It's not asking too much. Don't be preemptively offended by other people's thoughts. I really find it strange how people give up before they even try something and determine the outcome before even really thinking about what they are saying.
@@rw5622 what are you talking about? I'm not "prevently offended" i let that for the pussys, I'm just stating the fact that modern women are mostly entitled narcissistic and can't even think on other that themselves that's why can't appreciate any other person effort
@rw5622 what you said made no sense please make it make sense please that's not even what he was talking about you clearly don't get it. it's not about being offended it's about everything you do is a problem and when you do it's still a problem when all you want is some form of recognition or thank you. you clearly don't get it.
So a man's a draught horse, hoping that he doesn't come home from work to be served with divorce papers. Not for me It's about staying true to your principles & also, nowadays, not being taken advantage of & making sure you don't get screwed.
I agree with goggins, my dad is the most hardworking, wisest, most humble, greatest man I have ever met and he hardly makes any money. I will be the one to retire him and then I will provide for my own wife and kids and I will die happy knowing I provided for the people who love me and couldn’t provide for themselves.
@@imanipringle2449 you don't represent every woman. Maybe you're a rare gem, but most of the women don't do the same. So don't take it personally. It's an in-general perspective.
Your misattribution of luck to what is really hard work will keep you in a place where you'll never understand what he's talking about. People aren't stupid, you work hard and they'll see it. And if they don't, then you work hard to walk away. If your family doesn't respect you, maybe you aren't working hard. And if you are, maybe you need to walk away.
@@mpclepto182 i did walk away, but that is usually just the beginning of a much bigger problem. There many factors that come into play when measuring success, not just hard work. The government's desire to persecute for example. Oversimplification is the mistake that most people make. That and painting with a large brush.
I feel disappointed that i cannot retire my family. But it will happen. They've helped me become an engineer who makes 6 figures, and although they still (and will always) continue to offer me help - it should be the other way around. Thank you for saying this, Goggins.
@@officialthomasjamesand if it was an specialized u with engineering class they’ll buy all the merch w the U logo and the im an engineer, or a shirt that says something like god didn’t do it and architect did.
If you’re making 100k+ in a field with upward mobility, you can definitely retire early or afford a stay at home wife if you budget properly and decide for yourself what your spending priorities are.
I'm divorced now but when I was married at the before I'd head to work at 345am I'd look in on my wife and kids sleeping comfortably in their beds and it gave me all the motivation I needed to go get it that day ...
@@youngw1ze it is what you get for marrying , women dont appreciate at all if its given easy to them , they will not be thankful until they work hard to get it . it is also case for children. My aunt has children ,she does everything but they still find something to complain bcz she gives everything without dicipline or rule
Love you so much Mr. Goggins. You’re my number two hero, only coming in second place to my Dad who just passed and made me the luckiest daughter to ever exist knowing what a real man’s man is and you have the same attitude of positive, benevolent masculinity. Thank you so much for your hope and encouragement and keeping us in check! Love you!!❤❤❤
When a real man walks in a room of males and females every realises that we are not all equal. Not many real men left. Real men aren’t arrogant, they provide and protect. They fulfil their role.
That's exactly what I want for my parents. It's amazing that David exists I think the same way brother. I don't want anything but I want to give everything for them.
Yup. I'm 38. I just quit my job and I'm switching careers. I was at the absolute top of the business world, top floor, middle of downtown. Shoulder to shoulder with billionaires. I'd rather go be a landscaper again. At the top they don't have respect for anything all they care about is money, miserable s.o.b's. Couldn't pay me 100 million to go back there, nothing will ever make me go back. Now I know how it really works. I'd rather be drinking beer with farmers around a campfire than eating $1000 lunches with those losers again.
This was a seriously profound comment. I just got done with.a Tony Robbins event which has rejuvenated me and your comment was the cherry on top. Our lives are the sum of what we trade our time for. Thank you!
I used to think like that and offered everything to my ex girl friend. I offered nothing to myself. Don't do this. Don't simp and don't wear sweatpants. You're not goggins and you're not multimillionnaire. Your girl wiil dump you. Keep your money. Your mum does worth it.
@firesign4297 I agree you should do this for your mom... and the rest of your family but a girl? She's a stranger. I just don't believe in it. Because you're really being naive and being taken advantage of. My goal is to retire my mom and dad. I do want this but not to have a girl latch onto me... she should get her own job, support herself. We are all equal nowadays after all.
i had That thru martial arts upbringing, then lost my way in my 20s its so true but Men like Goggins, putting out these messages are slowly changing this reality there are many men now realizing that there is more to it than chasing women or showing off your girlfriend on your shoulder before being in a true partnership with a woman, you have to first learn to be man. I learned it the hard way but voices like Goggins' plus LOTS of uncomfortable solitude, helped me finally find "IT"
Even doe i did not get the support i needed and deserved from my parents, its still a goal for me to take care of them eventuallt, not for them, but for me, even when i dont agree with them, in almost anything.
