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I am of Greek heritage with 3c hair. I despise people who try and shame and gatekeep basic care and proper hygiene over race. Its so utterly absurd.
There are some ancient Greek styles that only work with really curly hair!
Most of Greek women have curly hair, even almost what we call afro hair by nature (myself included). They make it sound as if it's uncommon for non black people while it isn't.
No matter what color you are, your grandma wore a hair bonnet to sleep in.
So did my mom, though hers was more of a scarf. I also have curly hair, that mostly just looks frizzy these days because now that I am older, I just don’t go out that often. I mainly leave the house to shop, or go to my mom’s, and run her errands. It is mostly pulled into a bun or ponytail so I don’t have to mess with it. 😂😂 My man is always surprised when it’s down because he forgets I have long hair.
Thank you 💯 I get so tired of this narrative. Black ppl aren't the only ones with curly hair. Get over it!
Hey look at Weird Al Yankovich ...white nerdy and frizzy haired!
Us heavy loose curl people deserve to have nice hair too. Just because some people don't want to/or don't have to put the work in, doesn't mean our hair isn't curly. It just needs help remembering what it's supposed to be doing. It's like having hair that has ADHD.
I proudly have hair with ADHD ! And I would say the “Hyper” is there … cause when there’s moisture in the air - it goes out of control!
Depending on the day I’m between 2a and 2c
I’ve spent the last 20ish hrs straightening the heck out of it because before that managing the rats nest was so difficult. Which causes it on occasion to look more like 2a but after a wash without any treatment, my hair is more like 2b-2c
Any easy quick tips on defining the waves .
I have adhd and so does my hair.
I just have to laugh at the whole “white girls can’t have curly hair” nonsense. Like, they’re telling me my hair is a lie? It’s a figment of my imagination? WHAT. 😂😂 so silly.
They are just making racist comments and think they can get away with it because it is directed towards people with pale skin.
White can’t have curly hair? Tell that to my hair😂😂😂😂dunno what type it is, but it’s fully have natural ringlet curls that happen occasionally
Of course White girls can have curly hair! One of my daughters had ringlet curls until she was 30! Not so much anymore! 😢
My ex wife and the ex girlfriend before her has curly hair and they are both whiter than sour cream.
@@Kara_Kay_EschelI doubt they are "white than sour cream."
Racist comment.
Oof. All the Greek, Italian, and Irish girls with curls are like “excuse me?”
Yes, Italian, I fought it my whole life. Now I embrace it.
I am Slavic and also curly.
Irish and Italian mix checking in....excuse me FOR REAL!
I am German and also curly.
Scottish too, with red curly hair
Im white, my mom is german and my dad is irish- my dad has red curly hair and my mom has black/brown curly hair. i was told my friends to never use a bonnet when i mentioned buying a silk one to help with frizziness and i was then told that white people can’t used bonnets, only black people. We also deserve to have nice hair, just because black people use them doesn’t mean im not going to.
European wore bed bonnets/night caps for centuries ...its not exculsive
Ignorance plus arrogance equals CRINGE
Imma mixed ethnicity woman who cuts MY wavy curls short to save time and money.
Amazing. Those people don’t realize that bonnet’s were invented by Europeans. 🤔
@kelllefae3026 actually the origins are unclear so
My hair has different layers of texture and it's so annoying to style. The top is loosely wavy, and the bottom (temples and nape of the neck) are frizzy and tighter curls. Only as an adult, thanks to social media like yours, have I learned that my hair is wavy/curly.
Growing up, I always hated how frizzy it got, especially all my baby hairs when I put it in a ponytail. But now that I understand that I need to nurture it and not fight against it, my hair looks so much nicer and my confidence is much better! Thank you for helping more people learn how to care for and embrace their natural hair textures, and stop trying to straighten it into oblivion!
A lot of white folks have what I call the “Celtic fro” mostly Irish and Scottish decent I have curls but not the fro but I do love fros and I always thought they were so cool! Like little shrubs you can sculpt them ❤
My grandma had hair like that curls and corse texture, brightish red and she wore it short. I remember how frizzy it would get in the humidity.
I’m Armenian and Jewish.
Curly hair is common on both sides.
Are we going to argue about curls? Really? There are so many problems in the world, hair is not one of them.
Do whatever you feel like with your hair
Yeah but some people think that they are born with it when your not
@@DreamiMusho so what if they’re not?
Why does that make any difference?
People with straight hair get expensive perms and do whatever it takes to to make their hair curly, people with curly hair get very expensive straightening treatments and get wigs made out of straight human hair.
So both sides do pretty much the same thing.
