Meet the In-Laws: First Japanese New Year at HIS Parents' House
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- čas přidán 2. 01. 2022
- Do Japanese in-laws like foreigners? What do my fiancé's parents think about him marrying an American? Watch us spend a traditional New Years back at my fiancé's parent's house in traditional Japanese style speaking to them in Japanese. See how we manage our differences as an international couple in Tokyo.
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Happy New Year! I hope to show you more real life videos in Japan like this that haven't really been shown on CZcams. My in-laws were very kind to let us film this celebration. Remember, it always scores you HUGE POINTS with your significant other and their parents if you speak their language. Let's all get studying!
Happy new year to you too! Hope you a great year!
they seem thrilled to have you in their lives!!! 💕
Congratulations 🍾
This may be personal, but you DO put your entire life on the internet (so I'll ask), is your fiancé Christian?
Thank you for sharing this time with your in-laws it was awesome
This is a classic example of “If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his heart.” (Quote by Nelson Mandela)! I’m happy for you, Anming 😊
Thank you so much! Happy new year!
@@OrientalPearl you are awesome when I went to Armenia 10 years ago we also had to take shoes off
@@jamesw288 When I went home today I also had to take off my shoes.
@@jamesw288 It is a custom in a lot of countries 😂
@@jamesw288 i mean just go outside of America or Australia 😅 no one wants their dirty shoes inside of their houses.
Omg, his family are literally learning english for you and your family, my god, that's so beautiful.
Yeah, and my mom is trying to learn Japanese too.
That's wonderful. It actually made me tear up because I know how different both languages are and when someone puts so much effort into learning a totally different language for someone, it's just heart-warming.
@@ganndalf202 yep same I speak some Russian, German, and Armenian
@@jamesw288 Cool story bro
@@Maidaseu that means you don't care bet
I think the fact that your inlaws took you to church is a very kind act on their part.
For real best in laws.
I was really surprised to see this considering how important it is to go to a Shinto temple for the new year
Agreed! Such a beautiful gesture.
Seriously
I think it was very nice of them but as a daughter in law vey mean of her. If your religion doesn’t allow you to be open minded you shouldn’t follow it. Respect for elders and traditions is sacred. That’s why these ancient cultures are being destroyed by islamism and Christianity. Not cool.
its actually interesting that his parents were fine with the filming - after finding out his dad subbed to you it became super wholesome xD i wish you all the best for this year! ^-^
right i was like this man is so sweet. He's trying to learn a little English and also knows her youtube channel?! Too cute!
Actually yes, this -- Japanese people in general are extremely leery about being photographed/filmed, so his parents are definitely some cool folk.
His family is so sweet!!! His mom saying there were lots of embarrassing photos and his dad saying he might get teased on CZcams. Omg. So adorable!!! This looks like an amazing way to spend new years!! 🥰🥰
I’m glad that you watched to the very end to catch that part.
@@OrientalPearl ah, of course!! I love your videos!! Plus this was so wholesome and heartwarming and it's always so nice to see sweet, loving parents!! 🤗♥️
@@OrientalPearl Greetings from Edinburgh Scotland, Such a down to earth family, I have been to USA, China and Japan plus many more countries but I hope you both have a very happy future with lots of little one's on the way in the near future 😁😁😁
I loved how they allowed all of us to go inside their living room and share a new year celebration with them!
A kind and decent family.
U have 16 squared likes that’s clean af
Very kind family to allow being taped while eating and a private moment with family… very sweet
It’s a very rare opportunity.
@@OrientalPearl Shows how they appreciate you. Daddy with his PC is simply lovely.
Shout out to your future father in law!
Thanks BigDaws. He really loves your videos!
That’s cool that they took you to a church, literally meeting you halfway, respect.
@@OrientalPearl You and your husband look so similar that you look like twins.
The SPEED with which his mom said there are a lot of embarrassing photos! Hahah I love it! Your family seems very sweet. Please thank them for sharing a look inside New Year's Day with us!
We have a similar situation in my own extended family. My elder son fell in love with a beautiful Korean lady and was initially timid about going to meet her very conservative/traditional parents in Koreatown, Los Angeles. This is where the language connection comes in -- my son studied Japanese as his foreign language in high school, and her father spoke 5 languages, including Japanese. My son and his future father-in-law struck up a conversation in Japanese, and when my future daughter-in-law left the house at the end of the evening, her father confided to her, "I like him."