It's like we're less conscious as a human being when everything is equal. Equal outcomes, equal thinking, equal everything. The glory is in what's fanatically unique about us. Bold faith and determination in what we personally believe and engage as a life prospect and vision, certainly far from popular and catering to everyone equally unless we sacrifice all of that uniqueness. Respectful, but unique faith and execution of the self. When everything is offensive and sensitive and trigger-warning, it's comfort danger to the future of humanity, it's a real inevitable harm to our fundamental survival to erode the resilience and mental+physical callusing of being boldly unique instead. Some get it from their own experiences with managing their life, and some have a little tantrum and say "oh you're crazy and what does that even mean" in an ego condescending comfort of a lifestyle of deflection and leveraging off others instead of working on the self within.
In my concept, Warrior's For Life it focuses on what D.Goggins is saying. It's hard for any man to be a man. Especially if you are a Black man..People think that it doesn't matter. But, it does. WE have it twice as hard. That is why our motto us about building people to succeed. All of what he is saying is on point. I listen to David Goggins not just as a man but, also a Black man. Ho Rah !!! To Goggins..
You really don’t have it twice as hard. That’s self-projection. If you make it you worked twice as hard…if you don’t it’s bc you had to work twice as hard. It’s a cop out.
Love Goggins but this is living a life from validation. Your self worth is coming from providing for others. Unless you really think seeing your loved ones happy is all that you need, this is having an empty cup and putting yourself last. There’s gotta be more balance. My dad was the same way and always said for years that he never bought himself anything, and now he’s regretting he never did anything for himself in his later years. You gotta fill your own cup too and that just can’t be from external.
******7/10 Incredible picture David Goggins has presented on Manhood and real men just want to add to it. I believe a real man not only takes care of his family financially and materialistically but also time wise and emotionally. You can give your family all the money in the world but a fathers time, a husbands time and a sons time is much more valuable to all his loved ones-10/04/2024
I'm a female but i take a lot from what Goggins says. From his story to his accomplishments, I admire this guy and am currently trying to embody this mindset
He dodges elegantly that parents would be more tough with their kids. You know when a kid cries alone and parents don't give a shit of their tantrum is gonna end up bad
Young men, 50 and below, don’t get the respect from their female counterparts for their sacrifice these days. So we gave up…some of us, for the first time in life, just don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel on being a family man. It’s not a good reason but a valid excuse (makes sense but defeats the overall goal) I appreciate everything David Goggins said here and stands for..
My mother is awful. She gave up on life and my parents divorced. She faked being disabled and has been unemployed for the last 20+ years. My mother is one of the most selfish people I know. As a man, I am focused on providing for my wife and kids. Those are the responsibilities in my life. I want to help take care of my mother and father but they should also be willing to take care of themselves. They are responsible for making their lives so difficult at a way too early point. It's not my responsibility to overcome the fact that my parents gave up on life so early. I will help where I can but life is hard enough without the extra baggage of selfish drains on society.
1:47 I've been thinking about this statement for a long time... like does he rent a car when he needs one? how does he get around or like do his grocery shopping etc...? And don't say he runs
Always reward yourself, because you’re not a multimillionaire like him. Otherwise if you got nothing for yourself you’ll burnout, even if it’s just a little just reward yourself
Goggins is always 100% on the point, most men only want appreciation for their contribution but nowadays seems that is asking too much
probably thats why so many divorces and unhappy relationships, women these days do not care much about men only about them being princesses
It's not asking too much. Don't be preemptively offended by other people's thoughts. I really find it strange how people give up before they even try something and determine the outcome before even really thinking about what they are saying.
@@rw5622 what are you talking about? I'm not "prevently offended" i let that for the pussys, I'm just stating the fact that modern women are mostly entitled narcissistic and can't even think on other that themselves that's why can't appreciate any other person effort
@@rw5622he said that because they aren’t getting it
@rw5622 what you said made no sense please make it make sense please that's not even what he was talking about you clearly don't get it. it's not about being offended it's about everything you do is a problem and when you do it's still a problem when all you want is some form of recognition or thank you. you clearly don't get it.
Goggins doesn’t need a car he’ll just run everywhere
WHO'S GONNA CARRY THE CARS
STAY HARD!!!!
