @rubensdungeon8171 Před 2 lety +178

      Man, this comment made me so happy. It’s enough to make a grown man cry

    • @elevenpoisons2484
      @elevenpoisons2484 Před 2 lety +41

      Bless you

    • @QuantumBoogaloo
      @QuantumBoogaloo Před 2 lety +95

      As someone (very likely, couldn’t get a diagnosis cuz insurance) on the spectrum, I understand the feeling. Neurotypical and neurodivergent thought works completely differently. It’s difficult to understand what other people are thinking sometimes, even if it’s super obvious to most people by their facial expression or something. I read a book one time that really illuminated to me the differences. It kind of explained why everyone else seemed so weird to me. The Asperkid's (Secret) Book of Social Rules

    • @suzanne4107
      @suzanne4107 Před 2 lety +51

      As someone who has autism, we seem nice from the outside, but on the inside we just think about so much and think about too much at the time. From the outside it seems different than it really is. Inside our brains it’s different than what we can even tell

    • @sallucien9454
      @sallucien9454 Před 2 lety +30

      @@QuantumBoogaloo I just want you to know that you are very valid, even if you are quote unquote self-diagnosed. It is extremely hard to get a diagnosis, especially if you were assigned female at birth (Not assuming that, just saying). I also am not legally diagnosed but I have a close friend who "diagnosed me" because I have almost the exact same traits as he does. Unfortunately my family believes that I'm just perfectly fine and just have some issues socializing because I'm "shy". I also have really bad insurance which makes it harder for me to get a therapist, which would be about the only way I could ask to be tested. Considering I have a close autistic friend who strongly believes I am autistic, and I've been doing months of research now, it's pretty safe to say that I am autistic and I introduce myself as autistic to people despite not having a legal diagnosis. Getting diagnosed is difficult and your autism is still valid even if you can't have a paper that says it. I wish you luck in getting a diagnosis :)

  • @erolshoehle
    @erolshoehle Před rokem +1

    It felt like they really felt comfortable around Anthony. So beautiful ❤

  • @notfavorite
    @notfavorite Před rokem

    Thank you so much for covering this topic, I am autistic and have ADHD which I really appreciate you getting the truth about autism! Keep up the good videos Anthony!