My wife and I are now blessed with two delightful little grandsons, age 4 and 6. Life is good.
Thankyou for sharing, amongst so much negativity it’s always great to hear such positive news and I hope your family continue to prosper and receive blessings.
Cool wasian family you got, nice to onow of korean polyglots from LA
“Life is good”, yeah for now.
yeah Korean and Japanese similar structure so easy to pick up the languages.
@@Aristocratic13 You don't know that. It may last for a long time.
His dad was worried if you were hot or cold, I could tell he cares about you and you will fit in with the family :)
defenitely.. you just feel the warmth and love radiating from them
Not until he watches the video and finds out she put the rice in the soy sauce
@@Harry-qb6sb "gomen!"
@@Harry-qb6sb xD
@@Harry-qb6sb Yeah, I was wondering about that one as well.
Truth be told they won't be too upset about it but I was really surprised why she would do that.
Bruh the fact that they went to the catholic church instead of the shinto church just for her is like such a huge deal and just truly shows how accepting they are of her which is amazing honestly
This was so incredibly sweet! How Tommy's parents made sure to respect your religion and go to the Catholic church was so heartwarming. It was so sweet of them to allow you to share these moments on CZcams. You make a wonderful couple. 🥰 ❤️
The food though… looks おいしい😍
indeed!
Yum
Yup
I agree. 😋
Agree
As an American of Japanese descent, I can say your Japanese is excellent young lady and you'll fit in like a new member of their family. The Japanese are very accepting of those who "marry outside" and your sweet personality and beautiful blonde hair will be loved by all of your new family. Like all proud parents all they want is their new family member to love and cherish them which will most certainly be reciprocated.
This is AWESOME!! Congratulations!!!!
Thank you so much. That means a lot,
How lovely that your in laws were kind enough to share an important family occasion with everyone on film, and how thoughtful it was to include your own faith in the days celebrations. Such courtesy and kindness is not always the case in families and it is genuinely lovely to see the respect and inclusion in both cultures and faith.
I love seeing different cultures coming together. Love has no borders!
It looks like his parents were very inviting and you all seem to have a great time. It has to be a huge help that there isn't a language barrier and your fiance isn't having to interpret everything for you. You can form your own relationship with your future in-laws, which is amazing. Also as a fellow Catholic it was beautiful to see that even in Tokyo I would be able to follow the Mass without knowing Japanese. Great Video!
Glad to have a fellow Catholic here!
@@OrientalPearl You got another one here too!!
And another One :)
One here too
Here too bro man it was refreshing seeing this I’ve always wondered how churches in Japan look considering how little of the population is Catholic
Man your father-in-law is so agressively and comfortingly hospitable that he reminds me of my late grandpa.
I met my in-laws for the first time last year in Yokota. Even with the language barrier, they welcomed me with open arms and have been truly wonderful.
I love getting to see such a personal level of Japanese culture. Amazing how things can be so similar and so different. Eating together with special foods. Saying prayers, sharing embarrassing stories, your parents telling you politely to get your crap off the floor. So nice.
I’m glad that you liked it. This is a very rare video. I haven’t seen anyone else so one like this in Japan.
Oh man, visiting the in-laws takes lots of care even in a shared native language. It seems like it went great! Your Japanese sounds more and more natural as the years go by, and I think his parents must be very happy to speak with you in Japanese. It's really cool of them to go to church for you! They seem really nice. Future FIL has such classic adorable Japanese Dad vibes
Thank you so much. I’ve been working hard to improve my Japanese here.
Agreed. In-laws can be hard. I think it will be easier with his dad then mom. How long have yall been dating?
My sister in law is Japanese and we are British and her and her parents were nothing but incredibly warming to my brother and also our side of the family. At their wedding my sister in law's father did a speech and afterwards did it again in English which we found out he had been practising for months so we felt included.
That’s wonderful! There are many nice families here.
My husband and I have been married 39 years this coming May. He is Japanese and Black. We have enjoyed such a wonderful time together. I tried to raise our 2 young men to learn all about their wonderful heritages. God bless you both on your upcoming marriage.
@Jamie McCalebb 39 years, wow! My parents have been married for about 35 years. Sending hugs to you from California 🥰
Wow !!! Best wishes from Phoenix USA.
As a kid I always was curious about the Japanese culture. And to see this make me really happy and now I wanna visit Japan.
