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- Twelve-year-old Christian Cunniffe has beaten up his entire family. He's set fire to his bedroom, stabbed his sister with a knitting needle and hit his mother seventeen times with a plank of wood.
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no one realizes how traumatizing it is to grow up with a violent brother. people never take it seriously, because it's "normal" for siblings to "fight", but this kind of abuse should be taken as seriously as abusive parents.
Especially against the older siblings if they try to fight back there called the abusers
THIS!!!!!!
Agreed those kids need to live in peace, he'd be gone if it were mine. It's always been about him in this video....guess what it needs to be about them. He needs to be removed, he's dangerous.
ABSOLUTELY BECAUSE I GREW UP WITH AN OLDER ABUSIVE BROTHER, FATHER, AND MOTHER WHO REWARDED MY OLDER BROTHER WITH TRIPS, CASH, BIKES, AND ANYTHING ELSE HE MAY HAVE WANTED FOR BEATING UP ON ME A SMALL LITTLE 6-MONTH-OLD BABY GIRL AND IT CONTINUED UNTIL I WAS 21.
Oh believe me you I do....
I accidentally said "shut up" to my mom worst day of my life
lol me and my mom cuss together
Desmond Smith same here lol
AnonymousCow R.I.P
You rebel you
AnonymousCow I've said that like 10 times why did u say it and what was your mum like
Just looked it up. Christian is now 30 years years old. Since June of 2022, he is serving a 15 month long sentence after numerous drunken abuse cases against his pregnant wife. Prior to that he served an 8 week sentence in January for a similar incident. He has had two kids with his wife, both of whom are very young. His partner is of the forgiving nature and has not filed a restraining order, she will likely let Christian back into the lives of her and the two kids. Considering his proclivity to violence, I am certain those children will fare violent abuse as well. It is a really sad situation . It is clear he is a violent, he should not be allowed near his children
Thank you for this!
thanks for the update! was hoping for something more positive :(
You mean he married someone?! What the?!?!
Oh, but we should never ever ever spank the little darlings. That's what all the CPS losers say.
He needs a psychiatric Hospital
When you hear that this 'kid' is actually a fully grown adult now who's been incarcerated for beating his wife with whom he has children, this whole story just seems so sad. Clearly he wasn't given the necessarily tools to overcome this.
Yeah he shouldn’t be allowed to have any unsupervised access to his kids armed guards type of thing
some people simply can't be fixed
Screaming “ calm down “ in someone’s face has never calmed anyone down in the history of calming down.
Exactly she seems to antagonise him
Word!!
You're right. But things get a point where you are frustrated beyond reason.
That's correct and I'd think typically that it'd come off and would be aggressive in ways.
LOL FACTS
I honestly thought the 16 year old daughter did the right thing by leaving the household. It was probably for the best and for her own safety.
Yeah sure she did what the father said was just disgusting and hurtfull
@@justsomedude2882 what was that?
@@victoriam.8652 you mean what the father said?
@@justsomedude2882 mo, I mean what was hurtful and disgusting?
@@victoriam.8652 just that he is making her feel bad by telling her they need her they are the reason she is leaving her parents have failed to protect her and give her what she needs they should encourage her to make this decision for herself not alot of peoble do this if they are being abused so making her feel bad about it is disgusting and really hurtfull for her because she still loves her family the same its just not liveable with a brother like that
This was so frustrating to watch. Both those parents are failing all of their children. The fact that no one has stepped in to protect the siblings from Christian is just such an injustice. And every time she was asked about her biggest fear it was that Christian would end up in jail, facing consequences for his actions, and never a mention of being worried he would seriously injure his siblings. The mom just calmly listing all of the life-threatening ways Christian has abused his sister including stomping on her neck, beating her with a brick, and holding a knife to her throat, and then just shrugging like "oh well, what can I do." The daughter is dead to the mom because she finally put her own safety first. Every time Christian was on screen with his brothers he was hurting them and the parents were just sitting there and watching it happen!
The mom is only finally seeking help because Christian moved on from just hurting his siblings to hurting her too. Terrible parenting. I feel so bad for the two younger brothers who are just eternally Christian's punching bags.
I agree with every word you said…those siblings didn’t stand a chance because of their terrible parenting
If Dr. Phil knew about this he would remove Chucky or the other children 😳🙄😐😒🤔to protect the other children. Actually, he would tell the parents to let Chucky go to a facility where they can help him. This is so abusive to the other children and ridiculous 😒🙄😪😕.
Just found an update on him and he is in prison for beating up the mum of his newborn baby, he grew up to be a deadbeat with 2 kids, so I'm assuming no cure was found.
Frrr💀 the comment just above this one calls the mother defenseless. Dude she literally says she's going to kill herself Infront of her kids multiple times and at one point in he video he says that he won't beat up some kid down the street so she won't kill herself and she just goes silent😑
Exactly, they are filming a case study of a sacrificed family. Disgusting and shameful so-called professionals!
He doesn't attack his dad which clearly means he can control it and feels more comfortable hurting someone he views as weak. Look at all this attention he's being rewarded with
do u think they are even getting money for it?
This type of attention doesn’t feel good to him even ... what makes you think this is the attention he’d want really?
@@forever.meimei I assume he was ignored when he was behaving himself, and so learned to associate acting out with getting attention. That's the reason most kids act out.
@@mr.anonymous5501 That's very true, I've seen many situations like this.
@Miss reign Your inability to empathise with these kids? Nah, I'm sure that's just good old, regular stupidity.
How can the parents be upset at the daughter for leaving? She’s 15, it’s not her job to be providing her parents with support, it should be the other way around.
Well said. So sad shes completely overshadowed by him. Its almost like th mam gets th camers out and provokes him to do it she can see I told u so
@john broad my point exactly. They hav let him b that way and now want people to change the behaviour....im no perfect mother but if my girl's went on this way to us it would b that mouthy and aggressive things they did...dont need to smack kids to make them listen. He seems bored nd thrives on it as he thinks hes a big man
Her happiness isn’t more important than his. She doesn’t have to live with a disorder like that but he does. If she really cared she would suck it up and be there
If you don't get it. Then it also shows what kind of family you have
Can’t wait to see when you on her shoes
Words can't express how sad and angry I feel on Natasha's behalf. I don't think that she wanted to leave so much as she needed a change. She may have hoped that by saying she wanted to leave, her parents would wake up and realize that they're expecting to much of her and her other siblings. Instead, she was met with a great deal of indifference from the father, who only wished Natasha would have chosen a more convenient time to leave, and a total lack of understanding or support from her mother, who resented Natasha for not sticking around to be parentified any longer. Heartbreaking. I hope that wherever she is, she's doing alright and has a good support system and is happy.
