Husband Or Heartless Killer: The Story of Mitchell Quy (True Crime Documentary) I Real Stories
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- An insight into the mind of Mitchell Quy, convicted and sentenced to life imprisonment in January 2001 for the murder of his wife, Lynsey, who had disappeared in December 1998. The prime suspect at the time, Mitchell Quy had always protested his innocence, claiming his wife had left him. Quy even made televised appeals for the return of his wife.
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Never let an abuser know you are planning to leave or get a divorce until you are safe somewhere.
I left ,never told him.he told me he would kill me and happily would do time for it.I recorded it ,went to the police,they have done nothing .he raped me,he tried to suffocate me,police did nothing.this in the Netherlands.
It's very sad to see kids living without the love of their mother I hope he will be in jail for the rest of his life
Very good advice.
Good idea. What I did was put clothes for my kids in boxes, marked it garage sale. Told him I was going to my mom's and we were having one. I left town, he didn't know what hit him.
Facts 💯!!
in every interview he did you could see how he revelled in the attention and smirked throughout knowing he killed lindsay and he was 'getting away with it' just sickening
It's called 'duping delight,' and it's a common trait of narcissists. They get enjoyment out of deceiving and thereby controlling other people.
All the worst ones do, soooo disgusting
His body language gives him away. But, u need physical evidence.
It's too bad they didn't grab him earlier and interrogate him until he told the truth. All the people going to his house gave him a thrill. It's there in his smirk. Well, he's got a lifetime to think about it all now. I saw no smirk when they walked him to the van handcuffed.! 👍😀
@@justmemother2 In the USA a person can get a life sentence without parole or a life sentence but still be eligible for parole in a certain amount of years. Hope that's not the case in your country, or he could be out on the streets again looking for someone else's demise. 🇺🇲
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if your child keeps going back to their abuser, the appropriate response is never punishment. Giving them the silent treatment may kill them. While her husband has the ultimate blame here, her family saw red flags and did nothing. Didn’t even report her missing. Since her brother died by suicide after this, her parents lost two children.
What ? Her brother died of suicide 😢 how ? When ?
@@fredrickochieng4850 her brother Peter hung himself after the trial of Lynsey's murderer (Mitchell) in 2001. Very sad indeed
Dealing with a daughter (and her children) who goes back to their abuser at least twice a year is difficult. It's hard to watch and worry about whether he is hurting them.
They didn't report her missing because she's ignored them for months before. They didn't know she was missing, and I'm sure they feel guilty enough. Now that we know what happened it's easy to pass judgment.
Then what do you do? My mothers daughter (I no longer call her my sister) has come and gone to the same abuser well over 20 times already. She has two daughters (one she herself knows is his and the other she doesn't know since she slept with the guys brother at the same time). My mother keeps taking her and the girls back in, only to be told to "Get F-ked and die" over and over again while her daughter threatens to call the cops if any of us gets close to wherever she decides to sleep that month. I hate seeing my mother like this, but what can I do to help?
Hearing that a little girl said “I wish I could die and go up to heaven with my mom” had to be one of the most gut-wrenching things I’ve ever heard. Kids may not understand the gravity of what they’re saying or the permanence of death, but that line ripped my heart out of my chest. I hope that thought isn’t something she still carries with her today and those children got the counseling they needed.
Evidence shows that consciousness continues after the death of the body. Were you aware of this?
When my dad killed my mom it ruined my life. I was only 5. I hope these kids grew up and learned to love themselves and learn the are not like there father but a living testimony for their mom.
So sorry for your loss. ❤
Be well, friend. Respect.
I'm soo 😞
so sorry for your loss may she RIP
I am so sorry. I am not trying to be sexist but men! oh men!!!
Missing 53 days at Christmas time and no one close to her reported her missing..
Why didn't police comb through the house with a forensic crew immediately ?
Family, friends and police let her down, so tragic, so sad...
Because they're all white trash. Jeez, I could use subtitles for this one.
Her daughter Robin is such a beautiful little ginger!
Abusers isolate you from your family and friends. You're frightened to call them lest the abuser catch you saying something they disapprove of, and will punish you for. You're also embarrassed about the situation. It's not unusual for abused spouses not to see or speak to friends or family for months or years at a time. And when you do speak to them, you are very chirpy and report all good things.
Police should have done a DNA on the bath and all over the bathroom even the cop said he killed her and it would have been in the house. Family didn’t let her down she kept taking him back and they had enough but they didn’t think this would be the outcome.
“I wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire”?!
This guy is NUTS. Even if your angry I feel like an innocent man wouldn’t say that about the mother of his kids.
The only time he told the truth in the whole thing. 😢
That comment was infuriating. The nerve he has to say anything disparaging about the mother of his child - the woman he murdered - is disgusting to the point of being nauseating.
And is that how he killed her by burning?
Very telling.
Yes he's guilty as sin. But I can honestly say without hesitation that if my ex husband was on fire I wouldn't piss on him to put him out and yeah he's the father of my children. He's an abusive POS. So yes.... innocent people will and can say it too. In would be more telling if he had nothing but good to say about her after he claimed she abandoned him and the kids and all this was a result. That was not an honest reaction but a calculated show of just the right amount of anger and indignation over her "leaving him, vanishing and leaving him to clean up the mess". His lies were "I just want to see her again". That was the most telling statement. That and him putting his nose in the media.
If someone hands you a note, that says, " Please help me" that is an absolute emergency, and the fact the family didn't respond to the urgency of the situation, is devastating. They will regret that for the rest of their lives
I can't imagine how she felt wondering why help wasn't coming. It just breaks my heart.
Hayley Turner : They won't simply they are the kind of family nobody needs. Some families are that way, for many different reasons, but if anybody ,relative or not, ask for help that way, any decent person (let alone relatives) will help, somehow.
She knew she was in an abusive relationship and kept going back. Why do you not blame her for putting her and the kids in that situation?
@@sparingpickle4918 Can you stop victim-blaming? She was a victim, and you have no idea how hard it is to escape the clutches of a manipulator. They will make you feel like it is your fault, even though it isn't. They are so skilled at guilt tripping and gaslighting you.
