The Boho Woman Trope: From Quirky Sidekick To Beloved Icon

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
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    Boho Woman, Hippie Chick, Earth Mama, Granola Girl - this character type has been popping up in our favorite movies and shows for decades. Carefree and quirky, she's gone from a kooky sidekick to a beloved character type by dancing to the beat of her own drum. Here’s our Take on where the Boho Woman came from, who she really is, and how she found her own place in the spotlight.
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    CHAPTERS
    00:00 - The Rise of the Boho Woman
    02:06 - The Evolution of the Boho Woman
    04:08 - The Boho Woman Trope
    06:05 - The Danger of Boho Moms
    07:57 - The Boho Woman on Screen
    10:05 - The Bohemian Woman in TV Shows
    12:02 - Finding Freedom in Creativity
    14:05 - The Manipulative Side of the Boho Woman
    16:10 - The Boho Woman on Screen
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    The Boho Woman Trope: From Quirky Sidekick To Beloved Icon
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  • @thetake
    @thetake  Před 9 měsíci +12

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  • @KittiyKyat
    @KittiyKyat Před 9 měsíci +310

    Native American culture and beliefs also had a major impact on the hippie stereotype as we know it today. Leather fringe, beaded headbands, dreamcatchers, turquoise jewelry, feather headdresses, spirit animals, beliefs about oneness with the natural world...and more! White hippies co-opted these elements from indigenous culture.

    • @360shadowmoon
      @360shadowmoon Před 9 měsíci

      This - so much of the boho aesthetic is just cultural appropriation by White people. There is a reason you don't see many WoC donning this aesthetic.

    • @leratomasolane3549
      @leratomasolane3549 Před 9 měsíci +34

      Yes as well as various African cultures

    • @projectlovenote
      @projectlovenote Před 9 měsíci +25

      And south East Asian

    • @LeahWalentosky
      @LeahWalentosky Před 9 měsíci +26

      Good point, so much native culture that was adopted in the 60s when it was illegal for native to practice

    • @rochelle2758
      @rochelle2758 Před 9 měsíci +10

      Absolutely. Let's not forget that Dharma had a magical dead Native American friend/helper.

  • @RiverDancer99
    @RiverDancer99 Před 9 měsíci +474

    You should do the virgin in adulthood trope! It's hardly talked about why so many representations are so toxic

  • @ChristalJ
    @ChristalJ Před 9 měsíci +243

    We need more black boho representation. I always saw myself in Denise and Lynn growing up.

    • @s.tiaira9081
      @s.tiaira9081 Před 9 měsíci +4

      We do! I definitely see myself in them.

    • @JoyfulOrb
      @JoyfulOrb Před 9 měsíci +6

      I'm white and I STILL wanted to be Denise!

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. Před 9 měsíci +4

      Absolutely true. Lisa Bonet has been inspiring my sense of style for the last 20 years lol.

    • @chicitita10bien23
      @chicitita10bien23 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Sinclaire from Living Single

    • @marymiller6188
      @marymiller6188 Před 9 měsíci +7

      @@chicitita10bien23I came here to say Sinclair because we know Phoebe wouldn’t have been written without Sinclair…its a bad sad they didn’t include her here

  • @gabrielafonseca4034
    @gabrielafonseca4034 Před 9 měsíci +186

    Here's the thing about boho style: it ages with you really well. I'm pushing sixty and wear things I've had since college. Plus, you never feel like you have to be perfect

    • @thebodycove
      @thebodycove Před 9 měsíci +19

      I agree 100 percent! I feel like it’s such an ageless style.

    • @gforce9596
      @gforce9596 Před 9 měsíci +14

      Excellent point! I notice a lot of contemp fashion is a bit restrictive on the skin and lowers circulation, whereas Boho style seems to emphasize "breeziness" and looser fits and "natural" fabrics so it's probably healthier too

    • @hannrkelley
      @hannrkelley Před 9 měsíci +9

      Yes! Such a good point. Well made, natural fibres with some room in the seams=life-long items. They don't have to look "hippie" though, make them black and neutrals and you've got the French style!

  • @tinkergnomad
    @tinkergnomad Před 9 měsíci +170

    Another thing people don't understand is people with trauma who've had to raise themselves sometimes offer themselves the luxury of things others might consider "childish," once they're grown and stable. There's a tendency to take up, and hang on to interests that most people consider "a phase," in "normal," adolescence.

