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"If my man stops giving me a weekly allowance, I won't be happy!" | BKCHAT LDN: S6 EPISODE 4
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- čas přidán 14. 08. 2024
- Join the conversation in Episode 4 as the cast debate financial boundaries in relationships, sharing personal stories and different perspectives.
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Who's gets MVP of Episode 4?
Gabz hands down 😂
Dinalva
dinalva
Get an older intelligent person on every show who can bring the conversation bac k on point and ask pertinent questions. The topic of should modern females get traditional men or traditional benefit would have been the natural better discussion here.
Men - Dami. Women - Dina
I like Loyce a lot ngl, she's very open and pretty insightful. and for the life of me I cant unsee P Diddy 😂😂 absolutely spins me
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Loyce is just my fave, the way she just carries herself and she’s so pretty 😍😍😍
Loyce is not only gorgeous she’s intelligent only person who’s made sense the whole season
Gabz looks like a mix of Diddy and Martin Lawrence
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 underrated comment still
😂😂😂biggest vio
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i deadass thought the same thing before i even came to the comments 🤣
I thought I was the only one who thought so 😂😂😂😂
This Portuguese girl is Jarringgg bro
Word
Simple one, the man should say no & explain why. How the girl reacts will say how much she likes him. If she wants to end the relationship, it's clear she was just using him. If she's understanding, she probably genuinely likes him
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THANK YOU!
“providations”? what am i watching😂
He said it with so much conviction I really believe it was a real word 😩
I googled it and it’s not there!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg just heard this bit
@@naysx12baaaaahahahaha
They didn’t put cookie in this episode for a reason 😂😂😂
And what’s the reason
@@mscookietvthat you’re a clown! And if you dare say a man should provide for your big hairy crack ass we would laugh
@@mscookietvbecause it would be chaos 😂😂babes
@@mscookietv cause we know what your opinion will be and the boys would attack you for it 🤣🤣
I know right 😂😂😂😭
I’m stanning Gabz. If you wanna be with a traditional man, expect him to control you. We all know whomsoever has the most bread has the upper hand.
But that’s not an expected trait of a traditional man. That’s not normal. Wanting to control your partner isn’t the same as a being a leader. Those are two different things
@@aimsfabs6147 it's not expected but we see this happen all the time whether it's our parents or the aunties down the road I know way too many women in "marriages" with men and they provide everything financially and these women are lonely in every sense of the word. they won't plan dates for you, they won't court you, they dont nuture the kids with you, he's not emotionally available or even present in the relationship this happens very regularly in "traditional marriages" and a lot of women cannot see the difference because they think he's bought me a house, car, given me children and gives me money every week
@@aimsfabs6147that’s true. But in the “traditional” context, it’s definitely easier to slip into being controlling because it’s very easy to let making the most money get to your head. But you’re right, either way it’s not Normal.
But so far people are able to work through that by being self aware then it should be fine.
Not all providers are controlling you sound insecure
What size do you take in heels you seem real sassy
Tosin is NOT humble at all😂😂.. I like how Loyce appreciated the microwave issue… that’s a real humble person
He’s an oppressor is crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bro what is wrong with the mixed girl with the white top..whats the need to be rude and tell that bredda to shut up like that..she got real issues. I dont even like dude but theres no reason for her to be that rude.
She just immature
Very immature
Me and richez wind each other up babes so don’t let it effect you 😂 that’s big bro
She can say whatever she wants
Tbf he does purposely wind her up😂😂😂
Gabz sees through the BS . Dami likes to tell women sweet nothings.
