I stayed in an abusive marriage for years, could not find the strength to walk out but I finally did

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  • čas přidán 20. 09. 2023
  • When Carol got into her first marriage, she ignored all the red flags from the word go. She knew she had no business being with that man but the fear of, “what will people say” was so strong that she opted to remain in that marriage for years.,
    However, after years of suffering, she left that marriage, started doing inner work, attended therapy and got to know herself more.
    Then one day, love presented itself again, but this time she was ready, aware and healed. She said a big yes, and the rest is history
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  • @CarolineMbithiDey
    @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +297

    Thanks Lynn and Your Amazing Team💕 for Providing a Safe Space to Share My Story and i pray it Empowers snd Impacts Others 💕

    • @JulzMuya
      @JulzMuya Před 9 měsíci +7

      Hey sis!!❤❤❤ I can't wait to watch this episode my dear. Just logged on after my morning devotion and I strongly belive this story will change lives and give hope to those who want to rebuild and have a second chance at love. Lots of love sis ❤❤❤.

    • @miss60kiss
      @miss60kiss Před 9 měsíci +4

      Thank you so much for sharing ❤

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před 9 měsíci +7

      More Grace to you❤❤❤

    • @majamaja8136
      @majamaja8136 Před 9 měsíci +12

      You are telling a story of many who haven't yet found their voices, thank you.

    • @NancyMwangi-hy2cy
      @NancyMwangi-hy2cy Před 9 měsíci +7

      At Carol I just can't enough of your story because it's sounds like paste and copy of my love story. To God be the Glory for another chance. Xoxo to Lynn and you. Love from Delaware 🇺🇸 🌎

  • @jackiewacuka
    @jackiewacuka Před 9 měsíci +126

    I shed a tear when Charles said "...I want to apologize for the Trauma and the pain you've been through. Even though it wasn't done by me, I think it's appropriate for someone to say sorry...". This is truly healing.

    • @omo926
      @omo926 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Yes, its really an important thing to do , just to bring healing .

    • @winnieawuor9129
      @winnieawuor9129 Před 7 měsíci +1

      There aren't so many Charles out here.Girl, you are blessed!

    • @lauralaurenwamucii3542
      @lauralaurenwamucii3542 Před 6 měsíci +1

      This really got me crying 😢 too. Such a loving man, I didn't know they exist

  • @faithfaith.2945
    @faithfaith.2945 Před 9 měsíci +323

    The ones that narrate these stories in English are the ones that have really made this channel international

    • @motivator1992.
      @motivator1992. Před 9 měsíci +15

      True coz I don't miss any and am Ugandan. All ladies she brings really are so beautiful but passing through alot which anyway makes them stronger 😢😢😢

    • @user-nr7tj6ct1t
      @user-nr7tj6ct1t Před 9 měsíci +13

      I am so encouraged that there are men who can love us despite òur past
      Amen

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +34

      Thanks for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

    • @matts6894
      @matts6894 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@WILMA_she lives in Tx

    • @genevieveokyere2124
      @genevieveokyere2124 Před 9 měsíci +3

      So true, I'm in Ghana 🇬🇭. Watch Lynn's shows all the time. God bless you Caroline and Lynn. This is true Ministry.

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo238 Před 9 měsíci +24

    Wooow,this lady describes my life with my ex,for like 16yrs ,today am happily marriage more than 15yrs,God is a God of 2nd chance

  • @shirleysmith3954
    @shirleysmith3954 Před 9 měsíci +143

    I lost everything being in a mental abusive marriage for 43 years and I lost everything during the marriage. It
    effected my life and my children. I have found an Amazing Loving Nigerian man now for 6 years. We have met challenges because I am African American Black strong woman. I always asked God to send me a Godly man who will love me and be my faithful Hubby. We put God first in everything we do. God’s Grace and mercy has been the anchor for us.🙏🏾🇺🇸

  • @carolmathenge3
    @carolmathenge3 Před 9 měsíci +40

    As a domestic violence survivor, I totally relate to Caroline's experiences. It's amazing that we are both Carolines that have survived much and love God. Am glad she gave you your flowers Lynn, because you deserve them and much more. Thank you for Hosting my namesake. And YES LYNN!!! God has just begun His work through You. Thank You Caroline for sharing your story and am also trusting God for a man that loves Him too and can wait untill marriage. Shalom.

