What is Borderline Personality Disorder?
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- čas přidán 5. 02. 2021
- In this video Darren Magee discussed the nine criteria set out in DSM 5 to diagnose Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). At least five of the criteria must be considered to be inflexible, pervasive, long standing and lead to significant distress and impairment.
Part of the Cluster B group of personalities, it is a mental health condition often diagnosed with cocurring disorders such an anxiety disorder or an eating disorder.
Also looking at symptoms such as difficulty regulating emotion, unstable relationships and being in a state of high alert
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It's interesting to hear this from a clinical perspective with examples rather than a lot of drama about bad behaviour. Keep the videos coming!
Thank you I’m glad you liked it
I agree, brilliantly explained
This is the first time I've been able to understand what BPD is, having tried many times on other channels. Thank you for walking us through the nine criteria so clearly and explaining what a BPD diagnosis entails.
I’m glad you found it helpful 👍
The most traumatizing relationship I’ve ever been in. 💔 and I still care about him.
i cant thank you enuff ol friend, i have learnt so much from you... [mostly about myself ya] ... Oct 2022 and finally my first therapy session with 'new' trauma therapy team ... appointment was close to two hours long .. non stop ... was exhausting and took two n half days to recover from the appointment. ... the next leg of my journey has begun. [next court battle too] ... i am ready ... for the battle of my life, .. the battle for my life ... and you know what ... ??? i can do this ... i will struggle,.. it will not be easy... i will find out things about myself ... i am determine to learn and grow..... and keep moving forward.... ... thank you so very much Darren .... x
That was really well explained. I'd like to hear more about learning to regulate feelings
I would too
So would I
The mood swing thing is one of the reasons I think I have this. I had an extreme emotional reaction to an intense discussion with what I now discovered is what is referred to as my "favourite person" and I was so overwhelmed, I had massive anxiety at work and became dizzy.. I was in this mood for hours, trying to distract myself with music and podcasts. I was happy and chipper later on, and then all of a sudden I spiralled into depression and suicidal thoughts. I was working and had to interact with people in a professional manner during all of this and it was so distressing to have to do that while feeling that way.
I know at 53 I am reparenting myself and GOD is turning over deeply entrenched thinking. What a mess to grow up in. Thank you for all you do 🤗. Your doing the True Gods work helping people think for themselves.
This describes my adult son who is a victim of an abusive malignant narcissist alcoholic dad
Who still has coercive control in his life
I’m glad you found it helpful
You mentioned four different types of BPD. I would like to hear about the differences.
Yes I’ll be discussing the different types in upcoming videos
Thank you for explaining the diagnostic criteria and what that looks like in practical terms. I'd be keen to hear you discuss the specifics types of BPD, in particular 'quiet' BPD. Keep up the good work.
Thank you I’m glad you found it helpful and yes I’ll be covering the four different types in upcoming videos
This has got to be the best explanation of BPD I've seen yet, thank you and keep the videos coming!
Thank you so much for your kind feedback I'm glad you liked it.
Would be great to hear a video on life after abusive toxic relationship. How to move forward and how to deal with all the issues and traits you describe and learn to live again post abuse and living through the shame, trauma bonding the guilts etc. Ty.
Thank you for your suggestion 👍
Lost my wonderful wife of 40 years, and finally got up the courage to meet a new lady. I ran into a lady that I believed was wonderful, at church, no less. I was the total center of her attention for 6 months... But then, she just parted. She said she moving on and so should I. No reason or even talk. Devastating. She made me love her and then just split the scene. I got looking here online for an explanation. I believe she ticks off all 9 traits of the quiet BPD. What did I learn ? Ask a lot of questions and go slow for a year and a half.. She was a wonderful person. Too bad she didn't get a grip on her troubles when she was younger.
Hi Darren , hope you are well. Thanks for covering this topic and explain it so well.
Hello Ian I am well thank you and I’m glad you liked the video
Seems like a lot of these symptoms are common .. I can’t see the difference between BPD and a hypersensitive codependent person with low self esteem 🤔
Ive just realised my friend of 25 years is a borderline and im the favourite person. Its all making sense now...
