Ep 7: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 1. 04. 2024
  • Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
    Singles in Phoenix and the USA, to be featured in upcoming episodes, please send an email to: aamulimedia@gmail.com
    Follow me on social media:
    Instagram: ArletteAmuli
    Tik Tok: Arlette Amuli
    #arletteamuli #findlove #matchmaking #poptheballoon
  • Jak na to + styl

Komentáře • 10K

  • @jamerialwhite3694
    @jamerialwhite3694 Před měsícem +8556

    Maintaining your composure and confidence in the midst of everyone popping their balloon as soon as you arrive is overlooked

    • @diva6407
      @diva6407 Před měsícem +287

      I have to command them on that. Good for them.

    • @Effie_Mwaps..
      @Effie_Mwaps.. Před měsícem +95

      For real 😅

    • @pnice0610
      @pnice0610 Před měsícem +57

      I agree!!

    • @lelelew2735
      @lelelew2735 Před měsícem +159

      Yea my anxiety would be crazy

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Před měsícem +359

      I agree. I’d stop mid sentence like “so what’s the problem?? 🤬🤬” lol

  • @PipNPensPublishing
    @PipNPensPublishing Před měsícem +4254

    That first dude, I hope he lands someone who deserves him. That guy was chill, confident, and cool.

    • @StatikFresh4
      @StatikFresh4 Před měsícem +40

      Agreed

    • @jakesnapper1469
      @jakesnapper1469 Před měsícem +94

      Ya you can tell he a nice guy

    • @ciarrahogans9764
      @ciarrahogans9764 Před měsícem +10

      True

    • @ohmygvddess
      @ohmygvddess Před měsícem +44

      I agree. He was solid

    • @thebassman5820
      @thebassman5820 Před měsícem +91

      ​@@jakesnapper1469
      They don't want Norma nice men
      Let a no goal , no job having aspiring rapper named Pookie come out there and watch a cat fight start out of nowhere
      💥💀💀💀💀

  • @crystaldavis6245
    @crystaldavis6245 Před měsícem +480

    The African guy was classy and caring. He wanted to get to know the woman with the balloon on a personal level which was very nice. May he find his special lady who appreciates his authenticity.

  • @Milliondollarperson
    @Milliondollarperson Před 20 dny +194

    First guy is definitely a genuine and humble person he knows how to let his genuineness shine through the insecurities.. unfortunately females these days won’t give men like him an opportunity.

    • @abramlittle7102
      @abramlittle7102 Před 18 dny +11

      They do but this not the situation for that

    • @NateTheNoble
      @NateTheNoble Před 10 dny +2

      Short dudes get the buns all the time….this is just one of those “I go by stereotype” shows

    • @nayaikam.5070
      @nayaikam.5070 Před 8 dny +3

      And yall dont go for big woman and its ok

    • @abramlittle7102
      @abramlittle7102 Před 8 dny +2

      @@nayaikam.5070
      Big women get bust down all the time.

    • @TheNinjapancake14
      @TheNinjapancake14 Před 8 dny +2

      They do, look at these comments

  • @jamerialwhite3694
    @jamerialwhite3694 Před měsícem +6579

    No one hosts a "Pop The Balloon or Find Love" show better than Arlette. Very classy, mature, and entertaining. I stay invested in this lol

    • @richardsnipe2471
      @richardsnipe2471 Před měsícem +398

      Hers are the only ones I watch. The others are very (very) ratchet.

    • @FlywithMikey96
      @FlywithMikey96 Před měsícem +93

      Because they invite IG baddies and dudes there for clout.

    • @myles5949
      @myles5949 Před měsícem +25

      FANTUM??????? 22:26

    • @damiandennis3740
      @damiandennis3740 Před měsícem +23

      I agree she were a design for this and I'm not saying this just to be nice

    • @deonte1496
      @deonte1496 Před měsícem +35

      I like it but it's just a Mature version of the rest of the find your match videos they still roasting each other and laughing 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @beastbuilds9741
    @beastbuilds9741 Před měsícem +4602

    the first dude was chill af ngl

    • @sajadacooper
      @sajadacooper Před měsícem +71

      facts

    • @xKouture
      @xKouture Před měsícem +503

      He took that constructive criticism like a champ ! He’s really charming

    • @sajadacooper
      @sajadacooper Před měsícem +35

      @@xKouture he did!!

    • @Emaniwilson
      @Emaniwilson Před měsícem +203

      He needs a blind date episode very charismatic

    • @alkhapone7124
      @alkhapone7124 Před měsícem +256

      She popped last sec on sum bs

  • @DivineDeasia
    @DivineDeasia Před 24 dny +95

    This is the most respectful group I have seen so far.

  • @cinaminblanding8486
    @cinaminblanding8486 Před 24 dny +190

    The model with the grey dressssssss
    Whoa . Beautiful, soft , amazing smile .
    I don’t even like girls and I’m in love lol

    • @cboy-ou2hr
      @cboy-ou2hr Před 17 dny +4

      That’s Rihanna

    • @pajonazare
      @pajonazare Před 16 dny +10

      I've watched this episode and was only waiting to see her all the time. She is so sweet and well spoken 😍😍😍. Beautiful

    • @blacklight3596
      @blacklight3596 Před 16 dny +1

      Classy

    • @airforceshadow765
      @airforceshadow765 Před 16 dny +17

      she reminds me of Halle Bailey . very sweet

    • @user-js9kq3gr7r
      @user-js9kq3gr7r Před 10 dny +4

      @@airforceshadow765not even close to Halle berry 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @shattablaze3369
    @shattablaze3369 Před měsícem +1960

    1st guy here lol . This was an amazing experience the energy was filled with positivity and the ladies were amazing. Always remember you win some you loose some but you always stay relevant to who you are . Thanks and this was a blast

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan Před měsícem +168

      U were the best! Wish u all the best on your search

    • @chanelrowe3305
      @chanelrowe3305 Před měsícem +84

      You really were the best, I want some jollof rice from a cool king like you

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Před měsícem +52

      @@PreciousSullivan thanks . And eventually God will surely do that

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Před měsícem +26

      @@chanelrowe3305 thank you and sure lmk anytime lol

    • @TravelwithRia92
      @TravelwithRia92 Před měsícem +16

      you were great!!