the way he was calling him out was hilarious LOOOL
Dami has the classic nigerian mindset, this is why i see so many girls nowadays online saying they like nigerian men because they spend lots, women have started looking at them as an easy finesse🤦🏽♂️
You know what reality shows. All females are buysexual and when you lie, females buy;-p
You get 😂
@@GABZ-TV Its not that Dami likes to tell females sweet nothings. It is that females be narcissists and hating accountability avoid the truth hence why the saying "when you lie, females buy" exists and adopted by government, feminists, cosmetic industry and weak men in dating/marriages just to survive aka avoid her unnecessary wahala
Nah tosin t and loyce are giving peng on a different level it’s actually a mad ting 😍😍😍
Dami talking about protector provider whilst wearing fake Dior
Yikes
😂😂😂😂😂
Let him wear his copy stuff 😂😂😂 at least he wants to provide! 🤣🤣
Liah is actually so rude, no manners just attitude
Not for ppl i don’t really know 🤭
@@liahmonet.xCooked him 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah I know 😊
mums shes just a btec tyla from lidil
Damn😂🫣
“She’s not being Understandable”and “providations”🤣🤣 I’m hearing different words and phrases today
It’s Understanding and Provisions ganggg 😭
Tbf "understandable" is a word. He just misused it
@@michael43567 I know it is lol, just the phrase “she’s not being understandable”made no sense
Imagine being pregnant and being asked business questions 😂 the stress. Might as well do it alone
Lol, now consulting with your wife is an issue? And anyway more time we know what we want to do, we're just seeing what you think
@michael43567 PREGNANT wife...yes. I run payroll maternity sessions for pregnant women and I can tell you, they don't have the capacity to make business decisions especially in their last trimester. The focus is on keeping themselves sane and the baby alive
@@Elsies_dorta I said "consulting". You're speaking as if I'm saying she's making complex business decisions alone. For example, "X is what's going on & I'm thinking we should do Y, what do you think"
@@michael43567 that is complex. Please just let them nap and eat whatever they're craving
@@Elsies_dorta fine. But then don't complain later about something that he attempted to consult with you on
I hate to admit that I like Gabz 😂😂
Don’t fight it sweet heart 😂
“Can I call you gabby” THE DISRESPECT😭🤣
Pleaseeee😂😂😂
Gabby is not okay 😂😂😂😂 "hello mother effer"
Liyah is a pick me Lmao she tries to stand apart but some women agree with some of her points. She wants the boys to clap for her
Why is Liah bring Tosin Dad into this. What a stupid question
Women need to step out of the social media fairytale/delusion and step into reality. The average man in the uk is on £30k per year. And this is your average joe who is hardworking and disciplined not even a bum. He will not have the money to give you a lavish lifestyle and/or weekly allowance. Doesn’t mean he loves you anyless.
Tell em Zion
And especially if we’re talking about the average African/Carribean British guy.. the average is 25k a year.
A lot of these women are targeting not even the top 1% of man.. more like the 0.3% - then complain when they get passed around and cheated on by the same ‘guy’ every other woman wants.
There’s some good guys out there with morals working warehouse jobs or as accountants, assistants and even managers.
But you won’t get designer handbags, rolex’s, shopping sprees and luxury holidays..
The entitlement is crazy.
Hmmm these are london people though surely the average is higher. That 30K average is all of the UK, yes ?
@@Crukren89 Yes London.
For men aged 18-21 £22,000.
For men 22-29 £30,000.
30-49 £37,000.
40-49 £40,000
And even lower if we’re just talking about the average for African/Carribean British men.
£30,000 after tax is £24,422. That’s £2016 a month. At least £700 on rent. £1100/£1200 minimum if you live alone.. £300 food. Then gas, car, insurance, bills, leisure etc. Lucky to have even £400 left, even if you’re good at saving.
That’s your average Joe. Always has been. A big wake-up call for the women that demand a man on 100k+ a year which isn’t even 100k, it’s £67,000 after tax LOL.
@@TheSweetScienceGOAT goddamn i weren't expecting the deep dive brother lol. Appreciate the effort. Love when statistics are laid out plain to see. Yep alot of people out here dont know what average actually is
Too many kids on this panel I can’t cope
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Dude in white was high a’f lmaooo when he spoke I was hocked forgot he was there
Gold digging £200 or £150??? 😂😂😂 there are diff grades of gold so I guess 😂😂😂. People should cut their coat according to their cloth. If you can’t afford don’t give and don’t be pressurised. If you can’t afford a lifestyle don’t burden your partner or someone else to provide especially if it’s not a necessity.
