BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 8 - "I Can't Stand A Man Who Earns Less"

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  • Episode 8 discusses "Gender Roles" in the household!
    Who should bring the money home?
    Who is the breadwinner?
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  • @jorden2686
    @jorden2686 Před 3 lety +4991

    It’s how she said “alhamdulilah” in one sentence and then said “I’d cheat on my man” in the next 😂😂😂😂🙃

    • @enioladedeji
      @enioladedeji Před 3 lety +182

      That's mad!

    • @aliasgoo6165
      @aliasgoo6165 Před 3 lety +303

      That was embarrazzing 😂

    • @delinakidanex
      @delinakidanex Před 3 lety +483

      then she said she’s not religious😭😭😭PLSSS

    • @seyni736
      @seyni736 Před 3 lety +108

      @@delinakidanex she's sick

    • @goaldub1194
      @goaldub1194 Před 3 lety +81

      Listen people you can be a Muslim and struggle to practice. Islam is a way of life . Its between her and her God

  • @nnodumodinaka7502
    @nnodumodinaka7502 Před 3 lety +2472

    No way she said Alhamdulillah and claimed she wasn't religious within one minute💀

    • @lilhenz3007
      @lilhenz3007 Před 3 lety +46

      Omds 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @iizisatoud1945
      @iizisatoud1945 Před 3 lety +57

      HAHAHAHAHA i was looking for this comment like what’s was going on

    • @umiistrxl
      @umiistrxl Před 3 lety +23

      i just deeped that LMFAO

    • @AK-wt7vz
      @AK-wt7vz Před 3 lety +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tiyenss3147
      @tiyenss3147 Před 3 lety +98

      That was the moment I knew this episode was about to be some fuckery lol

  • @AngwiTacho
    @AngwiTacho Před 3 lety +7309

    You wouldn’t buy a man a birthday gift?? I’ve actually heard it all 😭 What does him providing have to do with kindness??

    • @modestaavula295
      @modestaavula295 Před 3 lety +349

      A gift for what? He has me😢😢💔 she said 😩😪😅 wow I'm tayad 😟

    • @ProfessorJay-sc6vd
      @ProfessorJay-sc6vd Před 3 lety +165

      It’s so sad this is most woman these days

    • @LellyMadima
      @LellyMadima Před 3 lety +65

      I still don’t know why NK is here 😭😭😭… every… single….EPISODE 👎🏽

    • @slomohoe9413
      @slomohoe9413 Před 3 lety +67

      It’s the way that Lani brought it out her for me 😂😂😂

    • @user-uu2fb7cd2z
      @user-uu2fb7cd2z Před 3 lety +184

      @Angwi Tacho Tbh i RESPECT Iqra’s honesty🤣 at least she is being honest that all she cares about is a mans money...At least that way if her husband finds a babes better lookin with a slimmer waist she will not be shocked when he leaves her and she is alone at home eating singapoore noodles ,wearing a singlet and singing Single ladies😂

  • @brandon9638
    @brandon9638 Před 2 lety +359

    "I don't cook" = I can't cook
    "I don't clean" = I live in a dirty apartment
    "I'm a queen" = I have low self-esteem and self-worth

    • @tydy5266
      @tydy5266 Před rokem +14

      +inflated ego

    • @DJBleszedUk
      @DJBleszedUk Před rokem +6

      She lost the plot and can tell you she still single to this day

    • @ashkay780
      @ashkay780 Před rokem

      Burger Queen lol

  • @yatonm3609
    @yatonm3609 Před 3 lety +4830

    "YOU! YOU'RE USELESS! YOU'RE A USELESS HUMAN BEING!"
    I'M DYINGGGGGGGGGGG
    pure entertainment

    • @Jetroyalty65
      @Jetroyalty65 Před 3 lety +242

      The most QUALITY and proper response to that sh:t she said it’s literally crazy she believes this way

    • @troytaylor5746
      @troytaylor5746 Před 3 lety +52

      That cracked me up

    • @kenchuks6158
      @kenchuks6158 Před 3 lety +114

      He ain't lying though

    • @HabeshaProdutions
      @HabeshaProdutions Před 3 lety +3

      What time ?

    • @jaredcabral151
      @jaredcabral151 Před 3 lety +35

      My man is speakin facts tho cause in psychology and other studies that delve into relationships, theres somethin called reciprocation. Y would I give u something jus to get nothin back from the relationship not even love? Like r u stupid or what

  • @cdai216
    @cdai216 Před 3 lety +3518

    Iqraa and Lani wanting traditional men while not acting like traditional women and not even being able to dress like a traditional woman is HILARIOUS lmaooo. Sweetheart "i'm beautiful" isn't enough LOL

    • @drose2326
      @drose2326 Před 3 lety +128

      🎯

    • @khadijaaah._5315
      @khadijaaah._5315 Před 3 lety +106

      Spot on my guy !!

    • @ubongabasiefiok
      @ubongabasiefiok Před 3 lety +54

      Wise words

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 Před 3 lety +46

      Talk to these fools 👏🏾🔥

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +197

      @@khadijaaah._5315 I can't believe she said "i'm not cleaning or cooking" either lol. No working, cleaning or cooking so basically she is just gonna sit there and do nothing LOL

  • @zenobiagrace5982
    @zenobiagrace5982 Před 3 lety +4320

    Having kids for a man you don’t love just because he’s rich is a madness

    • @EverythingJesse
      @EverythingJesse Před 3 lety +319

      and I promise her children will hate her for that

    • @anubis8918
      @anubis8918 Před 3 lety +227

      @@EverythingJesse they'll hate her even more cos she can't cook them a healthy meal or play with them the lazy so n so

    • @EverythingJesse
      @EverythingJesse Před 3 lety +6

      @@anubis8918 facts.

    • @SJ-tk6rm
      @SJ-tk6rm Před 3 lety +23

      Lol laughs in Nick Cannon

    • @dd-xq7uk
      @dd-xq7uk Před 3 lety +15

      Blk girls uno

  • @tariromukari3982
    @tariromukari3982 Před 2 lety +102

    I used to think girls value love and pure connections but this conversation has shown me something different. Seems like guys are the ones looking for something solid. Times have really changed 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @goodvibes6145
      @goodvibes6145 Před 2 lety +18

      Their views aren’t representative of everyone in the outside world. In fact out of the 5 of them it was only iqra and lani that shared that view x

    • @katback1678
      @katback1678 Před rokem +5

      Holy shit, please don't base an understanding of people from this video. I literally found this video from a Reddit post about how ridiculous a segment of the conversation was. I skipped through this video with the express purpose of being entertained at how detached from civility these people are, how silly this is, how short-sighted this all is. I'm not great at words but this idea of someone looking at this video as any kind of gauge for humanity is heartbreaking.

    • @RedceLL1978
      @RedceLL1978 Před rokem

      @@katback1678 I mean have you been on a dating site lately... Almost all women's profiles mention money or assets in one way or another. As someone who "has his own" and can absolutely "afford" one of these women, not a single one is worth it. They're fat, lazy, none of them are pretty, they're toxic and not worth what I can provide. Probably half all their incomes are child support checks.

  • @visualtube3d232
    @visualtube3d232 Před 3 lety +1383

    Lana, iqra and ezo, I don’t wanna hear them preach equality ever again.

    • @CEOSHANNYVEVO
      @CEOSHANNYVEVO Před 3 lety +127

      EVER.

    • @lanigood3484
      @lanigood3484 Před 3 lety +45

      I don’t care about equality

    • @Lembruce
      @Lembruce Před 3 lety +33

      Add NK! I don't just like the way he comes through.

    • @seyirotimi
      @seyirotimi Před 3 lety +135

      @@lanigood3484 That's just a bloody lie isn't it?

    • @adrianblake-williams5294
      @adrianblake-williams5294 Před 3 lety +21

      @@lanigood3484 So Lani, can I ask if it’s not equality, what is the alternative choice?

  • @lauramenendez3212
    @lauramenendez3212 Před 3 lety +2391

    Imagine wasting time at uni on a degree you don’t wanna use...and expect someone else to pay for it. I’ve heard it all

    • @neilnewman6426
      @neilnewman6426 Před 3 lety +150

      She’s so toxic

    • @msslimmsjules4091
      @msslimmsjules4091 Před 3 lety +52

      The reason she is in school is to use that as a bait to get men and also get taken care off

    • @l_Egoist_l
      @l_Egoist_l Před 3 lety +3

      @Brenda Lauren Figueroa Mbelek you don’t EXPECT someone to pay for that do it. I mean if they do that’s ok. But you don’t EXPECT that do you.