So there is really no difference.
Hair is not something to argue over
Sorry honey I am of Scandinavian/Irish descent (blond/red hair and green eyes) and my hair is tightly curled from root to tip....If cut in the manner, I can have a perfect afro....white girls absolutely can have VERY curly hair....it's not just for black people...
Oh I didn't know this. I think majority of people aren't aware. Infact I feel anytime I've seen a white guy with a very curly fro look I typically assumed he's mixed with black, even if he was ginger.
@@Mimi-zk8rq I have 2 white blonde Irish cousins, males, both have afros.
Do a afro and go in a black neighborhood....please upload the video
I promise you, I CANNOT make my type 1 straight hair do that with ANY technique. If you don't naturally have some wave or curl to your hair, they fall right out unless you cement them in place with an entire bottle of goo.
Took my son to a barber yesterday ..he 3c curl ...barber commented on his lovely " mixed race hair" ........its irish hair lol white irish ...
....hmmmm....keep going back in time....
I have 2 male white Irish cousins who both have afros. Blonde kinky curls like crazy.
I have STICK STAIGHT hair. The only way I can have ANY curls is to use a can of hairspray and a flat iron to curl. Even then it will only last in ideal weather for AN HOUR before it falls flat again. 🤨
These ppl want to imagine straight hair can do magic 😂😂😂😂
I call it the "what you see is what you get" hair type. One the one hand, with the right haircut, you will literally "wake up like this" on the other hand, if you wanted to put in a bit of work and make it do something different? Though luck.
Right? Straight hair doesn’t turn curly just by scrunching it.
My younger sister has straight hair too. It's actually kind of weird. The older siblings have TIGHT curls but as you move down the line (there's 6 of us), the curls get looser, until you get to the youngest who's hair is so straight it can't keep a curl to save it's life.😂😂
I'm always envious of people whose hair does what they tell it to. Mine is the kind of straight that literally didn't even hold a professional perm longer than 3 days. Like, I just want it to hold a style sometimes for an evening when I dress up 😞
@@3ch1dna07probably someone on your mother's side and on your father's side have the genetics for it (even if not showing) and your sister got the two recessive genes. My cousin and I are the only cousins with straight her, I got it right from Grandpa and he got it from his father/my uncle. Like my mom and dad was curly hair but they had the genes for straight hair from someone else. 😂
So well said! I often wonder what my curl pattern would have looked like if I hadn't spent 29 years brushing it "straight" every single day and shaving the curly patch off. Discovering how to care for my wavy curly hair was so empowering.
I’m not there yet. It’s so difficult for me to manage my NATURALLY wavy hair that I’ve spent the last near 20 yrs straightening the heck out of, straight hair is easier to manage. But I wake up and my hair is half wavy and half straight ( the side I sleep on)
But all the work it takes to define my waves is so much, I’m disabled and one of my arms doesn’t have full range of motion and I’d rather not spend all my energy doing my hair, so I just straighten it, I wish there was an easy quick way to define your natural waves
@mcnoneya I've found that using enough conditioner and then scrunching in a leave in conditioner gives decent definition especially on wash days when I'm struggling. I don't have the option to straighten my hair because I have hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating) which is particularly bad on my scalp and face. All the heat and movement involved in straightening causes me to sweat enough that my roots are wet and everywhere else gets frizzy. I tried to get my hair permanently straightened, but it didn't hold because of the moisture from my scalp. My choice is fluffy puffy damaged hair trying to be straight or frizzy somewhat defined wavy curly hair that's healthy.
@mcnoneya Definitely the leave-in adds shine and definition. The one I use is GeorgieMane. It's their curl cream. It has a bit of hold but isn't sticky or crunchy at all. Plus it smells amazing. But honestly just experiment as much as you can to find what works for you.
I’m of Indian heritage with naturally curly hair. My brothers also have naturally curly hair. We’ve always used silk pillowcases/bonnets/cotton T-shirts to dry wet hair to keep frizz away. I have friends from all sorts of backgrounds that have curly hair. Whatever your background/heritage/colour/religion/race is…love your beautiful, natural curls!
Half of my (very white, 100% European) family has curly hair - ranging from very tight curls (like my brother who looks like a sheep) to loose curls (like me). It comes from my mom's family. All of them have really curly hair. And it is a normal feature in my country. Some white people have blonde hair, some have red hair, some have dark hair. Some white people have straight hair, some have wavy hair, some have curly hair.