    • @gloria7190
      @gloria7190 Před 9 měsíci +3

      I relate to this a lot, actually. It makes perfect sense 😮

    • @oooh19
      @oooh19 Před 9 měsíci +9

      You should be allowed to enjoy whatever you want

    • @tinkergnomad
      @tinkergnomad Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@oooh19 I agree, but a lot of people in my younger adulthood did not. 🤷🏻

    • @tinkergnomad
      @tinkergnomad Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@gloria7190 I suspect there's a lot of us.

    • @rilesywilesy2920
      @rilesywilesy2920 Před 9 měsíci +15

      I’m so supportive of survivors of abuse reclaiming their childhood! But it’s sad that we have to use abuse and trauma to justify people doing what makes them happy. Like yeah, survivors of childhood abuse should absolutely be allowed to heal through reclaiming childhood, but also everyone should be allowed to like childish things. Who is it hurting to collect plushies or wear sparkly hair clips or whatever?

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před 9 měsíci +114

    I would definitely love to see a Phoebe spinoff somewhere down the line, where she and Mike are raising their kids, who are just as quirky as she is!

    • @rdkap42
      @rdkap42 Před 9 měsíci +15

      I think the kids being a little more straight laced in response to her could be funny.

    • @luisrizo8813
      @luisrizo8813 Před 9 měsíci +10

      Lisa Kudrow told the producers she was actually closer to Rachel in real life.

    • @hinkhall5291
      @hinkhall5291 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Down the line?
      Such a show should’ve probably been spun off 15 years ago. 😅
      In other words: *more time has passed since the end of Friends and now, than within the entire original freaking run of Friends*
      I.e. these people are officially old now.
      The role would now call for her to be a grandma.
      That or you cast a different lady for Phoebe but you still get Paul Rudd since he never ages. 😂

    • @reannagordon
      @reannagordon Před 9 měsíci +5

      They gave Joey of all characters his own show and nobody watched it or liked it. It got cancelled quick. Friends is only good when all of them are together, they don’t need spin-offs.

    • @theaflamingo4058
      @theaflamingo4058 Před 9 měsíci +4

      I've never seen Dharma&Greg but from the Video it seems that could be seen as the Phoebe&Mike "spin off" ? 😁

  • @sethzarandona2325
    @sethzarandona2325 Před 9 měsíci +143

    How about the “Sassy Black Woman” trope? You’ve done the Strong Black Woman, but the SASSY Black Woman is a whole discussion in itself.

    • @lyndsaybrown8471
      @lyndsaybrown8471 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yes!

    • @gforce9596
      @gforce9596 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I think there is a lot of intersection between the Sassy and Strong Black tropes - several characters I can think of could be said to be presented as both:
      "Sassy" characters are often depicted as financially and s*xually independent/liberated, intelligent, and resourceful - Queen Latifah, Whoopi Goldberg, Wanda Sykes come to mind.
      But I'm curious what you propose the distinction is between the Strong and Sassy tropes if you don't mind linking/commenting

    • @sethzarandona2325
      @sethzarandona2325 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@gforce9596 There is definitely overlap. I only meant it’s a whole discussion on its own, because the “Strong Black Woman” is expected to take on all her problems and trauma on her own with no support while still being there for everyone else.
      Meanwhile, the “Sassy Black Woman” is a comedy device who speaks in a highly stereotyped manner and is characterized by her loudness and cartoonish aggression, even if she sometimes “tells it like it is.”
      So, sometimes it seems like we’re meant to laugh WITH her, but so often we’ve been conditioned to actually laugh AT her.
      So there’s definitely overlap between the two, but there’s little nuances and subtleties that make for strong individual discussions about each trope. Hope that makes sense.

    • @gforce9596
      @gforce9596 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@sethzarandona2325 Cool, thanks for the info. I'll read about the topic

  • @cjd8645
    @cjd8645 Před 9 měsíci +47

    My favorite boho/boho-chic icon is definitely Lisa Bonet. ☮️🌱🎩

  • @technicolordreamer
    @technicolordreamer Před 9 měsíci +44

    Another favorite character of mine that falls in this category is Synclaire from the show Living Single.

    • @AlexClementine
      @AlexClementine Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yes! My favorite awkward black girl of the 90s

  • @missanthropy6174
    @missanthropy6174 Před 9 měsíci +52

    I would love to see representation of the “boho woman” as you guys have dubbed her, that is actually respectful and treats her seriously. Ever example cited in this video and every example I’ve ever seen is always treated as ridiculous in one way or another and her firmly held beliefs and lifestyle are always what is laughed at and seen as ridiculous by the other characters and audience. The issues that this character always cares about- animals, human rights, protecting the environment, are all really important. But the text always treats her passion for these things as something silly she only cares about because she’s too ridiculous to care about “real problems.” I am one of these “boho” types and I have been my whole life and this is typically how society treats me and my passions which sucks because I’m a very serious and dedicated person. I’ve also noticed how in media, if a male character embodies bohemian sensibilities, he is either treated more seriously and even praised for his beliefs or he is an emasculated joke, which shows how sexism effects the way the trope is viewed. The way this trope is used is mostly disrespectful and unrealistic to what real life boho women are like.

