What is depression? - Helen M. Farrell
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Depression is the leading cause of disability in the world; in the United States, close to ten percent of adults struggle with the disease. But because it’s a mental illness, it can be a lot harder to understand than, say, high cholesterol. Helen M. Farrell examines the symptoms and treatments of depression, and gives some tips for how you might help a friend who is suffering.
Lesson by Helen M. Farrell, animation by Artrake Studio.
Saying "Why are you depressed? Life is so beautiful"
is like saying
"Why do you have asthma?
there is so much oxygen to breathe!"
Most comments here either made me angry at their dismissive nature, or made me sad because of how relatable they are.
This one made me laugh. Thanks
I like this comment 🎖you get an award
@@ohshanana2397 sounds like we got a redditor here
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depression: i want to die
anxiety: what if i die
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I dont want to die, but I dont really mind if I would...
Double homicide
yes!
i'm diagnosed with mixed anxiety-depressive disorder and can relate
I have been depressed for a long time, but after taking shrooms few months ago, l feel much happier and highly motivated and my ADHD gone , lost a ton of anxiousness and had a few epiphanies about how I should live my life. I decided to buy an ounce for backup, but haven’t yet felt the need to take any more since then.
I have autism, I was diagnosed with it when I was 15. I tried shrooms and it made me function so much better.
Eek I’m autistic too and might wanna try mushrooms. How do I go about it?
Yeah doc.brentttt is your guide. Man is exceptional with anything psychedelics.
Hello Can he be reached on IG?
Yes doc.brentttt
The fact that this is one of Ted Ed’s most popular video really tells us a lot about our society
It means society is curious.
Let me help the way you view:
The fact that the infinite hotel paradox video in this channel has the same amount of views as this video really tells us something about your comment.
Depression is like having a mind that wants to die, but a body that wants to live...
I can feel this
Oh my God. This statement is what I have been feeling for years but could never put in words.
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Ye
Inside dead outside live
Spot on
Did you hear that? Depression ISN’T a personality trait.
Yes it is.
@@NoTaboos it isn't, it has to do something with the brain it's not just boo boo I'm sad
@@NoTaboos it's not going to someone and be like: hi! Im depressed
felt cute i think im depressedq
@@PaperSpoons No I didn't watch it. It's a video only for victims.
The scariest thing is that feeling of emptiness and numbness. I remember wanting to feel something, anything, even if it meant that I had to feel the saddest. The mere recall makes me shiver. That was scary and that was when I realised that sadness, devastation, every negative emotion is better than not feeling emotions at all.
Love to everyone. It's hard to push through but know that you're the most precious thing in the world. Live for yourself. Don't give up. You're so strong for clicking on this video, learning about it ands still breathing. YOU ARE STRONG AND VERY AMAZING. Sending love and hope and prayers for you to get outta depression soon. ❤️
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is. dr.sporessss
Imagine being unhappy with your life but not having the energy or motivation to change it. That’s depression.
exactly, that's what is happening with me right now, but one thing can't be changed in my life is my looks, I am stuck with it forever .
I want to change but i just do the same things over and over
When ever i try to change it, it gets worst so why try to get it worst faster
@@happyness24 you’d be surprised what a healthy diet, exercise, a haircut, and a clean shave/ or growing a beard can do to change a person’s looks
Hang on my friend. It sucks but we too shall pass
Worst thing about depression is lost interest in things that you used to love aka anhedonia. You just wake up on the morning and You have nothing to hang onto ....
You just sort of... exist. Like a zombie. Yeah. Things like moving a hand become so, so hard.
I have a friend who sometimes forgets to breathe.
I ve been like that for the past week
Exactly......
Try years. Its horrible
true mate
I hope everyone in the comments are ok, its ok to ask for help. I hope we can all make it on this journey.
I don't think they're okay
@@justanothermortal1373 oh man
There is no help all you have you
am a teenager my parents are always doubting at everything that I do I feel like I wanna die
It's like I'm not even living for myself, but just living for my family because the thought of knowing that my parents would get very devastated when I'm gone is the only thing that is anchoring me to this world. Maybe, this explained why I've been feeling like I don't have any goals in my life or things that I'd like to achieve. Maybe, it's the feeling of what good having dreams or goals do anyway if you're not going to live long enough to make them come true.
sending hugs from an online stranger🫂.
i hope ur alright and soon find your purpose (actual live not just hold on dear life for your parents).You may seek help from people you trust.😊
best of luckk🍀.
Chad same 😭
I've always had This imaginary picture of my future self. Later I realised that my life is diverting in another route, I am not afraid of taking that route but I'm afraid that the picture i have always remembered will stick with me as another person who i imagine everything I want in my life as and do absolutely nothing. I have some imaginary sides of mine and I cannot satisfy any of them . I know there is something wrong in my head so if my imaginary future self becomes my present copy of mine I swear I will go insane because that's how thoughtfully I have created a future self.
That's what I think too
My god, you just described me to perfection. I feel like I'm just waiting for things to become too terrible to bear as I age and become even more lonely until I'm free to finally let myself go
I’m not suicidal I don’t want to die, I just want to close my eyes and feel alright
You're loved.
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Yes.Its hard.
Thisss
Lmao did you took that from the song "suicidal thoughts"?😂
I want to close my eyes and not feel suffering anymore
“Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.” Best definition ever heard, TYVM.
unless it keeps coming back, then its a permanent solution to a temporary but reoccurring problem. if i was to describe it, it'd be like moving away because badgers keep coming in your back garden during the winter.
Depression is incredibly persistent for a so called temporary problem though
@@dukeofpuzzles8502 wdym? i thought you meant after you commited suicide you revive
yeah and i think many like me would favour the permanent solution to this heart crushing problem
Depression may collapse but its effects probably will chase u
I could remember several years ago I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Was actually addicted to cigarettes and alcohol. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 11 years totally clean. Shrooms are God- sents.
