Signs Your Husband Hates You | Paul Friedman
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- čas přidán 26. 01. 2020
- Find out the reason why sometimes you think or feel that your husband hates you. What are the signs your husband hates you? Watch Paul share in this video a scenario where the husband hates the wife.
I got to tell you right now -- your husband does not hate you but what has happened as we've become a culture that has adapted to headlines in magazines and stuff on the internet that is just crazy.
Hate, you know what that is? You know how deep that is?
Hatred is how people feel towards terrorists -- that's hatred. Hatred is what you feel for someone who is so frightening and so devastatingly evil. It's the thing that comes to your mind. It's a form of protection to hate somebody. Your husband doesn't hate you, he doesn't hate you. Let's take that off the table and let's become more reasonable in our words, in the words that we use.
Let's say that your husband is mad at you now, and bear in mind, men don't communicate like women. If your husband snaps at you, which he shouldn't do, or if he yells at you which he shouldn't do, or if he's like unbelievably mean to you and he shouldn't be. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's okay. It doesn't have the same meaning as if it were reversed so I'm not saying you're not making a mad and you probably are. For the same reason, he's making you mad.
You don't understand each other so, guess what? You've come to the right place. I used to be a divorce mediator so I've seen all of the struggles that people go through before they get a divorce and then I shifted because I realized -- and thank God, this particular couple came in who wanted help to save their marriage, and I realized there's got to be a universal premise and there is.
Let's go all the way back to why you wanted to get married in the first place, you got married because you wanted to be happier than you were. You didn't get married because everybody gets married. Sure, maybe you did kind of but, why? Because you wanted to be happier then this is where it falls apart for everybody.
We don't go what's going to make me happier, isn't that crazy? We don't have a plan. We get married without a plan and so what happens is everything falls apart. The symptoms are myriad and countless. Now I'm going to give you a plan. You got married to be happy. The one thing that brings about happiness universally for every single human being on the planet or in outer space is unconditional love. Not that complicated so, what have you done to express unconditional love to your husband? And don't tell me, "Well, what has he done to express unconditional love to me?"
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I cried watching this. I wish I could believe you, that my husband doesn’t hate me. If he doesn’t hate me than it’s pretty close to it. It’s hate adjacent. He barely tolerates me. Deep sigh. Thanks for caring and speaking so nicely, nonetheless. It’s nice how sweet you talked to us in the video. I hope God blesses you as well. 🌸
I pray for you and hope you at least try the course to see if you can change things at home.
I felt the same way,,
I cried watching this as well😢 My husband literally yells at me all day everyday .
I think sometimes he does. Does he curse at you. Does he sabotages your dreams, your relationships with you children. Does his eyes turn black when he's screaming and spitting in your face. Sorry that is hate
Wow me too!
Well if he doesn’t hate me- he acts like he does
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This guy lives in a bubble. My husband hates me. Squish me tomorrow, he’d be so relieved. 3:59
Excellent message, Paul Friedman. 🙏🏼♥️
I feel like me staying after I discovered he was having an emotional affair on me was my way of expressing unconditional love. Also considering I was home with our newborn son when I found/figured it out.
I tried to forgive and take the lead. But he still acts like I am the problem, and a nag, and a bad person. I have been nothing but faithful to him. He cheated on me during my intense paramedic training, so I know I was absent during that time, in a way. But he knew it was to advance my career and our life and I warned him it would take a lot of my time and attention for 18 months. Now that I am home again more, he is still so cold and distant to me. It's really hard to not feel like he doesn't love me anymore. I suppose he doesn't HATE me. But he treats me worse than the chicky he was talking to for sure.
The God's honest truth is not easy to hear but I will say it because if you do hear it then you can save your marriage and go much further in your marriage than you ever imagined (hard to believe much less imagine). The real problem is that none of us are taught about unconditional love, that we are the regal soul, and that our free will all can be brought together ti create heaven on earth in our marriage. The "actions" you describe are shadows compared to what we all need and want. To have the real thing is what my discoveries and courses are all about. I try to convey this in all my videos but the truth is you need the course because there is so much to learn and then apply. So, don't despair! Get the course and make your life and marriage amazingly beautiful, filled with joy and love. It is not too late.
I ask my husband why does he go to the ATM so often. He told me he HATE ME 😢
I think your marriage is in need of our course for women because of what yo write here
My husband keeps telling me he does!, I have a brain tumour and depression and yes I’m no good at house work, He hates me because I’m messy and a bit of a hoarder. I understand that it’s making him depressed. What can I do? He says I’m lazy if I ask for help or willing to pay a weekly cleaner to help me. I tell him how much I love him everyday and no I don’t hate him. I hate this mess we’re stuck in Please help me xxx
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Thank you 🙏🏾
I got married because we were in true love and we wanted to have a family together
Thank you. We are 99% opposite on all our views. It sucks!
Your views usually shouldn't matter to the connection between you as souls.
Mine doesn't hate me. He definitely has a distain for me that is becoming more obvious each year.
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What if i got married because it was "the right thing to do for our child together". I wasn't in love when we did. He keeps flirting, seeking women, texting women, and is possibly seeing prostitutes....i just cant find "solid proof". We have 5 kids. Autistic and epileptic for 2.
I would say to get the course for women and learn to make what you have ideal. It doesn't matter "why" you got married you have kids. themarriagefoundation.org/marriage-course-for-women/
Excellent advice given to you in the response 😊
This is so heartbreaking because I truly am madly in love with him. And he's just... not. It's written. And I just read it all. I've always spoken so highly of him. To other people. To him. It's a lovely thought. But it isn't true.
You can shange the dynamic and that is the takeaway I convey because we have seen it happen time and again. But you cannot passively wait. Cultivating your love is the key.
My husband just got done telling me how he is better than me, how he has succeeded in capitalism than me, and how he will choose my parents over me and that we will need to get a divorce if I want him to stand by my side.
So, tell me more about how he doesn’t hate me?
Getting to that point was not easy for him or you. It will take knowledge and a lot of work to get back to a healthy connection, but you can do it...or you can get a divorce... themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
How do you know that a husband doesn't hate a wife? What if he ends up hurting his wife or worse…
He may hate how he is/was treated but that can and must be rectified.
No. He hates me :(
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Dude, Doc. I have to be honest with you. Women are not built to give unconditional love. I enjoyed your video but that’s just a fact. ❤
LOL I love that dude doc greeting. Reminds me of me when I was a hippy :) Truth, though, is that both women and men are, as human beings, essentially souls, which are unconditional love itself. But the mind is aligned with the biological body and so cannot wrap its arms around the infinite. It shields the light from our consiousness. We need only to open our hearts (easier said than done, I know).