    • @puskasisgod9443
      @puskasisgod9443 Před 3 lety +34

      Guys it’s best to stay single and just do friends with benefits relationships aren’t worth it

    • @tomhardy116
      @tomhardy116 Před 3 lety +15

      @@l_Egoist_l The fact that you even think it’s okay for someone else to do shows the incorrect mindset. Who’s degree is it? Not theirs is it? Pay for your own fucking degree… irrespective of gender, both men and women need to stop trying to find easy ways out and just do the work, but half of the women that chat all kinds of shit are nothing themselves and very similar of men too.

  • @Bitchylibra
    @Bitchylibra Před 3 lety +1430

    "I want to be a housewife?" "I'm not cleaning or cooking" well then you obviously DON'T know what a housewife is🙄

    • @Rabidanti
      @Rabidanti Před 3 lety +24

      😂😂😂

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor Před 3 lety +9

      😂😂

    • @10thghost74
      @10thghost74 Před 3 lety +49

      She wanted to be a bum

    • @iammusik
      @iammusik Před 3 lety +98

      @@sterlingjoseph4385 a housewife by definition is someone who takes care of the house😂its fuckin obvious and said that she doesn’t want to do anything that includes housewife tasks

    • @iammusik
      @iammusik Před 3 lety +46

      @@sterlingjoseph4385 lmao what concern of it is mine ? well for one her ass decided to come on a public show to voice her opinion so i came to the comments to voice my opinion😂second, then she isn’t a fuckin housewife is they have maids doin everything🤨she’s just a piece of meat doing nothing

  • @jorgevaldes511
    @jorgevaldes511 Před 2 lety +84

    This entire interview gave me a brain aneurism my head hurts lmao

  • @SuperWilson619
    @SuperWilson619 Před 3 lety +1241

    This is how women end up in manipulative and abusive relationships. Staying in a hopeless and endless marriage because you have no finances to leave 🥴

    • @user-rn2sn4fj4z
      @user-rn2sn4fj4z Před 3 lety +52

      That why I say, that you gotta open a secret account and put some of his money in that account

    • @ninam3291
      @ninam3291 Před 3 lety +1

      They can easily get finances to leave

    • @brucenicholas1999
      @brucenicholas1999 Před 3 lety +3

      this is lowkey why i always go for manupilation on females

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +51

      Iqra said she doesn’t mind being a 3rd wife as long as the man is rich. She does not respect herself 😂😂😂

    • @thunderjoy7250
      @thunderjoy7250 Před 3 lety +24

      @@user-rn2sn4fj4z how about get a job and earn your own money kmt🙄

  • @AngwiTacho
    @AngwiTacho Před 3 lety +1798

    Wait… “you’ll cheat on him” 😭😭. Why can’t you just leave instead 😂

    • @tee4241
      @tee4241 Před 3 lety +273

      Two seconds after she said ‘Alhamdulillah’ 😭 cheating is not muslim babes

    • @soniaquaye5040
      @soniaquaye5040 Před 3 lety +84

      She belongs to the streets that y

    • @TheAlkebulanTrust
      @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 3 lety +40

      Because it's what most do instead then leave. They find that man's replacement before leaving. The game is the game.

    • @mrbigz36blackheart90
      @mrbigz36blackheart90 Před 3 lety +8

      That's how ppl get stds

    • @cyanrose499
      @cyanrose499 Před 3 lety +8

      I love how you're commenting as it gets worse and worse😭😭 This whole debate is wild

  • @amamambe6963
    @amamambe6963 Před 3 lety +238

    Iqraa went from screaming "START AN ONLINE BUSINESS" two weeks ago, to saying that she wants to be a housewife but not do any cooking or cleaning 🤣 lol NK was right when he called her useless

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +36

      When she bragged about her debt being paid off, I thought she worked hard to pay it all off. This girl is a fraud 🤣🤣

    • @nathanboachie7651
      @nathanboachie7651 Před 3 lety +4

      @@priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 On god🤣the audacity to make it seem like she paid it off herself.

    • @ellaakin1282
      @ellaakin1282 Před 3 lety +8

      She chats rubbish man

  • @naz8809
    @naz8809 Před 2 lety +75

    The facial expressions after iqraa said I’ll have to find a new one have me absolutely deceased 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @christiandawit612
    @christiandawit612 Před 3 lety +787

    "'You're Useless" Nah NK is gonna become a meme

    • @iits_kayy
      @iits_kayy Před 3 lety +219

      For one time, I kinda understand his rage

    • @christiandawit612
      @christiandawit612 Před 3 lety +85

      @@iits_kayy Yh I do as well. I ain't tryna judge her or anything but cmon like bring something to the table.

    • @kpase123
      @kpase123 Před 3 lety +94

      Nahhhh, like I understand that what she says is crazy. But NK gets so angry as if he’s the one in the situation. Like chill man, it’s not that deep

    • @kpase123
      @kpase123 Před 3 lety +21

      @@iits_kayy like why does he get sooo mad? 😂

    • @christiandawit612
      @christiandawit612 Před 3 lety +3

      @@kpase123 yh fr man

  • @azz734
    @azz734 Před 3 lety +2853

    Emmanuel don’t deserve to be in this childish cast I’m so sorry 😂

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +37

      💯

    • @bumemchukwuah5689
      @bumemchukwuah5689 Před 3 lety +192

      Honestly, he just ended the discussion with his statement, cut according to your size and compatibility. All this that they are discussing is just going in a circle to end up coming back to what he said in the beginning.

    • @healingthandi
      @healingthandi Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you👏👏👏

    • @gabrielleosei4230
      @gabrielleosei4230 Před 3 lety +3

      FACTS

    • @swagman2001
      @swagman2001 Před 3 lety +114

      @Gerard Aguilar lol from carrying the conversation of course he would be sweating

  • @Daisy-sm4uc
    @Daisy-sm4uc Před 3 lety +726

    What’s with this mentality of “a man must take care of me”, marriage is a partnership which means two people working together “sexiness”, is not enough to make a marriage work

    • @ph0enix86
      @ph0enix86 Před 3 lety +15

      facts

    • @anonamous6320
      @anonamous6320 Před 3 lety +4

      Sis you have no choice but to go 50/50 with a man lol. If you knew better then you’d do better 🗣

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +37

      As much as I dislike what these women are saying, a lot of men need to take a lot of responsibility for why modern day women have this entitlement mentalities.

    • @derrickmason7457
      @derrickmason7457 Před 3 lety +4

      Amen to that it takes two people all in life changed circumstances all the time.. to keep a ego mentality will fail the marriage

    • @Daisy-sm4uc
      @Daisy-sm4uc Před 3 lety +9

      @@anonamous6320 i make my money my man makes his there’s no such thing as too much money the more the merrier

  • @petraelamisi4456
    @petraelamisi4456 Před 2 lety +37

    “If you got married as a woman for what you have to offer, wouldn’t you feel violated?” Most underrated question!

  • @hushpuppi.senior
    @hushpuppi.senior Před 3 lety +999

    In 2025 Iqraa will call in to the Kevin Samuels show complaining about how she can’t find any honest men.

  • @Mimi-kl6uf
    @Mimi-kl6uf Před 3 lety +823

    This is a prime example as to why relationships in this generation never last, everyone has literally thrown away the real importance of a relationship and what is required to make it all work, and the comment about leaving your husband if he was sick and couldn't provide is really something else, too many small minded people on this cast being horrible role models to the younger generation who may be watching this, thinking materialistic things is what makes a relationship mtchewwwwww.

    • @benryan3453
      @benryan3453 Před 3 lety +44

      Yeah I noticed that these people are unfathomably materialistic. Like all they want in a relationship is seemingly just money and possessions

    • @blackqueen5804
      @blackqueen5804 Před 3 lety +5

      I cant agree more and it’s so true😣❤️

    • @kyir4618
      @kyir4618 Před 3 lety +3

      Preach!

    • @KushQueen9
      @KushQueen9 Před 3 lety +3

      Absolutely!!

