SOMETIMES, I THINK ABOUT DYING | Omeleto

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  • čas přidán 27. 10. 2019
  • A young woman thinks about dying. But a co-worker may want to date her.
    SOMETIMES, I THINK ABOUT DYING is used with permission from ‎Stefanie Abel Horowitz. Learn more at vimeo.com/stefanieabelhorowitz.
    Fran lives alone and works in an office where she makes spreadsheets and goes about her day with a kind of meek invisibility. Pensive and melancholy, she also thinks about death. She isn't necessarily at the edge of crisis, but she questions her very existence and the seeming meaninglessness of life.
    But then a co-worker, Robert, takes a romantic interest in Fran. As their gentle flirtation develops, it opens spaces within Fran that may draw her out of her isolation -- but it also could let in a pain that she's long-held at bay.
    This Oscars-shortlisted, Sundance-selected drama short -- directed by Stefanie Abel Horowitz, who also co-wrote the script with lead actor Katy Wright-Mead and playwright Kevin Armento -- achieves a gentle yet masterful command of tone and craft, offering a deeply affecting character portrait of a woman mired in social isolation and depression.
    Depression, with its atavistic malaise and sense of being "stuck," can be difficult to dramatize, but the film wraps its slender yet finely wrought narrative with a portrayal of Fran's larger psychological landscape that shows the interplay between Fran's thoughts and the ripples they make on the surface of her life.
    The visual approach of the short reflects Fran herself, with beautifully composed shots rendered in muted, dusty cinematography that often move with a sense of tentative drift. The sound is also remarkably quiet, emphasizing silence and pauses and adding to the isolation and aridity of Fran's world.
    A beautifully written voiceover woven throughout the narrative is key to the film, offering intimate access to the texture of Fran's thoughts as she goes through the motions of work and life. Her thoughts can be richly whimsical and idiosyncratic, revealing a dry, quick wit -- but they also question the very purpose of life itself and disparages Fran's very existence, with a weighty sense of futility that is debilitating and paralyzing.
    When Robert enters the story, it gives both the story and Fran a sense of forward momentum, as well as a sweetly tentative charm. Yet the opportunity for intimacy and connection also threatens to unravel the edifice that Fran has erected around herself, and actor and co-writer Wright-Mead's performance delineates the slow destabilization in such a self-contained character with great empathy and precision. The painstaking care in building Fran's character and world pays off, however, in a quietly cathartic conclusion that is both heartbreaking in its sadness yet hopeful in its vulnerability.
    SOMETIMES, I THINK ABOUT DYING is unique in films about mental illness in that it doesn't pathologize the condition. It's not presented as a crisis to get through or a condition to overcome, but something deeply ingrained within Fran's very being. There is no tidy conclusion, and the arc of the narrative isn't one of triumphing over the odds. Resolutely unsentimental, it is clear-eyed about how insidious depression is.
    Many sufferers of this incredibly common condition will appreciate this, knowing that the hard work of dealing with depression is never such a linear process, but an ebb and flow between isolating numbness and deeply held release. This is a film that honors the reality of how complex and intricately embedded depression can be -- but also honors the tiny yet momentous steps it takes to reach out.
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Komentáře • 765

  • @Gustave154
    @Gustave154 Před 4 lety +821

    The last shot was very powerful... She just needed someone to talk about her suicidal thoughts...

    • @ricemenarq6230
      @ricemenarq6230 Před 4 lety +17

      they broke up after that

    • @arandomperson3952
      @arandomperson3952 Před 4 lety +66

      @@ricemenarq6230 You must be a joy to have at parties.

    • @Gangst3r4ever
      @Gangst3r4ever Před 4 lety +5

      @@ricemenarq6230 then she killed herself

    • @blahblahjumpswing1504
      @blahblahjumpswing1504 Před 4 lety +6

      Dont think it was suicide, just a state, which in some cases it might be alive and well, in others, a place no one really knows. Beautiful and scary.

    • @privatejr2702
      @privatejr2702 Před 4 lety +2

      or she had suicidal thoughts because she didn't have anyone

  • @JJ-xm5jm
    @JJ-xm5jm Před 4 lety +258

    You never know how damaged a person is until to try to love them.

    • @gh1214
      @gh1214 Před 2 lety +2

      WOW

    • @flowersforme375
      @flowersforme375 Před 2 lety +1

      Good quote.

    • @M.R.29
      @M.R.29 Před rokem +6

      So true, and you would not know how much that damage can heal until you love somebody and you are loved back.

  • @zacksaykawlard1300
    @zacksaykawlard1300 Před 4 lety +1048

    Okay this video hit TOO close to home. I have a friend who acts just like this girl and I love her more than anything and want to be with her all the time. This girl acts sooooo much like my friend and I'm wondering if my friend is okay. I'm going to go talk to her now.

    • @paulklement4274
      @paulklement4274 Před 4 lety +50

      Good job if you did

    • @humanityandme
      @humanityandme Před 4 lety +29

      is she ok?

    • @anotherplatypus
      @anotherplatypus Před 4 lety +27

      Could always get some popcorn and watch some really good short films together....

    • @littlered6340
      @littlered6340 Před 4 lety +16

      Joining the chorus of people who are checking in on your friend. Were/are they okay?

    • @antayafairless9028
      @antayafairless9028 Před 4 lety +4

      I hope they seek professional help

  • @Stasiaflonase
    @Stasiaflonase Před 4 lety +800

    I’m not crying...... we all need a Robert to care about us.

