"The Rise Of ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It)" | Kip Reacts to Shoe0nHead
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- čas přidán 20. 03. 2024
- Fellow Legends, welcome! Today we dive into another Shoe0nHead video. This time, we discuss the flip-side of the coin in regard to social issues and discuss the loneliness epidemic affecting women. It's gonna be a long one today, but I think there are many points here that warrant discussion and attention. I absolutely recommend that you go ahead and check out Shoe0nHead as well as the original video to show some support for the source material!
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Original Video: The Rise Of ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It)
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Guys give bad dating advice because we ourselves don't know what we're doing. Women give bad advice because they want to thin the competition.
Facts lmao
This made me laugh.
I love this.
We play by ear, fuck strategy, and given there use of strategy and the existence of every woman in my family, women don’t have ears.
Grandmothers give great advice
@@ImprovmanZero Only advice my grandmother gave me was in relation to cooking brownies
The"I feel safe around you" gives a 50% defense buff
Don't you mean a 50% defense debuff to the man? ;)
20% Charisma debuff
While “the pill” CAN help women with hormone balance, it can also do the inverse, and it’s not uncommon from accounts of female friends and family of mine (anecdotal I know, but what is life and wisdom if not going off of what you see and are told by people affected first hand?).
When my sister had her first period at 13, the next doctor visit when she mentioned it and mentioned getting some light acne recently, doctor immediately told her to go on the pill, no other questions, just take this and it would fix her issue and she’d feel better and also clear up her skin, when in actuality, it just messed up her natural hormone levels and made her act out aggressive when uncomfortable or embarrassed and cause her to distant herself from people (and still didn’t stop her acne), while making her cramps and bleeding worse. So it did nothing it was supposed to help and just made it worse, but “that only happens with Minerva, the others don’t do all that”, except the doctor gave her that one, so why wouldn’t she believe and take the person who supposed to have the knowledge and experience to explain this and didn’t?
She stopped taking it after being literally bedridden for 4 and half days once after a bad period at 19 and she literally changed and did a complete 180, she got more active and more social, she apparently doesn’t have those intense periods or cramps anymore, although I don’t know if it’s because she switched type of birth control or just cold turkey birth control altogether but it’s sucks being told “this is good and natural for this kinda thing, don’t worry” as you see someone you love suffer and can’t really do anything but little things to reduce their pain and stress, while still being told this is natural, I don’t think it’s natural to take something that leaves you bedridden a couple of days every month because some professional says so when they’ve already dropped the ball by giving you something that’s apparently well-known for having awful side effects, being told this patient is having these side effects, but still telling them “these are symptoms of this but it’s okay, they’ll pass”, yet for 4 years they didn’t pass until she stopped taking the medication meant to make the problem better.
It's 100% a case-by-case basis. Some women have their lives ruined by the hormonal imbalances introduced by the pill, because they're essentially under the state of induced bipolarity while they're taking it. And most women are not in the right state of mind at that point to even recognize it (like how when I got drunk once I had no idea I was drunk until my family pointed it out to me).
It's not a catch-all solution. People keep chasing "miracle pills" that will solve all of the issues that can actually be resolved by eating healthy and exercising regularly. Such a pill will never materialize, at least not in our lifetime.
Not only is the "third place" broken down, but the "second place" aka workplace is demonized nowadays as social place. Being friendly with your coworkers is seen as creepy and god rest your soul if you actually are attracted to one because you need to play the russian roulette between hoping the person is normal and respectful or getting murdered by HR.
When I had coworkers still I didn't want to, "treat them like family" like my job wanted. They're a coworker in my job. If they're cool and worth my time, sure, I'll talk to them like a friend. Workplaces will also discourage workplace relationships until they don't, or they engage in it is themselves. Modern workplace culture is just so strange to me.
@@KipReacts Saw a meme the other day that perfectly encapsulated this: preview.redd.it/im-a-family-guy-v0-vh7cmtz9w7ea1.jpg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=c345cd8896b5d2a2f6124aec64eca4c23af95bfa
I then replied to my brother, who sent this to me, "Oh, so THIS is why I need therapy!"