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Před 9 měsíci +105

    Ladies...men lie to get you in the box..stop being carried away by an illusion 'he loves me'..focus on who he is..at personal level

  • @pastormungaianne2039
    @pastormungaianne2039 Před 9 měsíci +25

    Lynn, Thanks for hosting Calroline. Having known her since she landed in Boston, and truly, She is a Queen who was meant to shine. Even in those tough days in the 90s, we knew she is coming back. Carol we love you and Mr Dey. Keep on shining

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +3

      Thanks Pastor for taking the time to watch my story and all you have done and continue doing for the community in the diaspora

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před 9 měsíci

      Thank you so much Pastor🙏🙏

  • @imeldamarcos335
    @imeldamarcos335 Před 9 měsíci +65

    I've watched this episode and I've seen myself in it all through,from dating the wrong person,to your mum having an itch about the partner,the emotional abuse,healing and finally giving myself a second chance to love. Everything was like she was talking about me. Even though i don't have a ring on my finger yet,im hoping for the best with the person we trying at the moment. May i have an happy ending like Carol and i tap that in Jesus name.

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 Před 9 měsíci +23

    Its too sad that "what will people say" keeps so many people in abusive relationships

  • @raelgaro7157
    @raelgaro7157 Před 9 měsíci +21

    This story is exactly like mine.Ladies ..we go through alot when we don't have the right partner.

  • @user-tr4iy2bo6i
    @user-tr4iy2bo6i Před 9 měsíci +33

    I'm 19 with two kids ,the father is a narcissist and, the emotional abuse I have gone through in my relationship with him has caused me suffer from depersonalization, anxiety and depression but currently I'm trying to get my self together at my parents place , don't let anything hinder you from walking out of a toxic relationship or marriage everyone deserves to be happy ❤

    • @Nia-Kenia
      @Nia-Kenia Před 9 měsíci

      ‘Depersonalisation’! So so true ❤

    • @sharonmicheni2018
      @sharonmicheni2018 Před 8 měsíci +2

      All the best. All will be well sooner than you think

  • @margaretgithu-hj1il
    @margaretgithu-hj1il Před 9 měsíci +17

    Stayed mine 16yrs now single raising 3kids but i still believe in marriage works n i know one ntapata mr right

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Před 9 měsíci

      You’re not alone me too, I’m the same journey….raising two beautiful girls .God will see us through ❤

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks for taking the time to watch I pray Your Boaz will find you and your beautiful children 💕

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah1642 Před 9 měsíci +11

    How about we start a funds drive for that studio?Why not?

  • @nyamburarachel8184
    @nyamburarachel8184 Před 9 měsíci +23

    I used to ask myself why would a woman leave her matrimonio home just like that? The more I kept growing up and experienced it, I know understand,we can always love again and stay where our love is not limited, trigger,where there's peace to be precise.

  • @myaeve007
    @myaeve007 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Thank you so much Lynn for bringing Carol to the show! Her story resonates with so many women ( and men), myself included. We need to share our stories and give each other hope. Leaving a failed marriage does not mean you are a failure, it is the marriage that has failed, a distinct entity from you as an individual.
    I believe marriages fail because we marry for the wrong reasons e.g. he paid my university fees it means he loves me. Narcissists do that so they can control you. Desperation makes young girls rush into marriage because any act of perceived kindness is seen as love.
    For those who can afford it, i challenge the women on this platform to identify just one girl to sponsor through school, related or not. That act of genuine kindness will help one girl to have an opportunity to marry when she is ready, not because she needs financial assistance.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 4 měsíci

      @myaeve007 thanks for watching my story 💕 blessings to you

  • @marymuthie5844
    @marymuthie5844 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Carol yr story is so inspiring...I love the fact that God is in the centre of your relationship. You have encouraged many ladies going thru toxic relationships and those yet to get married to take note of the red flags....thank you for giving Lynn her flowers while she is still alive...🎉🎉she has really healed many lifes. Life lessons learnt:-
    -everyone has greatness inside of you.
    -you are not what happens to you.
    - take time to heal...healed people heal others, hurt people hurt others.
    Lynn keep up the good work and stretch your tent.

