Married Couples Get Brutally Honest | Split Decision
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0:00 intro
0:50 my partner's family has caused issues in our relationship
6:23 if I caught my partner cheating, I'd give them a second chance
10:50 there have been times in our marriage where I've been severely unhappy
13:45 I believe the strongest marriages are based in religious faith
15:50 I know the number one issue that we need to work on
19:37 I make significant sacrifices in our relationship that go unnoticed or unappriciated
21:35 I sometimes fear I won't be able to give my partner everyting they deserve - Zábava
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I'm a single Christian virgin SOOOO YEAH 👍
maybe i will if you bring it to android
and if i end up with someone
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THE BETTER QUESTION IS How do you support free speech but copyright strike channels even though its free use ?
HOW DARE U INFRINGE ON FAIR USE And try and take somebody's livelihood. Y DO U HYPOCRITEs STRIKE THERE CHANNEL
same episode but with couples married for more than 10 years
to be fair no happy married couple of 10+ years would put their entire relationship history on a CZcams video
@@yulelog22also would be a really difficult panel to get together
It wouldn't be difficult. But it might be boring. My wife and I have been together 15 years since highschool. Married 9. Most of these questions there would be no deviation from what we already expect, thus no shocking moments that would make the video interesting. Just a theory though.
@@mamunoz41True but this video is pretty tame for these types of videos.
Up
"This is a safe space"
uploads for millions of strangers to watch and judge
LMFAOOO realest comment
THANK YOU hahaha I was about to write that, Im like, somebody must already said that... pff...
FACTS 😂
when I heard that, I thought the same 😂
safe space doesnt mean no posting and you are made aware of posting before hand
Would have been nice to see a much older couple that has been married more than two years. These newlyweds could have learnt a lot from them too.
Facts!
2 years = newlywed??
@@gaminglegend Maybe not "newlywed," but could still in the honeymoon stage.
@@gaminglegend yes??
@@gaminglegendyes. You’re a newlywed for the first 2 years
“It’s just a season” is such a reassuring thing to say, beautiful!!!
Also loved that as someone struggling with a career change and more! Very gentle encouraging way of speaking!
Extremely kind and empathetic. Made my heart squeeze. 💜
Timestamp?
Around 12:00 @@eandroid5483
@@eandroid548311:54
i wish they would’ve gotten older couples/couples who’ve been married longer as well
@jubilee
Usually in split decision videos there’s people that I just don’t personally like their demeanor or attitude but everyone was beautiful and respectful in this one.
Shani gave me a bad vibe
@@MarcoAce13 Shani was very respectful and empathetic towards the other two participants. She's fine you're seeing things
You're projecting @@MarcoAce13
@@bibimbap5917 sure when the cameras are on u. Her thing about the religion doesn’t make sense at all lmfao
@@jackcable1028 her thing about religion is her personal belief and not for anyone else to judge. If her partner is okay with it then who are you? And I say this as an agnostic
This one definitely should've been called "Newlyweds Get Brutally Honest." My husband and I have been married for 12 years, my parents for 47 years... I agree with others and I think some answers definitely would've been different for marriages that have passed the 10 year mark.
"I think we're alive because of each other." is such a strong statement... it hit me to the core
Sounds toxic to an extent if I'm being honest
@@Noneofyourbusiness194I would really like to learn, could you explain why you think so.
@@eseodigie9022 my own opinion with this particular phrase "being alive because of each other" hence i said toxic to an extent sounds like they are not familiar with exploring their senses of self individually, so in all aspects of their life something nor someone who may come into their lives they hold on to them (individually) as to say they somehow aren't dependent on themselves but others coexisting with the "i can't live without you" phrase, not saying them particularly but such people struggle with their own solitude and sense of individuality they tend to be dependent on romantic partners, romantic relationships, friendships except being dependent on themselves, their own solitude and individuality, self exploration.
@@Noneofyourbusiness194 alright thank alot, I think I understand now.
@@Noneofyourbusiness194 wrong
Randal and Shani are great. Shani is so articulate, her emotional intelligence shines very strong
and they were the people who said faith comes in as the strongest and most important part
I didn’t like that Shani implied that women back in the day didn’t work/contribute back in the day. Not working was a luxury reserved a minority of women typically upper class white women.
emotional intelligence is not a real thing. You probably believe in toxic masculinity as well. Woke garbage lolllll
Wish there was an elderly couple in this
Same here dude 😎
The couples who easily voiced their own communication style errors and held themselves accountable were so great to see!
split decision is def my fav series to come out of Jubilee! plssss continue thissss
YES!