    • @fb6996
      @fb6996 Před 3 lety +22

      Anyone else in this generation, still not care that much about money. I just want a loyal God fearing man. Thats it

  • @ibukundamolekun6541
    @ibukundamolekun6541 Před 3 lety +2838

    “You can’t afford a woman like me” that sounds like voluntary prostitution to me 🤐

    • @rockomarolla
      @rockomarolla Před 3 lety +148

      Doodoo contract lol

    • @random_guy_on_youtube5342
      @random_guy_on_youtube5342 Před 3 lety +124

      They saying that the men "you dont have money, you cant afford me, dont chat to me cause you dont have money, you cant talk cause you dont have money" like wtf bro. They dont have money either and theyre chattin all that shit

    • @amandamyshaeryn4500
      @amandamyshaeryn4500 Před 3 lety +41

      She is a child. She just finished uni right? Give her time

    • @lauramenendez3212
      @lauramenendez3212 Před 3 lety +115

      @@random_guy_on_youtube5342 they want a sugar daddy but they don’t wanna admit it. Too lazy to get a job so they want someone else to be paying the bills….embarrassing

    • @pkhumblezee7041
      @pkhumblezee7041 Před 3 lety +71

      Embarrassing entitled women with wigs and long nails witches 🧙

  • @gaaabrawww5104
    @gaaabrawww5104 Před 2 lety +24

    The man who paid for her loan debt 🤡🤡🤡

  • @unavailable5444
    @unavailable5444 Před 3 lety +2098

    “Im religious” “I would cheat on my man” then says “im not religious”

    • @streetsiswatching9660
      @streetsiswatching9660 Před 3 lety +174

      You can't make this shit up

    • @thekid8224
      @thekid8224 Před 3 lety +37

      Then said men messed up the world and in a couple of years time women will be the prime ministers, presidents and in control......... yeah we currently have a queen so that's 1. I swear Theresa may was prime minister 2 years ago and when Hillary Clinton had the chance to be president they all voted trump 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @tomhardy116
      @tomhardy116 Před 3 lety +14

      @@thekid8224 Besides the fact that she’s speaking as if women are going to be in the driving seat, when women like her are the reason women aren’t already - more than happy to just live of another man and be under his control, but hey, as long as she doesn’t have to break a sweat 😂
      Despite what she says, it’s quite clear what she wants and it’s not to be an independent successful woman because from the women ik that are just that, they don’t look their man as a bank account rather the practical side of dating and finances (which is reasonable). Couldn’t imagine PMs, presidents and such are looking at hubby to pay all the bills and throw away their degrees 😂

    • @thekid8224
      @thekid8224 Před 3 lety +12

      @@tomhardy116 these sort of girls are stupid and you know straight away from the way they talk they don't know how to think for themselves and literally a walking Twitter account
      How can you confidently say women have been suppressed and have never been in power when england have had how many queens. Not only is our current ruler a woman but we've been taught more about our past female rulers Elizabeth 1st, Queen Mary aka bloody mary and Queen Victoria 1st. Henry 8th is the only known king because he married every woman in sight I didnt learn about any of king of england. Even prime ministers is she forgetting Margaret Thatcher. But shes out here blindly saying women have never had power because of men. Dumb

    • @tomhardy116
      @tomhardy116 Před 3 lety +5

      @@thekid8224 definitely, women in general are definitely not in as many positions of power but track record shows, particularly in the UK, that the option is there. The issue is that the new generation of women want quick easy money, hence the wave of Onlyfans girls.

  • @ivanivez7456
    @ivanivez7456 Před 3 lety +1370

    Social media has brainwashed us to think relationships are based on materialistic things. What happened to unconditional love? smh

    • @Rampage1Rules
      @Rampage1Rules Před 3 lety +131

      Men aren't loved unconditionally only women and children are

    • @Dapollean
      @Dapollean Před 3 lety +3

      Thank youuu Omds your like the only person on here who has said this👊🏾

    • @ceo8677
      @ceo8677 Před 3 lety +12

      Please say women it’s only women that want the materialistic things not men

    • @uareabully3354
      @uareabully3354 Před 3 lety +3

      God will bless you

    • @Dapollean
      @Dapollean Před 3 lety +27

      I’ve literally sat here in my bed for 37 mins deeping life👀 the devil has been working hard on people’s minds

  • @Obaol7
    @Obaol7 Před 3 lety +1567

    The irony of Lani calling men who wash dishes “bitches” when the man on road she dated finessed her for 8k....chai

    • @555telly
      @555telly Před 3 lety +122

      💀sticky one

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 Před 3 lety +17

      Thank you l🔥🔥🔥🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @ashdontre14
      @ashdontre14 Před 3 lety +117

      I was thinking that🤣🤣🤣🤣 She was going on about a man with money but got robbed by a man who wearing designer on ig while she crying about 8K😂

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Prescotmills8732
      @Prescotmills8732 Před 3 lety +141

      She's running her mouth for the show. It's obvious that she's not all that in real life, especially at that weight.

  • @AR-ml9pe
    @AR-ml9pe Před rokem +40

    When she mentioned her religion but talks about cheating .. what a joke . 🤣

  • @iamfrankcarter
    @iamfrankcarter Před 2 lety +1525

    “Don’t call me a prostitute”
    Also her:
    “ she’ll go to the highest bidder”

    • @BlackFire-ko3np
      @BlackFire-ko3np Před 2 lety +49

      Bro I’m speechless

    • @anonymousm6557
      @anonymousm6557 Před 2 lety +31

      She’s crazy wtf…

    • @amaniiexxchnge
      @amaniiexxchnge Před 2 lety +4

      Prostitutes sell sex. Did she say she’s selling sex?

    • @samuelfc549
      @samuelfc549 Před 2 lety +92

      @@amaniiexxchnge what do u think she is giving the guy with money in return. If all she wants to offer is her looks?????

    • @datguy7709
      @datguy7709 Před 2 lety +25

      Cant stand ugly girls like this man tbh there all dead tingz

  • @nexxanor-1059
    @nexxanor-1059 Před 3 lety +2176

    Emmanuel and Jesse are the only ones who actually talk sense. Everyone else either waffles or changes their opinion under pressure

    • @LiveCuts
      @LiveCuts Před 3 lety +15

      💯💯

    • @ljc9568
      @ljc9568 Před 3 lety +94

      Especially Ezo.... This is very disappointing these females don't respect themselves..... Very low self esteem

    • @briannamorgan4620
      @briannamorgan4620 Před 3 lety +8

      Literally

    • @tomhardy116
      @tomhardy116 Před 3 lety +17

      @Brenda Lauren Figueroa Mbelek changing an opinion in a short exchange shows that you more than likely shouldn’t have had it to begin with, or should have just sat back and listened because you’ve not given it enough thought.

    • @fizz113
      @fizz113 Před 2 lety +39

      Adefolake talks sense too.

  • @SHAWONA432
    @SHAWONA432 Před 3 lety +658

    So we’re just gonna ignore the fact that Iqra was screaming ‘Independent lady’ last episode and that she hustled using her online businesses to fund her degree but admitted that it was funded by a whole niggga? UHH OKAY 😂😂
    I’m sorry but she should be EMBARRAZZED! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Also, for the people that are saying that there’s nothing wrong with her being a housewife clearly didn’t hear her say that she doesn’t want to take care of the home and the last time I checked, that’s what a housewife is.
    Anyway, each to their own.

    • @cameron5320
      @cameron5320 Před 3 lety +52

      Honestly so what does she do for him she won’t even give him a present for his own birthday not that the present matters but it’s about the principle and showing some type of appreciation

    • @aramidekasum1513
      @aramidekasum1513 Před 3 lety +35

      She said a man paid for her uni in the last episode

    • @Laurenelizo
      @Laurenelizo Před 3 lety +10

      You have very poor listening skills, maybe you should have gone to uni to polish up on your stupidity Shawana Badu

    • @maboduke
      @maboduke Před 3 lety +6

      She said a man paid for her degree in the last episode.

