clearly youâve never been an innocent, naĂŻve, 19 year old girl who didnât completely know who she was yet. if you ask me, anyone above 30 should only date people 25-28+ because at least theyâll have more experience with the world, know what they want and how to set boundaries.
Honestly if he is so racist I donât why Dave Chappelle would be such great friends with him and why most of his band members (for tours) were black. A longtime producer for him Don Was is black, long time drummer Steve Jordan is black, David Ryan Harris. I donât really want name off everyone, but he has worked with these people for decades. If he was really racist I donât think they would stick around
@@SaphiraTessa The guy in the video said it kind of out of context. In the interview when John made the remark about a white supremacist dick. He was asked if black woman throw themselves at him thatâs when he said the thing. Which is basically a really bad way of saying that heâs not really into black women in that way. Which isnât really racist. Different strokes for different folks.
At 18 you become legal in all states and most states in America have an age of consent that is 16 so you cannot groom a 19 year old. You cannot groom a 16 year old in the state of Pennsylvania (where I live) and in most states grooming someone 16+ is impossible. Everywhere grooming someone 18+ is impossible. Not sure why society loved to infantilise those in their late teens! Nothing illegal about it but itâs certainly more strange for an older woman to go after younger boys than the other way around!
@@Janelle-xr3ovBruh, you can be groomed at any age. Yâall need to learn what grooming actually is instead of just using it as a synonym for pedophilia.
yeah we have loads of older women grooming young guys. itâs really sad because people donât really recognise that as much when it happens a lot and is just as bad
Glad that people in the comments are aware that people can change and that cancelling someone for something they said literally 10+ years ago is the dumbest shit possible. Get a life if youâre serious about trying to blow up an artist who has owned up to his mistakes and moved forward in his life.
like if you really wanted to change the creator's mind about posting this video, you would've attempted to structure a valid argument backing John up, (or an argument on the creator of why he posted the video and how he could've gone through the topic with a bit more detail and skillful manner) , but no, you go out of your way to ruin someone's day, what the internet normalized nowadays is so immature and arrogant Like what's the purpose of even speaking if everything that comes out of your mouth is pure bullsh*t and toxicity? Time to reflect on your mindset and look at a mirror for once.
Icing on the cake: yes, the video creator was right, John mayer DID groom Taylor in the 2009-2010 era of her life (you probably weren't even born yet so I guess you didn't get to witness it), he emotionally manipulated, emotionally exhausted, emotionally abused Taylor and MANY other victims that unfortunately fell into his bear-trap of downward spirals and forever winters.
Bruh just cus ur legal donât make it right. U just automatically have a develop brain at the age of consent depending on where you live? Also these people who go for people barely the age of consent would go lower if they could.
Grooming is a term used for underage children , not for a 19 year old adult woman. Also, everyone can have a personal preference to be attracted to, such as blond, dark , tall, short, or white or black, this has absolutely nothing to do with racism. Confusing these concepts does not help against the real problems of child predators and racism ;)
He did compare his man parts to the leader of the KKK in an interview, but he took it back later, plus that was over 10 years ago he's a heck of a lot older now
@@fuzzlelive3084 Thatâs weird but it doesnât even actually make him racist. Itâs just a stupid thing to say, like who seriously cares? And itâs funny to me that in our society, we literally call 17 year olds âchildrenâ. Itâs like people donât connect the fact that 18 is the age of majority, which means the law sees 17 year olds as minor children by technicality, but also sees them as competent enough to be legal adults in the next few months⊠so does the law TRULY see 17 year olds as children? I donât know if thatâs something we can answer, but we can give a legal answer and say yes but we could also include that at that age you can have a license, and many times will be tried as an adult for any serious crime you commit. At the end of the day, none of that stuff even matters, it only does if you wanna talk about if from a legal perspective and not a moral perspective. Morally, at 19 years old, many young women are very mature. Many young women at 16 are already very much starting to consider themselves as adults in many ways. The experience of a 19 year old young woman is not that of a childâs. A very young adult. Not a child. The truth that they want to ignore is that no woman is a child by the time she reaches about seventeen years old. Thatâs actually pathetic if anyone believes that. I canât imagine looking to a "law" and decided that is a fact and that suddenly in Indiana when a girl turns 16 she is suddenly able to consent to sex but that a 17 year old in California isnât⊠you end up believing stuff like that when you look to the law. So to anyone who claims the laws regarding age are simply facts, and not just a guideline you need to follow for your own safety⊠I would ask you why you believe that a Michigan teen at 16 years old, truly in actuality, has more of the ability and bodily autonomy to consent to sex more than a teen at 17 years old in Florida. I really think our culture has an issue that needs to be called out about the law we infantilise while also sexualizing our youth, particularly the ones around the ages of 16-20..