Two families are becoming one, I love to see it. Both are so open and willing to respect each others cultures and backgrounds, it's wonderful to see. Here's to a perfect marriage to come! :)
I can’t wait until my mom comes here.
@@OrientalPearl That will be AWESOME!
@@OrientalPearl Your mom will definitely be worried but it will all fall into place in the end I just know it.
AWESOME COMMENT ❤️ 😊
I wonder if it would be a different is she was black.
I too am a catholic and married to a Japanese man
We are quite a blend both racially and in religion My husband is a buddhist monk
Yet I remain strong in my catholic faith
I am from Sydney Australia My husbands hometown is Hiroshima
We have been married now for 40 years and although I have spent times feeling homesick for my country
Our marriage remains strong Our families have been very supportive to us We were very lucky
I wish you both the best in everything. Have a wonderful future together You are a lovely couple
I would like to ask a personal question, feel free not to answer, but I'm genuinely intrigued as to how you can hold religious vows when you're of different faiths and strongly religious on top of that? What I mean is, religious mariage, at least in the Abrahamic religions, is a vow before a God. So how does your husband feel about that? Is he true to your god? Or do you just accept that he isn't, being of a different faith? But then, what does that vow and ceremony mean?
I get being in love and respecting a vow to one another, but the strong feelings about religion strike me as a hurdle considering the way religious mariage works with a third party (a god) involved.
Hello from home.
(I'm from Melbourne but close enough)
@@k.v.7681 for me personally, my partner and I, if may have different religion it doesnt stop me from loving her, if it takes me to vow to her god to stay with her I will gladly do so and I know she will do too. Though conflict of religion may seem to be a problem at first, but with real love there will never be that problem
I thought Buddhist monks can't marry
@@Martin-iw1ll You can be a buddhist monk and not be in monastic pursuit or follow all the buddhism paths to liberation. Also, its possible to have buddhism pratictices and be non-religious or follow an other religion; there is no "God" teaching in buddhism (unless you follow a sect).
As someone from Idaho, I REALLY didn't expect to see an old Japanese man watching East Idaho News on youtube. 😂 So random, but it made my day! Most people don't know we exist.
It was too funny 🤣
It’s so wholesome and cute. I’m a Christian too and honestly this was my first time seeing a church in Japan, that was really cool too. Wish you both the best. A really happy family.
I moved to Germany from Ireland and married a German girl. That was 13 years ago and i'm still here but I still remember the culture shock. It took 2 years to learn how to navigate the culture and feel comfortable. I Consider it one of my greatest achievments.
Props to you for coming! Did you manage with the notorius German language?
@@gamegreg went for 2 months I wanted to pick it up but it’s a lot harder than I thought. I feel like picking up Arabic was easier
congrats
though this comment is a bit ironic for me since i'm half-german half-irish
Hätte gar nicht gedacht, dass es zwischen Irland und Deutschland einen so großen kulturellen Unterschied gibt. 😅 sehr interessant zu lesen. ☺️
German here who married an American and moved to the USA. I hope you're over the German culture shock and feel at home now. Germany went pretty nuts the last few years because of the pandemic while here in the US we enjoy more freedom again. How do you handle the German grumpiness and lack of customer service? Last time i went back to Germany i had a severe reverse culture shock and noticed many things about our culture there that I don't miss. Hahaha Hope you're doing well!
The fact the step folks took you to the Catholic church says a LOT!!! That is huge respect toward you. And, the fact you've learned Nihongo so well earns you a lot of respect.
I was so happy to see you guys go to the Catholic Church for Mass on New Year's, the church was so beautiful, and for you staying faithful to the teachings of the Church. God bless you all
11:00 please tell this lovely man greetings from germany. I love that he watches CZcams videos in English despite not understanding everything, but he got the context.
That's how I improved my English too. I bet he's much better now at understanding and speaking than 2 years ago.
He raised a wonderful son.
How sweet of them to take you to church knowing you're Catholic aww 💕 they are adorable
Pearl, I’m Catholic too and that was cool to see a part of Mass sung in Japanese. Your in-laws are really rolling out the red carpet for you. Thanks for sharing. ⛪️🍣🍱
Rolling out the carpet for all of us
@@ICANanimations A-men to that! 🙏🏻
I'm Catholic too and that was really beautiful to see and hear a part of mass sung in Japanese.