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episodeenough to start working on my mental health
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Spain. Really need
Dr.Jaffet is your guy. Best
shrooms and psychedelics guy I know
They saved you from death bud, lets be honest here. and mushrooms are one of the most amazing things on this planet i wish people would all realize. they could solve a lot of problems, more than just mental treatments, environmental clean up; the possibilities are endless with fungus
How do I reach out to him? Is he on instagram
I just hate that feeling when everyone else is having fun and your alone depressed with no one to talk with
Well i feel it every time in school 🙃
This, just this for at least the past month
Yup I feel the same way
I understand completely. The feeling of loneliness is unbearable when you need someone to be there for you in your time of need.
Friends should know when you’re upset and not leave you behind to go do something fun without you..but they won’t know that you’re not okay unless you tell them. Not *everyone* understands when you’re upset, some people are blind to knowing people’s actual *true* emotions even if they’re a close friend that you care dearly about.
If you need me I’m here for you.
This is my me at my school
When the comments section understands you better than your friends and family :'(
Yea in know that, My parents literally tell any of my doctors that I don’t need it. Cause to them, I don’t have it even with the doctors have evidence for it.
And when I try to get a therapist, they literally tell them to quit calling.
I hope the best for you.
...and when some comments understands you even worse then your friends and family
Love ❤
Haha
Sahana Roy I totally get you. I’m scared to tell my family. If I tell my friends, they’ll just claim they’re depressed too. I haven’t been professionally diagnosed with depression, but, sometimes I fantasize (literally FANTASIZE) about my death which I don’t know is really weird, psychotic, or is just really weird lol. I’ve been hiding dangerous objects under my bed, and, just recently, my mom got me a counselor because she thinks there’s something wrong with my mental health. I don’t like my counselor, I think she’s kind of mean, and, anyway, I’ve found myself not even wanting to talk to people anymore so that could be part of it. I don’t know if things are going to get better or worse. I think I need help, but I don’t want help. I feel like at this point, the only people I can talk to are amazing people like you, who don’t joke around about this, and make such relatable and heartwarming comments. That’s why I came here :)
Once, I believe I was depressed, during my teenager years to be precise. It was a dark period of my life. I couldn't muster up the strength to do anything worthwhile. Studying was impossible. But the worst part, I think, was the persistant flow of negative thoughts. It was overwhelming and destroyed my confidence in seconds.
At the moment, I'm in a good place in life. Through therapy, I gained a lot of control of the flow of my thoughts : I don't control my thoughts, but I am able to dismiss the negative, argue against it and, eventually, have positive opinions about myself and what I do.
This video makes me bawl my eyes out every time I watch it, it explains exactly how I feel in words I can't put together
please read the Quran, it changed my life
Sometime I just want to be in a deep comma and sleep all the years leaving all worries behind.
sounds better than death
Same here
I’ve thought of the same
N P I wish I had fallen into a deep coma forever
Until you have to pay rent/tax or someone lol
You know what makes it worse? The fact that you're not able to say "I'm depressed" without feeling guilt or certainty because in today's society it's a "trend". You can't openly talk about it with someone becuase you haven't experienced this thing and you have this status and so forth. Being told "just cheer up there's so much to be happy about" is like telling a person with asthma "just breathe, there's so much air"
Same with panic attacks. I’ve never told anyone outside my family and therapist because that reduces my credibility. I don’t think that most people get why I don’t show fear
Yess.. Absolutely True..💯💓
You okay
I felt that I my soul
I write my feelings into poetry. Perhaps you would relate?
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been suffering from depression and anxiety ever since i turned 17, its been ten years now. recently sought treatment. doing great now.. dont hesitate to reach out for medical help, you deserve help!
I'm depressed because I failed on my academic career. I can't see any hope in life. And I am gonna be like this forever
@@muhammadusman5521 setbacks are common. Failure in goals is also common. You must process your emotions and explore what tou xan do next.
@@Dr_Sheeda I'm good at programming, computer networking and also do freelancing but my parents are not happy. They want me to complete my degree and I can't go back there it would take me a lot of time. I applied to a thousand institutions abroad but no one is accepting me. I just want to end here I can't do anything. I worked hard on programming did a lot of work but still I'm not reaching anywhere
"I don't wanna die, but sometimes I wish I'd never been born at all."
-Freddie Mercury.
Bro this hits so different
Ok
I see a little shiluetto of a man
Y same
@@eunminchoi6831 this does hit so different
I don't know who originally say this, but for me, it was extremely accurate:
"Depression feels like badly wanting to go home, even when you are already there".
Somewhere nobody knew you.. Like a fresh start
This is so true
WOW. I'm blown away at how such a simple description hits the nail directly on the head.
I'm copy & pasting this to put in my gallery.
Thanks man.
Oh my god this made me cry. I- can't comprehend how much I relate to that.
Lol
I have watched this video so many times in the past few months because it makes me feel like someone understands how I feel. It is like a checklist of what I go through every day, people don't seem to understand that is not sadness, particularly those I care about the most.
It just strikes so well when someone understands. When we wake up everyday, it is always like "back to sadness"
Idk why but I’m obsessed with his voice
Its so soothing, especially after hearing that one tiktok audio of this video and that slow song
@johnj5783shut up already
LMAO FR
The worst thing is when people joke about being depressed when they're really not. Seriously, it's not a joke.
They dont just understand
..
@@piyg69 just tell her gently and slowly, I think she might understand...