    • @SoapySupreme
      @SoapySupreme Před 4 lety +28

      try smoking weed and making grilled cheese ❤️

    • @doronron7323
      @doronron7323 Před 4 lety +9

      How far does he want to get dragged down. It happens.

    • @SoapySupreme
      @SoapySupreme Před 4 lety +2

      No more than one OZ to feel it

    • @costinpatru5450
      @costinpatru5450 Před 4 lety +22

      Speak for yourself
      I need a Roberta
      And these are all manly tears

    • @SoapySupreme
      @SoapySupreme Před 4 lety +1

      Bleed lmk falls barrow

  • @jeffffro7674
    @jeffffro7674 Před 4 lety +1192

    I think this does a great job of showing what REAL people are thinking and feeling. There are so many who struggle just to get through another day. I'm completely opposite of this woman but I fight every day just to get out of bed to face the doldrums of the twisted reality that we live in today! The last scene was powerful. She gets hit with the fact that someone wants to spend time with her, this broke the flood gate and all of her pain pours out. She was good too, I totally felt it, I believed her. It almost didn't seem like acting.

    • @mozuesolympian2988
      @mozuesolympian2988 Před 4 lety +19

      In a way, maybe it wasn't.

    • @Gamer-mm1xv
      @Gamer-mm1xv Před 4 lety +22

      The best acting is not acting

    • @SuperVendetta9
      @SuperVendetta9 Před 4 lety +19

      @@mozuesolympian2988 , we suffer in silence. Pain is unreal. We work, go home, clean up a bit, even if it is just ourselves/body, just to *muster* to do it again the next day.
      It's no way to live. Existing, without purpose is death.
      Didn't think I'd like this, but it was the reluctant surrender that got me.
      You have to be held. Comforted. Loved. Wanted. Needed. Appreciated. But above what I've mentioned, *acknowledge* !
      No one notices until the tree or the bridge or 15 cannons strong when the laws come.
      *PEOPLE ARE HURTING!!!*

    • @SuperVendetta9
      @SuperVendetta9 Před 4 lety

      @@mozuesolympian2988 , it wasn't.

    • @Gallop4Me
      @Gallop4Me Před 4 lety +13

      @@SuperVendetta9 How very true. Everybody is suffering in some way or another. But, we won't let people know the "real" person behind the pain. Everyone is acting in this production we call LIFE.

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry307 Před 4 lety +497

    If you work with, or go to school with someone who just doesn't fit, think of this woman and become a friend.

    • @lperformanceartist3227
      @lperformanceartist3227 Před 4 lety +29

      Jude Lewis very kind of you :)

    • @valarmathei95
      @valarmathei95 Před 4 lety +7

      thank you

    • @ampa4989
      @ampa4989 Před 4 lety +17

      Maybe think really hard about it first. You could be in for a lot more than you bargained for. Life is not like the movies or a novel.

    • @donnamariedavidson5065
      @donnamariedavidson5065 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ampa4989 very true.

    • @krishanubanerjee6955
      @krishanubanerjee6955 Před 2 lety +6

      I did. In school. Eventually, we had a group of misfits where only I was not officially a *misfit* , which technically made me a misfit in the group! We had fun, though!

  • @sampadization
    @sampadization Před 4 lety +200

    Plot Twist : Robert was also lonely and thinking the same things as her.

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +9

      I don’t agree. He may have been lonely, as single people are apt to be, but he showed none of the signs that she did. I just think that he was the guy that she needed to get her out of the rut that she was in. It’s almost as if he knew. And he wanted to be there for her. He never pressured her. He just went at her pace.

  • @TubeYouGuru
    @TubeYouGuru Před 4 lety +173

    This is such an accurate depiction of depression, it's scary.

  • @ivancarlson953
    @ivancarlson953 Před 4 lety +357

    He last texted her at 11:32am. She replies at 5:44pm. Oh the agony he must have felt waiting.

    • @The_Beast_666
      @The_Beast_666 Před 4 lety +4

      Indeed!

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +13

      Why? I mean, maybe for some guys. But men and women’s brains are wired differently. I think most men really aren’t concerned about things like that. If I text someone and they don’t answer within 10 mins or so, I’ll forget I even sent the text lol

    • @mayscreation
      @mayscreation Před 4 lety +37

      @@TampaJohn not if the person is in your head and you're waiting for them to reply

    • @eddygci8
      @eddygci8 Před 3 lety +5

      Tampajohn for some it’s both. One moment you forget and another you’re just “aaaagh”

  • @mirinaim8836
    @mirinaim8836 Před 4 lety +194

    small theory: I think the movie that they watched was supposed to symbolize life. At first, when Fran watched it with Robert, she didn't really like it and at the time, seemed to have no willingness to live. Later on, she says that she started to like the movie more and more, perhaps symbolic of how she is finding happiness in her own life through Robert

    • @Hexanitrobenzene
      @Hexanitrobenzene Před 4 lety +7

      Hm. Interesting viewpoint.

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +3

      I think you may be reading far too much into that, but ok. I respect all opinions and viewpoints.

