"Don't offer sympathy to anyone without considering both sides, as we live in a heartless world where everyone knows how to portray themselves as victims."
people takes things for granted when opposite person is showing their peaks of patience, when it breaks things changes and that idiot will be punished for his actions 🤦🏻♂️, why people are this immature , n why they take others patience as weakness..🤦🏻♂️
True. Plus, I wonder if the ex-husband is still allowed to be part of his son's life. As a father, he has rights, but it seems if a man has faults, people are okay with his parental rights being completely stripped away.
@@mohitanand1844 career* Sad that you can't even write properly. India doesn't have tik tok gene. Oh, wait. If u are talking about career then both men and women earn on social media
One thing makes me sad the lack of profession CZcams is taking away. Another lawyer of the market cos of CZcams so CZcams who will do these jobs? How will the world run without the professionals???
Dont consider her as a victim without knowing the real story of both sides , social media has made our mind soo delusional and stupid we often get blinded from the truth
@@myth_seekersahi reply diya ab feminist chahye esa ti bhut husband h tum khilaoo unko vo ghar ke kam karenge tum loyal rho tmko bs upgrade boy chahye
Yahi dogla pandi hain ladkiyon ki aur unko progressive bhi banna hain apni caste culture religion se bhi bahar shadi karni hain phir freedom bhi chahiye aisa todhi na hota hain
You guys are lucky if you don't have a mother who always reminds you how much effort and sacrifices she has given to grow you up. And on the other hand a girl who asks if you don't love her for not leaving the mother. We will either fail to be a good son or a good husband. But that's life we can't make everyone happy. The choice for us is easy to be an ungrateful son or a coward husband who couldn't stand for his wife
If a woman looks to always control a man, a man will certainly give back at some point after getting fed up. Why are girls always expecting guys to be their slaves?
Even after so many red flags she became pregnant with that same person, hoping things will get better. I'm a man, but still I'm flinching. Women endure so much for nothing. And having a baby of that shit family is always going to make things worse. She is lucky that she could get out. Thousands of women can't. Becoming a mother in a shit family is the final nail in the coffin.
@@ankitmohapatra22 The guy is real trash. Period. Trying to work after marriage doesn't mount to enslaving husband. I think you were born and brought up in an abusive household and engineered to think that's normal.
Fun part: if men want to walk out of a toxic marriage they will have to pay for it. The reality is, women control men way more than men control women, but the former is not considered toxic.
I agree. I wonder if he's still involved in his son's life or allowed to be. I don't think a man having faults means his parental rights should be completely stripped.
@@ankitmohapatra22 obviously what she meant in the video or what I wrote went right far above ur head! Completely understandable! 👍 obviously someone had to be on her husband's side of mentality too!
All ladies out there. Don't get married if you are told to not work. It's as simple as that. Becoming financially independent is not a choice but a necessity.
Of course. That's a very simple thing. If you want to work after marriage, just communicate it before marriage. Why destroy two families for your self respect and probably the future of a child.
That Son will be Husband if he marries .. What will you advice to your Son .. Your Son is always right and he will be nice guy -- Others are bad -- too much of victimhood possible only due to money power
Without hearing the other side ,i will not see this short as women empowerment one, cuz i have seen women moving out from marriage now days just cuz they felt it boring, they can't find excitement in their life now, these are the women who want to live their life as a bollywood film, but what they don't know is that married life is more about responsibility than excitement...
Yeah bored of Misogyny, financial and physical abuse 😂 What you said is right. Married life is about 100% responsibility and sacrifice from women's side and excitement of marital rape, domestic violence from men's side.
@@Advocate-wb7ok women need to understand that most of world they are living in ,is made by men. The rights they are enjoying are ,even the men supprasing laws which they using are made by men himself, its the fake belief in modern feminist that they fought their right and that how they get liberated, thats not true its men who fought by your side which results in this, women are weak both physically and even mentally,they can't fight nothing..its only men vs men, if all the male in the world become misogynist like you said, do you think women can survive or enjoy their rights which they are having now..be logical atleast
Meri arrange mrg thi 19 ki Umar m kuch mahino m smj a gya k m yha ni ji skti achha hua k baby ni th 21 ki Umar m divorce hua Meri family hr middle class family ki a tarah yhi chahti thi k m WPS chli jau girls ko ye sb sehna hi hota h but mene tbse home tuitions pdha pdha k study complete ki lmba time lag gya but aaj 28 ki age m mai government teacher hu. Bht badi success to ni kahungi lekin itna jarur h k m khus hu ab
Kya me jaan sakta hu.....Life ko ab aage kis tarah se dekhte ho aap.??? Jis situation se aap bahar aa chuke. Ho ab, kya vo. Apki life ki ab tak ki sabse worst situation thi?? Normally kisi insan ko Aisi condition se bahar aane me. Kitna samay lagta hoga...???
@@shreevishwanatham Ye us insan ki sehensheelta pr depend krta h...wo kitna jhel skta h. Bahot log hote h jo us hi ko apni kismat maan kr jeene lgte h pr wo bahot kam log hote h jo aise waqt me khud ko aazaad krne ki sochte h
@@theone5092 life me jab aisi situation aaye, to fir hame kya karna chahye??.. Kyuki kai bar hanare samne 2 option hi aise hote hai ki, dono me kuch na kuch to chut raha hota hai hamse.... Vesi situation me kya karta hai insan??? Or agar kisi situation me 2 option ho, jisme 1 me. Mera dil tute, or 1 me. Samne vale ka.. To khudka dil bchaye ya uska ??
This was my father. He was like this. I married a wonderful man however! He is the sweetest person on earth. I chose to be a stay at home mom on my own. ❤ I love it! And I love asking my husbands opinion on what I wear because I want his feedback. I take him clothes shopping with me for fun!! He is my bestie. Just a reminder that the situation makes a difference, certain things like staying at home with your child isn’t always a sign of a problem. It depends on if it’s what you want and choose. I am the happiest I have ever been! ❤ I just see a lot of comments saying they’re scared to get married. If you choose the right person and keep your eyes open to red flags 🚩 and trust God to guide you, you can find someone wonderful.
Absolutely right, 👍 actually now a days people specially modern women think job and financial independence is way more important than family and upbringing children and think housewife are lazy and so on
True..better to b single mom..😍😍..I'm separated from my husband 15 yrs and I am the one who support my 2 kids..I'm happy and hve more peaceful..no one can control my life....
