GIRL TALK (Relationships) | Long Term Dating, Break Ups
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I'm a 22 year old college student, and I've suffered one of the biggest heartbreaks in the world with my 2+ years relationship with this 25 year old guy. He was wholesome and there was nothing wrong with him at all. I looked at him and I saw everything I could see in him. Everything was worth it and I don't regret any bit of it. We broke up because he valued individuality and needed time for himself since he was so occupied with other things. You can't neglect self-love and I realized that through this breakup. He told me "I love you, but I also love myself." So he told me he knew that someone like me only comes once in a lifetime and everything that I've taught him, will follow him to the future in order to improve and be a better boyfriend. You love someone so you let them go on to be a better version of themselves. As much as I want this love of my life to be mine in the future, I have to accept that if it wasn't meant to be, it won't ever come back to me. For anyone who is dealing with a heartbreak, it's been Day 6 for me, it's still hard, and it'll be like this for a while but it's time for self improvement to be successful. I'm grateful for the friends and family that have been dealing with my miserable self. And for the one I thought I would be spending my life time with, I'm still rooting for you 100% as well. Weylie, thank you so much for this video.
Wow. I just want you to know that we're almost in the same exact situation. For me it's been about 2 months since he broke up with me, and I can say that I still hurt.. but I'm better. Keep your head up. What's meant to be, will.
Like they say, if you love something, set it free..
Much love❤
We have the same problem..
Give it 2 months and you forget his ass.
rose nadin wow this just happened to me a month ago. He broke up with me because he wasn’t where he wanted to be in life and he needed to get there alone. I was so confused and heartbroken as to why he would let go of a supportive girlfriend?! But sometimes men just need their own time. I’m proud of you for your maturity about your break up. It will get better with time❤️
I was going through a similar thing this month.. ): I got out of a 2 year relationship and it hurt to accept that we weren't meant to be. Sometimes loving someone isn't enough. I'm the one who broke up with my boyfriend because I knew that I was just staying because I loved him and not because I was happy. ):
I'll forever stan u for teaching me how to use a tampon
This speaks to my soul
Yes!
she’s literally the reason i use tampons, been rocking with her since i was 12, i’m 18 now
I feel like hearing you talk about relationships is always so grounding.
wah should make boy talk videos omg.
YESSSS
YES! Great idea!
OMG YASSSS
yes, I really want to hear his side too.
Totally agree.
Relationships are definitely a continual commitment and i think people often forget that and thats why they leave because its not always going to be based on a feeling, its a choice that you make every single day to continue to care and love this person.
A-fucking-men. Love is a continuing choice and effort, just as how we will always need to choose and put effort into loving ourselves.
I’m sucker for these kind of content 💖
wanna be me too hehe 🤓
the love of my life broke up with me yesterday. i spent this morning crying uncontrollably. this video really helped
if anyone is going through the same thing, please feel free to reach out to me. it helps not feeling so alone
How old are you? If you are young i know you wont understand now but you will be okay one day. When i was 16 to 19 i was madly in love with someone that didnt love me back... now im 29 and i laugh at those days. I had no idea what was in store for me. Wish I could talk to my 16 year old self
Mantha1006 i’m 20. i’ve been in a couple long term serious relationships before, so i know i can get through this. i‘ve just never felt this much pain from a heartbreak
Don’t worry about it. If he did this to you, he didn’t deserve you to begin with. His loss. You will get through it. You will grow from the pain and what doesn’t kill us make us stronger, right? :) believe me, in a few months or even a year, he will realize what he lost. He will feel the pain you are feeling right now. But by that time you will be better off. The hurt will be there for a while, just give it a bit of time. Everything happens for the best. If you broke up, then it wasn’t meant to be. Look forward to the amazing person you will meet in the future!!! He will be perfect! Unlike your ex, who dared to do this to you and cause you so much pain. Stay strong sista!