  • @MrAde-jy3uu
    @MrAde-jy3uu Před měsícem +2482

    “She looks good!”…. “Respect” dude was unintentionally hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @95luannaable
      @95luannaable Před měsícem +111

      He was so funny. I was dying laughing.

    • @CapreDiem42
      @CapreDiem42 Před měsícem +78

      Why I come cross your comment when he said that. N when he asked if they had children I had to laugh cos the way he said it n his mannerisms. He’s too real lol like you can tell he’s is being his authentic self. Big ups for that

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 Před měsícem +3

      😂😂

    • @markcupid6250
      @markcupid6250 Před měsícem +17

      He was hilarious 😂

    • @sfjksnfjkarnfjaerkf
      @sfjksnfjkarnfjaerkf Před měsícem +38

      That mf funny asl 😂😂😂😂

  • @kingkrazy5269
    @kingkrazy5269 Před 15 dny +53

    Idk how i started watching these jawns but guess what, this is very entertaining and funny aint nothing like a balloon popping mid sentence 😂😂😂😂

  • @felicia_rm
    @felicia_rm Před měsícem +98

    The last guy grilled them so much and I loved that! “Cognitive dissonance” took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 he was very present too and I loved it!!!!!!

    • @lovenylah
      @lovenylah Před 17 dny +23

      he was disrespectful af. I'm mad at the women for not immediately popping their balloons.

    • @GirlyEnglishGamer
      @GirlyEnglishGamer Před 17 dny +11

      @@lovenylah me too. he was shifty and had a bad attitude

    • @TonyJay504
      @TonyJay504 Před 11 dny +11

      @@GirlyEnglishGamerhe was running game 😂

    • @davyteky7144
      @davyteky7144 Před 10 dny +8

      @@lovenylahthat personality they like 😂

    • @relentlesspursuit6260
      @relentlesspursuit6260 Před 2 dny +1

      ​@lovenylah now of them saw it that way at all. Good thing you wasn't on the show 😂😂

  • @nicoleblake2700
    @nicoleblake2700 Před měsícem +2399

    This group of ladies were soft tone, well spoken and very respectful. So nice to see. Then men were respectful. This was a good watch.

    • @Imjusthereleavemealone
      @Imjusthereleavemealone Před měsícem +38

      Yes they were they all deserve good men! 🥰

    • @issy785
      @issy785 Před měsícem +5

      all made of a guy who kept sayin respect

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Před měsícem +12

      Yes these ladies were respectful and beautiful seems inside and out

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Před měsícem +11

      I feel like he was too rushy and desperate. He could’ve just asked her one question he thought he was already in.

    • @user-wd5gt5qj5t
      @user-wd5gt5qj5t Před měsícem

      The girl in the gray them are breast feeding from little TT (.)(.) flat and low smh

  • @AngieM285
    @AngieM285 Před měsícem +1103

    Why did cedric come out like he had no idea where he was 😂😂

    • @faizaadem9339
      @faizaadem9339 Před měsícem +82

      I SCREAMED!!!!!! 😂😂😂

    • @horefonte7226
      @horefonte7226 Před měsícem +11

      😭😭😭😭

    • @Lnk_380
      @Lnk_380 Před měsícem +39

      Hé was way too funny😭😭

    • @Tt3533tt
      @Tt3533tt Před měsícem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @imsleep2573
      @imsleep2573 Před měsícem +99

      He treated it like an auction block lmao. He even checked out Arlette on the way out. Boy definitely came to play.

  • @PrettiBelle
    @PrettiBelle Před 4 dny +7

    I'm addicted to watching these. I've been married for 16 years and I'm glad to see that someone still believes in finding love. Very respectable show. Well done🎉🎉

  • @shanda123
    @shanda123 Před 25 dny +33

    The girl in the gray dress seems like she has a beautiful spirit. She is so calm and her voice is so soothing. I think she would have been a great match for that last guy

  • @ZeeTene
    @ZeeTene Před měsícem +2200

    I like that this group was mature in comparison to previous episodes. They were respectful of one another and did not try to purposely humiliate someone for a viral moment

  • @EliasBakare
    @EliasBakare Před měsícem +1770

    The last guy was very critical. Drilled the ladies so well that they forgot to ask about his relationship with God. Nice episode. First guy was very respectful.

  • @shaunbohannon8962
    @shaunbohannon8962 Před 19 dny +20

    The first dude was the coolest dude I seen while watching this. Funny too talking about “I did waves, I did braids, now I got dreads”😂😂😂

  • @carmynelyse5375
    @carmynelyse5375 Před 5 dny +13

    Poet had no idea what he was saying 😂

    • @Lashaun620
      @Lashaun620 Před dnem

      The rambler. He seemed a bit lost.