@@joybalderama5972 good for you. People dont value peace instead they want to pretend to be happy and live in toxic relationship to project towards society and family
😂😂😂ghar sambal nai sakti or office or kaam sambalna Hain . koi yah nai bolta Hai ki kaam maat karo yah bolte hongy ki prayority kya hai usko karo per tum jaiso ko family sai important freedom kr naam per naanga naach karna Hai tv or filmo ka fitoor itna Hai kon bola tha ki sadi kar tumko or yah sab kar ke koi mahan karya nai ki Ho tali ek hath sai nai bajti yah isi sai pata lag raha hai ki tum apny sab karyo ka dosh ladka or iske family per daal Rahi ho or wo tumhari taraha victim card nai khel rahe social media per yah sab dal kar ki ek kulakshan wife mili jisko mery or meri family sai jayada ghumna kaam karne ke naam per social media per apni personal chisy batana aacha lagta Hai batao kahi dala Hain unhone yah sab doglapan aata kaha sai Hain . Freedom ke naam per
Even my father has better mentality than yours... Definitely u come from an orthodox family... I'm nobody to tell my husband what should he wear and what he should not although I could help him choose fashionable clothes and i expect the same from him...Umm well I'll be moving abroad so imma gonna find better men who don't have such mentality
Hats off to you, fully support your individual struggles to overcome all of that pain. Same thing happened with me also, but it was the opposite I walked out of my marriage: she didn't stood up for me. Rest is history, I am happy with my cat. #singleforlife.
No, no 😂 she chose to get married and chose to have a child with a person she says did not stand up for her. They were all her actions not her accepting fate as she was not forced into marriage
I have seen so many love marriages fail and so many arranged marriages successful the conclusion is both the partner should be supportive to each other no matter what
people takes things for granted when opposite person is showing their peaks of patience, when it breaks things changes and that idiot will be punished for his actions 🤦🏻♂️, why people are this immature , n why they take others patience as weakness..🤦🏻♂️
Girls need to notice red flags before entering into marital relationships. Practically speaking, its extremely difficult for a single mother get remarried again, but that guy would begin a new family life again. So, every woman deserves another chance too. P.S. not talking about women who doesnt want remarriage.
But let me be honest here. Girls give attention to bad boys only because according to them nice guys are boring. They get in relationship with bad guys and then end up being single mother.
"He didn't stand up for me" - This should have been the last straw. Healthy relationships are not about limiting or controlling someone else. It's a liberating experience.
@@__sarik What kind of a stupid & illogical example are you giving? It's about limiting one's freedom to work, express their creativity in their clothing..what's wrong with that? You decide to bring up "sleeping" which is completely irrelevant & disgusting. Shame on your upbringing for this disgusting mentality.
eww who would want to be with a bad parent. Parenting is done by good souls. As a kid would you want to be taken care of by the parent who abused your other parent regardless of gender?
Lol no one knows why the yelling started. So don't judge a book by it's cover. In this case, just because a woman has posted with few so called cute pictures, doesn't mean all men are bad. Please don't spread unwanted hatred
My father passed away when me and my brother were 10 and 2 respectively . My mother took care of everything by her own when our relatives were also against us . She is the strongest person i ever met personally . ❤
@Phalanges8540good bless your father and i pray moksha for your mother..... It is hard to lose mother st such a young age..... Even difficult for father to take care of 2 kids alone
Just like how a coin has two sides, a story has two sides too, so don’t come to any conclusions based on one side of the side. Our society often depicts the man as the bad guy but some men also go thru abusive marriages and keep quiet for years.
Kami baaa itni thi wo uski gulam ban kr nhi rhi 😔😔 Agr hrr husband zimmedar nhi hote toh hrr wife bhi glt nhi hoti Agr koi tum ko apni kathputli bna kr rkhna chahe ga toh tum bhi us insaan se dur hi jaoge na
@@deepanshimalik3707 puri kahani jaan lo fir opinion do apna agar aurat video bnati to wo uske baare main bura hi bolti aur agar aadmi bnata to wo uske baare main buri hi bolta itni jaldi judge mat kro
@@user-tr8nu8cy6pagar husbund drink kare to koi bat nahi. Bivi ko mare to haq hai. Ma bap pura families Ki seva kare q ki vo legally kamwali bai hai. Baccho ko pale khana pakaye kapade dhoye sabki seva kare to thik hai varna vo nalyak hai. Vo job na kare. Agar kare to pure salary ka hisab de. Aur mayake 1 rupaya bhi na de. Lekin shadi ka kharcha. Baccho ki delivery. Damad ko sone ki anguthi. Sara kharcha mayake wale kare. Aur bhaisab khudki salary manmarji udaye . Isase accha hai use chod do apni pair pe khade raho. Jisko dusaro ki kadra nahi uski kya kadra karna.
😂it's not about courage my friend if men have to step out of marriage women milk him with alimony money shamelessly for living and then call herself independent
@@goldyd5339 I am just saying men face things too, but it does not come out, I completely support women but men are not always wrong, and sometimes we just go thru all because of the children
My husband didn't said ever not to work. He is like u can if u wish to work but please give time to family too. As of now im happy homemaker. Husband is so loving caring and respecting hence never took his words negatively. And i love to give time to my baby my husband and family❤
One sided stories are dangerous and spreading them is spreading hate. How you receive things and how you portray also matters. Breaking up is easy choice and even in this case she cared more about herself and her job than the family. That kid will grow up in a half family and no one should experience that.
@@OOnharI second that everybody thinks kids need a full family but I am sure the kids grown in such family where one of the parents is being abused by the other or their family will say different
So thinking about your job is selfish woow! Still women are being questioned for having jobs? Hate such people... Definitely your mom is a housewife...A guy who's mom is housewife won't understand how some women could be passionate about their job and goal....If I'll be asked to leave my job for the sake of kids and family then I won't be happy anymore... Even my parents won't appreciate that either...I would rather kill myself or walk out of the marriage... Besides she was lawyer why she should leave a respectful noble profession?
That's why I want to remain single It ain't no worth to carry a big piece of glass in this war Someday it would shatter and I won't be able to mend my ways as you did❤
@@nitishsaxena1372dude what he said was right you don’t know whole story what actually happened and you said you cried? Don’t you think it stupid in this world tears are precious don’t waste on this online story where don’t know whole story
We always hear one side of the story. Never forget, there are stories like Shikhar Dhawan get buried too deep thanks to too much prevalent woman victimhood. 😊
She's so beautiful, why did life try to silence and shut her down. Glad she's prospering right now, for herself and her son AND as an inspiration for us girls.
@@sambit948 he might have told her she can go to work after marriage. There is a lot of cases like this. My sister,My mother they both are victims of this case. My sister is a nurse and my mom is a Accountant but my father didn't allowed her to go to work neither my brother in law. "DESTROYING TWO FAMILY" bro do you even know what are you saying he DESTROYED her life for 8 fking years. Why are you victim blaming?
I married at 17, my husband thought I would put up with his abuse. In America then I could have pressed charges. I gave him another chance. He never touched me in anger again. I had a good family but we were taught to work through our problems. I was married for 40 years. There was mutual respect. That's all I wanted.