Abeg thats like 500k niara a week for someone thats not ur wife
YOu b1t ches should really stop looking for a man to give you financial support that your own dad couldn't or wouldn't even give you. You laughing about a lil 250 so how about you be the one to give your man that lil 250-350 every week instead of the other way around? 🤣🤣🤣 exactly, you're not gon do it, so stop expecting him to
Entitled greedy az h0es maan. I guess the UK b1 tches are just as bad as the AMerican ones lol
They come from benefit! This amount is a lot for them! 😂😂😂😂
😂 Gabz and loyce is my favourite.
G-diddy speaking facts as usual
Dami is definitely an oppressor, you can tell he wants her to do maid life but he won't help with he kids
G DIDDY 🤦🏾♂️😅😭
The girl in the all black is beautiful 😅 the guy with the white top was right you can’t depend on anyone but if she’s a house wife that takes care of the kids and the house and the agreement is that she stays home and you provide for her unfortunately you agreed to that so you must keep up your end of the bargain (most woman would only agree to this if their man makes very good money) if your man is broke don’t agree to not work and stay home because sometimes he might not have the funds to provide for you.
Nigerian men take care of their woman they are educated and go getters so they have the funds to provide.
Pay for your woman to start her own business so that she’s being constructive with her life
I agree you can tell aswell she doesn’t like being a single mom
@@Truthbetold-pm2co it’s not about not liking it -I don’t have kids but apparently being a parent is the hardest job that you will ever have,if you are a single parent that is providing and taking care of your children alone I have nothing but respect for you.
@@arianalovelace1133 I more so said doesn’t like because her face when Dami was describing doing the bare minimum looked like she had never heard a man acc step up. Then her talking ab masculine energy and the microwave thing just a lot she’s a lovely women and I hope she re marries to a alpha
@@arianalovelace1133 btw your hairs cute in your photo x
@@Truthbetold-pm2co thank you 💗 yes I think sometimes we are raised to be strong and independent ,but sometimes we want to be looked after and that’s what every woman truly wants is a nice man that will have her back and treat her like a lady that’s the goal in most relationships to be valued 😅
Dami is a gat damn imposter!
P Diddy coming with some good points this episode.
MVDiddy for me
I cant unsee it now ffs 😂😂😂
I pray we as people will one day stray away from the idea that providing is simply financial
Dami is Uncle Rafool 🤣
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Ngl. There is some credence to this.
Can we talk about the judicial system, cost of living, racism, finances etc. REAL life situations that will benefit EVERYONE. These are just recycled subjects from the old BKchat, I’ll still enjoy but let’s switch it up! We have more knowledge than these minuscule topics
Loyce and Dami are the only ones with logical thinking.
Cookie should have been here! 😂😂
everyone should calm down, Dami no get money. Nah only mouth
Dami please don't kill me🤣 so if you gave all the girls you dated remote jobs working for you, do you fire them after you breakup, or your board of directors are a bunch of your exes
Great question. Girls that want that are very shortsighted. When the relationship ends, so does your cheque
I actually think Dami is Uncle Rafool.