It can be made into a funny joke but when it’s time to be serious it’s time to be serious. Dark humor is still funny but when people actually need help at the time they deserve jt
I cope w humor, but non depressed ppl shouldn't joke abt it.
sometimes they don't know, they think they actually have depressioon but it's more serious than they think
The worst is when you know you’re suffering but can’t afford to get help so you get by by feeling numb and pretending
Guys i had depression due to work stress and I have survived it by my own without any medication or medical help. This is for the people here who are having depression, running thoughts, sleepless nights, bad dreams and anxiety. Try 'mantra meditation' by chanting 'omm namah shivay'. You can see CZcams videos about chanting 'om namah shivay' 108 times etc (there are many videos regarding this) and follow the tone and tempo. Then sit in a relaxed meditation pose and chant it in very low tone so that you can feel your voice vibration in the throat, chest and brain. Focus on vibration and feel it. Do it 10-15 mins (you can do more time if want) every day before sleeping or at dawn (or many times you want). you can feel peacefulness in brain and feel that every running thoughts and bad thoughts are tearing out from brain. You can feel the change after within 4-5 days and within one month you can remove the depression completely (at least in my case). PS: I am not spreading any religion here. So if you are comfortable with it, then follow it. I come to know about it from internet also. You can dm me on Instagram @sourabhpal03 if it is helpful for you. I will glad to know that I can change someone's life. Thank you :)
This is a true story of a lady who came out of eighteen years of depression : m.czcams.com/video/2QJwE9ed8xc/video.html
I even have her contact number if any of you wanna talk to her. But please don't give up. Your lives are so precious.
@@sherylg2601 You seem like such a sweet and kindhearted person going around sharing encouraging words and hope like this. I hope your life will be filled with lots of love and happiness! 💛💛☺️
@@sugoish9461 Same to you
I felt that
6 years later and as a psychologist this video is AMAZINGLY instructive. Congratulations 👏
Music will always be an important tool in relieving anxiety and depression!
Me: **turns 12**
My Serotonin: *Aight, am I head out*
Amma head out
When ur b day
Similar but when I hit puberty instead, anxiety and puberty don’t mix well together
me when i turned 10
I am the 1000 like lol
Depression is like being in a another universe. Like living in a infinite emptiness, loneliness, in a void.
I used to get that exact vision all the time man
Like the upsidedown in stranger things
I am in the state of commiting suicide What shuuld I do to commit suicide
@@khushinaik1969 please don’t do it. There is hope! People care about you! Chat with me if you want, and need someone to talk to!
@@khushinaik1969 stay strong my friend..this is not gonna last forever...time will change.
maybe no one will read this but im writing my situation im a 17 year old ( close being 18)who lives in florida that has no friends no one ever messages me or checks up on me its been like that since i started high school , so when i graduated high school i didnt start college in fall which is when everyone starts college instead i chose an esl program for 2 months to try and make friends but it turned out that this program is filled with 25-30 -40 and even 50 aged people thats why i regret signing up for the esl program i wish i went to college in fall 2023 and met people that are my age, but for now im alone , i eat alone i hang out with myself when i see friends hanging out together while im out i pretend im on the phone talking to someone when in reallity there is no one to talk to.
How are you doing today friend? Hope you are well. God bless you
I'm sorry to hear about your story. I hope you are currently doing well. We will make through this, together
The voice the animation the script everything is just so great..
The fact that i can't even say 'im depressed' because now apparently it's a trend.
Especially when your friend jokes about depression 24/7
Ong^
This right here I-🥲
@@ilikedarknes3351 my god, I remember the day I learnt that making jokes on depression is not funny. I regret my words from before then
@@tanvikhare9710 You stopped, that's enough!😄
"if you have at least five of those symptoms-"
Oh boy I have nine of them
My channel helps dealing with depression
Cemil PCMR .hi I had similar problems ...I over came that... I found out lot of ideas to over come depression... if you want I can share it with you and help you out
i have 30
I’m not sure how many there were but I have every single one
I have 57
i have seen this video before i was treated for depression and after and currently in treatment. and i am glad that i sought for help and was able to. i am happy now. and i hope you guys are happy as well.
Thank you so much for this, I bet it's helped more people than you can possibly imagine.
Let's lift the stigma once and for all with videos like this...
everyday is just constantly trying to find a reason to live, hoping you’ll find one before you get tired of looking
exactly
We help you to get out of depression by medication we do online meditation sessions
I still haven’t found one.
Yo you need help.
I have a reason to live... I wnted to make my family succes and after that I could rest now... Been thinking that since child... Ive been like this for awhile I hate myslef tbh When Im growing up i started to hate myself and i was haooy back then But when Things got Bad my Brain wont stop thinking Stuff Thats bad for me and Also I keep wanting to die but I dont also want to cuz Im still not Doing The reason I want to live...
"Im tired of living but scared of dying"
Keep faith we are born to win. We creative from creator god. We are fearless from fearless god. Serve souls from heart. Be kind be honest be truthful. Fear will go away. When you do everything right god said fear not allowed to even touch you. Faith keep us safe.
@@gurgurgur except fear is a thing tho
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damn same
I wanted to open this up to my family.But my family is the reason why I had depression.I'm still depress right now.I do smile alot and was called "The ball of sunshine" in my school.But noone knew I had depression,they just think I had a perfect life.Well,I wish I do.I hope one day I'll be fine and healthy.Hope I get a good therapist too..
On the subject of Hope, it is really important that everyone has something to look forward to, especially young people. And also the elderly, so that they don’t just wait to die. It is essential that one still has motivation, makes plans, tries to improve things on this human journey. Otherwise, if people feel hopeless, this can lead to feeling depressed, lonely, overwhelmed, without purpose.
I'm don't want to live but I'm afraid of dying
@@KannaTheGamer have you found any reason yet ?
Same here, I wish for my death nearly every day but I just can't do it.
@@mpumelelochaosndlovu9134 don't worry buddy everyone will get it someday
Damn
Trayce Baird Same dude, same. It’s hard.
"Depression isnt a personality trait" & "You shouldnt expect just to get over it"
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Say it louder my mother was busy in her own work
That and the opening sentence are my favorite sentences ever.
