Women Confess Their Biggest Secrets

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  • čas přidán 13. 04. 2024
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  • @jubilee
    @jubilee  Před měsícem +229

    Hey y’all! Hope you liked this new episode. If you wanna be in a future Jubilee video, make sure you sign up for our casting newsletter here 👉 bit.ly/be-in-a-video

    • @ryleecailin
      @ryleecailin Před měsícem

      thank you

    • @ShonRockerzTV
      @ShonRockerzTV Před měsícem

      This was definitely a roller coaster of emotions that had been unleashed. Much thanks for presenting us with something much eye-opening.

    • @al-teronnrobinson7860
      @al-teronnrobinson7860 Před 29 dny +1

      Can ya'll do a gay men version of this please

    • @DensonFletch
      @DensonFletch Před 28 dny +2

      Do something on single fathers that are alpha in their community, it's wild

    • @PressPowerPlay
      @PressPowerPlay Před 22 dny +5

      Stop this madness and leave Aba and Preach alone.

  • @Mrs_Mama_MFT
    @Mrs_Mama_MFT Před měsícem +7198

    The girl that is a virgin also crushed me. So amazing that her husband has supported her through this, it shows she is worth so much more than sex.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Před měsícem +222

      She needs some help getting her more comfortable with sex. Applause and hugs are very nice but insufficient.

    • @brh.1892
      @brh.1892 Před měsícem +381

      ​@@Ceerads such useful input.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Před měsícem +21

      @@brh.1892 Are you being sarcastic?

    • @32Theresa
      @32Theresa Před měsícem +373

      @@Ceeradsobviously. This comment is useless. This could very be the first time she verbalized her pain. To anyone reading this, you don’t have to make a huge announcement or a huge change in your life to get over something. Sometimes baby steps are what you need first before you can make the move to healing 💛

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Před měsícem +32

      @@32Theresa Obviously, your sarcasm wasn’t obvious to me. But I think this whole video is questionable, since I wonder why anyone would reveal herself so publicly.

  • @alexandragoncalves1160
    @alexandragoncalves1160 Před měsícem +6275

    that hug made me cry. sharing experiences, lifting each other up and feeling deeply connected to one another, that is girlhood.

    • @maddieee13
      @maddieee13 Před měsícem +30

      best comment ❤

    • @DYoung-vt8pq
      @DYoung-vt8pq Před měsícem

      Amen. (((Hugs)))

    • @Aswin_101
      @Aswin_101 Před 29 dny +32

      Oh I'm crying as well , the pain in her words were so evident made me feel that vulnerability as well 😢

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 Před 29 dny +11

      I cried so hard😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩😩🥺🥺🥺🥺😔😔😔😔

    • @manyachan6983
      @manyachan6983 Před 29 dny +6

      That is so beautiful ..... I kinda cried

  • @cm6275
    @cm6275 Před měsícem +6134

    The lady in purple I can't imagine the guilt she feels. This is why I get so mad about bare minimum sentencing for people that m*lest or r*pe others. Ppl think it's "not a big deal" to punish them for the rest of their lives, but look how much it impacted this woman's life. She has a loving husband that is patient with her and is still so traumatized that she can't take the next step. Heartbreaking. And not her fault!!

    • @McSpaanky
      @McSpaanky Před měsícem +389

      I was SA’d and it destroyed my perception of sex and even any type of physical touch. People tend to not realize how much it affects a person, especially since the legal system often places the blame on the victim

    • @aspebb
      @aspebb Před měsícem +79

      He must really love her if he's willing to wait.

    • @cm6275
      @cm6275 Před 29 dny +11

      @@McSpaanky Yes! I’m sorry you went through that. Not sure where you live, but if you’re in the US as well, America is definitely failing in that area!

    • @CyranoForever101
      @CyranoForever101 Před 29 dny +21

      Life sentences are cruel and inhumane. We need to move to the Norwegian model: no crime ever gets more than 25 years, and that time spent behind bars is actually spent rehabilitating the criminal rather than treating them like an animal who will come back into a society where they can't even get a job

    • @McSpaanky
      @McSpaanky Před 29 dny +90

      @@CyranoForever101 I think we should use them and chomos for medical research. But noooo that’s unconstitutional 🫠

  • @yosei6350
    @yosei6350 Před měsícem +4318

    The amount of people that get harassed and assaulted is actually insane, they are so strong.

    • @missestomlinson99
      @missestomlinson99 Před 29 dny +119

      Every woman has been sexually harassed in some form in her life

    • @s3renity37
      @s3renity37 Před 29 dny +21

      @@missestomlinson99 not every?

    • @user-ff3dg8uf1j
      @user-ff3dg8uf1j Před 29 dny

      ​@@s3renity37every

    • @baljeet7041
      @baljeet7041 Před 29 dny +83

      @@s3renity37 every, believe it or not

    • @marianafeliciano6601
      @marianafeliciano6601 Před 29 dny +31

      @yosei6350 and some of us are still dealing with trauma and not healed yet even though is been 26 years 😔

  • @keonaroy
    @keonaroy Před měsícem +6316

    the bank robbery one is insane

    • @gillowens24
      @gillowens24 Před měsícem +140

      A lot was insane sex abuse

    • @realrareap2420
      @realrareap2420 Před měsícem +60

      Because she made it up

    • @iamhere1523
      @iamhere1523 Před měsícem

      @@realrareap2420people like you are the reason why it’s hard to share things. I feel sorry for anyone in your life.