    • @erimee3014
      @erimee3014 Před 9 měsíci +3

      YES !
      Your comment is really well articulated 🤭

    • @spaceylacey83
      @spaceylacey83 Před 9 měsíci

      This! We kill more animals than humans estimated to have lived on this earth every two and a half years. Trillions of animals are suffering and the industry is the main driver of our climate and biodiversity crises. These are not funny, silly issues that only flighty immature caricatures of boho women should be caring about.

    • @sunnysolaris23
      @sunnysolaris23 Před 8 měsíci +3

      THIS! Came here to say the same. It reminds me of a quote from the movie "L'auberge espagnole" where the protagonist says at the beginning: "My mum, let's make it short, is a greenie. A real greenie. And the annoying thing about greenies is that they're always right." And I think that's the problem. I have the feeling that showmakers constantly feel the need to ridicule those characters and make them over the top and slightly to heavily crazy to stop them from becoming the personification of a constant bad consciousness and really force the audience to think about their lifestyle.

  • @ayushikhetan9012
    @ayushikhetan9012 Před 9 měsíci +12

    I haven't watched other series except friends and I think she is one of the best representation of confidence, dignity and self love. She is a free spirited person but knows how to make boundaries and not let anyone use her as a doormat. She is strong, independent. She knows what she wants and goes after it even if others ridicule it. She also knows how to be serious and take life seriously when needed.

  • @alexisc1474
    @alexisc1474 Před 9 měsíci +125

    I think we skipped over the cultural appropriation that many BW present. For example, Frankie from Grace and Frankie, is very performative in her views. She even had a period where she was overcompensating.

    • @unfilteredhonesty1311
      @unfilteredhonesty1311 Před 9 měsíci +21

      I loved Frankie but my days she was THAT Liberal white woman but she had good intentions.

    • @rochelle2758
      @rochelle2758 Před 9 měsíci +5

      I agree. She was a great character but that drove me a little crazy about her, and the show itself seemed to have no critique of it at all (even affectionate critique) except "isn't she hilarious and kooky".

  • @thisisjenny-hello
    @thisisjenny-hello Před 9 měsíci +17

    Trope suggestion!! The Wineaholic. Often found in sitcoms, and often doesn't start out that way. Thinking Penny in later seasons of Big Bang Theory, Claire in Modern Family, can't remember if it was Lily or Robin in HIMYM. It's a weird device and joke setup because it makes a really casual laugh out of borderline alcoholism.

    • @TamESQ
      @TamESQ Před 9 měsíci +2

      Very interesting! Also, Kelly Pitts from the game… it was implied (a few times) that she was an alcoholic the way she constantly drank wine… but it was never fully acknowledged or addressed.

    • @maryamoutlaw101
      @maryamoutlaw101 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yes! Also Olivia Pope from Scandal. That wasn't a comedic show of course but the scenes of her pouring huge amounts of red wine into large glasses to decompress from her chaotic profession were always played for laughs/relatability and even get used in gifs all the time despite the behavior being pretty concerning and rarely if ever addressed on the show.

    • @thisisjenny-hello
      @thisisjenny-hello Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@maryamoutlaw101 Definitely! The “women love their wine” thing as if that’s our best way to cope with how the rest of the world and men are stressing us out.

  • @Tr3B3lla
    @Tr3B3lla Před 9 měsíci +12

    I'd like to add Mona from the show Half and Half played by Rachel True. It seems she is also like that in real life too.

  • @andjulia9292
    @andjulia9292 Před 9 měsíci +14

    I love the real life boho vibe of Lisa & Zoe. Always wished I looked that cool.

  • @brightphoebus
    @brightphoebus Před 9 měsíci +5

    Another wonderful boho character really inspired me was Olivia d'abo as Karen Arnold in The Wonder Years. Good video! Very self-affirming!

  • @salamander8301
    @salamander8301 Před 9 měsíci +20

    The Boho hippie aunt was perfect in 6 feet under. She was super dreamy and funny but actally was suffering with a pill problem and alot depression from being alone.

    • @KittyGoldPaint
      @KittyGoldPaint Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes! I just rewatched the whole series (still amazing; still holds up), and Patricia Clarkson & Kathy Bates were a more nuanced take of the Boho woman.