    • @no-one00
      @no-one00 Před 3 lety +3

      I actually heard in the last episode
      Someone mentioned that iqraa had someone else pay off her debts

  • @mikeduineveld3364
    @mikeduineveld3364 Před 2 lety +10

    Lani: ‘she’s sexy’
    NK: ‘pardon?🤨’
    😂😂

  • @DannieCinnamon
    @DannieCinnamon Před 3 lety +574

    “A man is his money” 🤮🤮🤮🤮 are you not embarrassed?!? Again the same girls that’ll be offended at being called a gold digger

    • @SuperRichPro
      @SuperRichPro Před 3 lety +22

      and lani the same girl teaching other girls how to get a rich man to spoil them?

    • @macyjayc
      @macyjayc Před 3 lety +29

      You sound like a pick me . A man is he money, and women are their beauty. That’s just the way our society has always played out. Men will not respect you or want you unless they find you attractive, and women will not want you if you can’t provide & care for her. Simple

    • @ashleycrystal9719
      @ashleycrystal9719 Před 3 lety

      @@macyjayc Thank you.

    • @jessepanda2778
      @jessepanda2778 Před 3 lety +17

      @@macyjayc Yh this is some Cap

    • @lilboat9453
      @lilboat9453 Před 3 lety +77

      @@macyjayc and you're not ashamed

  • @Tuncapoo
    @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +302

    Lani and the word 'intellectual' should not be in the same sentence, unless 'is not' is in the middle 💀

  • @katiethorpe6849
    @katiethorpe6849 Před 2 lety +2789

    I don’t think I’ve hated a group of girl like I have these girls

  • @Mmo0jsSh_
    @Mmo0jsSh_ Před 2 lety +14

    "I'm muslim" " I'll cheat on u???" Bro what?

  • @morenikefalade9533
    @morenikefalade9533 Před 3 lety +3207

    they asked if she’s worthy of being a housewife and she said i’m beautiful 😕🥴. is it crack??? housewife means your cooking and cleaning and being a present/ involved parent. being the best parent. what has beauty got to do with it??

    • @MooseHuncho
      @MooseHuncho Před 3 lety +206

      Bro I agreed with her the whole time until she said she wasn’t gonna clean or cook. If she wants a high value man (traditional man) she has to be a traditional woman, clean and cook.

    • @ashleycrystal9719
      @ashleycrystal9719 Před 3 lety +126

      @@MooseHuncho Same. I was agreeing with her until she said that. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a stay at home wife and mum- In fact I think that’s great. But to say she’s not going to cook and clean or buy her man a birthday gift sounds like insanity to me.

    • @puskasisgod9443
      @puskasisgod9443 Před 3 lety +129

      She’s an average women with weave and make up please stop, she ain’t even got a ass

    • @Latifaaah
      @Latifaaah Před 3 lety +125

      She’s not even that pretty… and her personality makes it worse

    • @MooseHuncho
      @MooseHuncho Před 3 lety +17

      @@Latifaaah facts

  • @izza5577
    @izza5577 Před 3 lety +629

    Wanna be a housewife? Okay fine housewives have been around for centuries, but u won't by ur man a birthday gift with the money he's gonna give you anyway? just wickedness 😭😭

    • @anonamous6320
      @anonamous6320 Před 3 lety +23

      The type of man she’s going to date doesn’t even need birthday gifts because he already has everything he wants. Yall are slow.

    • @Emmanuel-rz5tv
      @Emmanuel-rz5tv Před 3 lety +67

      @@anonamous6320 yea but definitely need to show some sort of appreciation on his day, especially when she said she doesn't even want to cook and clean for him.
      Ask this question to girls would u want ur brother/son to marry a women like her?

    • @ThePinkApartment
      @ThePinkApartment Před 3 lety +12

      Right, a simple card or something small is fine 😂

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +1

      brother they are confused

    • @luth.1
      @luth.1 Před 3 lety +13

      @@Emmanuel-rz5tv they ain’t gonna like that question 👏🏾

  • @draystyles
    @draystyles Před 2 lety +976

    How can a lady who doesn't provide for herself call a man broke?

  • @khalifempire3168
    @khalifempire3168 Před 2 lety +22

    I don’t think I have ever despised or hate someone like these women 🤮🤮🤮

  • @afrofriend9140
    @afrofriend9140 Před 2 lety +685

    "She isn't bringing anything to the table."
    "Yes she is. She's sexy."
    Lord. For the type of man she wants who has money, resources, and options, he can get a sexier, younger or whatever woman whenever he wants. She will be disposable like any other material.
    🤣🤣 Smh this is so hilarious

    • @deevynpeace2519
      @deevynpeace2519 Před 2 lety +8

      What manner of fuckery is this? Ewww, this mentality is as archaic as hell
      Bro! Wym?
      That lady needs help for

    • @wannabKsi
      @wannabKsi Před 2 lety +34

      Exactly. She thinks it will always be on her terms, because in the short term she is getting attention. But when he loses interest or her looks fade. Then what? She’ll have built nothing and be dropped just as easily as she was willing to drop the man. I truly believe that to be her karma if she doesn’t wise up.

    • @Gozi101
      @Gozi101 Před 2 lety +15

      I feel women like this have forgotten who they're competing with.

    • @Gonzalo.Escobar
      @Gonzalo.Escobar Před 2 lety +19

      And one who isn’t fat

    • @skavanagh2778
      @skavanagh2778 Před 2 lety

      @@deevynpeace2519 that type of man is the type she is seeking bro

  • @DRandR1productionz
    @DRandR1productionz Před 3 lety +2335

    I'm actually lost for words at the ignorance and the materlism of this generation it's actually frightening

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +125

      As much as I dislike what these women are saying, a lot of men need to take a lot of responsibility for why modern day women have this entitlement mentalities.

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 Před 3 lety +98

      I blame social media smh

    • @kwameopoku3576
      @kwameopoku3576 Před 3 lety +20

      @@priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 no we dont its on them their mentality is like that also society now they just hire women or gay men for any job and disregard regular straight men

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 Před 3 lety +51

      @@priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 unfortunately, I have to agree. We are funding women’s bad behaviour through OnlyFans, Instagram, watching them yaks twerking for attention etc! Why can’t we as REAL MASCULINE MEN just wake up and change our purpose correctly?? 💯🔥

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +35

      @@kwameopoku3576 And where does this mentality come from? Partly men! If men are willing to spoil women with jewellery, cars, paying their bills, paying their rent and expenses, holidays etc. without wanting nothing back, it’s no wonder they feel so entitled. Perhaps if we stopped putting women on a pedestal, they wouldn’t have so much entitlement.

  • @Sarah-oo5lb
    @Sarah-oo5lb Před 3 lety +928

    This topic is the prime example of the several problems with dating in this generation. Money is not everything and those who aren’t used to getting it are showing. If your man or woman makes more than you why should that change the way you speak to them?! Your loyalty and respect is based on a piece of paper?..Do what works for you and your household. & Iqra babe you are not a Queen by being lazy.

    • @derrickmason7457
      @derrickmason7457 Před 3 lety +32

      Yup people base relationships on what a person makes .. to say their a good man or woman craziest stuff ever. Money comes and goes life changes. Then the same ppl have no foundation there not gonna stay together

    • @bumemchukwuah5689
      @bumemchukwuah5689 Před 3 lety +26

      Dang that's sad, I just want to be in a relationship with the person I love. Love is already a heavy topic, adding money and social values to a relationship makes it complicated. Relationships these days are just smh I have no words.

    • @ninam3291
      @ninam3291 Před 3 lety +14

      She is a queen, don’t be salty cuz there’s men who pay for her every needs whilst u could never

    • @anonamous6320
      @anonamous6320 Před 3 lety +4

      Ngl
      Money is everything😂🙄😬

    • @Sarah-oo5lb
      @Sarah-oo5lb Před 3 lety +43

      @@ninam3291 I could never what? Get a man to take care of me? There’s no skill in that. & if that’s what this generation praises then I’m good off it. Your friend sat there like bread while people were discussing her poor mentality.

  • @quickshow4821
    @quickshow4821 Před 2 lety +10

    Almost walked out & left my phone in the room when he asked "god forbid, what would happen if yo husband get sick & can't work" & she said "find a new one" 🚪🚶🏽🚶🏽🚶🏽

  • @zakarihauodewale2380
    @zakarihauodewale2380 Před 3 lety +1795

    I’m convinced Lani and Iqraa are just part of the panel to shake the room.