I’m sat here by myself watching this and just said “Wow. Poor girl” to the parents comments. I do hope that she and her siblings are doing ok now. They deserve a “normal” happy life. This is just so sad and more than a tad depressing.
I know! About to say the same thing. Her dad's only regret at losing his desperately hurting daughter was "I needed her there to back me up"!!!! Whatttt!!???
Run Natasha and never look back. I do hope she’s living a good life now x
she’s married and she has kids🥹
The mother said she pretended the daughter “has died” when she moved out and doesn’t want to see her anymore. There is a lot more to this family than meets the eye.
Exactly!
I think everyone in this family has issues.
👀 good point, wth
Heck yeah man. Nailed it. Does anyone ask what consequences he gets for his actions?
Mom didn't even try to protect the smallest children. She just say down in the chair with her head in her hands! What is the greater good for the family
It's a hard choice..
At train station, the son gives a middle finger to his father and the mother laughs. This picture explains the whole issue.
There's a lot of foul language used as well.
That's a stranger. Some younger guy with darker hair. Either way the moron mom just giggles at the anti-social behavior.
Exactly.........that whole family is dysfunctional. The swearing, fighting (even if it's play fighting), and giving him the most attention when the older sister and little brothers need as much attention. I think Christian likes the attention he gets when he's bad. Poor parenting skills.
👊🎯
No - she was laughing at something else, she didn’t even see that.
I went through this and more with my son as a single parent with hardly any help from anyone. My son ended up in prison, is now 41 and has schizophrenia and I'm exhausted.
Same with my brother. It finally ended when he killed himself. Awful
Was that a huge relief? That it's over.
Praying for you and your family
How DARE they treat their 16yo daughter, a CHILD that way refusing to talk to her and saying she’s dead?! She has been parentified by two lazy, selfish parents. Social services should have removed those kids way before now for their own safety
Sorry the mother seems to have a lot of issues. Wonder how much of his behavior is a result of her sending mixed signals and feeding into the bad behavior.
Thier daughter made the right choice to leave. The father shouldn’t expect her to put up with the abuse by her brother.
I agree
Exactly. I do believe he deserves help but that doesn't make it ok to use his siblings as punch bags
Trevor Phillips - I understand her and is the best way for her to save her life. Poor little siblings 😢
He's a bit of a willy. Just starve the badly behaving kid of treats until he learns some respect, and starts complying with discipline.
Jon Name Change that will make him more mad thio so I don't know
I'm gobsmacked. First the father slates his daughter for leaving, citing his need for her support, then the mother says her daughter is dead that is how she copes. WTF? The girl is 16 and at an important stage of growing up. You can't blame her for wanting to feel SAFE! Pfft. She isn't the parent here
it is obvious this boy's problem stems from something in his mum and dad
+tina o I agree completely!
why they let this boy 'rule the roost' for so long, and put all the other kids at major risk, is baffling.
I know! He stabbed his sister with a needle, on purpose and God knows what more. Of course she wants to leave.. I get the parents love their son but they have two children they need to care for and protect. As hard as it might be, if one of my kids wouldn't be safe because of the other I would put the other child into care.
+Livelifelaugh *5 children
The parents were so negative about him and when he was listening! The mother should win an Oscar for best martyr
My heart goes out to the healthy children in this family who were horribly put at risk by their dangerous, neglectful & delusional parents. Chris clearly belonged in a psychiatric facility under lock & supervision where he could receive the benefit of whatever medication & therapy modern medicine could offer & his family & society at large would be protected from his ticking time bomb behavior. Likewise, his siblings deserved the love & care & support of mentally & emotionally healthy foster parents. I can't begin to imagine the damage these parents have wrought by putting their entire family at risk of mental, emotional & physical harm. And how is a documentary team able to film this without reporting these parents & this dangerous boy to services to protect the children at risk? Is there no one to stand up & protect Chris' siblings? And I can't believe some of these 'professionals' are labeling this ADHD & experimenting with removing all medications to treat Chris with dietary changes. Likewise, Dr. Greene's arrogant assertion that improved communication & negotiating alone will turn Chris around is frightening. My God, this is awful.
No one was chalking this up to ADHD. He was diagnosed with conduct disorder, which basically describes everything we see. More accurately, you could consider this ADHD that was very poorly managed. It's normal for kids to have violent temperaments. It is not normal for parents to encourage it with their melodrama.
In any event, there was an update that Chris is now settled with kids. Something that probably wouldn't have happened had he been unnecessarily institutionalized like you wanted. A lot of pain could've also been avoided had they just avoided drama from the start. Liberal parenting has destroyed quite a few lives, and it's only going to get much when your type ups the ante.
@@somexp12he literally got arrested for abuse against his pregnant wife… you making this out to be a "oh he is good now!" Story doesn’t make sense… he SHOULD have been put away into a facility were they would have been able to take care of him!
It’s not an asylum for the gogogaga like it used to be in the 1900s! They genuinely want to help people and kids like him should go there… they are a liability for society if untreated!
@lenibeni7421 Chris' problem was his mother, who pathologized his behavior for attention under the guise of trying to help him. This, predictably, aggravated the situation to what it became. All an institution would do is turn the dial-up on this counter-productive treatment. They either create or exacerbate the problems they dishonestly purport to solve. In fact, every approach they're "trying" is them institutionalizing him. Every approach they're trying has the effect of getting him to become at peace with the idea that he's crazy and predestined for prison.
Really, Chris just looks like an ordinary ADHD kid who would've benefited from ordinary, undramatic discipline. Granted, he's a bit further along in depravity than most get, but this is only because his mother had already had her tentacles wrapped around him for some years before she invited camera crews in to come check our her specimen.
Nope, belongs in jail.
@@somexp12 no. Violence is not typical of ADHD. Maybe its ODD, which is often comorbid with ADHD.