    • @mirinaim8836
      @mirinaim8836 Před 4 lety +2

      Tampajohn Heh, maybe. I tend to look deeply into symbolisms a lot

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +4

      Dragonfire Nothing wrong with that. It just means that you’re a very imaginative, free thinker. It will serve you well. 👍🏻

    • @ViankaLemus
      @ViankaLemus Před 3 lety +5

      The film was called Little Luxuries, and I think the film represented the small but real luxuries or indulgences that people with depression are often unable to experience, unable to allow themselves to experience. I agree with you.

  • @abdurahimannoushad9195
    @abdurahimannoushad9195 Před 4 lety +225

    'Robert' is played by Jim Sarbh, an Indian actor who has stared in many hit films like 'Padmavat' and 'Neerja'.

  • @abelalexa9601
    @abelalexa9601 Před 4 lety +442

    And the next day He makes her an omeleto for breakfast and she feels a lot better

    • @user-ht2rg5lo2i
      @user-ht2rg5lo2i Před 4 lety +10

      Abel TrX under rated comment

    • @abelalexa9601
      @abelalexa9601 Před 4 lety +7

      @@user-ht2rg5lo2i lol ikr :)

    • @Philamosity
      @Philamosity Před 4 lety +4

      Wait a minute, wait just one damn minute, I see what you did there lmao. Bravo good sir, that is what anyone with a brain, would call a "funny". Well played my good man, well played indeed.

    • @abelalexa9601
      @abelalexa9601 Před 4 lety

      @@Philamosity 🧠👌👍

    • @The_Beast_666
      @The_Beast_666 Před 4 lety

      @Abel hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha ROTFFLMAO dude you're hilarious af! I can't stop laffin! OMG!

  • @Mohammad-my5yl
    @Mohammad-my5yl Před 4 lety +149

    I can listen to her soft speaking to my ears 24/7
    Her voice is stress relieving

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety

      Her voice sounded like Jenna Fischer’s. When I closed my eyes, I could picture her.

    • @ninadshetty788
      @ninadshetty788 Před 3 lety

      @@TampaJohn why are you replying to every comment. I was just seeing replies and I got so many of yours 😂. Anyway nice contribution

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 3 lety

      Ninad Shetty TBH, I’m not sure. When I have time to scroll through a video’s comments, I reply to comments as they come. I really don’t keep track as to how many I respond to.

  • @Vlasko60
    @Vlasko60 Před 4 lety +84

    It's good to remember that people who "fit in" may be going through similar insecurities, anxiety and depression. They just mask it better.

  • @jae3903
    @jae3903 Před 4 lety +113

    the immediate spiralling after messing up when speaking is too real

  • @MatthewC33199
    @MatthewC33199 Před 3 lety +37

    I’ve struggled with intrusive harm and suicidal thoughts before, and this definitely relates the loneliness of struggling with that from day to day. The fact that she doesn’t have any hobbies or strong interest in anything shows that she’s become so severely depressed that she doesn’t enjoy life anymore.

    • @zyxwut321
      @zyxwut321 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Or at least nothing she wants to share. Usually even depressed people still have some degree of interests. In her case, she seems more paranoid, scared and bitter than disengaged. This seems more like the portrayal of someone who's endured deep trauma and abuse.

  • @hawaiiflowerchild3039
    @hawaiiflowerchild3039 Před 4 lety +421

    wow-nice acting, her akwardness made me feel super uncomfortable thats never happened before

    • @swirlingfizz9990
      @swirlingfizz9990 Před 4 lety +2

      hawaiiflowerchild Same especially when she was like I like to tell myself stories about death:-:

    • @mr.notsocreative
      @mr.notsocreative Před 4 lety +1

      hawaiiflowerchild WELL FOOKIN SAID MATE

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +2

      You’ve never felt uncomfortable before?

    • @arieswife8926
      @arieswife8926 Před 3 lety

      Yesss tell me about it! Everytime I watch a video of omoletto Im so very much impressed with the acting of the actors. Very very good.

  • @slowpokh
    @slowpokh Před 4 lety +78

    I didn't expect to tear up the way I did when she said "Why?"

  • @InnannasRainbow
    @InnannasRainbow Před 4 lety +183

    I know what it feels like to fight the desire to die every damned minute.

    • @bobgillis1137
      @bobgillis1137 Před 4 lety +9

      There is so much out there to live for. Hang in there.

    • @InnannasRainbow
      @InnannasRainbow Před 4 lety +13

      @@bobgillis1137 I try. So far, I've fought through 52 years but I never know when I am going to go sailing right over the edge.

    • @vaughanxaviermusic
      @vaughanxaviermusic Před 4 lety +3

      Listen to music

    • @linnlinn6131
      @linnlinn6131 Před 3 lety +4

      How are you? Please talk to someone. Please dont hurt yoirself. Feel free to reach out if you’d like to talk to someone

    • @shmeepness1700
      @shmeepness1700 Před 2 lety

      Why

  • @mozuesolympian2988
    @mozuesolympian2988 Před 4 lety +189

    This is the most realistic thing i have ever seen.

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 Před 2 lety +1

      For real...this is what a crush, romance, new relationship is like for a lot of us.

  • @undoubtedly
    @undoubtedly Před 4 lety +131

    I wish I had someone like him when I was depressed

    • @SoapySupreme
      @SoapySupreme Před 4 lety +13

      Instead, think about smoking weed and grilled cheese 🧀 ❤️ 🌲

    • @Ace-uu4hj
      @Ace-uu4hj Před 4 lety +2

      @James Cotter i wish

    • @dashingmay
      @dashingmay Před 4 lety +3

      How did you get out of your depression?