Add: Exists
Kip: Fine vintege. Late harvest. From the verti region of advertising. Strong body. With a faint hint of humor.
Also, if you want to know why, she says, "Thanks for not skipping the add" Watch one of her videos from about a year ago, or so. I won't spoil it.
51:51 also ive been looking forward to this moment for days 🤣
Bro same😂
One of the biggest problems I've noticed is how difficult it is to actually approach and talk to women nowadays. I could approach this woman, but what if what I say puts her off? What if my inflection makes be sound like a creep? I'm just some stranger who's decided to strike up a conversation. She doesn't know me, so she could easily get the wrong idea. The only way I've ever been able to talk to them is if I work my way into a conversation they're already having if I have knowledge of what they're talking about.
This.
To be fair, the inverse is also true. At least to me. A random woman walks up to me and tries to ask details about me I automatically get put on the defensive, trying to figure out her intent. A lot of that comes from how social ability has broken down over the past few years and the normalization of people posting to social media villifying randoms.
Grow thicker skin, give women basic respect ,and take risks. Simple.
I also have better things to do than date currently. I have 3 CZcams channels to get off the ground.
it's really easy once you stop caring all that much. a coworker back in my retail days asked my once why i have literally 0 trouble flirting with customers or asking someone for their number. wann know my responds? cause i honestly don't give a shit about their responds. i am either getting a nice weekend with a gal or i am moving on to the next one. especially if it's some rando i will probably never see again.
i think as you grow older you reach that age that magicly makes you care less about the opinions of others and allows you to simply do your thing. some simply reach it sooner than others.
Or how about you walking in a burger place and a woman calls the cops on you because she "saw a signal" and the signal was you buying a chicken sandwich and she didn't like the chicken sandwich from here now you have a court date because of her
So I actually only started watching ShoeonHead about a week ago. I kept seeing all the reaction channels the past four months with her in the thumbnails and was afraid she was a negative wart and so avoided her. Then I caved recently, and I'm glad that she turned out to be a reasonable, funny person, who I subscribed to after a day, that's how fast I was drawn in. She's pretty good.
Ya, she's a good person and really funny even if I do. I have some slight disagreements with her.
Have you seen her blood video? Funniest shit ever.
also, the hold door open for women thing, in the south, we're taught to do that just to be polite. It messes with me sometimes that that's considered bad by some people.
Same in the northeast
I do this because of that exact reason it's considered a gesture of kindness/ being polite and I've already been called a creep by visitors for doing so... I'm only 18 but idk wtf I'm supposed to do if I ever actually wanted a relationship which I don't because the majority of my town are either 3-4 years older then me or 4-5 years younger excluding the people my age which includes 2 other guys and a girl who literally acts like a spinner and works in a strip club at 18 when her family is far from poor or even dysfunctional. I'm the only 18 year old who's single in ny small town and since I'm in a small town that actually has a college no clue how but we do... I see more 21-23 year old women some of which are kind altbough call me a baby but most are mean... like scratch your face because you loomed them while you were at the local pool swiming mean. Our town is small so my family moved in and I was born when people just had a child and therefore stayed away from making kids in order to force on the ones they had. It's a weird kinda small town skip hear where barely anyone was born.
In new york you opening a door for a woman is a $10,000 fine for "removing her autonomy" and 10 years in jail
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@@vergillives9890get out, for real? Whats the difference between "removing autonomy" and "holding hostage"?
Kip on Shoes Ad read: well timed, well read it wasn't rushed and just paced quite well. A well done if i do say so
Kip on TFE ad reads: Yes!
It's kinda like watching both Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. You can like both, like I do. But, there's different things I like about them.
@KipReacts just reminded me of the gigachad meme
Cant wait for the next TFE reaction
Shoe SEE’S you kip. 😂
I always get self-conscious when someone I react to sees my reaction.
@@KipReacts no Kip. She SEE’s you. Like Santa Clause. Sleeping. Awake. At night in your bed having “alone time” with your purple unicorn plushy pressed to your fore head and crocs on…
I'm so god damn lucky to have my wife. Modern dating looks like an absolute nightmare from the outside looking in. I've been off the market so long that I've never used a dating app and I really don't want to learn how it feels.