Most abusers are also very charismatic, so even if the victims speak up, people will have a hard time believing them.
Escaping an abusive relationship is very, very hard.
@@nowi__ Ohhh shut up. That’s such a childish excuse. Your so ignorant to the fact she refused to leave a situation and constantly repeated the cycle endangering her children. If you want this to not happen then you need to admit that and let people know to LEAVE abusive relationships.
My sister kept going back to her abusive x but we helped her even though we were sick of the whole yoyo game. She finally permanently kicked him to the curb after nine years. Thank heavens!
Exactly the same happened to my sister and I’m so happy she moved away after years of abuse and going back to her husband. It’s not easy to move on, especially when kids are involved, sometimes it’s frustrating as someone looking from the side, but the only chance for victims to escape is having a family that is there for them.
Some people become deranged and turn to killing. Not every relationship ends in a murder, but many do. This man should have just walk away, but he's a deranged monster. He can't reason with reality. I was worried he would hurt the children. I wouldn't care if he killed himself, but he's a coward.
People who are abused often develop Stockholm’s syndrome.
thank you for not giving up on your sister! one less female with an abusive man! 🙏
The average abuse victim leaves 7 times before finally leaving for good. Also you have to consider that if an abusive person is going to kill you they're more likely to do it within the first 3 months of you leaving them. It's a very complicated dynamic 😞 You're amazing for sticking by your sister 🙏💗
You notice that smirk constantly on his face? It's called "duping delight". Research it - it will
surprise you. This man exudes guilt in his every expression.
Vee Friend Absolutely agree , Just like the constant arrogant smirk on the face of Gerry McCann , Madeleines father , Another face I’d like to punch
He's an evil narcissist. They are known for their annoying smirk.
Vee, thanks for the tip. I will do some research.
I saw something about that on dr. Phil! made me think the same!
@@susannejensen4295 thats right! It was the lady that pretended to be in a wheelchair, and a bunch of lies. She was a super obvious narcissist too.
That little boy singing the song "goodbye" at the end got me bad.... I looked up the song and listened to it over and over. RIP Linsey. 😪
This is so terribly sad.💔
Took me 8 yrs to get away from my abuser. Many nights sleeping in my car with my little dog in empty parking lots.
She was reported missing 53 days later not by her husband, nor her friends, nor her family, so sad this poor girl was let down by everyone I can see why she felt lonely. 😔
maria herrera
frm whr r u?????
@Titus Robertson I'm uneasy until I know my husband has reached work and got back home.
Well the husbands story is that she left him which allows him to not look suspicious for not reporting her missing... because if she’s left him then to him she’s not missing she’s just gone… Which is a pretty smart way to set it up.... too bad he’s a ducking MORON
Mohammad Mukarram Why did you ask from where she is?
We don't know how close she was to her family (How often she spoke to them) some children after they move out don't talk to family for months. So he family is understandable however he should have reported her missing. Although him killing and chopping her body up i doubt he wanted the police involved so soon. Good thing they put him and his brother away for what they done.
Elliot should've gotten way more than 7 years in my opinion. HE HELPED HIS BROTHER BURY THE BODY PARTS OF ANOTHER HUMAN BEING AND SAID NOTHING FOR OVER A YEAR ONLY SEVEN YEARS ARE YOU KIDDING?!
Well, the brother committed suicide, so...
truebluewonderful No it was Lyndseys brother who committed suicide not Mitchell's.
HE SHOILD HAVE GOTTEN LIFE ALSO BUT FOREVER.
tiarnan But there is no death penalty in Britain, unfortunately.
you don't know the full story about that.
“Silence is violence” well said. By staying quiet you are contributing to what happened to her, and it is a crime
That this father spoke like he did in front of the kids was appalling. That she was so close to getting away from this monster. Families don't turn your backs on people being abused.
Families should not but some families do it. It’s so heartbreaking.
wait a minute....he was a prime suspect for a murder and still taking care of the children??? wtf
They had no proof then. No body, no death! Go figure??? However, you never know if someone really is innocent. Of course this guy wasn't!! Glad he was caught! Psychopath for sure. How He took care of the children is beyond me. Such EVIL!
4/14/19
Hard to take away parental rights without a conviction.
I hope the children don't remember him now they are older. Last I heard anything about them, Lyndsey's parents had taken them on. And I hope he's ereased from their memories and they had a happy upbringing with their grandparents.
@ulhurusurf club - You should be on a watch list.
LIBTARDS. they wrecked justice.
His attitude is smug and condescending. Hes hardly a grieving husband. That's my initial view of him. He gives me the creeps just hearing him talk.
I hope her children are doing okay. This was one of the most heart wrenching cases I have ever seen.
Lynsey's Dad is 1 million times more a man than Mitch. I was moved by his non stop search for her. The images of him standing in the distance looking at the cross over the ground were Mitch buried part of her body was heartbreaking. His final words about just wanting to see her again when he gets to heaven and hear her call him Pop was also emotionally difficult because his unconditional love for her just rang out. God bless him, his wife, the children and all those who loved her.
O ok
Don’t be so quick to praise her father! He lived very close to Lynsey & he didn’t even know she had been missing for 53 days!
Her family ignored her pleas for help. They all failed her.
They found her body!!?
That little boy singing at the end just broke my heart even more. RIP Lynsey 💜💜💜
Jewels Also heart breaking when the little girl sees her mothers picture in the paper, but much too young to understand why the picture is there.
What is the song he was singing?
Sandes Rajbhandari spice girls ..goodbye..a lovely song
“Why would I tell her parents she was missing?” Uhm... idk... cause... it’s her parents...?????
I loled and then felt guilty afterwards..
That anonymous call he received calling him “ The Devil” was spot on.. He was a soul less Evil man. I knew she would never leave her precious babies before Christmas. I’m glad the children are being raised by their grandparents. Linsey’s Father was a very brave and strong man, to face that monster he knew killed his daughter. That took an incredible amount of restraint and courage that had to be so difficult to do. His love for grandchildren and his daughter is probably what gave him the strength to face that monster. The killer’s evil smirk and cockiness made me want to smash that evil smirk off his face. I could only imagine how her father, brother and mother felt. My prayers for this family.