â@@Janelle-xr3ovAmen!!! Tho ironically, I'd be willing to bet all I own that the "Host" of this ridiculous video would argue until the end of time that "Minors" (those under the age of 18) are "Adults" & are both intellectually & emotionally mature enough to consent to the removal of their body parts, or to take hormones/puberty blockers to "transition" to their biologically opposite sex/gender!!!
it is not a term used for underage children this is what grooming means âWhat is grooming? Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.â it says a child or a young person and a young person aka a person in their youth are from the ages 16-24 due to the fact that they are more valuable and are not fully developed adults
The man has grown up a lot now and also neither you nor anyone know about his personal matters except the women he had relationships with and him and things he's done in his past doesn't make him "evil" everyone has a past with bad things try giving people 2nd chance And also no hate to you just putting my opinion
@⥠Lolita ⥠Frist off growing up doesn't mean growing up in age it also means development of character and some people gets mature faster than others and by your comment I think you like Taylor and I like her too but think of a man who suffered from criticism for a long part of his life and even now, don't you think the man has changed even a bit. Second Everyone needs a chance to correct their mistakes, we all make mistakes..... By the way nothing on you, Thanks for the conversationđ
Wait, let me get this straight: So idk who tf that is, but obviously he's a prck, and people in the comments are still defending? Apparently he's a musician with lots of fans? Huh. I see that those "music fans" would worship even Hitler if he released a sick album. Music is one of humanity's greatest discovery, but I see that humanity isn't all there anymore.
Lmao if you don't know him then don't speak because the Freedom of speech doesn't justify you saying bullshit. Most of the things said in this video is not even true, like he's not racist at all give the fact that most of the musicians he worked with in his life are black and they respect him very much and he respects them. He never groomed anyone, people act like despite the age gap, they both weren't adults consenting to a relationship. Also Taylor was the first to pursue John, she was obssesed with him, don't blame him for not rejecting her. The reason we don't give a damn is because he's just simply a god tier musician, great music and is one of the best guitar players in the world, he also changed and apologised a lot about his past actions while Taylor tried to pin him down even more with songs like Dear John. As his fan, I can acknowledge that he said some things that can be taken inappropriately, because he did, he apologised, he changed, get over it. Most of the "bad" things that people say about him are just seen from a bad angle
Translated to English: 1. He dates adults 2. He has a sense of humor 3. He had some nasty break ups 4. He kissed a man as joke 5. He enjoys Japanese culture
@@axe-tq2wn 32 dated 19 is still weird af, not to mention even if she was the one asking for it, he should've known that it's better to turn down that relationship
â@@gooodmorning4526 HE DID emotionally abuse Taylor and many other unfortunate victims of his. HE DID emotionally manipulate his exes in order to stay with him for longer and HE DID show narcissist behaviourism in his relationships. Yet people still joke about this stuff like it's something to be thrown around the room and not be taken seriously. THIS IS ENOUGH FOR SOMEONE TO COMMIT SUICIDE.
Even though if was still legal and consensual doesn't mean it couldn't leave Taylor lasting scars, as we can see in Would've, Should've, Could've. Here's a definition of 'Grooming'. Grooming is a form of abuse that involves manipulating someone until they're isolated, dependent, and more vulnerable to exploitation. So it isn't not always dependent on age but it could of played a part in their relationship dynamic as John was 32 and Taylor was 19 which is a 13 year age gap but on top of that John was a well established artist by then and Taylor being so young and inexperienced (literally and career rise). So that probably why someone people would refer to it as grooming however we have no idea the true in and outs of the relationship so who knows what actually happened between. But that's just my take feel free that have your own opinion. â„ïž
Unsurprising rock music fans have a hard time grasping the concept that just because itâs legal to date a 19 yr old when youâre 32 doesnât mean itâs not weird as fuck.
Sounds like me trying to hate Mayer after I spent two hours trying to get the first chord of Neon right. Then I remember the guy tours with Bob Weir and I fall in love again.
Instead of hating on the guy hereâs 5 reasons why everyone loves John Mayer. 1. He impacted a generation of musicians, I being one of them. 2 Heâs pretty humble nowadays. Owned up to his past and sought forgiveness for the admitted douchebag he used to be. 3. Written some of the most iconic songs since Y2K. 4. Heâs relatable to the outcast and loners like me 5. Truly an incredible story of how he became successful. Look I ainât here to downplay the dude he used to be but we all gotta move on and forgive. Peace and love. đ€
All I see are his impacts to music but none about being a decent human being. Would have been great if he tool accountability for preying on a teenager as a 32 year old, but he victimized himself
I bet Taylor canât forget what he did to her oh wait she canât she wrote 2 songs about how much he fucked her up newest song being last month fuck John Mayer
@@peteslash9264 she was 19 and he was 32 idc if she wasnât a minor anymore, donât you think itâs weird and disturbing a 32 year old man having anything to do with a 19 year old girl
@@anacastaneda4849 random interjection but personally while i am not interested in ever dating anyone younger or older than me I also donât think itâs weird if someone else does. As long as itâs all legal and itâs not a situation where one person is mentally deficient then I donât see a problem. Iâve known far too many couples throughout my life that have big age gaps like that but are extremely happy and have healthy relationships. Two people having a messy break up is normal and it feels unnecessary and gross to add extra moral weight in this case. Especially when legally the argument of grooming is totally irrelevant . Not to mention that usually thereâs two sides to every story. I mean neither of these people have a great dating track record. Both share the same constant of never being able to hold down a relationship for long. Arguably it looks worse at least on a surface level for Taylor given that a large portion of her image revolves around creating music that capitalizes on heart break/relationship drama. But at the end of the day we donât know either of these people personally and we donât know what their relationship was truly like in private. If i had to guess given that 9 times out of 10 the truth lies somewhere in the middle. They were both probably equally toxic to each other and resorted to being petty in their songwriting afterwards.