Thank you for clearly explaining this, I think my ex had all 9 and didn't appear to feel guilt either.
Is BPD the same as complex PTSD?
Well done. Thank you.
Can we have a longer video about petulant type
Love your vids, would it be possible to turn the volume up as difficult to hear. Thank you 😊
Hey Darren, I am trying to help a friend but I don't know what to do as I am exhausted. Exhaustion is associated with running a marathon or climbing a mountain but my exhaustion is real. How do I explain to my friend that they are a living nightmare when they have no concept of this phrase. How do I help them? xx
Ps is it beyond my capability as a reasonably sane person? I am not on social media but got a 'boohoo' from some arsehole re my comments to you. Really don't need it. Why are there people out there who troll through any site in order to make an unjustifiable comment? It isn't a comment actually: rather a vile noise. It makes me never want to comment again.
I’m putting together a video on boundaries when supporting others soon
My stepmother is exactly what you describe- an unaware living nightmare
I just discovered your channel. Thank you so much for explaining these conditions so well! I checked to see if you have any videos on the various types of BPD but I don’t see any. Will you be covering those at some point? I’ve not been diagnosed with it professionally as I was told by a former therapist that he didn’t like to use labels. I don’t know if that’s the case with all in the mental health community. Personally, I like having a diagnosis as a starting point. Thanks so much. I really enjoy your analysis.
Hi there thank you for your kind feedback and I’m glad you find the videos helpful. I have a playlist on BPD and the different subtypes. Hope you find them interesting
nice overview
I know someone who has official diagnoses of bipolar disorder and autism, but in my ‘friendship’ with them I’ve seen lots of signs of BPD. I wonder about overlaps. They also often used their autism diagnosis as an excuse for their toxic behaviours.
Dolores Claiborne
What is the best treatment for BPD?
Oh boy is dating someone with undiagnosed BPD fun… and watching your Narcissism videos has made we wonder if they also have some narcissistic tendencies. 😅 Any advice on how to handle someone with BPD? I’ve found that it’s just about impossible to *not* trigger them as the trigger can be so minuscule at times.
Married to a woman with BPD causes me to want to drink.
Not enough emphasis is made about how destructive the borderline is to their children or a spouse. The borderline knows how to act one way in public and another way in private, therefore they can control their behavior. Instead they make themselves the victim and those close around them are punished. I don't believe they feel shame since they repeat destructive behaviors and never admit they are wrong. Those close to the borderline are held hostage by the borderline's ability to exploit the need for resolution and obligation to the borderline.
This obligation is not voluntary but coerced after years of conditioning.
I would agree that can certainly be true in a lot of cases. I was being general on this video and will outline the four different types in future videos, addressing the issues you’ve raised
@@DarrenFMagee Thank you. I was speaking about BPD content overall - apologies that my comment did not specify that. I appreciate the content you produce.
I always appreciate feedback. There’s a lot of things I miss in the videos I’m glad to be reminded 😊
@@DarrenFMagee Thanks again! I look forward to your future videos.
@@DarrenFMagee The cluster B personalities often present as a set of co-morbid personality disorders, say, narcissism and BDP, or narcissism and anti-social personality, or any number of combinations of behavioral disorders.
I'm familiar with a situation in which a person deliberately opens doors you've closed, intentionally messes up a room you've cleaned, knowingly turns off a light you've just turned on, and does these things with a sardonic smile.
And on top of this, the person presents full-blown NPD with the cheating, lying, entitlement, and lack of empathy and other related patterns. If that’s not enough there’s the histrionic traits of an overwhelming desire to be noticed.
What we are doing on some of these channels is great, but the dizzying array of types and admixtures of dysregulated personalities seems to be expanding with each passing day.
If only we could find a way to detect such conditions instantly to avoid the great harm such people are doing to the “normal” people around them and society at large. Just look at how lying has become normalized in so many parts of the world.
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go off-script and discuss the original sin, I mean our knowhow inside psychology is so great we 'do not' belive in some original sin, but the topic then; what is it, invite a minister, or anything just blast yourselves out, just an idea...(smileys) My theory then might be spelled; the abuse of paretns esp. as concerns narcs is perhaps the closest we come to this outmoded doctrine...