    • @rollitupmars
      @rollitupmars Před měsícem +85

      @@realrareap2420you don’t know that

    • @pawal6002
      @pawal6002 Před měsícem +99

      @@rollitupmarsI’m pretty sure she wouldn’t incriminate herself like this if it was real.

  • @keonaroy
    @keonaroy Před měsícem +4120

    the moment where they all hugged the lady in purple is waww

    • @faedolls
      @faedolls Před měsícem +92

      i cried 😭

    • @wekurtz72
      @wekurtz72 Před měsícem +9

      When they all gathered in one spot I worried about the integrity of the floor and surrounding structure.

    • @lovelyxrosez6589
      @lovelyxrosez6589 Před měsícem +51

      it was so sweet how they comforted her and assured her she wasn't alone. that's real girlhood and being a girl's girl. she even said that they changed her life by making her feel less alone, that's so sweet!

    • @mary6531
      @mary6531 Před měsícem +77

      @@wekurtz72 video about trauma and ur contribution is to fatshame. whats wrong w u bro

    • @Roxieeatsfood
      @Roxieeatsfood Před měsícem +41

      @@wekurtz72your the type of person who thinks their cool but got bullied when they were younger.

  • @LosChismosas
    @LosChismosas Před měsícem +2608

    As someone who was a participant in this segment I just wanted to share a few things with y’all. We all agreed to share our experiences on here because we signed up for this video. In hopes that some people can relate to our experiences and it helps them feel less alone in this world.
    As well as in hopes that it will encourage many people to speak up if they’re comfortable to do so and also seek some help. There are a few moments where we talked more in depth in regards to our situations and they were somewhat edited out and that was completely out of our control. It’s okay!
    Thank you so much for all the love and support! Most of you have been so kind and we all really appreciate it. Some of us didn’t get a chance to share our secret so stay tuned for the next episode! ♥️🥲

    • @skylarsouthhearth1523
      @skylarsouthhearth1523 Před 29 dny +47

      thats so lovely, I'm sure it made a lot of girls feel better about their problems or secrets, (including me)

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Před 29 dny +7

      How does it feel to be a part of a literal pity party? Now that yall talked about it are yall actually going to act on it?

    • @daphneh9612
      @daphneh9612 Před 29 dny +209

      ​@@whatoh3407what an unnecessarily horrible comment

    • @brooklynnxoo
      @brooklynnxoo Před 29 dny +128

      ​@@whatoh3407this is disgusting of you to say, have shame.

    • @pamelamadden6491
      @pamelamadden6491 Před 29 dny

      ​@whatoh3407 , Thanks for sharing your secret. I guess it's hard letting people know that you are an insensitive pathetic person. Now that you have shared what are you going to do about it? I wish you well.

  • @KaiChanges13
    @KaiChanges13 Před měsícem +1387

    the fact that Lupe stood up for almost all of them is just heartbreaking, i hope she is truly doing well. ❤

  • @sombretra
    @sombretra Před 29 dny +1362

    The fact that the husband stays, supports and is there with patience for 6 years... Like... That is love. He loves her for WHO SHE IS.
    I really hope she can heal so that she knows she is safe and truly loved ❤

    • @cocochante6685
      @cocochante6685 Před 27 dny +67

      I hope she heals and knows that sex is not a bad thing… a bad thing happened to her, but sex can be so beautiful and protective and caring with her husband. And I’m glad that she is seeking healing over what happened to her. I’m praying for her dreams to come true.

    • @mayraruiz5485
      @mayraruiz5485 Před 27 dny +21

      We need to find out who he is and make him a throne fr

    • @malvinelpinnoy
      @malvinelpinnoy Před 27 dny +8

      Mmm nah he should be a Catholic priest i.e. IF he's not getting it elsewhere 👀

    • @ChicoMan831
      @ChicoMan831 Před 26 dny +8

      @@mayraruiz5485 serious question...6 years (presumably longer, assuming there was a courtship) is a long time to ask of anyone. Would you feel the same way about him if he was there for her throughout all these years, but still slept with other women without her knowledge?

    • @sloklubolisen2577
      @sloklubolisen2577 Před 25 dny +32

      @@ChicoMan831 I know you weren’t asking me but I’ll respond anyway. No it wouldn’t be the same. No one would blame him for finding a partner capable of fulfilling his needs, no one is forcing him to wait. So for him to agree to wait but then betray her trust and cheat would be scummy.

  • @Mhathir
    @Mhathir Před měsícem +1985

    I’m glad that this type of series is bringing out all of the honesty in people’s lives

    • @cecevanfran9836
      @cecevanfran9836 Před měsícem +28

      This! The truth will set you free! And you will be a happier person

    • @Planck944
      @Planck944 Před měsícem +5

      True

    • @demimiller3756
      @demimiller3756 Před 24 dny +1

      Yes because we are so conditioned to say we are okay

  • @daisyguzman1740
    @daisyguzman1740 Před 28 dny +400

    I cried when the girl of the purple shirt started talking about her experience.

  • @baobaivue9913
    @baobaivue9913 Před měsícem +797

    So many women we sexually assaulted, it made me cry every single time. As a mother of a daughter its so scary to raise her knowing what she could go through.