This stuff is getting crazy. I am white I have curly hair. It also gets frizzy doing this helps define the curls and keep frizz down . Even if her hair was straight and she wanted to curl its her hair. You cant start gatekeeping curls now. Don't act like there aren't white babies or toddlers with curly hair. I guess they are faking their curls too
Man, that comment about just scrunching wet hair to make it curly. My straight, flat, fine, thin hair just needs to be scrunched, got it. 🧐 anyway. Those with curls feel blessed. I'd love to have natural curls.
It is very strange how curly hair has been labelled as undesirable for a long time. It is crazy how many Black , White, Hispanic etc women have fried the hell out of our hair to maintain straight hair. I love the natural hair movement leading curly girl 2a to 4c to embrace those curls or waves
I'm half Hispanic and I used to straighten my hair but my husband said he actually prefers it curly.❤ I couldn't believe it but am willing to put my effort into maintaining my curls because I know how much he loves them.
So true!!
Bruh 2a isnt curly
No, curls have more often been in style than out. Check out the whole of the 18th to 19th centuries, when bare hair became styled. Even in the 20th century, only a few times were totally straight hair except the ends a thing.
@@toomanymarys7355 (that wasn’t at all the case for POC) in the 1900s POC women were expected to straighten their hair and get stuff like relaxers because white employers wouldn’t hire them with their natural hair bc racism and featurism. This sparked the natural hair movement
Um why is this even a thing? Lol who said they couldn't have curly hair??🤷🏾♀️
No idea. Makes no sense.
My former mother in law is black kenyan and had naturally straight hair. No one got upset about it, either way. People are people. Hair is hair. Just love each other.
My aunt is very white, almost alabaster with very dark brown hair that’s so curly she’s lived with an Afro hairstyle her entire life. It air dries that way and it’s very hard for her to style.
My grandma also had this type of hair even into her 90’s.
Since I finally started to treat my hair the way it should be treated (I have very long fine hair with curls, waves, straight bits and tight curls in my nape) I have noticed that my hair has started to feel and look thicker and healthier. I am 65 and sleep in a bonnet, hurray, no more horrible tangles and frizzy bit in my under hair. And I have a 24 year old black lass to thank, who when hearing me grumble about my hair at work one day (yes I still work, I like my work and it keeps me sharp) told me to stop fighting with my hair. This lovely young woman pointed me in the direction of her hairdresser and told me to wear a bonnet to bed. I will forever be grateful to this kind young woman. I now proudly wear my hair loose in all its weird glory and it shines and bounces with health. No more straightening irons for me.
I grew up in a family with all strait hair, I had no clue how to care for my 2c hair growing up. I was teased horribly for my frizzy mess, told I needed to wash and brush my hair more. I know now can't use products meant for "white" hair, my hair falls out and brakes off at my chin. My hair is just too dry, it needs all the moisture. I'm so thankful for the black women who taught me how to care for my hair. It is sad I'm no longer welcome in the group I learned from, there was some really nice ladies in there.
On the suggestion that you can scrunch strait hair curly, I call BS. My sister's hair won't take a curl longer then an hour my 2c will hold a set curl until I wash again. When we were little and having pictures the next day mom would set both my sister's and my hair in curlers over night. Mine in big curlers and my sisters in little ones, then pull mine out when I woke up first thing and my sister's right before the shoot. LOL for like 5 mins we would have matching curls, hers light mine dark. By the end of the day my hair would still be perfect and hers would be flat. There is a huge difference in in strait hair vs curly/wavy.
Irish women who are SUPER WHITE are known to have some of the CURLIEST HAIR on the planet and I mean TIGHT curls. I am Italian and Irish and I have curls, so does one of my sisters, hers are super tight and coily. I have 2 male cousins who are WHITE as snow, blonde hair to boot and BOTH have AFROS. Straight up AFROS. They got that blonde Irish kinky curl and they rock it.
My hair is wavy or loosely curly (2c) and I have used ethnic hair products for decades. Big deal! It's blonde, but the texture is curly and ethic hair products are gentler and more effective. Never wanted stick straight hair.
I just discovered this channel today and I already subed. We should share our knowledge about hair with all women. I was shown grace from my friend and her mom when I was in middle school and made a big mistake. Idk her hair so so different from mine. I just thought she had tighter curls than my spirals.