😂
"I am the house, I am the car" - think about it. I'll outlive all of you.
OMG! Lol 😂! So true. He’s so cool but that was hilarious 😅. Ha!
One of the best definitions of manhood I've heard. A real man takes care of his household
and is recognised for it, not taken advantage of for it.
But he also wants toys be honest.
So a man's a draught horse, hoping that he doesn't come home from work to be served with divorce papers. Not for me
It's about staying true to your principles & also, nowadays, not being taken advantage of & making sure you don't get screwed.
@@brandonderrick006
Thank you
The trick is to also do something you really enjoy, or love! Then everything works and everyone wins!
Who needs a car when you can run
I do.
Keep your running shoes. I’ll be ok driving. Thanks!🙏
@@steverogers7601 Why not run? Do you have a pair of running shoes?
@@Vex331 easier to drive. Don’t want to sweat. Rather relax and enjoy the ride. 🤷🏻♂️
@@steverogers7601 Do you have running shoes?
@@Vex331 it’s a comfortable ride.
There are so few people like him left in this world.
And that's what he is tapping into. He would not have audience if he was not "different" in some way to differentiate himself.
I agree with goggins, my dad is the most hardworking, wisest, most humble, greatest man I have ever met and he hardly makes any money. I will be the one to retire him and then I will provide for my own wife and kids and I will die happy knowing I provided for the people who love me and couldn’t provide for themselves.
What's his job?
And who will retire you?
@@kodeh7931 his kids because clearly, they will have been raised by a real man.
he's fortunate enough to have a family that appreciates him, most men are not that lucky
you really believe that? I value and respect my dad and I know a lot of other people who appreciate their dads as well.
@n0th4ckinq if you think working hard and making a lot of money will get you respect from women, you have a very poor understanding of reality
@@imanipringle2449 you don't represent every woman. Maybe you're a rare gem, but most of the women don't do the same. So don't take it personally. It's an in-general perspective.
Your misattribution of luck to what is really hard work will keep you in a place where you'll never understand what he's talking about. People aren't stupid, you work hard and they'll see it. And if they don't, then you work hard to walk away.
If your family doesn't respect you, maybe you aren't working hard. And if you are, maybe you need to walk away.
@@mpclepto182 i did walk away, but that is usually just the beginning of a much bigger problem. There many factors that come into play when measuring success, not just hard work. The government's desire to persecute for example. Oversimplification is the mistake that most people make. That and painting with a large brush.
best goggins speech so far in my opinion
I have been following him for years, he changed. It is all built on the same foundation obviously, but his speech matured. It evolved
Just finished both of his books they were so freaking good!
What about cap Connolly? The goat
facts!! nothing moves men like "respect".
What’s the difference between “Look how well I’m doing” vs “Look how well the people I care about are doing because of me” same flex imo.
He just described my father to a tee. Always admired his humble approach to life by always placing his family before himself.
He don’t need a car ; the car needs him
lol 😂
This is so true. Put the utmost effort into your integrity and rest will fall into place. You'll die a legend.
My man is literally shining 😂 big up Goggins
This is the most powerful definition of men I’ve ever heard. This man is so inspiring 😮
I’m exactly at the same level of awareness… Knowing that David is at my same level made my day! 😅
I feel disappointed that i cannot retire my family. But it will happen. They've helped me become an engineer who makes 6 figures, and although they still (and will always) continue to offer me help - it should be the other way around.
Thank you for saying this, Goggins.
It's not impossible
Wanna know if someone is an engineer? They’ll tell you
@@officialthomasjamesand if it was an specialized u with engineering class they’ll buy all the merch w the U logo and the im an engineer, or a shirt that says something like god didn’t do it and architect did.
He can say it and he has my respect. You don‘t know shit how hard it is to get an good enginner so stop yapping and do something
If you’re making 100k+ in a field with upward mobility, you can definitely retire early or afford a stay at home wife if you budget properly and decide for yourself what your spending priorities are.
I'm divorced now but when I was married at the before I'd head to work at 345am I'd look in on my wife and kids sleeping comfortably in their beds and it gave me all the motivation I needed to go get it that day ...
so what happened then why did you get divorced
@@TheSharpSword1 I wasn't appreciated... ironically enough she has spent the last few years trying to get back into my life...