    • @salehglasgow4307
      @salehglasgow4307 Před 3 lety +104

      Innit just to cause controversy

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 Před 3 lety +234

      Lani is shaking the room alright. It’s a shock the building didn’t collapse from her shaking the room

    • @abdi9308
      @abdi9308 Před 3 lety +4

      @@dialac1 😹😹😹

    • @unrivaled.zzz11
      @unrivaled.zzz11 Před 3 lety +2

      I thought i was the only one

    • @dawudidris9106
      @dawudidris9106 Před 3 lety +2

      @@dialac1 💀💀💀

  • @azzamusic3719
    @azzamusic3719 Před 3 lety +924

    Ezo:"Part of my culture and religion"
    Also Ezo:"I'm not religious"
    Wtf is she saying??🤦🏿‍♂️🤣🤣

    • @ninam3291
      @ninam3291 Před 3 lety +24

      She was clearly talking about her culture then if she’s not religious

    • @hush2911
      @hush2911 Před 3 lety +10

      Shame is free ykno

    • @cameron5320
      @cameron5320 Před 3 lety +23

      She’s so lost man 😭

    • @vanesaimafidon2791
      @vanesaimafidon2791 Před 3 lety +13

      being religious is about practice for example I'm a Christian but I'm not religious I don't go to church, I don't do holy communion, I don't pray every day, don't read the bible etc. that what it means. Having a religion and being religious are two different things does that make sense.

    • @marcusm5157
      @marcusm5157 Před 3 lety

      Stupid mothers

  • @AngwiTacho
    @AngwiTacho Před 3 lety +2463

    I think money only brings power in a relationship if you let it. It depends on the couple honestly

    • @TheAlkebulanTrust
      @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 3 lety +121

      The key is maturity

    • @bumemchukwuah5689
      @bumemchukwuah5689 Před 3 lety +53

      That’s what Emmanuel and that one girl was saying. But ofc that input was debunked

    • @killswitch1194
      @killswitch1194 Před 3 lety +10

      Sounds good on paper but not true ! On a bounce of probability Relationships don’t work when the woman makes significantly more money than the man

    • @elizabetholabode858
      @elizabetholabode858 Před 3 lety +31

      This is very true. For a long time my dad didn’t even have a job due to certain reasons and my mum was the mum making money. My dad would stay at home with us doing all these ‘bitch’ jobs but I can honestly tell you my parents were happier and stronger as a couple then than they are now with both of them working. Even now my mum still earns more but that’s never been a problem in my house 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @killswitch1194
      @killswitch1194 Před 3 lety +8

      @@elizabetholabode858 exceptions don’t make the rule!

  • @MiaouwPhilliesSuki14
    @MiaouwPhilliesSuki14 Před 2 lety +59

    The combined IQ in this room is about 3 lmao, this is hilarious and yet so worrying

  • @patiencevirtue_
    @patiencevirtue_ Před 3 lety +366

    Loni’s mentality is so Messed up for her Big Age.
    Jesse and Emmanuel would fit in the old bkchat group.

    • @chambersunited8469
      @chambersunited8469 Před 3 lety +14

      That’s why certain man didn’t take her seriously lol

    • @praisew1957
      @praisew1957 Před 3 lety +5

      Verrrrryyyyyyy I was so disappointed..and the other girl too that said she'll leave her husband if he's broke

    • @sour3000
      @sour3000 Před 3 lety +1

      Lani is approaching 40 lol

    • @efosaegharevba6805
      @efosaegharevba6805 Před 3 lety

      @@sour3000 how old is she lol

    • @est_la_vie_bellexo
      @est_la_vie_bellexo Před 3 lety

      @@efosaegharevba6805 32

  • @WanRa28
    @WanRa28 Před 2 lety +149

    "How dare say I'm a prostitute"
    Girl, you want a husband who pays everything for you, and do nothing in return other than your body.
    How would you call someone like that?

  • @Real1ne_
    @Real1ne_ Před 2 lety +857

    The fact that women won’t hold each other accountable is seriously extremely and severely sad

    • @naadiyamxmed8717
      @naadiyamxmed8717 Před 2 lety +35

      No actually I myself let them be delusional so they won't take good men while they pretend to be innocent they for the streets anyway they deserve what they getting ama just mind my business and let men have her as pactice

    • @shelby_ns3611
      @shelby_ns3611 Před 2 lety +12

      This is the comment. None of the women tried to talk to her, and it was clear that a few weren’t feeling what she was saying

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp Před 2 lety +1

      Accountable for what? The concept of trophy wife isn't a fantasy. Women have done this for a long time.

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp Před 2 lety

      @@shelby_ns3611 correct yourself not the next woman

    • @shelby_ns3611
      @shelby_ns3611 Před 2 lety +10

      @@NoName-sp5dp there’s nothing to correct. I said what I said.

  • @jackkarabomampa1496
    @jackkarabomampa1496 Před 2 lety +65

    I'm only seeing this 8 months later and it breaks my heart to realize that we are a lost black generation. 😭😭😭. This episode makes me question our future

    • @KINGTB3
      @KINGTB3 Před rokem +1

      And they say in 50 more years they would rule the world 😭🤣🤣so thats something to be think about hahaha

    • @PylotGuy
      @PylotGuy Před rokem

      @@KINGTB3
      We wuz…..

    • @Crukren89
      @Crukren89 Před 11 měsíci

      Were done out here. Theres no going back now 😂

  • @yengyeng8552
    @yengyeng8552 Před 3 lety +1462

    Iqra and Lani bounce off each other’s stupidity

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +242

      best duo in the stupidity Olympics

    • @yengyeng8552
      @yengyeng8552 Před 3 lety +38

      @@cdai216 they acc talk out their asses

    • @thunderjoy7250
      @thunderjoy7250 Před 3 lety +7

      Amen

    • @kwolverine2866
      @kwolverine2866 Před 3 lety +9

      best comment i’ve seen

    • @aaash3842
      @aaash3842 Před 3 lety +5

      but its true, there are guys that would pay for everything and would be happy with nothing in return. heck i would do the same if i got the same opportunity

  • @healingthandi
    @healingthandi Před 3 lety +273

    I noticed these people always be saying in my culture, in my religion, in my tradition. Maybe that’s the problem. It’s stopping forward thinking. They wanna pick and choose when they wanna be in touch with their culture only when it serves them.

    • @zara7302
      @zara7302 Před 3 lety +34

      Right the way that lady picked religion to back what she was saying to make it sound okay and then proceeds to say she’s not religious. Pick one?

    • @abookidanee
      @abookidanee Před 3 lety +4

      personally i don’t think that having particular opinions on certain topics that are influenced by the cultural or religious background you come from is a bad thing but i 100% agree with you that they pick and choose when and when not they want to be in touch with their culture/religion. how’s she gonna say ‘im muslim’ and then a minute later validate cheating by saying she isn’t religious?

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +1

      I think you have to pick a side.
      If you want a traditional relationship (like myself) fine, look for that.
      If you want a modern relationship fine, look for that.
      But DON'T try to mix & match.
      In particular I see women wanting to be a "boss bitch" but then expecting a man to provide. That doesn't really work. You can't be independent & dependent at the same time.
      Either you both be independent, make your own money, go Dutch on everything.
      Or you let the man lead & be very supportive & stick to gender roles.

    • @MClovinHD3D
      @MClovinHD3D Před 3 lety +2

      It’s just a weapon for them, that girl and lani will say traditionally a man is the provider and in the same breath say I don’t wanna cook and clean, they just weaponise these things like tradition for their own benefit when it suits them...

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MClovinHD3D 100%

  • @nimcosalah3368
    @nimcosalah3368 Před 2 lety +465

    Cooking and cleaning isn’t a feminine thing it is an essential thing 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @disitusam
      @disitusam Před 2 lety +7

      Learned that thing when i moved from my parents

    • @projectx7453
      @projectx7453 Před 2 lety

      Ikr

    • @daikio420
      @daikio420 Před 2 lety

      Ong

    • @fmjjjjn7510
      @fmjjjjn7510 Před rokem +7

      It’s really gonna hit u when u move out. Everyone needs to learn how to cook and clean.

