The Cost And Struggle Of Child Care In The Uk/How To Balance Child Care And Work/ Uk Family Living

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  • The Cost And Struggle Of Child Care In The Uk/How To Balance Child Care And Work/ Uk Family Living
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  • @adesolar.bankole8471
    @adesolar.bankole8471 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing..I love that you were factual about it

  • @elizabethonyekwue9368
    @elizabethonyekwue9368 Před 2 lety +2

    Welldone sis! The best part of this video for me is your baby's voice and his constantly pulling your hair😅. That simply shows how they invade our lives and take charge. Kudos for consistently dishing out content regardless!

  • @makplaga
    @makplaga Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for this video. Been looking for this information

  • @hylinemomanyichannel3097
    @hylinemomanyichannel3097 Před 2 lety +1

    Here to offer full support sister..thanks for sharing

  • @jilarevers5427
    @jilarevers5427 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow.... Hmmm... Thank you for sharing... Eye opener

  • @abenafamily1747
    @abenafamily1747 Před 2 lety +1

    Great content nice presentation thanks sis

  • @TessyinAustralia
    @TessyinAustralia Před 2 lety +3

    Life is not easy generally everywhere.
    Just manage your income properly
    Thanks sis Tochi

  • @Wealthy.Africans
    @Wealthy.Africans Před 2 lety

    Good video, Thank you for sharing ❣❣🌷👌

  • @lindamichaelstv
    @lindamichaelstv Před 2 lety +3

    Great video to watch , it’s really a sad reality, paying 30 pounds a week for crèche in the Uk ? That’s quite expensive, crèche is free in Ireland , the government takes care of it , if a family makes an application from welfare service.
    Yeah I’m only working because of choosing a night shift, if not we’ll get into trouble for child neglect. Night shift is my life saver. Coming from Chy Space, like your channel already, big fam 🥰

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Awww, thank you so much, I really appreciate

  • @adebayojuliet3284
    @adebayojuliet3284 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for the information

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Před 2 lety +2

    Life is not easy and motherhood is not easy too eziokwu'm. Now I say kudos to the teachers seriously they are trying.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      At all o, but we gini, we mooovvvveeee

  • @Ujulinnspace
    @Ujulinnspace Před 2 lety

    Tochi dear❤️ you are so real! I enjoyed your video🥰

  • @sandraigwe2201
    @sandraigwe2201 Před 2 lety +3

    Nne you said it all, child care really isnt easy abroad unlike back home in Nigeria, and it affects the mom more than the dads, most times people back home think you dont want your child to attend school, but each country have rules attached to it and must be followed, any tin extra attracts extra pay. Weldone for dishing out the blunt truth👍

  • @ijeomamadu
    @ijeomamadu Před 2 lety +4

    Sis, u nailed it on the head. Same thing we are suffering here. Child care is really expensive that some women chose to stay at home and take care of their kids rather than work and still give everything back to the government. Here, child care fee is pay as u earn.

  • @tastyfoodevents5322
    @tastyfoodevents5322 Před 2 lety +1

    It will be like you are working for the childminder, No one can take care of your child like you. Thanks for sharing sis

  • @livewithpakistanimomingerm6967

    Great video, very nice. 🇩🇪🙏🌹👑👌💕❤

  • @ChySpace
    @ChySpace Před 2 lety +1

    Obodo oyibo lifestyle no be here sis. I work around my husband's rota too.
    Someone must always be at home for the little ones indeed.

  • @FaithOjone
    @FaithOjone Před 2 lety

    You said it all, not easy at all, God will help us. I work weekends and one week day so hubby can work full time, it’s a serious struggle. Child care is not even so expensive around you guys, we pay 435£ per month for daycare 2days per week. We had to stop at a point.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      £435 is much o, jeez 🙄. God will help us

  • @Ujulinnspace
    @Ujulinnspace Před 2 lety +3

    Women makes a whole lot of sacrifices daily! I can relate well dear❤️

  • @MelissaOti
    @MelissaOti Před 2 lety +1

    Ah! Tell me about it, we pay a lot for my child to go to nursery because he needs it and we need it too. Our motivation is that he’s developing there and we would probably pay more if we were in Nigeria and want him to go to a very good school. It’s not easy jare

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Yea, it’s not easy but it’s worth it I guess

    • @adelakunoyekola1919
      @adelakunoyekola1919 Před rokem

      @melissa Oti
      Madam na lie... its cheaper in nigeria. You pay achools per term in nigeria and that like 3months per term... calculate what they Re paying over there in a day.. 5 times a week 20 times a month and 3 months for each term. That's millions of naira. Now tell me where on the average your 1 to 3 years old child will pay millions for just a term in nigeria. Except you get some cash to waste 🗑 you enrol a child in that age bracket and pay millions per term.