@@mione134 Mione? 🤔 Do you think that we could sweet-talk Pearl into recording the part of her Japanese Wedding Mass that ,(of course), does not involve the Consecration of the Hosts? I would be pleased to be allowed to see as much as we could be privileged to see of her Wedding Mass. 😀👍🏻
@Matthew Jay Oh that would be absolutely amazing to see. I don't know if she'd do it, however that would incredible to hear and watch. How wonderful that his family brought her to Catholic Mass and that theyre getting married in a Catholic church. It warmed my heart. I think seeing any part of her wedding, if she films would be lovely!
Japanese is such a beautiful language.
Yeah even though it's a difficult language to learn
You guys are all so freaking adorable..I love how you and his family try hard to be respectful and kind to each other. What a beautiful holiday. Thank you for sharing it with us..
I remember the first time I visited my girlfriend's parents( I'm iranian and she's italian)... this really shows how people are the same all over the world. Full of love, joy to live and care for each other... keep up the good work! You're doing great.😊🎄🥳
I'm American, my partner German. Humans are human, take away language barriers and we all are more alike than not ❤
My (American/British) best friend moved to Tokyo a few years ago and he married a Japanese woman in 2019! I love the juxtaposition of cultures. Even when they celebrate Thanksgiving it has such a cool Japanese vibe and the fusion is so cool to me!
I am curious about how they live the fusion of the two cultures to celebrate Thanksgiving :)
Having grown up Catholic myself the whole church scene was so fascinating! Very cool addition to the video. Cool stuff.
Being married into a Japanese family, I had many of the same worries. My father-in-law was more worried about our financial stability, which I have. So, he didn't mind us getting married. At first whenever we would go to see him, he was very quiet, and serious. I thought he didn't like me for the longest time, but it was because his work life is very stressful. He asked me out to drinks once. As soon as this man got one drink in his system, it was like night and day. He was laughing, smiling, and singing. I don't drink as much as he can, but I still enjoy going out with him.
Your in-laws are so respectful and it’s mutual! Love this interaction🤩
12:34 Tell the dad he won't be laughed at. Most of our generation are thirty-something-year-old kids. That's how we are.
Congratulations. Live long and prosper.🎇🎆🎉🎊
That’s good! He’ll be relived,
I'm older than the norm 59 yrs. I find other cultures fascinating. The interactions between you and your in laws to be was sweet and very accepting.
I have never been able to pursue my dream of going and learning Japanese, so I am living my dream through your videos. THank you for that
Japanese culture and discipline is like I’ve never seen before.So much love and respect.
Happy New Year and congrats on getting engaged! Such a touching video! Reminds me of my time with my host family in Japan. 😊
Thank you so much Ikenna! Happy New Year to you! Wishing you and your family nothing but the best. I hope your health continues to recover in this new year. I’m glad to see that you’re strong enough to post videos again.
Awwww, you guys are so wholesome. Awesome to see you too language youtubers supporting one another. All the best to all reading !
@@OrientalPearl
Next up... babies
So happy for you the fact that you’re an American who fell in love with a Japanese guy and adapted so quickly to both Chinese and Japanese culture and language. Very impressive. I think a lot of Americans can learn from this!
Thank you so much for your kind words.
Its nothing special
This was so fascinating, charming, fun and interesting. Thank you, and Tommy, and his parents for sharing the special day and special moments with us all. It was great to see an authentic slice of Japanese life for your family.
My favorite American - Japanese couple story comes from the early 1970s. She was American, of obvious Irish descent, but born and raised in Japan (Navy brat), and fluent in Japanese. He was American, of Japanese descent, but born and raised as a second-generation Los Angeles native, and not at all fluent in Japanese. When they visited Japan, the locals always tried to talk to him instead her ... . :)
Breaching the language barrier was HUGE for connecting with the inlaws. It allows your personality to connect with them directly. Congratulations. On another note, in the catholic church, Jan 1 is the solemnity Mass for Holy Mary, Mother of God. As always, you don't need to be in a specific place to pray to God, just do it. I'm praying for many blessings and success on your channel in the upcoming Year!
Koun o inoru! 幸運を祈る！
Thanks! Since about 4 years ago when my grandpa died I got in the habit of praying everyday to pray for him to go to heaven.
@@OrientalPearl yeah, it’s always good to pray for other people. You give thanks for what you have, ask forgiveness for your little desmadres haha, and then make your requests. It’s a wonderful thing.