    • @siofrarafferty3821
      @siofrarafferty3821 Před 28 dny +12

      that must be a scary thought. I hope to raise my future daughter with awareness of how wrong that behaviour is and encourage her to defend herself and speak her mind in any situation. I’m sure you have established yourself as someone she can trust so she will come to you if she ever feels unsafe❤

    • @fictionaddiction4706
      @fictionaddiction4706 Před 28 dny +1

      Leave any country that doesn't ban alcohol, and premarital sex. everyone is acting like a predator.

    • @kellyjelly1624
      @kellyjelly1624 Před 27 dny

      men always have the audacity​@@fictionaddiction4706

    • @JustJess-xw5cr
      @JustJess-xw5cr Před 26 dny

      ​@@fictionaddiction4706and under 18 marriage and arranged or pressured marriage.

    • @RetroHorizons
      @RetroHorizons Před 26 dny +2

      what.. about men..?

  • @ericasylne175
    @ericasylne175 Před měsícem +1001

    THIS why I LOVE BEING A WOMAN. seeing all of these beautiful women embrace, support and hold space with kindness, respect, patience, sympathy and empathy made my ❤️ full. Shoutout to Lupe too, she’s so sweet.

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Před 29 dny +23

      Lol it was a literal pity party.

    • @margeryojije7862
      @margeryojije7862 Před 29 dny +60

      @@whatoh3407 it’s ok if you don’t like this video.. you don’t even like yourself. We see u 😉

    • @whatoh3407
      @whatoh3407 Před 29 dny +18

      @margeryojije7862 lol most these girls don't like themselves. I'm all for therapy, and talking about issues, but non of this provided actually solutions. I'm tired of hearing people talk, talk, talk and not take action. I used to be in a hole, you know what got me out? Action.

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god Před 29 dny +24

      Some of them needed to be held accountable tho. Sadly they weren’t. Specifically the cheaters, the ones dating they best friend ex and DEF THE ONE WHO HELPED SCAM AND ROB BANKS. Lock her and him up for sure

    • @dwippity
      @dwippity Před 28 dny +9

      @@rqtek4god girl who cares about dating your bestie's ex lmao. it's an EX for a reason. it didn't work out. if he did something to harm their friend, sure. otherwise, fr?? don't we have anything better to be worried about??

  • @peachyygiirl
    @peachyygiirl Před 27 dny +832

    Please do this with men. It would be so amazing to see men be this vulnerable with each other since men have such a harder time opening up.

    • @Clemaglorine
      @Clemaglorine Před 22 dny +23

      Literally ! Especially when men opening up or crying is seen as pathetic and weak by a lot of people in society and society as a whole

    • @bingus549
      @bingus549 Před 20 dny +2

      @@Clemaglorine maybe im cynical but i feel like this will never change. theres no reason for society ro care

    • @n4dia.ofc.x
      @n4dia.ofc.x Před 16 dny +5

      @@bingus549Why do you think there is there no reason for society to care? Just curious

    • @ChrisCollins-oj2fx
      @ChrisCollins-oj2fx Před 14 dny +1

      Gayyyyyyyy

    • @ChrisCollins-oj2fx
      @ChrisCollins-oj2fx Před 14 dny +6

      @@Clemaglorine why would men do such gay things😂😂😂

  • @siyanafrr
    @siyanafrr Před měsícem +834

    8:31 “don’t be sorry it’s what your feeling” real words.

  • @melissaterblanche1598
    @melissaterblanche1598 Před měsícem +348

    Oh baby. To the girl in the purple. You are so loved. Your husband did not marry you for children and he loves you for you, not for what you can or cannot give him. Sex is important but it is not everything. Marriage is about feeling safe, loved and supported. There is also so many different ways to have kids babe and you'll get your Gracie one day, however she's meant to come along. Keep going to therapy and keep healing for you honey. So proud of you! Sending you so much love and healing ❤❤❤❤

    • @thishumanoid
      @thishumanoid Před 16 dny +3

      Thank you so so much Melissa ❤❤❤❤

  • @TedIsHere2
    @TedIsHere2 Před měsícem +3286

    Great concept but it’s too awkward/ heartbreaking for the person to turn around and potentially have nobody standing there supporting them

    • @darkkforest
      @darkkforest Před měsícem +31

      ​@@catsandclawsb how can they improve that

    • @goddessk196
      @goddessk196 Před měsícem +444

      Such is life….. Not everybody will agree or understand you. That’s where strength and the will to be strong comes in ….

    • @ironshoes1720
      @ironshoes1720 Před měsícem +637

      Not stepping up and standing behind you is not expressing a lack of support; it means these people have not experienced something similar and therefore can't relate. 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @LashayMW
      @LashayMW Před měsícem +202

      Everyone is there for support. They only stand up if they relate to the prompt

    • @mystical-dc9vk
      @mystical-dc9vk Před měsícem +70

      You ONLY stand behind if you relate to it

  • @Paulette_Williams
    @Paulette_Williams Před měsícem +887

    Such a great concept! The relief of the woman in purple was palpable. What a beautiful moment.

  • @johjohxoxo
    @johjohxoxo Před 29 dny +490

    And to the last person: my brother did that to me. broke me and sexually abused me several times. and my dad does not know. my mom knows. but she tells me she still has to love him because thats her son. sickening. and photos are still all around of him. so protect yourself. sometimes its not worth it to try to make other family members believe you or respect you or help protect you. You are not alone in this fight. I know it can be torture everyday the memories. But please know you’re not alone. And you did not deserve what happened to you. You should have been protected and it should have never happened. You are still amazing. You are still your own person. You are not ruined. You are important. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ImGoodThankYou
      @ImGoodThankYou Před 28 dny +52

      I'm so sorry. You're so strong.

