What To Do When My Spouse Hates Me

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  • čas přidán 8. 07. 2024
  • Hearing that your spouse, who you love deeply, hates you can be devastating.
    But how did that love turn to hate? Is it possible to save your marriage after that?
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    We believe so at Marriage Helper, and today’s episode of Relationship Radio is geared to help you do so.
    Understanding how intimacy, passion, and commitment lead to both love and hate can guide you down the path to reconciliation. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will inform you how your spouse’s perceived reality can be different from the truth and provide you with several tools to start having a deeper understanding of your road back to happiness.
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    0:00 What To Do If My Spouse Hates Me
    1:07 Understanding Hate
    8:30 Why Does My Husband Hate Me?
    15:21 What Do You Do If Your Spouse Calls You A Narcissist?
    23:00 5 Most Important Things To Know About Hate
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Komentáře • 43

  • @MarriageHelper
    @MarriageHelper  Před 2 lety +2

    What have you been doing to stop the hate in your marriage? 🤔
    If you'd like more info on the Hate Toolkit, you can find it here:
    marriagehelper.com/hate-course/

  • @richardchavez274
    @richardchavez274 Před 2 lety +16

    What about a spouse that doesn't have someone else but has distanced themselves from their spouse emotionally and intimately?

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      Hello Getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I know a man who help me get my ex husband back

    • @ryanbates7259
      @ryanbates7259 Před 2 lety +1

      @Richard, yes, even marriages in this situation can be saved. I'd encourage you to check out the Save My Marriage Course: marriagehelper.com/save-my-marriage
      If you're unsure about the course, you can also consider joining our free Facebook group: facebook.com/groups/783603618395431/

    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety +1

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

  • @joshhefley7809
    @joshhefley7809 Před 2 lety +9

    My wife and I will be attending your workshop this weekend. I’m so excited for her to hear the wisdom y’all have to share. I stumbled on your videos on CZcams when I was at my darkest point and it has carried me through these past few months. I’m better for it no matter how things go.

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      Hello Getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I know a man who help me get my ex husband back

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

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    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      ✛2349056214156💗(☉。☉)!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much josh hefley. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      Blessings,

  • @msdee2905
    @msdee2905 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m praying that our hearts soften towards each other. The adultery has caused my spouses heart to harden against me. My husband has not said he loved me in about three years. We are separated and he filed for divorce.

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      Hello Getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I know a man who help me get my ex husband back

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

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    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

  • @vicsar
    @vicsar Před 2 lety +2

    I love how you give credit were it's due by introducing everyone in all levels of the company. Kudos to all the people working behind the scenes!

    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety

      十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..

    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety

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  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem

    U never let me cry ever but now i cant stop

  • @bobopresentz
    @bobopresentz Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this. I am going through this exactly and it’s been very sad for me. This is helping me understand and perhaps move on. Thankyou. Love is blind.

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +2

    Cry until i have no tears left, just a broken heart. I will never believe
    anything,u told me u told her that u were committed to me but she wouldnt leave us alone, She stalked 6:15 6:19
    us every where we went 6:43 6:53 6:55 she always in the background
    U must have not have a strong enough commitment to me. U knew i had a memory problem after my surgery and thats why
    I couldnt exsplain as fast as she can, she is alot younger than u, im sorry that i got old, she will someday get old too !

  • @patticakes74
    @patticakes74 Před rokem +1

    I really dont like how she doesnt seem to take this seriously. My husband hates me and our whole lives have been devastated. This is no joke

  • @sirenofsound
    @sirenofsound Před 4 měsíci

    I'm working on this exact issue right now. Thank you for the reassurance.

  • @Angel42836
    @Angel42836 Před 11 měsíci

    Hatred the psychological descent into violence is a really good book

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +1

    What do i do if my spouse is encouraging his girl friend to steal my jewellry and my property. He denies that he doesnt know anything about the things r missing, but i know he is encouraging her to take what she😅 it makez him feel good and to please her by taking my belongings

  • @aprilchant5184
    @aprilchant5184 Před 2 lety +7

    I wish there was hope. He has even told both of our children that he wishes they were never born at the insistence of the OW.

    • @sarahsuetopka4748
      @sarahsuetopka4748 Před 2 lety +2

      Oh my gosh, that is so painful, your heart is strong for loving those kids and picking up the pieces...I've heard these coaches on here say that going through their steps, making you the best you yourself can be will prepare you even if the other person leaves, if it's God's will for this man to eventually not be in your life then you will be strong enough to handle it and also be prepared for the next blessing of love that God will send your way. Hang in there, you are worth it. ❤️

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      Hello Getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I know a man who help me get my ex husband back

    • @oliveblair1103
      @oliveblair1103 Před 2 lety

      ✛2349056214156💗⏯️‽‽‽

    • @ingridaccount
      @ingridaccount Před 2 lety +3

      My God so sad! Can I offer you Prayers for you suffering.
      I too am suffering. He has turned to hate. I don’t know how to soften his heart

  • @pngproductions8529
    @pngproductions8529 Před 9 měsíci +1

    reactive responses
    is real to narc abuse.

  • @erikaahello0880
    @erikaahello0880 Před 10 měsíci

    My husband told me he hates me.. I want to apply all your advice to myself but I dont have confidence in myself this past saturday I had the chance to spend some time with my husband but I was scared I would ruin the day by my behavior so I opted for getting out of the house and hung out with my sister in law instead. 😢

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem

    I just listened to the song Never gonna fall again by Eric somebody

  • @marymanzo2177
    @marymanzo2177 Před 7 měsíci

    His feed my negative thoughts about him plenty of times and still continues to do so. That’s why I hate him. He never tried to show me the opposite. I belive his scares to tell me we’re done. Cus his options that he has at the moment aren’t real as mee🥺.

  • @msjoannauk338
    @msjoannauk338 Před měsícem

    How can we get one to one support?

  • @scottdore132
    @scottdore132 Před 2 lety +4

    I would like more information on "hot hate"

    • @halimamustap5671
      @halimamustap5671 Před 2 lety

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

  • @allisonwelton5926
    @allisonwelton5926 Před rokem +1

    What about if you spouse says they love you but they act like they hate you?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey Allison Welton, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
      bit.ly/3FAr9Vg

  • @tiffytoo
    @tiffytoo Před rokem

    I'm sorry got anyone else who had to seek out answers based on this title. So sad.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      We are here to help! It's very sad when you feel that your spouse hates you. But there's a way to turn hate back into love. Thanks for commenting Tiffany! Please consider subscribing!