Also I think the loneliness thing is an extension of the friend recession we're in. Relationships are just a particular brand of friendship and friendship as a whole is a little fricked since social media popped off. I think people didn't realize that social media is suppose to be an add-on to real friendships, not a substitution for them.
I think a lot of the problem is what is pushed in society/modern media: promiscuity, drugs, active night life, etc...
All of these things promote people of both sexes to be single. We see these things being pushed in movies, music, games, and social media. The problem for the women is that due to biology, they have a limited time if they want a family. Too many women are "living their best life" well into their late 30s and beyond and then finding that they want a family after they've offered themselves to countless men, and/or are at the age that having children will come with high risks for defects.
Also, the divorce laws need to be fixed; there are more and more men coming to the realization that marriage (or even a relationship with any woman) is just not worth the headaches and potential loss of most of what they've built for themselves.
I really enjoy your critiques of the ad reads on the videos you react to.
I think rating the ad reads is something more react channels should do. It can be fun.
Funny enough my dad was just nice to people unless he had no choice but to retaliate.
One time my dad was just nice to this one chick in highschool and the girl just talked a lot about my dad that her boyfriend caught on and started accusing my dad of trying to sleep with her and my dad was like.
"What the fuck are you on? I have no interest in your girlfriend dude."
Also i can attest that the "win a mans heart through there stomach" works as when the first time my mom and dad met was at a potluck.
After that they talked to each other and eventually got married.
As for "objectification of women"
It takes two to tango.
Women shouldn't complain especially if they start "flashing the goods", grated they may not be that "type of women" to qoute a very famous comedian "Girl you may not nit be a Whore, but you are wearing a whores uniform"
However for the guys. Stop thinking with yea dicks and simping for women who are only in it for the money like Only fans models and porn.
That is coming from a guy whos seen it happen in the military way more often than i wish. Like the amount of times ive had sqaud mates say "hey Anime Guy after this we should go to a strip club!" And then all the guys in the back if the transport truck shouting "YEA LETS GET ANIME GUY LAID!"
And im like "nah im good", unfortunately because ive been burned out from dating in highschool so im just drifting until i believe God will give me a sign. Because oh god when i tried in highschool i was so broken after that...
imagine spending all of that cash to get a phd only to waste it on a article like that.
"Would you go over to a woman that was crying and ask what's wrong?" Kip: "No." "Does a hatbox do it for you?" Kip: "Yes." Based
The Female Loneliness Epidemic is easier to fix than the Male Loneliness Epidemic. The former was caused by those suffering from it and can be fixed by those same people. The latter was inflicted upon men, and the men are not the ones who can fix it.
51:53 You're famous! 👏👏
You NEED to react to her HELL WORLD series where she goes over the news. It’s so good and there’s so many twists and turns. Skip episode 1 though, it’s boring. 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6 are amazing. They’re kind of political sometimes but in a centrist way.
I'm really trying to watch the politics.
Once I go to far down that road it becomes impossible to separate from it.
Oh thanks, I'd forgotten about the explicit "Don't approach/disturb women living their lives" 14:10 thing I'd heard growing up. The only thing I could clearly remember disincentivizing me from approaching was anti-SA teachings in school followed by SA becoming an EXTREMELLY broad definition.
Glad to see your reaction to your reference. I would like to give you a suggestion for a reaction.
The honeybadgers started around the same time as shoe. And even shoe shouted them out in one of her videos you reacted to. I would not suggest Honeybadger radio, their current endeavor. But some of their old CZcams channels.
The top being Typhonblue and Girl Writes What. The most viewed videos are ten years old, but amazingly still relevant. Ignoring the internet drama for the time.
I noticed there was a part of this video cut, and I know why. Good on ya Kip.
came for the gun reactions stayed for Kips rambles. good shit.
I personally rule myself out because I don't have a career yet. I'm decent looking, workout five days a week, talk to women daily - so I'm not awkward, and I've been told I'm really funny. It always surprised people when I tell them I haven't dated in years, but I still lack a good career, so I'm broke. Dating when you're broke is terrible.
Could we please appreciate the tip "take a bicycle tour through Europe" and that this tip list is from 1959.