@@alphamale451who take up abuse 😂 She gave her 8 years of her life Man How could you give someone this much time You could give time to emotional problems and you can adjust But never tolerate Were less man change
@alphamale451So besically u are saying women to put up with abuse for an abusive marriage... Would u be ok with this if your partner abuses u? Will u try to put up with this for the sake of your marriage? Definitely no! The world needs less women like u
A mother’s love is the best love. We’re all so glad that you persevered and made your life better, for both you and your son. He’ll grow up being thankful that he was raised by such a good mom. You’re a hero ❤️
Where are you from? Perhaps you don't know the Indian legal system and how biased it is towards women. Read about misuse of IPC 498A, DV act. Even for that matter IPC 376 rape laws. This lawyer woman is just using her child to gain sympathy and attention. Makes me think there is something fishy.
@@lazzybug007 we cannot talk and decide. Coz some people at the beginning while talking they agree for everything and once they get married person will take things in control and start restricting for everything.
Women need to stop being selfless. I am fed up of coming across such stories where the woman tolerate financial and physical abuse until it affects her child. No man is worth that.
Its not about the man but her child. She didn't walked out because she wasn't confident about raising the child on her own. I'm so fed up hearing you teenagers completely destroying the meaning of "self love". Firstly,go and learn the definition of self love.
Then please try reading the other side as well miss feminist !!! ...snatching away a man's son/daughter and half his hard earned property in the name of alimony after divorce is enforced by law !!! Even MEN need to be selfless these days !!!
@@koraiemon My point is that women shouldn't wait to leave until a child comes into the equation. We have had enough of the bs that "A kid will solve everything" and other such nonsense.
@S M Of course I know it's difficult. But there's no point in staying with that monster either as it will only get worse. It's sad to see women giving up their independence and self respect blindly in love or desperation.
No relationship is perfect, you have to put in effort in a relationship if u chose to be in it if even after all the efforts it doesn’t work then leaving is good. But relations become a joke wen people start leaving in the beginning of it over initial disagreements.
I'm a guy and girl well Done you. When I saw it says your a lawyer and your hubby don't want you to work.... I thought wtf you studied and worked so hard and you were gonna throw it away. I'm like you go girl. We guys support you on this... 🎉❤🎉
This is not something one sided story there already millions of women who suffer this . In india Women Divorce : abusive husband In western countries : for the purpose of cheating
Wonder when it's the women victim men are always like one sided story , show proof , men are innocent But when there is a male victim y'all don't say any of that?
I am man but I am in very similar situation! My controlling partner constantly watches me what I do, passing comments on what I wear! Suck me financially emotionally! I do every chores at home as well as out! Abuses me physically verbally and emotionally 😢 I am enduring everything for my children! When I tried to talk this with other she put me in the court on false allegations of attacking her! I really feel how this women went through! My real worry to walk out of this abusive relationship is I might lose my kids! I love my kids so much 😢😢😢😢 This video makes me cry 😭
Why do they feel so entitled to woman's identity, personality, life, dreams, goals is beyond me. The world's moved on from claiming women's identity from them but indian men and their parents don't. I'm sure there's no civilized country in the world where the culture permits the husband's parents to dictate whether the wife gets to work or not, when she must concive, how many times is she allowed to call her parents, what she must eat, how she should dress and a load of bs. What is wrong with this country?
Asian sub continent actually! I am from bangladesh And here the situation is more worse than yours! not only men but most of the women also think that girls shouldn't get higher study! They don't support a working woman, a working mother! It's pathetic.
@@shrutigupta6114 Also the fact that they send Women to their maternal home during the hardest time of her pregnancy because in laws can't get her free service. The tradition of extorting Money from her parents for first delivery and several other functions. This country just exists to serve men.
My ex wife was having an affair while we were dating, contnued while we were married and is married to him, now. I would have given to have a married life and have kids. I guess most of us do not get what we yearn the most, in life.
@@Beaverton2830Are we settling for this bare minimum just because law dictates bias as we being men? Hamara dil nahi hota kya yaar? I personally know some men who are wronged by women like this and never recovered from the heartache and trauma. We men barely speak up and cry victim when hurt emotionally.
@@ROMI909 ... Alimony will stop when men stop marrying women. Just like what is happening in Western countries.. In Western countries, due to gender biased divorce laws, common marital property law and no fault divorce, men lose half of his property after divorce and so most Western men have stopped marrying women. So, only 50% of Western women are able to get married. Still all the unmarried women get pregnant and about 50% of children born in Western countries are born to unmarried women. Example. in Western countries, men are refusing to marry women. Yet, most of the unmarried Western women are getting pregnant and becoming single mothers. Now, more than half of children born in France - and 10 other European countries - have unmarried parents. The highest percent is in Iceland, where nearly 7 out of 10 children (69.4%) are born outside of marriage. Second is France, with well over 6 out of 10 births (62.2%) out of wedlock. Bulgaria, is in third place (59.6%). Other countries are: Norway (58.5%), Portugal (57.9%), Sweden (55.2%), Denmark ( 54.7%), Netherlands (53.5%), and Belgium (52.4%), Slovenia (57.7%), Estonia (53.7%), Czech Republic (48.5%), UK (48.2%), Finland (47.7%), Spain (47.6%), Austria (41.2%), Slovakia (41.0%), U.S.A (40.7%), Ireland (38.4%), Italy (33.8%), Germany (33.1%),.. So, we can see that even when men are refusing to marry women, to avoid paying alimony, unmarried women continue to become single mothers... Same thing will happen in India soon... Men will stop marriage, cohabitation and live in relationship to avoid paying alimony..
@@ROMI909 .. Alimony will stop when men stop marrying women. Just like what is happening in Western countries.. In Western countries, due to gender biased divorce laws, common marital property law and no fault divorce, men lose half of his property after divorce and so most Western men have stopped marrying women. So, only 50% of Western women are able to get married. Still all the unmarried women get pregnant and about 50% of children born in Western countries are born to unmarried women.
@@ROMI909 ... Example. in Western countries, men are refusing to marry women. Yet, most of the unmarried Western women are getting pregnant and becoming single mothers. Now, more than half of children born in France - and 10 other European countries - have unmarried parents. The highest percent is in Iceland, where nearly 7 out of 10 children (69.4%) are born outside of marriage. Second is France, with well over 6 out of 10 births (62.2%) out of wedlock. Bulgaria, is in third place (59.6%). Other countries are: Norway (58.5%), Portugal (57.9%), Sweden (55.2%), Denmark ( 54.7%), Netherlands (53.5%), and Belgium (52.4%), Slovenia (57.7%), Estonia (53.7%), Czech Republic (48.5%), UK (48.2%), Finland (47.7%), Spain (47.6%), Austria (41.2%), Slovakia (41.0%), U.S.A (40.7%), Ireland (38.4%), Italy (33.8%), Germany (33.1%),.. So, we can see that even when men are refusing to marry women, to avoid paying alimony, unmarried women continue to become single mothers... Same thing will happen in India soon... Men will stop marriage, cohabitation and live in relationship to avoid paying alimony..