God Bless her soul!
I wouldn’t of had that patience with him. As a father I would have found a way to get the answers out of him during that time. Being so obvious I would of had him by the balls the night she went missing
I just pray prison justice is at play here. Most encarcerated people are not cool with men like this.
That 'anonymous call' sounded just like him, though. He probably did it for attention
Of course it's him.....this guy it's unbelievable..... unbelievably stupid
One of my best girlfriends was murdered by her husband in Houston Texas December 1st 2008, two weeks after having her 3rd child. Her kids to this day know nothing of her even though her husband has been in prison and I hope he can never hurt anyone again and should never get released.
how can someone be that much of a coward to murder a woman after she has just given birth? It is beyond belief. To have it happen to those close to you must be devastating.
@@antiochiaadtaurum3786 In one of my classes for nursing school we had a course pertaining to risk and violence and what devastated me was learning that women are at the highest risk for suffering violence and homicide when they are pregnant and within the first 90 days postpartum.
He's not an animal, animals' are beautiful, he is truly an evil monster!
Oh
SO agree Rosalind - and many animals show compassion
Agreed! They are the purest form . If they kill they kill its for survival or food...and if they deceive it for those reasons alone. Never compare a narcissistic killer to an animal.
no. he's a human and sometimes humans are disgusting.
Roxana Dosa most the time sadly
The fact that this man still had custody of Lyndsay's children was absolutely horrifying to me. How did he still have custody?!
anastasiagirl1342 ~Especially of Robin- he wasn't even the biological father. Unless he adopted her-? Laws are different in the UK anyway, so I'm not sure. Heartbreaking story
Exactly what I was thinking as I watched this! Absolutely unbelievable.
I thought same thing and the oldest child was not even his.this told me that her and her family were not that close which probably made it easier for this killer to get away with it for so long
One child is not even his
@@EllicottCity1 lllll000
And yet after all that and her begging them for help, her own family did nothing and didn't even report her missing!! That's disgusting, that poor girl was so alone!!
She got pregnant at 17, got engaged, blew it off, met her future husband, and it was a whirlwind marriage, they did not date long. so her parents were O.K. with her being married off in a hurry, she was still a minor, her parents had to give her permission. Likely in the hope she would have someone to support her, so they would not need to. But it would have been good to advise her on birth control, and take a little time to find out how her future husband rolls.
And she got one more child, marriage did not go well and then she got pregnant again, but had an abortion. Then they separated, came back together ..... and she wanted another child.
Mother makes it look as if they had a good and relaxed relationship - so what about some good advice ??
JeeZ !
This is common. Abusers will do everything for control including isolating you from everyone you could ever try to turn to for help..
I know how Linsey felt. Being stuck in an abusive relationship.
I was very lucky. When I finally asked my father for help he said he would but I had to promise him I wouldn’t go back to him. Even though that was extremely difficult at times I kept my word. My father helped me through my divorce. I have a strong feeling that had I left my husband and didn’t have my dads protection, I’d be dead. I know for a fact he had the ability and temper to kill me. My husband and I also got engaged really fast, within a few weeks and got married just 4 months after meeting.
I remember right before my dad walked me down the isle I told him “I think I’m going to throw up”….
I think secretly I was hoping my dad would call the wedding off.
It’s very sad her family didn’t realize how dangerous her situation was.
God bless your father. He truly loves you. This girl's family didn't love her... I speak from experience. Being in an abusive relationship also reveals who your true friends/ family are.
13:22 broke my heart.
The little girl asking “Who’s Lindsey?” innocently, while pointing to a picture of her mother...
just killed me inside.
He obviously doesn't speak of her to the daughter. It's so awful.
The little girl said, (is) this Lynsey? Not who's Lynsey?
The lil girl said: "... and this is Lindsey" and NOT who is Lindsey 🙄
@@JuditaHoffman.
Thanks for clarifying. People often just hear what they want to hear.
greetings from germany :-)
@Rachel F *Lynsey
Awww the little girl told her mom's picture goodnight. That really broke my heart. I can imagine she was probably just waiting for her mom's return and had no idea she was gone. I feel so sorry for the children😞
Him saying "leaving me to do this and looking after the kids. I piss on her shoe if it were on fire" right there is a statement that someone who is not grieving and no remorse is absolutely guilty! All he cares is about himself.
I think it is so difficult for family and friends, when a young girl repeatedly takes back into her life, an abusive partner. Her family and friends obviously tried to help her but when she kept allowing this man back into her life, they gave up and kept their distance. Terribly sad but understandable.
Agree…
This is the best answer I’ve read victim of past abuse
One of the worst and telling moments is when he says "What do they think I did? Shagged her to death or something?" and then laughs! Wow.
Highgate Angel I agree, made me cringe...he is a vile individual
Yeah just paused it at that point to see if anyone commented on it. he has the same cringe as Jimmy Savile in the Louie Theroux doc years back.
when he said that I wanted to punch him
I know. Awesome comment from Mitch. What a guy.
It can happen to be fair you can shag someone to death just dont stop
Her sister's words should be a wake up call to us all "we lost something that we were not really taking care of at the time". I believe she isolated herself from her family, no doubt because of him, I am sure her family were frustrated with her for constantly going back to him after all the abuse. However, knowing that, they and her friends should not have abandoned her, 53 days? Ffs.
I doubt she 'isolated herself', but I think you refer to that when you say it's because of him. An abuser wants complete control, and one of the first thing they do is to try and isolate the victim from family and friends. They can also threaten to kill family or friends, especially if they help the victim or give them advice to leave. It's heartbreaking because she was desperate; the police or the family should have linked her to domestic violence services. It may not have ultimately saved her, but at least she would have known she had options and wasn't alone.
I can see the "isolating herself", I've done it myself. People are supportive when they hear someone is in an abusive relationship, but they quickly loose patience when someone goes back - it's difficult for someone who hasn't been in the situation to understand. When looking at it logically, it's all clear, but when emotion, manipulation, fear, guilt etc is involved, you see how people can be twisted up and go back. If you know anyone in such a position, try and be supportive but don't loose patience if it's a "two steps forward, one back" experience for a time.