    • @undoubtedly
      @undoubtedly Před 4 lety +12

      I wish I could tell you the secret to beating depression, but for me it has always been medication, therapy, group therapy and a lot of patience. Also general healthy things like seeing friends, eating right, sleeping and any type of exercise. But be patient and don't be so hard on yourself. Write, in fact write every thought you have. Talk, tell people about what's on your mind. Do something you've always wanted to, a class, a trip a chat with someone. You can always do something different. I see depression as my lowest, so what do I have to lose? I have learned to ride it out, and watch out for the triggers to prevent it next time.

    • @narmada140
      @narmada140 Před 4 lety

      @@undoubtedly i think knowing that u are and accepting it are the first steps, i also think you 'always' need other people to get out of it. Lonelyness (whats often tide to depression) is a litteral pain sensation like hunger is. If you are hungry you feel it so you eat. Loneliness works the same way. If ur lonely you feel it and you have to be social.
      Watch the video lonelyness from kurzgezacht on youtube. It helped me alot understanding other people (i never have been depressed) and i think its confronting but helpfull for people who are depressed

  • @alliep_
    @alliep_ Před 4 lety +196

    This episode is phenomenal, especially the last scene..

    • @EphraimRyan
      @EphraimRyan Před 4 lety +8

      I love how you call it an episode, implies that all the stories in Omeleto happen in the same universe

    • @EphraimRyan
      @EphraimRyan Před 4 lety +8

      Wait.

  • @yeah_haji4720
    @yeah_haji4720 Před 4 lety +410

    "I wonder where he is taking me, I wonder if he wants to kill me" 😂😂😂😂😂😂Ladies.. Is that what you normally think?

    • @chesneectp
      @chesneectp Před 4 lety +91

      Sometimes lol

    • @namitasuberi4178
      @namitasuberi4178 Před 4 lety +69

      Yes.

    • @giocervantes2328
      @giocervantes2328 Před 4 lety +48

      Yup

    • @yeah_haji4720
      @yeah_haji4720 Před 4 lety +7

      Haha so what should we say then?

    • @namitasuberi4178
      @namitasuberi4178 Před 4 lety +60

      I don't know if saying anything will matter. Heard about so many women getting assaulted that it has become like a reflex to think that. But make sure you don't really mean to kill/assault them and it will be fine? 😂😂

  • @elanawills2364
    @elanawills2364 Před 4 lety +83

    The accuracy here is beautiful and painful. Bravo

  • @nathanlewis4938
    @nathanlewis4938 Před 4 lety +76

    I don’t remember Pam and Jim acting like this

    • @strgirl3740
      @strgirl3740 Před 4 lety +6

      💀💀💀💀💀💀 this comment is so underrated

    • @TampaJohn
      @TampaJohn Před 4 lety +3

      Right? Her voice sounded just like Jenna Fischer’s!

    • @nandini1267
      @nandini1267 Před 3 lety +2

      The actor's name is actually Jim lol

  • @RahimaB612
    @RahimaB612 Před 4 lety +37

    Wishing to have a Robert is natural but I also hope I can equally the Robert in someone's life.. It can be extremely tiring to be strong all the time

    • @ellamone9998
      @ellamone9998 Před 4 lety +4

      Poor guy looked so drained after each minute with her. She needs more help than he can give her. Hope she keeps her job and Robert gets her professional help.

  • @williewilliams9966
    @williewilliams9966 Před rokem +7

    the amount of detail in the silences between their word exchanges and body language are really adorable. its like hes really willing to understand her point of view weather she talks or not and completely free of judgement. such a beautiful love story.

  • @prabirdas858
    @prabirdas858 Před 4 lety +80

    Very amazing story line, most of the people think of dying at some point in their life and if they say NO, then they are lying. Life isn't always sunshine, we have hard times also, thanks for the drama, good work Omeleto Team.

  • @bennetchurch5925
    @bennetchurch5925 Před 4 lety +165

    I don’t care what any one thinks but this girl is a savage she sleeps with her feet out 2:35

    • @aidanh4018
      @aidanh4018 Před 4 lety +3

      Bennet Church what a crazy person who does that it’s just wrong

    • @zorileyj.796
      @zorileyj.796 Před 4 lety +13

      She practised being in a morgue xD

    • @asapmobb2503
      @asapmobb2503 Před 4 lety +10

      Bennet Church my feet are to hot in the blankets so i had to make a deal with the demons and children not to grab me by the feet ☺️

    • @augustbelen8026
      @augustbelen8026 Před 4 lety +2

      and I did the makeup on those feet! LOL

    • @jadebruce4091
      @jadebruce4091 Před 4 lety +3

      I do that... lmao what’s wrong with it? My feet get way too hot🥴

  • @samrusoff
    @samrusoff Před 3 lety +8

    I love how the sound editing uses a crescendo of mechanical droning in multiple places to convey the persistent mental droning of her thoughts.
    2:18 to 2:40. The microwave drones on underneath descriptions of dying and being eaten, until the beep clears it all away, and you can even hear her inner narrator sigh at the relief.
    8:04 to 9:28. This whole sequence while driving, on the boat, arriving at the destination, she is in a dark mental fog, and rumbling engines slowly build until the vision of the bathtub, which a foghorn finally clears out.
    7:34 to 7:48 is very similar also, though it's not really a mechanical drone.
    The sound the whole way through was fantastic. The main actress can not only act amazingly well, but voice act too. Bravo