    • @gdice22
      @gdice22 Před dnem

      I thought I was the only one - tried so hard to meet him half way

  • @benimcanm351
    @benimcanm351 Před měsícem +927

    The model with the locs in the gray dress was so beautiful, intelligent, soft spoken with charisma. I loooooove her! Hey, Sis!

    • @acbaybee
      @acbaybee Před měsícem +97

      Hey love! Ty 🫶🏾✨

    • @thereal366
      @thereal366 Před měsícem +58

      Yes all of the women were beautiful but she stood out the most because of the way she carried herself. And she had a beautiful smile and some pretty skin. I fell in love with her instantly. And she is a woman of God.

    • @exalteduchiha1563
      @exalteduchiha1563 Před měsícem +5

      @@thereal366 cause shes somewhere from africa. i think south africa so shes raise differently

    • @jameswiseman2527
      @jameswiseman2527 Před měsícem +6

      @@acbaybeeashley i love you

    • @jameswiseman2527
      @jameswiseman2527 Před měsícem +4

      @@acbaybeeyou look so beautiful

  • @1994jct
    @1994jct Před měsícem +975

    The first guy was so classy and respectful while also having a personality! Hopefully he finds
    Love!

  • @ericboyd123able
    @ericboyd123able Před měsícem +21

    No one host the pop the balloon show better than Arlette. Very smart, mature, and she asks the right questions.

  • @bernardtalbert6729
    @bernardtalbert6729 Před měsícem +161

    Anybody notice how the first girl just disappeared at 42:00? She had this pissed look on her face like I'm tired of them bringing out these scrubs.

    • @uu99ful
      @uu99ful Před měsícem +16

      Yes.. she didn't like it.... Looks like she wanted love.. but didn't turn out what she thought

    • @abigailhenry6154
      @abigailhenry6154 Před měsícem +52

      IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LMFAOOO i had played 10 minutes in and I was like wait there was another girl

    • @matthewbrooks4507
      @matthewbrooks4507 Před měsícem +41

      The first girl disappeared like Judy Winslow mid episode lol

    • @coreymorris4630
      @coreymorris4630 Před měsícem +1

      Right 😂

    • @debsijb5710
      @debsijb5710 Před 27 dny +4

      Totally met type top , they should boring in other ethnicities too. I am mixed and I like black women

  • @deestephen3176
    @deestephen3176 Před měsícem +1246

    This is probably the best line-up of women yet. They had valid reasons for popping and were so respectful

    • @kenneyp.9456
      @kenneyp.9456 Před měsícem +18

      In looks definitely

    • @francismanancis4186
      @francismanancis4186 Před měsícem

      Nah the one with Ramen Noodle hair was the best one@@kenneyp.9456

    • @jcalvioficial
      @jcalvioficial Před měsícem

      ​@@kenneyp.9456as in light 😏 ⬜

    • @TheBrendanzn
      @TheBrendanzn Před měsícem +23

      True, they all had a lot of substance in their answers and reasonings for popping! Much better than some of the previous contestants.

    • @laurab6418
      @laurab6418 Před měsícem +14

      This line up has a lot of older and wiser women, they were definitely the most respectful of all the other videos 😭

  • @ytwatcher69
    @ytwatcher69 Před měsícem +1105

    The second guy did not seem interested in his match at all 😅

    • @chaunceyelliot1633
      @chaunceyelliot1633 Před měsícem +419

      He didn’t seem interested in none of them.

    • @chrisw4405
      @chrisw4405 Před měsícem +73

      Because most of them is just there to waste they time . Can’t blame him

    • @angeliquewest-sv6ud
      @angeliquewest-sv6ud Před měsícem +151

      I don’t think he liked any of us to be honest but it was all fun

    • @lindokuhlengcamu519
      @lindokuhlengcamu519 Před měsícem +57

      A​@@angeliquewest-sv6udhi there airforce girl. You looked good on the video 👌🏽

    • @adgee5401
      @adgee5401 Před měsícem +29

      Not everybody shows emotion the same way. I would be just like him. It’s just a female at the end of the day.

  • @Octaviamorris77
    @Octaviamorris77 Před měsícem +16

    The guy with the dreads and beige blazer is witty and very much had swag. He checked Ms. Victorville as well…The boho style was fire 🔥

  • @OolongG952
    @OolongG952 Před 24 dny +14

    I love the 3rd guy. They spoke a lot about their faith. At the end if the day, that’s all you have🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Inksplash52
    @Inksplash52 Před měsícem +688

    The fact Cedric had some balloons left was crazy to me ,dude was off 😂

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 Před měsícem +147

      Right, no substance at all, just respect 😭

    • @jehanalexander7563
      @jehanalexander7563 Před měsícem +66

      zero substance

    • @PHARAONICORP
      @PHARAONICORP Před měsícem +61

      That dude was definitely a lame 😂

    • @beauneamcneil6284
      @beauneamcneil6284 Před měsícem +46

      lmaooooo cus i was for sure questioning my own sanity

    • @CL-ck6lf
      @CL-ck6lf Před měsícem +87

      when he said that as long as she can clean my balloon woulda been popped😭

  • @TheOfficialCBGChannel
    @TheOfficialCBGChannel Před měsícem +2610

    I’m glad to see ppl stand for Jesus and not be ashamed!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Esmeb89547
      @Esmeb89547 Před měsícem +227

      The men need to be more clear on what their religion is and be honest about it.