    • @taiwo7051
      @taiwo7051 Před rokem +1

      Essential thing between the two actually

  • @kazekagelegion66
    @kazekagelegion66 Před rokem +16

    Im with homeboy when he called her useless because she said she won’t get a job book, cook, or clean and he sat there and called her useless and he’s right and even princesses cook and clean

    • @JayGlass-er7px
      @JayGlass-er7px Před rokem

      Exactly. If she’s not willing to use her degree and she’s just pretty - which if we do the math the number of women considered “pretty”/total female population isn’t esp. rare - then why exactly MAKES her useful in the relationship then?

  • @khalilm2964
    @khalilm2964 Před 3 lety +138

    The wife could be a heart surgeon earning near enough £100k and the husband could be a teacher. Nothing wrong with that.

  • @eclipse4283
    @eclipse4283 Před 3 lety +208

    Im muslim and I’m happy the girl sitting on the counter called out the muslim girl. You cant be preaching your religion and than doing the opposite and when a person calls you out you cant come up with “Im not religious” 🤦‍♂️

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +2

      facts. LOL.

    • @fling4206
      @fling4206 Před 3 lety

      @Dan2Jokes that's what I'm thinking. Dem man that rep suttin for the cameras

    • @misssharzi
      @misssharzi Před 3 lety +7

      I thought she was saying that her upbringing has influenced her personal beliefs, so her culture and her religion. Some people are grown with the morals of religions but decide not to follow those things as an adult you just keep the basic stuff and it helps you to judge things orake decisions about things (sorry I was thinking about this too 🤭)

    • @eclipse4283
      @eclipse4283 Před 3 lety +11

      @@misssharzi I hear that. But my problem with this girl is that she was stating that the man must be the provider the way her culture and religion states. Than few minutes later she says she would cheat if her man couldn’t provide and when she got called out for that, than she uses the classic line “Im not religious” Also If she abandoned those principles that she grew up with surely its hypocritical to use it in an argument.

    • @holysmittens6626
      @holysmittens6626 Před 3 lety +5

      @@eclipse4283 I think she said I’m not religious because she could already feel the attacks coming her way , let’s be honest if she didn’t say her religion was Islam she probably wouldn’t have received the following up question. People are a lot more judgemental when it comes to Muslim woman even non - believers . Even though I get where you are coming from she’s probably just protecting herself from further judgement . Let’s not forgot how Ramla was treated . Also I think the cheating comment was a joke .

  • @pennydiet1296
    @pennydiet1296 Před 2 lety +8

    The way she said she wants to be a house wife but she won’t cook or clean 💀

  • @johnjunior1801
    @johnjunior1801 Před 3 lety +154

    Ezo saying that she believes in traditional religious gender roles and then saying she's not religious 😂😂😂😂 Why is this cast so contradictory all the time?

    • @KingComp67_-io3iz
      @KingComp67_-io3iz Před 3 lety +4

      Women Always contradict themselves in everything my guy. They always mean opposite of what they say and they don’t mean everything they say 100%. You have never heard of “woman of her word” ever in the history of the world 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @cyanrose499
    @cyanrose499 Před 3 lety +284

    Imagine marrying someone who's more than ready to brutally degrade you as soon as they start earning more than you... Can anyone explain what relationships are now?

    • @lenab.m.3708
      @lenab.m.3708 Před 3 lety +1

      Who said that earning more money than dour wife equals being disrespectful towards her?

    • @abdilrahmanf1311
      @abdilrahmanf1311 Před 2 lety +2

      Lena B. M. No one but they said it can happen and that’s true which is sad
      Because if you’re really putting down or making someone feel bad or like dirt for not making enough or any money as a man or woman then why would you be in a relationship as imo you never loved that person.

    • @Mr.RueBean
      @Mr.RueBean Před 2 lety +5

      @@lenab.m.3708 what he means is, why would you marry someone who, the instant they start earning more money than you, degrades you. Obviously if you get married you get married for reasons besides money. So then a shift in fiscal dynamics would change nothing, because the marriage wasn’t based on finances.

    • @DonkeyAmiya
      @DonkeyAmiya Před 2 lety

      relationships right now are stupid, more people sees you only on what you earn and not as a person.

    • @offthesplat5863
      @offthesplat5863 Před 2 lety +1

      Well relationships now are just either people who wanna have sex or people want money

  • @Velli2155
    @Velli2155 Před 3 lety +655

    She said I believe in gender rules bcuz of my religion proceeds to say she will cheat bcuz she’s not religious

  • @kiemievisionary2343
    @kiemievisionary2343 Před 2 lety +9

    I’m gonna give her the benefit of the doubt and say she may have gotten cared away in the hype of the conversation because not getting your partner a birthday gift is crazy

  • @jordanwilliams4542
    @jordanwilliams4542 Před 3 lety +434

    Seeing all the women defend her at first and then slowly back up and raise their eyebrows the more she talked was hilarious to me. You could just tell they didn't really have a defense for her

    • @tdub6542
      @tdub6542 Před 2 lety

      ONG

    • @eman2616
      @eman2616 Před 2 lety +4

      I swear I think it's girlcode for them to defend each other from men, no matter how much bullshit they speak.

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 3 lety +348

    So Ezo is the new ESTHER every time she has a relatable scenario to each topic.

  • @kavalogue
    @kavalogue Před 2 lety +741

    "I wanna be a housewife"
    "I won't clean. I'm not cleaning. I'm not cooking"
    Woman backing her up "she's gonna be a queen. She's a queen"
    Delusional

    • @charlescurrie4774
      @charlescurrie4774 Před 2 lety +28

      They're stupid.. I don't think they understand what a relationship is... jahknow

    • @intelligentting9025
      @intelligentting9025 Před 2 lety +44

      A high value man won't even look at these girls, only Simps would do anything for these type of girls, no way I would pay someone else debt🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @davidhawkinsiv4039
      @davidhawkinsiv4039 Před 2 lety +10

      @@intelligentting9025 what’s worse is she expects the debt to be payed, then say she doesn’t wanna use it 😂😂 what a waste!

    • @intelligentting9025
      @intelligentting9025 Před 2 lety +13

      @@davidhawkinsiv4039 a very big waste of money, she really used that simp and dumped him

    • @beaniespencer4631
      @beaniespencer4631 Před 2 lety +3

      Absolutely delusional…

  • @stefanc4520
    @stefanc4520 Před rokem +3

    The women are saying "You don't have the money" when they're broke...we live in a society.

  • @fayfay3881
    @fayfay3881 Před 3 lety +191

    From a Islam point of view the prophet’s (PBUH) wife was much wealthier than he was. Islam does not judge women and men based on their earnings.

    • @abcdefghijk1024
      @abcdefghijk1024 Před 3 lety +26

      This is why i was confused when she said it comes from religion too. Maybe she meant the part how in islam the husband is supposed to take care of the wife & his family.

    • @liyaha5173
      @liyaha5173 Před 3 lety +13

      @@abcdefghijk1024 yeah that’s what she meant. In Islam the man has to work

    • @selwa03
      @selwa03 Před 3 lety

      Exactly 👏🏼

    • @skrillamaker
      @skrillamaker Před 3 lety

      🎯🎯

  • @DanGBP1
    @DanGBP1 Před 3 lety +481

    this show is promoting a very dangerous mindset for the growing children in this generation

  • @jayjay1953
    @jayjay1953 Před 2 lety +342

    She's a scammer, imagine a mediocre girl who brings absolutely nothing to the table divorcing a man and taking half 🤣🤣🤣🤣 god forbid bad thing.

    • @Slv4S8n666
      @Slv4S8n666 Před 2 lety +9

      That's why they end up OJed.

    • @zeroremnant4477
      @zeroremnant4477 Před 2 lety

      Even baby traping a man and taking his money through child support for herself over the kids. To the streets with her and girls/women like her!

  • @samhustle5631
    @samhustle5631 Před 2 lety +6

    Women like those 2 girls at the right deserve to be single forever… gyal really said she wants to be a queen “sorry you can’t be a queen if you ain’t got nothing to show for it” gotta bring the value of a queen to the table if you want to be treated like one.