I somehow got over it... IDK how but it kinda gone away; although if I feel really down I still have -suicidal thoughts-
@@SleepyPanda-co3iy Stay safe. The same thing happened to me last year but it is all building up again. I don't want that to happen to you
@ SleepyPanda3609 I hope it's gets better for you just watch out because for me my depression disappeared for a while now it's back and it's worse.
When I'm very depressed, I've always thought of
"I'm worthless", "I'm useless"
and it escalates whenever I make mistakes
"I'm good-for-nothing", "I'm doing my best but I only worsen"
and at some point, it degressed to
"Everything will be a lot better if I wasn't here"
and maybe, if I wasn't that mentally stable, I wouldn't probably be in this world by now saying
"For the sake of everyone who I dragged down", "Everything and everyone will roll off better without me"
when my depression was really really bad I couldn't understand this video's content, but now I understand it and even that my depression gets better than before.
People with depression can have happy days sometimes too, they aren’t constantly depressed.
That's true, but most of the time they aren't.
omg thank you
i haven't had a "happy day" for almost 3 years now lmao
@@ohok2879 Find what makes you happy.
@@redlady9219 It's not as easy as it seems
dealing with depression is especially hard when the environment you’re in barely helps you and just acts like it’s not even there
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Then I will try to help. 🙏 First, dare I ask, what is stopping you from taking action? And of course, what would you like to have? What can be done for now? To start.
@@yoursubconscious wow thanks for actually caring i never expected this lol, things have actually gotten better since i made this comment and i am now in a more understanding environment
@@toiletman1932 great to hear! just remember the ups and downs are part of life. And often the best stories 😉
I would like to talk about my treatment journey that has just begun. First of all, it was very difficult to ask for help because I didn't want to hear anyone mocking and saying that I was "exaggerating" something. So I delayed my request for help and believed that I might be really exaggerating. For about 2 years, I resisted thinking that even if these feelings and thoughts come and go, they will go. But especially in the last months, everything that I have experienced from time to time until now has started to suppress in a concentrated way. Although I always tried to console myself that you would be fine, I realized that I had a hard time believing it anymore and everything started to lose its meaning and joy completely. It's been a few days since I started treatment and I can't tell you everything has changed completely, of course, but knowing that there was a reason for my crying for no reason and this feeling of unhappiness that stuck with me gave me some relief. Even knowing that I feel seen and heard is quite enough for this stage. I wish the best of luck to anyone struggling with this, and I want you to know that you are not alone. This life is worth living.
for everyone thats watching this i love you so much please dont give up you are worth it and theres always light at the end of the tunnel❤️❤️
depression is not just a sad feeling it is like a brain who forgets what is happiness..
lord beerus Ahhhhh the poetry.
happiness is to be present in the moment and enjoy what you are presently doing
Sick of these edge lord telling me what depression is when they don’t even have it, smh😂
I’m glad that i don’t have any illness
@@idontlikeyou7084 I wish I can say the same. I hope when life hits you hard you will be okay.
"Depression is being colorblind and constantly told how colorful the world is" - Atticus
Let's support that special someone and hear them out. It helps.
I might as well be blind at that point then.
Colorblind people can still see color, just not all, only like a very small fraction can't
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life.ego and discrimination brings fear in life .do little things for others builds up happiness in heart. God is our inner beauty. Make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path.
@delancy lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail.guilt and stress stop blessing .Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Ego and discrimination brings fear in life. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food. Cut down desire only grateful.family is blessing. Make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path .
@@mategameryt1019 lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love and coprate in life. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love.make God your best friend in heart tell your secrets to God he will show you right path . Faith is big pillow. Do little things for others builds up happiness in heart and soul coprate with love.
Another excellent video! As a psychology student I can definitely say that to struggle with depression is not easy. I heard from one of my teachers a patient who was crying because she ran out of shampoo. If you have 4 or more depression indications it would be healty to apply to a mental health professional. The world may not be as dark as you see.
Great comment
Depression is a really hard illness. I as twelve years old when my moms was diagnosticated with it. I barely remember how the things were in that time; however she usually tell me about the feelings and sensations she had in this period, and exemplifies that teraphy saves her life.
Hola me llamo Emersson
I'm not suicidal I just feel an overwhelming sense of hopelessness and dread, I feel hollow and like I have no control over my own life
Just remember that i love you brother i dont know you but i care for u and love u pls stay strong for ur family that loves you
We’re all in this together. I might not know you personally, but I genuinely do feel concerned over your circumstance. If there’s anything you need or want to talk about, or if you feel overwhelmed, I’ll always be here to lend you an ear. I really wish you all the best in your future endeavours.
Like the video said if you have 5 or more of these symptoms it's depression. Suicidal thoughts are just one of them. If it isn't depression but you still feel terrible the label shouldn't matter anyways. Consider talking to someone you know or trust, and if it is really bad get therapy. The pandemic has made a lot of us felt depressed so what you're going through is normal.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare you're so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare.”
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real it’s impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES! czcams.com/video/EXQGTInPpZU/video.html
"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest"
1. Try not to think about anything (COMPLETE ABSENCE OF MIND) for ten minutes.
2. If this is hard do 10 pushups and now try not to think anything. Since you have depreciated your energy your brain will not think that fast and you can make it much easier not to think about anything.
3.After 10 minutes focus on onlh posiive things .If you do it correctly, it might be hard for you to thing about negative things since you have shutdown your mind for sonetime. Know think aboug your dreams and continue.
4.If you cant do what you want then you will
This might seem absurd but hey there is no loss.
Hope you get well soon mate.
Respect
You csn try taking a shoeer before doing this and it might be more effective.
(I am starting to think i have mad psychology skills of maybe its just that wuerantine philosophy and psychology boost)
Ik how it feels it's so scary all you ever want is to feel better 💔
Are these words from a book or something? I see you've quoted.
@@farhannoor3433 No it's just a famous quote I don't think it's from a book or what not
One of the most important videos on youtube. Lives are being saved and I'm happy for them.