@@klonklone7787 I don't see him competing with biggies. He is nowhere to seen other than in taylor swift diss tracks lolđ people know him only because of that lol. You living example of delusional lunatic
@@princejoshi2742 Yet youâre here on a video about who? Oh thatâs right, him, not her. Sounds like youâre the delusional one kiddo. Iâm a musician & he is very well known by us & sells out all his shows on all his tours. He plays with tons of famous musicians that she canât even get in the same room with.
@@klonklone7787 well if he doesn't appeal to masses then it's his loss. Because other artists has tried niche genres too but they still charted meanwhile someone tanked and we all know who.
He gave a lotta people, me included, a reason to cope with life and find joys in life. Even if he was a bad person, he could never put all those beauty throughout his songs. Besides, thereâs no reason for adhere to the past. Everyone changes and so does he.
Donât get the hate with John Mayer heâs a musicianâs musician. Great songwriter and unbelievable guitar player. As soon as I heard the voice of the guy in the vid I knew his opinion đ
@@davidhopkins4678 legal does not mean moral. There are many laws that arenât moral but itâs legal. Itâs just a poor argument to try to say itâs ok just because itâs legal. This is a girl like I said who is a year fresh out of high school, literally still a teen, teen is in the age 19. Itâs grooming and gross my guy.
@@asktaylor493 ah yes here come the swifties. 20-somethings who canât get a boyfriend or a girlfriend and project these feelings onto Taylor Swiftâs exes
â@@spiderguy01 bruh paper doll? Imagine bragging about dating someone who just became an adult and then whining because they weren't mature enough. John Mayers fans are as stupid as he is
âExtremely evilâ. WTF? đ€Ł You know whatâs evil? Leveraging someones fame, and then write songs about it saying they were grooming you. Thatâs evil.
@@agu3798 I'm not here to lie about John mayer and throw his name around like some type of toy, I am here to inform you about what John mayer did to Taylor swift because I have researched about this and dived into the internet to find out what truly happened, enough to where I can give my input of what I think happened to both of them. honestly like, most of the people in this comment section don't even know what they're talking about, the definition of spitting untrue sh*t all over the place with no valid reason, no valid source of information, and the worst part of all, no research to back it up.
@@agu3798 in Taylor swift's songs, "Would've, Could've, Should've and, "Dear John", it was clear that she went through some pretty f*cked up sh*t in the relationship, and she was hella scarred for life, like, there were even some more victims of John mayer and his screwed up mindset, katy perry and some other girl's name that I forgot.
@@pieislifepieislifepieislif1736 Swift is a petty girl who likes to talk trash about her exes through her music.that's her whole shtick. It takes two to tango, so I don't buy the whole "John is an abusive manipulative narcissist blah blah" narrative crazies like you like to harp on.if a girl is 19, she's old enough period.boys take longer to mature on average.
Exactly when 14 year olds are having sex and is legal in most happier more progressed countries, people do anything to bring society down to their miserable level for likes
This dude is definitely a swifty.
He's definitely an idiot aswell
I don't even like Taylor Swift but even I can recognize that John Mayer is a low man that has no respect for others and just sucks overall lmao
Exactly what I was going to say
Bro how he hates Taylor with his heart
He's gay
Thanks, I'll go back to practicing Neon on my Fender Dreadnought
build those callouses up boy
Were you able to tune the top string to C?
Woke people suck and typically sound like jm cut off blood circulation to their manhood with a guitar string. Tune that to c mofo
đđđ good one
That's the proper response.
Remember everyone. "When you trust your television, what you get is what you got. cuz when they own the information, they can bend it all they want"
Sadly, this world doesn't want to change đ€·đ»
Iâm still waiting on the world to change đ
Haha damn straight!
âSo why we waiting?â
Thank you
John Mayer is actually fucking hilarious đ
.....He really is đŻđ
Literally lol people fr soft
Wth he literally took advantage of girls and is a racist to call a douche bag âhilariousâ is so low n dry
I thought there would be some real reasons, this just made me like him more
fr đ when he accidentally sang that ariana grande song that was insanely funny
Time to buy a silver sky
Lmao
Just got the se and the core model one in arctic white and the other on stone blue
@@THESHR3DS1324 nice! how is it?
@@-astronautical-1549 LOL will do
Cool story bro. Gonna go back to shredding Slow Dancing now
Lol what are you like 12
@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 Lol are you 10?
@@tenzing2090 nope
@@mrchihuahuaboy4306 your name is literally âMr chihuahua boyâ donât start talkingđ
@@niekvanwensen shut up!
"Theres a great woman inside you, I love that woman- but not you" -chad
Gonna try that on my girlfriend.
Intensely high chad levels.
Absolutely, Sigma AF.
I think itâs honest. Sheâs was a drunk back then.
Anything over 18 isnât pedophilia. Idk where ur getting that from lmao
ikr i swear these losers throw that word around so much to the point where it loses its meaning
but still a groomer
itâs still disgusting he was 32 and she was freshly 19 itâs not technically pedophilia but he was old enough to know that 19 is way too young
â@@guiliana3858it's not too young. It's over the consent age. What's the point of putting an age on it if we're just gonna ignore it?
clearly youâve never been an innocent, naĂŻve, 19 year old girl who didnât completely know who she was yet.
if you ask me, anyone above 30 should only date people 25-28+ because at least theyâll have more experience with the world, know what they want and how to set boundaries.