    • @KinaruKitanaJade7373
      @KinaruKitanaJade7373 Před měsícem +38

      AMEN!!!

    • @xguy9999
      @xguy9999 Před měsícem +73

      I agree. God comes first

    • @PreciousSullivan
      @PreciousSullivan Před měsícem +89

      Amen! I was over here shouting lol…. Something about the name Jesus! It is the sweetest name I know❤

    • @daughteroftheking3220
      @daughteroftheking3220 Před měsícem +85

      Yes, praise the Lord the ladies weren’t playing when it came to that. Also, we need the men to be decisive/bold in their faith and put God first like the ladies. Without a strong foundation in Christ, everything crumbles.

  • @Eric_Bassett
    @Eric_Bassett Před 28 dny +18

    Im absolutely hooked on this show. Across the board tho its truly brought to light that both men and women in this day and age are all rejecting good options over PETTY reasons. Its not just the men or just the ladies doing it.. its BOTH doing it. Passing on someone you clearly could vibe with over height or an outfit is just crazy to me...

    • @obiezeugo2561
      @obiezeugo2561 Před 7 dny

      You would need to specify something else that you consider petty rather than an outfit. If my lady was not decent I would not pick her. For the ladies rejecting a guy because he ain't 6 feet. Yeah to me that's petty. But hey, everyone and their preference.

  • @shernequacasimir4027
    @shernequacasimir4027 Před 28 dny +21

    The last guy is very intelligent and asked alot of good questions

  • @zion9146
    @zion9146 Před měsícem +2158

    The speed and efficiency I tap on Arlettes new videos with is insane 😭😭

  • @LesaStar
    @LesaStar Před měsícem +1753

    The first guy was very respectful. He might need his own show like Terrance 👀

    • @IDKWIDPodcast
      @IDKWIDPodcast Před měsícem +25

      Yes

    • @JayJay1988
      @JayJay1988 Před měsícem +24

      I agree

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 Před měsícem +73

      lmfao short guys can never win. And yall say us men are shallow!

    • @LesaStar
      @LesaStar Před měsícem +36

      @@thelonercoder5816 You must’ve commented under the wrong post? I said he was respectful and deserves his own show. I’m just confused on who “yall” is? 😂 I didn’t see anything wrong with his height.

    • @zonin88
      @zonin88 Před měsícem +3

      Agreed

  • @MrCreal06
    @MrCreal06 Před měsícem +13

    “DAMN” 😂😂😂😂 4th guy had me weak! #RESPEC 😂😂😂💯

  • @armystaytiny1193
    @armystaytiny1193 Před měsícem +20

    The model lady in the grey dress is stunning

  • @hateisasignofenvy651
    @hateisasignofenvy651 Před měsícem +472

    The host is going places, balloon show or not. She has that it factor classy & very professional

    • @shaypurvis9149
      @shaypurvis9149 Před měsícem +7

      I agree

    • @Seshbethinja
      @Seshbethinja Před měsícem +4

      She is great. I wish she would either engage the ladies after each contestant leaves, or they should have some background music playing at the very least.

  • @steven_green
    @steven_green Před měsícem +552

    This show needs to be on Netflix or something 😂 I dont even watch stuff like this and I'm tuned in.

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Před měsícem +6

      Lol I agree it would be a great show on Netflix

    • @jacquesjervis3910
      @jacquesjervis3910 Před měsícem +3

      It’s been a concept for years in the Uk, it’s called take me out. Instead of balloons it’s buzzers lol

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Před měsícem

      @@jacquesjervis3910 interesting.. Is this on Netflix

    • @tonic740
      @tonic740 Před měsícem +1

      Too boring and awkward to be on netflix and plus it's missing structure.

    • @lisalyric6711
      @lisalyric6711 Před měsícem +4

      @@tonic740 too awkward and boring but yet you watched?

  • @marybulinda
    @marybulinda Před měsícem +14

    This episode was the best mature and respectful crowd

  • @cliffordhamilton2786
    @cliffordhamilton2786 Před 9 dny +7

    Yoooooo the last dude chaotic af! He grilled the hell out of them!!! 😂😂😂

  • @dalajiawilliams9737
    @dalajiawilliams9737 Před měsícem +863

    Why is nobody talking about the girl that went missing mid-episode?! Lol. But….Finally an episode of level-headed, respectful, reasonable people! Nobody popped the balloon because of petty stuff. Everyone truly seemed to be looking for love.

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me Před měsícem +10

      Which girl ??

    • @niasutton9682
      @niasutton9682 Před měsícem +78

      😂 the girl in the pink

    • @mrs.fdeddins1045
      @mrs.fdeddins1045 Před měsícem +160

      The one guy said had too much makeup on. She never smiled

    • @Booksandarts
      @Booksandarts Před měsícem +273

      I was looking for this comment. She looked like she was uncomfortable so maybe she left.

    • @digimagic3288
      @digimagic3288 Před měsícem +39

      They even gave the guy that didn’t have much conversation a chance

  • @Jelaun
    @Jelaun Před měsícem +684

    them shouting "respect" as he walked off has me screaming lmaooo

  • @Lorinzo755
    @Lorinzo755 Před měsícem +26

    And s/o to the guy with the tan blazer asking all the questions.. He lead the way and demonstrated masculinity, thats rare in this weak, feminine driven society. Salute 🫡 brother

  • @CoverGirlz
    @CoverGirlz Před měsícem +14

    The fourth guy is giving James Brown “She look good… she smells good”🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheBenitaAngela
    @TheBenitaAngela Před měsícem +601

    I think this was my favorite group of women. They weren’t disrespectful even when they were just not physically attracted to someone.
    I also appreciate when young women can stand ten toes down on the importance of their faith.