  • @chickrepelant
    @chickrepelant Před 9 měsíci +43

    YES DENISE!! what an Icon!
    strange tho, how y'all didn't show Rainbow's mom for the Black-ish clips, and showe'd Dre's mom.

    • @stephanie6676
      @stephanie6676 Před 9 měsíci +25

      Yeah I thought the same thing, I don't consider Dre's mom to be boho at all, but Rainbow's mom is the definition of it, hell she named her daughter "Rainbow".

    • @originalcosmicgirl
      @originalcosmicgirl Před 9 měsíci +17

      Yes! I would even consider Dre's mom to be anti- boho. She's always giving her a hard time for her beliefs.

    • @chickrepelant
      @chickrepelant Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@originalcosmicgirl right? thank you!!

    • @eileen_a_b
      @eileen_a_b Před 8 měsíci +2

      YES!!! It just seems like they didn't understand what boho actually means in the end. Dre's mom was eccentric, which is NOT the same as boho. While we may think of the boho lifestyle as eccentric, it doesn't make every eccentric person boho.

  • @eusounadja5738
    @eusounadja5738 Před 9 měsíci +14

    This is something I feel bad about Phoebe, through out the series she became more and more normal, even lost her curls 😢

  • @StellarAvenger
    @StellarAvenger Před 9 měsíci +41

    Freddy from A Different World embodies this trope more than anyone

    • @Lahiwe
      @Lahiwe Před 9 měsíci +15

      Yes. It’s really telling that they chose Denise instead of Freddie. She even has an incredibly realistic arc, becoming a lawyer to actually enact the changes she wants to see in the world.

    • @indomitusjane
      @indomitusjane Před 9 měsíci +5

      For real. And Cree Summer is so cool 😎✨️💕😍

    • @sparklefairy34
      @sparklefairy34 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@indomitusjaneCree Summers was and still is ✨that girl✨
      I just didn’t like how she (or anyone else) reacted to the “former inmate experiment” episode. So out of character.

  • @melaninqueen2413
    @melaninqueen2413 Před 9 měsíci +6

    As a 23 year old Afro American, I grew up in a diverse town/city with different cultures and styles. My upbringing was different from many other Afro Americans and I would get a lot of hate from the community. In my mid teens, I started to experiment with different styles and in my late teens/early 20s, I began to express more of myself and experiment more. With my eclectic taste from variety of styles (gothic, bohemian, grunge, mod, tom-boyish...), I would stand out and people would notice and either love or dislike me. I would literally go to school, my college campus or to work dressed up like I'm going to some ball or like I'm the intimidating gothic girl. I'm no boho chic, but I do take elements from the bohemian style, and I make it my own. My quirkiness is definitely noticeable and sometimes it throws people off or distance themselves from me!

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 Před 9 měsíci +33

    Denise is an icon

  • @taylorcope3326
    @taylorcope3326 Před 9 měsíci +23

    I’d love to see y’all talk about the characters from Girlfriends

  • @TamESQ
    @TamESQ Před 9 měsíci +11

    I’ve been asking for them to do a take on this for months! Glad The Take listens to their fans 😊
    Edit: Omg!!! They shouted out my Twitter name!! Thanks!

  • @pixiebells
    @pixiebells Před 9 měsíci +4

    Not me literally sitting here watching this in a knit poncho, with purple hair in pigtails eating a vegetarian bologna sandwich out of a reusable plastic baggie on my lunch break at the preschool I teach at! 😅
    I have found my people ✨ ☮️ 😊
    I hope The Universe gives you an amazing day today!🙌🏻

  • @freshblack3774
    @freshblack3774 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Where is THE RICH SINGLE AUNT trope? It is about time girls! :)

  • @JohnReviews
    @JohnReviews Před 9 měsíci +7

    One thing I will say about Topanga is that even though her boho personality is initially just a joke and treated as a phase, the franchise does look back on it in a positive light in the later seasons of Boy Meets World and in Girl Meets World.

  • @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254
    @jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 Před 9 měsíci +64

    Can you do the "Curves in all the Right Places" trope? Cousins in American media? In-Law relationships?
    Nothing about the Crunchy to Alt Right pipeline?

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq Před 9 měsíci +6

      Agreed, especially the aptly named "Real Women Have Curves", where America Ferrera is still seen as gorgeous, despite her curves.

  • @paulojrneto
    @paulojrneto Před 9 měsíci +60

    I've suggested it before, but here's again: how about a video of the Mandingo trope or the hypersexualization of black men? It's a trope that has run through many styles from Shakespeare's Othello and slapstick comedy to being a whole porn subgenre. It paints black men as always-ready, always-competent, well-endowed sex symbols, whose allure is particularly enticing for white women and feared by white men. It may look like a positive or even aspirational stereotype on surface level, but its origins have clear racist and toxic undertones.