Kairbekova Zere thank you
Hang in there love 💕 as you know it gets so much better after time passes.
weylie, you help more than you know. please do more talking videos lke this, i'm sure we all appreciate this unique content from you xo
I feel like the advice about compatability was a game changer for me. I was with someone who I use to argue with time and time again (over the smallest things), it got to the point I started changing myself to avoid the arguments(I don't recommend it). Sometimes the worst thing about a break up is not actually breaking up, it's the acknowledgement of that the person or you weren't right for them (which is the hardest pill to swallow especially after you give them everything that you possibly could give). Thank you Weylie for your amazing, realistic advice.
Tas B You must have known I needed to read this. My relationship mimicked yours. We were opposites, but I looked passed it bc of my love for him. I even tried to be like him, so we wouldn’t argue. But, then I realized all we ever did was argue bc of our differences. I’m happy we decided to end it. I would rather have him as my friend then my enemy.
thank you for your wisdom over the years, Weylie! I’ve been a subscriber since I was 11 and I’m 20 now. You really helped me through my adolescence
SAME! I've been here since I was 13. Girlie advice for years, and still lives on!
I *do* definitely feel empowered by having less!
i dont have any relationship problems bc im single but damn that foundation looks good
I’m literally watching a previous Girl Talk video of yours and you upload a new oneeeee!!!!!!
My bf and I have been together for 7 years this past Sept. recently weve been arguing a bit more over petty stuff and ive been feeling the need to be more independent. This video really made me feel like im not alone in this type of situation. And not just the video itself, but the comments under me. Thank you all and have a great day! ❤️
I have sought comfort from your videos since my first year of high school and now I am in my last year of my university degree. Thank you Weylie, you are one of the most grounding and inspiring people I have ever listened to.
I always get so inspired by your videos and your girl talks, thank you!! I'm in my first serious relationship and my bf and I are together for almost 5month now and I always worried about being too attached. You helped me understand that it's ok to want to spend most of the time with your partner and other days you want alone time/girl time. And yes if my bf and I feel good that way it's ok and nobody else can say it's "wrong". Thank you weylie that really helped me a lot, you (and wah) have been my favourite CZcamsr for years now and you guys make me really happy with your videos! Lots of love from Germany!!!💞💞
This is something I’ve learned in grad school as a social worker and have never forgotten it since (it’s a concept that is used in couples therapy): the only person whose behavior we can control is our own. So say that your SO refuses to wash the dishes and it’s something you constantly argue about. If your goal is to preserve your relationship, then you either have to accept it or compromise in some way. If your goal is for them to wash the dishes, then your relationship may suffer as a result because you can’t control what your SO decides to do. Hope that makes sense! You can look up “Choice Theory” for more info too :)
yess! Such great advice, completely agree with this!
What a coincidence to read this comment after having the same argument about the dishes last night for like the 59th time in a row lol.
Love these videos so much!! I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 years now and I agree about not always having to feel “butterflies and rainbows” when you’re with your boyfriend. But rather that you know you’ll have him even when you’re down.
Going through some uncertainty in my relationship right now, so this video is perfect thank you.
it's so amazingly comforting having this play and listening to you as i get ready for my day, Weylie. it's like i'm chatting with a sista beside me as i put on makeup or winding down for a little girl talk before studying. anyways! i completely agree with the 'keeping things fresh' part of this video. i've struggled directly after the 1 year mark with my boyfriend, feeling like i need to do moremoremore so that he's happy and in turn that would make me happy-- but i realized it was my own internal insecurity of thinking i'm boring or that he'll leave if there is nothing exciting in our relationship. i've learned to really understand how he is as a person, if he's already comfortable with how we are now (which he really is), and how often we *both* would like to freshen things up with our otherwise quiet, lulling time together. a lot of the time these worries are so muddled in our heads-- so it's really nice coming across a video like this in times where i think many people could silently need. love you tons, Weylie!