Tosin pretty much saying if she’s used to getting that money then he should keep going, yet when they discussed a woman who wanted to stop having sex she said what’s the problem 😂
Cook😂
@@tm_yt496it wasn’t just about sex it’s the reason for it which was for her religion. You can’t really compare them, when. The situations are too contrasting
@@raraminaj1251thank you, see sense… watching this show just worries me for the whole state of mind with my generation 😮💨
@@raraminaj1251He’s trying to build a business. That’s a legitimate reason
Even if you want to compare the men said they would clearly leave if that happened so if women leave cos he’s no longer providing then it’s the same 🤷🏾♀️
Dinalva brought it back this episode, talking sense
No she hasn't she gives masculine vibes she looks 40 lol
Gabz had me throughout the whole episode😭😭😭😭
😅😂
You need to translate Dami into a Yoruba accent to understand his vibe. “Will you be faithful?” “Will I be faithful?”, he did back to sender
46:30
Why is Gabz admiring likkle man like that 😂😂😂😂😂
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Literally 😐
LOL at the guys face when he said 'providations'
‘Mad mileage’😂😂😂😂
Miss dinalva is such a pick me and a male centered woman
I agree blame the just Peary things panel she was on 😂
Extremely male cantered… dem gyal deh stay far away!
You gyal nowadays love call every woman that dont fall in line with modern day womens finessing mentality a “pick me” and love call everyman that dont fall in line with it “broke”. Them manipulation tactics dont work with everyone lol😂
She’s a pick me because she doesn’t have gold digger values lol?
🤦🏾♂️
No she is just self aware
Uncle rafool 🤣🤣🤣
Where Dami get that Dior? Never seen that version in the stores
Ffs 😂
DH Gate
Who else is glad BKChat is officially BK?
Me
Where's the full episode of Chyna and richez fight
Definitely pleased, but they need to keep this formula. Nobody wants a big brother bk chat.
@@melow1100👀👀enuh love passa
Me😊😊😊😊
Gabz sounded like he was hating on Dami a lil too much 🤣🤣
This Tosin was a Christian last week now she needs to see then zero’s,smh.
Tbf the Bible does say that the man should provide for the woman
@@tm_yt496 looking for a provider and being a gold digger is not the same thing
@@tm_yt496 the bible also says he who finds a wife, finds a good thing. Is there a good thing about a woman that’s 3 decades old with a child out of wedlock?🤔
I’m a child of God always baby ❤❤❤
@@tm_yt496Bible also speaks about sinning and greed. Don’t forget that part.
First of all she’s a girlfriend not a WIFE
She hasn’t earned the title
Don’t Provide women that r not ur wives
P.S I’m a Muslim and we don’t do boyfriend/girlfriend relationships
W Culture
Love the guy who said NAH while shaking his head😂😂😂😂
It’s not insecurity it’s making sure that she’s not as stressed.
£150 or £200 is really the bare minimum if you love your girl, women have a lot of financial needs and that’s the least you can do. Men are supposed to be providers end of.
Naaah the guy I white Tee sends me to the floor every week🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's expressions are such a meme....I wana see him animated on boondocks 😂😂😂
Maybe I am bugging but doesn’t Liah look like the artist Amaria BB (the girl who sang slow motion song?) but lightskin.
Omg yes wth😂😂😂 just clocked
The way how peoples mindset changes week in week out to win the narrative is crazy 😭😂🤣
We need Gabz on every episode 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dami is a captain saver 😂😂😂
I’ll leave this here: no female should ask there man to give them what their daddy CAN’T. Stay strong kings 😂😂😂
Why not
Frfrrr
You’re setting most men up for failure with that one 🤣
A lot of these weird women will tell you
‘oh my daddy treated me like a princess when I was young that’s why I’m like this and expect a certain lifestyle’
Then use that as an excuse to start expecting designer handbags, rolex’s, luxury holidays and shopping sprees from men.
😂😂😂 the entitlement is INSANE.
Another side note: ALOT of women don’t want a man, they want a father.
It’s very weird. Same with some guys that want a mother figure.
I want better for my people.
What’s my mums type got to do with mine tho 🤣
Dami playing the game 😂😂😂
I see sometimes this show catches flack but tbh I'm a huge fan of it now. This is what certain conversations would look like unscripted in our own settings with a little less formality. Very close to realism "on camera" as you can probably get. That's not to say you agree with everyone or every stand point or topic but this isn't a Ted Talk either is it? I also really like that the convos aren't always explicitly sexual like we get with a lot of modern black podcasts which is a really big turnoff for me. I really enjoy the formula BKCHAT has going with it's Ep structure. I haven't seen any of the earlier seasons as of yet but I do plan to after watching S6's drops so far. I'm hooked. ICL. Also King Richez for Prime Minister. 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
I miss when BKCHAT had insightful conversations.