Despicable human being. That smirk just leaves me cold. The kids singing at the end was heartbreaking 😭
Guilty or not, I've never came across anyone innocent with a smirk like that.
1. He's a psychopath. 2. Life should actually mean life. There is no country on this planet where the longevity is 17 years. Stop pretending that it's life when it's a fifth. 3. He intentionally inflicted emotional distress on that family for years. Was that not taken into consideration? The abuse, murder and dismemberment is only the tip of the iceberg here. Multiple charges to run consecutively could have given him more than 17 years, could it not? How does that work in GB?
He dismembered her body, called it a carcass, mocked the victim's father and taunted law enforcement. That's a guy that will kill again if given the opportunity. Doesn't society deserve to be protected from him?
Arya's Kill List Our so called justice system is very dodgy indeed. I always say the USA know how to convict people (apart from OJ) but over here you can do the most gruesome of things and still see your freedom beckoning. Would these people act on their urges if they didn't receive the publicity or if they got the death penalty? Our prison system doesn't help these people with their clear mental issues they just pack them together with other likeminded individuals and then go on to do worse once released. They favour nonces with their own little wings and by saying they have a duty of care to all prisoners when prisoners who aren't nonces are beaten daily.
But Mitchel has just recently been denied parole after a petition set up by the daughter robin. The sentence is up now and I really hope they don't eventually allow him parole. I've got a brother in jail who made a silly mistake one night, a fight nothing of this degree of course and he's been put on a thing called EPP (extended public protection) So shouldn't that he saved for individuals like this?
Arya's Kill List he has received a life sentence in theory he could be in for life but in his case he's considered for parole after 17 years but there's no saying he will be released then but he will probably at least serve 25 years
Strangeways - At least the British Police clear up murders (90%+) vs 60-70% clear up rate in US. As for acting on impulses in the face of the death penalty - that doesn't seem to work either as the US murder rate is 4 times the UK murder rate.
A life sentence does last for life, Mitchell Quy may never be paroled. If he is he will be released on licence, any infractions of his conditions will see him back in jail.
I doubt your brother got EPP'd for a first offence, unless it was particularly brutal.
Windbag.
I can't say of course, but I wouldn't be surprised if he got about the same somewhere in the US. You say murder but did they manage to prove anything beyond homicide? (I don't see how). And he got 17 yrs to life, not just 17 years. I hope he never gets out.
Don't get me wrong, if he falls in a ditch and breaks his neck I'll drink to that. I'm just saying that maybe what we believe (and I do believe he murdered her and is a full blown psychopath) isn't that easy to prove in a court of law.
Wow just wow. He is literally smiling and laughing throughout. How obvious is it even without evidence that he killed her.
Criminals are generally idiots, and they think they're fooling everybody... But they're not
That he can smile and laugh like that shows what a psychopath/sociopath he is. That he kept making 95 percent of his comments about himself shows what a narcissist he is. That he caved an hour after being charged shows what a weak, sniveling little coward he is. Hopefully, he experiences the terror he inflicted until his last miserable second on earth.
@@jimbeller7948 He most likely has antisocial personality disorder, he is socially irresponsible, impulsive, quick to anger and abusive, unable to maintain monogamous relationships, charming in order to exploit his victims, blames his victims for what he did to them, exudes superiority, lacks empathy and remorse, displays criminal behavior etc. He should probably be qualified as a sociopath rather than a psychopath because he broke down after he realized they got him.
During the interview he said " her remains."
@@diamonds5457 The point is that the symptoms you mention like impulsiveness and arrogance are also associated with antisocial personality disorder, what differentiates between them is that antisocial people are reckless while sociopaths are risk averse.
I just stumbled on this story today....it has affected me in ways I didn't know possible....I'm in my home in the US in Chicago crying for a girl I don't know....her poor children....I'm so glad he finally faced justice n got what he deserved....my thoughts n prayers r with her remaining family...🖤🖤
“Ive not been completely celibate” “if you get offered it on a plate you take it” “She said it actually turned her on, the fact that she didnt know whether I’d actually done it or not” this disgusting man really said this while he knew his wife was dead at his own hands
Men like him are more common than you think.
This is what a true narcissist looks & acts like..
They are so dangerous..
@@ingridakerblom7577110%, and this guy is the EPITOMY of a narcissistic abuser too
Their daughter points to a picture of her mom and asks, "who's Lindsay?" As Mitchell laughingly reads a newspaper clip of story about his missing wife. He is so self absorbed he didn't even acknowledge this poor child, what a terrible man.
15 minutes in and I already wish I could slap that smirk right off his face 😐 Hideous gargoyle!
Flawless Fluidity Well said. He is absolute garbage.
I just love 💓 that “Hideous Gargoyle!”
You will be able to do soon, his next parole hearing he will be out, pure scumbag
I'm glad you thought the same because that's exactly what I said. Thank god he didn't get away with it,he must be made of pure evil to be able to just keep telling lie after lie..
hopefully, someone close to family would be able to sort something out if he got parole whatever it cost
Makes me sick to see him joking and laughing , it breaks my heart to know that her family took so long to report her missing 😔
Almost 8 weeks of her family not talking or hearing from Lindsey and they still weren’t the ones to report her missing or ask questions !?!?… I talk to my mom every day! And I talk to my daughter a million times a day, and my daughter is married with 2 children also. I couldn’t imagine not talking to my daughter for 53 days!!!! Almost 8 weeks!! They must feel horrible.
She probably pushed them away over and over🤷😢
This story had me in tears. I've never felt this much hatred for someone. That man is an absolute monster
*SERIOUSLY!* ....I want to fight her whole family as well...like I'm GENUINELY pissed off 🤬
Eish me too. I don't even feel bad for hating him so intensely
Eish me too. I don't even feel bad for hating him so intensely
Makes me frightened for the children as well.......Ik if tht happened to me as a kid I’d grow up wondering “am I going to be a monster too just like my daddy??” 😿
Being her Father I don’t know how he even remotely contained himself. I would of had that POS by the balls that night with an answer
Hitting a woman is unacceptable in any form, but hitting a pregnant woman is something only a monster could do.