We were at the beach and she said she didn't want to get her hair wet because she had just got it done the day before. Idk it was a big deal and we ended up splashing her anyway with lake water. We thought she just didn't want to wash her hair that night like kids not wanting to shower kind of a thing. After the beach, I went back to her house where she told me all the hours it took to get her hair done and said her mom was gonna kill her (her mom didn't abuse her for the record for some that may not know its just a saying). She told me about how she didn't have oils in her hair and gave me a real lesson that day. She even give me (what I called the magic pink bottle) for my hair. I had used sun-in and fried my hair and it was like hay. She thought me how to blow it out and even how to straighten it without hurting my hair. I always wanted straight hair because I always had curls and my mom wouldn't let me do anything with my hair (thats why I had to sneak to get sun-in in the first place). She taught me so much and all in the time before Mrs. K came home. I walked up to her mom and confessed to what I did and let her know it wasn't her daughter's fault, that Idk any better but her daughter told me about her hair and about mine. I also told her I would gladly pay for her to get her hair done again. (I didn't have any money but I knew my Mama would pay for it when she found out what I had done and I could work it off doing chores). I just didn't want my friend to get in trouble. Mrs. K's said she was proud of me for telling the truth and said I didn't have to pay for it or tell my Mama (who definitely would have and I would have got in trouble) because it was a honest mistake and I didn't know better and thought I shouldn't get in trouble for it. It was during summer break and she didn't want to risk me getting grounded for it. They taught me to appreciate all hair types and to respect The Hair! Also, when I went to school my hair never looked better from what they taught me. My hair was no longer fried and I learned to appreciate my curls even though I still choose to wear it straight sometimes. Mama always tried to get me to appreciate them but I didn't and she knew Mrs. K somehow got me to and was glad. Also, she was asking me how I made my hair look so much better and I told her it was the magic pink bottle. Lol I know now it's not the best but it was the best product I ever had back then. When I ran out we tried to find some at all the local stores but they didn't have any so Mama insisted that the place between Mrs. K's house and ours start carrying products for other types of hair and they did. I have had an appreciation for hair ever since then. And as you can see by my pic, I learned to do my hair on my own without making a mess out of it. 😊 I did eventually tell Mama what I did though. I didn't get in trouble but Mama went to the Salon and wrote a check to pay for her hair for the next time she went. She didn't know till she went in that it was already paid for. Mama gave extra in case she wanted to do something different or wanted products. She figured Mrs. K wouldn't accept the money if she tried to give it to her and I'm sure she was right.
HI, I like your story of the hair! 😍 🙏 I’m curious now; what was the “magic 😊pink bottle?”
Pink lotion! Sweet memories. Probably Luster's Pink oil lotion.
My hair is hard to deal with it has a mind of its own n it reacts to all types of weather no matter what, it’s frustrating, it’s straight/curly, frizzy, totally depends on the weather, I don’t know what to do with it half the time, ugh 😑 love your channel love that you bring all kinds of women together ✌️❤️🙏
I love what you do for all people!!! Keep being an amazing! Sister in Christ!!!!🙏🏽❤️
.in 1505 scotish woman and were using a protective hat or sunbonnet or a fabric of specific material, is not, was never and will never be a black thing. lol Same with protective styles.
Haha, white woman here with curls. I know extra white women with extra frizzy curls. No bending or manipulating needed. At the latest since the invention of the ‚messy bun’ we don’t wear bonnets any more, but they were in vogue in Europe at least since the medieval period. But if they deem for whatever reason cornrows and bonnets the most important aspects of black culture they may have them.
As someone with a straight hair to the point I look like a thriller movies ghost I can say it: we can't do curls on our hair that last. We need equipment for it and in my hair it last just one night. Doing it manually while drying? Nah that doesn't exist, trully and it doesn't even properly curl. Why people think white women can't have natural curly hair and that black women can't have natural straight hair? Genetics are all over the place, you never know what you have on your genes.
I’m white I have curly hair as a child it was so bad I had a fro . My best friend is an older black woman we laugh and laugh she’s seen my hair now as an adult lol it’s not crazy bad like as a kid . I keep my straight hair. Best thing for curly hair honey all natural hair mask honey olive oil and mayo . Trust me it’ll be so shiny smooth and awesome lol just did my hair last night . Learned this as a kid been doing it ever since .
Uh yeah, I can attest that, as a person with genuinely stick straight hair, I absolutely cannot just scrunch it curly, nor even wavy. I permed curls into it once. That did not last long. I really struggle to keep curls in, even if I use a curling iron, then pin the curls up until cooled, or even longer, plus lots of product. People’s hair is how it is. You can’t control how you’re born. All hair types are beautiful!
Most of women in Greece, myself included, have naturally curly hair. People need to chill with that gatekeeping.
I can assure these people that no matter how much I scrunch my hair, there's never going to be "texture" in it. It's as straight as a bone and even professional hairdressers have tried to put some waves in it and just given up.