    • @originalcosmicgirl
      @originalcosmicgirl Před 9 měsíci +16

      It is not a "less harmful" stereotype. It is a major reason that countless Black men have been falsely accused of and wrongly convicted of sexual offenses for centuries.

    • @paulojrneto
      @paulojrneto Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@originalcosmicgirl You're absolutely right. I've edited that sentence out.

    • @Mariah-co2ct
      @Mariah-co2ct Před 9 měsíci +4

      I absolutely love this idea I hope they see this!!!!!!!!

    • @AlexClementine
      @AlexClementine Před 9 měsíci

      A lot of white men are aroused by it as well. There's many kinks based on it. It's disgusting and dehumanizing

    • @originalcosmicgirl
      @originalcosmicgirl Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@paulojrneto Thank you so much. I wasn't angry or trying to criticize you or anything. I just felt the need to elaborate. Thanks for being so understanding.

  • @pixelchick95
    @pixelchick95 Před 9 měsíci +9

    I would love to see a take on the goth chick and how she deals with topics like depression and death

  • @d.a.126
    @d.a.126 Před 9 měsíci +10

    The theater kid trope would be so fun! Especially the lack of representation in it!

    • @sparklefairy34
      @sparklefairy34 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Yes!! We really should have more representation for artistic kids😁

  • @bellareid3488
    @bellareid3488 Před 9 měsíci +11

    I love boho fashion & share a lot of the beliefs and interests mentioned here but I also have an anxiety disorder and wish I was more carefree. That's why real people don't fit into characters tropes, I guess.

  • @NorthQuincy712
    @NorthQuincy712 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I would like to see the dynamic of Joan and Toni's relationship on the show Girlfriends and how did it end...

  • @maxwellmediainc
    @maxwellmediainc Před 9 měsíci +5

    So I feel like whoever wrote the script for the video was thinking of rainbows mom on blackish the characters name is Alicia . But I think the editor just saw the note of mom on blackish and put ruby ( andres mom ) who is a series regular on there . This is proof we need more black folks behind the scenes because if the people who make this content watched blackish they would know these things . Ruby is the exact opposite of this trope !

  • @alejandrablanco8838
    @alejandrablanco8838 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Great analysis! I would also include the mom from "the Maid" netflix show (Andy McDowell)

    • @ClocksInMyPlace
      @ClocksInMyPlace Před 8 měsíci

      Yes!! I thought of her as well as Allison’s mother in The Affair and Zoe Kravitz’ character in Big Little Lies (which is funny considering her mother is Lisa Bonet).

  • @robynfree1558
    @robynfree1558 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Denise is the Best boho woman IMO. She starts as a ditsy highschooler who needs to learn about how to care about things that really matter, to a dreamy eyed young adult that needs to learn how to be responsible while sticking to her ideals, and ends as a fully formed adult who still cares deeply but has better learned how to balance her passions and responsibility.

  • @Leto85
    @Leto85 Před 9 měsíci +6

    I love all the different aspects of the female tropes, but can you also please do more male tropes in the future?

  • @FemkevanDrooge
    @FemkevanDrooge Před 9 měsíci +5

    You missed a lovely boho character as an example: Sigrid Eriksdottir as played by Rachel McAdams in Eurovision: Fire Saga. Starts out as 'naïve & dreamy' love interest but kind of ends up as the main character with a lovely character arc about learning to love yourself and to appreciate your own talents and to prioritise your own needs before the man in your life ❤

    • @jordanalmond3458
      @jordanalmond3458 Před 9 měsíci

      I LOVED her character arc! I was rooting for her so hard. That movie is a hidden gem and I’m glad I gave it a chance

  • @caitlingill
    @caitlingill Před 9 měsíci +43

    Can you do the “girlboss / malewife” trope next? Or the “rockstar trope” but include both men and women examples ?

    • @najhoant
      @najhoant Před 9 měsíci +6

      They have done a bunch of girlboss video in recent years, often about how movies and TV present failed or hypocritical ones

    • @emilycurtis4398
      @emilycurtis4398 Před 9 měsíci

      Anything that gives me Way of the House Husband clips

    • @caitlingill
      @caitlingill Před 9 měsíci

      @@najhoant I meant more like girlboss juxtaposed with the malewife trope (together)

  • @dorisplc1935
    @dorisplc1935 Před 9 měsíci +12

    I’d love to hear about the doctors are the ideal man trope, like they’re always framed as the ideal love interest 😅😊

  • @flyinghumanoid9068
    @flyinghumanoid9068 Před 9 měsíci +7

    What about editing out the Cosby guy? Not trying to be that person, but the whole video could have existed without his face and lines in this video. Especially given the monstrous events that have come to light. I understand nostalgia, I have it heavily, but he could have been left out

  • @marie2511
    @marie2511 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I am so surprised to not see one clip or mention of the character Cloud from Firefly Lane or Phoebe from Girlfriends' Guide to Divorce. Quintessential Bohemian characters

  • @VictoriaHatzson
    @VictoriaHatzson Před 9 měsíci +2

    I’ve missed this type of trope videos. There are so many tropes you can make a video on.