  • @yourtastelifestyle1827
    @yourtastelifestyle1827 Před 2 lety +1

    Nothing is cheap in UK to be honest, but it seems childcare is on top of the top list.
    It is well!

  • @Ujulinnspace
    @Ujulinnspace Před 2 lety +1

    And people use to think there is a tree that produces money overseas! It ain’t easy anywhere

  • @veeunique
    @veeunique Před 2 lety +1

    That is what people back home don't understand, the feel people over here manual fall from above for them ,is not easy here,is so difficult but Hod is our strength.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      God is our strength my dear, it is well with us

  • @mercynogheghase8065
    @mercynogheghase8065 Před 2 lety +1

    Here in Italy is the same thing, not easy.

  • @NinaAnthonyVlogs
    @NinaAnthonyVlogs Před 2 lety +1

    I'm currently struggling with childcare cost 😭 started working recently.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      The struggle is real dear, but you will be fine 💪

  • @ChidinmaChikeJames
    @ChidinmaChikeJames Před 2 lety

    Na wa oh 😄 it's better to just stay home and take care of your kids yourself.

  • @bibisvlog9609
    @bibisvlog9609 Před 2 lety +2

    Just thinking of relocating to uk for masters but your videos are scaring me 😂😂... Nigeria is not any better 😪

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      🤣🤣😊 I’ve made a lot of videos about the positive sides of living in the Uk, you can check them out. You don’t have to be scared, Uk is still better, you just have to plan and be strategic.

  • @BibicheL
    @BibicheL Před 2 lety +2

    Child care is so expensive in the US 🇺🇸 and the price for part time does not make sense for us so we did full time till they now started school . Another great video 🥰❤️

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Guess child care is one of the greatest challenges of living abroad

  • @oluodu9357
    @oluodu9357 Před 2 lety +1

    Well done Tochi👍🏾. You are really doing an impressive job. Please what age can a child be left at home in the UK. Kind regards

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Thanks dear, Any child below 16 should not be left alone at home overnight.
      Any age from 12 you can leave them for a few hours if you need to pick something up briefly but not for too long.

    • @oluodu9357
      @oluodu9357 Před 2 lety

      @@TochiEsther OK, thank you for the clarity 🤗

  • @Dumulmeorimedi
    @Dumulmeorimedi Před 2 lety +1

    I like your new friend video.
    새로운 친구 영상이 좋아요.👍👍😚🇰🇷😘🥰

  • @tastyfoodevents5322
    @tastyfoodevents5322 Před 2 lety +1

    This is really the reality on ground

  • @priscillangozi9313
    @priscillangozi9313 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for this wonderful piece. Please Tochi if you are planning to relocate to the UK, can you get your parent say your mum or your sister to take care of your kids. Thanks

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Yea, they can visit for just 6months

    • @priscillangozi9313
      @priscillangozi9313 Před 2 lety

      @@TochiEsther thank you so much. Please can you throw more light on dependent Visa and who's eligible for that

  • @enoedoho08-lp4iz
    @enoedoho08-lp4iz Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks dear
    What if I bring someone from Nigeria to help out preferably the person staying with my kids now to always stay with them

  • @ngeeomadarlyn602
    @ngeeomadarlyn602 Před 2 lety +1

    Also you can claim 85% back that’s for registered child minder.

  • @mandyfrizz
    @mandyfrizz Před 2 lety

    Na wah oo , child minder 😌 just hearing this for the first time. I guess every country has its own struggle. Something that you will just put your baby in a day care and spend small money here in naija

  • @Sawilda03
    @Sawilda03 Před 2 lety +1

    I have been looking for a video like this.as a single mom of 3 coming for MSc next year,the last is 7,first is 11.pls what's ur advice for me...

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Kindly send a dm on Instagram, let’s chat. My handle is in the description area

  • @atigolotosan9776
    @atigolotosan9776 Před 2 lety

    Will it make sense if one partner is working day shift and the other partner takes care of the child while working night shift and vice versa

  • @SupportiveJoy
    @SupportiveJoy Před 2 lety +1

    If both parents work then they qualify for 30hrs free a week.

  • @christainachukwunuyeremu4887

    But tochi, can someone come over with a nanny to uk

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      Yes but you have to prove that you can pay the Nanny well

  • @rashidayusuf4892
    @rashidayusuf4892 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank u sis, is it true that primary and secondary schools are free in UK???