Tell me the situations you think it is acceptable to hit a man or for a woman to hit a man.
This is a documentary about a psycho murderer and there are plenty of female ones also. Hopefully you will meet one at some point and you can explain your thoughts on chivalry to her as you die.
Have a nice day.
@@JonSmith-cx7gr Oh, stop with your victim mentality. It's embarrassing to our gender. We are much more capable of defending ourselves against women than the other way around. And you know it.
@@jeremyeblack4987 Jeremy E Black Stop and think before you post comments you halfwit. I'm glad that you feel brave enough to write online about how capable you are of defending yourself but in the real world you are an embarrassment to whatever gender you claim to be this week
First you say to stop 'victim mentality'. Then you make a broad and ill informed statement justifying gender violence based on........ how tough you think you are?
Having met violent women I will wish you the same as my previous response which is that hopefully you will also meet one at some point and you can explain your thoughts on chivalry and how capable you are of defending yourself as you bleed out.
Post pics first if pos.
Have a nice day.
As I woman, I approve this comment!
My species is mean, wicked and most have Jezebel spirit.
I am a woman and I keep as far from women as possible.
Jay Morgan no equality
Her family broke the number rule with knowing she was in an abusive relationship: *cutting off all communication with her!*
You always check on that family member… ALWAYS!
I’ve been crying throughout but the boy singing at the end has me sobbing. This poor woman, and her babies 💔❤️🩹
Everyone failed this poor woman.
Taylor Reid erm no! The poor poor woman did not deserve to die but she failed herself massively. What did u expect people to do? Tie her up force her not to go back? No only did she fail herself she put her children massively at risk. Again, i can not say how wrong her death was and i do not feel it in anyway deserved and we all make mistakes but she made thr mistakes not just others
@Sav Mally Took the words right out of my mouth.
She was not a random victim of a serial killer.
She fell for that garbage.
It's not so easy to leave am abusive partner.
They threaten everyone you love which makes it even worse plus I bet he ground her down so she felt like was nothing and thats all she would ever be etc.
Agreed, she needed support and a safe haven, welfare check ups and a caseworker to give her the tools to raise her children and gain her independence and self esteem. Pregnant at 17 and low class family......well that speaks volumes of how her mind would of worked.
@@rachelcookson3492 Exactly.
I can't believe the family had no contact that long, knowing she was abused.
True... My mom talks to me every other day...daily when I work overnight shifts... And she would be uneasy not hearing from in a week much more 50 days... I am sure the family feel some guilt but they are also victims of that narcissistic!
Telling family often seem like it will make it worse.
@@beeblake7591 ya well the family should of helped her since they new what was going on
@@michaelcarstairs2948 That's not really how it works. She will also have kept them away, trying to diffuse situation, or explain things away. Telling them he is different this time. The whole thing about these particular relationships is that the main goal is isolation of the victim. And they succeed.
I totally agree with you, they can reflect now but their living in guilt after the fact, which can never be reversed..all they keep reiterating is " they knew she was dead..
“We’ve lost something we weren’t really looking after at the time”
I think that describes it all
Idk if I’ve cried this hard at the end of a video
I just felt so alone for her and I felt the love she had for everyone else
I wouldn’t want to be her family living with their guilt; so many people failed this beautiful young woman.
Thank God the social worker reported her missing because how long her family would have waited.
so smug, putting the blame on his victim. ...it's sickening.
Like some of the vile commenters here, unfortunately.
@@twelvesmylimit happens in every video, and I don't get it.
They blame the victim in order to feel safer; "this happened to her for a reason, wouldn't happen to me". And hmm, if you blame someone else in order to feel safer, you're a coward.
Absolutely heart wrenching. The sweet child singing at the end has me crying like a baby. The ripple effect of interpersonal violence is as sickening as the abuse itself.
Absolutely
Yes!!!
Me too
Absolutely, beautiful song😢
Did anyone know what song is that?
I have custody of my cousin. Her father killed their mom last year and if it wasn’t for their mother helping them escape they would have been dead too. The pandemic made domestic violence sky rocket. Please check on your loved ones. They’ll rarely come asking for the help out of shame and fear. We have to be the ones who let them know we can and will help them.
Absolutely heartbreaking. Her family lives with guilt for not doing more for her while the actual guilty monster only regrets getting caught.
He's smirking the whole time- he thinks it's a big joke. Wow!
Yeah, but the joke turned sour for him in the end didn't it!!👍👍
It's called 'Duper's Delight'... It's a subconscious response to fooling people
Look at how Mitchell just smiles through this! Sick!
That they got married after only 5 weeks is also a major red flag. Narcissists and other personality-disordered individuals tend to try and lock down their victims as fast as possible, so they can let their masks drop. They cannot keep up the facade for extended periods of time, it's very difficult for them.
Yes, they also often love bomb their victims to prep them for what's to come
Her children singing at the end is the perfect way to wrap up this sad story! She was an absolutely beautiful girl and loving me 💕 this family is so beautiful
He irons polyester sport shorts...? Right there, that’s a problem.
That's a grade A psychopathic red flag!
He probably pours the milk before the cereal too...
@@denaturner8871 My God.
Dena Turner I'm guilty of that one.
@@LynxStarAuto * **gasps** * For Shaaaaannnmme, how could you?
@@denaturner8871 he the type of dude to take a ruler to bed to see how long he slept
Reporter: “Did you kill Lindsay?”
Mitchell: “Wait and find out.”
How many innocent people say _THAT?!?!_
He also nodded when he said it... Bode language never lies
No to mention he nodded his head yes while saying that.
@@demontress
Yes, Ella already wrote that. ;)
Haha I didn't even look at the replies honestly 😂
None!
He’s proud of himself. You can tell he is enjoying the attention. It’s sickening to look at such an evil person, she was so beautiful.
He is a kid mentally.
Those babies would be in their twenties or close to these days. Let's hope they're doing fine and have thrived with their grandparents love and support 💯💕
when the interviewer asked him how he'd feel if her body was found...and he said "gutted". he immediately regretted the choice of words and in that moment he flashed back to the act. he was visibly agitated by it. he began to squirm, fidget and try to shake it off. very telling moment.