  • @leticiaromaniafernandes9006
    @leticiaromaniafernandes9006 Před 9 měsíci +1

    One perfect example of 'boho mom' is andie macdowells character in Maid

  • @ltpvs
    @ltpvs Před 9 měsíci +1

    once again, "the take" creates a KILLER ESSAY!!! this is so good, what culture should take a hint

  • @LuthienNightwolf
    @LuthienNightwolf Před 9 měsíci +3

    I'm always drawn to these kinds of characters in shows and movies. I'm boho myself, but I guess a more...toned down? version of it. Like, not quite so bubbly and extroverted. Maybe there's a subset of boho women who are introverts. lol

  • @ElementalDancer
    @ElementalDancer Před 9 měsíci

    Really happy you did this one!

  • @Beautyofblackness
    @Beautyofblackness Před 9 měsíci +14

    They are praised for practices and ideals/believes that poc have been punished for and most of the time their style is just cultural appropriation. Friends literally copied a black show called living single and Phoebe is basically a white version of Synclaire . Yet there weren’t many black or other women of color in this video. And the term boho is literally just Romani culture rebranded and has done more harm to Romani women than good , the hippie movement fashion wise took inspiration straight from different poc groups. We need to call it what it is.

  • @Leto85
    @Leto85 Před 9 měsíci +5

    What an interesting trope. It indeed reminds me of the Hippie trope that was covered earlier on this channel.
    After seeing this video, the Boho can be seen as a sort of evolved Hippie? Some kind of off-spring trope?

  • @seppyq3672
    @seppyq3672 Před 2 měsíci

    This video of about all of my favorite characters on tv shows! Dharma, Phoebe, Frankie and Denise. 😂

  • @FallenStarFeatures
    @FallenStarFeatures Před 9 měsíci +1

    The Boho style really peaked in the 70's, when Stevie Nicks took it mainstream with "Rhiannon":
    Rhiannon rings like a bell through the night
    And wouldn't you love to love her?
    Takes to the sky like a bird in flight
    And who will be her lover?
    All your life you've never seen
    Woman taken by the wind
    Would you stay if she promised you heaven?
    Will you ever win?
    Though Stevie herself famously personified this feminine archetype, I think her bandmate Christine McVie was even more naturally connected to the Boho style of the 60's. She came of age in 1960 in Birmingham, England and experienced the hippie era first hand. Stevie Nicks was more of a nomadic California girl who got her start with Lindsey Buckingham during the late 60's psychedelic era. When the Boho style was revived in the 90's, it took most of its inspiration from the 70's Californa hippie girl archetype, which was really just a stone's throw from 90's Hollywood. By comparison, the original 60's British Invasion era Bohemian style has become an exotic rarity.

  • @DeeDaKaang1
    @DeeDaKaang1 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My favorite was Freddie Brooks from A Different World.....I always remember when her mother that she effectionatley called Jonie shows up to campus

  • @michalpitowsky
    @michalpitowsky Před 9 měsíci +6

    Most hippie boho women I've met in real life were actually type A personality; boho house super clean, diet kept to a tea, tightly controling everything, never showing big emotions. I have this theory that they crave freedom so much becaus they are the opposite of that image: unhappy, full of rules. They keep going to all these seminars and retreats, but really they are incapble of letting go whatever it is inside that makes them so stressed.

    • @CF.
      @CF. Před 9 měsíci +1

      I’m the person you describe. Desperate to let go and relax but completely unable to do so. I feel seen. 😂❤

  • @MsDaydream3r
    @MsDaydream3r Před 8 měsíci +1

    *TROPE SUGGESTION:* The Weird Boy Trope (examples: Sheldon Cooper, Jughead Jones, Edward Scissorhands/any Tim Burton protagonist).
    I think it would be interesting to cover the duality of this trope. One the one hand, Weird Boys are a rebellion against toxic masculinity. One the other hand, some of them (like incels) perpetuate it.