The biggest mistake I made that cost me alot of enjoyment was assuming people cared.. they don't - John Mayer
Was he referring to something specific?
Honestly if he is so racist I donât why Dave Chappelle would be such great friends with him and why most of his band members (for tours) were black. A longtime producer for him Don Was is black, long time drummer Steve Jordan is black, David Ryan Harris. I donât really want name off everyone, but he has worked with these people for decades. If he was really racist I donât think they would stick around
Exactly, thank you. The guy in this video is stupid
Agreed
Having black friends doesn't mean you're not racist đ
Also played with B.B. King
@@SaphiraTessa The guy in the video said it kind of out of context. In the interview when John made the remark about a white supremacist dick. He was asked if black woman throw themselves at him thatâs when he said the thing. Which is basically a really bad way of saying that heâs not really into black women in that way. Which isnât really racist. Different strokes for different folks.
How the hell do you groom a 19 year old!?
If so we got a hell of a lot of older women grooming young men.
He touched her inappropriately without her consent. Not officially grooming but a terrible thing to do
At 18 you become legal in all states and most states in America have an age of consent that is 16 so you cannot groom a 19 year old. You cannot groom a 16 year old in the state of Pennsylvania (where I live) and in most states grooming someone 16+ is impossible. Everywhere grooming someone 18+ is impossible. Not sure why society loved to infantilise those in their late teens! Nothing illegal about it but itâs certainly more strange for an older woman to go after younger boys than the other way around!
@@Janelle-xr3ovBruh, you can be groomed at any age. Yâall need to learn what grooming actually is instead of just using it as a synonym for pedophilia.
yeah we have loads of older women grooming young guys. itâs really sad because people donât really recognise that as much when it happens a lot and is just as bad
@@meelskyread the definition and stfu please
Glad that people in the comments are aware that people can change and that cancelling someone for something they said literally 10+ years ago is the dumbest shit possible. Get a life if youâre serious about trying to blow up an artist who has owned up to his mistakes and moved forward in his life.
Cancel your father figure for leaving you
did you literally do any research at all
like if you really wanted to change the creator's mind about posting this video, you would've attempted to structure a valid argument backing John up, (or an argument on the creator of why he posted the video and how he could've gone through the topic with a bit more detail and skillful manner) , but no, you go out of your way to ruin someone's day, what the internet normalized nowadays is so immature and arrogant
Like what's the purpose of even speaking if everything that comes out of your mouth is pure bullsh*t and toxicity?
Time to reflect on your mindset and look at a mirror for once.
Icing on the cake: yes, the video creator was right, John mayer DID groom Taylor in the 2009-2010 era of her life (you probably weren't even born yet so I guess you didn't get to witness it), he emotionally manipulated, emotionally exhausted, emotionally abused Taylor and MANY other victims that unfortunately fell into his bear-trap of downward spirals and forever winters.
@@pieislifepieislifepieislif1736 my bad I was born 7 months ago wtf are you takkin about
@@r33finstinctzz93 ??? wdym? u don't make sense at all
Damn, thatâs crazy.
Anyways, have yâall seen him live?
Amazing performer !
Fax he the goat fr
Shit u seen the recent acoustic born and raised? Shit was đ„đ„đ„
@@metroecco7908 it's fire đ„đ„ cuz everyone burnt it down
@@johnnyysolis goat= groomer of all time
Amazing
Guy: dates legal adult
Internet: He's evil!
What's the point of a consent age if you're just gonna disregard people who qualify for it?
This, this is true
Bruh just cus ur legal donât make it right. U just automatically have a develop brain at the age of consent depending on where you live? Also these people who go for people barely the age of consent would go lower if they could.
@@blackcopycat4967 itâs the age of consent for a reason, they didnât just choose a random age for consent
@@fornarnia7569 age of consent is age of consent so people can have sex with people not too young. Not to get pregnant.
Just know all the other people in your age range definitely look at you as a creep
Donât care literal god tier musician
Besides he still has the most rizz out of any guitarist
I could take a big fat dookie in the toilet and put a cool beat with it and itâll be better than his music đ
@@peequeefslave damn post the link can't wait xoxo
@@jashkaran2032 Alright pookie give me a couple of days since Iâm having poo poo issues and I got you
@@peequeefslave I anticipate great things from you. may the force be with you
Itâs these kinds of people that ruin social media
Same bro đ€Šââïž
Fr
We only care about his music legacy đ€, he is a modern hendrix
Amen
No it's haters
bro do something better with your life besides trying to cancel people lmao
W
on god
đđđ literally
For real bro i dont even like john mayer but this video was just sad
Thank you
Cool bro. Iâm gonna go back to crushing on 50 year olds (Iâm 17)
Sameee (im 16)
Did you know that not everyone, not even close, hates John Mayer?
Damn thatâs crazy, 3x5 goes crazy live tho
Nah clarity much better
You need to see him in a new Light.
Hahahahđđđđ
Good one
hahah i love this
Good one mateđ
Lol
"OH word? That's crazy."