I love when you do topics about relationsship!!
"love is not a mood, it's a commitment.." i love your insights on relationships weylie💕💕💕
So much truth to the relationship advice. I went thru it all with my ex we kept fighting over such little things it became so exhausting especially he has always been insecure I dealt with that for over two years and I couldn’t take anymore I talked to my friends and they told me I was dealing with things that no one should experience and after hearing it over and over I realized I need to move on from this unhealthy relationship. And tho it hurts because he was like a best friend to me I realized how much I was being manipulated and how much sadness and anxiety I let go of when I let go of the relationship. Granted not having him in my life has been very hard but I think I deserve to be treated well and I want to be happy and the only real way I can have that is by putting myself first and not toxic relationships. It’s hard to love people with their flaws but if you can’t live with their issues or their issues are over bearing on your life it’s not worth the trouble.
Bianca Gonzalez this.
Bianca Gonzalez this speaks to me! I am just trying to stop talking to a guy I got really close with. It’s just been days and I feel horrible. He came to me in a time where I was very weak emotionally and I did become dependent on him and he was my best friend. It just felt really unhealthy and I am trying to cut ties but I feel so sad over it. Real pain. But like you said I feel like I deserve better.
This so much! I recently broke up with my ex because of these exact same issues and even though towards the end he did try to change but it just wasn't working for me anymore and i couldn't bring myself to feel the same way about him as i used to. So rather than lead him on or continue this futureless relationship, i just thought it would be best for both of us to end it. and it did hurt but i know i did the right thing.
Once you are at the age where you can control emotions and have your mind guide you rather then your heart. That’s when you are able to see things more clearer and nothing can no longer affect you like it did in the past.
You literally worded everything so perfectly. I let go of my toxic relationship 7months ago and I’ve never been happier
I sooo agree with you about the keeping things fresh thing especially. I feel like people need to compare love relationships more with other types of relationships, then it'll be much easier and make much more sense. Like keeping things fresh. You can't expect a relationship to still be new, exciting and fresh after ten years or whatever. And there's something much more rewarding that comes with knowing someone so well the relationship between you two can't be considered fresh. Being comfortable, having someone you trust who understands you, feeling like you can be yourself, all those things. I honestly prefer that over butterflies and constant excitement. The ideal would be both at the same time of course, but you can leave the more unrealistic dreams to books and movies and enjoy those alongside your realistic beautiful real relationship.
My favorite videos that you make ❤️❤️
Wow. This video was just what I needed... when you talked about questioning your relationship when things aren’t fresh, that’s exactly how I’ve been feeling lately. I’ve been coming out of it, but it’s so reassuring to hear someone else say that it’s normal and OK to feel that way sometimes in a long term relationship. Thank you for being so real and honest about all of this.
watching this doing my night routine and feeling SO MUCH from this video. Love how girl talks makes me feel like we're like sisters and giving advice. Thank you so much!! All the love!
You don't understand how happy i am that i woke up to this video! I really needed one of your girl talk videos, especially about break ups as I am going through one. Love love love you, your content is so comforting
I am going through a lot right now letting go of a boy I was dependent on. He was my best friend and we talked every single day. It felt really unhealthy and part of me still hopes it works out. I have no energy and I’ve been really down. BUT this video inspired me to look at things in a positive light like loving myself and learning to not depend on a guy or person for my own happiness. I love you weylie 💓💕
Your answer to the first question was so good. It's exactly what I needed to hear.