What a HORRIBLE MOTHER - when her 16-year old daughter leaves the house to get away from her violent brother, the mother tells her daughter that she is dead to her and that she doesn't want to see her anymore!!? WTF>>>
No way is this ADHD. Calling Jo Frost!
i found that awful trying to put the guilt on her 16 year old daughter, whose been abused for years off her brother.
I wouldn't say horrible, but i would say very bad.
How is that bad
Ikr? The poor girl was terrified!
I was disgusted when the dad said his daughter left when he needed her the most. Where the heck was the dad when she was getting stabbed with a knitting needle or slammed with a brick to her head?
My heart really hurts most for the daughter. It is clear that Chris was trying to start fights by his constant disrespectful remarks / gestures towards his parents. I even saw his mother laugh when he gave his father the finger...not the best role model. Perhaps living in the U.S. has clouded my perspective...? I can not help but think that Chris's anger is a direct result of their family dynamics. A day to day dysfuntion that is being fed by both his parents. I am no mental heath specialist but here goes my prediction for this family's future. Chris will wind up in the penal system, his parents will seperate, his brother will be a substance abuser...as a result of the day to day physical and mental abuse inflicted on him while living in this hellish situation. My hope is that the daughter will be able to rise above this nightmare...spread her wings, and find the happiness she deserves.
Where was the father period?
I would have left too, and she should not be made to feel bad just to suit her parents.
I thought the same. That was a very selfish thing to say about there own daughter. It would seem there is an expectation that the children must sacrifice themselves for their brother.
In my opinion, most of the problems with Chris is because of the mother babying him. Sham on these parents for NOT protecting their other children. SMH 🙄🤔😞
Just got finished watching this....THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for putting Christians story out there. I have a son that is the SAME EXACT way. He is 28 now and will be getting out of prison in less than 2 weeks, hes been in for several years. Anyway, i cried through this whole story...watching Christian and his mom kept putting me right back to when my son was that age. He was put on so many different medications, had weekly therapy for yearsssss, had to go to a behavorial school, had case managers, group therapies, many diet changes, he even had personnal assistants. He was in a couple mental hospitals because he had gotten so violent.
He is my youngest child, i have 3 older girls, who got more or less pushed in the background because of how i had to deal with my son. I knew other families that had children similar to my son, but my son always seemed to be the most aggressive and could NEVER be left alone with any other children. I even took MANDT training which is a whole way of restraining the child that is suppose to be easier for the parent and child and takes the harm out of restraining if done right. You have to get certified so it is a in depth course and method.
Christian is the only other child i have seen that comes close to my son, i would not wish this on any family, but i have to say it was nice actually getting to see that someone else actually goes through it also. I have felt so alone!
christian is also in jail right now. for wife battering. he is 29 now.
sorry you had to go through this nightmare. I noticed Christian's father was totally ineffective as a dad - did your son have a father figure as a strong role model?
Oh you poor thing
ADHD does not cause a child become violent.
It's not a sixteen-year-old child's job to stay and help the family with Christian. You can't sacrifice your other children's well being for one child. The entire family needs counseling.
Exactly well said
@@jasonglenullery5712 lol
Exactly well said
He needs to be in a facility
Also they should NEVER be allowed to be around animals
she complains about the violence and him swearing all the time yet she encourages him by laughing when he swears at his father and starts to have kicking fights with him. What is wrong with her?
Molly Snow You are SO right! I was thinking this through out the whole film. This was a great example of shitty parenting! I've got 2 sons with disorders , one ADHD and the other Aspergers and they are 18 and 19 now. I myself have got ADHD and know not to give attention to bad behavior and definetly not instigate it like she did. Hope the kid grew up and matured and learned to be a better parent then his own.
I have ADHD, it effects me alot, i hate it
she is part of the problem
Hyper Active you are not the only one in here me too... :(
Molly Snow you are utterly right
Mum goads him and shouts in his face.the key is calm.i have an autistic son and shouting and anger just doesn’t work.also very sorry for the daughter and im glad she left to be safe.the younger kids should not have had to suffer like that,hearing them sobbing broke me.
@zoec703
Autistic or not, screaming at an already agitated person has never worked in the entire history of mankind. It doesnt even work with agitated animals!
When he hurt the other children that wasn’t rage - it was cruelty and a lack of parenting.
The mother doesn't even defend her other sons. Those poor children are being beat up and mom does nothing. The problem is the mother, she laughs when she shouldn't, and doesn't react when she should.
I don't think she laughed about it, she just has no big options to choose from.
I protected my eldest son because the youngest was ADHD and violent. Signing him over to a therapeutic group home for 10 mths was the best decision I have made in his life.
She's tired, down right exhausted and broken. She's given her all and has run out.
I could just back hand her for LETTING that boy hurt her other children. She gets absolutely No sympathy from me.
she is the bitx at home!
Why on earth would the daughter stay? Why should she be giving her parents support when they never protected her from her brother!
Melissa Spahr yeah I totally agree, and why doesn't she stop him from hurting the two little boys. In one part you can see the mum laughing at Christian kicking the small brother. I think some of the problem was that there was very little discipline in the house.
Yes, the oldest sister appears to be the sanest member of this family. Good for her to have the wisdom to leave at only 16. It's the same weird dynamic in so many families. The most messed up child appears to be loved the most. In this case: I'm terrified my psychotic son will have to leave, but I don't care if my normal, attention starved daughter does.
brave girl that she has decided to leave so early on in life.
The list of physical injuries she reeled off would shock a Marine!
Most people at the age of 15 have never had a knitting needle sunk deep into their leg, not to mention being struck on the back of the neck and nearly brained with a brick.
I'm glad she was at least getting some therapy and support! From Cath's perspective it might not be a reason to flee but I think most sane people would flee as fast as they could if they didn't feel safe at home, and they had an option.
I can’t imagine my 15 month old son will be like this. Im gonna make sure I bond with him well and teach him the best I can.
Your baby will be a toddler now . What I discovered with children both them with special needs and nt . Children really respond to praise , even a small thing like bringing their dirty plate to the sink . You acknowledge that type of act makes a child feel good .
That's probably what Christian was missing. I'm not convinced this is ADHD, but rather an attachment disorder. But considering his other siblings are fine and were presumably parented in a similar way, maybe part of it is nature and not just bonding.
