What Men Need To Know About Women - Yasir Qadhi - Animated
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Actually, that was pretty good. I'm an atheist, but I'll show this vid to a couple of mates who grumble about their partners.
I respect people like you! I dont care what someone is can we all just be cool and get along lol! I have some atheist friends and I love the knowledge most atheist I talk to have how they view life we can learn from everyone! be cool man best!!
OmG i love people like you
I too am an atheist but this is still interesting
Guys islam has a lot of solutions for our problems, because Creator knows us best so it is best to follow his commands
Very stereotypical actually... Not surprising
1.say -I love you(really love her)
2. Celebrate / just say that u still love her
3. Praise her for her work
4. Give her your quality time
Alhamdulillah 🤩😍
M a hindu , still watching and appreciating each and every word said by you. This is accurate and needed..irrespective of any religion. Everyone should be learning this.
But nobody follows these days including me
Masha allah may allah bless you
Hidayakumullah!
We need more humans who respect other religions including their own!,😊😊
Muhammad Mafaz talk for yourself
This video may just save any marriage for men who watches this everyday as a reminder.
Everyday loool 😂😂
That’s suicide 😂😂
I am not married but still I m listing to it
Mohhomad umer Farooq 🙂
Same here brother. Love can make or break someone. I think best I finish my education and get into the job I want and get a property as a investment then probably I can start searching. I heard my school crush is likely married which really was a punch in the stomach but I pray to Allah that I move on quickly and feel happier with my life
I guess you can use this in everyday life with anyone even maybe with your own mother if it isn't in a weird way
Count me in 😂
Me 2
Ooooooooooh, now I get why wifeey always asks "Why are not texting me during the day?" Constant reassurance. As a guy, I never understood it throughout my life and thought the woman to feel the same.
It's so weird, but beautiful at the same time. The dynamics and behaviour of women and men. Allah creates us similar in some ways and different in others. And He made them into pairs to be a source of comfort for each other
How did you not know?😂 she’s asking about you she’s caring for you? How did you not understand why😂
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I've always said this and i'll always say it, "if someone treats me good, i'll treat them even better".
Personally it is that way for me and i feel like a lot of women also would agree with me. Trust me, girls notice the most minimal efforts, it's all about the details for her! You don't have to give her something big to make her happy!
Precisely
Nowadays it's easier to make her happy if you are well established.
That depending on what kind of woman your partner is.
Love the men educating themselves here, Inshallah you all get caring and beautiful wives
In sha Allah
Thanks I guess but I don't want wives just let me have a wife. I think that's more than enough for me.
@@Melon-ALL-Free I think she was talking to all the men, not just a singular men, and thus needed to say the plural form of men. Sorry to be that guy but 🤓
After listening to this , I realised how great of a husband my father was to my mother.
And you are a lucky son!
That's very rare
about the cooking and cleaning thing my mom is a housewife while my dad has a job, my dad constantly tells my mom she does nothing and she should get a job because she is lazy but little does he know shes always cooking good meals for him, she is cleaning, which is not easy she raised me and my siblings which is really sad to me and i feel helpless in this situation.
Allah sees her efforts don't worry, and inshallah by making dua may allah open his eyes and heart to see what your mother is doing ❤️
May be your father has more responsibilities. Also he may not have someone to share his difficulties.
@@muhammadmafaz8530 why is it that you having to defend him being your first thought
@@aizahsyed5342 have you ever asked him about his difficulties? Have you ever done a job in a company?
@@muhammadmafaz8530 im talking about my moms struggles here and your first thought is ab my dad you know nothing about my life why is your first thought to defend my dad you internalised misogyny is showing
Perfect, accurate and non stereotypical. MashAllah
You're joking right 😂
Why should she*? Is something so funny?
@@ElixirScent because this video is full of stereotypes and generalization. Not every woman's first priority is love. A good number of women want to be respected more than they want to be loved. This video in fact is a good example of Islam, does not take into account the individualism of humans and gives out advice based on gross generalisations.
It's Masha Allah Ramsha fatima sister
@@ocean3802 my first priority is love
After listening to this i realised how amazing my dad was to my mother.
think of all the women watching this.