These people were the most wholesome I’ve ever seen in one of these videos, love them
The Christian couple and the gay couple are so mature
you think? They Christian guy is heavily tone-policing his wife. Not really mature, or sign of a balanced relationship in my book.
@@monikaedithschulz6986 No he's not you just have a problem with Christians
@@monikaedithschulz6986that's the book they're following. I'd say its garbage also, but theyre both consenting adults
@@monikaedithschulz6986 How you talk to your partner matters. This goes both ways. You should be tone-policing each other so you can communicate in a healthy manner and aren't automatically turning problems that need to be handled into arguments.
elaborate on how it's garbage
I wanna give Llaina a hug I remember being home for a while after I had my baby, I was so depressed. It is a season, sending ❤.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
Thanks for this info. I will check her out online. thanks
The only thing I didn’t like about this episode is that it’s not long enough! I loved each couple 🥹
agreed
the three way answers were so weird bc why is it always another woman and they’re considered “tools”. it’s like the 2nd woman is just being objectified and used for them
I'm glad someone pointed this out because wtf.
Because when it gets emotional it can get messy. You don’t want an emotional relationship with a one time threesome situation. If you want an emotional relationship then thats a poly relationship and thats a whole different thing. As long as the other woman understands shes just a play thing and that it’s not an emotional relationship and is ok with that then thats ok. If thats not for you thats fine but you don’t need to judge others for what they like to do behind closed doors.
@@Scelestious it's weird imo to talk about women like they're just tools to get off. It's objectification. I'm not saying it's wrong to have threesomes with no feelings for the third person but it's not okay to objectify someone or talk about them that way.
I was hopping for people who had longer marriages. Like I've been married for 12 years and in all honesty 2 and 3 years you are still in the honeymoon phase I was hopping for 6 or 7 year marriages or at least 5 years.
We did too. We were kinda bummed we couldn't meet more seasoned couples.
It would’ve been nice if they stated how long they’ve been together including b4 marriage
Oh brother
@@32Theresa My thoughts too. I've only been married 2 years, but been together for six.
The nail conversation made me feel so lucky and fortunate of my partner….
Back at the end of 2023 I went through a really bad mental health crisis (nearly committed & tried to end own life) and through a therapy program I went through & what not really started focusing on self care and small things to look forward to
Getting my nails done once a month has definitely been one of those important things to me…. My partner actually came up w/the idea of me getting my nails done once a month using his credit card as a treat for me & now for the past 4-5 months he’s been like “hey babe take my card and treat yourself to your nails & get em done at the salon you like”
Hearing the half-white lady and the white guy's story about the race problems they had from a small town was sad, but it wasn't a surprise.
U don't know if she's half-white
@@Health1FirstWe can tell brodie
@@Sinheart1 there r ppl who just look racially ambiguous
@@Health1FirstBruh if she looks like that there’s no way she is 100% black
@@Health1First Shani also looked racially ambiguous
I loved watching how respectful Randy is of Shani. That's what we need more of!
The overt unicorn hunting expressed in the 3way question was kind of distasteful. The one woman would obviously get aggressively jealous and the other woman literally called this hypothetical second woman a tool. Idt either of them would be able to have a 3some ethically.
honestly. plus what about a threesome w another guy? it just sounds creepy to watch and video tape
There is no ethical way to have a threesome. Someone, or possibly all, are being used as tools.
agreed as a queer woman i’d hate to have a male partner so adamant about watching… and the objectification was gross
Randy and Shani, your authenticity shines through in every moment of the episode. Thank you for being such a positive example!
True, but I got the vibe that he loves her way more than she loves him. Could be wrong.
@@lejamesbron5880 people always say this about articulate women lmao. to me it was completely evident that shes probably even more thoughtful than randy in their relationship. a calm woman is a happy one!
It's so interesting how dynamic individual experiences are versus regional stereotypes. I'm a white gay guy from Alabama who married a black gay guy from Georgia. The only familial issues we ran into was on his mother's side because they are Jehovah's Witnesses. My entire family and his dad's side accepted us from the gitgo. We've encountered very little homophobia or racism in our decade of being married and we're both from small towns.
Luca is a real lover omg. Jai is so lucky ❤
Contemplating if I should watch this now or wait for Cody’s reaction 🤔
wait
Both
Who’s cody
@@urbanzscody co he does reaction videos to jobbele
@@urbanzs cody ko
When Shani said It’s just a season. I felt that!!
that hug, when the one woman was crying was so wholesome and also how everybody tried to cheer her up. Awesome stuff!!!