Wow! 1979Misty good eye.
42:49
1979BMisty .
Thank goodness we have pinpoint perceptive people such as yourself, well done .
Well done have a cookie and some milk
Aye! Gutted that her body was found,and thats it!
At 34:45 the interviewer asks "Did you kill Lynsey?''
His head immediately shakes yes, it's literally body language 101
What was his reply? I couldn’t understand what he said.... sounded like “I’m friend how”
@@nataliegomez91 wait and find out
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LiTeRaLlY bOdY lAnGuAgE 101
lmao. ok, cupcake.
@@akpokemon having a bad day honey? Hope it gets better! :)
My cousin was also a subject to domestic violence, she has 2 sons and a daughter from her 10 years of marriage with her then husband. She was only the child to her parent. After marriage with her then husband, they moved in to her house cause the parent could not send their only daughter away. Abuse started from the very first month of the marriage and it got worse every time. She had taken blows and kicks with bulging tummy with their baby inside and occasionally every other days. It affected her mentally, physically and socially. It lasted for good ten years, just because she had little to no support from her parent especially her mother (cranky granny) who always sided with the abuser. It's been a year since she finally got divorced and leading a peaceful and healthy life with her children. Irony is that even today her mother still tries to reconcile her with her ex husband.
Chances are Granny was a narcissist also. 🤔
Omg
Prayers 🙏
She was surrounded by narcissists in her life by the looks of it. Who stops checking on their child that they know is in an abusive marriage!? Who goes 53 days without hearing from their daughter or grandchildren and doesn't check on her or call the local police and request a welfare check, or report her missing!!!??? Shame on the people who were supposed to love her the most and protect her any possible way they could and instead DID NOTHING!!! They failed her. What a disgrace!
yeah man its pretty hard to justify ignoring that note...
Wow, so heart breaking! I know it's been over 21 years and her children are adults but my heart still goes out to them. She was so very beautiful. Domestic violence is an issue all over this planet. Hold your family members close and no matter what stay in contact and look for the signs. There are always signs..
Agreed😢 💯
Totally support your answer.
Stay away from narcissists! They shower you with compliments when you first meet them. It is deceitful. As tempting as it is, don't fall for it!
He has some narcissistic traits but it's more likely he has antisocial personality disorder than narcissistic personality disorder, or perhaps he's a malignant narcissist (kind of a cross breed between the former two with paranoia mixed in for good measure). What's most typical about him in my opinion is his recklessness, for instance by inviting the the press into his life to manipulate and use them in his fight against the police (by which he ran a considerable risk of talking too much while being recorded), or by calling the police and asking them if he was still a suspect, or last but not least by telling his children that their mother was dead and making them not tell anybody else (probably when they annoyed him by asking for her). Narcissists generally aren't that reckless but tend to avoid personal risks.
@@JerehmiaBoaz Or he could be a hybrid of both. It's definitely the haughtiness, arrogance, and victim mentality. They often have this sense of entitlement that they're above the law, and nothing is ever their fault. Usually, they find ways of blame-shifting to escape accountability. It is extremely rare that a pure narcissist will actually kill someone. I agree, he has a mix of traits from the Dark Triad which contains psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism. Also, married after 5 weeks? very often narcissists will try and lock somebody down as soon as possible so they can let their mask drop. It's difficult for them to maintain that mask for extended periods of time.
@@theguynextdoor4978 The hybrid of narcissistic and antisocial personality disorder is called "malignant narcissism" (as I mentioned in my previous post) but it's usually accompanied with paranoia and I see no signs of that. Rather to the contrary, a paranoid person would never call the police to ask if they are still suspecting him (because to a paranoid mind of course they are and calling them would attract more of their unwanted attention).
Here's a regardless that I have an uneducated opinion on...a narcissist and a Cho Mo cannot change. Because they BELIEVE they r doing nothing wrong. Their illness is so grave that there is no conscious. To live, they feed off of the weak, they r like a wolf that hasn't eaten, but comes across a dying deer. They can't believe they r ill. They have collateral damage for generations.
It shouldn't be temping to begin with.
Everyone who is passing judgment on Lynsays family and friends should remember they have the benefit of already knowing what happened. There's a reason nobody reported her missing, she went silent a lot. They have to live with the guilt, when Mitchell is to blame.
I agree. Thank you for saying that!
Lindsey’s story broke my heart. I pray that she is at peace somewhere very beautiful. We hear about these abuse victims all the time and the majority of them don’t seek help. The fact she asked for help and no one gave it is devastating. I hope that the family has found some peace and that her children are well.
"Did you kill your wife?"
"Wait and find out."
WTF?!? This man is so cold and callous!!!
I have a feeling he knows something!
Scorch428 uhm.. he killed her.
@@shaddowgolden1054
They were being sarcastic...
Never ever let him out of prison
Holy moly 53 days. I'd hope I would have someone in my life who would go to the police after at least a week. This poor girl. He's so smug.
Domestic abuse is so difficult to deal with if you know a person that is getting abused, but doesn't want to leave her/his abuser. The sister in law from my sister has an abusive bf. She wanted to get away, my sister tried to help her, everything ready. Then she decided to not leave him. Cut off contact. Then she contacted my sister and her husband (so the brother) again. My sister and her husband were happy to be able to be back in her life. But she slowly started wanting to inculde her abusive bf. So for christmas for example she only came if she could bring her bf along. What do you do in such a situation? You know your loved one is being abused, yet they ask you to smile and invite the abuser to dinner. You know if you say no, she will get isolated and it will be even harder to leave
I can't catch my breath. He is cracking jokes, laughing n smiling yet knows what he had done. This is psychopathic as it gets.
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@K, U aren’t a KILLA Are you really about putting the victim down!!! Wow! First off, EVERYONE'S made some wrong/bad decisions throughout life. And he did leave her a couple times, to go sleep around, which is whatever. Doesn't matter who should've left who... he literally murdered her & chopped her body parts off!! Now those kids have no parents, this was heartbreaking!! But all you wanna say was that he should've left her cuz she was sooooo "bad". You got one cold heart.