I’m dealing with a recent breakup and I keep rewatching the part of your video where you give advice on it. So so helpful! Thank you so much Weylie💕
havent watched a youtube video that was longer than 10 mins for a while but this video really caught my attention for the whole 25 mins!!! your girl talks always cheer me up and helps me to see things in another perspective
love you and i hope u have a great day too
watching your girl talk videos always feels like talking and listening to a friend ❤️ the only think i dislike is that they feel like 5 minutes long (sobs)
SORRY THIS IS LONG: My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years now, and sometimes it feels good, and sometimes it doesn't. It has benefited me in the ways like, self-discovery, a sense of self, learning to be more independent as I grow older. "Keeping things fresh" is a struggle, so we have SaturDates (FaceTime dates on a Saturday) where we buy food from the same place, or cook at home over FaceTime and just chill and catchup. I love your advice videos, girl talk videos because they have helped me so much with myself and my relationship. I relate to when you and Wah had a fight in Hawaii, and you thought it was the end: my bf and I went on a trip and had a huge fight, and it felt like it was the end, it took a long time to fix, but some of your advice for relationships helped us. You have seriously help me feel confident about my bare face, and minimal makeup, and just being independent that I hope to do a solo trip in the future. Anyway, sorry this is long, I just wanted to say I love you and for the past 4 years, you have made a huge impact on my life!
I used to watch you years ago and I just rediscovered you again. Im glad I did 😊
I love you so much Weylie. I am going through a hard time right now, and watching your videos makes me feel like I am not alone. Thank you sista!
Girl talks at this time of the day are literally the best 😭❤ you're literally like my big sister !!
My fav type of video by weylie
Girl talk + everyday makeup!
I’m on my 8th month of Curology and I had the same awesome experience but now I’m also noticing a couple break outs during my period and getting major anxiety that it might stop working like people say😭 I also stopped wearing makeup all together actually since my skin got clear back in May! I think having clear skin gives you that confidence that I’ve never had before!
Weylie, you don't know how much i needed this. My bf and I have been together for a little over 3 1/2 years now and these topics are so relatable for me/us! I'm so appreciative for hearing your perspective.
When I saw that video I was so damn happy and ready to watch itttttt !! Gurl, I luv you.
I love going back and watching her relationship q&a videos because sometimes I really need to hear it and somehow it will always make me realize something about my relationship (3 years) and myself.
I love her responses so much ❤️ she’s so wise and comforting!
you're the best frennn, my girl that I've never met before but feel so deeply connected to! I love your content and what you have been posting because it just feels like you're truly content with it and all around glowing. Thanks for being you and bringing joy to us!
Your response to the break up really hit me. You are such an inspiration!!
You're the best
Love this so much!! I totally know the feeling of pressure to need a spark, when I’m happy just feeling comfortable in our deep companionship for a while. 💗
it did put a smile on my face. i don't typically watch/listen to any relationship videos, but you made me sit and replayed your video.
i cryy...im going through some relationship problems too but your words are so comforting. thank you weylie ❤️
Weylie I needed this so bad right now. Your advice is always so balanced and you always empower people to do what feels right for them. Somehow you're able to put into words what I'm feeling but can't always express and it just feels so good to hear someone externalize the thoughts going on in my mind. Love you forever sistah!!
Weylie! I love listening to you discuss about these topics. Really gives me an open and simple ideas of how to go about things that happen to us in life. You’re truly so refreshing and I always find my way back to your channel catching up on your videos. Thanks girly!
Thanks for sharing your energy and positive attitude in life. I like the way you said "one door shuts and other doors opening". I am having a bad time in life recently, but your words did comfort. It's a good time to face your genuine feeling to love yourself and the best time for self-discovery.
I love how you truly care when you are answering these questions. I can tell that you put so much thought into everything you say
I used to watch you SOOOO much when i was younger. But you still give such good advice. Thank you!!!
We need this ever so often. Thanks Weylie.
I'm not going thru anything in my relationship but damn I love this video. You always manage to put a smile on my face, it's like magic. You're the best, Weylie!