The woman watching this agree with this 😂
Lmao 😝
as a woman i am starting to think my boyfriend might actually be the the woman XD i am the who has a difficult time saying " pretty" affectionate things because i find ot so cheesy to say them ( and hear them) and he the one who wants me to say those things to him more often. he is the one who feels insecure sometimes compared to other guys ( because he wins weight easily if he stops doing sport), i am the one asking " what's wrong?" and him like " oh , it's nothing"...and i " righ, what is wrong, tell me because i am not guessing here" . and i am always forgetting important dates, i don't like to celebrate things like san valentine, i don't like to be gifted flowers and my version of doing something romantic is sitting in the couch for a lotr marathoon with popcorns. i also don't get particularly worried if he only texts me once a day cause we both get engrosed on other activities ( reading, watching shows, sports, work ,etc)and all but forget we own a phone. so yeah...i think according to this video i might be the man and my boyfriend the woman XD
in general, this is a nice video but we should not assume that all women and all men are the same, so we should not assume that going out for dinner and saying " i love you" is going to work for every woman or that men never need to hear cheesy romantic stuff themselves. careful with generalization and getting the wrong message.
@@ramshafatima7178 Thamk god i was worried LOL
@@nessyness5447 Good one!
Am a Hindu but I find this beautiful. Masha Allah! May God bless you for the beautiful work you r doing.
I am married for 3 years and half now. The point about TIME is mind blowing discovery. Almost always get back home immediately and stay at home mostly but wife still complains about time. Now I understand!
robinvannoor loo how did u get married
@@mahadahmedbaloch bruh 😂
@@mahadahmedbaloch probably found a woman and took her in Nikkah
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@@user-ll6sy4vl2i what is it tho
I don’t why but after watch this a smile appeared on my face and I’m still smiling....what a lovely way to make people understand!♥️Mashallah... i wish that every men understand this thing😌
I listened with my wife besides me sleeping!!!!
Now put it to effort brother!! 🙂
Mashallah may Allah bless you guys with happiness and ease inshallah
Ameen
Are you sure she was sleeping and didn't just have her eyes closed?
@@Abdullah34610 😂😂
@@Abdullah34610 😂😂😂😂😂
If only men followed our beloved prophet pbuh, not just as a man but also as a husband. These days it's too much hard work for men, they get used to things, get lazy, forget about their partners emotions. It's so simple but yet men make it complicated. May Allah bless us all with guidance and righteous pious partners. Inshallah ameen ♥️
Excellent words my dear brother.👍🏻
Alhamdulillah you have never been more on target and I am saying this after being married for 35yrs may Allah protect all our marriages ameen
I’m a woman and I don’t comparing myself to others...but that’s true
and men do compare themselves to each other, men can have insecurities about their body and attractiveness too and that is something to be aknowledge too. they also need to hear their couple finds them attractive or how good they look in an outfit, sometimes even more than women do. and women are not always second guessing if their couple still loves them and they don't always give anniversaries and dates like that so much importance. not all women are sensitive and romantic and some men are emotional and romantic. that shoud be considered too.
UNITED MONEY sir that’s not something to laugh about. It’s really sad that some of us girls compare themselves and it really brings us down.
Women don't like admiting this but they compete with each other.
@@razer0072073 lmao and yet lots of men do stupid things to prove their 'masculinity' to other guys
but i do
Another thing is be careful of only spending the time you have with your spouse complaining, venting, or taking out the anger you might have for others.
Venting is ok to some extent but your partner is not there to take all the negative you have inside while other people get the loving and gentle side of you.
Also, a big one is don't leave the parenting to your wife, you both decided to have kids and you're both parents. This is something which can be extremely detrimental to your wife and whole family, especially as the older kids grow up and end up taking on some of your responsibilities as a parent to the younger kids to try and maintain some order.
Communication is so important in a relationship, without it arguments over small matters become unavoidable and the whole family unit becomes disconnected as the parents are never on the same page.
Some observations from my parent's marriage of about 25 years.
This video also made me realise I have no clue what their anniversary is because sadly it's not something they celebrate or even acknowledge.
My take away from this video is I want my marriage to be different In sha Allah💗
Perfect. Really impressive. Thank you so much. God bless you all.
Clean and clear! Tq sheikh..:)
OMG, so beautiful, I would like to listen again n again.
This was so helpful! Thank you!
1:46 No the word "I Love You" does mean anything any more because lots of men continue to cheat and tells their gfs or wives "I Love You". Now a days you have to show and prove your love to her or him instead of repeating "I Love You".