    • @MariaHeredia-dw4id
      @MariaHeredia-dw4id Před měsícem +1

      But none are virgins or married why buy the cow when the milk is already free HARAM!

    • @keinaanabdi6821
      @keinaanabdi6821 Před měsícem +11

      I think the first guy set the tune for the entire experience

    • @Enkaybe
      @Enkaybe Před měsícem

      @@keinaanabdi6821Shut up ! You guys want to claim everything women do shut up and go fool elsewhere tsww

    • @DT-ze7vs
      @DT-ze7vs Před měsícem +11

      That because most of them believe in Jesus Christ the one and only true God🙏🏾 and was raised right most likely

    • @tes-xj8uy
      @tes-xj8uy Před měsícem +2

      and they were all really beautiful and polished

  • @boodaddytvs
    @boodaddytvs Před měsícem +1000

    I feel like Arlette Took a course, got a coach, or went to a conference and got the CZcams playbook. Interesting content, stretched out over an hour for more watch time and picking the right clips that can go viral. Her subscribers are going to skyrocket if she stays consistent

    • @TinoMadz-mb2vd
      @TinoMadz-mb2vd Před měsícem +69

      She has to be consistent I'm rooting for her cz her show is very professional no bashing when someone is rejected people are so respectful and civilised

    • @ChristianJoyD
      @ChristianJoyD Před měsícem +52

      She does it better than the others because she doesn't let then get away with "They're not my type". She makes them expound.

    • @Soulprettyso
      @Soulprettyso Před měsícem +33

      Her preparation was 🔥 that’s why her show is so successful

    • @favoureriata3820
      @favoureriata3820 Před měsícem +2

      None mirage does it well as well

    • @chikarayleigh4534
      @chikarayleigh4534 Před měsícem +17

      @@favoureriata3820 you're not ok. Nons Miraj has the worst dating show. They just come to roast each other.

  • @burgundyskinned
    @burgundyskinned Před 3 dny +2

    1st dude was so genuine, I wish the best for him.

  • @nasibaabass5773
    @nasibaabass5773 Před 13 dny +4

    Arlette, I love how decently you host this show❤ I hope you become a reality TV show host and producer one day. Love to see you black queen!!!

  • @__REALITY
    @__REALITY Před měsícem +820

    This is gonna be goooooddddddd
    “Sometimes being obsessed leads to toxicity “ he ate with that !!

    • @Pablopicasso796
      @Pablopicasso796 Před měsícem +3

      What exactly did he eat?

    • @ItsNeezy
      @ItsNeezy Před měsícem +95

      ​​@@Pablopicasso796 you must not have comprehended the seriousness behind being obsessive.

    • @shaymene8112
      @shaymene8112 Před měsícem +15

      That was so accurate

    • @betagirl50
      @betagirl50 Před měsícem +8

      He spoke a word!

    • @thankmelater90210
      @thankmelater90210 Před měsícem +15

      Being obsessed is toxic and problematic. She gonna be too clingy you can't have room to breath or be yourself or be free to go as you please. It's not smart to be with someone like that unless she changed her mindset and ways. She's 25 she should be old enough to know that. She still young minded when it comes to relationships but very intelligent.

  • @3L3KTR0NG3N
    @3L3KTR0NG3N Před měsícem +1160

    "He can't carry a conversation. Its always 'respect, you look good.' please give me more."
    "Respect"

  • @EarleHolder
    @EarleHolder Před měsícem +6

    The last brother asked great questions!!

  • @hinohana
    @hinohana Před 12 hodinami

    That’s my first time to watch the girls one and I can definitely feel how well-being they are and respectful Expressing
    their physical preference in a respectful way. I really appreciate that.

  • @CDProclaim180
    @CDProclaim180 Před měsícem +818

    I'm sorry but a relationship with that second guy will be so painful. Zero excitement, zero personality. Amazing episode Arlette!

    • @TheRalphbitch
      @TheRalphbitch Před měsícem

      U prefer him to be noisey and ghetto?

    • @BigGlockGucci
      @BigGlockGucci Před měsícem +121

      It's because he was tall, that's all 😂

    • @JD-te6vm
      @JD-te6vm Před měsícem +31

      He had a good deal breaker tho

    • @JAYWIL01
      @JAYWIL01 Před měsícem +60

      It really doesn't matter when you're tall and have your stuff together.

    • @khorediathiam1976
      @khorediathiam1976 Před měsícem +247

      I thought the same. He wasn’t that excited for his match either.

  • @ashleyfuega
    @ashleyfuega Před měsícem +580

    “Have you ever been in a gang?” 😂😂😂 he was so serious too. I’m literally crying 🤣🤣 51:10

  • @lifewithlatisha3697

    I like this show. Just watching and correcting papers and putting work together. I love it. When I start sewing I'll watch the catch ups they posted. 😊

  • @daisystewart1
    @daisystewart1 Před měsícem +5

    The first guy is just awesome!! You can tell him will make a great husband one day.

  • @Talaya_sh
    @Talaya_sh Před měsícem +287

    45:44 when he said “respect” after she told him that’s all he says got my crying😭😭

  • @MaxIsBackInTown
    @MaxIsBackInTown Před měsícem +383

    When he asked “have you ever been in a gang” I lost it 😂

  • @emmanueldaily
    @emmanueldaily Před 25 dny +5

    Poet guy was in his feelings. Went on a whole speech at the end just talking in circles.