  • @PrettyPrincess9609
    @PrettyPrincess9609 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I was the type A girl boss girl but now I no longer want to be that especially since I got so stressed that I ended up in the hospital multiple times. I feel trapped and want to be free. I decided I wanted to be more like the boho woman. I even started changing my wardrobe.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Před 9 měsíci +2

    In 'Heartstopper', Elle's mother is majorly Boho Woman. I could see Tara and Darcy be Boho Women as well.

  • @brokencandy1797
    @brokencandy1797 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Not cool giving the shaft to Sinclaire from 'Living Single'.

  • @IndigoBellyDance
    @IndigoBellyDance Před 9 měsíci +2

    As a natural Boho chick, Yes you are right my outfits fit at a meditation beach trip and I Love the beach;) And I soooooo have to go my own way Cause I'm happiest like that;)

  • @LifeCoachTay
    @LifeCoachTay Před 9 měsíci +1

    Another Great Take❤

  • @hippopotamusbosch
    @hippopotamusbosch Před 9 měsíci +2

    The Beautiful Boy as Destroyer trope - see Sexual Personae by Camille Paglia. Reference: Dorian Grey, Loki, Elvis Presley, Patrick Bateman, Timothée Chalamet

  • @Hallows4
    @Hallows4 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Cover the professional chef trope!

  • @frostbites1613
    @frostbites1613 Před 9 měsíci +1

    thank you for including Girlfriends!

  • @sammeettelang6267
    @sammeettelang6267 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Please do a take on Drug dealers or cartels in popular media.

  • @debbiemoore2747
    @debbiemoore2747 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you. Frankie is one of my favourite characters.

  • @eceseber8827
    @eceseber8827 Před 7 měsíci

    You should totally do the "frazzled english woman"!!! Bridget Jones, Iris from the holiday, Keira Knightley in love actually, Helena Bonham Carter etc. are a few treasures to name some:)))

  • @DCMarvelMultiverse
    @DCMarvelMultiverse Před 9 měsíci

    One of my faves was the boho in the last season of 227.

  • @nlhndgrmnc
    @nlhndgrmnc Před 9 měsíci +7

    how about the duff (designated ugly fat friend) in movies and tv shows?
    this trope always bothered and made me mad. like the none-aired pilot of buffy the vampire slayer. if you ask me, first willow was a "duff" for the director and producers but then, they decided that the actress didn't had a "believable chemistry" with the other actors. ugh! that was so disgusting to me...
    and it's very real thing in life.

  • @Headpfones
    @Headpfones Před 9 měsíci +2

    The absent parent returns. The long absent parent pops back into their usually older or grown child lives and says I was scared, selfish and now all I want is to be apart of your life because I’m changed person, with this heir they have this sense of entitled instantaneous forgiveness and when that doesn’t happen at first I feel we’re supposed to feel sorry for them. Then by the end of the episode they get it. It’s not that I don’t think these stories are important they are but I feel they aren’t done right like I understand it’s supposed to be about second chances and forgiveness but I always feel it’s they get rewarded for their bad behaviour.

  • @rudyeasley7334
    @rudyeasley7334 Před 9 měsíci

    I forgot about darma and gregg..core memory unlocked

  • @dantrice78
    @dantrice78 Před 9 měsíci +4

    What role is Olivia Colman playing?

    • @cristieby
      @cristieby Před 9 měsíci +2

      I googled "Olivia Colman blonde mother" and apparently she was "Naomi's mom" in a show called Skins

  • @nicolearaujo3395
    @nicolearaujo3395 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I think I just re-relealised I have a boho mom who is also a boho teacher

  • @lindsayredifer1742
    @lindsayredifer1742 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Please, do a video about the butch girl. Ursula, Trunchbull, etc. OR, do one about the sexy lesbian trope - the gay woman who essentially acts like a straight man. The best example of this is Shane from The L Word.

  • @ladymary22
    @ladymary22 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I like the fashion sense

  • @caitlingill
    @caitlingill Před 9 měsíci +4

    Hope Daisy Jones is mentioned

  • @AlexTheGreatCreates
    @AlexTheGreatCreates Před 9 měsíci

    Special shoutout to Freddie Brooks from A Different World !

  • @luisasilva5638
    @luisasilva5638 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Chelsea from that so raven

  • @rochelle2758
    @rochelle2758 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Never in a million years would I have called Ruby from blackish "chill," but really glad to see her here nonetheless (though wouldn't Rainbow be the better example)?