Omg you don’t know how much I need this from you right now I feel so happy you uploaded this😱😱😱
I always thought there was something wrong with me because I don’t always feel that spark and I realized that it’s okay to feel that way. I’m glad I’m not the only person to go through this everyone wants to believe that relationships are always unicorns and sparkles. Thank you for this video ❤️
I love this video so much, more than I actually expected. I usually don't tend to always enjoy relationship advice from online couples because they sometimes make it look like it's all great and rosy, which makes you feel like theres something wrong with you & your relationship when in reality relationships are hard work. Obviously it's down to each individual person how much they like to share but I appreciate SO much that you were so down to earth about it and said ups and downs happen to you too and how to actually get through the downs etc. it made it SO much more real and relatable and I feel like actually gave me advice for my own long term relationship that helped rather than made me feel like it's not good enough, so thank you ❤️
GIRL! This video was just what i needed. I am 27 and have been in a relationship for 2 years & I have been overthinking and getting in my head about keeping the relationship fresh and pressuring myself to figure out if he is 'the one'. This video gave me great guidance :)
I love you so much. You give off such wise older sister vibes. Ive been in my first long term relationship with my high school friend for 2 years now and you just reassured me of things I already knew but needed reminders of. Thanks girl 💜
I usually never comment...but Weylie, THANK YOU for this and all the wonderful content you have made on CZcams the past few years. I’ve been following you for a while and that tampon video of yours will forever be iconic. I learned how to use a tampon from you, so thank you for that as well. I’ve been reading the comments and want to share my story as well (an edited version of my response to someone on here). At 26 and someone who is currently healing from a breakup that was 2 months ago, I know and understand it will sting in some way for a while. I was with a guy for three years and all he said to me really was that he doesn’t feel the same way anymore and that “it just happens”. I felt despair and disappointment wondering why he stopped trying. I had only one other serious relationship before this where the guy broke up with me as well. So within the past six years, I have spent my early twenties being in relationships with guys who weren’t really worth it. With this recent breakup, I started questioning myself about my two failed relationships and thinking that there was something wrong with me. And trust me the worst feeling ever is doubting yourself. I have been kind, caring, and sweet in these relationships because those are just my traits as a person. What I’ve realized now is that I cared too much for my significant other to the point I started to neglect my own self. I’m now finally navigating self love and just learning that you really need to love yourself first before anything else. At the end of day, family and friends will help BUT it’s you who has to pick yourself up. Break ups are horrible and there’s nothing pretty about it. I have loved and I have lost, but this will just only make me stronger. Ladies, we need to hang in there and know our self worth.
Your videos are so therapeutic for me ♥️😭
I'm going to rewatch your videos now because you always make me feel better and motivate me to become a stronger person!
That was a great relationship advice. I believe in you because I know you've been through this before. Thank you for sharing this. It's really helpful.
i can watch you talk and give advice for hourssssss
that comfortable phase you have with your boyfriend is truly what we work towards, if you think about it! the comfort is something that we should love and appreciate since you can feel that way with someone you love so much! love this video! xx
I love this kind of videos, weylie! Youre great
GIVE US MOAR! I laughed really hard when you said you didn't want to finish your make up anymore LOL BUT THEN I WAS IMMEDIATELY UPSET BECAUSE I REALIZED YOU WERE ENDING THE VIDEO.
yes! thank you weylie! i always love listening to your girl talks. those are such good questions, especially the long term dating, as I am going through one that now about to reach the 2 year mark. I also really like how you mention to stick to yourself, be true about yourself. That is such a good reminder for me, as sometimes I get so attached to my bf. I can't wait for more talks like this. :)
I really loved this kinda video. You should make more of these type of video! I like how you face relationship problem which most of the couple go through. It really helps. I love you:)
Thank you for this video! I’m dealing with a breakup right now and honestly your advice is golden. Love you 💕
Absolutely love your chatty grwm’s!!
I live for your girl talks!! thanks for your input on everything!