  • @bird12354
    @bird12354 Před 27 dny +4

    I love second guy! His reaction to his match got me dead tho lol

  • @uliceyoung722
    @uliceyoung722 Před měsícem +244

    “Obsessed sometimes leads to toxicity.” Flamed! Lol

    • @shattablaze3369
      @shattablaze3369 Před měsícem +2

      That’s facts

    • @yemedemure414
      @yemedemure414 Před měsícem +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @ceelettice
      @ceelettice Před měsícem +5

      Fully agree! I could tell from her interests in the guys she kept the balloons for, that she probably overly invests in her love interests until she becomes codependent. Which we all know how that ends for the lover girls. But hey I could be misjudging.

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 Před měsícem +3

      ​@@ceeletticeyeah, she needs to work on herself because that comment was telling

  • @badguytalks6655
    @badguytalks6655 Před měsícem +304

    Yall let poet cook for waaaaaaay too long..I was like “BRO SHUT UP” 😂

    • @LiciaD
      @LiciaD Před měsícem +17

      Exactly!

    • @_poet_mo
      @_poet_mo Před měsícem +5

      Haha

    • @jay80
      @jay80 Před měsícem +11

      Literally no problem wit him💀

    • @samichan6848
      @samichan6848 Před měsícem +26

      he just kept going and going like dude 😭

    • @jay80
      @jay80 Před měsícem +11

      @@samichan6848 I mean yeah he talked for hella long but nothing wrong wit bro

  • @Milliondollarperson
    @Milliondollarperson Před 20 dny +3

    Cedrick😂😂😂 funny af!! Bro made me laugh so hard my granddad almost put me out😂 they didn’t respect bro😭

  • @MonroesArtStudio
    @MonroesArtStudio Před 12 dny +9

    You couldn't go wrong with this lineup. They're all ridiculously gorgeous.

  • @qweenroro3991
    @qweenroro3991 Před měsícem +241

    He was so kind to them while being rejected based off of looks. Very mature.

  • @darshellbertola7176
    @darshellbertola7176 Před měsícem +368

    The way Arlette makes them explain themselves cracks me TF up 😂😂😂 “so why is she not your type” LMAO bye

    • @AbigaillOwusu
      @AbigaillOwusu Před měsícem +38

      She’s hilarious! “why did you leave your balloon unpopped” 😂

    • @darshellbertola7176
      @darshellbertola7176 Před měsícem +70

      @@AbigaillOwusu “so what about his appearance don’t you like?” She’s GOLD lol she make them stand on business 😆

    • @briserenity
      @briserenity Před měsícem +35

      “So physically, what is your type” 😂😅

    • @darshellbertola7176
      @darshellbertola7176 Před měsícem +19

      @@briserenitythen she want to say “athletic” and he plays sports 😂😂😂😂 ma’am don’t you watch football, they got some big boys on the defense line.

    • @montj9672
      @montj9672 Před měsícem +1

      I love that lol

  • @CHOPPASTRINGS
    @CHOPPASTRINGS Před 21 dnem +3

    Cedric is very respectful, if you know what I mean. Respect.

  • @4_Ever_Gr8teful_22
    @4_Ever_Gr8teful_22 Před dnem

    MARVIN!!!!!! ♥️What a guy!!!! The best I've seen on here.

  • @thehardtruth3027
    @thehardtruth3027 Před měsícem +545

    3rd guy was in his feelings when she said she wanted someone more athletic looking. He started running down his sports resume😂😂😂😂

    • @maryjs4878
      @maryjs4878 Před měsícem +13

      Lmao😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jeremyjackson7326
      @jeremyjackson7326 Před měsícem +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @sheheals_wounds5169
      @sheheals_wounds5169 Před měsícem +118

      I think she jumped the gun and assumed based on his weight he wasn’t athletic. That’s offensive so naturally he corrected her

    • @kristamonae
      @kristamonae Před měsícem +63

      @@sheheals_wounds5169 how was he athletic?? He’s clearly overweight

    • @alisjay9798
      @alisjay9798 Před měsícem +70

      @@sheheals_wounds5169she meant athletic built, that man is full figured and it’s okay for that to not be someone’s type

  • @popcorn526
    @popcorn526 Před měsícem +459

    Ladies, as a married Christian, don’t let anyone take you away from your faith. I guarantee it’s not worth it and you will be compromising your right now for your forever. Stay blessed all! 🙏🏾

    • @eustaceelms9403
      @eustaceelms9403 Před měsícem +24

      Sounds like you going through it now

    • @gasmakingboost
      @gasmakingboost Před měsícem

      ​@@eustaceelms9403😂😂😂

    • @kaileebroadway7723
      @kaileebroadway7723 Před měsícem +45

      I was so encouraged, when the women stand firm. It was beautiful!

    • @Rittersport88
      @Rittersport88 Před měsícem +56

      A lot of yall are worst than "worldly" folks. Some of the biggest cheaters and gossipers I've known

    • @innitbruv-lascocomics9910
      @innitbruv-lascocomics9910 Před měsícem

      ​@@Rittersport88 Christians LOVE to parade their supposed "Godly" values and defame us so called "wordly" people yet they will committ some of the most heinous things under their God. And then other Christians would be quick to say "they weren't a REAL Christian" when confronted. They hide and cower behind their archaic book. Such sad people.