  • @carolinewanjiru3739
    @carolinewanjiru3739 Před 9 měsíci +57

    Caroline your story resonates with mine, only that it took me 19yrs of perseverance and covering up to walk out. There's nothing worse than being married to a street angel who's a devil at home.

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Hungs…

    • @dotgazelle
      @dotgazelle Před 9 měsíci +3

      Wow! You have put up so well. Hugs, love and prayers that you find healing and someone that loves you dearly.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +4

      Hi Caroline thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @carolinewanjiru3739
      @carolinewanjiru3739 Před 9 měsíci

      @@CarolineMbithiDey Amen 🙏

    • @lisak9361
      @lisak9361 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Sorry you had to go through that. I also stayed for 15 yrs.

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani9812 Před 9 měsíci +9

    This lady's composure is so admirable ❤. The way she narrates her story and how consistent she is. The God who loves her did this for her and made her smile😊. What a beautiful story with a happy ending 🎉😊. One day I will tell my story.

  • @karenwanjiru5276
    @karenwanjiru5276 Před 9 měsíci +5

    My mum was a victim too, and her whole struggles with healing has made me want to be graced as a tool for healing for wounded souls. If God opens doors for me to study counselling psychology and therapy, i will serve Him with that career in church as those amazing tools of healing did for Caroline.

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Před 9 měsíci +16

    I don't blame anyone who hold on so long on an abuser because of their love bombing trait's . you're always confused but you feel not okay

  • @AdventinaAnthony
    @AdventinaAnthony Před 9 měsíci +124

    Another day to remind myself to never ignore red flags 🙏

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +4

      God’s got you always and yes always pay attention to the red flags

    • @carolinewanjiku6610
      @carolinewanjiku6610 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Everyone sees the red flags but I think the pleasure to settle down or keep the marriage as they all say, and comparing oneself to fit in groups.

    • @sabin7327
      @sabin7327 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@CarolineMbithiDey I worked with Charles in the past. He's an amazing soul. Am glad you two found each other. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi Před 9 měsíci

      N to never ever think of 400 people who are coming to the wedding

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. Před 9 měsíci +32

    God bless her for all she's telling you directly about God's messages to you.
    On a personal note, I think it's time to reach out and host other communities outside the Kenyan community.
    Spread your outreach, Lynn.
    God bless you and your team.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +4

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @HRL.
      @HRL. Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@CarolineMbithiDey You're most welcome 🙏 and your hubby as well.

  • @annkirethi3812
    @annkirethi3812 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Relationships at a young age can drive one crazy,glad for the lessons this forum continues to offer to so many generations ❤

  • @flohMN1356
    @flohMN1356 Před 9 měsíci +26

    I can't miss this lesson..
    Thank you Lynn for this amazing episode.
    Myself I know in future when I get to have my own family, am sure what I've learnt from this show will be a lifetime guide..
    Blessings to LNN❤❤

  • @catherinemuiruri6098
    @catherinemuiruri6098 Před 9 měsíci +21

    This is one of the most powerful impact full interviews 👏🏽. The Lord bless you, Caroline, for hearing God and encouraging Lynn so powerfully and timely 🙏🏽

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +2

      Thanks Catherine for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

  • @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377
    @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377 Před 9 měsíci +14

    Wonderful show Lynn your guest speaks for a lot of women who are suffering in abusive marriages and hoping it will get better but instead gets worse. God bless u Lynn & your crew

  • @muthonim2905
    @muthonim2905 Před 9 měsíci +10

    I am so happy Caroline has said this. Lynn is Lynn. Our Lynn. Herself!! Unique!! Like no other. Let’s stop comparing her. She is joining the realm of global change makers. Bringing her own unique and authentic light! Just…Our Lynn! She is enough!!

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thank you❤❤❤🙏🙏

    • @judahwillgofirst7964
      @judahwillgofirst7964 Před 9 měsíci

      We want our Lynn,to sit with akina Oprah,but our girl,will tell the world,you can make it and still be God-fearing.