  • @ambreenfatima5258
    @ambreenfatima5258 Před 4 lety +30

    *Omg isn't it Jim Sarbh* .... *I am totally impressed already.* *He's totally killin it in Bollywood* 💖 💙 💖 💙 💖

  • @augustbelen8026
    @augustbelen8026 Před 4 lety +12

    Makes me cry every time I watch it still. I absolutely loved being a part of this project that is so close to home and means so much to me. I have dealt with depression myself so to use my knowledge as a makeup artist to help portray this dark, insidious mental illness was a challenge but also an honor. I hope this film helps others feel some kind of hope and know that they are not alone. We are all here for each other and if you need a friend, I am here for you.

  • @SoapySupreme
    @SoapySupreme Před 4 lety +132

    I smoke weed and eat grilled cheese, I never think about dying

  • @yusefendure
    @yusefendure Před 4 lety +17

    This film draws out your humanity, your compassion for the suffering of others in the most creative way. Stefanie Abel Horowitz is a brilliant artist.

  • @jrseahorse5886
    @jrseahorse5886 Před 4 lety +8

    This is the first one that made me cry, after all that and she said “you wanted to spend it with me?” That was it

  • @eatforhappiness6150
    @eatforhappiness6150 Před 4 lety +80

    Can't believe how good this is. I think Netflix needs to stream shorts. There's too much good stuff out there

    • @MarikaUnsoo
      @MarikaUnsoo Před 4 lety +2

      Why not leave it on youtube

    • @augustbelen8026
      @augustbelen8026 Před 4 lety

      I second this! Would love to see our short on Netflix

    • @brittaniasmith102
      @brittaniasmith102 Před 4 lety +3

      @@MarikaUnsoo exactly! besides, CZcams is free. I don't have Netflix.

  • @raywood8187
    @raywood8187 Před 4 lety +51

    As much as I liked this video for her finally being able to tell her truth, my fear is that if I did tell a person in a new relationship about wanting to end myself, they would not want to see me any more. I only say this from experience.

    • @aziaramirez3932
      @aziaramirez3932 Před 4 lety +14

      I agree, and the fact that this video cut off ...it emphasized that. I tried making a friend in college and the moment I opened up about suicidal thoughts the person said he had to go. And he later just called the police on me, instead of just giving me some advice to seek help.

    • @raywood8187
      @raywood8187 Před 4 lety +9

      @@aziaramirez3932 I understand and I can empathize with you. I lost a job because I confided in a co-worker and she went to the HR dept and told them I was a danger to myself, despite me telling her it was just passive thoughts. People just don't understand sometimes and it's a hard thing to step out and risk. Sometimes they think they are helping and just make things worse. I would have liked to hear something in the end of the video, whichever way the writer decided to go, to at least have a response, if nothing more than to just keep holding her. I promise I will not give up and I hope that you will carry on in this screwed up world.

    • @aziaramirez3932
      @aziaramirez3932 Před 4 lety +6

      @@raywood8187 just knowing that I am not alone in my passive thoughts, (I would not do them) makes me feel not alone. Thank you.

    • @aziaramirez3932
      @aziaramirez3932 Před 4 lety +2

      @Kurt E. Clothier I also completely agree with you. However, it is extremely difficult to pretend to be a different person than who you are, around people. This is probably why I choose not to make friends.

    • @aziaramirez3932
      @aziaramirez3932 Před 4 lety

      @Kurt E. Clothier I definitely see your point. I however don't agree with everything. Nice talking to you stranger.

  • @t.t.5324
    @t.t.5324 Před 4 lety +28

    As damaged as she is, I feel for her and I want to see more of her and her life. Roberts also. Not just because of the ending.

    • @martinwebb1681
      @martinwebb1681 Před 2 lety

      Sadly the boat sank on the trip back so that's where the story ends 🙁

  • @SailorSerenitySaturn
    @SailorSerenitySaturn Před 4 lety +17

    me: [stubs toe in the complete silence of the middle of the night, while going to the bathroom]
    me: A Woman Thinks About Dying.

  • @IvierawoLesso
    @IvierawoLesso Před 4 lety +43

    Her sad face looks like Edward ScissorHands' normal face

    • @augustbelen8026
      @augustbelen8026 Před 4 lety +2

      As the makeup artist who did her makeup, I take that as a compliment! Our goal was to make her look more "deadly" , "gloomy", pale and not fully alive

    • @coyotesong
      @coyotesong Před 4 lety +1

      @@augustbelen8026 Mission accomplished!! I assumed that there was someone quite pretty beyond her terminally fey quality.

  • @aleena.janjua
    @aleena.janjua Před 2 lety +3

    What a simple yet so realistic depiction of the insights of a person who feels disconnected from life and can’t really seem to get out of their thoughts. The thoughts are so overwhelming that its hard for them to convey even the simplest things without any fear.

  • @wadeh2899
    @wadeh2899 Před 4 lety +65

    Damn. That was powerful. Wow. Well done, to the creator.