  • @ismailali672
    @ismailali672 Před 3 lety +827

    Nk: are you worthy of being a housewife
    Iqra: of course I’m beautiful
    Your beauty ain’t gonna keep the house running dumbass your hands will. These girls are so contradictive and stupid it’s unbelievable. Please bring people that actually know what they’re speaking and stand their point

    • @amarnss234
      @amarnss234 Před 3 lety +15

      LITERALLY

    • @ljc9568
      @ljc9568 Před 3 lety +3

      Forreal

    • @lillyrose8798
      @lillyrose8798 Před 3 lety +64

      She fully said she wants to be a house wife but then doesn’t even want to cook, clean or do anything, she’s basically decoration then

    • @unavailablebbjh8720
      @unavailablebbjh8720 Před 3 lety +13

      She’s not that nice she’s quite big

    • @iffysd9864
      @iffysd9864 Před 3 lety +11

      She's delusional but at the same time simps are basically treating these women like escorts and they are fine with it

  • @scyto1939
    @scyto1939 Před 3 lety +164

    Is Iqra serious? You’re basing your entire self worth on your “beauty” if you’re going for a high value man with money what use is beauty to you when there are thousands of women badder than you? You really think you’re going to keep a man earning 3x more than you by doing the bare minimum? Some of these women overestimate themselves

    • @nikkimillionspring3667
      @nikkimillionspring3667 Před 3 lety +11

      I really hope she sees this 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rxh2370
      @rxh2370 Před 3 lety +20

      She’s living in a fairytale she really needs to quickly face reality

    • @itzmellowXo
      @itzmellowXo Před 3 lety +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +5

      The wall is real & nobody is immune. Look at Rocsi Diaz from 106 & Park.
      Absolute BADDIE. But she messed around during her prime years & now she's 40, single & has no kids.
      She now says she has no standards. (Probably because she's desperate).

    • @Opbabyyx
      @Opbabyyx Před 3 lety

      @@michael43567 oh wowww

  • @leonmrclutch2660
    @leonmrclutch2660 Před 3 lety +382

    “Are u not ashamed” if my partner makes more money than me imma be happy for her coz I wanna see her grow and do great for herself

    • @Paolacp-dc6gk
      @Paolacp-dc6gk Před 2 lety +16

      Preachhh 🙏🏼

    • @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE
      @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE Před 2 lety +10

      You a king 👑

    • @TaraCarmelina
      @TaraCarmelina Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you! Cause to me it seems like this power dynamic thing the men keep mentioning, it seems like their biggest fear regarding a woman making more is them being treated the way men tend to treat women.

    • @eroccha
      @eroccha Před rokem +2

      @@TaraCarmelina The men were for women making more. The women were against it. The men were against a power dynamic in favor of anyone, men or women. The one guy even said it is bad to just be a wife who brings nothing to the table because then it is like you are just owned. It seems as if you just want to project to have a reason to put down men. Maybe next time pay attention.

    • @donpistopee
      @donpistopee Před rokem

      @@eroccha well said

  • @Bunson23
    @Bunson23 Před rokem +6

    😭we need a fresh and fit collab cuz this is mentallllll

  • @joseph.o9995
    @joseph.o9995 Před 3 lety +180

    Ezo don’t make sense tho. Hows man gonna say my religion has gender roles and then turn around and say I’m not religious when cheating comes up. Picking and choosing 😭😭😭😭

    • @mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856
      @mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856 Před 3 lety

      She didn’t say cheating is allowed wtf , she said that’s how much she wouldn’t respect him earning less that she would go as far to cheat

    • @joseph.o9995
      @joseph.o9995 Před 3 lety +8

      @@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856 she said she would cheat. I didn’t say she said it’s allowed, I’m saying she was picking and choosing when to get religious

    • @ljc9568
      @ljc9568 Před 3 lety

      Ezo is always changing her mind if they don't agree with her she changes her mind.... She's proper immature and a pick me

  • @nabilahmed7097
    @nabilahmed7097 Před 2 lety +1058

    5 mins in and I already feel like throwing a bottle at someone 😂

    • @ashleyttt1743
      @ashleyttt1743 Před 2 lety +7

      Like wtf

    • @wavey_9838
      @wavey_9838 Před 2 lety +14

      30 seconds* 🤦🏽‍♂️😂

    • @carameechan205
      @carameechan205 Před 2 lety +14

      i literally had to stop for moment to take in 'a man is his money' i believe that men and women should take on 50/50 but if a man wants to stay athome and be a stay at home husband fair enough. I dont know if its the feminist in me but men should feel theyhave he equal chance and opportunities as women xxx

    • @thefinisher9025
      @thefinisher9025 Před 2 lety +5

      @@carameechan205 and what if you achieved everything in your life like becoming a doctor was your dream. You became a doctor you are happy and you are dating a topmodel. She is earning like 10x more than you but that doesn't make you a bitch. They are delusional

    • @carameechan205
      @carameechan205 Před 2 lety +2

      @@thefinisher9025 oh 100%. I was genuinely thinking this! I'm a girl so I'm assuming whike I write but I'm training to become a primary teacher so earning decent amount and if my man is a manager at a store or restaurant earning less I'd hope he wouldn't feel as though he's less. Also I'm kind of feminine and believe I could become a lawyer and a man can become a 'woman job' like a nurse and still be masculine. These girls are confusing like xxx

  • @burritobob69
    @burritobob69 Před 3 lety +319

    "A man is his money." Alright cool. So if we say "A woman is her body." ....?

  • @teddyfallujah9763
    @teddyfallujah9763 Před 2 lety +3

    At this moment I understand why they’re lot of single black mothers and why most black men in the diaspora don’t want to mess with black women 😊🤦🏿‍♂️ soo sad

  • @jfraser820
    @jfraser820 Před 3 lety +309

    Why is it that when a woman is a housewife it is seen as a full time job that requires praise. But when a man is handling the domestics , it is easy 🤔

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +17

      THANK YOU!!!

    • @jfraser820
      @jfraser820 Před 3 lety +28

      @@Tuncapoo Nah. The double standard was bothering me.

    • @Chantss_xo
      @Chantss_xo Před 3 lety +3

      Cah we go through more than yall. We gotta do the housework and then cater for your needs after.

    • @jfraser820
      @jfraser820 Před 3 lety +43

      @@Chantss_xo So do you not think that the husband doing the domestics won't be catering to his wifes needs or ?????

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +13

      @@Chantss_xo No you actually don’t. If the man doesn’t work, then who’s going to pay for the house, heat, water, food, clothes etc. Men are doing more work.

  • @Christopher0632
    @Christopher0632 Před 2 lety +201

    Making a statement on camera that you would get a new man if your husband got sick is an automatic disqualification for any relationship or marriage for life. NEVER allow this woman to ever forget what she said. Any man who chooses to be with this woman moving forward and knows about this video deserves whatever he gets.

    • @user-ur7km9fx2c
      @user-ur7km9fx2c Před 2 lety +3

      Typical scenario of Kanye and Kim 🙂

    • @peter-paulkutschlojenga7336
      @peter-paulkutschlojenga7336 Před 2 lety +2

      @@user-ur7km9fx2c How is this in any way relatable to Kanye and Kim hahaha

    • @user-ur7km9fx2c
      @user-ur7km9fx2c Před 2 lety

      @@peter-paulkutschlojenga7336 🤣🤐

    • @kaydeep7880
      @kaydeep7880 Před rokem +1

      Oh pipe down, people change, stop acting as if you are cursing her - evil eye!

    • @Christopher0632
      @Christopher0632 Před rokem

      @@kaydeep7880 IDGAF what you're talking about.

  • @sarx100
    @sarx100 Před 3 lety +400

    Hoping my daughter never turns out like Iqra and Lani

    • @paulxcarter
      @paulxcarter Před 3 lety +38

      Step one to narturing a smart and responsible daughter, leave women like Lani and Iqra in the streets.

    • @sarx100
      @sarx100 Před 3 lety +2

      @@paulxcarter 😂💯

    • @benoke
      @benoke Před 3 lety +5

      leaving uni with a high class degree in politics and without debt, becuase a guy paid it all of for her and she didnt have to do anything in order for that to happen??

    • @sarx100
      @sarx100 Před 3 lety +7

      @@benoke you simp😂😂😂😂

    • @osiris_Gandi
      @osiris_Gandi Před 3 lety +1

      On god brooooo

  • @Badd.G
    @Badd.G Před 2 lety +45

    This has to be 200% staged or everyone lacks the common ability to reason

  • @kayahchibuye1947
    @kayahchibuye1947 Před 3 lety +176

    Lani and Iqra need to relax, most men will not be paying for your lifestyle and not get something in return and if he marries you for looks, the novelty will run off quicker than you think.