On another note, I also married outside my culture. Both of my in-laws didn’t speak a word of English so understanding the language and culture was critical to connect with them. They were from Mexico. Both are gone now but my mother in law lived with us for 13 years until she passed away at age 85. She told everyone that considered me her son.
@@davidholden4543 What does "desmadres" mean? I'm not a religious person so I don't pray but I sometimes think of my deceased family and how much I owe them. Maybe that counts too.
@@kaltaron1284 Hi Kal. “Desmadres” is a Spanish word that roughly translates to “little disasters.” I live in the southwest US, so some of this Spanish mingles in our everyday conversation. In the praying context, a desmadre would be little sins like being rude or unkind while bigger sins are like robbing a bank or being a mass murderer. Hope this helps.
@@davidholden4543 It does. Thank you for explaining.
His parents are amazing and really putting an effort to integrate into the family more easily. It was really cool to see the dad browsing CZcams. Happy New Year and my best wishes to you and your family!
Yep at the end of the day people are people. And here we find a group of people more focused on what can bring them together than what might divide them.
Thank you and your husband and his parents for letting us share this experience with you guys. So very happy for you.
Intercultural marriage is beautiful. Your parents in-law were extremely respectful family's.
Love that they were willing to respect your religion as well. Mutual respect is awe-inspiring. With that said, I was a bit confused about stating, "sorry to bother you" when leaving the parent's home, especially for the New Year.
My Japanese is nowhere near fluent, but I believe the phrase "Ojimashimashita" is often said when visiting friends/family as a custom
My mother, a Japanese American, would always stress not bothering others or make them feel obligated in anyway. That and bringing dishonor to the family was highly emphasized.
@@tdnishio I understand. It just was odd for me as I'd had never heard that while living in Japan.
My Japanese teachers taught us that we should say that whenever we visit someone’s house in Japan.
@@rachelcookie321 Your teacher taught you well.
Thank you for sharing, such a personal thing. I see this as very private and it was nice of his family to be so willing to partake.
It took a little bit of convincing. His dad was all for it, but Tommy’s mom wasn’t super into it until he told her few Japanese are watching.
@@OrientalPearl overall not too bad. I'm surprised that Tommy was good with it. There is a lot of risk, but it was so nice to get such a glimpse of your personal life. Very happy for you two.
Thank them for welcoming us into their home and showing us your love's culture. This channel is amazing. Stay blessed, folks.
Your video brought happy tears to my eyes. You, your husband, in laws are such joy. The kindness, the love, and joy are such a wonderful blessing. May your new year be a very blessed and lucky one. May all that you guys do prosper and may your wedding day be the most joyous occasion of your life. Thank you for sharing your life and family with us.
Japanese homes are so cosy! I love those little tables with the warming underneath and how they are the centre of the room. Seeing a Japanse Catholic church is surreal though.
I hope to make more videos showing church life here.
@@OrientalPearl Please do!
The little tables (kotatsu) are all good until they're the only source of heat in the room. Japanese houses are often cold and drafty in the winter. Absolutely frigid. 🥶❄️❄️
@@TsukimiKurashita They seem like a great idea. I wonder why they're not popular elsewhere?
His parents seemed like such open people. Very nice New Year’s video Thanks!
His parents seem so sweet, glad you guys had a good new year
This is the most wholesome thing I've seen on youtube in a long time. My heart swells with how amazing and nice everyone is towards you . It makes me have faith in humanity.
That’s wonderful! I’ll keep giving you hope!
As a Catholic myself I always wondered what a Japanese mass looked/sounded like. Very reverent and beautiful! And your in laws are so cute haha Happy New Year!
I would love to show more of Catholic life in Japan.
Why?? Do you go around telling people everywhere you go not to like drinking with friends or not to watch action movies or do anything cause we’re all sinful? Smh I have such bad experiences with people growing up who are religious. So closed minded and illogical. I would not trust them to run a country
You would be surprised with Catholicism in Japan. In fact they have a place in Akita where the blessed Virgin Mary was said to have appeared before a Sr Sasagawa. A lot of catholics do not know of it, but it is so important. It is a continuation of Our lady of Fatima where the 'real" third secret of Fatima has been revealed. I am not sure if it has been officially approved but unofficially the person who was looking out over this was one Archbishop Ratzinger before he was a Cardinal and a Pope. When he looked at what was happening he had no problem with the messages given and declared it sound Catholic doctrine.