Are you sick man? Even if the other one in your relationship was a**hole. You're Proud of what? Falling in love with your choice? Then choosing a wrong partner? Then failing to have a successful relationship.
@@ssaeloh7395 she's proud of having enough courage to walk out. It's not easy to walk out even when we know we're getting abused and it's wrong because families are involved. So yes
Kudos! Kudos! Incredibly strong and brave of you to walk out of that marriage! May God bless you and your adorable child with everything you ask for and more! ❤
I so loved it.... I was like you....and I walked away and went back study again and graduated with two BA and also study to become JP and I Praise and thank God I achieved all these, and my kids did the same. To GOD be all the glory and honor 🙏
That shows your mentality aparna . A women can think about herself only after getting success, however a man have to take care of his family along with the girl he is having in his life.
@@AnimeDelight01Lol! U have never seen a working woman in your life...U would not have said this if u had financially independent women in your family and I don't see anything wrong with her comment.. Being financially independent is important for both men and women..Damn sure your mother is a housewife other wise u won't have said such thing
Now a days independent means wearing short clothes to get attention+gossiping with other married males in bar at night and coming home at midnight...if hubby questions about this she will say u controll me,,i will do whatever i want...such a controoling husband....and dtrted playing victim card....😢 Man are always victim of this toxic feminism...and wtf about wearing short clothes ...if u will want sexual attention u will always wear short clothes 🎉....
here comes Indian men with their explanation... a big round of applause to you... short clothes = sexual attention... lol do you understand where you are pointing at? you are saying the world is a playground for men and women do everything for men and their attention. it's like a dressed up dog or a cat which is dressed by their owner and women is no different from that. i won't mind if you directly put ladies in categories of cattle. it's apt for women those 2nd class citizens in the end of the day who lives in Care of Father, then care of husband and then care of son. useless gender at the end of the day.
Yeah right. I always wonder why men are shirtless in their house, beach and always wear baniyan, shorts. Seriously yaar, high time these ppl have to stay modest. That chest hair is even a bio hazard to look at. They really have to shave all their bodies every month before this hazard possess significant effects.😊 Praying for the day where men comb their hair properly and not do chapri hair cuts and dress in proper kurti and dhoti. Hail modesty 😂😂😅 And as you rightly said feminism questions unending Patriarchy and male privilege in society. So it's toxic for you 😢😢.
We have ladies in our family who are all independent. I really feel lucky that i have born and brought up in such a family that really respects Females. ❤❤
O my God Bhagyeshree Di I know you since our school days you were just a year senior to me so energetic so bubbly, I was in Mumbai and used to watch your videos many a times as I left all my connections from Ajmer almost for ever. Keep going on, lots of love❤
@@megumi1370 social media is just nothing but fake media it only shows one side of the story where is other side . Can you tell me what actually happened between them may be she play the victim card who knows
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748that's what the video shows us But we don't know the actual picture I am not against that woman I am just being neutral If I would have seen this video/short 5-6 years ago I would have believed this woman blindly Back then there were not so many case studies on internet about fake allegations ,but nowadays there are so many fake allegations If there was a man in this short, still my reaction would be same If this video is well checked before uploading then the woman is completely right I just want to say that we didn't knew the actual truth
They will never show other side, this is feminist propaganda to incentivise women to break marriage, women nowadays are just looking for excuses for walk off, most times the fault isn't there at all, women just assume and because toxic channels such as this spread such gynocentric nonsense, women have no repercussions of their fault. #feminismiscancer #womenisburden
Same story, I am an advocate and mother of a girl child, my husband and his parents always trying to dominate me and there is no affection and care from my husband, now I am living separate with my daughter
Nothing scares me more than marriage
It's better to be an actual slave in corporate than to be like this in their own home. All women should prioritise their career at any cost
Exactly. Im not getting married
@@karthiker6248 please don't get and save a women's life
Nothing scares me more than having a woke , liberal , Wana be western daughter...
@@Advocate-wb7okand then go the Japan way, right?
Girls pay attention to red flags …what a beautiful girl glad 7 pulled through
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a girl will go to the ones with red flags not the simps
@@mohitanand1844 what can women do gene. All Indian men are walking red flags. You either endure and die or bravely come out 😂
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
U r a red flag 🚩🚩🚩
@@mohitanand1844 you are kid yet
"Don't offer sympathy to anyone without considering both sides, as we live in a heartless world where everyone knows how to portray themselves as victims."
Agreed 100%
people takes things for granted when opposite person is showing their peaks of patience, when it breaks things changes and that idiot will be punished for his actions 🤦🏻♂️, why people are this immature , n why they take others patience as weakness..🤦🏻♂️
100 % true
True
True. Plus, I wonder if the ex-husband is still allowed to be part of his son's life. As a father, he has rights, but it seems if a man has faults, people are okay with his parental rights being completely stripped away.
In arranged marriage even if couple want divorce ... parents and society will pressurise not to ... In love marriage it's the other way around ... 😄😜🤪
There are actually people who prioritise their kid's safety. Nice to see 😊
Sabhi krte he behen
we need to see other side of story too before judging
@@ssri4695 Kya other side dekhna mai to abhi bata deta hu : She is just a Spoilt kid.
@@DalaluddeenHalala blaming one is not correct
@@ssri4695 Is video me to ye ladki feminism bolke ladke ko hi blame kar rahi hai na
A mother can go lengths for her baby ❤
Or rather a tiktok girl can go to any length to protect her carrier
@@mohitanand1844 hnn 8 saal pehle bhi tiktok tha na 😂
@@51.shrishkujur82 but tiktokiye nahi the
@@mohitanand1844 career*
Sad that you can't even write properly. India doesn't have tik tok gene. Oh, wait. If u are talking about career then both men and women earn on social media
One thing makes me sad the lack of profession CZcams is taking away. Another lawyer of the market cos of CZcams so CZcams who will do these jobs? How will the world run without the professionals???
At any condition you should not leave your job . If anyone die ,birth ,or whatever happened never leave job .
At one point no one is going to come to feed u.. only Ur own hands... don't wait until u reach that situation, wake-up before it comes,
One stupid as women spotted . Who would destroy a marriage over job .
@@jewelet_storewhen you are retired at 70 alone you will keep thinking about the spreadsheets you did
@@yungman7053
Worksheets too..