  • @bethanyking2536
    @bethanyking2536 Před dnem +2

    The “obygn” part got me😂

  • @2Tall2BAShorty
    @2Tall2BAShorty Před měsícem +1

    I LOVEEEE this show!!!

  • @strangepretty7991
    @strangepretty7991 Před měsícem +581

    Girl in the silver dress probably one of the prettiest girls i’ve seen

  • @ggottiii
    @ggottiii Před měsícem +342

    Brandon coming in and immediately saying I see them feet and staring at them is wilddd 😭

    • @condesabeatriz9303
      @condesabeatriz9303 Před měsícem

      😂😂😂

    • @sly9821
      @sly9821 Před měsícem +38

      staring non-stop 😭. he talked about it twice in his introduction without realizing it then the first girl quickly saw through then he continues endlessly

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Před měsícem +25

      And I’m so upset that the skinny chick in the all black took offense to that 🙄🙄. He was being serious, but funny at the same time just trying to lighten the mood.

    • @ggottiii
      @ggottiii Před měsícem +28

      @@Morg100 I mean I’m not sure if she took offense more so seemed like she wasn’t fucking with the foot fetish, which is valid

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 Před měsícem +26

      @@ggottiii but it wasn’t even a “fetish”. He just appreciates a woman with decent feet and spoke on it, which is valid too.

  • @thelifeinsuranceman4026

    The show is so simple and so great!

  • @LustyBrunchn
    @LustyBrunchn Před 25 dny +3

    Me and my friends have to sign up for this.😂😂😂😂 we would be hilarious

  • @CamirrasKitchen
    @CamirrasKitchen Před měsícem +145

    the last guy taking over like he is the host of the show 😂

  • @a_83567
    @a_83567 Před měsícem +416

    I love when Arlette presses them for more details when they say the person just isn’t their type. Arlette gets the tea but in a polite nonmessy way.

    • @ESBEAUTII
      @ESBEAUTII Před měsícem +78

      No it’s very messy

    • @ItsNeezy
      @ItsNeezy Před měsícem +57

      Because she knows the real answer and knows they're gonna tap dance around it.

    • @agabrielle
      @agabrielle Před měsícem +6

      @@ESBEAUTIIagreed 😂😂

    • @lelelew2735
      @lelelew2735 Před měsícem +24

      Lmao shes a instigator

    • @s.f7778
      @s.f7778 Před měsícem +9

      It’s very much messy bfr

  • @princesssegrest7843
    @princesssegrest7843 Před měsícem +1

    So much more respect on this show!

  • @PossibleParis777
    @PossibleParis777 Před 20 dny +1

    The episodes I've seen with Arlette hosting are the best to me. The men and women are classy, respectful and very successful.
    On this episode, I was fond of Heaven. I liked that her style was unique and her curly hair complimented her lovely face. I felt maybe she was just trying to be honest with the guys, without trying to say anything wrong or rude, because you can voice that you're not interested without picking apart someone's image to create drama. I may be wrong, but I liked her. I hope Heaven and everyone on this episode find their life mate.

  • @detectivehawk4976
    @detectivehawk4976 Před měsícem +329

    First dude probably was insanely chill af. Every girl lowkey dissed him and he didn’t take anything personally and complimented them back instead

    • @BeachBallCrusher
      @BeachBallCrusher Před měsícem +49

      The chick in the red top literally led him on then popped at the end. She is definitely the type to play games.

    • @HoneybadgerQ
      @HoneybadgerQ Před měsícem +18

      He should have never done that. That would of made him interesting. Men should never compliment women after rejection. Women get fueled off that

    • @whitneywilliams317
      @whitneywilliams317 Před měsícem +20

      ​@@HoneybadgerQ I can't disagree, but that fact he didn't take it personally and took it like a champ gave me the notion that he didn't care wtf those girls thought anyway 😂😂. He knows his value.

    • @robertneal8244
      @robertneal8244 Před měsícem +6

      @@HoneybadgerQ Not every CHICK dissed him, and why would he take anything they says personally? The last episode the men did the same thing to the lady that was a personal trainer. And she actuality handled it well. And not complimenting a women after rejection doesnt make you interesting, Idk who told you that bro😂😂😂and most women don't get fueled off that. Just the ones that reject you😂😂😂

    • @TevronPlays
      @TevronPlays Před měsícem +7

      Hes cool, but he needs to upgrade his wardrobe asap. Bro cant be rollin in wearin that

  • @willemdee
    @willemdee Před měsícem +278

    The first girl dipped mid-video😂😂😂
    “Respect”

  • @Chosenone429
    @Chosenone429 Před 7 dny

    I love this show!!! Definitely should be on a TV Network

  • @momof4jays592
    @momof4jays592 Před 14 dny +1

    He's such a gentleman and emotionally intelligent.

  • @Bombeyfilmmedia
    @Bombeyfilmmedia Před měsícem +311

    1st & 2nd dude was super confident, honest and chill. No goofy energy! They played it perfectly when they got rejected and selected. Fellas take notes and apply it to life.

    • @abdifatahadenshariff5490
      @abdifatahadenshariff5490 Před měsícem +7

      2nd guy from the air force looked rude af. The way he carried himself was super arrogant.