*proceeds to blast Continuum
Well Iâm gonna go back to playing slow dancing in a burning room on my Schecter diamond series.
Grooming is a term used for underage children , not for a 19 year old adult woman. Also, everyone can have a personal preference to be attracted to, such as blond, dark , tall, short, or white or black, this has absolutely nothing to do with racism.
Confusing these concepts does not help against the real problems of child predators and racism ;)
Thank you! You are a legal adult at 18. Age of consent is 16 in most places in the United States. They talk as if she is a minor under the age of 16.
He did compare his man parts to the leader of the KKK in an interview, but he took it back later, plus that was over 10 years ago he's a heck of a lot older now
@@fuzzlelive3084 Thatâs weird but it doesnât even actually make him racist. Itâs just a stupid thing to say, like who seriously cares? And itâs funny to me that in our society, we literally call 17 year olds âchildrenâ. Itâs like people donât connect the fact that 18 is the age of majority, which means the law sees 17 year olds as minor children by technicality, but also sees them as competent enough to be legal adults in the next few months⊠so does the law TRULY see 17 year olds as children? I donât know if thatâs something we can answer, but we can give a legal answer and say yes but we could also include that at that age you can have a license, and many times will be tried as an adult for any serious crime you commit. At the end of the day, none of that stuff even matters, it only does if you wanna talk about if from a legal perspective and not a moral perspective. Morally, at 19 years old, many young women are very mature. Many young women at 16 are already very much starting to consider themselves as adults in many ways. The experience of a 19 year old young woman is not that of a childâs. A very young adult. Not a child. The truth that they want to ignore is that no woman is a child by the time she reaches about seventeen years old. Thatâs actually pathetic if anyone believes that. I canât imagine looking to a "law" and decided that is a fact and that suddenly in Indiana when a girl turns 16 she is suddenly able to consent to sex but that a 17 year old in California isnât⊠you end up believing stuff like that when you look to the law. So to anyone who claims the laws regarding age are simply facts, and not just a guideline you need to follow for your own safety⊠I would ask you why you believe that a Michigan teen at 16 years old, truly in actuality, has more of the ability and bodily autonomy to consent to sex more than a teen at 17 years old in Florida. I really think our culture has an issue that needs to be called out about the law we infantilise while also sexualizing our youth, particularly the ones around the ages of 16-20..
â@@Janelle-xr3ovAmen!!! Tho ironically, I'd be willing to bet all I own that the "Host" of this ridiculous video would argue until the end of time that "Minors" (those under the age of 18) are "Adults" & are both intellectually & emotionally mature enough to consent to the removal of their body parts, or to take hormones/puberty blockers to "transition" to their biologically opposite sex/gender!!!
it is not a term used for underage children this is what grooming means âWhat is grooming? Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.â it says a child or a young person and a young person aka a person in their youth are from the ages 16-24 due to the fact that they are more valuable and are not fully developed adults
Thank you for not knowing anything of who he is now.
Makes the job of walking away from this that much easier.
Wow I never knew these things about him. Itâs wild.
Have you heard vultures? Itâs an amazing song, heâs a genius.
Ok, still being the best guitarist from the last 20 years and the third best one of all time
The man has grown up a lot now and also neither you nor anyone know about his personal matters except the women he had relationships with and him and things he's done in his past doesn't make him "evil" everyone has a past with bad things try giving people 2nd chance
And also no hate to you just putting my opinion
@⥠Lolita ⥠Frist off growing up doesn't mean growing up in age it also means development of character and some people gets mature faster than others and by your comment I think you like Taylor and I like her too but think of a man who suffered from criticism for a long part of his life and even now, don't you think the man has changed even a bit. Second Everyone needs a chance to correct their mistakes, we all make mistakes.....
By the way nothing on you, Thanks for the conversationđ
And yet people still hate stars like Billy Elish for stuff she said when she was literally a child.
Good to know, can you do a Neon tutorial with tabs next?
You really think someone that is trying to be relevant by belittling others has that type of skill đ
Bro that's a hard nut for him, let him try In your atmosphere
This generation of sensitive fake influencers đ
Thankfully he plays that guitar like a god and ignores folks who squeak when they make shite videos about him.
People are soft. JM is goated
A sexual assaulter is fucking disgusting, not goat
Having that talent will get you haters for sure
Being good a guitar doesnât make u a good person đ
i donât think heâs goated cus what he did to his exes does suck but i do not think all swifties need to hold this bad of a grudge on him đ
@@JunoJasmineand being a good person doesnât make you a great guitarist đ fuck yourself đ
you said him being a racist, while at the same time showed one of the cutest moments of grammy of him and alicia keys lol
And he's best buds with David Ryan Harris.
@@MrBlackPasta & dave Chappell, & majority of his touring band his black.
@@toddatisme8063 and Trick Daddy, Alicia Keys and Kanye.
He was also very close to and respected B B King.
And he literally worships guys like BB King and Buddy Guy
No sane man or woman can hate modern JM. Bro's literally a buddha
Damn that's crazy. Have you ever seen him play slow dancing live in LA? Crazy performance
Power is made by power being taken.
So i keep on running to protect my situation.