@@youngw1ze it is what you get for marrying , women dont appreciate at all if its given easy to them , they will not be thankful until they work hard to get it . it is also case for children. My aunt has children ,she does everything but they still find something to complain bcz she gives everything without dicipline or rule
@@youngw1zefee mail nature bro look into it and never marry a succubus again
🙌🏽🙌🏽♥️♥️
Love you so much Mr. Goggins. You’re my number two hero, only coming in second place to my Dad who just passed and made me the luckiest daughter to ever exist knowing what a real man’s man is and you have the same attitude of positive, benevolent masculinity. Thank you so much for your hope and encouragement and keeping us in check! Love you!!❤❤❤
i relate to this, shout out to all the hard working moms out there, lets still keep respect around ❤
We out here David! Always respect!
Straight truth and facts.
goggins is a pure value, he is a true definition of what man should be
Amen, David - and respect to the content creator for not polluting David’s wisdom with a crappy music track.
Got people telling their friend that their parents are not their responsibility. Bless this man for the real talk
this was tough to hear because I am far off but the fact that I am here means I will get better for family & give them what they need.
If that hurt, you should check out the alternative, "let it hurt" on my channel
Love you Dave. You are Spartan.
he is a real man, much respect
Be the provider. Work will set you free
When a real man walks in a room of males and females every realises that we are not all equal. Not many real men left. Real men aren’t arrogant, they provide and protect. They fulfil their role.
A beautiful perspective. And yes, respect is the most important thing for a man.
Wise words. We need good men like him.
Some deep shit bro
That's exactly what I want for my parents. It's amazing that David exists I think the same way brother. I don't want anything but I want to give everything for them.
You are right David to me as a 58 year old man, the most thing I want in life is to be respected
By the way both of your books are great 👌
Yup. I'm 38. I just quit my job and I'm switching careers. I was at the absolute top of the business world, top floor, middle of downtown. Shoulder to shoulder with billionaires. I'd rather go be a landscaper again. At the top they don't have respect for anything all they care about is money, miserable s.o.b's.
Couldn't pay me 100 million to go back there, nothing will ever make me go back. Now I know how it really works. I'd rather be drinking beer with farmers around a campfire than eating $1000 lunches with those losers again.
This was a seriously profound comment. I just got done with.a Tony Robbins event which has rejuvenated me and your comment was the cherry on top. Our lives are the sum of what we trade our time for. Thank you!
This is me 1000%. My Dad also taught me that a man lives by his word. A man follows through on his promises and commitments. I Live by both examples.
100% right on, right there.
A great guy, very inspiring by the way he lived his life so far.
truth shining from his words
Facts man
Great true hero
get up every day and do what you don't "feel" like doing relentlessly
Thank God Almighty that there are men who think this way.
I feel you.
I used to think like that and offered everything to my ex girl friend.
I offered nothing to myself.
Don't do this. Don't simp and don't wear sweatpants.
You're not goggins and you're not multimillionnaire.
Your girl wiil dump you. Keep your money.
Your mum does worth it.
It's not simping...it's being a REAL MAN...and if she didn't appreciate You Or That....
Don't get bitter... it's...HER !.LOST!!!
🫂
@@firesign4297its simping when its not a mutual exchange of value
@@firesign4297 It is simping, have a good day.
Your doing it wrong. If you listen closely he's getting everything he needs. Not simping
@firesign4297 I agree you should do this for your mom... and the rest of your family but a girl? She's a stranger. I just don't believe in it. Because you're really being naive and being taken advantage of. My goal is to retire my mom and dad. I do want this but not to have a girl latch onto me... she should get her own job, support herself. We are all equal nowadays after all.
I leave this world with my good name and the pride in my family.
Nailed it !
In one sentence, this video said "A man demands respect through his actions."
Good to hear old world values.
You have 0 idea how on point this is for how I naturally operate and it feels good to know that people who think like this are not fucking crazy.
Fucking thank you for this
i had That thru martial arts upbringing, then lost my way in my 20s its so true but Men like Goggins, putting out these messages are slowly changing this reality
there are many men now realizing that there is more to it than chasing women or showing off your girlfriend on your shoulder
before being in a true partnership with a woman, you have to first learn to be man.
I learned it the hard way but voices like Goggins' plus LOTS of uncomfortable solitude, helped me finally find "IT"
Goddamn FACTS!
He keeps it 💯
Even doe i did not get the support i needed and deserved from my parents, its still a goal for me to take care of them eventuallt, not for them, but for me, even when i dont agree with them, in almost anything.
that's some gogglish right there,STAY HARD
It's like we're less conscious as a human being when everything is equal. Equal outcomes, equal thinking, equal everything. The glory is in what's fanatically unique about us. Bold faith and determination in what we personally believe and engage as a life prospect and vision, certainly far from popular and catering to everyone equally unless we sacrifice all of that uniqueness. Respectful, but unique faith and execution of the self. When everything is offensive and sensitive and trigger-warning, it's comfort danger to the future of humanity, it's a real inevitable harm to our fundamental survival to erode the resilience and mental+physical callusing of being boldly unique instead.