*i ain't trying to start no arguments, ain't got time for that... have a safe & blessed night... if you celebrate the holidays, then happy holidays.
*Please try to be kind to other's & think before you speak, words can hurt people & sometimes (if bad enough) lead to worse things.
*Be grateful you're alive, breathing & living a life with your loved ones. ✌
Any normal person when asked if they murdered someone will vehemently deny or at the very least say NO! For him to say “I’m not going to answer that” is the weirdest thing in the world?!
What a beautiful young woman that was cruelly denied the chance to be a mother to her children. It’s heartbreaking.
Love that comment
"We lost something we really weren't looking after at the time..."
mothers of sons have to take some responsibility, they should be teaching their sons to do better. My mother had always made sure that 3 of us brothers knew how to treat women, at every instance, at every relationship me or my other 2 brothers ever had. This is absolutely horrifying that he did this to that beautiful mother....arghh!!
Kindness, empathy, and basic human decency should be taught by mothers of sons and daughters.
maternal deprivation is at the root of psychopathy. loss of the maternal bond which is what happens in US family courts, are dangerously producing a sick society. i don't know his upbringing but every child needs a strong maternal bond. that is being replaced by those men with a mission to maintain control and punish women--like this pos did.
"I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire" wonderful man
VinessaGaming I couldn't believe he said that! I pray he never gets released & that the children have had a secure life 🙏
Stephanie Russell he's disgusting!!
VinessaGaming yeah. Quite a catch
I had to rewind that a couple of times in disbelief
I was in total shock when that came out of his mouth! Wow.
He slipped up there "At the end of the day I'm the only one who knows the truth", and then he caught himself at about 39:25 in...
Yep. Said he was the only one there!
Man nothing would of kept me from seeing about my daughter. If I don’t hear from my daughter at least 4 to 5 times a day I’m calling her. You don’t understand how no one filed a missing person report. 53 days! Lord I would slept on my daughters front porch 🤦🏽♂️
Talking about daughters. Let me talk to mine. It can't be one day if I don't talk to her.
You never ignore someone literally asking for help, all of my siblings have been in abusive relationships, at one point they too ignored my sister getting back into her abusive relationship. All it took on my part was showing her she deserves better and that she is better, I can't imagine how much strength that took on her part. All it takes is one person to stick around, abusive relationships are cycles. And it hurts to watch, but being there when they've had enough and supporting them is the only way they'll get out. I can't imagine the amount of guilt they feel, it's horrible, I hope they all get into therapy
Showing women they can do better just gets you labeled a "nice guy"
@@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 yep...I've seen it over and over.
If my sister gave me a note saying help me, I would help her even if I hated her guts. How heartless to do nothing to help, they all just got on with their lives. It's too late now, where were you when she risked her life to write that note.
S. Y. My thoughts exactly, her family are as much to blame if you ask me. That poor girl, how lonely and frightened she must have felt.
I help people who aren't my sister - unbelievably cold behaviour by all her family - they are to blame why she didn't have higher self esteem to keep him out of her life. She said she was lonely and there are 5/6 siblings and parents - that's so tragic poor woman. The mother was so heartless and quick to blame her friends for not going around - she was their flesh and blood and that should be priority. Hate the mother so selfish.
HELP
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Not all feel like that. I guarantee you my family wouldn't do that, no matter how much I pleaded.
I see the British judicial system is the same here in Canada where "life in prison" is not really life. 17 years? Please. He should be locked away and the key thrown away. And life should mean you leave the prison in a pine box. 😡
sopranomegansaunders he's just finished he's 17 year term but was denied parole, how much longer he'll serve I don't know but longer the better
Joey byrne Hopefully it's for the rest of his life! I'm not sure about the British system but the only way someone can be kept in prison until death for a life sentence (25 years) here in Canada is to be deemed a "dangerous offender". Given our ties with the British maybe they have the same law as us.
A lot of humans don't live a full life term so 20 years he's already served is life already in a way.
Rock Ripper 20 years for murdering his kids mother?! Or for any human being for that matter?! Life should mean life. No if's. No but's. No maybes. He should spend the rest of his days in solitary confinement, staring at 4 walls, & take his last breath in those 4 walls. Since we don't have the death penalty here that's the LEAST he deserves. He is a danger - & always will be a danger - to society & other women. Heaven forbid he ever gets back in contact with those children. I hope they know what type of monster he is & stay well away. He's scum & 20 years is 2 years less than what that young girls age was! Less than her age!
In the UK life does actually mean life, it's just the stated sentencing period (like 15, 20, 25, 30 years, etc) is the minimum sentence they MUST serve before being considered for parole, but that is only considered parole, parole is not automatic for most sentences, especially not for life sentences, and the only way to get out of prison is too convince of parole board over many weeks/months.
In allot of these older cases like this one the defendants where sentenced before the Criminal Justice Act 2003 came in to force, which sets out allot of things and has toughened up provisions. This includes adding "starting points" for judges when sentencing murderers. Currently those starting points are, minimum of 15 years for general cases of murder with no aggravating or mitigating factors, minimum 25 years for using or possessing a melee type if weapon (like a knife or bat) during a murder, minimum 30 years for using a firearm or explosive to commit a murder, and Whole life without parole for very exceptional cases, like for the murder of a police officer, the murder of two or more people, the murder of a young child, etc.
If the murder in this case had happened today the guy would of gotten more then 17 years minimum. Even with mitigating factors this guy would be looking at 20 years minimum, but realistically 25-30 years due to covering it up, lying to police, etc.
How horribly sorry I am for this entire family and community. I hope and pray that they all can begin to heal and know peace.🤗
This tragically horrible story tells how difficult it is to “get out” of an abusive relationship, once a person gets in one. This is true for both men and women. There are more abusive relationships than is known because as the saying goes, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. What is important to note is that abuse does not happen in a vacuum, and oftentimes family and neighbors know, but can only do so much. My condolences to the family. This is truly a heartbreaking story.