  • @katelairene6915
    @katelairene6915 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Wow! Nice conversation here. There is just so much of us ladies who would or occassionally fall into this trap, " he's been so nice to me, he has sacrificed so much for me" , and then he makes an advancement and truthfully you may not want to consent but the thought of how much he has done blah blah .... you fall in. Yes as she is saying learning to affirm your No is something that every lady can learn and be unapologetic about it. Personal dignity for self matters and doing it for the other is selfish when you are hurting 😢.
    Thank Lynn and team

  • @elijahm1717
    @elijahm1717 Před 9 měsíci +10

    May she find complete healing. She gave too much to be with her ex, including ignoring her values, her parents, the red flags. They moved in without setting healthy boundaries/standards. It was bound to fail from the word go. Love with your eyes open ladies. Again, this is the reason enjoying the fruits before the tree matures leaves you with a bitter taste

  • @nirvaborgelin5056
    @nirvaborgelin5056 Před 9 měsíci +18

    Hi Lynn
    I love your show and love her story today. It’s look like my story 35 years ago, but I broke up my engagement six weeks before the wedding. Good God’s Grace save me. Six years later, God’s blessed me with a wonderful man of God. Now we have four amazing children together.
    God blessings are with you Lynn and your team.❤

  • @goodmusic1802
    @goodmusic1802 Před 9 měsíci +24

    Some people mistake when we say we like to be chased as women. The chase means when I say yes, keep dating me and being a gentleman. When I say no, it means I don’t want you and I don’t want you to try.

  • @marywanjiku9406
    @marywanjiku9406 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Am watching this crying,I can relate to her story I went through this for 9 year and I thank God I came out of it

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Před 9 měsíci +16

    unfortunately, if you tell someone they are being used..they will think you are jealous..you want to snatch their people

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks for listening to my story and life lessons blessings to you

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Před 9 měsíci +17

    my piece of advice...dont promise anything and dont believe on what they promise especially in the initial stages of relationship

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 Před 9 měsíci +15

    Caroline, thank you for heeding God's voice and doing this interview! Thank you for embodying so much grace and strength, and vulnerably sharing your story. Although I haven't been married before, you spoke to me on so many fronts. May you continue to be salt and light, and shine your light so bright 💝

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 8 měsíci

      @faithmaro5134 dis💕 you’re welcome its my moral obligation to share and testify and empower others blessings to you

  • @GRACE-pg1mw
    @GRACE-pg1mw Před 9 měsíci +19

    I know Carol personally, she’s a brilliant awesome human being, didn’t even know of her trauma. Thanks for not letting your past overwhelm you 💕💕

  • @chania80
    @chania80 Před 9 měsíci +11

    I love Carols' spirit and indeed its absolutely true, healing is key, otherwise you wont recognize a good person plus you can also repeat patterns. I am so happy for them both. Charles seems gentle and that's what women need. I can relate to her story and the bounce back and peace is everything. I pray all women in abusive situations get the courage and the realization that there is a way out. You can start again. Not easy, but you can!!

  • @lennahombiro3577
    @lennahombiro3577 Před 9 měsíci +17

    Thanks Caroline and Lynn for sharing this. Counseling and healing time is important.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +2

      Thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

    • @priscachika6797
      @priscachika6797 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@CarolineMbithiDeythe same story with me but for 18yrs before I pull off 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 Před 9 měsíci +19

    I agree that every guest brings along life lessons

  • @wangui0011
    @wangui0011 Před 8 měsíci +3

    This particular show was for me!! My Mum met my ex 2 years into the relationship and she said, "he's not the one for you". Regretfully, I stayed for way longer than I should have. I experienced emotional, physical and financial abuse at the hands of this person. To this day i regret staying and losing so much...myself, energy, precious time, my confidence, trust in people. But I'm thankfully i FINALLY got out with my life on 10/14/2022. Hardest thing I ever did. Been through some therapy after getting diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety. Thank you for sharing your story Caroline, and thank heavens God turned it around for you with a wholesome partner. Lynn, you're an amazing talk-show host. Keep on keeping it real

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 8 měsíci

      @wangui0011 sending hugs and loads love your greater days are ahead of you

    • @atienoo9704
      @atienoo9704 Před 5 měsíci

      Sending you love mama ❤

  • @murielhampson6643
    @murielhampson6643 Před 9 měsíci +29

    This episode was so inspiring, I know how that kind of relationship can be, it is very narcissistic and very painful. Thanks to Caroline for sharing her story. I was very moved, we all need to learn to find our selves and stand up for what's right, not just make excuses and allow things to continue down the wrong path.