@@yungman7053sad 😢
Dont consider her as a victim without knowing the real story of both sides , social media has made our mind soo delusional and stupid we often get blinded from the truth
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Sahi baat bhai
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True mannn
"He didn't stand up for me" was the sign that guy was a red flag
Find someone who is ready to be at home and u earn bread & butter for him
@@myth_seekersahi reply diya ab feminist chahye esa ti bhut husband h tum khilaoo unko vo ghar ke kam karenge tum loyal rho tmko bs upgrade boy chahye
Yahi dogla pandi hain ladkiyon ki aur unko progressive bhi banna hain apni caste culture religion se bhi bahar shadi karni hain phir freedom bhi chahiye aisa todhi na hota hain
To shaadi kuu kr li.. Emotional fool hokr
You guys are lucky if you don't have a mother who always reminds you how much effort and sacrifices she has given to grow you up. And on the other hand a girl who asks if you don't love her for not leaving the mother. We will either fail to be a good son or a good husband. But that's life we can't make everyone happy. The choice for us is easy to be an ungrateful son or a coward husband who couldn't stand for his wife
It's better to leave a man who cannot stand by your side...it's difficult but you will be happy.
Same for women
Comes from a man who follows a religion where girls r forced 2 wear particular dress
I know her story....She cheated her Husband
@@praveen425 qnd lol bhai kaise wo story bech ke paisa kmaa rhi hai .. sympathy le rhi hai
Exactly. Abusive marriage is a no-no. Stay away from men like that. Rather be single than be in an unhappy marriage.
A person who endured such a similar pain understands her story well ...sometimes it's beyond words ...to explain
Every coin has two sides. Every story has two versions.
Yep
Wah bhai isme v aapko yeh lrki glt lg rhi he
Women always use Vicitim Card while playing 😂
This channel is only dedicated to women related
@@mr.amitkumar9688 haa.. Just like men play innocent card.. Esa kaam krte hi kyu ho baad m muuh chupana pde bhai.. Hahh??
A woman who values herself should never tolerate disrespect and abuse from anyone, let alone a man who’s supposed to love her.
If a woman looks to always control a man, a man will certainly give back at some point after getting fed up. Why are girls always expecting guys to be their slaves?
So, You are saying men don't value themselves.
@@sambit948 they over value themselves. They think that they are God
@@nightflame9895 Oh.. Then why do the women marry such men. In this case it was a love marriage. How could she not know that?
@@sambit948 bada hoja beta, samajh jayga
'His parents didn't want me to work'
That would be my last straw
In this culture, this is the norm. And the son is not allowed to have his own say. I've been there.. also left the man and his family 🙏
Exactly siss 😂😂🎉
They shud discuss everything before marriage....i feel bad for the child .....no child desrves a broken home
*South Indian boys are puppets of their parents*
What will you contribute by working? Women work only for their personal gain or satisfaction. That's why husband's family oppose in some cases
I m still searching motivation n learning in this story.
hope my mother did wt u did !!! the scar remains permanent!!!
That " My husband didn't stand up for me either" That's a 🚩
dont get married problem solved just becoz a man married u dont mean he become ur slave unless the guy is a real trash ur wrong
Everything is red flag here tbh
Even after so many red flags she became pregnant with that same person, hoping things will get better. I'm a man, but still I'm flinching. Women endure so much for nothing. And having a baby of that shit family is always going to make things worse. She is lucky that she could get out. Thousands of women can't. Becoming a mother in a shit family is the final nail in the coffin.
@@ankitmohapatra22 The guy is real trash. Period. Trying to work after marriage doesn't mount to enslaving husband. I think you were born and brought up in an abusive household and engineered to think that's normal.
@Adolf Trudeau No I'm a German Canadian warlord.
Finally we are watching the reality of marriages and strength of women walking out of it and not enduring the pains. The perfect women era🎉
Marriage is not a bad thing but marrying a bad guy or jot walking away sooner from an abusive marriage is.
@@DarkGaming-cb3dd well, you don’t know when the good becomes the bad as mentioned in the video.
Fun part: if men want to walk out of a toxic marriage they will have to pay for it. The reality is, women control men way more than men control women, but the former is not considered toxic.
Why do u presume that women are never guilty?
@@amateur0304 Same for women also.
Wowww!!👏👏i wished if My mom also took this step from starting but there was no one for her support. she endure so much !
We should hear his side of the story too. Society is too quick to judge
I agree. I wonder if he's still involved in his son's life or allowed to be. I don't think a man having faults means his parental rights should be completely stripped.
Exactly. Coz people have a tendency to potray misunderstandings and fights as huge struggles 🫠🫠
@@nileshgupta6215so just cuz you have seen one case you’re going to assume she had extra marital affair ? Do you know her or her husband personally ?
@@nileshgupta6215😂Kuch vi
@@DarkCloudys actually my teacher is Sindhi...he himself told me about this thing in sindhi community....
"Getting married to the man she loved" Isn't always guaranteed to go the way we always dreamt while being in love and dating.
More power to you❤
then why get married and waste the mans time and energy dont get married dont fall in love and destroy someones life
@@ankitmohapatra22 obviously what she meant in the video or what I wrote went right far above ur head! Completely understandable! 👍 obviously someone had to be on her husband's side of mentality too!
@@ap.6941 plz by all means marry a women i am just poking that small brain to see if something is really there turns out its just empty
Love is blinding. He probably had red flags that she couldn't see because she was blinded by her affection. Many relationships end this way.
@@galenjones9529 absolutely true, the reasoning gets lost.
All ladies out there. Don't get married if you are told to not work. It's as simple as that. Becoming financially independent is not a choice but a necessity.
How it can be possible...coz before marriage ghadhe ko bhi baap bana lete h ....asli rang toh ladki shaadi ke baad dikhate h ......
My mother didn't allow me to work coz my elder sister doesn't work they r jealous of me
@@jianath8187 OMG
@@jianath8187 wth
Of course. That's a very simple thing. If you want to work after marriage, just communicate it before marriage. Why destroy two families for your self respect and probably the future of a child.
Good for you!! Wish you both the best
Go Girl! Live life on your own terms. Be a momma your son will be proud of. You owe him that much. ❤❤
What momma you mean maa
That Son will be Husband if he marries .. What will you advice to your Son .. Your Son is always right and he will be nice guy -- Others are bad -- too much of victimhood possible only due to money power
Without hearing the other side ,i will not see this short as women empowerment one, cuz i have seen women moving out from marriage now days just cuz they felt it boring, they can't find excitement in their life now, these are the women who want to live their life as a bollywood film, but what they don't know is that married life is more about responsibility than excitement...
Yeah bored of Misogyny, financial and physical abuse 😂
What you said is right. Married life is about 100% responsibility and sacrifice from women's side and excitement of marital rape, domestic violence from men's side.
Ekdum Sahi Decision Liya Hain Unhone....Bravo!!!!