29 years old now and apparently in prison for beating up a pregnant woman. A real class act. Not exactly surprising.
Who else is looking at the comment to see what people say?
Kim Dougherty me lol
me
Was expecting like 50 comments saying "Hes not ill hes just a fuckhead" lol
Kim Dougherty me
Kim Dougherty meeee
Mum is quite cruel to Natasha as if to say "youre dead to me because you choose not to suffer along with the rest of us." For crying out loud, she is a 16 year old who deserves some peace and happiness.
bass13mary My exact thought
Sounds like the mum is jealous of her that she is able to get away form this psycho kid and she's stuck looking after him and getting beaten up every day.
what's the time of that?
bass13mary what's mum you need to go back to 1rst grade just cause you most likely to be British doesn't mean you have to spell mom like "mum"
DeathMarine9D Umm in Australia we write it as Mum
Watched it halfway through. As a mental health prof, one thing that stood out for me was mom's own vulnerability. She clearly wasn't able to (sorry to say) be a proper parent as she fears of being rejected by her own child. Violence and shouting is responded to by similar actions, cuddles are there when serious talks should be. I do emphasize with her, as her behavior (linked to own mental health issues) probably rises from her own attachment disorder(s), but I hope she gets the right kind of therapy that helps her to like herself more, and from there on be a better parent. The daughter leaving is yet another sad symptom of this malfunctioning family. Dad saying she should have been there for them during these hard times strikes me hard. She is a child and should be protected, not expected to do what parents should provide. All in all, I believe Christian should have been (at least temporarily) placed somewhere away from his siblings in order to provide them (the majority) some worry-free time. Sadly, not only Christian now suffers from his illness, but his siblings are damaged for life by experiencing they are not as important/worthy/etc as he is. In the end, everyone in this family loses. So sad.
no warmth in that household - mainly dad is utterly ineffective. no social services involvement with siblings suffering daily violence? knife held to throat? police should have been called.
The daughter was parentified. Parentification, they expected her to do their job.
This child is the product of growing up being able to do what he wanted with no consequences.
this sadly is the worst case scenario of zero discipline and pandering to every tantrum.
Her worst fear was him going to prison. As a mom, my worst fear would be him killing me or another member of my family.
Exactly!
A Glass Of Merlot , my thoughts exactly! The daughter did the right thing. Leave!
you're not a caring and loving mom. she loves her child irrespective of his condition hence she fears for him.
@@Athena_420 That but also imagine the trauma the mom and dad already have, the first thing she says is when he gets too big they are going to have to put him in an institution. He's aware of that as well.
And then he’d go to prison so...
Also, it does sort of make sense. Her worst fear for her son is that he’s going to ruin his own life
Am I the only one who read "The boy they call chunky"?
I didn't read it like that but that's pretty funny lol
Lol 😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
You're not alone
Lol
It’s interesting when he’s in the presence of the professionals he’s able to control his behavior
How dare the dad blame her for leaving.. They don't seem to care about the other kids.
Criticizing the daughter for leaving because "now is when they need her most". Brilliant. A++
debbievaritek I agree
debbievaritek The epitome of dysfunction.
Typical narcissistic family.
/haven't read the article
I worked as a nanny for a family with a 3 year old who was completely out of control like this. It took 1 month to turn him into a little gentleman, and 2 years to change their lazy parenting skills. If you closely watch the mothers interactions with each of her children, you will understand the core problem here.
Was looking in the comments for anyone who's had child's care training. That child's Behavior could be fixed in a few weeks but the correction of the parental dynamic that created this little monster takes much longer to pin down, let alone effect change upon.
My young charge 3F, nicknamed Demonessa - took 3 months to straighten out, her parents on the other hand took another 18 months! Thank goodness, I couldn't wait to get out of that two-year contract fast enough lol that child there gave me all my gray hairs! She was my last toddler but her little brother was an intro to preemies and I moved onto newborn care post haste : )
Cheers Nanny!
Please share what you did. I have a 4 year old student who is completely out of control. Both his parents and myself need help
3 year old*
I wonder what would happen if someone stronger unleashed on him.
Exactly, kids push as much as they can, trying to get away with whatever they can
I think that the parent's attitude towards their daughter is absolutely disgusting!
Being in high school is such an important time of life. It's the time you get your exams and qualifications and all the parents can say is "she left when we needed her most" and "we want a little bit of support".
You're the parents - the very people who are supposed to protect you and help you through life by doing what's best! The poor brothers too :(
My brother was very similar to this when he was younger, got kicked out of primary school. Bit his teachers arm, tied a student up with skipping ropes and constantly starting fights with me. But he is 23 now and the most gentle, kind loving and compassionate person I know. It does get better ❤️
I wonder if even Supernanny could handle this....
lol
omg I know right
True, she should try lol
XDDDD
+BorisTheGroundingFetish69-Alt Even Cartman would be a handful for Supernanny in all honesty.
That’s a toxic household for those poor siblings
And animals. Absolutely irresponsible.
Dads a drip!! Give your daughter some love an support mate, Don’t blame her for not supporting you. She needed to move out, that house has serious problems and I’m not sure it’s the boys fault. I just hope they are doing good now.
My brother had anger issues and was violent at home. He was diagnosed with thyroid cancer and then non-Hodgkins lymphoma at 17. After his surgery, he was a different person - much less violent. He channeled the drive he had and went on to get a PhD.
I feel so awful for this kid. He obviously hates the way he is and he wants to be a good kid. Makes me so sad for him.
I think some of it is an excuse to go full ham on someone and blame it on his "disorder"...wouldnt we all if we didn't want to hold back and loose our shit whenever we felt like it?
Jubjub Emo Pete screaming in the distance I agree it is sad but he is a grownup and has a Facebook account and kids he must have gotten control some how I am proud of him.:)
Dontfall forthat -
Um no. Plus, I doubt someone would continuously do it on purposeful if they felt as guilty afterwards as this kid seems to.
I feel for the sister I would hate him
agreed😢
Ok, so the mother's worst fear is that he will go to jail, not killing a sibling but jail?
I guess so....🤷🏾♀️
He needs a borstal
He’d go to jail for killing someone...