  • @esthergithogori2930
    @esthergithogori2930 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Finally. Thank you Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline. She’s such beautiful soul. I thank GOD seeing her and seeing where God took her from. God is good. She’s meant to shine. Thank you Lynn. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @furries.v
    @furries.v Před 9 měsíci +3

    I came to the US as an 8 year old from Taita taveta. Saa hizi niko 23 year old and i envy this gal's accent. Anipe siri niongee kama yeye. Lynn you came to the US na huwezi come to WA State. Ningekutreat at least na Ice cream gal. Next time please come to Seattle I will host you in my house.

  • @wanjiruwambui1
    @wanjiruwambui1 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Carol!!! Glad you shared it on this platform💕

  • @ninah1628
    @ninah1628 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Carol's journey of life is a beautiful story.

  • @johealingtouch6683
    @johealingtouch6683 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Beautiful... walking away is always the best decision...to stay and suffer is absolute cowardice!!! May the path ahead be prosperous.
    @Lynn you should organize an online meetup for singles men and women who ready for marriage, who have gone through self work and healing.
    " Heal so that you don't breed on those who didn't hurt you "

    • @angelinemuriuki7384
      @angelinemuriuki7384 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Victims of abuse stay in abusive relationships because of the emotional damage that's inflicted through emotional & at times physical abuse - it's nothing to do with cowardice. When you are not in the right state of mind it's very difficult to make rational decisions. It's important to empathize with victims & survivors of any form of abuse.

    • @Kerrry-34
      @Kerrry-34 Před 7 měsíci

      Do not be harsh in your judgement. Just thank God that you have never been in such a Situation.

  • @loisenjeri7379
    @loisenjeri7379 Před 9 měsíci +4

    That is my friend and coach! Everytime I listen to your story, I still learn so much. I love how you and Mr. Dey do life together and treat each other. You are such a gift to the hurting. May God continue blessing and enlarging your territory Caroline!!

  • @raisingremarkableteenagers
    @raisingremarkableteenagers Před 9 měsíci +9

    Wow Carol thanks for sharing- I was feeling like you’re telling my story 😢)
    - that’s a common line with abusers ( no one will love you like I do… you’ll not find anyone) 🎉kudos to you - and look what the Lord has done ❤after you’ve let go of what’s not good for you

  • @mamaketotos4414
    @mamaketotos4414 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Lynn your energy and wisdom matches all the ages from teenagers, thirties, forties and even people who are much older than you may God contribute blessing you for us

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I stayed married to a narcissist for over 3 decades....each year, each day, I hoped he would change because "he was a man of God." A narcissist is a narcissist, and they never change....

    • @marywangui7432
      @marywangui7432 Před 9 měsíci +2

      You mean for 30 yrs. That is long but it's never too late to get our freedom.😅😅

    • @peninamuthoni5323
      @peninamuthoni5323 Před 9 měsíci

      Did you leave finally?

  • @ekudamekimombasa461
    @ekudamekimombasa461 Před 9 měsíci +8

    LNN is going to be one of greatest channels in world Lynn kip trusting God and don't allow pride to kill your future. JUST Continue being humble Before God and my sister sky will be the limit.

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 Před 9 měsíci +7

    I agree with the fact that Afro looks good on you, it's our signature 😅😅 you're looking beautiful as usual 🥰🥰

  • @melphonejoan6410
    @melphonejoan6410 Před 9 měsíci +6

    True when you are in abusive relationship never tell your abuser guy your leaving because that will now be the beginning of tough life

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks for watching my story and you’re absolutely 💯 correct

  • @carolinekiai2631
    @carolinekiai2631 Před 9 měsíci +14

    The rebuilding series has had a huge impact on my life as a woman and a mother. Thank you, Lynn. God bless you. People are healing and rebuilding their lives from hurt, pain, deceit, revenge .....etc....to finding themselves and being better.

  • @mbojemaina
    @mbojemaina Před 9 měsíci +10

    With determination and a good therapist you can always come out of the pit and thrive again. God bless Caroline and her God ordained husband.