I honestly wouldn't have found you without the Shoe reactions. True for a lot of the vtuber community, actually.
Also: Sum41 in your recommended. Nice.
i am somehow unconvinced that human existences are valued high enough in a societal way that the issue of failing mental health will be approached before just taking another less damaged human resource instead. there is always the next generation.
LOL 28:03 literally happened to me. My school lost my graduation test results and basically all records for high school. Needless to say I dropped out, aint doing that again.
So yes, that can actually happen
so something like that actually happened to me in highschool tho i had all the credits needed to graduate my junior year however my school at the time madison high (in madison ohio) had some bs policy that forbids graduating early so for a year and a half i had to go to school and do absolutely nothing well ok i chose to do absolutely nothing just study hall all day for a year and a half rather then take a whole year and a half of classes that i didn't need to
52:00 CALLED OUT! :D
4:06 you might want to clip that. In 10 years if the demographics don't improve... that is going to become very relevant.
Every time i watch a shoe video i can never find out if she has an irish accent or has a new york accent
Dating apps are specifically designed to keep people lonely and desperate so they'll keep using the app.
47:03 "What if someone wants their steak well-done?"
"We ask them politely yet firmly to _leave."_
You know I was Army. I tend to say female a lot since that is how you say it in the Army. My brother told me once that whenever I say it he hears a Ferengi saying it.
Thinking more on this, I believe that this is a result of the polarization and radicalization caused by social media and the internet. As good as these things are for connecting people, introducing them to new things they would have never gotten into before, like games, anime, TCGs, etcetc; it also leads to the radicalization from these fridge groups of people who are extreme in their beliefs in everything. And it's very easy for the average person to fall into these social media echo chambers and radicalize either into the group they fall into or radicalize against it. This is what you see in things like the manosphere, where a lot of aimless young men fall in with people like Tate and then they get sucked into being a woman hater because they get surrounded by them.
I fell into one of these when I was younger where, as a woman about to start college, I distinctly remember being told and seeing on social media all these things about 40% of women experience SA in college and going from the already anxiously paranoid person I was into the man-fearing, man-hating I became for several years. I've also experienced watching my brother fall into the red pill types after a breakup in highschool. In the end, a lot of things online today are pushing for everything to be politicized, everything has to be a battle for some greater good lile equality and acceptance, but what's really going on is these bitter, hateful people who have no goals and aspirations in life trying to give themselves purpose by "fighting the good fight" while pushing and pulling more and more of the average, everyday silent majority just trying to live their lives further to the extremes on every issue.
As a aside, "pull yourself up by your bootstraps " is a phrase meant to mock the idea of total self reliance. Because your bootstraps are on your boots, you physically cant pull yourself up by your own feet.
the phrase just irritates me so much for so many reasons I struggle to help not mentioning how dumb it is in some way.
Oh it's incredibly dumb.
I really only use it when someone either uses it against someone or comes from a standpoint of confrontation. The number of people who hate hearing, "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" parroted back at them is kind of funny. But, the term shouldn't even be used in the first place anymore because it's dated and allows for certain behaviors.
36:01 I'm tempted to respond to this one. Here's why. Other than bass pro is my haunt, I love two blocks from it. I can one up shoe by reacting to this one at Bass pro store 001.
Bass Pro 001? What a legendary location.
I can't wait for a compilation of VTubers being noticed during that specific section and their reactions 🤣🤣
5:25 Low birthrates also affect things like social security too. With the way that social security works, you have the current working age population's taxes paying for the current retiree's checks. Well, if you don't have kids, there are going to be less people paying taxes and subsequently less money to go around.
I know this sounds ridiculous and completely out there, and I don't want it. But I could see a future where you only get social security benefits if you have kids or something like that. The logic behind it being, "if you're not going to produce the next generation of people who will pay your social security, why should you get any." I hope that doesn't happen, but nothing happens until it does.
Just a little concern I could see coming up going forward.
Oh, I'm not getting Social Security at all when hit that age.i don't expect to receive a penny. I've got 36 years or so before I can even attempt to collect. That's assuming that age didn't rise to 70+ over the next few decades too.