She’s a big part of his problems
Seems like coddling but it’s hard to say with only seeing a snapshot of their lives together
🤣🤣🤣🤣
What a dysfunctional household. The dad actually said about his daughter "She left when we needed her most". This pretty much sums it up. The child should be the one who needs the parents not the other way around.
Note: Can u imagine living next door to this family?
His mother can't control herself either. It's no wonder Chris acts the way he does. That entire family needs therapy and probably medication.
When your mom cries
That's when you know you messed up!!
forreal
Or she failed herself. That is even more likely here she cries because of her OWN incapability. Sadly so. Don´t want the trouble ? Keep your legs together.
He suffers from a complex medical disorder. They literally say that in the first 2 minutes. If she's so incapable, please tell us what you woulda done... beat the kid until he was unconscious? She has other kids that are fine.... Don't be so dumb.
ikr or your mom knows she has failed in parenting
Chulpan Khamatova
When did GOD fail? HE was crucified for the sins of man and HE delivered, HE rose again. So when did HE fail? All this pain is because of man.
As someone who didn’t have a childhood myself and was put in an adult position of being a caretaker. Seeing the guilt trip on the poor daughter was irritating. For goodness sakes let her live and enjoy growing up, she has a life too, it’s not the daughters job to help raise your child.
@Danielle Ri true. Original commenter is biased through her own experiences.!
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I can sort of understand the parents not wanting to lose their child but keeping him around was having a shocking effect on the other three children, keeping that demon in the home was enabling his abuse of his siblings. The mom wasn't just putting up with his violence towards her, she was damaging her other Children.
Edit, after rewatching some parts... that Kid has more problems than ADD, his Mum talked about how he would brew up for a fit or outburst when he thought his Mom was alright (After needing medication!), thats Psychopathic, targeting victims and choosing the right moment to inflict emotional and physical abuse... At *12 Years old!*. He also couldn't handle being around other problematic Children, because he knew he couldn't victimise them because he was also a bully.
I hope something was done, that kid really was "demonic" and Evil and was showing the signs of the Dark Triad of antisocial personality disorders.
@Danielle Ri mnlcxlvvxllllllbhlc()(.(&°)777767777777775
Aye that’s why you
Look at these sick people blaming their 16 year old daughter for running away from the violent child bully that they are raising and rewarding just so he could keep using her as a punching bag,I can relate to that because I have a similar younger brother,most of the girls run away from their homes do so to get away from violence by their dads and brothers
Dr Greene seems very comforting, gentle, and honest. I honestly really like him and hope things go well.
So..are they saying he’s like this because he has ADHD? I have ADHD, and it’s an attention disorder. It’s not an explanation for trying to kill your family. That’s ridiculous.
Isn't it?! ADHD isn't his issue. Parenting is a huge factor. And diet, massively.
They said in the beginning that he has ADHD, but that is not the factor that makes him really aggressive in periods
Joy Holly me too and I’m not violent in the least
I'm 48 and have adhd. I save cockroaches from drowning. The only thing that can make me hurt someone else is if they hurt me first
Even the woman at the ADDISS center openly said, "You probably want to see someone else for this."
Edit: And what does she do? Goes to another ADHD expert! It's like she doesn't want the right answer.
1 minute in and I can tell that the mom is feeding energy into his outbursts. He may have issues, but the parents did not help.
Until you have to stay 24 hours taking care of this child, you cannot place blame. It's so easy to say what is wrong when we are not in this position. Towards the end of this video, they found a professional who got to the x of the equation. If they put this strategy in place, Chris will be able to control himself.
Correct, the mother seems to enjoy the attention. She definitely needs treatment, the father too, bloody useless.
I have lived this, with my son. When he was diagnosed adhd at the age of 2 I knew the Drs were wrong. You give him a task and he was hyper focused until he had mastered it, but he would go into blind rages, give me black eyes, etc. It was so bad...if you asked him his name in these rages he couldn't tell you...like I said, he was diagnosed adhd at 2, and I knew this was wrong. I got him in therapy immediately and kept going to doctor's until we got the actual diagnosis, ODD ...oppositional defiant disorder. He stayed in therapy, I swear I thought I was raising a serial killer, but we stuck with the therapy, and he was on some serious meds, seroquel, an antipsychotic, plus add meds which helped work with it. ... Anyway, my point is, I knew something was wrong and got him into therapy and found the right doctors as soon as it started. The therapists taught me how to SAFELY restrain him when he went into these rages, which this woman does not do, how to speak to him when he's in these states, which again, she is doing the complete opposite, and my heart absolutely breaks for this whole family. I was a single WORKING mom, but I made my kids health and well being the priority. She got her daughter in therapy for dealing with the things done to her, but, not the boy?!?!? I understand she's at her wits end, I was too, but that whole family needs to know how to deal. My son was on these meds until he was in the 4th grade, he had therapists QUIT on him, and we found new ones ...we persisted, and eventually he was able to safely wean himself off the meds and has done wonderfully since ( never once a setback since he's been off the meds! He does have a therapist to check in with, but that's few and far between, because he also has ocd and my faulty self passed him my bipolar news :\) . The only difference I see between my son and gets is empathy. My son had none. He does now, to the extreme, unfortunately and he feels everything for everyone. But. Better that than the way he was going. Now he will be 20 this year and I absolutely have no doubt in my mind that the reason he is the wonderful, upstanding, young man he is now (career straight out of high school making more than I ever did, living on his own, saving money, supporting himself, has wonderful relationships with friends, family, steady and wonderful girlfriend, etc) is because I took the initiative to do what I did as early as I did, and fought for my son. ADHD is attention deficit and hyperactivity...which was not my son, and I wasn't going to roll over and take it. This woman IMO is doing things so very wrong and the fact that she's waited this long is terrifying, I honestly hope they all get the help they need. This video is 2 years old as an upload, I just wonder what year it was filmed and if this kid and the family ever got the answers they needed.