@@Advocate-wb7ok women need to understand that most of world they are living in ,is made by men. The rights they are enjoying are ,even the men supprasing laws which they using are made by men himself, its the fake belief in modern feminist that they fought their right and that how they get liberated, thats not true its men who fought by your side which results in this, women are weak both physically and even mentally,they can't fight nothing..its only men vs men, if all the male in the world become misogynist like you said, do you think women can survive or enjoy their rights which they are having now..be logical atleast
Meri arrange mrg thi 19 ki Umar m kuch mahino m smj a gya k m yha ni ji skti achha hua k baby ni th 21 ki Umar m divorce hua Meri family hr middle class family ki a tarah yhi chahti thi k m WPS chli jau girls ko ye sb sehna hi hota h but mene tbse home tuitions pdha pdha k study complete ki lmba time lag gya but aaj 28 ki age m mai government teacher hu. Bht badi success to ni kahungi lekin itna jarur h k m khus hu ab
A success is a success no matter big or small you did a great job ❤
India mai gov job hai tho bohot bada success hi hai.
All the best
Kya me jaan sakta hu.....Life ko ab aage kis tarah se dekhte ho aap.??? Jis situation se aap bahar aa chuke. Ho ab, kya vo. Apki life ki ab tak ki sabse worst situation thi?? Normally kisi insan ko Aisi condition se bahar aane me. Kitna samay lagta hoga...???
@@shreevishwanatham Ye us insan ki sehensheelta pr depend krta h...wo kitna jhel skta h. Bahot log hote h jo us hi ko apni kismat maan kr jeene lgte h pr wo bahot kam log hote h jo aise waqt me khud ko aazaad krne ki sochte h
@@theone5092 life me jab aisi situation aaye, to fir hame kya karna chahye??.. Kyuki kai bar hanare samne 2 option hi aise hote hai ki, dono me kuch na kuch to chut raha hota hai hamse.... Vesi situation me kya karta hai insan??? Or agar kisi situation me 2 option ho, jisme 1 me. Mera dil tute, or 1 me. Samne vale ka.. To khudka dil bchaye ya uska ??
This was my father. He was like this.
I married a wonderful man however! He is the sweetest person on earth. I chose to be a stay at home mom on my own. ❤ I love it! And I love asking my husbands opinion on what I wear because I want his feedback. I take him clothes shopping with me for fun!! He is my bestie. Just a reminder that the situation makes a difference, certain things like staying at home with your child isn’t always a sign of a problem. It depends on if it’s what you want and choose. I am the happiest I have ever been! ❤ I just see a lot of comments saying they’re scared to get married. If you choose the right person and keep your eyes open to red flags 🚩 and trust God to guide you, you can find someone wonderful.
Very right
Absolutely right, 👍 actually now a days people specially modern women think job and financial independence is way more important than family and upbringing children and think housewife are lazy and so on
You are a queen sister ... Salute to you.. Superlady
we need husband side of story
Launde rote nahi aise society mein. Social media mein toh bilkul nahi.
absolutely!!
Yeah brother take interview of husband im sure he'll be glad to clear up his side of things
@@OOnharSure he saw this. Why he didn't!!??
She moved on; be happy 4 her.
This is why marriage is scary . You never know when your partner suddenly changes and then tou just dont know them anymore
Ohh ya the women is always right. 😂. Men are evil. Typical feminist propagand
True..better to b single mom..😍😍..I'm separated from my husband 15 yrs and I am the one who support my 2 kids..I'm happy and hve more peaceful..no one can control my life....
@@joybalderama5972 good for you. People dont value peace instead they want to pretend to be happy and live in toxic relationship to project towards society and family
yes💜
😂😂😂ghar sambal nai sakti or office or kaam sambalna Hain . koi yah nai bolta Hai ki kaam maat karo yah bolte hongy ki prayority kya hai usko karo per tum jaiso ko family sai important freedom kr naam per naanga naach karna Hai tv or filmo ka fitoor itna Hai kon bola tha ki sadi kar tumko or yah sab kar ke koi mahan karya nai ki Ho tali ek hath sai nai bajti yah isi sai pata lag raha hai ki tum apny sab karyo ka dosh ladka or iske family per daal Rahi ho or wo tumhari taraha victim card nai khel rahe social media per yah sab dal kar ki ek kulakshan wife mili jisko mery or meri family sai jayada ghumna kaam karne ke naam per social media per apni personal chisy batana aacha lagta Hai batao kahi dala Hain unhone yah sab doglapan aata kaha sai Hain . Freedom ke naam per
A woman can tolerate anything until it comes to her kids🙌❤
Correct
Maa maaaa hothi hai akhir
@fudanshiltdwell said! 👏👏
A good husband has full right to tell what his wife should wear and what not!
sorry sir, but I don't think you have the correct definition of GOOD here.
@@vaishnaviupadhyay2030Yes ofcourse,I dont mean thats the only problem here but as in an aspect shes mentioned I say husband has the right
Does a good wife have full right to tell her husband what to wear and what not ?
It's not about good or bad husband... If a wife is wearing revealing clothes than it's a total no no...
Ditto taking liberties...
🙏🏻 Mumbai India 🇮🇳
Even my father has better mentality than yours... Definitely u come from an orthodox family... I'm nobody to tell my husband what should he wear and what he should not although I could help him choose fashionable clothes and i expect the same from him...Umm well I'll be moving abroad so imma gonna find better men who don't have such mentality
Hats off to you, fully support your individual struggles to overcome all of that pain.
Same thing happened with me also, but it was the opposite I walked out of my marriage: she didn't stood up for me.
Rest is history, I am happy with my cat. #singleforlife.
She had the guts to accept what life offered and then turn it around.
wait just when this selfish woman will get kicked out similarly by her som and his wife. 🤣 Like she ran away from her husband's family. loser
No, no 😂 she chose to get married and chose to have a child with a person she says did not stand up for her. They were all her actions not her accepting fate as she was not forced into marriage
Women like you are an inspiration for many women who are suffering silently. God bless you and your loved ones abundantly.
I have seen so many love marriages fail and so many arranged marriages successful the conclusion is both the partner should be supportive to each other no matter what
people takes things for granted when opposite person is showing their peaks of patience, when it breaks things changes and that idiot will be punished for his actions 🤦🏻♂️, why people are this immature , n why they take others patience as weakness..🤦🏻♂️
Mine s arrange marriage and I am a divorcee
Yes true. Either love marriage or arrange marriage both should be match for each other then only it'll work best.
Girls need to notice red flags before entering into marital relationships. Practically speaking, its extremely difficult for a single mother get remarried again, but that guy would begin a new family life again. So, every woman deserves another chance too. P.S. not talking about women who doesnt want remarriage.
But let me be honest here. Girls give attention to bad boys only because according to them nice guys are boring. They get in relationship with bad guys and then end up being single mother.
You're so right
I don't think she wants to get married again. She has other options now. No strings attached kind of things..
@@ajaykumarch4014 You can't say that for sure. That's her choice.
Easy for a guy? What about alimony and property the guy pays? Feminazi
"He didn't stand up for me" - This should have been the last straw. Healthy relationships are not about limiting or controlling someone else. It's a liberating experience.
Liberating experience? What if she/he wants to sleep with others? Should they support each other?