@@KipReacts that's a fair choice to make, I just brought it up as something for society to consider.
That story about doing it in a theatre reminds me of an allegedly screwed in a whales corpse
Wow, the writer of the followup article DESPERATELY insists other women ignore their loneliness, doesn't she? Because all of her "modern" advice leaves one big question unanswered after doing the girl-boss leave-me-alone advise: And Then What?
Vanilla Momogomous is actually still the 95 % Standard. Do not force your own preferecens on others. Coming from a 50 year old Daddy Dom (BDSM, Bondage preference woman much younger than me).
Around 22:45 “What about people like me that like math and finance”
…don’t men generally like math and finance? Or am I wrong here?
It's why I say everyone is different, and I treat people on a case by case basis. Some men like math and finance. Some don't. Same with women. We're all unique individuals, though sometimes someone can just end up being a stereotype or generalization.
@@KipReacts my bad, i just thought the way you said it was implying it's different from what men like. My bad.
Nope! All good!
Glad I could clear that up. It's why I speak the way I do and try to clarify everything.
In my experience, fewer people like math regardless of gender. 😂 School system trauma be like.
@@Desdemona-XI fair xD
I can firmly say as a very autistic woman, my way of going about relationships is more similar to the guy side, but also In the nerd side of thing you have some of us trying to compete with nonexistent waifus, some reliant on Tik Tok advice, then you have people like me who are so autistic that physical intimacy isn't even an option so we just kind of exist. I'm physically built like Uzake chan and have to live with fellow wamen trying to gaslight the world into thinking that being short automatically means child. But at the same time, the 'gamer girl' memes of like guys saying "Why can't I find a hot gamer gf" only to completely ignore that one chubby girl at the anime convention whose might absolutely be into that but she thinks she's not even on the radar because media has told us that we ain't it.
I am in the high functioning Autism side kf the spectrum because of that I don't get help but I will say I tend to agree with you out look. I als deal with a few other things that either make life worse or somehow better😂😂😅 like ADHD, OCD(while either cancel out my ADHD or make it worse), SEVERE anxiety, light-middle anger issues (it depends on what caused I but physical altercations have happened with guys and as fo women I try to stay as calm as possible because I'm easy to figure out and people have just pushed my buttons ny entire life out of spite of my own mother... yeah my family is annoy 😅)
@@NightfurySkrill_Joel Luckily for my I’m also an extrovert, and I have a boyfriend who also was in special Ed with me. But in many regards I got lucky, because I am dating a guy I was already friends with. My rule has, and always was to never date someone who I wasn’t friends with first. Prevents the problem of them learning your ugly sides, or worrying about their opinion, because they already know you on some level.
Wait wait wait. Did my man just "a normal Idaho perspective"? Is my man Kip from the same state as myself?
I'm kinda all for women being the ones to instigate. Y'all wanna change social dynamics all over the place, fine. Let's give it a shot.
Granted, I'm married already, so I'm not exactly in the running, but I'm still in support of this. Give it like a decade, let's try it out.
When will you react to Larry thorne by COUNT DANKULA
Any of Dankula's Mad Lad videos will be right at Kip's alley, yeah.
Odd observation:
Notice that the J on her mug is backwards. This means that her video is inverted. Also observe that her American flag is not backwards... This means that her American flag is in reality hung backwards in her recording room.
in concept he isn't wrong my educated opinion is every person has a priority order
Reaction to people's reactions to reactions is that a new thing these days?
27:34 kip onlyfans special confirmed? I'm picturing a 20+ minute indie film coming out of this with adult film stars and Kip directing the whole thing.
Bro admitted to be a tron player sus af
1 + 1 + 1 = 7.
I can just scoop if I don't have 7 by turn 3.
It's actually spicy.
God dammit Kip, Tron by turn 3, really!?
I do get cynical about the topic of finding love, but the one true advice is as simple as it is very dissatisfying.
It has been known throughout time with multiple variations across a million cultures around the world throughout time. I will use the modern English variety.
Touch grass and talk to people!!
Maslow Pyrmide is real bruh
Please tell me your fans are known as Idahomies.