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Před 9 měsíci

      This is true,I'm currently practicing it and already feeling great from the inside!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @sarahwangare9247
    @sarahwangare9247 Před 9 měsíci +7

    This one is life changing for me,God has used you Caro to shift my paradigm. Thanks Lynn

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +1

      Sarah thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

  • @naomimuthoni2082
    @naomimuthoni2082 Před 9 měsíci +21

    I've been through alot now I'm in my rebuilding season and I'm loving what God is doing in my life Lynn a time like this next year I will be on this show in Jesus name I'm allowing God to make this story of mine more beautiful ❤❤22nd Sept 2024 I claim it in Jesus name may God keep you Lynn and expand you more ❤❤

  • @collettumbo8972
    @collettumbo8972 Před 9 měsíci +3

    such a powerful and strong message. lynn and your team may the prophecy be fulfilled in Jesus mighty name.

  • @princesmagie6132
    @princesmagie6132 Před 9 měsíci +15

    Oooh my God ...we share the same story....
    Thanks to God from a broken marriage of 17yrs
    I have found a love of my life again
    To God be the glory 🙏🙏
    Thanks LNN rebuilding series' for inspiration stories

  • @carolineowiti7996
    @carolineowiti7996 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I was so tired and didnt know i will watch it all. Thank you Lynn and Caroline. I have learned so much. Thank you Caroline for affirming the words to Lynn. Her platform has so much. Its a unique platform, just one of a kind. Its a HUGE BLESSING

    • @dorothyanyango2197
      @dorothyanyango2197 Před 9 měsíci

      Me too, but I'm glad I finished watching the whole show 😊

  • @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413
    @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413 Před 9 měsíci +2

    This lady is amazing.
    For the first time in LNN I had pen and paper, wrote some beautiful notes.

  • @rachaelakello3040
    @rachaelakello3040 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Thanks Carol for allowing God to use you as a channel of strength and encouragement to Lynn.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @edatatu2739
    @edatatu2739 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Thanks for affirming Lynn. I love her. She's authentic. Ive never liked the comparison to Oprah. She's our very own Lynn. Let God use her for His purposes. There's a lot happening in the world today that people need to hear about. For Congratulations on your Post Traumatic Growth. PHW. Purpose, Healing and Work. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Guled3
    @Guled3 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Lynn empathy amazes me! Kudos 👏

  • @khadee8129
    @khadee8129 Před 9 měsíci +7

    You can see how these sorts of shows excite Lynn. I enjoy the way she laughs when the story gets on her. Love you Lynn. I watch this show even though I am not from that part of the African continent. A great show!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +2

      Thanks for taking the time to watch the show blessings to you

    • @daisychemutai9967
      @daisychemutai9967 Před 9 měsíci

      Caro..you have inspired me. I'm on my way to healing being in an abusive marriage for many years more than you. Girl, you are destined for greatness. I love you so much Caro. You have an amazing empath's heart

  • @ReneeMurunga
    @ReneeMurunga Před 9 měsíci +9

    My cousin... God bless you. You are a brave woman and a great inspiration.

  • @lulu-xt5gs
    @lulu-xt5gs Před 9 měsíci +2

    I listened,i cried ,laughed and learnt.Thank you.

  • @mercynaloli2382
    @mercynaloli2382 Před 9 měsíci +10

    After listening to her story i now know that i was also being abused emotionally and i didn't know. I so badly wanted to make the relationship work, despite the prophecy i had also received i so badly wanted it to work. I finally had the courage to walk out and let God take care of me. I can truly relate to Carol's story. Thanks for sharing mama. I am forever grateful🙇
    Thanks Lynn for creating a beautiful platform that has greatly impacted our lives. May God richly use you .

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I never knew I was abused emotionally until 5 years ago, long story....God bless you.

    • @joycemwathi6892
      @joycemwathi6892 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198😊😊😊😊😊 29:29

  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Před 9 měsíci +36

    Good morning team LNN,
    What is your take-home from today's conversation with Carol?
    You can connect with her on Facebook: Caroline Mbithi Dey
    Stay tuned for our episode with her husband tomorrow at 10am!
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    To share your story on Rebuilding, send a brief summary to our emails Info@Lnn.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital
    Thank you so much for watching

    • @sheilahendrich6995
      @sheilahendrich6995 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Wow!! I know Carol ,thank you Lynn to bring her here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @GraceWanjakaranja
      @GraceWanjakaranja Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing such an amazing story. I dated one such guy for 7years .... broke the engagement and I have never been happier. I didn't even know what he was doing was gaslighting, even when I knew I knew, I never left.