Some get it from their own experiences with managing their life, and some have a little tantrum and say "oh you're crazy and what does that even mean" in an ego condescending comfort of a lifestyle of deflection and leveraging off others instead of working on the self within.
That was very empowering to read, thank you.
Respect
Just respect
“I don’t even own a car.”
Yea we know, that’s why you RUN EVERYWHERE!
Goggins explained my father in minutes..
i tip my landlord, he keeps me motivated for THAT GRIND thank you goggins!!!!
100% facts
In my concept, Warrior's For Life it focuses on what D.Goggins is saying. It's hard for any man to be a man. Especially if you are a Black man..People think that it doesn't matter. But, it does. WE have it twice as hard. That is why our motto us about building people to succeed. All of what he is saying is on point. I listen to David Goggins not just as a man but, also a Black man. Ho Rah !!! To Goggins..
You really don’t have it twice as hard. That’s self-projection. If you make it you worked twice as hard…if you don’t it’s bc you had to work twice as hard. It’s a cop out.
So true!!
Thank God for this man, just a cool motherf*¢ker!
goosebumps
Respect
Can I get this in a clean version so I can share with people who need to hear this!!!!!
Yes I wish every man could see this
Love Goggins but this is living a life from validation. Your self worth is coming from providing for others. Unless you really think seeing your loved ones happy is all that you need, this is having an empty cup and putting yourself last. There’s gotta be more balance. My dad was the same way and always said for years that he never bought himself anything, and now he’s regretting he never did anything for himself in his later years. You gotta fill your own cup too and that just can’t be from external.
******7/10 Incredible picture David Goggins has presented on Manhood and real men just want to add to it.
I believe a real man not only takes care of his family financially and materialistically but also time wise and emotionally.
You can give your family all the money in the world but a fathers time, a husbands time and a sons time is much more valuable to all his loved ones-10/04/2024
I'm always apprehensive when I listen to this guy because his truth always hurts.
Never a truer word was spoken.
Thise eyes. I see those eyes
real shit
The reason why he is my inspiration 💯
(Btw first comment was mine 💀)
How I will be remembered?
I thought he doesn’t give a fhuck about what people think…..
I wish i didn’t care about how ppl feel about me so i can just do more for others than myself. That doesn’t mean i don’t have self respect.
Oh i hadn't known about this podcast
"so did mine yoh"
I'm a female but i take a lot from what Goggins says. From his story to his accomplishments, I admire this guy and am currently trying to embody this mindset
So true
🔥🔥🔥🔥
50 minuti di applausi
He dodges elegantly that parents would be more tough with their kids.
You know when a kid cries alone and parents don't give a shit of their tantrum is gonna end up bad
Young men, 50 and below, don’t get the respect from their female counterparts for their sacrifice these days. So we gave up…some of us, for the first time in life, just don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel on being a family man. It’s not a good reason but a valid excuse (makes sense but defeats the overall goal) I appreciate everything David Goggins said here and stands for..
Good content what is this interview from
A man also reconciliates with his daughter. A man doesn't abandon his daughter.
Found the fucking rat lmao. Always got to find something negative to comment on because you’re so full of insecurities.
My mom always said the same. Word
My mother is awful. She gave up on life and my parents divorced. She faked being disabled and has been unemployed for the last 20+ years. My mother is one of the most selfish people I know.
As a man, I am focused on providing for my wife and kids. Those are the responsibilities in my life.
I want to help take care of my mother and father but they should also be willing to take care of themselves. They are responsible for making their lives so difficult at a way too early point.
It's not my responsibility to overcome the fact that my parents gave up on life so early. I will help where I can but life is hard enough without the extra baggage of selfish drains on society.
People don't realise this man, the keep blaming the rich for Thier problems. It's sad. Keep lying to themselves like nothing is Thier fault.
Epic
💯
Goggins be simpin`
In Africa , that’s our essence. To take care of our parents and siblings
What is wrong with being equal?? We are all human and capable. Self sufficiency
Lost my mom on June 16 2012 ima do it for her
1:47 I've been thinking about this statement for a long time... like does he rent a car when he needs one? how does he get around or like do his grocery shopping etc...? And don't say he runs
His mummy drives him in the mini van he bought her 😂
It's been stated in many podcast, he has run to and from airports for meetings and interviews.
Always reward yourself, because you’re not a multimillionaire like him. Otherwise if you got nothing for yourself you’ll burnout, even if it’s just a little just reward yourself
I AM NOBODY'S TROPHY !