Whoever casts the people should get a raise. These guests did all the work with shoddy questions that had little to do with love and all to do with enticing controversy.
they should get a raise? for what, doing their job properly once? 💀💀 Jubilee has a track record of MANY bad choices for participants
Shout out to everyone affected by the medicine shortage. It’s unbelievable what’s actually happening to us when you’re one of the ones in it. It has completely deconstructed and reconstructed my worldview.
All of these couples are really great.
Healthiest episode by far
Shout out to Kot, he’s such an astute and empathetic host and he sets such an awesome tone for these sensitive subjects.
Love how into it yall were and catching the slick lines! Song is 🔥
watched most of the Split Decision episodes and this is hands down the best! I feel like they all have the potential to stay together. Randal is too cool lol
I just finished this episode and I actually agree with the comments. This was def the most calm/wholesome video in the series.
More of this Jubilee and loved how they all came across as honest and genuine with each other.
I need to see this with an arranged marriage couple!!!
Some couples seem very young to get married. I wish them the best.
What age would you recommend them to get married? Their 30s?
"ay what was that over there"? ***switches to *no* LMFAOOOOO*******
LOVED this video and these couples
I would love to watch the uncut version where I hear everyone's responses
Randal does not like 43 at all! He definitely doesn't look 10 years older than his wife
seeing how these couples are able to communicate and help each other is so nice to see
I like hayle ane daniel they seem chill and fun to be around
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Loved it. Go Ilaina with being vulnerable to the world. It was very impactful. Randal could have had any woman he wanted and he picked the perfect one with Shani. Daniel and Hayley love that you stood up for yourselves even though some in your community didn’t approve.
I could see all these couples being close friends. Great job matching up the couples to share openly.
Such beautiful couples ahh they’re the cutest!!! 🫶✨
Thoroughly enjoyed this! Wish it were longer though.
def one of my fav episodes
this was such a beautiful episode ❤
I love these couples wow. I feel like I learned a lot from all of them
I get it that Gen Z and younger Millennials will be more open to participating. However, I'm honestly tired of only hearing experiences and perspectives of the same age group, regardless of the video topic. People above 35 exist and they likely have much more to share than young people.
It's just crazy to me that we live this life where we wanna pour our every being into strangers that's not from under our umbrella meaning (family) and hope we could be our complete selves with these people.
Anyone else realize when Hayle was talking about being unappreciated that she’s never actually communicated to Daniel what she wanted?
to me it seems like daniel isn't willing to listen, not giving her a safe space to express what she wants. she probably feels like she can't share things with him because he will just shut her down - like he's doing in this video.
Oh trust she did mention it but the guy seems so stubborn not necessarily making him a bad partner but it seems it's an issue that's being brushed off by him he knows she knows 💀
@@gwen6937just curious where did he cut/shut her off in the vid? The reason I made the original statement is because Daniel said he’s willing to learn how to do her nails which is a GREAT option/idea financial wise and relationship wise bc your taking time to learn a skill to help your partner. But then it took the host to say “Oh but you want to go OUT and get it done”” and Shani to further elaborate that it makes her feel like a woman for her to agree with. That’s why I said it seems like poor communication on her end.
@@Noneofyourbusiness194how are you so sure?
it feels illegal to be this early
I’m illegal
Fr
FACTS 😂
Randall and Shani are the model/example that the black community should strive for. Beautiful (and yes I’m a brother/black 😂)
These channels never want to show positive blk couples for some reason.
They are beautiful. How it should be. Mutual respect, boundaries, principles. Just healthy and that’s what thrives. ❤️🌞 I hope this sort of peace for everyone 👍🏼
randal looks at his wife so sweetly
Great series and this may be the best of Split Decision. They all seem genuine about life and each other. Luca and Jai y’all are so great together. Randy and Shani are like the perfect Hollywood couple and they put their Faith first. Joshua and Ilaina have so many inspiring stories to tell and Hayley and Daniel are winners no matter what challenges come their way.
Beautiful celebration of love and partnership. Shani and Randy, goals!!
Loved how Shani reassured Llaina that its just season, so comforting ❤
I wish more people support/accept interracial/lgbt marriage to make the world more united😥
It's even okay if they aren't completely accepting, but why interrupt a couples lives because of disagreement? Big problem with extremists, can't mind their own damn business
It's biologically rooted in our species to be disgusted by such things. In multiple, replicated studies carried out over the decades utilizing MRI machines, this dynamic has occurred across nearly every single demographic selected to partake in the experiments.