Actually it is really important to distinguish between depression and feelings of sadness. It seems like every person has a depression nowadays, because we heard about it a lot. Video is very beneficial and helpful to understand what is depression and depression symptoms
It's not about a will to die, it's about the lack of will to keep living
Hi!
Jesus Christ healed me from depression. I know He can do the same for you. Please come to Jesus. He died for your sins on a cross. Please repent of your sins and come to Him. "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Matthew 28:11
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@@fhhoechry8479 Jesus really loves us more than any person ever could
ive read somewhere that depression is like drowning in an ocean but not dying, and that's exactly what it is
No it isn't, we aren't ever going to die till it's a severe trauma depression is just the person is thinking so less of himself which kills the faith in him
Gkg
@@ohio I suffer that and it's not easy
I spazzed out and went to jail on thanksgiving. I need to go to qng managment. I am slowly becoming a shell of who i once was and there is no one to talk to
@@aaryapawar1158 well, what I mean is that (to me,) when I was in a state of depression, it was very painful, nobody understood me, and to me, pain was something that would eventually stop. however when I was in that stage it didn't. it never did. I felt like I had to end myself in order to stop this pain. but I was also terrified of doing that. I wanted to enjoy my life, but depression would not let me. just like the words of Freddie mercury, I don't want to die, I just wish I was never born. you're right, it killed the faith in me. I used to have faith in myself, but several experiences made me lose the faith I had.
I've always felt that even on the days that i feel happy, that feeling of utter hopelessness and despair is still there somewhere. It never goes away, it just subsides slightly from time to time.
In my second year of high school, I developed symptoms such as anorexia, loss of interest in what I like, restlessness, getting up early in the morning and not being able to sleep at night, and so on.After that, depression became traumatic, nausea continued, and I didn't even want to go to school.
It's been a few months now, and I'm much better, but it's not perfect.
It was really hard.I just wanted to disappear.Above all, it was hard because there were not many high school students who suffered from depression.I want more people to know that they can be students.
I miss the times I could feel happy, the times I didn't feel so down all the time and I didn't have anxiety all the time
1. Try not to think about anything (COMPLETE ABSENCE OF MIND) for ten minutes.
2. If this is hard do 10 pushups and now try not to think anything. Since you have depreciated your energy your brain will not think that fast and you can make it much easier not to think about anything.
3.After 10 minutes focus on onlh posiive things .If you do it correctly, it might be hard for you to thing about negative things since you have shutdown your mind for sonetime. Know think aboug your dreams and continue.
4.If you cant do what you want then you will
This might seem absurd but hey there is no loss.
Hope you get well soon mate.
Respect
You csn try taking a shoeer before doing this and it might be more effective.
(I am starting to think i have mad psychology skills of maybe its just that wuerantine philosophy and psychology boost)
Feeling down. I am sure this will help you stay positive.
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Me too
me too but since young i am always full of depression and anxiety, full of worries. I dont want to die or attempt suicide, I just want to be happy again without any worries or problems occuring me...
Me too it’s hard when I want to be as happy as I was before
I dont even enjoy being near people anymore, and I feel nothing but anger and sadness
Yxung FX If you don’t want to talk to someone in person, try calling a depression hotline or joining a chat room for depression. I truly hope you feel happy again one day
Same here...I kinda miss the old naive me....
Research ISLAM and you will find peaceful life .Am not here to troll but just consider what I say please .thanks
Yxung FX
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Same here I feel anger and sadness all the time im literally numb and im just used to it :/
My father fought for depression last 6 month and after doing treatment at a doctor he is completely cure now
I am depressed and idk why im not seeking help, but i am grateful for my friend trying to help me and find a therapist.
Daughter: mom I'm depressed
Mom: *_its because of that damn phone._*
It could be.
that literally just happened to me
There has been a rise of depression with the birth of social media. It goes up every year too
lol
Lol
i really liked the lesson but what i like the most is the narrator.. he is the best narrator in the ted..
+Anirudh Aswal Yea i wonder if his face matches his voice lol
I actualy dislike his voice, too monotonic and slow, makes me loose concentration. the distorted base also gives me a head ace if the video is longer then 5 minutes. i only watch his narrated videos if its one that interest me allot and its usually thnaks to the video, not the narrator
+Anirudh Aswal Well made artistic videos, characters show emotion. Salud! To the animator(s).
+Anirudh Aswal he sounds hot
+Evan Leeds It quite obvious is. "Helen M. Farrell" can't fool us with her deep voice.
Psilocybin containing mushrooms saved my life. The drastically reduced my benzodiazepine withdrawal allowing me to quite illicit pill addiction after three years of heavy daily use before it would had became medically dangerous to quit. It has also helped me survive depression.
Psychedelic’s definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it’s just so hard to source out here
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well
@@patriaciasmith3499 I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across dr.sporess, a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly
@@elizabethwilliams6651 Please how do I contact him?
@Laura Polonioli yes, he ship discreet and anonymous.
symptoms of depression :
1. being felt alone always
2. Hearing unknown voice in ears
3. Talking to self
4. Laughing or crying without any reason
5. felling guilty
6. not able to sleep
7. extreme worry
8. sadness for long time
9. not able to talk with others openly
10. suicidal thoughts
the fact that i have all this :))
@@latercubeshorts6922 You're not alone I'm suffering too
@@latercubeshorts6922 not alone my friend
If have these is it correct taht have depression??around 5
Been struggling with it almost 4 years. Can't even remember how is it like to have a happy or just a normal life. It's like a demon in my head which raises only negative stuff, eats my energy. Wish i could go back in time to just get the old feelings and the view of life.
Well... As I always say to my friend. Keep your chin up someone always will love you and you always have something to live for. Life is like lemonade, if it's too sour, add some sugar
At least you have a wish to get your positive feelings back, that's a good sign. Do you feel like nothing excites you, nothing seems new..? Like something is always pushing you to the ground? Only when we were kids, discovering life, those were the times when we would appreciate little things, and those little things would make us happy.