@@Sinkingfurther ADHD looked into is quite imteresting lots of kids being born with adhd now a days but 10 years ago it was just called being naughty 🤷♂️ lazy parenting once you're child is "diagnosed" with adhd they are forced to take tablets to help but in reality it just takes the child out of the kids and they sit there so docile its in real. I'm a primary school teacher and it's crazy to see genuine good kids come in school and we find out they've been "diagnosed" with adhd but are perfect at school with us but because they have lazy parents they are apparently a nightmare at home just lazy parenting and an easy way out of discipline for the child, here take a tablet youre running around and shouting too much you're being too naughty take a tablet. Maybe if you stopped taking cocaine or other drugs while you convinced you're child they wouldt have a tendency to act up stop blaming it on a ADHD all I think when I hear a parent say thier child had ADHD is LAZY PARENTS end of, like I said I'm a primary school teacher I've never seen a kid come out a good stable home with ADHD it's always the scruffy benifit grabbing lazy parents who think giving thier kod a pill is easier than disciplining.
@@Sinkingfurther So glad you persisted and got the right diagnosis for your son. Had never heard about ODD. Good to know... There's also Conduct Disorder which is similar but the children have difficulty concentrating and following rules.
Dad was expecting his 16 year old daughter to support him? What is wrong with these parents? That girl was waiting for her dad to hug her! No wonder she left.
Exactly. All that wee girl wanted was affection and told she was loved. My heart broke for her.
I told my Mom to shut up in 1996 and today marks 1 full years since I awoke from my Coma.
What surprised me was how intelligent his answers were to the camera man. He is clearly not stupid.
No even worse he doesnt even have an excuse other than his horrible parents
I wouldn't call it BPD, but he seems split down the middle in a sense. He gets angry, does whatever angry stuff he does, then he has his time to think back on it. His frustration of not seeing the full picture just gets thrown back into another rage fit.
That’s where it comes from I would say. Imagine being in a tutorial but you are a grandmaster at the game. Then imagine being there for 8 years or more with adhd lol while people condescend on you unintentionally. You would be this kid lmao.
Also the dad legit be a psycho.
No, but he's a psychopath.
The other children are being traumatized. The well-being of all involved must be prioritized over the comfort of one.
Kelli Votel i grew up with a brother who had torett’s and he had violent outbursts which weren’t half tis bad and i was in therapy for years. These kids are never going to recover
where is social welfare, why are the younger boys being cared for
.... expecially the wrong one
@@jamieiamarino2516 so very sorry for you . I mean it
The bad kid gets all the attention & cares less that his 16 year old sister moved out cuz of him & the father puts the sister on a guilt trip 4 moving out. WOW !!
You need to teach your children empathy from the time they arevery little. I cant imagine how difficult this is when you love your kids so much. 🧡🙏
The mother is making it so much worse. They are actually very much alike. If she can't control herself, how is he supposed to? They are constantly talking about him attacking, but she seems to be the one amping it up from zero to a hundred. I hope she watched this herself and saw things from another perspective. Because if she changes so will he.
Y'all feel bad for this boy I feel bad for the family. He stabbing his sister, hitting her with bricks. Strangling his brother. They need to put him somewhere so he can get help before he kills the rest of her kids
but you have to feel bad for him,coz he never wanted to be born that way& I think he also feels bad after calming down
That's a pitiful, pathetic excuse. We can all choose how we behave towards others. We all ultimately have control of ourselves, we have free will.
HSU Graduation you have known idea what you're talking about.
+Ashley "you have known idea". You don't have a clue how to write, do you? ADHD = Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder. In other words, it makes it hard to concentrate and give you extra energy but has nothing to do with being violent. This kid is a sociopath plain and simple. There's no reason why his parents shouldn't give him a good thrashing.
HSU Graduation what?
His sister is remarkable. So mature and poised. Wise beyond her years
It must be her survival mechanism
She's an Empath.. total opposite of her younger brother..
She unfortunately has had to grow up faster! She has become what’s called parentified and was never allowed to be a kid herself
Trauma matures you. 😢
"Wise beyond their years" often is a coping mechanism for severe trauma
This has made me very emotional. I have adhd and was just like him. My mum was the same, I witnessed her lock herself in the bathroom and try overdose because I had attacked her. I’m 19 now. She is my best friend. She stuck by me through the therapies, medication, breakdowns & suicide attempts. And we came out the other side both stronger. It’s really hard to explain to others that I’m not violent however when you feel like you can’t communicate how you feel, violence is the easiest option to show anger, sadness, confusion, anxiety, etc.
Bless you
This was more than ADHD though
What a vile child. I really felt for the siblings and that last fight with the mother crying was heart breaking. Those animals needed to be removed from the house, dread to think how he must've hurt them. Beyond help.
In the old days it would not have been a problem.
Lost camping.
What is wrong with the mom?! Why can’t she console the little ones when he hurts them. That little boy went to her for comfort and she turned away!
@Nia Pgn because she is emotionally involved in this highly emotional situation. She doesn't know how to deal with this behavior. As I expressed in my own comments it's very easy to blame the mother and give experts advice when: 1. We are not the expert. We are not there every day we the full responsibility for this child. 2. Most people don't exactly experience everything she does. We need to be kind and supportive. If we do have some experience in this subject, mention how we handle and what worked or don't. The key her is. NOT to blame her, but give her options about who to see and how it worked for the person giving the advice. Kindness goes a long way. I'm not seeing it here and this upsets me tremendously.
@@danielamckee5435 I couldn't have said it any better myself. Reading this gives me hope, thank you.
@Amber Sullivan I understand what you are feeling. I disagree 💯 % but understand if and respect your opinions and frustrations. I worked with children such as the boy this is why I said what I said. One of my students had a team o psychiatrist working with her. Again I repeat what I said before when we are not involved, living in this situation, it's so easy to put the blame on the mother. It's easy to say that she didn't get appropriate help because this or that reason. However do you all know how much this evaluation, treatment, and medicine costs? No you don't. My point is that I have not read here anyone saying hey lady I can take care of your son for 30 minutes while you give a little attention to your younger child. I didn't hear hey lady here are some $3000.00 dollars for his appointment with this Dr I know who can try to help. The only thing I hear is bad talking and blaming the mother for doing the best that she can. When I taught this children (because it was more than one) I was in a child care for homeless people! Ok? Homeless as in no housing,. No food, barely no close... And you sit here in front or your computer to say she didn't WANT to get help? We know this family has a house and food however we do not know if she has the financial statement to get the help and medication needed.i toke care o 8 hour to at least 3 children like this ok? But I also had 18 other children to take care of. Ages 3, 4 and 5. There was a point I couldn't take it anymore! At that time I did have the education that I have today. I didn't have my degree in Human Services, I wasn't trained to work with crisis intervention. Well I guess it's wise is be to stop here because all those memories are coming back as a raging flooding river. The only thing I ask for everyone that visit this video is to put themselves on her shoes and think about what you would do. Talking bad about this woman will NOT do anything to solve her situation. So I'm begging you (I'm crying now) if you don't have any words o encouragement for this family just refrain from comment. If you have financial way to help or know a team of experts who are willing to help, reach out to her and do your part. I can relieve those times were I just cry because I didn't know how to help.