    • @johjohxoxo
      @johjohxoxo Před 28 dny +26

      @@ImGoodThankYou thank you so much. you just made my day 💗 and i am sending you the best of luck in everything you do

    • @sunkistbabe
      @sunkistbabe Před 27 dny +36

      So your Mom has never held him accountable for sexually abusing you and is willingly keeping this a secret from your Dad. Tell your Dad because your Mom is dropping the ball on this one.

    • @ii-vx2ok
      @ii-vx2ok Před 27 dny +24

      Please tell your dad, u don't want to go your whole life like this. I went through a similar situation with my biological father and I always wished I told people sooner. I cut him off completely and never been happier. Don't let people guilt u into keeping contact either

    • @yebetti1436
      @yebetti1436 Před 26 dny +2

      wow, your view of life is beyond impressive girl, i hope you always get what you want xx

  • @eggsnbacon515
    @eggsnbacon515 Před měsícem +1404

    Everyone's talking about them clapping for the girl who helped commit credit card fraud but they're not clapping for the crime they're clapping for her getting out of it and sharing her story so others don't do it

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 Před měsícem +28

      But like still though either way they sent the wrong message

    • @brbsnortingcatnip
      @brbsnortingcatnip Před měsícem +105

      But she admitted she only stopped because he ghosted her.

    • @aaksksks1556
      @aaksksks1556 Před měsícem +21

      @@brbsnortingcatniplike that makes it any better?? 😭😭

    • @Michael-kv5ff
      @Michael-kv5ff Před 29 dny +6

      ​@@aaksksks1556 It doesn't he's on the side that she's in the wrong

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god Před 29 dny +39

      Shorty need to get locked up. I don’t respect scammers and thieves. Ppl work too hard for they money.

  • @hesherlobster987
    @hesherlobster987 Před měsícem +680

    To the last girl,
    I am so sorry that it happened to you,
    I'm so sorry that you had to and still have to go through that trauma over and over again
    I want you to know you are absolutely NOT selfish
    YOU ARE NOT, BY ANY MEANS OBLIGATED TO FORGIVE SB just because you share blood with them,
    you don't owe them anyting
    You deserve to heal at your own pace, on your on terms,
    and you deserve to be in the environment that feels safe,
    each child and person deserves to feel loved and cared for
    and I'm so sorry you didn't get to expirience that in your past
    I really hope that you'll find Peace, you deservve so much
    And I'm sending you the most loving warmhearted hug
    ❤❤❤

  • @Marvel12079
    @Marvel12079 Před 26 dny +59

    Men constanly make fun of women for being 'overly emotional but in my opinion women's 'overly emotional' nature is something that should be applauded not reprimanded, the compassion and empathy that they feel for eachother is beautiful and is truly needed in this world.😊

  • @ashabell2089
    @ashabell2089 Před 27 dny +95

    The virgin one was the most heartbreaking and beautiful confession with support

  • @emersonkerin7046
    @emersonkerin7046 Před 29 dny +80

    The women all circling and hugging the woman crying after saying she feels she can’t give her husband that intimacy to him, it’s not fair, made me cry. So much love in this video and in this group of women who are just meeting each other, as an empath it’s so refreshing to see this and how they did not judge one another or belittle anyone and simply let everyone feel their feelings and emotions.

  • @karennn3
    @karennn3 Před měsícem +151

    being vulnerable in a group of women, and getting nothing but love and support is beautiful

  • @LauraDia
    @LauraDia Před měsícem +202

    The love that exists in sisterhood… this was amazing

    • @MG-cc9hi
      @MG-cc9hi Před 23 dny

      If it was a room of strangers sharing positive news or accomplishments, it would be a circle of envy and hatred. Girls are interesting.

  • @fernwehbby
    @fernwehbby Před měsícem +184

    This video made me realize how much sharing the struggles and knowledge, and just simly supporting each other is important for women. And not just among friends, but even having heart-to-heart conversations with strangers, like they did here, can be truly life-changing.

  • @nakitah443
    @nakitah443 Před měsícem +220

    Mariah. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I was also abused by my own dad. I have forgiven him now but you’re not alone. I’m here for you. I cry all the time over the fact that this is my reality, but you aren’t alone, I promise.

    • @SoSodawgindahouse
      @SoSodawgindahouse Před měsícem +27

      Im really sorry that happened to you. Idk how you could forgive him, i personally couldn’t so i can’t imagine the strength you would need to do that. Its horrible especially coming from a relative. I hope you’re healing and that you keep living on your life to the fullest ❤️

    • @saaraphoenix
      @saaraphoenix Před 28 dny +7

      I had this happen to me last year.. I can't and won't forgive him but thank you for sharing and letting me know that I'm not alone

    • @pork8829
      @pork8829 Před 27 dny

      @@saaraphoenix Since your wounds are so fresh, I can understand why you feel that way, but trust me from personal experience and the experiences of others, holding onto that anger forever will destroy you. I know nothing about your situation, but a few things that I wish I had known sooner: You have the power to say Stop, No, Never Again in my case, and most cases I've heard, it will stop bc if he or she thinks you enjoy it, it'll continue.

    • @ii-vx2ok
      @ii-vx2ok Před 27 dny +6

      ​@pork8829 it was her biological father ?!? Obviously a predator situation I don't think saying no helps here.