  • @11101nagw
    @11101nagw Před 4 lety +34

    I need a Robert in my life 😢

  • @buda9564
    @buda9564 Před 4 lety +12

    I like being a Robert. It makes me feel good. But it's hard when I feel like a Fran

  • @jenniferrhoades8956
    @jenniferrhoades8956 Před 4 lety +4

    Exceptionally well done and very moving. The pace and quiet really draws you in and what a wonderful actress.

  • @Noises
    @Noises Před 4 lety +33

    Yeah, I think about dying too. Not at my job with my coworker who likes me and asks me out on dates though.
    Just me at home, by myself, with all my friends and all the people who ever cared about me.
    I don't think about killing myself. I don't think about my dead body.
    I just think, isn't it sad, all those people who were loved, who had families and friends who died or killed themselves and are missed.
    And here's me, using oxygen they could have used.

    • @jennylynch8411
      @jennylynch8411 Před 4 lety +3

      I know how that feels like. How much you want to escape and wonder what really lies beneath the unopened doors of death. But, the one thing that really pulls me in to this world is the possiblity of happiness which might come one day. I just have a little hope. But even that hope fades sometimes. Please don't do anything that might make your loved ones sad. You matter, and who knows? Maybe one day you look at these days and think to yourself " I was really silly wasn't I ?" And laugh.

    • @insanezombieman753
      @insanezombieman753 Před 4 lety +3

      @@jennylynch8411 the biggest challenge is trying to convince yourself that day exists

    • @jennylynch8411
      @jennylynch8411 Před 4 lety

      @@insanezombieman753 I agree. It's so hard to fight with that " you're just kidding yourself. That happiness day it's just a lie you don't live in fairytales." Thought.

    • @Matt_from_Florida
      @Matt_from_Florida Před 4 lety +4

      @@jennylynch8411 Jessica, I have a 24 year old daughter. I constantly try to ensure that she feels comfortable talking to me about ANYTHING because I know it's a tough world out there. Nothing lies beyond "the unopened doors of death." When you are old those doors will be opened for you even though it is very unlikely you will want them to be. You are so young with so many wonderful possibilities and experiences in front of you. Something I got my daughter to do was volunteer to be a score-keeper in the various sports leagues that exist in any decent-sized city. They are overflowing with healthy young men who are mostly single. Whether it's basketball, tennis, volleyball, hockey, etc., they all need a scorekeeper. The male/female ratio is 100% in her favor and she's been asked out on many dates and had several relationships develop from doing it. Please, look into it. I think you'll find it time well spent.

    • @jennylynch8411
      @jennylynch8411 Před 4 lety

      @@Matt_from_Florida hey, thank you for the response. You're a great parent I'm sure about that. And your daughter is very lucky to have you. It seems quite easy for your family to talk about anything but it's very different in where I live with my family. I'll try to talk to them but eventually things will get out of hand. I've tried being in a sports team before and failed many times because I wasn't in a good shape to be a scorekeeper let along a participent of the actual game. I used to just sit on the concrete and watch them play whatever sport they were playing. These couple of months have been very hard for me and I am trying my best to just be a good person towards everyone. And sometimes it just gets very stressful. Thank you so much for the advice I'll try my best to be better.

  • @bigwesj
    @bigwesj Před 4 lety +21

    I live with thoughts like this every second of my life, with or without medication. In the middle of watching this very relatable video... I got a text from my ex... whom I havent heard from in months, and whom I still love very much. Very odd.... I don't know what to think about it, and I don't know what I should say.

    • @williamd1035
      @williamd1035 Před 4 lety +1

      The Wessiah Same man. Only thing is that my ex doesn’t give a crap about me anymore, and there’s no text...

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram Před 2 lety

      What did you end up doing?

  • @mattw-cx50
    @mattw-cx50 Před 2 měsíci

    Balled my eyes out by the end. I can so relate. Powerful in it's subtlety and phenomenal acting. Looking forward to the full length film.

  • @nightowl8862
    @nightowl8862 Před 4 lety +10

    "I've seen you look at me at work, sometimes." - I would never have the balls to say that to anyone. Holy lightning fire!!!

    • @nightowl8862
      @nightowl8862 Před 4 lety +4

      PS: I absolutely LOVED this film! I am an introvert, and appreciated every bit of this! Thank you!

  • @GizmoMaltese
    @GizmoMaltese Před 4 lety +4

    This wonderfully done. Beautifully filmed. Well acted. I love how the text message exchanged is done.The only thing is I get the impression from the movie that she wants to die because she's overwhelmed by loneliness and isolation. If that's the case, does she still want to die when she meets Robert? She doesn't tell him she wants to die but it's so strongly implied. But the audience knows that it's a disaster if she tells him. But I guess it's a disaster if she doesn't tell him. Maybe telling him may save her.

  • @irulan9161
    @irulan9161 Před 4 lety +6

    This was so real...I felt like I was watching myself so much that had to force myself to watch until the end. Wonderfully done!

  • @janicedelosreyes3205
    @janicedelosreyes3205 Před 4 lety +27

    thought this is scary, nothing more scary than a joyful person who suddenly just suicide

    • @blankness8
      @blankness8 Před 4 lety +8

      "Sudden" suicide doesn't happen too often. They've just been pretending to be happy for too long.

  • @priyankak8399
    @priyankak8399 Před 4 lety +4

    Jim Sarbh (Robert)... Amazing actor... Truly knows ... the amount and depth of any character he plays... justifying every single space he is in...¶

  • @ashleyhazlehurst9593
    @ashleyhazlehurst9593 Před 4 lety

    I cried the whole way through this. It made me realise that the difficulty I have to find words sometimes and the disconnect I feel with the world hasn't gone away, I'm just better at ignoring it. I'm sure a lot of people feel the same. I hope everybody finds a Robert. What a beautiful and touching short!