The curly hair gatekeepering is ridiculous. It's something nobody of us is responsible for, our hair texture is not our accomplishment, it's just how we're born. It doesn't makes us more special than others. I like all kinds of hairs and the variety human nature allows.
Well I'm white and my hair is curly. It was even worse as a kid. Literally looked like Dee Dee pickles from the rug rats. Any way people are just ridiculous
As a white woman with naturally curly, frizzy hair I WISH it was true that we can't have curly hair. It has been the bane of my existence.
I have pin-straight hair, and no, scrunching it doesn't magically turn it curly lol.
Lol “white people can’t have curly hair” now I may be Cuban but I’m also white and my hair can’t not be curly. Even when it’s a complete ball of frizz, it’s a curly ball of frizz. No amount of combing can make it straight. So yes white people can 100% have curly hair, even when it’s damaged my hair is still curly, it’s just ugly and curly lmao
Have several white friends with kinky curly hair... it's just genetics and not all people have to be black to have the same curly hair.
Diffusers work good if you use them correctly.
Im more Native American than anything else-- hello-- curly hair. Even in my dads baby picture on the rez in 1922 he has curly blond hair!
THATS WHAT MY HAIR DOES 😅 no wayyyyy
Curly haired girls unite!! Regardless of race🩷🩷🩷
I’m glad my hair is soft curls. I have a friend who has tight curls. It takes her forever to grow her hair out because the curls just keep bouncing back to her head. She could take the curl and stretch it 4 inches from her head, but it snaps back up.
My sisters hair can’t hold a curl for the life of her. She even got a perm once and it just didn’t take. Me on the other hand have this weird array of spiral curls,loose waves and a few strands that don’t seem to curl on their own hair. I’m finally trying to embrace my curls and am going to a hairstylist that is helping me understand my curls better….but it’s only taken me 50 years.
Snap!
Wish I could show this woman my baby/very young person - I was born very belong with very curly hair! It has nothing to do with race!
You do realize ethnic people, specifically BP with type 2-3 hair have to do this too to plump their curls, not just WP? Their hair appears straight when wet, but curly when dry. They follow this technique to get smooth vs frizzy curls. It doesn’t matter how tight the curls are. Curls even loose curls look better when proper techniques and products are used. Can we at least agree as BP who have multiple textures even straight in our families to stop shaming people for what they do with their hair? Not sure I’d even promote a WW doing it as you’re doing in this video review, but I commend you for not choosing a BW who was criticizing a WW plumping her curls. 🤦🏽♀️
That its not true when our hair is dry it's naturally curly products that just enhance our hair. Just like she said, tf are you talking about your not black. A black person wasn't even mentioned in her response to naturally curly hair, so move on. And she was reacting to a white woman, not even commenting gas lighting ahh big.
Also black woman don't have straight hair it's just loose kinky hair as someone with mixed hair we have looser curls not straight hair educate yourself
My grandmother had her hair “done” every week and wore some kind of “bonnet” - and yes, we are white! What is with this woman’s logic??? Very tiresome!
😳 for reals...I have no words for the attack but thank you for what you do
😂 I’m so confused.
Oh man, I'm white and I have curly hair and no matter what I do, it's always frizzy. I think I've been doing it wrong. 🤦♀️😂
(Me who looks over at my extremely white friend who has a natural red afro👀👀 (yeah, she's ginger))
Apparently whyte people with natural curly hair doesn't exist. (Looks at my own parital curly hair) Apparently I don't exist- I must be an AI then XD
I got Thick dark long Curly NATURAL hair..from root to the ends...I got white skin ..dark eyes ..Black folks you ain't the only ones and Braids aren't a black thing either..get over yourselves
This is getting ridiculous. I get comments of how I style my curly hair. It’s which way the wind blows.
So I have curly hair, I was born with it. As was my dad, my grandma, my great grandmother and a few other family members. Are people just really this stupid now?! Y’all need to study the science of genetics.
I can curl my hair ‘till the cows come home. It’s going to go right back to flat before I can even walk out the door.
If you don’t like hair then go bald on your head! Mine is mine you can leave it alone!
If your hair isn’t type 3 it isnt curly. There are white people with type 3 hair and there are black people with type 3 hair.
I am 100% white blonde dutch. My hair is so curly, it won’t listen to “products”. It always goes where it wants to go. I gave up styling it, blow drying it etc. and wear it all natural, but short. I am very pleased with how it looks now. 🫶🇳🇱
If you want to be skinny you have to work out. What's the difference between that and styling curly hair?
I like how you're low key educating over there.. 😏 🤌 helping remove that ignorance one click at a time.