Down to the wireee
@@SckezaI wanted water but Iâll walk through the fire
@@miguel77077 smoke a bowl while Iâm rolling in a tire
â@@miguel77077if this is what it takes to take me even higher
Damn so sad
Anyways you've heard new light by him it's so dope
Disgusting
@@Error_-ct2vp ikr that song is filthy it slaps
John Mayer can't treat a 19 year old right let alone write a song.
â@@jill875says the Taylor swift fan
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Thanks a lot. I'm gonna go back and practice the guitar he had signed before.
itâs not a silly little moment, itâs the storm before the calm
Watched this video and went straight outside to get me a silver sky
Rosewood or maple?
PRS is goated
That's crazy đ§
Hold on one sec gotta drop my low e to d.
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đđđ underrated comment
Haha
Bro literally defending a pedophile in the comments wth
how's being in a relationship with an adult 19 yr old a pedophile?
Wait, let me get this straight:
So idk who tf that is, but obviously he's a prck, and people in the comments are still defending? Apparently he's a musician with lots of fans? Huh.
I see that those "music fans" would worship even Hitler if he released a sick album. Music is one of humanity's greatest discovery, but I see that humanity isn't all there anymore.
Lmao if you don't know him then don't speak because the Freedom of speech doesn't justify you saying bullshit. Most of the things said in this video is not even true, like he's not racist at all give the fact that most of the musicians he worked with in his life are black and they respect him very much and he respects them. He never groomed anyone, people act like despite the age gap, they both weren't adults consenting to a relationship. Also Taylor was the first to pursue John, she was obssesed with him, don't blame him for not rejecting her. The reason we don't give a damn is because he's just simply a god tier musician, great music and is one of the best guitar players in the world, he also changed and apologised a lot about his past actions while Taylor tried to pin him down even more with songs like Dear John. As his fan, I can acknowledge that he said some things that can be taken inappropriately, because he did, he apologised, he changed, get over it. Most of the "bad" things that people say about him are just seen from a bad angle
Nah , he's great đ
Damn, anyway, letâs get back to practicing that juicy ainât no sunshine cover
bruh we really all searched the same thing to get here
@@_dnk lol I literally googled "john mayer ain't no sunshine" and it brought me here
Amen brother
This content is so cringe, easy to frame low-points and sarcasm as reprehensible behavior when out of context.
This is prime example of people trying to use their emotions as logic. We need to stop doing this as a society.
He worked with Frank Ocean on Channel Orange and Frank is LGBT and black, Frank doesn't have a bad word to say about him đź
Ok, thanks for the info, Iâll get back to Queen of California right now.
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exactly
Big facts
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Lol what? A đ?! How..
I love John Mayer. Dude gets bitches đ
John is not a đ for assaulting Taylor, he is a cruel and terrible escuse of a human being. He took her girlhood. He is horrid, not amazing
@@tswiftismytharapy Stop crying Swifty
â@@tswiftismytharapyNo one cares đ
He's the đ
When a Swiftie makes a CZcams channel.
Translated to English:
1. He dates adults
2. He has a sense of humor
3. He had some nasty break ups
4. He kissed a man as joke
5. He enjoys Japanese culture
Bro, she was legal. Why does he call it grooming?
@@axe-tq2wn 32 dated 19 is still weird af, not to mention even if she was the one asking for it, he should've known that it's better to turn down that relationship
â@@yukitakeru4719why would it have been better? Better according to who?
What about racism then he's fucking disgusting?!
Facts
He's a genuinely good person and loving human being. You're stuck in the past and full of hate.also point number 5 is so dumb
no, hes an expert at sorry and keeping lines blurry.
@@analufa found the 16 year old
@@analufa watch him address people like you on the call her daddy podcast
He bad talked all his exes and they were all hurt by him. How is that good?
@@mr.icecream7880 You mean, like Taylor Swift does?
thereâs this yt short abt the bad things john has done and the whole comment section is praising him for it. disgusting
Yes, heâs not a đfor assaulting her, heâs a horrible person with uneducated fans. The comments are fucking disgusting. He stole her girlhood
Those are not reasons to hate anyone, Yall are to sensitive and too judgmental đ
Donât really listen to John mayer but he seems like a normal guy with a sense of humor that modern people canât handle
Exactly. Cancel culture snowflakes are a cancer to western society
Fr nobody can take a joke anymore
Yeah grooming (and allegedly emotionally abusing) girls is my favorite joke that people just can't handle
@@gooodmorning4526 fr? Mine too bro
â@@gooodmorning4526 HE DID emotionally abuse Taylor and many other unfortunate victims of his. HE DID emotionally manipulate his exes in order to stay with him for longer and HE DID show narcissist behaviourism in his relationships.
Yet people still joke about this stuff like it's something to be thrown around the room and not be taken seriously.
THIS IS ENOUGH FOR SOMEONE TO COMMIT SUICIDE.
Cultural Appropriation??!?!?!! U serious bro?
That one just made me laugh. I didn't know having men in panda costumes dance was appropriation of Asian culture lol
Fr ,and 80% of the cast who were Asian were brainwashed too apparently đđ smh
But I mean....... he shreds
"Grand Wizard?"
He is a phenomenon and an absolute legend, his music and songwriting has helped his fans survive and stay alive. â€
How do you groom a 19 year old? Thatâs legal age.