The only exception to the rule has been those who've had a TBI or a documented family history of mental disease.
For anyone curious on the subject the latest attempt was published in Psychology Today back in 2016/7.
Well LGBT yes but interracial.......
@@Charlottefwyou ?????
opposite buddy
All the couples seemed in very fulfilling marriages. I, too, wouldn’t accept it if my partner had had a relationship outside ours. As for religion, we’re both atheists.
Fifty years ago, many young women were becoming feminist (I was one), and many women were working outside the home. Her question applies much more to women of seventy years ago and before that.
Having people my age and younger is weird for a marriage type video. Not many people 20-30 are married fr..
Not really weird, this was the norm 50 years ago.
I'd like to see this again but with couples who have been together for 5+ years and see how my boyfriend and I relate because we've been together for 7 years and it's hard to relate to this! We kept being like "JUST WAIT" while watching this hahah
Great episode. Loved the maturity of the gay couple. Randy and Shani seem like they went into the marriage knowing exactly what they wanted in a partner. Daniel and Hayley rooting for you both. Ilaina and her husband have such a genuine story.
I love how beautiful and safe this video was made. This was more on the "newly-wed" side. Thank you for your time to produce this. May we please have a video of more seasoned marriages? Maybe by the decades (10 years, 20 years, 30 years, etc.)?
Hoping all these couples have a happy and successful journey together :)
Randall and Shani are like the mom and dad of the other couples! lol!
How are yall commenting if the runtime of the video is longer than the time the video has been released 😭
Because prejudice does not wait
@@malice4422 Prejudice? People are just responding as things come up, that's all.
@@angiew2324do u see the amount of comments referring to the “unequal” proportion of gay and biracial relationships
@@malice4422 Yes, but there are only a couple of those - most are kids leaving the "it's illegal to be this early" kind of comments.
I don't think the ones you're talking about are necessarily prejudice though, but rather an observation. Someone doesn't have to dislike black or gay people to recognize that some companies/commercials/TV shows/movies/etc., are going overboard trying to represent certain people; many black & gay people recognize it themselves.
It's been taken to an unnatural extreme, it would be offensive to me if I were gay or a minority.
Being early
I cried the whole time. These couples are wholesome.
This is a better one jubilee I’ll give you thay
The editor(s) of this video should improve somethings. The studio background is white so the Jubilee logo, topic they are discussing etc should be in a different color.
Shani is the boss boss I can just tell! Structured, organized etc
absolutely disgusted at the answers and reactions to the threesome question
Me and my husband have been together for 21 years. Hoping to see one of these episodes with older couple
I really liked this episode, I'm glad they had a very diverse cast and did not highlight thar in the video title. Too often those titles can sound hollow of surface level and this definitely was not surface level.
just had to drop a comment to say how amazing this video was.
Sat down to watch this one especially. I so want to see more love and marriage in the world. I love to see how diverse you put everyone together. From the Christian couple to the gay couple.
i looove these videosss
the clickbait thumbnail of him asking if they should get a divorce
It really gives me the ick to hear Hayle refer to other women as “females”
Singing Let’s Stay Together!! Lol. Great episode.
I wish Jubilee was brutally honest and would just say they can't go after Aba and Preach, but instead hire shady companies to do their dirty work for them.
Beautiful couples and marriage relationships
Shani seems like such a girls girl and i love that
I'm glad the black women or mixed women didnt let family push them around and dictate who they should or shouldn't marry. Way to go! 👏
WEST VIRGINIA MENTIONED RAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I reallllyyyyyy love the diversity in all these couples 🔥🔥🔥💚💚💚
The men here fetishising w/w relationship are so disgusting. If randal was actually religious he wouldn't have agreed with Daniel. Randal is just putting up an act of being religious
Using the third person as a tool.....
seriously. women aren’t there for your viewing pleasure and to excite your boyfriend.
It's very disheartening.
The “I Have 5 senses” literally everyone 😂
Shani and Randal are goals!
Iliana is a rose 🌹 she’s so sweet and strong. ❤
Missed opportunity to make their names goldish-yellow like the Jubilee logo, the white text containing their names blends in with the white background.
Randy gives me George Clooney vibes! Gonna be cool forever dude.
Randal and Shani, your honesty and vulnerability in the episode were truly inspiring! Thank you for sharing your journey.
Aw they are so cute! Marriage is such a beautiful thing ❤
Life goals are Shani and Randal!!
thanks for the vid