@Amber Sullivan well I'm sorry you have this experience. You made a choice to institutionalize your son. It was your difficult choice to make. I do not think this way, how would you feel if another person in this forum decided that a mother should care for her son, not pass it along to an institution? Again the person who thinks that way is not experiencing what you did. That is my point. I'm glad you had financial means to put your child there, unfortunately no body has the same financial means or courage to do as you did. Again my dear Mrs Sullivan I beg you to just understand that not all people can or live the way you do and people just do the best they can do with the abilities they have at any give my time. Please just send a prayer for all the parents in the world who are at the end of their rope because of a situation you have gone through. Be kind, be loving towards others maybe you can reach out to her and present your choice to her and respect her choice. Be a Peer Support for her. That's the only thing I can beg of you. I'm becoming really sick because of this and I can deal with it. I miss my babies who are now about 21 years old. I have no idea what happened to them after the left my class. I wish so badly I could do more for them and this conversation is really bringing me down. I said all I had to say. Have a good night.
That sickened me !!
Omg the poor other children. That's not fair to sacrifice their feelings and well being for one child.
This is absolutely heartbreaking! Poor little boy and his family, I pray there’s something that can be done for him. I wish them nothing but the best! Mental illness is a horrible thing to have and to deal with.❤️🙏.
Some people are simply born evil. Looked him up and he's been jailed recently for punching the mother of his child. People like this don't change. Lock him up and throw away the key.
From the thumbnail he looks like that one kid from toy story
Mariah Calloway lolz!! Sid was his name I think right?
sid
Mariah Calloway wow your funny
Wemdin You're
Mariah Calloway he actually does
I could never treat my mum like that...I would hate myself forever
aww :(
Charleigh he probably does hate himself, but he can't help himself
Bram van 't Hoff ikr it's hard
Bram van 't Hoff I would cry myself to sleep every night if I were this kid
Charleigh ur right
He seems to be okay as long as he gets his way, and he doesn’t have to practice impulsive control. It like if he can’t get his way or if he’s challenged he can’t handle it and blows up, lashes out. The parents are the real issue if you ask me. I’m glad the daughter got out of that situation for her own safety. I hope the other two little ones are safe.
It’s good to know that you were courageous enough to cope with the difficult situation which makes it even more special for being the most ethical person in the world for your son, given the fact that this world is never balanced in all perspectives
My heart breaks for the younger brothers. Christian inflicts horrible pain upon his siblings, and his siblings don't even turn to mom for comfort because they know she can't nor will protect them. They are defenseless
Only one that can take the christian on is his father. But as he said, One day christian will be bigger and stronger than himself.
Mom definitely is not protecting her other kiddos.
They're going to go through PTSD and probably more mental problems
Don't get me wrong this kid is a headache and a half but he seems to be the one that shows the rest of the family "we are not ok" he fell into the role and now will have a hard time not playing this role anymore
@@leahflower9924 that’s true, and I’m sad he’s expressing the pain through hurting and beating on his innocent siblings
The person you need is Nanny McPhee.
why is the kid name is chunky is he bad
☺ and lol
Chucky from the horror movie, hes a killer doll lol
Ryan Connelly lol yeah my uncle he had a creepy mind for a little while
Yeah. Notice that nanny show never sends her to families like this, nor the hood... Lol.. but on the real, they are going to have to send him away for special help. For the safety of the other siblings as well as his own.
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0:28
MUM: "STOP IT!!!"
CHRISTIAN: "OR ELSE WHAT?! EH?!"
The issue here is obvious, weak parents with no boundaries or consequences create monsters. This kid needs discipline. I would love to see an update.
I work with the results of bad parenting and see it daily, it's becoming a drain on society.
weak father figure in the household - no sanctions for bad behaviour. he calls his mum a cow and dad just says eh eh and son shouts at dad. very poor. this should have been nipped in the bud when he was a toddler. also the american therapist made it sound like Christian should take no responsibility for his actions
A hand or belt on the rear end and the word "no" would've done this kid wonders. I put 90% of this on the parents.
Me the whole time in my head: "dear god do not let that child pick up that rabbit"
Gracie Lee same. And the cat 2
Gracie Lee too right!
Gracie Lee I expected him to hurt it too
Gracie Lee same
Mom doesn’t even comfort the younger boy when he cries. He must feel so alone and emotionally in able to cope.
Exactly
And the younger ones are copying Chris’s behavior cause I’m sure that’s the only way they think they will get attention.
Yes, and this is the making of a sociopath, just as Christian was made a sociopath.
I lived this exact nightmare with my three grandchildren all had ADHD Intermittent Explosive Disorder and Conduct Disorder- They were left in my care by their parents -Treatment began at age three with no improvement once one of the children become violent the others copy - one of the children being more violent than the other- medications were more like a poison in my opinion -There’s a manipulative component to this illness they consciously seek out their prey as you noticed in the video Dad got a much different response from the boy than the other family members The whole family is suffering and this illness is in control of all of his family it’s the most unnatural way to live You never know when he will attack - restraint is often necessary but pinning a child to the ground is not the answer There seems to be no help for these children and their families personally I think nutrition and Autism should be thought about -This is not a picture of ADHD that I’ve ever seen
There’s hope for this child he understands consequences and has the ability to apologize That is not usually true with his diagnoses
I wanted to cry for this little boy at times he looked so confused about what was going on with his life and why he was the way he was
My dad never hit me. If I was being an idiot he'd grab me by the collar and I didn't need to see what came next. I love that man.
My Dad never hit me or my older Sister. He gave us The Look once seem never forgotten. We wouldn’t dare to disrespect either of our parents. We had boundaries manners and knew right from wrong.