  • @masteryap3169
    @masteryap3169 Před 4 lety +1

    Delightful! Great acting, dialog, directing. In 10 minutes captured my understanding and heart. Well done!

  • @izzy-sj4de
    @izzy-sj4de Před 4 lety +10

    I wanted to give her a hug so many times

  • @rpbajb
    @rpbajb Před 4 lety +1

    This was brilliant! So much feeling packed into a few minutes. Left me wanting more.

  • @emmasuzanne6708
    @emmasuzanne6708 Před 3 lety +1

    I love how patient he was with her. Letting her just be. She had to trust first before letting him closer. And her honesty when she spoke...

  • @baguettelauncher8839
    @baguettelauncher8839 Před 4 lety +12

    it's a loop, you are what you think about the most, if you don't break the chain, you inevitably end up like you expect to end

  • @aliciabrillante
    @aliciabrillante Před 3 lety

    She made me cry too. She seemed like such a nice girl I wanted someone to notice her so badly and I'm so happy that his intentions were pure. I love them together!!!

  • @blaufman
    @blaufman Před 4 lety +1

    Excellent, relatable story this is told very well. Great job by all involved.

  • @jackjohnson9449
    @jackjohnson9449 Před 4 lety +6

    If you are single and alone long enough, you begin to feel like an abandoned science project in the refrigerator. People can feel pretty insignificant when no one loves them.

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 Před 3 lety +1

      Jack..dont give up sweetheart

    • @farahsummers1171
      @farahsummers1171 Před 2 lety +1

      Jack Johnson what a cool name! Don't give up because somewhere someone is waiting for you! You are unique & special! Life can be incredibly hard, particularly at the moment with the world feeling so big.

  • @deepab8241
    @deepab8241 Před 3 lety +1

    Her last dialogue "sometimes i think i am bad". This very feeling that is always with people who suffer depression.

  • @tanmay4217
    @tanmay4217 Před 4 lety +3

    The guy playing Robert is named Jim Sarbh and he was casted in a really big bollywood film. Amazing actor.

  • @tkathn4301
    @tkathn4301 Před 4 lety

    All of these short films are amazing! Especially this one, it's so powerful!!

  • @just_mark5151
    @just_mark5151 Před 4 lety +4

    Wow just wow this short reminds me why I need to be alone sometimes just to remember who I really am and not the character I play when I'm with other people

  • @SP-eo2jb
    @SP-eo2jb Před rokem +1

    Thank you for making such a beautiful, delicate film. So rare to see something with such simple depth

  • @universehasourback
    @universehasourback Před 4 lety +9

    I was getting all anxious so I started reading the comments to calm me down

    • @augustbelen8026
      @augustbelen8026 Před 4 lety

      I hope the film helped in any way, it is definitely a heavy subject

    • @universehasourback
      @universehasourback Před 4 lety +1

      @@augustbelen8026 it it made me think about the power of communication and the lack of it

  • @fallintoreality6819
    @fallintoreality6819 Před 4 lety +2

    enneagram type 5 with a 4 wing. My ex boyfriend was very much this way. And so many didn't understand why I was drawn to him. How I could be with someone who couldn't speak, who was so contracted into his own emptiness, who was considered by so many as strange and detached. But he never felt false or shallow to me, which was refreshing and mysterious to me. Even if he struggled endlessly with feeling empty, he was real about it. He was very special to me, and I have yet to meet another soul I felt so deeply close to. These souls require a lot of sensitivity, patience and compassion in order to come out of their shells alittle bit (they never will come out alot, and that is part of their beauty) and share their intense and powerful feelings and ideas with the world. They just need someone to really love them unconditionally.

  • @samrusoff
    @samrusoff Před 3 lety +3

    I love how at 5:38 and at 10:46 they used the same single word for both moments showing how unfamiliar she is with being valued and wanted. so powerful

  • @extendedfilmproject6789
    @extendedfilmproject6789 Před 4 lety +2

    That was an amazing story...compelling and full of emotion. Love it!

  • @rajpujara374
    @rajpujara374 Před 4 lety +37

    Hey that's Jim sarbh

  • @billmaghan
    @billmaghan Před 4 lety

    Such good acting! Thank you for the flawless captions.

  • @twistits457
    @twistits457 Před 4 lety +12

    Like how relatable it is been alone for 4yr friends left me living on my own my everyday suicide thoughts are like guest to me.

  • @jstanders6973
    @jstanders6973 Před 4 lety +2

    I felt so anxious watching this, initially for both of them.. I then worried if he was trying to lure her away to hurt her (or worse).. A reflection of how we manage, the inner dialogue.

  • @anusreebagchi7297
    @anusreebagchi7297 Před 4 lety +3

    I did not expect to see jim sarabh here... Great acting, great script, great direction. A felt good movie in omeleto after a LOOOOOONG time. Thank you for giving me the a sense of fulfillment after watching the movie.

  • @zevanshuster8441
    @zevanshuster8441 Před 4 lety +8

    Is it just me, or if a guy is feeling this it isn’t noticed as easily? I have had similar thoughts, and I dread the feeling of feeling invisible... I relate to this woman so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @millicent1990
    @millicent1990 Před 4 lety

    I love the lighting in this short!