  • @mlee-w664
    @mlee-w664 Před měsícem +817

    Did that girl just admit to a felony for a CZcams video?🤨

    • @GooseCee
      @GooseCee Před měsícem +185

      100% risk, 0 reward 😎

    • @sphephelombhamaly173
      @sphephelombhamaly173 Před měsícem +8

      @@GooseCee 🤣

    • @fogisherenow
      @fogisherenow Před měsícem +14

      Jail

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 Před měsícem +43

      Yep and they all clapped and were proud of her

    • @blank7771
      @blank7771 Před měsícem

      ​@@omotayosatuyi252they clapped for her sharing the name.. I'm sorry you have social autism

  • @QueenofWheels
    @QueenofWheels Před měsícem +182

    What kind of child of the devil bullies somebody for being SA? Hers made me sad.

    • @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063
      @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 Před 28 dny +19

      Its terrible. Im also disgusted at the family blaming the last girl for beimg SAd by her own dad. Ppl have no soul!!!

    • @haroldharold9042
      @haroldharold9042 Před 27 dny +5

      I’ve heard of the same thing happening to kidnapping victims. It’s heartbreaking that there are so many evil people in the world, and that bullying isn’t taken as seriously as other types of abuse.

    • @QueenofWheels
      @QueenofWheels Před 26 dny +3

      @@haroldharold9042 I can not stand a bully

  • @heartsdeprived
    @heartsdeprived Před 29 dny +58

    I thought I was the only one, but that woman in purple had so many supporters, and it made me realize that I am “normal.” There’s not just one type of “normal,” and I’m okay as I am. This changed my life.

  • @JANEEL
    @JANEEL Před 27 dny +55

    Purple shirt has me CRYING. Praying for healing more love and more jubilant moments lady! Little Gracie is going to love you!!

    • @thishumanoid
      @thishumanoid Před 16 dny

      Thank you so so much that means so much ❤

  • @Dlemon001
    @Dlemon001 Před měsícem +255

    6 years is a lot to take in my heart goes out for her i hope she gets the support she deserves

  • @daneeinglis1894
    @daneeinglis1894 Před 27 dny +77

    The last young woman, You aren't to blame and you were a kid, you aren't expected to protect anyone else, that was the adults' job and they let all of you down. You're worthy of safety, love and happiness.

  • @ava-pb7cf
    @ava-pb7cf Před měsícem +90

    I hated relating almost completely with the girl who was assaulted by a friend who was a women. And being bullied for it after, it was extremely hard to hear and know others have been through the same

  • @kadiant5016
    @kadiant5016 Před měsícem +182

    This was an emotional one for me. Praying for each of these women.

  • @bigyikes8698
    @bigyikes8698 Před 29 dny +41

    I love that some of the women stayed to comfort Mariah at the end of the video. Her secret was so painful and she’s so strong for finding the courage to finally speak out about it.

  • @user-ov4hy2wj8e
    @user-ov4hy2wj8e Před 28 dny +187

    Everyone is talking about the girl in the purple shirt, or the girl who robbed a bank, but why isn’t anyone talking about the girl who was sexually assaulted by a woman? Because it is actually a problem and is overlooked.

    • @nayeajoobe128
      @nayeajoobe128 Před 27 dny +34

      Society only views men as oppressors and women as victims. We need to change the perception that being a victim, or an oppressor is not gender specific and bring about gender neutral laws and listen to everyone's concerns not just women's. True equality and harmony can only be achieved by ensuring men and women get voices to raise their concerns, not just women alone.

    • @en2336
      @en2336 Před 27 dny

      @@nayeajoobe128 this will change when 99% of s3x crimes aren't perpetrated by one gender. look it up.

    • @user-ov4hy2wj8e
      @user-ov4hy2wj8e Před 26 dny +3

      Exactlyyy

    • @NonanoN-er6de
      @NonanoN-er6de Před 26 dny +6

      ​@@nayeajoobe128 like paternity fraud!

    • @user-qb9pp9bg4s
      @user-qb9pp9bg4s Před 23 dny

      Look at you talking about I put only in the context of shaming other people for not pointing it out in the comments. You had an opportunity to talk about it talk about it. You don’t control other people in the comments.

  • @Pou1gie1
    @Pou1gie1 Před měsícem +84

    @16:20 When I was like 11 or 12 my friend admitted the same thing to me. At first, when she would tell me that she didn't want me to stay over her house or do sleepovers I figured it was because I am part blk (I had a lot of friends who told me their parents don't like blk ppl, so I wasn't invited to bday parties that all the other kids in class were invited to). But to find out that the reason she didn't want me to stay over was because she was afraid her father would do it to me was really heartbreaking.

    • @briana9168
      @briana9168 Před 21 dnem +2

      Sorry you went through those ignorant and racist situations :(

  • @angelicamarcuzzo2944
    @angelicamarcuzzo2944 Před měsícem +91

    absolutely burst out crying at the hug genuinely

  • @yeah_1261
    @yeah_1261 Před měsícem +1758

    How are they clapping for the woman who did the credit card fraud 😭

    • @shoestringfries3418
      @shoestringfries3418 Před měsícem +343

      Probably because she got out of it and they might have the same rules as Family Feud. Clap for everything.

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong Před měsícem +84

      Victimhood is power, and these women can say whatever they want. It's gross.