Yes, actions speak louder than words
But say I love you and show her that you love her
Exactly just like the children learn from actions not advice you got to show them
As if saying this wasn't enough.
This message is for decent or normal couples not for cheaters. This is to better the relationship between those normal couples who think they are genuine to each other but still there is a gap between them.
Jazak Allah khairan ❤️
Mashallah!!
Yes!! Totaly truee 100% right
Well said. Jazakallah khair.
So true ..jazakallah ho khair...🌸
Beautiful explanation Sir. Jazak Allahu Khairan
Exactly this is what we want.
Talk about million dollars worth a game. This is a gem alhumdulliah 💎
Women don’t always want love. They want respect and equality.
What do you mean by eqaulity
@@ProductivePathways101 to be treated as an equal, as someone in the same level than men, and never as an inferior or superior being.
Do u think the guy who loves u dont give u the respect. And on the question of equality, I dont understand what it is.
No two human beings are equal. Even two male friends dont bother about equality.
I can undertand shared responsibilties. But I dont understand equality.
Does it mean both the man and woman paid equally?
And in a marriage man and woman can never be equal. Woman can give birth to the child by carrying the baby for 9 months.
Equality is something related to the 'State'. It is states responsibility to treat all the people equally. Even that equality is between equals.
Equality has no meaning personal relationships. It doesn't even have any meaning in professional relationships. After all professions also depend a lot on maintaining personal relationships.
Those who are good at personal relationships don't bother about equality. Because they try to give less and take more.
"Those who expect equality in a relationship will never get the love they needed".
Man and women aren't created equal!
@@ahmedsufiyan20 they have a different body shape and reproductive system due to some different hormonal combination. the rest it is the same, we all have a brain, eyes, nose, lungs, heart, liver, stomach, veins, arteries, all of that works in the same way in both.
Wow . You said it perfectly
Alhamdulillah
Such a beautiful video ever
Alhamdulillah brother very vivid explanation.
Mashallah well said brother❤
Ma shaa shaa Barkallahu feek
Wow! This video is a marriage saver be it for a muslim or a non- muslim. As long as they are women they are the same..
Great video..thank you so much for this video which touches on ALL issues of what a married couple should be like..
Great work ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
MashaAllah, very well explained
I wish all men had an understanding ofwomen just like u do.mashallah.may Allah guide muslim husbands to treat their wives in a loving manner.
Thank you brother
Yes work should be 50-50 , but in our society it is not available and it is a matter of sorrow for those girls who keep working in their in-laws and they behave with them like a maid and as if it's her duty towards the family but it's not😈😈😈. May Allah grant those in laws humanity, AMEEN
Masha allaha😍😍
JazakAllah
Jazaak Allah
Sad to say my dad was that kind of man toward my mom..now I understand what my mom feeling. Even for little thing they always argue, though they already had 50th anniversary 😞😞..hope u all who reading this can pray for my father to open his heart for my mom. I felt pity for her.
may Allah opens his heart for her🌝
@@munibamalik2921 amiin
Superbly explained
I'm 17, why how did I end up here....? I can only see grown-ups here..
I'm a 17 year old girl......then I'm watching this..😉😁😁
Ikr, I'm 20 and I've no idea why I'm here
Don't worry that curiousity it not as haram as porn. At least you learning something will benefit you someday.
Masha Allah tabaarakallah
i came to understand my wife lil bit more thanks to this video
Dua to Fix all your family issues:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔
Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
Not all wives need this assurance. Eyes and actions speak volumes I believe
he didn't mean by assurance that you have a daily speech everyday that you read upon her😂😂
because even words are very weak, and probably what you mentioned is really what he meant by that assurance, that you still care for her and her emotions :)
Amazing Video though am not married , i would say head start is always good. One more thing u said women wants rather should be women want (all in good faith brother)
I was married for more than ten years, and at some point I was resolute on holding onto the marriage because I thought I need to just overlook all the mistreatment and to keep forgiving, until my heart cannot keep it in any longer, and ultimately I had to resort to divorce.
This love-list made me cry.
I pray to Allah, if I cannot find my soulmate in this Dunya, may He accept my Tawbah and pair me with a spouse in Akhirah.
100% correct advice 👍
Helpful
How to remember anniversary?
