Nonviolent Communication For Beginners
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- čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
- The theory of non-violent communication provides us with a number of techniques to help you stay in control of difficult situations. All too often, our emotions take over causing us to lose our temper or get upset. Often, bizarrely enough, a conversation in which we don’t show enough assertiveness turns into a downright slanging match, because we do not have the necessary tools at hand to express our emotions correctly.
Nonviolent communication (abbreviated NVC, also called compassionate communication or collaborative communication) is an approach to communication based on principles of nonviolence. It is not a technique to end disagreements, but rather a method designed to increase empathy and improve the quality of life.
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And definitely don’t say I insist as that is a demand not a request
Clear and well explained. Thank you for this informative video. Great work!
You're very welcome! Glad it was helpful.
Misses the essential of NVC, "respect = all needs considered." Where's the part where the boss checks in with what the employee needs?!? Hint: it's not about "control."
Try again.
The video is not about leadership and it's certainly not about control. If that is your conclusion you're just missing the point.
@@ExpertEnglish Thanks for sharing.
@@ExpertEnglishListen , this is what their point is: your example of NVC failed by your own standards because the boss did not consider the needs of the employee.
Are we clear?
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Really useful advice!
Glad it was helpful!
Not sure 'hurt' is a feeling as used in NVC (an unmet need for condideraion?), but enjoyed this presentation thank you
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This video is useful but NOT consistent with NVC framework.
When you this irritates me, it sounds like the situation caused your irritation as opposed to this happened and I feel irritated. No blame.
What is your point here?
@@ExpertEnglish because it sounds like you're saying "you did something that irritates me". I don't think most people would take that statement well.
Linguistically and visually putting “need” as step 4 and then describing it as
A “need” under -step 3 could be confusing to some- just a suggestion 😊😊
Ok, thanks for the suggestion !
Disappointed is an interpretation not a feeling
If you say 'I feel disappointed' how can that not be a feeling?
@@ExpertEnglish hmm you might be right actually, it’s just the word disappointed has so many negative connotations, like the phrase “I’m not angry, I’m disappointed” can cut so deep. I personally would avoid it.
I find sometimes even if you speak like a giraffe difficult or narcissistic people will not hear you.
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This is completely ridiculous advice that would absolutely cause arguments
Interesting remark. What exactly would cause these arguments?
Ridiculous is a judgment 🤭…it’s not easy to stay non violent when correcting mistakes in NVC. Ironically.
What I’m guessing this comment refers to is that the passive form is an indirect accusation. E.g. “I feel manipulated” “I feel hurt” (by someone..not taking responsibility) According to NVC you should use an adjective or a noun instead of a verb with the passive form after “I feel sadness….” or “I feel sad when you + the observation of what was said or done.