@@natedill9180 The whole "alcohol is the devil" thing comes from certain branches of Protestantism which are popular in America. There are many things wrong with Catholicism, and religion in general, but saying they're all "no fun allowed" is not accurate.
Some of the world's oldest existing breweries were founded by Catholic monasteries, and several are still run by monks.
@@natedill9180 The irony of that comment is absolutely glorious!😎
What a sweet, wholesome family. Both of these parents are so thoughtful.
I forget about how much I love your videos until you post a new one. Thank you for today’s, it got me watching your older vids again. x
Thank you so much for watching the old videos too.
The way how his parents were so kind to her,it was so amazing to see,they are soo kind!!
You guys are so adorable and everyone is so respectful of each other. It’s nice to see in-laws like that. Just a wonderful family all around. Many blessings and much luck to you all!
My uncle moved to Japan over 45 years ago, married my Japanese aunt, and raised their son in Tokyo completely English-free. Inspired by my uncle, I studied Japanese throughout college and came *thisclose* to moving there, but my life took a left turn. I *LOVE* watching your videos and vicariously enjoying a glimpse at what my life could have been, as well as getting more insight into the lives my closest relatives live! Also…hearing Mass in Japanese was completely unexpected and so fun.
How nice of them to have you make a video of something this personal. Lovely people. 😄👍🏾
My sister-in-law is Japanese. I would love to learn Japanese because it’s a beautiful language. I was able to take about a semester before I had to drop classes due to a surgery.
But it would be nice to learn to also use it with my sister-in-law and my niece as she gets older! And travel of course
It’s never too late to pick it back up again.
@@OrientalPearl how
Hope you're well now. As they say the best time to start learning new language is yesterday, the second best - today. Don't wait just grab whatever you can find online go to Reddit get some apps and it'll be a start. :)
@@alondraalvarado6635 thankfully due to the digital age we have alot of apps to learn that make it alot easier. Then you go out and practice. Alot of international markets.
@@alondraalvarado6635 Duolingo? It isn’t perfect, but good enough to get you started. I use it for Indonesian and Arabic.
I found the video early today. This is an interesting look into parts of Japanese culture we would otherwise miss out on.
I’m glad you liked it. I hope I earned your subscription. More educational videos to come.
@@OrientalPearl I've been subbed for a while. ありがとうございます。
Apparently I wasn't subbed. Thought I was. Watched tons of videos and it's always in my feed. 😅 すみません。
Incredible video! Thank you for sharing this moment with us!
I have relatives and friends in a mixed language marriage. The fact that you put for the effort to speak his family's language is the greatest blessing. My mom has the hardest time relating and communicating with my sister-in-law, even though my mother understands English, it is a definite barrier to getting actually close to them and having a warm relationship. Good Job and Stay Strong, it is a challenge, but so worth it!
The acoustics in that church! The architecture is different than what I've seen, but still beautiful in a sleek, modern way. I grew up Catholic as well so it warms my heart that your future inlaws brought you to church to worship and pray in your own way on New Years.
So happy to see how well you and your future japanese family fit together here! Love your videos and happy new year to you!
It's so neat to see you go through the same thing I have been going through for many years now. (17 years married) I have known and been a part of my in-laws family since 1994 (28 years, WOW) when I first met my wife. Our daughter is now old enough to respect the customs of her maternal family. It is also neat to see her learn the culture. My mother-in-law was born in Japan, my father-in-law is third generation Japanese American. My daughter is able to understand the language a little more than I can and I am no where near your comprehension. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Thanks so much for sharing your story!
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing this special interaction.
I am Australian, and I loved seeing our flag.
You are all very humble and kind.
I wish that there were more kindness and genuine caring family units like you both have.
They are so lovely! And on a side note, lived hearing Auld lang Syne in the background. I cry every new year here in Scotland hearing it where it is from. Just brings so much emotion.
So wholesome! That’s so sweet his parents took you to church for new year’s. I hope this year brings you many blessings, Anming!
All though it is a plus to speak the same language, what is most important is that both parties decide to accept each other. Even when the in-laws speak the same language and have the same cultural traditions, if either side is not open or worse dismissive of the other side, issues will arise. Your in-laws are obviously aware that you are not Japanese, but they have accepted you as their sons choice. The fact that you can communicate in their language is a plus, but you are also aware of and honor each others cultural and religious traditions. The very openness displayed in this video, bodes well the future. Probably the weirdest thing to deal with, is you being a CZcams creator, and videoing your interactions. That is not yet a everyday thing, although it's becoming more of a reality, because technology has improved, so that more people are recording their lives.