Write on a diary man you'll never forget just don't lose it 😂😂😂
I will do everything in sha Allah
Everyone speech is very impressed on the goal, O God, bring the heaven to the destination, the desire to heart in the prayer, because I ask for childhood in prayer. Allah plzzz give me success in my test Ameen
Master class🤝
Anniversaries are Mustahab but Mawlid is Biddah
Subhanallah
Perfect
This video is new but it feel like Ive seen this one a while ago.
I rlyy hope to be a good husband soo much!!
Hope to make my wife and kids very happy in life!😊😊
If I get them inshallah one day.
inshaAllah!! Best of luck
@@afreensiddiqui4401 thanks!💗 Inshallah you 2!!
Inshallah brother. May Allah swt help you.
@SaMiA Can you send it? The video of nouman ali khan?
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shukran that mesg was for me
We need more Imam like him, get sick with fundamentalist Imam in my country.
Yes, definately. In my country Imams teaching to beat wives for prevention
I wonder sometimes if the coran translations is correct. Cause there i's written none knows the meaning eccept Allah (swt)
@@labonnoislam7965 You talk like we didn't have 1400 year worth of schoolarship from learning the Quran and the Hadith.
04:45 that's truu 😊
100% agree
Is there a translation (to russian) video?
notice how when women get shown attention no one complains? when its about men there's a lot of problems
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Wow💝🥀
Assalamu alaykum everyone! Does anyone know what software was used to create this video? TIA:)
Search in google "Whiteboard Animation softwares" or videoscribe
Inshallah
Please make one more vedio on this topic a more detailed one
Can I translate these videos and subtitle then post it on facebook?
Paywand Yousif Course you can, please mention this channel too.
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Nice video and great message!
Can you tell me how you make the sketch video?
its made by videoscribe
It is a matter of preferences
Men bashing is the new norm. Just look at the comments on the video "What women need to know about men". Suddenly everyone hating on him. But here everyone praising him, specially the ladies. Relationship is NOT a one-way street.
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Men and women both want the same thing it's just that men are not good at providing it. Women are always showing love in so many ways; think of the five universal love languages and which gender expresses them more: 1. Acts of service (cooking and cleaning for them, giving them oral sex) 2. Quality time (putting the phone aside to sit and talk to them) 3. Gift giving (giving presents for birthdays, cooking favorite meals or desserts) 4. Words of affirmation (saying I love you or giving compliments) 5. Physical affection (cuddling, hugging, or kissing in a non-sexual way or performing sexual acts focused on the partner's enjoyment)
We all want to be loved and when our partner does not show us love in our love language it is very hurtful.
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good practice to give tabligh
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പൊളിയേ.......💋💖
Wait... there are actually men out there in the world that know this stuff!? Wow. Where are they. 😑
They're pretty much everywhere but very hard to actually find one. They don't brag, don't stand up, just quietly living a life they love. Women who have them are luckier than someone who won a lottery ticket.
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Although this is coming from a man, it is all true. Saying "I Love you" is simple yet it never gets old, only if you say it sincerely tho...
I feel like your a bit wrong how guys dont care about thier looks, boys are just as self conscious and much more insecure
Congratulations Grimmy, you're still a teenager 🙂
@@neverthelesspeaky3843 i am, so what of it? doesnt mean older men arent at least a little bit insecure abt their looks
@@Grimmy-mm8mx Yes they are but definitely not as much as women
@@muhammadahsan9336 I agree
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What is Your Scource FOR This Material you are Teaching
Is it THE PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE MANUAL from the WEST
Who is the speaker
Where’s subtitles..???🤷🏻♂️
I'm 19 years old I play this video aleatory. Plzzz Allah gives me success in my coming test plzz 😢 Ameen
Please put the Indonesia subtitle ♥️
صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم علیہ السلام سلام اللہ علیہا رضی اللہ تعالیٰ اجمعین رحمتہ اللہ Shia and Sunni are brother thank you for this video very informative brother like always all the best to Muslim and atheism
Okay, then what kind of brother curses your own mother?
@@SlazeM7 thank you for your reply brother this platform is not for this kind of discussion which are historical differences between us now and always will be up to individual to research by themselves without being biased towards any ideology or may I say religion like always all the best to Muslim and Atheism love from Pakistan
I honestly feel like we are so minimized here as women.