Hey. I've been struggling with this for 10 years. Things got worse since 3 years ago. I feel terrible right now. And I don't really know why I am typing this...
I... I only hope things will get better soon... For everyone.
get medical help or see a therapist don't be scared or why they there to help
Fer Abaroa I feel like I've struggled with it for my whole life. I can't really remember living without it, and I feel hopeless about it. Thankfully, I do have someone I can talk to, even if he is not a therapist, he knows what it feels like and understands me. I would suggest talking to someone if you haven't yet. And keep your head up!
A thing I’ve experienced, is feeling emotionless. Many people think depression is about being sad, but most of the time you just don’t feel anything. For a good amount of time, the only emotion I felt was anger. Because I was angry at myself for not feeling any emotion like sadness, happiness, etc.
Yeah same. I think this is type of depression is the worst in my opinion and feels like it won’t ever go away. Honestly, I think it’s more so genetic than anything. I used to feel joy, love, pleasure etc. when I was in highschool but now after highschool I don’t fee any of those feelings anymore. No excitement, no pleasure, no interest to do anything. I purely do the things I do with my friends because I know it’s what I’m supposed to do to feel human. But even being people causes no joy or pleasure, only experiencing anxiety or fear for no reason.
I’ve been in that same mindset and on a rare basis get mad over the fact I can’t feel those emotions anymore but, I found that doing that only makes it worse so it’s better to just deal it with for now and hope that in the future with the advancements of technology, science and medicine that we’ll one day find a cure or some type of relief for this type of depression.
One thing that I believe has helped so far is listening to different types of music and singing along with them. My body, for some reason, can still remember the emotions I’ve felt in the past so, my thinking is that by listening to different types of music with different genres will help me “spark” those emotions in my body again. Start of with sad and depressed music but make sure to slowly and surely move upwards to exciting music and love songs.
Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
czcams.com/video/_C6lNThb2cU/video.html I’d love to know your thoughts on this
@@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 you might need help lol
@@UknownAfrican he is not the one whos depressed tho 🤷🤷
Yes this but then the tremendous guilt I feel after going through weeks of not getting off couch. Avoiding friends and family, irrational fear of something bad or tragic about to occur, not being capable of showing any interest in anything.
It feels like I have been separated from my home, somewhere far away, and had my memories erased of where I belonged and the person I loved the most. However the emotions and feelings remain unchanged. It's just like I don't remember anything except what I felt. I feel a craving feeling to go back.
I have depression and anxiety and for me, it was difficult to open this topic up to my parents because the last time I tried my mom said "Why are you depressed? What's there to be depressed about? Your life is so good.". I remember telling my therapist "I am tired of everything, but I don't know what everything is.".
Damn, I hope your doing good
I've had similar experiences with my mom. I don't know if I should feel angry that she dismisses my problems, or if I should feel empathetic because I know she's dealing with her own set of them.
@@viktorthevictor6240 definitely neither try not to get upset by that
"Why are you depressed? What's there to be depressed about? Your life is so good." this is exactly what my parent's said and that felt like a stab on the heart
@@Shiro-pi4gy mee too
The reason I don't tell anyone about my depression is because they won't understand. They'll think we are just complaining when it's slowly turning us into an emotionless person and makes us kill ourselves..
SERIOUSLY
ARE YOU STRESSED OR SAD OR DEPRESSED OR HAVE DEPRESSION?? THEY ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS
@@yukadiangelo they often go hand in hand what's your point?
0_0 you’re assuming that they won’t understand
@@neogeo1670 sorry I wasnt being serious, its just a joke
@@yukadiangelo okay how lol
I was diagnosed with clinical depression a year ago. I can tell you, suicide is not a solution. Every problem has a solution; it's just a matter of not giving up until you find it. You're not alone in this journey, and there's hope even in the darkest of moments.
Didn't even listen to the man in the video.. Just going through the comments to cope up with depression and seeing a comment that will motivate me to strive forward
Depression is brain that wants to die and heart that wants to live.
Quran is actually from the master of the universe that is why it has a unique recitation and completely different style
It cannot be remade. No human can write when you listen Quran your heart say it is from God. Listen to Quran recitation
you feel so calm and relaxed
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it's the exact opposite
@@MrBlue-me9cd have you believe in God?
@@zainahmed8528
I used to. now I have doubts
@@MrBlue-me9cd
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this is only 6 min video in which you will see the Quran challenges all Humans, Scientists,
Philosophers,atheists etc if you say it is not from God than meet up these challenges then
what you say
about these challenges Are you able to meet? if you not able then why you disbelieve
Or if you know any other book/scripture in the world except Quran who give challenges to humans
like this?
I can't remember the last time I was genuinely happy... Now I'm pretty much always sad, I have nothing to look foward to, I regret my past, hate my present and I'm pessmistic about my future.
I thought this was just a phase in my life but now I'm starting to think otherwise.
I hope you get over it. (I also reported the spam)
Same here..
@Little_Froggo I had depression a while ago. To get over it, embrace the small things in life, and talk to your parents. You should get over it.
DocZero I feel exactly the same.
Good ol' days when life was easier...
I'm always having a thought of resetting my age to 5 and time travel to when i was a kindergarten
I hope people learn how to treat someone who is depressed
Early to bed , early to rise, drink lot of water , Enjoying with friends , Spending time with family...
This heals...
No friends no family
I have always defined my depression as: “It's like drowning, except you can see everyone around you breathing"
Exactly!! I describe it the same way. You're desperate for air but something holds you underwater and it feels cruel and unfair and you just want to give up
that just perfectly sums it up.
I hope for you a happy life my friend,i hope for you a good life,take care of you my friend,you are beauthiful,peace.
Why do you have depression?