  • @victoriakapshaw
    @victoriakapshaw Před 9 měsíci

    " Another pound of knowledge" 😅 I live

  • @luanasilva7341
    @luanasilva7341 Před 9 měsíci

    That's the I'd kinda aspire to be .. they're so cool

  • @PhilMoskowitz
    @PhilMoskowitz Před 9 měsíci +1

    Probably started with movies pairing older men with young girls. Movies like "Cactus Flower", maybe as far back as "Roman Holiday".

  • @elenagtz.glz.7049
    @elenagtz.glz.7049 Před 9 měsíci

    This one could also be called "The Pisces Woman" 😊💙🥂🐟 hahahahaha so cute!

  • @applebottomjeans7
    @applebottomjeans7 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Finally a trope that calls her a woman. Instead of a girl.

  • @eliadavis3881
    @eliadavis3881 Před 9 měsíci

    Yep. I am definitely a Boho woman ❤

  • @michele-schultz
    @michele-schultz Před 9 měsíci +1

    Here's a video idea💡 the leather jacket girl/guy trope onscreen

  • @robchuk4136
    @robchuk4136 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I think Daria had an aunt that was one of these. Or was it Jane's mom?
    Anyway, I did not expect this to take a dark turn

    • @katiemason2948
      @katiemason2948 Před 9 měsíci

      It was both. Darias aunt was more grounded and rounded out though.

  • @mjshah1979
    @mjshah1979 Před 3 měsíci

    Can you do one on Mona Lisa Smile? She was labeled a bohemian and also lots of feminist/women's tropes.

  • @firandcurly84
    @firandcurly84 Před 8 měsíci

    Freddy on It's a different World played by Cree Summer

  • @martarichie6534
    @martarichie6534 Před 4 měsíci

    Lily james/meryl streep’s donna deserves to be in this trope❤

  • @josefk7437
    @josefk7437 Před 9 měsíci +2

    A lot of these scenes feature Jessa from Girls. Jessa seems like a deconstruction and reality check of these characters.

  • @samanthagupta
    @samanthagupta Před 9 měsíci +2

    Please cover TRUE BLOOD🎉

  • @blingblingbling9054
    @blingblingbling9054 Před 9 měsíci +2

    so they're similar to manic pixie dream girl trope?

    • @TamESQ
      @TamESQ Před 9 měsíci +1

      Definitely. They do share many aspects of the MPDG or the weird girl.

  • @angie_ax
    @angie_ax Před 9 měsíci +3

    Suggestion: a take about the womanizer god who's broken inside (like Christian Troy from "Nip/Tuck" and Don Draper from "Mad Men").

    • @debbiemoore2747
      @debbiemoore2747 Před 9 měsíci

      Hells yes

    • @TamESQ
      @TamESQ Před 7 měsíci

      They kind of touched on that in their “bad boy” trope video

  • @MDangerously
    @MDangerously Před 9 měsíci

    Is there a male version of this? I’m thinking just hippie as well, but not sure if it’s more in line with a carefree personality? Rat Race’s Enrico Pollini ( or Rowan Atkinson’s Mr. Bean? ) not sure what kind of trope that plays on.

  • @dojee8993
    @dojee8993 Před 9 měsíci

    who's the actress right on the thumbnail?

  • @angiegray4987
    @angiegray4987 Před 8 měsíci

    Dre's mom from Blackish isn't the boho mom. Rainbow's mom was literally a hippy.

  • @ordinaryextraordinarybrotha
    @ordinaryextraordinarybrotha Před 9 měsíci

    Do some videos about Mafia. and criminal characters.

  • @jadziawynter9241
    @jadziawynter9241 Před 9 měsíci +9

    I notice that a lot of these examples are either white women or very light skinned non-white women.
    Are there any dark skin non-white women examples?

  • @chicitita10bien23
    @chicitita10bien23 Před 9 měsíci

    Dont forget Sinclaire from Living Single

    • @TamESQ
      @TamESQ Před 7 měsíci

      Sinclair seems more of the “quirky, black girl” definitely… but I didn’t see much of the boho traits in her character.
      Optimistic, child-like… but boho? Meh.

  • @LoveAndSnapple
    @LoveAndSnapple Před 8 měsíci

    I don't know if I would classify Ruby as a "Bohemian" type. Her type of dress is just what some women her age wear. Ruby has also made it abundantly clear in many episodes that she was a victim of many systemic problems in society where she couldn't afford to be passive and "let the universe fall into place." She even has an arc where she can't accept that her daughter is a lesbian getting married to another woman. That's not very "Mother Gaia", is it?
    Ruby faced racism, colorism, spousal abandonment, and single motherhood. Although she had many lovers, she was definitely a fighter. A more appropriate character (which I don't know why she wasn't used) is RAINBOW'S mother, Alicia. They literally raised their children in a hippie commune.