    • @jackiemaldonado7777
      @jackiemaldonado7777 Před měsícem +251

      ​@@eugenetswong cope

    • @jackiemaldonado7777
      @jackiemaldonado7777 Před měsícem +129

      ​@shoestringfries3418 they didn't clap for the first lady lol they obviously clapped for her because she lived and learned

    • @yosei6350
      @yosei6350 Před měsícem +200

      Because she learned from her mistake, and try to tell other young girls not to do the same mistake because they believe it’s cool.

  • @mercymsezeni838
    @mercymsezeni838 Před 26 dny +22

    The lady in purple. So much healing needed❤. My heart goes to you. I hope you feel relieved and work through it.

  • @sponggiexoxo
    @sponggiexoxo Před měsícem +37

    This video was quite moving. I love the fact that the women were so loving and supportive of one another. Society needs more of that. We all need to support one another.

  • @silversilver0
    @silversilver0 Před měsícem +49

    Tbh I have gone to group therapy and it was nowhere near as supportive, nowhere near as honest and open. I wish I could have gone to an all women group therapy but they're usually mixed women & men. I just think that women have a greater capacity to be openly vulnerable and supportive. I wish these ladies the best. I hope they can get the help they need whether its amongst themselves, in therapy, from the religion, etc. ❤

  • @babyynandi
    @babyynandi Před 26 dny +16

    the woman’s story about not being intimate with her husband made me feel less lonely as i can similarly relate. no one can tell you how to heal, not even yourself. i thank her for sharing her story. ik she will overcome her trauma! ❤

  • @MrSewerRat
    @MrSewerRat Před 29 dny +48

    The red head with her mouth open the entire time in shock . Is hilarious and so sweet

  • @deleteduser4238
    @deleteduser4238 Před měsícem +138

    This is such a unique video idea---well executed and I can't wait for the men's version.

    • @averyremillard7968
      @averyremillard7968 Před měsícem +13

      SO TRUE. would love a men's version

    • @blank7771
      @blank7771 Před měsícem +8

      they aren't gonna make one... when was the last time they made men's version of these videos

    • @i3iei3i72
      @i3iei3i72 Před měsícem +21

      They’re all gonna confess to literal crimes anyways

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 Před měsícem +10

      @@blank7771 you big cry baby lol

    • @muazunais2378
      @muazunais2378 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@blank7771i agree jubilee has a primarily female audience so anything men's related isn't gonna make bread

  • @BellaAnderson-o11o1o
    @BellaAnderson-o11o1o Před měsícem +35

    I hope the woman who have experienced trauma know how strong they were to carry that burden alone for so long, and then even stronger for voicing it, so that others know that they are not alone.

  • @xSaphiredust
    @xSaphiredust Před 29 dny +21

    Gosh, I've never cried so much in an episode of Jubilee. I hope we get more women support groups in the world. We are truly something special and seeing women be each other's comfort is beautiful. You all are so amazing.

    • @haroldharold9042
      @haroldharold9042 Před 27 dny +2

      Yes! Plus studies show that women speak up more in groups that are female only. It’s so important, we need that.

  • @victoriahope4740
    @victoriahope4740 Před 29 dny +19

    this made me cry. im so sorry to all of the people, especially the women that go through such horrible things. you never know what someone is going through or went through just by looking at them. this hurt my heart.....

  • @vanessaiwe2390
    @vanessaiwe2390 Před měsícem +45

    This is what I view feminism as!! Women being there for each other non judgmental, but understanding of their previous lives! Thank you.

  • @Kaylaaylacontrayla
    @Kaylaaylacontrayla Před měsícem +17

    What a beautiful episode. The way that they all lifting eachother up while sharing such intimate details of their life was so powerful to me. There’s always someone who understands, at least a little bit, of what you are going through.

  • @evangelinepost7545
    @evangelinepost7545 Před 20 dny +6

    As soon as the girl in purple turned around and saw that she wasn’t alone and broke down, I broke down too, and when they all hugged her I completely lost it, what amazing women💜

  • @shannonbarry6520
    @shannonbarry6520 Před 29 dny +17

    I was sexually assaulted by a woman. It definitely happens and is just as traumatic. It happened 10 years ago, and I am still dealing with the mental damage.

    • @kosiudezue1730
      @kosiudezue1730 Před 26 dny +1

      I'm so sorry that happened to u,😔and I pray it's gets better ❤️

    • @shannonbarry6520
      @shannonbarry6520 Před 26 dny

      @kosiudezue1730 Hey, thank you. I don't know you, but that means a lot.

    • @kosiudezue1730
      @kosiudezue1730 Před 26 dny

      @@shannonbarry6520 aww,u are welcome,I'm glad that made to feel better 😊❤️and just know u're are never alone🫂

  • @sm0othiej
    @sm0othiej Před měsícem +15

    this is by far one of the most emotional and insightful videos jubilee has created!! ❤️ women go through so much with little to nobody knowing about it. the way that they bring light to these things while also giving women a safe space to share is beautiful. though it’s a bitter sweet feeling to hear these bad experiences, i think its amazing that this exists and women can watch this and feel seen, heard, and related too.
    @jubilee : you guys should definitely continue these kinds of videos with many many different groups of people so other groups can feel empowered and that they’re not alone ! ❤️

  • @iamwissu
    @iamwissu Před 14 dny +4

    To the girl who was married for 6 years and still a virgin...
    I am so sorry for your experience, I hope you'd feel better as soon as possible. I applaud your husband for being the person he is, I am sure he wouldn't be patient if you're not a great person.
    Thank you so much for sharing you experience, I cried with you today...