I always surrounded myself with a white room where my negative feelings as me is torturing me
Depression is when you don’t feel feelings besides anger and sadness . Your numb to everything around you , you don’t feel joy in any activities, you don’t feel love being around people you love, it feels like even when I smile and are “happy” it’s all fake . I fake emotions because it’s easier to do that then ask for help and be labeled weak . Depression is being so dead inside that the thought of suicide isn’t so bad, it actually sounds better then being alive in a constant loop of self pity, misery , self hate . You get labeled lazy because you don’t do anything and you feel like a burden on everybody around you . You can’t get it out of your head , doesn’t matter how hard you try . “Happiness” , yea I miss that , I feel like I’ve been stuck In this for so long I forget what it feels like to be genuinely happy...
Edit:it’s never to late to get help! Working on yourself is really helping me, self love is very important. Your life is valuable and you are loved.
Jon Martin so so true
You just put all my feelings into words... I guess u have accepted urself.. I am still in the phase of understanding why I have this depression and how to just somehow instantly stop it.
Jon Martin ur right beautiful comment u said 😔
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Well described!
I think the best way to overcome the sadness is accept all the things happen to you, even negative thoughts. For the reason, I had some experiences related to depresssion, and I chose try to escaped from it. It took a very long time I realized I was not happy with my life. Then I learn how to accept with my real emotion and respect all of that. The result is I feel better, and my thoughts is more relieve. I used this way to give advice for my friend and she said that she become more comfortable with her life.
Therefore, one of the biggest lesson I have learn in my life is love myself positive slowly 😊❤
Nobody’s gonna mention that the animation is great and that people wanted to take time out of their lives to spread awareness like this?
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“depression is like a war. you either win, or you die trying.”
Lack of spiritual knowledge our mind stuck in nagtive energy then our body senses misguided us so god said keep faith in heart then souls connect with love. Be kind be honest be truthful be grateful obey souls respect souls respect rules respect nature respect women except everything happened in life somereason then people and nature coprate with love. Past is jail. Guilt and stress stop blessing. Moody and stubborn behavior brings lots fear in life. Cut down desire only grateful. Cut down sugar and eat fresh plant based food. Positive attitude is power of mind. Do little things for others builds up happiness in heart.
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Do you feel tired? Depressed? Perhaps suicidal. If so you are not alone(Hundreds of Millions suffer worldwide) ; God is standing right next to you waiting for you to ask for help. Give Jesus a chance and watch your life flip for the better and you will be set free.
Matthew 11: . 28Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am [f]gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
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@@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363 i hate god
Depression , is losing the will to literally do anything .
Not willing to sleep nor stay awake.
Not willing to eat nor starve.
Not willing to live or die , you don’t want to do anything but simply stop existing .
You lose the will , the love , and hope you have for others . You get melancholic slowly , the more you want to get out of it , the more it sucks you in.
If you ever go through it , please , instead of cutting or crying , try out getting help .
There is no help .... To whom i could seek for help are the reason for depression .... Btw i reaally agree with your words
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Heera Vishwakarma I know you don’t know me and I’m just a random person if you want to talk to me you can. If you have Snapchat Instagram anything you can talk to me I have depression and it’s getting somewhat better and talking to someone really helps just make sure it’s the right person
i cut meself becas i get girl happy meal 😔🤞
So true 😔😔😔
Sending love to everyone battling depression
For anybody who needs this, as someone who has struggled and still struggles with depression, one thing that helps is finding the small things. It could just be a small action, like moving across your house to sit somewhere else. For me, I make a breakfast that makes me feel just a bit better. Don't expect for things to feel good again instantly, but eventually the small things get bigger and I have found that by slowing down and finding these joys or comforts, life feels more livable. One day at a time❤
Depression isn't something that can really be explained to someone who doesn't have it...neither is anxiety. "Just be happy" isn't the proper answer to someone who is having these very real thoughts and feelings.
Thank you for saying this! It's so true! In a different Ted talk, someone said you wouldn't tell someone with a broken leg to 'walk it off, it's just you'. Similarly, we shouldn't tell someone with depression 'shake it off, you're just in a bad mood'. Depression is very real. Treat it that way.
+Sprinkles of Shelly From what I know, and experienced, you have 2 types of depression, your depression in your teens, the whole growing up thing, that is more linked to suicide and what not, where as adult depression (think 25 years+) tends to 'creep' up on you, then boom one day you don't know why you have it, you can't just get rid of the damn thing either, it's like a shadow that follows you around zapping the enjoyment of life out of you, it zaps everything you use to love to do, and because you start to get in this "ugh, I can't be fucked" attitude it breeds and breeds, then you find it harder and harder, and you don't want to be drugged up either. It's a fucked situation.
I've had moments last year where I was happy, I remember that, it felt shockingly new to me.
i have both of them and it is torture.like i don't feel urge to do something but i regret and feel anxious about it.and nobody takes me seriously.
+Sprinkles of Shelly Sometimes I wish healthy people all got depression, I wish them to suffer what we're suffering right now. Watching them suffer our pains just makes me happy. But .... I'm not a son of satan. I'm son of god
+Sprinkles of Shelly The proper answer is to tune neurotransmitters in such a way, that your behavior is corresponding to "just be happy" pattern most of the time.
it’s so confusing. my dad asked me if i needed any help and i just sat there. my mind was literally saying “say yes! this is your chance!” and i just couldn’t come to say it. idk if that makes any sense.
I think it does..in a way.
Hope this video helps :) m.czcams.com/video/2QJwE9ed8xc/video.html . It's a true story of a lady who came out of depression
The same thing happened to me. A few days later I attempted and was in a mental hospital for a week. It was good getting help and even though I'm still struggling it's much better now.
cuz its scary and you dont really know what it means. ive been there too. and the pp i had helping me werent very good at it. so i was afraid to ask lest the same experience. and then i tried another place and thankfuly its better. so give yourslef the courage to try. if its not better at least you know you tried. and then if its not better then keeptrying till it gets better.
it does! ive been there so many times
My mom has been suffering from depression for years I wasn't sure how an stills don't know how to help since I'm just a kid! There is a lot of negative stigma of mental illness in our community especially amongst women who get accused of ridiculous superstitious stuff like witchcraft I'm sure that fear of stigma is what is hindering her to seek help! I pray to God to help her maintain her strength
always grateful to my eldest sister for being there ❤️
Son: *Gets depression*
Normal Parents: Try to help them, Take him to a therapist etc.