@@__sarikladki limit laga sakta he ...lekin jaab ladka lagaeaga tab healthy relationship or kiya kuch nehi ata he
@@__sarikliberating means not fucking around are you a kid
@@__sarik What kind of a stupid & illogical example are you giving? It's about limiting one's freedom to work, express their creativity in their clothing..what's wrong with that? You decide to bring up "sleeping" which is completely irrelevant & disgusting. Shame on your upbringing for this disgusting mentality.
@@__sarikDid u just compare being financially independent to fucking around? Tsk tsk tsk.
Hope you son meets his father. As children deserve to be loved by both parents!
Absolutely. While we don't know the truth of the matter, what is true is that the kids suffer between the egos of both parents
That's TRUE, it's easy to showcase yourself as victim now a days.
@@pushpendradhimole9202yaha social media pe har dusri behen ek victim hai bhai. Jaise Mithun ke konsi never ending B grade movie ke script ho.
eww who would want to be with a bad parent. Parenting is done by good souls. As a kid would you want to be taken care of by the parent who abused your other parent regardless of gender?
Lol no one knows why the yelling started. So don't judge a book by it's cover. In this case, just because a woman has posted with few so called cute pictures, doesn't mean all men are bad. Please don't spread unwanted hatred
Jyoti maurya ke case main ye bola tha? Tab kyu nhi bola dono Sides ki story dikhau
My father passed away when me and my brother were 10 and 2 respectively . My mother took care of everything by her own when our relatives were also against us . She is the strongest person i ever met personally . ❤
Good bless your mother and provide moksha to your father
@Phalanges8540good bless your father and i pray moksha for your mother..... It is hard to lose mother st such a young age..... Even difficult for father to take care of 2 kids alone
Mothers are the bravest warrior when it comes to protect their kids.
Hope you be the voice of other moms and women who want to take such steps
Really ?
And fathers are nothing ?
Be in an abusive relation with a woman and then speak
@@ZoroX1 these types of guys help them to play victim card
Fatherless kid statement
@@carnage61pretty much can be seen in the video
@Syringa860 they did great 😃👍
Just like how a coin has two sides, a story has two sides too, so don’t come to any conclusions based on one side of the side. Our society often depicts the man as the bad guy but some men also go thru abusive marriages and keep quiet for years.
Bhai kuch kami to isme bhi hogi har waqt husband hi zimmedar hote hai 😢
Kami baaa itni thi wo uski gulam ban kr nhi rhi 😔😔
Agr hrr husband zimmedar nhi hote toh hrr wife bhi glt nhi hoti
Agr koi tum ko apni kathputli bna kr rkhna chahe ga toh tum bhi us insaan se dur hi jaoge na
@@deepanshimalik3707 puri kahani jaan lo fir opinion do apna agar aurat video bnati to wo uske baare main bura hi bolti aur agar aadmi bnata to wo uske baare main buri hi bolta itni jaldi judge mat kro
@@user-tr8nu8cy6pagar husbund drink kare to koi bat nahi. Bivi ko mare to haq hai. Ma bap pura families
Ki seva kare q ki vo legally kamwali bai hai. Baccho ko pale khana pakaye kapade dhoye sabki seva kare to thik hai varna vo nalyak hai. Vo job na kare. Agar kare to pure salary ka hisab de. Aur mayake 1 rupaya bhi na de. Lekin shadi ka kharcha. Baccho ki delivery. Damad ko sone ki anguthi.
Sara kharcha mayake wale kare.
Aur bhaisab khudki salary manmarji udaye .
Isase accha hai use chod do apni pair pe khade raho.
Jisko dusaro ki kadra nahi uski kya kadra karna.
U are brave to walk out through the miserable life u once had and more brave to share your personal struggle with us.
In India, court laws are biased .....please read the laws .....like 498 A etc etc ....
All laws are made for women only...
So she was still getting alimony money and child support. You gotta love the justice system.
She's from a different country and it's very likely she wasn't
If you don't want your wife to work, you are paying alimony if the marriage didn't work out. You can't have it bothways. Pick your struggle
@@akshaya6770point ✅
@@Ashmoomoova😂😂 do u know exactly observe every picture of her
Men face these too, we don't have the courage to step out, atleast you were able to take a stand for yourself and your child
😂it's not about courage my friend if men have to step out of marriage women milk him with alimony money shamelessly for living and then call herself independent
Wah bhai isme v lrki glt lgrhi tum log ko schme all men are same
@@goldyd5339 yes she walked out of marriage now so called independent but still will milk her husband for maintaince money entire life
@@goldyd5339 I am just saying men face things too, but it does not come out, I completely support women but men are not always wrong, and sometimes we just go thru all because of the children
@goldyd5339 chal na be ladke jaisa dikhna wali Aurat
My husband didn't said ever not to work. He is like u can if u wish to work but please give time to family too. As of now im happy homemaker. Husband is so loving caring and respecting hence never took his words negatively. And i love to give time to my baby my husband and family❤
Nice and true words
And these type comments aren’t getting any likes .. people are liking only negative things here..
I am so happy to read this as well and know this side of the story too,May God bless you and your family always.
@@brijrajsinghrana5535these are 14-16 years nibbis .
so happy to know you had your choice and you are happy in life
Now your son will grow and be a man different from his father, you truly saved both of your lives. Much love to you
It is not guaranteed thet her son will be different. .may he also leave her after funding his partner..
Lets see
Yes, he will hate Father brainwashed by her mother
@@karthikchalla1011 bhai majority of thugs and rapists come from broken family .
Are you astrologer or someone
Are you astrologer or someone jo bhavishya dekh rha hai kuda hamesha kudedan me dala jata hai bhaii
One sided stories are dangerous and spreading them is spreading hate. How you receive things and how you portray also matters. Breaking up is easy choice and even in this case she cared more about herself and her job than the family. That kid will grow up in a half family and no one should experience that.
Personally id rather have grown up in a "half" family than in an abusive "full" family.
@@OOnharI second that everybody thinks kids need a full family but I am sure the kids grown in such family where one of the parents is being abused by the other or their family will say different
So thinking about your job is selfish woow! Still women are being questioned for having jobs? Hate such people... Definitely your mom is a housewife...A guy who's mom is housewife won't understand how some women could be passionate about their job and goal....If I'll be asked to leave my job for the sake of kids and family then I won't be happy anymore... Even my parents won't appreciate that either...I would rather kill myself or walk out of the marriage... Besides she was lawyer why she should leave a respectful noble profession?
I'm sure husband also has his own say...the only difference is he doesn't want things publicly... whereas the lady publicised everything....
He needs to expose the duplicity of some men. I married an idiot,eventually kicked him out of my life. I am a survivor and not a victim
@@nirinagasar3060why u crying he is giving his opinion
That's why I want to remain single
It ain't no worth to carry a big piece of glass in this war
Someday it would shatter and I won't be able to mend my ways as you did❤
You don't do for money even??