When was that? 😂
@@PK-ws6sm🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@@PK-ws6smlitchhhh😂😂
If u watch this for insight then imma pray for u😂
Pov: you never watched BKChat
Did my man say “providations” 😂 lord have mercy
Gabzz has me in stitches🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Literally please 😂😂😭
It’s when he said “Aye papa!” 🤣💀
A lot of the men on this panel do not like to see women living in any form of comfort. A lot of the women are pick mes on the panel too. Deep down the women want provider men. I don’t understand why they’re putting on a front about it 😂Gabz is a massive hater - he needs to understand that some men are happy to provide and not watch their woman struggle. He kept bringing up the fact that Dami will cheat etc and be unfaithful. But broke, rich or average earning regardless men will cheat. He clearly felt small compared to Dami it’s plain as day. The mixed Monet girly she’s a massive pick me “I grew up seeing my mom independent” well madam we can see that you’re SO aggressive and for what sis? Maybe she’s angry because she’s doing everything alone and she’s going to be another single mom statistic with this mentality. It’s just a shame to see picks me’s and stingy men making traditional minded people feel small 😂
you say that but the three women on the panel advocating against having a provider man have no children yet Joyce and tosin are both single mothers and they're advocating for a traditional man?
@@DRandR1productionz the women with no children are putting on a facade. I know for a fact that if a man their type, provided for them, invested into their businesses that made them “feel” independent they would take that man in a heartbeat. Women by default like security. After a while of doing “50/50” etc they will begin to resent the man. Also in regards to the two women “advocating” for provider men that makes sense because those two women more than anyone else will understand- the cons of not having a solid union or relationship. Maybe inadvertently they’re actually telling the other women that men are needed/ have to fulfil their provider roles .Yes it’s all well and good when you’re young and child free to say “I’m independent” etc but when you have another life to look after that independence will come back to bite
@@Truthbetold-pm2cothe other girls show they wouldn’t be there for there man if he had a downfall me I wasn’t a pick me just speaking the truth if he’s going through something money wise I ain’t gonna get mad coz he’s having a downfall I love how you think I’m a pick me shows I’m speaking facts 😂
@@liahmonet.x you’re not speaking facts. Also the scenario given was not indicated that the man was at his “downfall” it was suggested the money couldn’t be given as he was starting a business. Also you’re giving off pick me vibes because you keep talking about “being there for a man when he’s low” be there for a man he’s low all you like hunny bun but he’ll leave you when he’s up and he will provide for her with the money have saved from not providing for you. Have a nice night dear.🤍
@@Truthbetold-pm2co I completely disagree with this you resent a man for going 50/50? no the issue is a lot of men go 50/50 expecting the same benefits as if he was paying for everything and the overall issue for me is there's too much emphasis on the financial aspect of providing a relationship that people forget the fact that providing is also emotional just because you're splitting expenses and it doesn't even need to be 50/50 it could be 60/40 or 70/30 the emotional availability and emotional intelligence from both parties still needs to be there you're saying that women will jump the first chance they get a man who provides 100% yeah maybe some but I think if that's all it takes to bag you a lot of these "provider" men will exploit that in a heartbeat but I do see where you're coming from
Looool ‘he has an employee’ I’m crying
This independent women thing is nonsense it's called being a adult. A grown up unfortunately need to work to live and live to work...
Side bar, it's funny when ppl bring up work they all talk like business owner ffs.....
A man in a relationship is the protector and provider. Providing is not only financial, it's physical and emotional meaning if you wife feels like she wants to do something more than be a stay at home mum then it's putting her goal and ambition to the forefront and giving her the means to do what she wants todo. But ultimately you as a man should be the bread winner of your family!!!