The abused suffers in silence. The victims don't want to be a burden to family and friends. They are Depressed and can't find a way to get on their feet, so sweet talkers talks them into coming back. The victims want to Believe in the Good so badly. Got to make up their mind when ,you walk out the door, keep walking, don't look back. I hit the road, not knowing where I was going, asking God to put me where there was Peace and Quiet,where He( God) Wanted me. Ended up 4 States away. Didn't let anyone know I had left or where I was at.
@Marve Lous thank you. Fixed it.
@Marve Lous go back. Reread it. Thanks
First they said she went missing on Christmas Eve, then they say the last time she was seen was on Dec.15th. So why didn't they try to at least call on Christmas day, if not to talk to her the to at least talk to the children?? I'll tell you what...if my daughter disappeared and I thought my son-in-law killed her, I'd be taking him to court to get custody of the children, especially Robin since she's not his child.
Where is robins father to take care of her and keep her safe and the little beautiful boy go to grandparents .!!?? Ummm 🤔 such a tragic loss. RIP Lynsey ❤️🌹 always be remembered ‼️‼️❤️❤️ big lessons need to be learnt here by government ‼️‼️👏🏻
@@porsha-Armanii6969 how's that the governments full peados
Scott francis do your research lov..!!!... it’s obvious 😬‼️ stay woke.
Her family DID try to call on Christmas. Mitch even went to their house to collect presents for the kids. He told her parents that she showed up drunk on Christmas morning and went straight to sleep and then woke up and left again. They reiterated that point more than once in this documentary.
@@gina_st.george they believed she showed up on Christmas morning drunk despite no mention of her being alcoholic the whole documentary.
I truly hope this monster stays behind bars for the remainder of his life. He can't be let out and potentially do this to another innocent woman!!!
Absolutely! he would kill and cut up the body again. Throw them in the trash. Somewhere out there are several women who escaped his wrath. Narcissists go from relationship to relationship. Often they have secret trysts and girlfriends on the side. They love to dupe others, then when she finds out, they flaunt it in her facel. I barely made it out of a relationship like this. 22 yrs ago. Never dated again! Focus on family instead.
My absolute sincere condolences🙏🏻💕
|I honestly don't want to judge Lyndsey's family and friends, and the reason is, because I know a woman who has been in an abusive marriage. The fact of the matter is, the one in the abusive relationship is in an extremely toxic and dangerous cycle that they cannot get out of.
The woman defends the abuser and this does in fact frustrate the caring family and friends. The more the family and friends try to help, and somewhat become desperate at that, it actually upsets the abused woman, she becomes rather protective of her abuser who is now sweet-talking her...
The family and friends eventually decide to stay out of the relationship to avoid conflict with the loved one who they know will be abused again in the near future.
It usually takes an extremely near death experience for the abused woman to leave her husband. In my friend's case, thankfully she made it out alive, but almost didn't.
It's very possible that Lyndsey's family and friends have been at that very same level with her. In all honesty, I think her family and friends were exhausted as they tried to help her and urged her to leave Mitchell many times before, but they got nowhere, as she kept going back. However, every cry for help is important, it's a step closer to her eventually leaving him, like the note to her friend, unfortunately, it was too late.
I don't understand why the family took so long to report her missing, it's quite crazy that the social worker had the balls to do that, she knew something was wrong, she could feel it in her gut. Bless her.
I've never heard of this case before. This is unbelievable and heartbreaking
A tragic story. I was also sad to read that her brother Peter, committed suicide after the body was finally discovered. Mitchell Quy is certainly responsible for Peter's death as well.
oh thts so tragic, i wonder how miserable he must have felt for her sister to be not able to handle anymore and take his own life, its so sad and surprising that there is such high number of cases of domestic abuse
Really sad that a social worker was the one who blew the whistle, and not her actual family.
Meredith Hammett the thing is, her family had a falling out with her thanks to him because she kept going back, that was apparently intentional on his part because he could up the abuse after that because she had nowhere to go, even for a couple of days. I agree, it is a long time but if they were going for long periods without talking then a couple of months wouldn't seem that long.
I like blowing whistles
Her family let her down. She was only a kid herself.
@@likelover6796 Me too
@@warialdasue after having the please help me note, yes, sad. they'll never forgive themselves. but don't ever mistake that it was Mitchell that killed Lindsay. not her family
This sort of horrific cases is rare in my country.Can't imagine how it felt like💔
I have a cousin who just got out of her 16 years of toxic abusive marriage.
Her parents, siblings and close friends knew.
I didn’t know she was being abused til she came crying with a bloody black eye. Imagine for 16+ years- hiding this secret.
It took more years for her to leave him. During those years, she would go back and forth to him- making us fight all the time.
“Why won’t you leave him??”
It was hard. So frustrating. It literally felt like hope was hanging by a thread. I wanted to kill him. I was ready the night she told me but she wouldn’t let me or the police get involved.
We would fight over and over until she would cut us off for months. It’s not easy.
For years, I had nightmares of her being found dead.
She officially left him 2021. She’s doing better. Thank god.
It took years to learn that a victim stays because they’re scared or sometimes they think they don’t deserve better.
For those who have families or friends in this type of situation, the best way to save them is to be there for them. Even when they think it’s okay because it’s what they think they deserve. You need to be there to remind that it’s not okay. It’s not normal. That you’ll be there for them no matter what.
You have to because it takes a really long time to help them remember who they are, what they like.
Wow, you are a great person. I am glad she finally left him, especially after 16 years, it would of been very hard for her.
Yeah...no. The victim is choosing to stay, they also choose to involve family, boss, friends, coworkers in the drama, claiming they want out but they somehow don't leave....some people realize their is sometimes value in victim hood
@@KK-mm8ms You sound like an abuser, a victim is a VICTIM period.
He applied for parole and was denied it in March of this year. I wonder if his kids have anything to do with him, I should hope not.
I hope not too. They should be told the truth about what he did too and not be living with his family either, so he can have no relationship with them if he gets out. Their mother can never have a relationship with them because of that POS.
Wait and find out he said after a smile. He is so guilty and is loving the media attention, typical narcissist. The poor family.
Wow he smiles the whole time he was being questioned, and his response to being asked, "Did you kill your wife?" And his response is, with a smile on his face, "Well we will find out won't we"
My heart breaks for those children...