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Ppl act like Taylor swift didn't consent to dating him.
@@jordanmccowan5251 "Would've Could've should've" exists, listen to it, you'll see it in a new light
Even though if was still legal and consensual doesn't mean it couldn't leave Taylor lasting scars, as we can see in Would've, Should've, Could've. Here's a definition of 'Grooming'. Grooming is a form of abuse that involves manipulating someone until they're isolated, dependent, and more vulnerable to exploitation. So it isn't not always dependent on age but it could of played a part in their relationship dynamic as John was 32 and Taylor was 19 which is a 13 year age gap but on top of that John was a well established artist by then and Taylor being so young and inexperienced (literally and career rise). So that probably why someone people would refer to it as grooming however we have no idea the true in and outs of the relationship so who knows what actually happened between. But that's just my take feel free that have your own opinion. â„ïž
@@MegaSaideebro Taylor Swift literally does nothing but write songs about her dozens of exes... ever heard of a common denominator?
Unsurprising rock music fans have a hard time grasping the concept that just because itâs legal to date a 19 yr old when youâre 32 doesnât mean itâs not weird as fuck.
This just tells me how hilarious he is đ incredible guitarist and performer btw
Damn John Mayer is cooler than I thought.
white american who thinks is better than entire race
No comment, I'll fix that brah.
EXACTLY
lmao
ikr
Sounds like me trying to hate Mayer after I spent two hours trying to get the first chord of Neon right.
Then I remember the guy tours with Bob Weir and I fall in love again.
I bet you're gay
No one gives a fuck about your opinion on JM a modern day guitar God.
Instead of hating on the guy hereâs 5 reasons why everyone loves John Mayer.
1. He impacted a generation of musicians, I being one of them.
2 Heâs pretty humble nowadays. Owned up to his past and sought forgiveness for the admitted douchebag he used to be.
3. Written some of the most iconic songs since Y2K.
4. Heâs relatable to the outcast and loners like me
5. Truly an incredible story of how he became successful.
Look I ainât here to downplay the dude he used to be but we all gotta move on and forgive. Peace and love. đ€
And letâs not forget that heâs one of the greatest musicians and guitarist of our generation
Peace and love, peace and looooove
@@spiderguy01 Guitarist, yes. Let's not get carried away.
All I see are his impacts to music but none about being a decent human being. Would have been great if he tool accountability for preying on a teenager as a 32 year old, but he victimized himself
I bet Taylor canât forget what he did to her oh wait she canât she wrote 2 songs about how much he fucked her up newest song being last month fuck John Mayer
All of these things are very outdated and were a long time ago, heâs really changed in the last 5-10 years tbf and the Japanese one is bs
Heâs said in the past that he loves japan
I donât think grooming someone gets outdated ever thank you
@@anacastaneda4849 yeah she was like 20 years old. Not grooming
@@peteslash9264 she was 19 and he was 32 idc if she wasnât a minor anymore, donât you think itâs weird and disturbing a 32 year old man having anything to do with a 19 year old girl
@@anacastaneda4849 random interjection but personally while i am not interested in ever dating anyone younger or older than me I also donât think itâs weird if someone else does. As long as itâs all legal and itâs not a situation where one person is mentally deficient then I donât see a problem. Iâve known far too many couples throughout my life that have big age gaps like that but are extremely happy and have healthy relationships.
Two people having a messy break up is normal and it feels unnecessary and gross to add extra moral weight in this case. Especially when legally the argument of grooming is totally irrelevant . Not to mention that usually thereâs two sides to every story. I mean neither of these people have a great dating track record. Both share the same constant of never being able to hold down a relationship for long. Arguably it looks worse at least on a surface level for Taylor given that a large portion of her image revolves around creating music that capitalizes on heart break/relationship drama.
But at the end of the day we donât know either of these people personally and we donât know what their relationship was truly like in private. If i had to guess given that 9 times out of 10 the truth lies somewhere in the middle. They were both probably equally toxic to each other and resorted to being petty in their songwriting afterwards.
I domt hate him
Yo so heâs based?
Found this while listening to John Mayer at work all day. Gonna go back to listening to some more.
By everybody he means the 30 year old women who only knew about him through Taylor Swift.
To bad 30 year olds knew about him during his prime, before Taylor was even ont the scene but ok.
But new light is such a good song
"Everyone" huh? Gotta love these youtubers speaking for the entire world. The insecurity you must feel to want people to agree with you is sad.
Now I like John Mayer even more. What a legend.
Same
Based
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so grooming young women and being racist and homophobic is respectable? thatâs disgusting.
Respect
Alternative Title: Why everyone loves John Mayer
@Ruilin Hu I have all of them. On vinyl too. I think youâre just jealous
â@@klonklone7787 but he tanked so hardđđđđ maybe it's tbe taylor swift curse.
@@klonklone7787 I don't see him competing with biggies. He is nowhere to seen other than in taylor swift diss tracks lolđ people know him only because of that lol. You living example of delusional lunatic
@@princejoshi2742
Yet youâre here on a video about who? Oh thatâs right, him, not her. Sounds like youâre the delusional one kiddo. Iâm a musician & he is very well known by us & sells out all his shows on all his tours. He plays with tons of famous musicians that she canât even get in the same room with.