My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years this upcoming January. And it’s hella true what you said girl. It really is more of choosing to love that person consistently and to grow together as a couple and as individuals choosing to be in the relationship together. And really knowing that your SO is gonna be there with you through the good and bad times, and especially choosing to be in the relationship to keep it going. I really needed this vid yo. Like I was aware about the whole ‘is he really the one’ and all after being in over a year in to two years of being together. But, you really do put it out there for those who are lost and misunderstood about that idea for someone feeling down about things like that in a relationship (in general), you gave that sense of confirmation and I thank you for that. I LOVE YOU WEYLIE♥️
god i love these girl talk videos so much! i recently got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship and honestly girl your advice is SPOT ON!! ❤ thank you for being the realest ever i swear its like we're friends and one day i really hope i get to meet you!! love ya sista ❤
the argument part hits so close to home... i really appreciate your girl talks weylie, i've been having a hard time with my boyfriend and also it's kinda difficult to make new girl friends :(
who here liked weylia's vid before it started?? I knew this was gonna be a good one, and BOY i sure was right!! Thanks for this, I really needed it
Love these girl talks girrrrl!!!
I appreciate when bigger youtubers make helpful relatable content and not because they have a sponsorship (which is ok too) but because they want to
I really enjoy watching your girl talk videos while getting ready, they get me feeling so motivated and ready for the day🤩🤩
you're seriously one of my favorite youtubers, ever.
More vids like these please!! Ive been following you and wah since the green apartment days and i feel like ive grown emotionally and every way with you especially at times when i didnt have anyone. Im in a much better place now but i still love these videos just the same ❤
Your natural makeup look has been so refreshing and pretty!
I really needed this after my boyfriend wanted to take a "break." this made me realise that I should be taking this time for myself & not feel so sad. Wylie is like the older sister I never had. 💕
Love waking up to a new Weylie’s girl talk video 💜💜💜 yasss gerr yasss
I needed this video! Thank you so much, this was so helpful! I am loving these girl talk videos!
Most helpful girl talk ever! I really needed that kind of advice right now
I love this! It sparked something in me, I’m so happy I clicked on this!! ❤️
You said Wah is your best friend with such amazing pride, and I love it!
your videos are so special to me!! like i always make sure im cozy or have a nice meal infront of me before i start watching you or your vlogs because i find it so relaxing and happy to watch you
I live for these girl talks 💛💕✨ I feel like you’re our big sister!!
Weylie, you are so beautiful inside and out❤
I love watching your videos where it inspire me to become a better person and embrace my insecurites:)
Also, your skin is so clear and flawless!
Love these videos! Your videos are so calming and help me put aside all the stress.
Your words and perspective are always so encouraging to hear🌹💕 thank you Weylie
It's totally fine to not finish your make up! Only hear you sharing about your thoughts of relationship and experience is satisfied enough!!! Love you so much:)
@12:31 yass preach. ive been getting a lot of shit from people these days about being single and why im not dating. and i always tell them the same thing, i dont need to depend on someone for my happiness. i have nothing against dating and i would like a SO in the future. but right now im focusing on self love, self caring my finding my own happiness my way. if people give you shit for doing things the way you want, then screw them. i think its absolutely important to find one's self before getting lost in another person. thanks weylie!
Your videos always makes me feel empowered. Love you from Mexico Weylie. ❤
Hey Weylie! I'm a 21 year old college student that's been in a relationship of 2 and a half years now. I struggle with my insecurities and sometimes question my relationship because of it. My boyfriend is often not a problem and is, in fact, an amazing boyfriend. I often beat myself up for neglecting my self-worth, but this video really helped put confidence back into my relationship. I realize that I do need to improve my mentality not just for my relationship but for myself. Thank you so much for making this video and I hope to see more like this in the future :)
Your girl talks are literally the best babe.
love how u make videos with such a reallll ass connection with ur subs love u weylie
Thank you for answering my question about the break up Weylie!!! I really appreciate it and it actually felt like a good friend gave me an honest advice!❤️ I didn’t write my name because I totally forgot! Greetings from Isaia from Greece!