How Do I Become A Better Wife? | Paul Friedman
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- Becoming a better wife is not easy, but it is worth the effort, not only to please your husband and enrich your marriage but also to increase your own individual happiness. Watch Paul explain this topic in the video.
This is not a difficult topic for me to discuss but you have to be very careful. You have to be very careful to not be affected and go, "How dare he?" or "What's he's saying?" This is the real deal. I used to be a divorce mediator. I help people get a divorce and I was very successful. The way I did it was I was very clear. Divorce mediation -- there's a lot of emotion that has to be set aside and so I would use a whiteboard and I would help the couple see what they were faced with clear and then explain how do we get the emotions out of this. And that's not a popular thing to do these days, for some reason the psyche
community is talking about honoring your emotions. Well, there was a time when they
said vent.
There was a time when they said drum. There was a time when they said, "Don't worry about your kids. Get a divorce, it's fine." Well, they're learning as they go a little bit at a time but they're missing the whole point of marriage. Well, you want to be a better wife so I'm going to help you understand at the most core level how to do that because obviously if you want to be a better wife what it's telling me is that there's something missing in your
marriage. Maybe you see that your husband is starting to look at porn sites or dating sites or maybe he's not paying enough attention to you or maybe he came out and said look, "You're just not taking care of me maybe we should end our marriage."
This happens, we see way too much of it at The Marriage Foundation. Let's begin with what does it mean to be a good wife and let's go right to the first principle of marriage. The first principle of marriage you might say is I got married to be happier so did my husband. My husband got married to be happier.
What does that tell you?
That you should bake him a cake every day that you should do the striptease when he comes home?
No. You got to ask yourself what is it that my husband married me for and I'm going to
tell you now, most people don't know the answer to that because I have a background in spiritual studies and I'm not going to take my religious studies but in spiritual studies, I have an understanding that a lot of people don't have I'm going to share this with you.
In the deepest subconscious mind, your husband, because he's a man, is not able to connect to his own heart the way you do and you know that's true. He doesn't see the children the way you see them. He doesn't understand suffering the way you understand it. He doesn't have a natural propensity towards compassion.
These are heart qualities. In the male design, the gendered design of the male and it's not
an absolute. It doesn't lend itself towards a heart connection. When a man wants a heart
connection, he's got to really work at it so he married you in order to feel that heart connection, that love. The true you is a soul, not a religious soul, you're just a soul just because the psyche community doesn't acknowledge this doesn't mean it isn't true.
You're a soul, you don't have a soul. You are one. You have a mind, you have a body this physical form but you are a soul. The soul's natural essence is pure, unadulterated, unconditional love that's why your husband married you. He didn't know that but that's why.
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Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
I've learned that marriage is to make you holy, not happy. And only true joy comes from holiness. Worldly happiness is fleeting and superficial.
You can have it all when you know how. We are given the idea of happiness and the free will to be so. Learn how to be married!!
Wow! Another beautiful answer to my prayers Dear Brother Paul.. Thank you again for this very positive and absolutely loving message. I’ve been married for 25 years and your help has already help me in my marriage so much... I believe in what TMF is proposing as infinite wisdom for couples now and until marriage exists.. YHWH bless you and yours...With much love, Mrs. J Mudd
Your teachings are filled with love!!! You are the epitome of a suberb teacher!!
I feel like your explanations are really eye opening. Married over 23 years together over 28 but definitely struggling. I am happy to have found your videos and information. I know I need work and will use the tools you have given me. I don't want to give up. I still love him. Appreciate you.
I greatly that my soul was lead to your channel this is the third video in one night. I'm only 30years old married for about six months but I almost gave up infant I told my husband more than twin that I'm done. Thanks God he's he never agreed with to this regard, he just keep doing what was right for our family 😭. The fact I didn't know what marriage is and still learn and I wanna do better.
Wow . Thank you for the teaching
This is a really special message. Thank you, Paul Friedman.
None of us have been taught any of this and it is SO IMPORTANT.
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What a well spoken and wise man you are. Thanks, I'm off now to be a better wife!!!
that's so true. thanks for your informative video Paul
Thank you for opening my eyes to a new way of thinking this video is truly a blessing
Thank you Paul!
Hi Paul, This video is so very informative. I will try my best to apply these tips to help restore and strengthen my marriage. We will be 10-years marriage in Oct. 2022. Thank you again! :-)
This is so true to me, looking to get one of your courses after I finish reading your books. Thank you for creating this foundation and sharing this wonderful espiritual information 🥰
This has been a blessing.
I stopped texting my husband because after years of genuine I love you’s and thank yous for XYZ and other affirmations and edifying he very rarely responded or texted me anything. It looks like I’m talking to myself in our text message history. Discouraging.
Your expectations means that your reaching out are not expressions of the heart but set-ups for him to respond. Shift your thinking from the mundane to love, and only love.
What if you stayed Away from the house without telling him anything? Maybe he might start wanting to text you or show more emotion.
Thank you..
Thank you so much I have learned the most beautiful things from you
Thank you so much for this video
Thank you!!!
I suffer from bpd. So sometimes it's hard for my emotions not to get in the way. This video really opened my eyes. I will try harder not to lash out. I've been doing good but some days are harder than most.
When you have a chemical imbalance it is more difficult but that does not excuse you. Learn to stop, and hold everything until you regain your composure.
Thank you so much 🙏
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Very important information 👌 thank you Sir
Excellent wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing!
Thanks
This is good
Thank you Stacey. You are good for wanting to improve yourself.
God is love!!! Bless you .
I really love your advice I could really really resonate from it. I learned something on some of your encouragement. Thank you for sharing it.👍
thank you so much! how to buy your books?
Use our website themarriagefoundation.org/ but also consider the course for women. It is a zero risk trial that will change your life in ways you cannot imagine.
❤i love it!!
God bless you
And you, too 🙏
These are very insightful comments. I know I respond or lashout or dump anger sometimes because I am in pain or hurt. It may be caused by anything, whether an unkind thing my spouse did or stress from work. What is a better way to deal with that pain and hurt? I'm trying to care for my soul better. But sometimes I'm at a loss and feel quite overwhelmed. Thanks.
Anger is not from you, the soul. It must be eliminated, never allowed to contol you or affect those around you. Use your free will.
Am so touch with your teaching if only our wives will listen
*If only their husbands will listen!*
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❤❤❤ what a revelation
thank you very much for this.
i love my man and want him to know it
thank you for your kind way.
I am at your service 🙏
Mr friedman what can I do for my husband to spend more time with me! I love 💗 you topic
I think if you put your energy into expressing love in ever greater ways in ways that work for him he will want to be with you all the time. Doesn't that make sense?
Lord Jesus I want to be a good wife to my husband when we get back together Aman.
Awesome
How do I get that counseling free of charge??
We do not offer counseling or free of charge but perhaps there are some who do
Hi I want the course for Women
Use this link to our website themarriagefoundation.org/
Off topic, lol, but are animals also souls?
until we have human form lower forms of life share a soul, so I have heard
Thank you!!!
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