    • @marykaluki1945
      @marykaluki1945 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Thanks Lynn for sharing such a great story.This relates to what am going through today and funny enough I can't move out.i don't have the courage to do it.i have no one to talk to...no one really will understand. 😢😢it's my prayer God that you rebuild my foundation like you did to Carol

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Před 9 měsíci

      @@marykaluki1945 please dear I pray that you heal. Real courage is when you're afraid but still manage to face your fears anyway..I did it only last year and I believe you too can do it.. coincidentally my name is Caroline!!🤩

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Před 9 měsíci

      @Lynn, I perfectly know this is not a mere coincidence but a sneak peak into my future..
      It's not a coincidence that my name too is Caroline and early this year I sat down with you narrating of my story which is eerily similar to this!!
      I too testify of the power in therapy/counseling, which you so graciously offered me.. even though my story wasn't aired, a breakthrough followed soon after my encounter with you. I'm currently still pursuing total healing, re-discovery and personal development.
      Yes indeed Lynn yours is purpose, work and ministry 🙏 keep it up!!

  • @rebeccamakenzi9019
    @rebeccamakenzi9019 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Turning point..... I have done.....the decision point thus turns self slavery into freedom... Quit and go.. Move on... He will change.. Is the Big sickness women are fighting.. God have mercy upon us.. We need God's grace to reign to excel into laughter zones.. Relax into good hands..Lynn you're chosen Queen... Continue being humble. Good goodness is running over you. Amen God bless All. It's a powerful testimony. Be blessed caro

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA2030 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I just left unapologetically very peaceful and happier now❤❤❤

  • @jackienjunge5134
    @jackienjunge5134 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Thanks Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline Dey. What a blessing and great testimony.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thanks Jackie for taking the time to listen to my story

    • @jackienjunge5134
      @jackienjunge5134 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@CarolineMbithiDey you are welcome and keep the fire burning. Enjoy your holidays.

  • @joyajuogaosano3507
    @joyajuogaosano3507 Před 9 měsíci +4

    This story resonates with me. I am also a testimony of what can do if you turn your life to Him and let Him lead. From Kenya to The US and changing my life. God is Great.

    • @janemathenge2820
      @janemathenge2820 Před 9 měsíci

      I tap to your blessings .may he lead my life as well

  • @janeg7109
    @janeg7109 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thanks Carol for pouring out I remember when I met you, you’re young beautiful girl who loved God with beautiful voice. God gave you Dey with a purpose. I attended your 2nd wedding which was very colorful and I knew you are healed. ❤❤continue serving God.

  • @jmb3699
    @jmb3699 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Lynn I love this interview and Caroline. She is a gift to life.

  • @nancykibe8559
    @nancykibe8559 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Hi Lynn.What an Amazing Show!! There are So Many Carolines out there looking for Healing and Encouragement to leave Abusive Relationships & Marriages! Well done Caroline for listening to that Voice Within You saying....This is Not Right.
    And getting the Therapy that helped you & Ofcourse God was in that Mix.All the Best Caroline in your 12 year Marriage & as for Lynn....You're Simply the Best & looking Good in that Black Outfit🎉 🎉🎉

  • @veronicakanga7204
    @veronicakanga7204 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Carol Mbithi Dey thank you for being vulnerable enough to pour out your heart. Well articulated, you hv encouraged many. Great job Lynn.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thanks Veronica for taking the time to watch my story blessings to you

  • @roseemwanjama4042
    @roseemwanjama4042 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Love you, Lynn. Love your show. Caro, I am inspired. Won't allow abuse.

  • @xxxdidthatsmall7815
    @xxxdidthatsmall7815 Před 9 měsíci +4

    We learn a lot throughout this platform. God bless you Lynne. Also try to get some people who are going through something but they don't see there in citation so they don't have to hit the wall.

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Emotional abuse is worst than physical it hurts bad

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Emotional abuse and verbal wueeh I went through this

    • @miriamkathambi6761
      @miriamkathambi6761 Před 9 měsíci +1

      My take away; healed people heal others, hurt people hurt others. Profound! Thanks Lynn for this awesome show.