"Sexual objectification of women" is a concept that is only valid in feminist theory, just like "toxic masculinity" and other absurd theories made by feminists. Women seen mainly as an object of male sexual desire can be referred to women who provided services of a sexual nature. Looking at the popularity of "fans only" and the promotion of other types of sex work as "empowerment," one can conclude that the objectification of women, according to the feminist concept, is much worse now than before.
Anyone can objectify someone. A woman can say that, "I only want 6'+, chiseled, fit, etc" and care nothing for their personality. Objectifying someone has no gender requirement.
I have absolutely no issue if someone uses platforms like OF, CB, Fansly, and even modem Twitch as a method of work. Projekt Melody is a huge inspiration for me, and adult work is perfectly acceptable. What it CAN do is have randoms try and pressure certain people into doing adult content. Doing adult content can also be an insane boost to your metrics, and this can have the side effect of being able to "put a price" on being and to pressure anyone into that kind of work and content.
It's all about weeding those people out and calling that behavior out. Realistically, who cares if someone is doing adult content? Aother Shoe0nHead video illustrates the current issues with being unable to escape adult content anymore (The Twitch Th0t Epidemic). People are allowed to like adult content, but they're also allowed to not like it. It's 100% valid to look at a date that does adult content and either be into it, or walk away because you're not comfortable with the concept.
I think part of the issue is that almost everything is a polarizing issue anymore. Heightened emotions combined with poor social skills and subscribing to extreme sides of an argument (or outright misinformation/disinformation) is so common anymore.
@@KipReacts While I don't care too much about what someone does for a living, as it's really none of my business, I would argue that adult content creators from platforms like OF or Fansly are no different from drug dealers when it comes to the morality of their profession - they both prey on other people's ill-being. I have absolutely nothing against either of them, but if one of these ways of making money is socially acceptable, it seems logical to me that the other should be as well, since both are essentially exploitation.
Tell me you have never been in a meaningful relationship without telling me LMFAO
@@justanidiotmk2749 It depends on how you define a "meaningful relationship." Personally, I can't call my eight-year marriage, which ended in divorce because my ex-wife thought she could find someone "better" than me, a "meaningful" relationship. Do you have any more wrong assumptions about me, or have you sufficiently clown yourself?
Sorry kip. I have personal reasons I don't want to watch this. Namely, been SA'd 4 times by different women. Narrowly avoided number 5 just a couple months ago. For the transphobic and women can't do that crowd, zero of them were trans. I have chosen to just be alone since 2016 as a result of the first two times and to get peace from all the drama they bring. There was also some lady that as a response to me pointing out that she was belittling SA victims in a comment section, made six tiktok accounts to comment on my tiktoks to imply that I had SA'd someone. Then you have people like Taylor Swift (according to my female friend) turning everything into a red flag and turning people into feminazis. Soo to recap. As of 3 ish years ago, men started to quit dating en masse. The few still in have to deal with the fact that so many will NEVER be happy.
So yeah. To me, it's not a shock that women are now starting to get lonely. Nothing is good enough for them and nobody wants to deal with drama and bs anymore. They said they would be fine without us and apparently that was a lie too.
Sorry, this kinda stuff gets me heated. But yeah. TL:DR I don't think I really need a video to tell me why they're lonely
I mean fair to avoid triggers, but I've been SAd by men and women, and cheated on, lied to and more. But i also dont use that as an excuse to not learn more, nor to i write out lengthy sentences telling someone why i wont watch a video, i just dont watch it
One does not look to a rapist to understand the layman, nor vise versa, you're painting pretty broad strokes there. And speaking with confidence that you don't need to know more than a very incomplete picture.
Like i said, you do you, avoid triggers if you gotta. But this is kind of a weirdly aggressive stance to take about it.
Bro said he "tried out poly and it wasn't for him but 1 is still on going" like it's a different flavour of chocolate or something. Alot of lonely people probably game ended themselves over that sentence! 🤣
Nah that's a vio! 🤣
Mine, Power plant, tower... you're a Vice n' Racker, I bet. Lock that hand up.
Personally all I see is bad dating advice online. My best work advice do not listen to worthless losers who have no experience. Because if they are not authentic as themselves that means they have plenty of issues. 😏😏😏