@@klonklone7787 well if he doesn't appeal to masses then it's his loss. Because other artists has tried niche genres too but they still charted meanwhile someone tanked and we all know who.
John Mayer is the gd man , y'all are some new age Gen low T/E kids making videos
18 19 isnt being groomed its literally legal
I think John Mayer's one of the best celebrities on the planet. Certainly one of my favourites.
says a lot about your character
Yes...His music isđ„
IFKR, bro's guitar skills are like next level
â@@sparklee5044yeh a great character, And great taste in music
You have created a sad existence for yourself my friend, I hope for your sake you can get out of the hamster wheel of hate u have knowingly jump onto
Remember Jay Z and Beyonce started dating at 32 and 20 so is Jay Z a groomer too? Or does 1 year difference change everything?
Cool but can you play neon?
These sound like why you don't like him. That's ok, but just say it.
But he made BITTERSWEET POETRY đŁđŁđŁđŁđŁđŁđŁđ„đ„đ„đ„đ„đ„đ„đ„
But that voice tho đ
He gave a lotta people, me included, a reason to cope with life and find joys in life. Even if he was a bad person, he could never put all those beauty throughout his songs. Besides, thereâs no reason for adhere to the past. Everyone changes and so does he.
Donât get the hate with John Mayer heâs a musicianâs musician. Great songwriter and unbelievable guitar player. As soon as I heard the voice of the guy in the vid I knew his opinion đ
Hahah same, itâs the typical cancel voiceđŹđŹđŹ
This honestly makes me laugh LMAO
This guy sucks.
* consensual relationship between 2 adults * this guy : GrOoMiNg
Any 30 year old man who would deem it appropriate to date a TEENAGER is pitiful and gross.
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@@spinoking9168 itâs legal and consensual. He would not be guilty of grooming. Itâs defamation to say that it is.
@@davidhopkins4678 legal does not mean moral. There are many laws that arenât moral but itâs legal. Itâs just a poor argument to try to say itâs ok just because itâs legal. This is a girl like I said who is a year fresh out of high school, literally still a teen, teen is in the age 19. Itâs grooming and gross my guy.
@@spinoking9168 okay 19 y/o man and a 34 y/o woman. Is that okay?
massive L bro. So long ago, very forgotten about
wait till speak now tv comes out
@@asktaylor493 ah yes here come the swifties. 20-somethings who canât get a boyfriend or a girlfriend and project these feelings onto Taylor Swiftâs exes
@@asktaylor493 Aw fr 70% of Taylorâs fans werenât even alive 11 years ago when the John Mayer and Taylor thing happened
@@spiderguy01 I was i dont know who you aee talking about babes
â@@spiderguy01 bruh paper doll? Imagine bragging about dating someone who just became an adult and then whining because they weren't mature enough. John Mayers fans are as stupid as he is
Thatâs why I love him. He represents the masculinity survival.
Donât generalise everyone! Some celebrity doesnât represent us all. I am his huge fan.
The comments just prove how "great" his fans are.
Right? People here are fucking "delusional"
Oh, boo hoo
Your fragile ego got hurt?đ„ș
Baby got a boo boo
@@bomitayeng whatâ ïž
â@@bomitayeng dafuk u talking about?
Not surprising his fanbase is full of incels
âExtremely evilâ. WTF? đ€Ł You know whatâs evil? Leveraging someones fame, and then write songs about it saying they were grooming you. Thatâs evil.
uhm because he WAS grooming taylor and other exes? he emotionally manipulated, emotionally abused, showed extreme narcissistic behavior to taylor
â@@pieislifepieislifepieislif1736 stop the nonsense.
@@agu3798 I'm not here to lie about John mayer and throw his name around like some type of toy, I am here to inform you about what John mayer did to Taylor swift because I have researched about this and dived into the internet to find out what truly happened, enough to where I can give my input of what I think happened to both of them. honestly like, most of the people in this comment section don't even know what they're talking about, the definition of spitting untrue sh*t all over the place with no valid reason, no valid source of information, and the worst part of all, no research to back it up.
@@agu3798 in Taylor swift's songs, "Would've, Could've, Should've and, "Dear John", it was clear that she went through some pretty f*cked up sh*t in the relationship, and she was hella scarred for life, like, there were even some more victims of John mayer and his screwed up mindset, katy perry and some other girl's name that I forgot.
@@pieislifepieislifepieislif1736 Swift is a petty girl who likes to talk trash about her exes through her music.that's her whole shtick.
It takes two to tango, so I don't buy the whole "John is an abusive manipulative narcissist blah blah" narrative crazies like you like to harp on.if a girl is 19, she's old enough period.boys take longer to mature on average.
I work in Hollywood looking at him rn lol
Good concise list. Still dig his older music, just donât go hard for him like I used to
Imagine a future groomer (probably already one) calling someone else a groomer for dating a 19 year old
Exactly when 14 year olds are having sex and is legal in most happier more progressed countries, people do anything to bring society down to their miserable level for likes
Be fr when did taylor groom anyone â ïž
bffr
@@asktaylor493 i don't think they were talking about Taylor... That commenter is talking about the uploader maybe đ€
@@Azarath_Metrion_Zinthos Ya I'm talking about the flaminghomo that uploaded the video