The parents have truly failed the other children. It’s actually heartbreaking watching them suffer. Yes Christian has a problem BUT why neglect the other kids and allow him to beat them. He’s not their only responsibility. And they don’t seem to do enough to discipline him- his mental condition isn’t an excuse for him to be rewarded for bad behaviour
I'm sure his brain is not like it should be. He's got a physical problem. ASDS research is not the solution.
I know this was years ago but I felt the same watching it the brothers crying and having their arms twisted and the ma just sits there
*It's always the "problem children" that are always rewarded with so much more attention than their well-behaved siblings, aren't they...*
Exactly. And more attention to bad behavior reaps more bad behavior.
It's the same in schools as well, at least it is at my daughters primary school, she is in year 6 and I'm counting the days until she leaves.
The violent kids get all the rewards, and the rest of the kids get no recognition for their work and good behaviour
It is vice versa. Children get problem children, because it is the only way to be seen. Children have different reactions to emotional neglect. Boys tend to harm others and girls to harm themselves.
I wouldn't call being shunted to the school for problem children, dragged from one shrink to the next, and having your mother threaten suicide on your account a "reward". This only serves to steal his self-efficacy, as he's expected to play a role in other people's fantasy of him. I guess it looks fun to sort of clown who doctor shops psychologists in search of trendy diagnoses.
Thats why they don't stop
I am truly disgusted by these parents! Thank God the oldest child escaped the nightmare environment they locked her into! If this isn't the best example of STOP BREEDING then I'm confused! They should NOT be allowed to have the other kids living with them! Those little boys are going to grow up depressed, confused and completely screwed up!
He is currently in prison for beating his girlfriend while his newborn was there …
Where did you get that from?
@@St.OlGa. Google it. He got 15 months back in June for smashing his partner about (whilst pregnant) and has a string of prior convictions for violence.
that baby boy crying after his brother hurting him broke my heart.
The poor little thing turned to his mum for support/comfort but she was more about herself.
What made it worse was when the mom didn't do anything. He won't forget that☹️☹️
His mother laughs when he gives his dad the bird out the train window. He kicks her at the train station "in fun" and she "in fun" kicks at him back. I'm wondering if his boundaries are incredibly blurred and he then gets antagonized that he fights back. When he attacks her, she attacks back. Choking him?? Flipping the bird and her laughing just seemed like he's getting a lot of positive rewards with his deviancy.
Yes I was thinking the same thing. His mother needs parenting classes
What minute?
yeah, unfortunately a mix of these strong psych drugs don't help at all.....they cause more probs than good, throwing pills at a developing brain, it's what's making him psychotic! He needs damn good parenting, she kicks him back, the dad is flipping the bird, they all think it's so funny, he has no boundaries, he knows what he's doing when he slaps and kicks his siblings...he is seeing what he can get away with
A lot of light bulbs 💡 should be turning on in a lot of people's heads after that comment kid
The fact that the mum didn't do anything to protect the younger brothers, just puts her head in her hands, is shocking. It might be a hard choice, but you need to do what's best for the family. Glad the daughter moved out of home and got away from it, that household is being run by a violent older brother who has no boundaries that are enforced by the parents. If I or my three brothers did that the old man would have sorted us out quick smart
@fishingwithlaney1250
Totally. If either me or my sibling acted out like that, both my mom and dad woulda tanned our butts to where we werent able to sit for a week.
I could not watch this for more than 10 minutes. I feel so bad for this little boy I wish the parents would get parenting support.
Get this kid a fidget spinner
Jinx a distraction toy? well at least the dumb thing will make itself useful and keep that kid destracted
Princess Cora HE NEEDS SOME MILK
lmao! It will help him a lot.
Hazy Waz fr
Or a strong anti-psychotic?
By calling him Chucky, they're putting a more damaging label on the child. He'll act out as Chucky since they already gave him the nickname.
I agree. They live up to that expectation
Totally agree with you
Bullshit. He got the nickname cuz of his violent behavior. Not the other way around. He needs to be locked and chained away forever
Anna KW WTF?!
@@Annasea666 Yeah, but given the fact he didn't know who or what "Chucky" is, he might've watched the films or looked the horror character up & possibly copied the murderous acts the villain does in the films.
Christian : **smiles** “did you know trains crash?”
Coming from a family of hereditary ADHD. I’m 62 and I have it my father had it( was put in a home for naughty boys. Died age 92 hyperactivity till he passed) all three of my children diagnosed. My Grandchildren all have similar one Grandson has ASD. None have ever shown cruelty to animals or others.
How can the father say that Natasha is leaving “when I need her the most”!?!?!?
She’s still more child than adult, and is being used by her parents!
The dad should've dealt with him by roasting his butt
Why does her father "need" her at all? She needed him. That statement is alarming and she may have been being harmed by more than Christian.
@@MasterofScrutiny exactly
1) if a child wants to move out when they're a adult that should be their choice
2) Christian literally stabbed her and hurted her, if she's gonna be used as a punch bag then moving out is actually a wise decision to make
Not parents, brother
"Hurted" is no longer a word. Replace with the modern alternative "hurt".
What did I just watch? The mother is 1/2 of the problem - she's laughing when he flips the bird to his father? Doesn't console her other children when they're crying? The father blaming the daughter for leaving because it's now that "we need her most and she just left"?? Are you kidding me??? Had to shut the video off....it's pathetic.
Exactly
I agree, they behave as if they have one special child to care for and all the rest can fend for themselves. the mother should NEVER have let her children know she was suicidal. Love twisted in with guilt is manipulative and toxic!
Agreed. Well said.
I totally agree with you ..this video made me angry so many ways 😬😬😬
The mother, father and Christian are the problem. The dad really doesn't take the leadership role. The mother or father should of put the belt to Christian. All three are going to drive the younger brother into an insane asylum. The daughter did right to move out for her sanity.
I'm astounded by what the Dad said when his daughter was leaving! He blamed her for not being there to give HIM support! No-one is supporting her and the parents needs to think of their other children and get that boy out of the house. This dreadful child gets all the attention and the others are left to suffer.
My partner is 27 and he is this child. He was diagnosed as a child with conduct disorder adhd. Due to negligence from his parents he’s never been truly treated, this life I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. It’s impossible to live with so I can’t Imagine what it’s like for them. You have to be such a strong person to deal with it,
How could he be 27 a year ago? he's in his 30's now and in prison