  • @ek7292
    @ek7292 Před měsícem +52

    this was such a beautiful episode. 🙏🏼 PLEASE continue this series for a long time because I think there are endless amounts of people who could benefit from both being on the show and watching this “Circle of Secrets” series

  • @Amber-yv8wq
    @Amber-yv8wq Před měsícem +14

    I think this is a great platform for women to share their experiences in a space with other women. Women feel safer around other women and it shows that we're not alone. I think we as an audience need to also consider that no one forced these women to come here. They all wanted to come on here and share their experiences and I think that's a beautiful thing. These are strong and courageous women and I hope nothing for the best in their futures. I would love to see this become a series not just for women but for many groups of people. It may be uncomfortable but sometimes we need to be uncomfortable in order to become closer as a society.

  • @camacameleontv3911
    @camacameleontv3911 Před 29 dny +16

    Videos like this really make me feel fortunate and proud to be a woman. The way they all openly showed love, support, empathy & grace towards one another was very inspiring. I love it here 🤍

  • @anikagrace9827
    @anikagrace9827 Před měsícem +116

    Cryed. Heartbroken heart warmed. Amazing video

  • @thedesignnerd
    @thedesignnerd Před 28 dny +10

    I don't think I'll be able to muster so much courage like these strong women to speak up about such deep secrets in front of the whole world. They have all my respect and admiration! This resonated with me very deeply. Thank you for this Jubilee ❤

  • @ImmortalDynastyTarot
    @ImmortalDynastyTarot Před měsícem +7

    This was honest, healing, and needed. I hope speaking each of their truths and being in such a safe space was helpful. Our world needs more of this ❤

  • @mimicaruso9250
    @mimicaruso9250 Před měsícem +14

    what a beautiful format , we need more of this for being less alone and for being more human being, because I feel that some time we forget that at the end of the day humans interactions are the most important things in the world

  • @karthikvijay5678
    @karthikvijay5678 Před měsícem +15

    I just want to send love for whoever is going through any challenges that you are to afraid to share and that may even be shameful. Just know you are not alone and your story is valid and your worth is not lost. You matter, and I’m not just saying this because the world is actually a better place with you in it. There are so many wonderful people who are going to come a long your journey who will be happy to get a chance to meet you and experience the joy that you bring to the world, much love ❤❤❤

  • @midori7494
    @midori7494 Před 25 dny +5

    this video is so wholesome. seeing the empathy and sympathy the girls had for one another is something i needed to see. no experience is invalid, and there is always someone out there who understands you. and sometimes, more people understand you than you may have thought initially. it is absolutely beautiful. loved seeing this video. i love every single one of these girls sm!! ❤

  • @Dtx.samantha9
    @Dtx.samantha9 Před 27 dny +19

    The girl at the end ugh I wish I could give her a hug she is so brave for speaking on her situation 🤍if you see this comment I hope you heal in every way love your not alone and it’s okay to be scared but don’t let him define you love you girly !

  • @jamilelele8589
    @jamilelele8589 Před měsícem +8

    I am really sorry Mariah.. Hearing your story really made me sad and I just hope you can continue healing and protecting your peace. No one deserves what you went through and I'm praying for your well-being. You are so strong.

  • @Bigbrainz420
    @Bigbrainz420 Před měsícem +117

    This is one of my favourite videos on CZcams. More of this please

  • @user-in8bg6su5f
    @user-in8bg6su5f Před měsícem +62

    This one a very emotional one for me. I can relate to a few of these. Heartbreaking, hope these women are healthy ❤

  • @Mary-dk7mc
    @Mary-dk7mc Před měsícem +29

    This is a life changing series wth Jubilee!!

  • @PrisonMike-_-
    @PrisonMike-_- Před 29 dny +25

    I know the woman in purple and she and her husband are truly some of the greatest people I’ve ever met in my life I love them so much

  • @arnydoll
    @arnydoll Před 20 dny +4

    It sucks what women have to endure when we’ve been assaulted or abused. Meanwhile the abuser gets support & freedom. Praying for all of you women. You are brave & amazing. You are seen & definitely not alone. I know it’s tough but keep being amazing in your own way, at your own pace!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾☮️💟

  • @shegardenssometimes
    @shegardenssometimes Před měsícem +18

    Y'all are making me cry.
    Thanks for sharing your secrets.

  • @naimaraven
    @naimaraven Před měsícem +54

    That poor last girl😢💔it's absolutely devastating that her own father did that to her

  • @taylormullen2815
    @taylormullen2815 Před měsícem +14

    This seems like such a safe space for all of them! I respect Brittaney for speaking up. I hope she knows nothing is wrong with her. She was traumatized, but she still deserves love

  • @alexrice1870
    @alexrice1870 Před měsícem +104

    This is very close to Thorayas videos and I would appreciate you mentioning or collaborating on this in the future with her.

  • @GraysBlue
    @GraysBlue Před 29 dny +7

    wow this made me sob. there were multiple scenarios i could relate too as well and i cant imagine how cathartic sharing with everyone and receiving that support must have been.