I hear it but some women depend on a man still instead of being independent and an adult
I’m sorry but that guy that looks like a 12 year old is hilarious. What on earth was he trying to say at the end. Talking about smokers and swimmers. He legit waffled for 2 mins straight and did not make one single point relating to anything. 😂😭😭😭
King Richez is based asf !! I love how he isn’t politically correct
He’s a genius
Liah needs to do better than referring to women as females all the time
Thank god I’m Muslim where my money is my money and his money is my money!! And he won’t be thinking twice about me asking him for money because he knows his rolls as a MAN 😊
And i'm sure you know your roll as a woman.
Ukthi I hope you know your role as a wife too
Okay, well done for being Muslim. Do you want a trophy? Lmao😂😂👏🏾👏🏾
Is your man also your man too? Cus your religion allows men to have multiple wives .. lol
That Dior top needs to be put in the bin!
Gabz is the Man his schooling them.
Big ip Africans in the uk
Im sure everyone remembers a time being African over here was mad
Couple man used to lie ans say they were Jamaican
Trying to suppress themselves
NOW EVEN CARIBBEANS ARE DROPPING SMALL SMALL WORDS AND ACCENT
I'm sorry but Joyce thinking because uncle Dami said he's going to financially provide means he's also emotionally invested in the same woman? a lot of these traditional men won't even know your favourite colour and are not emotionally intelligent whatsoever is it all traditional men? of course not but most people know an aunty down the road or even family members who are in that situation
bkchat has to be rage bait 💀
Gabz is a hybrid if Micheal blackson and Kevin Hart 😂😂
😅😂
That’s funny 😂
If you got it give it at the end of the day ,don’t stress ya pockets for nuh bodyyyyyy but your owna self
Dami tryna keep his girl at home 😂
Dami is A SCAMMER!!! He wants you to be assistant bank thief
How do people even get through the episode when everybody’s talking over each other…
Dami is on the Nigerian steez! I love it. ❤
steez of delulu
@EmyIbifik maybe its unattainable for you, but my husband gives me a monthly allowance, and I work. Ppl here are crying over 150PW. But y'all be safe out there though. 🤣
@@obibuaku how much does he make a year ?
@EmyIbifik enough that i don't have to work if i dont want to. But "rainy days and recessions" are something that can happen to any of us at any time; so its wise that we all save money where we can. Thats where my money can kick in. (Side note we are in our late 30s so it took time to get to this level. It wasn't always like this. )
@@obibuaku understandable. But I am sure Dami no get money to do what he is saying.
was these not the same girls saying it’s fine to take sex away after it was introduced but now crying if there man takes away 2 bills to build a business just because they started with it 😂😂
As a Nigerian, I can categorically say that Dami is TOXIC and only Gabz is catching up to it. He's trying to paint a beautiful narrative but the core of this is nasty and super horrible. As a woman, you'll be exchanging your freedom for insecurity, a control freak and years of unhappiness!
Uncle Rafool 😂😂😂😂😂😂
13:16 leah vs king rich continues😂
Tosin is talking about chanel and Fendi but wearing a zara top from 19 19 when when kmt please! nonsense
Nah Gabz is funny 😂😂😂😂😂
I just want to know who hurt Gabz and king Riches because what 😂 why are they always against doing nice things for women like wow.
Dami is literally talking so much rubbish loool 😂
Channel ati fendi😂😂😂
Tosin is so adorable with her posh Yoruba accent
Im actually so happy this show is back man lmao
In the intro his name is King Richez but the whole episode they called him Michael.
Ahhhhh Cookie would’ve been soooo good on this, but “if I drop down and die” my dear can you not leave her property? Life insurance??? Oh yeah I forgot black people don’t typically have those things then when they die they will be suffocating all of us with go fund me pages.
You mean fatty? Who’s providing for that train wreck
You can easily tell Gabz is cut from a rare cloth.
This guy Gabz actually looks like a better version of Diddy