This was truly a beautiful interaction to view. Many thanks to your in-laws, Tommy, and you for taking us along. An auspicious Year of Tiger has been ordained for Tommy and by extension you. Happy New Year looking forward to watching, and hearing the Tiger roar.
They were super cool to let us film this and post it. That’s very rare in Japan.
@@OrientalPearl I thought it was also truly awesome that your future Father-in-law name dropped this CZcamsr that he had subscribed to called "oriental pearl". He showed an interest in who you are and what you did by doing that. I'm sure he appreciated that you try to bring Japanese customs and society to others as well.
Barely three minutes in and I love everyone already! They all seem like really lovely people. 💙
4:30 that was so nice of them. You really have a very special and loving family there 🥰
Congratulations on your engagement. Life is full of surprises. Did you ever imagine, you would end up in Japan planning a wedding? When is the big day? I truly hope you give us a glimpse of the ceremony and reception.
Ha ha, I did imagine getting married in Japan one day, but I thought I would live in China longer first.
I love how you're so relaxed around his parents, very natural. No wonder they like you.
I am new to your channel and so far enjoying your videos. It was so sweet the interaction between his parents and you. I love how he still acts like a kid sometimes lol. And it was so nice how they accepted you being catholic and taking you to church first before doing their traditional things. I was married with an Indian man but we are separated. His family also treated me like this very loving and took care of me even though they didnt speak english. They're always thinking and asking about me.
As a Catholic I instantly recognized the chant and already love your in-laws for how considerate they are. I am so proud of you that you stand up for your faith and still integrate yourself in the culture. Good for you! Wish I had your multilingual skills. God bless on your most beautiful matrimony!
I found this video so moving. I really did. It touched my heart. What an extraordinary life you are living. I feel so grateful that you are taking us all along to experience so much of this journey with you. Seeing his family and their new year celebration is so incredibly amazing. This is the most unique experience I’ve ever had on CZcams. Your content is truly amazing. My parents lived in Japan for the first two or three years if their marriage so I appreciate this from such a personal sense. It somehow makes me feel closer to them. God bless you. You are doing such a great job of documenting everything. Just truly awesome!!
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I’m so happy to hear that! It’s so cool that your parents lived in Japan too!
I always really love seeing the co-existence and mutual respect between different cultures. Never ceases to give me hope for the compassion of humanity.
So cute. Can't believe I'm watching this for the first time on new years eve exactly a year later. His family are amazing, you are very lucky!
Better late than never right
That’s so sweet of the parents! Love this vid so much.
This was so wholesome. Thank you (and your in-laws) for sharing your new years with us As someone who lives alone and spent this time alone, it made me feel less lonely x
We are with you! Sending love from Japan.
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When u absorbed the culture and language .. people will look at you as part of them no matter what skin or where you are from .. by the way I love you how enjoy holidays and new year ! Happy new year to you❤️
This is so true!
What nonsense is this? Just because they speak same language and do same culture, it doesn't change the fact
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This was so cool to see! Thank you for sharing it with us ❤️
I just found your channel. This was amazing. It felt so cozy and welcoming because of them.
Just wanted to say thank you to your partner and his family for letting us in on their culture and this important holiday! Thankful Xx
Wow! So glad to see this side of your life. Hope you have a happy and blessed life ahead ❤️
I’d love to share more!
He looks so fun.
Positive energies from both.
Wishing you both well.
That is so cute and thoughtful they went to church together with you, how lovely and welcoming.
His family is so sweet. It was a delight to see that they even went to Mass (that was also a treat to see). Thanks for sharing this! God Bless you all this New Year.
Aww hun he look so sweet as a child you picked the right man to marry and I send my happy blessings to you and your future husband and long life with him. I’m German too.
Thank you so much!
You are a beautiful young lady and very intelligent and very much loved.
Congratulations on the upcoming marriage. My wife and I were married in September and I spent my first New Years with her family in Okinawa. I hope this year is blessed for you both.
New subscriber here. You two look so happy and cute together. His mother and father really seem to welcome you whole heartedly into their family, and seem very loving. I wish you both a long, healthy, loving and prosperous life together.