  • @KnewYawkPapi
    @KnewYawkPapi Před měsícem +172

    Cedric was funny. The team saying respect when he left is absurd 😂😂😂

    • @SinaSpeaks
      @SinaSpeaks Před měsícem +7

      Respect ❤️

    • @AmoSaxFrancis
      @AmoSaxFrancis Před měsícem +2

      RESPECT

    • @owijayson
      @owijayson Před měsícem +4

      Rispek

    • @NamesZKP
      @NamesZKP Před měsícem +2

      Tbh I dont think he was interested. He wasnt saying much or eleborating or creating dialogue. Idk maybe he was just nervous and didnt want to say the wrong thing since they already got on his ass for looking at them in a way. I think he got caught up in the loop of policing himself too much rather than actually making a connection with them.

  • @Kimberly-ks6uu
    @Kimberly-ks6uu Před měsícem +9

    I really appreciate the interviewer asking why at all times so you get the reasons behind why certain decisions were made

  • @milesdavis8250
    @milesdavis8250 Před 17 dny

    The last guy was great. Asked great questions!

  • @garconslord
    @garconslord Před měsícem +311

    When Cedric first walked in had me dying bro looked at the camera like “what is going on”😂😂😂 #respect

    • @dihamilton25
      @dihamilton25 Před měsícem +21

      He was awful 😂😂 where the heck she find him

    • @brandonbates6239
      @brandonbates6239 Před měsícem +6

      He called himself agent slim . Niggga I was crying the whole time .

    • @bcm7k206
      @bcm7k206 Před měsícem +1

      @@dihamilton25your comment is reflective of yourself

    • @Jazzmin554
      @Jazzmin554 Před měsícem

      @@dihamilton25u awful

    • @dihamilton25
      @dihamilton25 Před měsícem

      @@Jazzmin554 thank you.

  • @autumnsky3032
    @autumnsky3032 Před měsícem +424

    I liked the first guy. He may have been short but he was a vibe.

    • @mariahcherrynolan6408
      @mariahcherrynolan6408 Před měsícem +50

      True...I mean in a world of where ladies do BBLs, make ups and hair extras, being short is natural, so yeah I hate when people use that as a barrier too much

    • @teesmith8448
      @teesmith8448 Před měsícem +1

      I definitely would loved to go out with him if I was younger.

    • @summertime718
      @summertime718 Před měsícem

      Very

    • @Disco_biscuit1
      @Disco_biscuit1 Před měsícem +3

      A whole vibe!

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Před měsícem +9

      For real. The day I work 3 jobs and turn down a short man take me to the King. Cus if his height isn’t a issue for him it’s not for me.

  • @darlingtoncynthia8220
    @darlingtoncynthia8220 Před 12 hodinami

    This show is sooo cool , saw a clip on Ig and damn I’ve been invested

  • @eharpo4356
    @eharpo4356 Před měsícem +1

    I must this is an additive show!! To see people pop there balloon then learn more is quite interesting!!!🤣🤣👍🏿

  • @shannonsmith3570
    @shannonsmith3570 Před měsícem +574

    Cedric having 3 ladies left to choose from is WILDDDD😅

    • @rahsaankirton8737
      @rahsaankirton8737 Před měsícem +58

      Very!!! Like they needed a man for the babies real quick !!!

    • @SinaSpeaks
      @SinaSpeaks Před měsícem +1

      😂

    • @mateusvahl5072
      @mateusvahl5072 Před měsícem +28

      I think they left intentionally unpop to make him confused and just pop all together and left him with no options 😂

    • @shanellecooper2981
      @shanellecooper2981 Před měsícem +94

      Who in the world is he a Sports Agent for? He cannot even communicate.

    • @ThiernoDiallo-ro7xd
      @ThiernoDiallo-ro7xd Před měsícem +36

      Respect

  • @kay8573
    @kay8573 Před měsícem +290

    The 2-yr plan was an EXCELLENT question. Definitely a quality episode.

    • @Dreamville902
      @Dreamville902 Před měsícem +3

      My most favorite part of the show ❤

  • @donsynclair
    @donsynclair Před 14 dny +1

    The sounds of the balloons popping back to back when the first guy walked out sounded almost like a beat from a song. 😂😂😂

  • @oluwatobioluwanifemi2904
    @oluwatobioluwanifemi2904 Před měsícem +2

    I love the last guys interaction

  • @anisaadam1342
    @anisaadam1342 Před měsícem +409

    I love the first guy!!!! So respectful and his energy is top tier !!!!!

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight Před měsícem +8

      Would you have kept your balloon tho Ms. Adam? Lol

    • @anisaadam1342
      @anisaadam1342 Před měsícem +16

      @@lifestraight yes. He is charming. And African as well like me

    • @godsownson2469
      @godsownson2469 Před měsícem +18

      He is too respectful and that is why he single,because women are not attracted to " MR NICE GUY "

    • @Jah_53st
      @Jah_53st Před měsícem

      Women love saying this but never be in relationships with these men

    • @FlamerXxx
      @FlamerXxx Před měsícem +8

      and most women still wouldn’t go for him sad world

  • @Chevaux804
    @Chevaux804 Před měsícem +241

    This is the most respectful and mature matchmaking show I've seen on CZcams.

    • @Igetsitin89
      @Igetsitin89 Před měsícem +3

      Yeah with class I don't watch the other ignorant ones

  • @cossettemur
    @cossettemur Před 4 hodinami

    I'm enjoying and improving my English with your videos. Thanks for sharing all the episodes😅😊👌🏼

  • @shesagoddess3592
    @shesagoddess3592 Před 3 dny

    Girl in red fumbled so so bad. Lol!!! Recapping someone’s CV is wild!! Then back tracking - girl - let it goooo hahaha