  • @SuperVendetta9
    @SuperVendetta9 Před 4 lety

    Moment of safety, release, and trust. No judgement. The ultimate falling to your knees in complete surrender/prayer.
    *tears, many tears*

  • @CatMaster20
    @CatMaster20 Před 4 lety

    over the years i've purposely watched sad short films to learn about certain situation and possibilities and to keep and open mind on other peoples problems.After awhile i started meeting people with more problems and soon i became this person who like I don't know how i can say it when i see someone's true suffering I feel every last bit of there pain and how much they've been hurt and it makes me cry so much there so people in the world who are just so hurt a broken and i can't handle it no one deserves to be alone and just lay there feeling no one's there for them at that why i've sorta become this person who displays their feelings and emotions to people are in pain if i meet some who i can just sense that they feel no one's there for them i'm gonna make it clear as day that i'm a fun sweet loveable person who thinks there existence is amazing I want to let people that i meet know that there important and there is truly TRULY someone out there who wants to talk to you because you look like your quiet and alone this short film reminded me of someone i once knew and i cant help but just cry to know that there are people like this who suffer for some reason

  • @Tupapi294
    @Tupapi294 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautifully written. Very good acting. Well done!

  • @user-ui7po2eb1m
    @user-ui7po2eb1m Před 4 lety +16

    The moment we decided as a society not to live with our families simply because we are 18
    Is the moment we condemned many of us to be lonely and alone

    • @bobgillis1137
      @bobgillis1137 Před 4 lety +4

      True, that. Western society has encouraged the dissolution of the extended family, and with it, the alienation of us from our neigbours.

    • @millionaire6849
      @millionaire6849 Před 4 lety +8

      Some people's families are crazy though...just saying

    • @bobgillis1137
      @bobgillis1137 Před 4 lety +4

      @@millionaire6849
      million: True that; I couldn't live with mine !

    • @bobgillis1137
      @bobgillis1137 Před 4 lety

      @@JanetAdebanwo1
      Hi Janet. I hear ya. Fewer arguments, living alone!

    • @Reevay762
      @Reevay762 Před 3 lety

      Omg why this when I wanna leave home to work? I like being alone.

  • @logie_bogie808
    @logie_bogie808 Před 4 lety +20

    SOOO depressing, funny ,sad, cute, and askward

  • @srishtimishra8914
    @srishtimishra8914 Před 4 lety

    Both the actors are incredible. It was so good to see Jim Sarbh in this film

  • @bobbytheblade2550
    @bobbytheblade2550 Před 2 lety +2

    Some of us struggle just to make it through each day. We hide it very well.

  • @atulraj3410
    @atulraj3410 Před 4 lety +1

    This was beautiful. Thank you for this.

  • @Konway3000
    @Konway3000 Před 4 lety +13

    These videos are so inspiring

  • @Te-rt7bq
    @Te-rt7bq Před 4 lety +9

    Damn, she had me glued, each glance and word seemed like pages of untold emotions all locked in and no where to go - much like the star studded faces of Instagram models and the so called beautiful people with a million followers on every social App n still they are lonely. Technology as we know it has created even more lonelier people - the value of friendship n love is reduced to pixels in the App life.
    So much for the Afterlife.

  • @localcelebrity2972
    @localcelebrity2972 Před 4 lety +5

    Superb acting. Could watch again and again.

  • @janewick1082
    @janewick1082 Před 4 lety

    I've been here, that place where you can not make words come out of your mouth, where you want so much to connect with a person but there is this block in your head, and your heart, and throat.

  • @blackeyes3313
    @blackeyes3313 Před 4 lety +6

    he : "so what u do apart from work"
    she : " ...... Dying "

  • @namphugangmei3786
    @namphugangmei3786 Před 4 lety +1

    This is phenomenal and relatable
    Thanks for uploading

  • @jillianlove9359
    @jillianlove9359 Před 4 lety +6

    i totally didn't start crying when the last shot showed.

  • @jaspersilence9328
    @jaspersilence9328 Před 4 lety +2

    Very powerful indeed,inside the cute,and quirkiness...between the dark and melancholy

  • @anbrown93
    @anbrown93 Před 3 lety +1

    Bravo to her! Her discomfort genuinely made me uncomfortable. She did a great job.

  • @onetrickekkowr
    @onetrickekkowr Před 4 lety +5

    I work at a place where i skillfully mastered all my tasks. In 3 years i became an expert of what i do that it became so easy. In fact so easy that i could die of boredom. I sometimes find my thoughts drifting while working at my desk, in an office, on the 23rd floor of a building, in a city filled with more high-rise buildings.
    And sometimes i think about flying.

  • @Theoryofjariatou
    @Theoryofjariatou Před 3 lety

    “Say something” part is so accurate and her reaction after

  • @michaelstele5871
    @michaelstele5871 Před 4 lety

    Wow! Just Wow!
    I felt her pain... their awkwardness - it was nearly palpable.
    Very few shorts have reeled me in like this one did.

  • @chapstickwarrior9277
    @chapstickwarrior9277 Před 4 lety +8

    I can relate to these people because I have dark thoughts and zero personality. This made me feel better.

    • @dinicti
      @dinicti Před 4 lety +3

      I highly doubt the zero personality comment