  • @optic_zombie
    @optic_zombie Před 27 dny +10

    this breaks my heart but also heals something inside of me

  • @annabarrett50
    @annabarrett50 Před 27 dny +5

    Hearing a lot of these women's stories makes me realize how I'm not alone.
    The world is a vicious place, and you may sometimes feel like you can't cope, but you're never truly alone, as long as there are other people in the world 💛

  • @yosei6350
    @yosei6350 Před měsícem +71

    Everyone that is commenting on how they clapped for the fraud story: They obviously clapped because the girl got out of it, she clearly learned from her mistake and doesn’t want young girls to do the same mistake believing it’s “cool” because it’s not. They also clapped for her braveness of saying his full name on camera and shaming him. Stop getting the wrong idea of things

    • @hz-gv6fk
      @hz-gv6fk Před měsícem +1

      👏

    • @brbsnortingcatnip
      @brbsnortingcatnip Před měsícem +10

      She didn't get out of it because she wanted to, though. She did because he peaced out. She'd probably still be doing it today if he hadn't ghosted her.

    • @I.I.I.A2
      @I.I.I.A2 Před 17 dny

      She called him out as if she had done nothing wrong.

  • @marcushunkus467
    @marcushunkus467 Před 27 dny +8

    This episode is so beautiful @jubilee. Genuinely wish there was an existing platform like this for people all over the World. Talking about it and knowing you are not alone really helps with the shame and guilt.

  • @cherrykuroink
    @cherrykuroink Před měsícem +7

    been ages since a Jubilee video made me cry. Thank you for this new content, this was very powerful x I hope all the ladies are ok and loved xx

  • @sxmplyqueen.5030
    @sxmplyqueen.5030 Před měsícem +15

    I feel like this open mic experience will be able to touch many people especially girl who relate❤❤

  • @Captain_Commenter
    @Captain_Commenter Před měsícem +233

    My mom apparently told my dad to cheat on her and he did, shame on both of them.

    • @Orange_Pear
      @Orange_Pear Před měsícem +32

      bro💀

    • @frogmanjr
      @frogmanjr Před měsícem +2

      Bruh

    • @fogisherenow
      @fogisherenow Před měsícem +41

      The way you said it as if it's a little whoopsie. 'shame on both of them.'

    • @aspebb
      @aspebb Před měsícem +19

      She gave him the pass and he took it. I have such mixed feelings on that.

    • @DanHosler
      @DanHosler Před měsícem +39

      😂 Why you outing your parents like this

  • @sandramupende
    @sandramupende Před 29 dny +27

    Healing through truth-telling is such a powerful thing.

  • @jonathanhernandez5987
    @jonathanhernandez5987 Před 27 dny +2

    All of these women are so amazingly strong! They all share beauty, and openness to complete strangers to welcome this type of love is humbling. 😢 my hat is off to each and everyone of them.

  • @erinrosesolorio4981
    @erinrosesolorio4981 Před měsícem +7

    I hope these women know how incredibly brave they are to share their experiences and how many other women can empathize with it, we really are better together. ❤Sending love and healing.

  • @Kobachidachi
    @Kobachidachi Před 26 dny +5

    Literally all of these hit so hard watching this kind of stuff is heartbreaking however also extremely reassuring and I love seeing women supporting women

  • @jamescamille84
    @jamescamille84 Před 26 dny +5

    So inspiring.!! Thank you to all those beautiful souls for pulling down their walls for 18mins.. I hope you all release that burden and become the amazing humans you always strived to be.

  • @chelseachelz
    @chelseachelz Před 28 dny +4

    Aaaaand I’m crying.
    Thank you to all the women for your vulnerable open hearts and honesty.

  • @bridgettegarcia2950
    @bridgettegarcia2950 Před 26 dny +4

    This video was amazing. The woman in the purple really touched me. I appreciate the raw wholesome emotions this video brought it has me in tears. I truly appreciate the people in this video for being so vulnerable and this concept is amazing, i would love to see more

  • @jasminreyes3963
    @jasminreyes3963 Před 28 dny +10

    Mariah my heart goes out to you. I went through the same thing and the pain is unbearable. Sending so much love

  • @kaceyking5323
    @kaceyking5323 Před 28 dny +6

    Dangggggg this show is amazing! Thank you for being so vulnerable 🥹

  • @lalalalaceeeee
    @lalalalaceeeee Před měsícem +8

    Mariah… you’re not alone. Thank you for being brave to share your aloneness. I feel you. I hear you and I’m with you.

  • @zvonimirstaubringer2887
    @zvonimirstaubringer2887 Před 21 dnem +9

    You are saying you're advocates of free speech and people adding their own views to the discourse, and yet you are threatening Aba n Preach with channel deletion? Despicable. Absolutely deplorable actions.

  • @Urawizhar
    @Urawizhar Před 29 dny +4

    Thank you all so much for sharing your stories with the world. You will help so many people. As women we will all go through at least one of these secrets in our lives or something very similar. I’m so proud to be born in a time in history where we can share our experiences and be a voice for the voiceless. Abuse thrives in silence, so as painful as it can be, let’s keep spreading awareness to improve the future for everyone.❤

  • @luckylyd
    @luckylyd Před 21 dnem +6

    immediate straight face for the "sleeping with my bestfriends ex" prompt, horrible friend horrible hard launch and just wow lmao

    • @thepremaritaldiaries
      @thepremaritaldiaries Před 20 dny

      Sometimes people are meant for each other.

    • @sahrai7492
      @sahrai7492 Před 8 hodinami

      Literally she had no sympathy for her “best friend” whatsoever 😒😒

  • @rinasmitty
    @rinasmitty Před měsícem +94

    Applaud to Brandi for speaking up . If you have breath in your lungs you still have time ✨🫶🏼

  • @stephanielupercio3168
    @stephanielupercio3168 Před 27 dny +16

    I hope one day SA is rare experience for women..