My parents: *B E L T*
ME TOO
normal parents’ kids rarely have depression haha, but I get it. ❤️
Sed life:'-(
IKR
A mental illness is not something to hide or be ashamed of…If you want to know more about depression in detail ,this will helpful 👉 myoccu.blogspot.com/2020/11/depression-when-we-hearthe-word-health.html
*I just hate it when people say:*
-*"Your just pretending to be depressed"*
-*"Your just doing it for the sake of attention"*
-*"It's just a phase"*
-*"It's coz of that damn phone"*
-*"There's nothing like depression"*
-*"You are too young to be depressed, you have everything you need"*
That is very true, saying those things really hurts someone’s feeling’s and will just make their mental state even worse
@@rogermrogerm happiness and sadness are just plays of mind . For example if you overwork and get yourself injured and then you will not get money because of injury afterwards , then think about spending time with your family or friends dont think about injury or less money .
@@neetasarawade6681 don't do philosphy here please
Get a diagnosis and then talk
@@neetasarawade6681 I truly don’t mean any disrespect when I say this, but have you ever had depression before? It’s not something that you can understand without experiencing it, because it really is beyond reason. Depression is similar to a phobia, in the sense that it’s irrational, and even though you KNOW it’s irrational, it doesn’t make it go away.
The difference between sadness and depression is that depression doesn’t come from circumstances. A sad person could be stressed about their job, but then get a raise and be happy again. A depressed person is sad regardless of what’s happening to them; they could win the lottery, and nothing would change. It’s always there, wherever you go.
Emotions may be just chemicals in your brain, but I don’t believe that makes them any less potent or real.
tw: depression, self-harm
i'll share my experience in case people out there are feeling the same and struggling through these similar experiences.
i was diagnosed with clinical depression and anxiety when i was 14. it was the toughest because i was young and i felt so scared to open up to my parents. my mom didn't understand but at least my dad did and that's how I started medication. i never got therapy because the pills were already expensive enough. my morale was at the slums them. i was sleeping for 3 hours everyday because my brain won't stop putting thoughts into my head. i hated myself with a burning passion and i had no energy in facing life. i just wanted to die. but i slowly got better and almost over it. until 3 months ago, uni happened and i went to live in a dorm. the environment and lifestyle was so different from middle school and then i relapsed. i have no self worth and i can't communicate my feelings effectively or none at all. i felt pathetic because i was falling behind in class and failing several exams. im not as confident as i used to be and even though i keep on pushing myself to do new things, i end becoming so stressed and failing at them anyway which only adds up to that awful feeling. so halfway into the first sem, here i am, who went through uncountable breakdowns and sleepless nights. a week ago, i finally broke down and the unsurmountable pain made me actually hurt myself for the first time instead of just thinking it. i grabbed a cutter and slashed my wrists too many times. to me, it felt wonderful, because after months, i can finally feel something other than dread, anxiety, depression, and worthlessness. It felt nice to hurt myself because that pain was so much better than the pain I felt inside. the deeper the cuts, the greater the pleasure. this is something you won't ever feel unless you are in that situation. don't try to think you can feel it because you can't. still, my bravest moment was when i was fourteen and i finally told my dad that i was suicidal. the fear that i felt at that moment feels like the waves from interstellar. change only started to happen from there. maybe you can overcome depression in months but it's different. i've had anxiety since childhood and i look at the world much different than most children do. i had this depression for years and when i think i am making progress, life gives me an ocean of lemons and i drown in it. that's just how it is. i am still suicidal, anxious, and depressed. but i was not who i was 3 years ago. i learned so much in the healing process. even though i relapsed and i am here with my demons again, i'll overcome it just like how i did the last time. i will do it everyday, for as long as i need to. because i have proven to myself that i can get over it no matter the circumstance. and if i do decide to end it all, at least i tried. so many my life wasn't so pathetic at least.
advice is, true. maybe they will judge you, treat you differently, pity you, avoid you, laugh at you. but all i have learned was, who cares? i make the rules of my life after all and i decide how i get to live it. sometimes it's not really other's reactions that we fear. it's our own reaction to it that we really try to avoid. everything starts in you mind. so be aware. be intentional. but things doesn't have to be sure all the time. sometimes you just have to let things flow for you and then you just ride along. you find that cruising the waves is much easier than trying to fight against it. nothing is easy, i know it too well. it's a damn long process. take as long as you need. this world is fcked up so you do things by your own rules. if this world can't make you happy, you make yourself happy. believe me, you need others to heal. but you don't need anyone to be happy. still, don't isolate. the more you isolate, the more the thoughts get louder. stop living in your head. start living today. start now or never at all.
that's all. keep on fighting. you're doing a good job. put those feelings in a jar and think before you let it take over you.
guys i'm so glad that we talk about this
When you’re depressed but you feel like you shouldn’t feel as depressed as somebody who has it much worse and feeling depressed doesn’t change anything so you can’t even feel depressed with your depression. So you just feel frustrated and angry at feeling sad. But also still depressed.
This whole comment structure makes me depressed which means my comment is also depressing, so the readers are also depressed.
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yes... But how can I feel-
Wish i was just a child again
Oh no, you reminded me 😞
I was happy then..😔
Dandelion3 I’ve forgot to feel happy
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Rexx Roselo depression led me to my eating disorder, anorexia nervosa. Depression and anorexia almost killed me. I’m only 14. 😣 My childhood was swept away from me and now the depression is worse than ever. I just wanna die.