  • @gloriagkemunto-lm9hq
    @gloriagkemunto-lm9hq Před 9 měsíci +5

    Wow, I have taken home alot alot. Everyone has greatness in them, no matter the obstacles, God has empowered them to overcome them

  • @marumbusophie7839
    @marumbusophie7839 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Pure spirit that cannot be corrupted Lynn,this is great! Next level we are coming...as lynn says, we respect the giver of the gift not the gift itself...purpose,healing and work merged together!

  • @user-ik4ut4ss1l
    @user-ik4ut4ss1l Před 9 měsíci +2

    This is very inspiring. Lynn, God continues to bless you for your good work. this has really uncovered what am going through in my toxic marriage. it has offered me comfort and the strength to move and concentrate on my healing. God bless you and your team.

  • @lynnmems2076
    @lynnmems2076 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Asking God for His guidance before all undertakings is the best way to handle life's issues.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      💯 correct thanks for taking the time to watch my story

  • @tabbygoto998
    @tabbygoto998 Před 9 měsíci +14

    Thanks Lynn for bringing us such guests. Carol is calm, collected & authentic.

  • @judynyokabi8502
    @judynyokabi8502 Před 8 měsíci +1

    God can collapse timeframes on your behalf! Wow! Such a gracious show. Lynn, you truly are designed for even greater things!🤩

  • @teresawayesu1340
    @teresawayesu1340 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you carol.for sharing your journey. May God bless our pastor Greg whatever he is.

  • @mmapekwanalamola8377
    @mmapekwanalamola8377 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I always love seeing love projected.I shed a tear,I cried observing such tons of love showered on Lynn today by Carol.Lynn you stole my words'I love,love'.May God continue to bless you,Lynn you deserve it precious soul...All the way from South Africa

  • @matts6894
    @matts6894 Před 9 měsíci +8

    She is a great host ..she hosted us in Boston once, wish her nothing but the best.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci

      Thanks it was an honor to host you and thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @cathrineheinrichs8570
      @cathrineheinrichs8570 Před 9 měsíci

      Caro this was so brave of you to share this story it's like 16 years ago and sounds like yesterday may the Lord continue to restore and strengthen you thanks Lynn for allowing God to use your channel to bring hope and restoration

  • @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916
    @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Indeed Ms. Lynne you are exceptional. 🎉❤ you give healing and comfort to many broken soul out there (women) iam one of those.

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Your story teaches us that only God can change a man ( woman) you can’t change human beings. Thank God you left

  • @juliekiragu7201
    @juliekiragu7201 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Lynn the Gem of our country, Thank you for your Bravery Caroline.❤

  • @user-oy4wf6hn4m
    @user-oy4wf6hn4m Před 9 měsíci +4

    Watching from Zimbabwe. I love
    watching your shows Lynn. You are so amazing I like the way you interview your guests. You don’t interject you give them time to flow with their stories. Keep up the good job 👏🏽

  • @user-ty6wr6dr4h
    @user-ty6wr6dr4h Před 9 měsíci +2

    This lady is prophetic… Lyn, you better write down this and more such like

  • @rahabwanjiku3841
    @rahabwanjiku3841 Před 9 měsíci +2

    It was an amazing show..en so encouraging 🥰

  • @wilkistermakani1593
    @wilkistermakani1593 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The story is exactly what I have gone through, am rebuilding myself right now thou I don't know how to do it but I believe God has got my hand, I even threw the ring. Caroline you have spoken to my heart, let me have the courage perhaps one day I will also have a beautiful ending, even though the trauma is too much😢😢😢😢

  • @gracenalwadda1582
    @gracenalwadda1582 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much Caroline and Lynn as well for sharing your story to us we're learning alot from your stories so by the time we will get married it will be perfect much love from Uganda 🇺🇬

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Před 9 měsíci +1

      Thanks Grace for taking the time to watch all the way from Uganda

  • @hallelujahjesusisloveandpo9771
    @hallelujahjesusisloveandpo9771 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This was absolutely beautiful and very empowering!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @alicenokongo4134
    @alicenokongo4134 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Amazing and Inspirational real life experience. Lynn stretch your tent. your stories are real bring a lot of hope and healing .