  • @Rayo10115
    @Rayo10115 Před 2 lety

    well-done ma.... Pls what skill (hand work based ) can one learn before relocating to the UK as a mum .... thanks

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +2

      Braiding hair and making wigs if you ask me

    • @Rayo10115
      @Rayo10115 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TochiEsther thanks so much for your prompt response ma..... how do one go about getting customers

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      @@Rayo10115 you just have to keep telling people around you about your business

    • @Rayo10115
      @Rayo10115 Před 2 lety +1

      just followed on Instagram.... kindly assept my request

    • @Rayo10115
      @Rayo10115 Před 2 lety

      thank you 💓💓💓

  • @ngeeomadarlyn602
    @ngeeomadarlyn602 Před 2 lety +1

    Per hour? Mine is per day . About £60 .

  • @Milvision8448
    @Milvision8448 Před 2 lety +1

    Nice video, am planning to come to UK for MSc with my daughter of 10yrs, how will i manage her working and schooling my husband will be visiting not staying because he is working in Nigeria. Advise pls.

  • @yumyumfoodsindiaspora
    @yumyumfoodsindiaspora Před 2 lety +1

    What if the child is 2+ how do i handle him. Is it the same rate

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      I already answered all your questions in this video…

  • @oshogweofeblessing4715
    @oshogweofeblessing4715 Před 11 měsíci

    Please at what age should you stop taking the child to child care

  • @olaidetimothy7336
    @olaidetimothy7336 Před 2 lety +1

    How much is tax and caouncil tax??

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      I’m going to answer all your questions in my next video ok. Anticipate

  • @yourtastelifestyle1827

    Nothing is cheap in UK to be honest, but it seems childcare is on top of the top list.
    It is well! don’t worry, time shall come when you will work without restrictions. Mara will be the childminding Bobo by then😀

  • @jonicanzedinma1578
    @jonicanzedinma1578 Před 2 lety

    Wow this video is so applicable to me. I'm coming with 13yr old, 9yrs old and 5yrs old, any advice please?

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      The 5yr old would go into year 1 the 9yr old should be yr 4 or thereabouts. Your 13yr old is definitely high school. You'd be fine, wishing all the best

    • @jonicanzedinma1578
      @jonicanzedinma1578 Před 2 lety

      @@TochiEsther thank you very much

    • @cynnybear1935
      @cynnybear1935 Před 2 lety

      My kids are the similar age, coming this end of year, then getting my kids after.... My last born is 5yrs... Your videos are helpful

  • @faithjanira579
    @faithjanira579 Před 2 lety

    How can i reach you privately?

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      Please send a DM on Instagram. My handle is in the description area

  • @akporugocordellia5917
    @akporugocordellia5917 Před 2 lety +1

    I don't feel a woman has to be a stay at home mum.its partnership and it can be rotated. The way people complain about Uk seems like is nothing is working there. And I know that's not true. Life is all about planning

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      I'm pretty sure I gave a proper context if anyone watched the video to the very end and of course seen my previous videos 😊. Thanks for watching.

  • @jessyluv34
    @jessyluv34 Před 2 lety +1

    Please Tochi how can one get child care jobs in uk

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +1

      Guess you have to apply for it

    • @jessyluv34
      @jessyluv34 Před 2 lety

      @@TochiEsther please 🙏 how can I apply for it from Nigeria

  • @yumyumfoodsindiaspora
    @yumyumfoodsindiaspora Před 2 lety +1

    How many hours free is for age 4 and above

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      The answer is in the video

    • @yumyumfoodsindiaspora
      @yumyumfoodsindiaspora Před 2 lety

      @@TochiEsther it's not there. You only said under 3 is preschool and you pay 30 pounds weekly. While 3 and above is free school but you did not specify. Is it free from 8:45 to 2:45

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety

      @@yumyumfoodsindiaspora free hours in school from 4 years. 8:45-3:00pm daily

  • @oluwayemisiakinleye5918
    @oluwayemisiakinleye5918 Před 2 lety +1

    Why are you so negative? So there's nothing good bringing up kids in the uk ?.
    If its so hard then go back to nija !!.

    • @TochiEsther
      @TochiEsther  Před 2 lety +4

      Alright dear I'd think about your suggestion. Cheers 👍

    • @balkismotunrayo760
      @balkismotunrayo760 Před 2 lety +1

      She only been raw just for you to prepare your mind down for whatever comes your way... Mehn !! It's not easy over here(uk)

    • @opeyemio705
      @opeyemio705 Před 2 lety +1

      She is saying the reality. It is just to prepare people's mind especially those with young kids(below 3). Every country has its pros and cons.

  • @kitchenwithmuskan7931
    @kitchenwithmuskan7931 Před 2 lety

    Mashallah good 👍 video dear friend Stay contacted full watch please ap mere ghar bi Aya

  • @chloeonukogu5642
    @chloeonukogu5642 Před rokem

    This was really educative ♥️
    Please ma, I have some questions.
    Can I please send you a dm on IG?