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +11

      Exactly. Guys will hit & quit. I don't see a rich, rational guy wifing these two. At least Iqra seems mild mannered, Lani is a loudmouth. And I hear she's in her 30's (which isn't old, but the rich guys she's after would probably pick the 18-25 year old over her).

    • @Opbabyyx
      @Opbabyyx Před 3 lety +6

      @@michael43567 frrrr and she's not even appealing

    • @MClovinHD3D
      @MClovinHD3D Před 3 lety +2

      And if a man marries you and you bring nothing but looks you have to think what kinda desperate jokeman is this as well, is it that deep to be doing that

  • @juwonwharwood4642
    @juwonwharwood4642 Před 3 lety +251

    At this point Lani is just here to look stupid. She never contributes to an intelligent conversation she just hinders it severely and shouts. She barely let the girl defend herself (even though she is indeed useless thinkin people should pay for her debt) then tries to shame them based on them not wanting to be used? Like we like the drama but can we move past the times when nothing gets discussed?

    • @ashxxcodex3798
      @ashxxcodex3798 Před 2 lety +1

      dead ting anyways g

    • @unknownelite2844
      @unknownelite2844 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ashxxcodex3798 word always the dead ones talking shit if you’re not going to say anything smart or reasonable don’t fucking say it

  • @havz4444
    @havz4444 Před 2 lety +2

    For all the single men looking for a genuine long-term relationship, please do not forget that beauty is temporary.
    Take great care and proceed with caution.

  • @b.0266
    @b.0266 Před 3 lety +107

    "I wouldn't buy him a birthday gift"
    SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS

  • @ManicMoe
    @ManicMoe Před 3 lety +84

    "Alhamdulilah I'll cheat on you"😂😂😂

    • @elizabethakalizzy
      @elizabethakalizzy Před 3 lety +9

      I was confused too 💀🤣😭

    • @FreedomofPeace2012
      @FreedomofPeace2012 Před 3 lety +18

      🤣🤣🤣 She’s really needs to engage her brain before she speaks 🤣🤣😭😭😭

    • @wardaabuu72
      @wardaabuu72 Před 3 lety +2

      😭🤣

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +3

      she is so dumb it hurts

    • @zara7302
      @zara7302 Před 3 lety

      I swear she reminds me and looks like that girl from s1 who said she wasn’t the side girl but she was😃

  • @ciaraw2915
    @ciaraw2915 Před 3 lety +306

    I just worry about Iqra’s mental health if she’s sitting in the house all day alone while her man is at work, what is her purpose? Me personally I think having goals and something to strive towards is very important for people’s mental health, I think if I lived the life she wants to live I would end up depressed, especially if I’m with a man I don’t love, doesn’t matter how much luxury that surrounds me

    • @alturabi_1
      @alturabi_1 Před 3 lety +23

      Nah it’s calm, she said she’d do another degree 😂

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 Před 3 lety +13

      She's gonna learn the hard way.

    • @ovandograham7793
      @ovandograham7793 Před 3 lety +3

      She’s going to go shopping and holidays and shit clearly

    • @karimahmed-op6ks
      @karimahmed-op6ks Před 2 lety

      enough waffle natev

    • @oscarvernede4863
      @oscarvernede4863 Před 2 lety +4

      Honestly, I care about her mental health a lot less than I would to the average person.

  • @DonutHolestien
    @DonutHolestien Před rokem +3

    "wait wait wait wait no no no no wait wait wait wait" *holding up hand*
    God DAYUM reality TV is so hard to watch

  • @Siuuu950
    @Siuuu950 Před 3 lety +369

    Brandon low-key speaks facts when he actually does get allowed to flipping speak

  • @gareskulua9317
    @gareskulua9317 Před 3 lety +249

    lani and iqra are just slappers man🤣🤣🤣they would accept disrespect if it means them getting whatever they want

    • @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259
      @priincebrvce-ralfrangnicki259 Před 3 lety +11

      The irony is, it would be much cheaper to get a slapper. 😂😂😂

    • @cdai216
      @cdai216 Před 3 lety +1

      anything for IG

    • @thunderjoy7250
      @thunderjoy7250 Před 3 lety

      Facts

    • @johntucker4056
      @johntucker4056 Před 3 lety +14

      This is unfortunately the mindset of most girls these days. They love value and respect money and that’s it. Marriages will no longer exist truss me. The mindset of most of these girls is disgraceful the dudes are terrible aswlel they breed up everything. I’m too old for this shit lol

    • @lyndaogbonna8536
      @lyndaogbonna8536 Před 3 lety

      @@johntucker4056 at the end of the day they blame men in general for gender violence,pls blame those you dealt with not men in general

  • @oboshie
    @oboshie Před 2 lety +273

    Them: “Society is toxic”
    Also them: “he’s a bitch”😂😅

  • @uiin5141
    @uiin5141 Před 2 lety +2

    It was Aderonke's eyes for me when Iqra said Nigeria men don't earn less😂😭

  • @Tuncapoo
    @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +219

    If these people are supposed to represent youths of London.. Then this generation is done out here for real 😭😭😭

    • @bombaiblue4565
      @bombaiblue4565 Před 3 lety +37

      the thing is they're not even youths, that what makes it worse. These are big people some of them have children of their own!!

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +32

      @@bombaiblue4565 having children without being married yet want to talk about traditional values 💀

    • @Marz2727
      @Marz2727 Před 3 lety +4

      If you think a group of less than 20 people can represent a whole generation, you're not thinking straight.

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo Před 3 lety +7

      @@Marz2727 I didn't say that. Read again, cos you ain't thinking straight

    • @micah0190
      @micah0190 Před 3 lety +1

      They can speak for themselves.

  • @sonnyfaz_clpz
    @sonnyfaz_clpz Před 3 lety +388

    Iqraa wants a man to take care of her but she doesn’t want to cook or clean .....

    • @ace_876
      @ace_876 Před 3 lety +70

      It’s not just that she doesn’t want to she CAN‘T do none of the above…. 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @whoosh9441
      @whoosh9441 Před 3 lety +72

      What finished me is her saying she’s not a prostitute😂

    • @paulxcarter
      @paulxcarter Před 3 lety +70

      @@whoosh9441 She's literally describing prostitution then calling it "higher standards"😂😂😂

    • @CEOSHANNYVEVO
      @CEOSHANNYVEVO Před 3 lety +6

      Like make it make sense…..

    • @DattainFie
      @DattainFie Před 3 lety +14

      wants to be a housewife but not cook and clean 🤣🤣😭😭

  • @cc2426
    @cc2426 Před 3 lety +409

    Are we just gonna ignore the snake on jesses neck😭😭

  • @nathaniel2026
    @nathaniel2026 Před 2 lety +5

    Can’t wait to see Lani in ten years time lol used abused and tossed to the side with no job and plenty of miles on her 😂😂

  • @candyazzy
    @candyazzy Před 3 lety +743

    The way how NK said “your fucking useless” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @riyosovi
    @riyosovi Před 3 lety +234

    He didn't call her a prostitute he asked her if she has ever signed a doodoo contract and she didn't want to answer. You wasted this guys money to get a degree you don't want to use, why did you get it

    • @KingComp67_-io3iz
      @KingComp67_-io3iz Před 3 lety

      The women in the video who has their degree and other who has it as well have a lot of money debt from college and they expect a man to pay it and the government can make a man for it and no wants to talk about it though

    • @riyosovi
      @riyosovi Před 3 lety +7

      @@KingComp67_-io3iz she said she doesn't have debt she had a boyfriend pay off all her student loans and then broke up with him. If that was my son he's out I pray I never raise my son to be that stupid

    • @adeneo.g6456
      @adeneo.g6456 Před 3 lety +3

      @@riyosovi a lot of women have to think about would they want their little brother or son dating a lot of these modern women who talk and act like this.

    • @riyosovi
      @riyosovi Před 3 lety +3

      @@adeneo.g6456 sadly. So many boys are focused on flexing because there are too many wayward women

    • @riyosovi
      @riyosovi Před 3 lety +1

      @Gerard Aguilar that's fine but she's now sitting up there making him look like a pushover