@@Ramu-bw4ubwho marry for money are lowlifes
I literally cried watching this looking at how good ppl do after standing up independently. Omggg. Soooooo happy for u and ur son
Kya h tum log ka itna emotional fool kyu hoti ho tum larkia
great job done
@@cringeworld.a.i 🤦♂️
@@nitishsaxena1372dude what he said was right you don’t know whole story what actually happened and you said you cried? Don’t you think it stupid in this world tears are precious don’t waste on this online story where don’t know whole story
Irresponsible irrespective womon
A HANDSOME SON, AND BEAUTIFUL MOM.
We always hear one side of the story. Never forget, there are stories like Shikhar Dhawan get buried too deep thanks to too much prevalent woman victimhood. 😊
Ladka hota to yeh bolte?
She's so beautiful, why did life try to silence and shut her down. Glad she's prospering right now, for herself and her son AND as an inspiration for us girls.
He son is obese & short. Can't even share his current pic.
How does that inspire you?
And what's your definition of prospering?
Because life wanted her to know her capabilities and her hidden power
@@Love-dz1um And what are those?
@@riscnx watch the short again.
This is not good for her child future.This is not inspirational. For men or women.
Girl has every right to work. She must be independent. Some men doesn't support them.
Because some women take advantage of the freedom and trust by cheating on their husbands..
Then she shouldn't marry that man at the first case.
Why destroy two families?
@@sambit948 Why he hadnt asked her abt her interests b4 marriage?
@@sambit948 he might have told her she can go to work after marriage. There is a lot of cases like this. My sister,My mother they both are victims of this case. My sister is a nurse and my mom is a Accountant but my father didn't allowed her to go to work neither my brother in law. "DESTROYING TWO FAMILY" bro do you even know what are you saying he DESTROYED her life for 8 fking years. Why are you victim blaming?
I married at 17, my husband thought I would put up with his abuse. In America then I could have pressed charges. I gave him another chance. He never touched me in anger again. I had a good family but we were taught to work through our problems. I was married for 40 years. There was mutual respect. That's all I wanted.
The world needs more women like you.
what's your point
@@alphamale451who take up abuse 😂
She gave her 8 years of her life
Man
How could you give someone this much time
You could give time to emotional problems and you can adjust
But never tolerate
Were less man change
any relationship especially marriage
Mutual Respect 🙏
giving one chance which lead to mutual respect bravo well done you both
thanks for sharing
@alphamale451So besically u are saying women to put up with abuse for an abusive marriage... Would u be ok with this if your partner abuses u? Will u try to put up with this for the sake of your marriage? Definitely no! The world needs less women like u
A mother’s love is the best love. We’re all so glad that you persevered and made your life better, for both you and your son. He’ll grow up being thankful that he was raised by such a good mom. You’re a hero ❤️
But I think father's love is the best love...
@@arkaprabhoshome3520 That’s okay, too! It’s based on personal preference ❤️
Where are you from? Perhaps you don't know the Indian legal system and how biased it is towards women. Read about misuse of IPC 498A, DV act. Even for that matter IPC 376 rape laws.
This lawyer woman is just using her child to gain sympathy and attention. Makes me think there is something fishy.
It's very important to talk about these things before marriage... So things won't come down to break ups later
Unfortunately a lot of this wouldn't show up until later.
@@fearreavers agreed 👍. But you don't have other options. You have to talk through all these small things. We have to learn from others mistakes
Problem with these people,
they like love marriages but at the same time they don't have reality of what actually marriage is!
Men and in laws LIE all the time!
@@lazzybug007 we cannot talk and decide. Coz some people at the beginning while talking they agree for everything and once they get married person will take things in control and start restricting for everything.
Women need to stop being selfless. I am fed up of coming across such stories where the woman tolerate financial and physical abuse until it affects her child. No man is worth that.
Its not about the man but her child. She didn't walked out because she wasn't confident about raising the child on her own. I'm so fed up hearing you teenagers completely destroying the meaning of "self love". Firstly,go and learn the definition of self love.
Then please try reading the other side as well miss feminist !!! ...snatching away a man's son/daughter and half his hard earned property in the name of alimony after divorce is enforced by law !!! Even MEN need to be selfless these days !!!
@@koraiemon My point is that women shouldn't wait to leave until a child comes into the equation. We have had enough of the bs that "A kid will solve everything" and other such nonsense.
@S M Of course I know it's difficult. But there's no point in staying with that monster either as it will only get worse. It's sad to see women giving up their independence and self respect blindly in love or desperation.
No relationship is perfect, you have to put in effort in a relationship if u chose to be in it if even after all the efforts it doesn’t work then leaving is good. But relations become a joke wen people start leaving in the beginning of it over initial disagreements.
I'm a guy and girl well Done you. When I saw it says your a lawyer and your hubby don't want you to work.... I thought wtf you studied and worked so hard and you were gonna throw it away. I'm like you go girl. We guys support you on this... 🎉❤🎉
A standing salute to all the single moms out there 🫡
I can see lily bloom in her!! So happy for you!❤
It’s so hard to walk away and start something when you have responsibilities.. but you did it🙌🏻✨
I was about to say that the another lily bloom
It ends with us 😭
yep she is getting old soon the followers will leave too
one sided story and everyone's judging. great story
This is not something one sided story there already millions of women who suffer this .
In india Women Divorce : abusive husband
In western countries : for the purpose of cheating
With background music and editing 😂
Exactly
yeah
Wonder when it's the women victim men are always like one sided story , show proof , men are innocent
But when there is a male victim y'all don't say any of that?
Sis you did the right thing. This courage was required to crave a better future for you n your child.
Literally tears dropped as i witnessed complete subtitles, god bless u dear.
I am man but I am in very similar situation! My controlling partner constantly watches me what I do, passing comments on what I wear! Suck me financially emotionally! I do every chores at home as well as out! Abuses me physically verbally and emotionally 😢 I am enduring everything for my children! When I tried to talk this with other she put me in the court on false allegations of attacking her! I really feel how this women went through! My real worry to walk out of this abusive relationship is I might lose my kids! I love my kids so much 😢😢😢😢 This video makes me cry 😭
Your parents what they say about your condition
No wonder why this comment has less like these women are evil
Hope u walk out of the marriage soon❤
Why do they feel so entitled to woman's identity, personality, life, dreams, goals is beyond me. The world's moved on from claiming women's identity from them but indian men and their parents don't.
I'm sure there's no civilized country in the world where the culture permits the husband's parents to dictate whether the wife gets to work or not, when she must concive, how many times is she allowed to call her parents, what she must eat, how she should dress and a load of bs. What is wrong with this country?
So true,bro. We need to change this.
Asian sub continent actually! I am from bangladesh And here the situation is more worse than yours! not only men but most of the women also think that girls shouldn't get higher study! They don't support a working woman, a working mother! It's pathetic.
@@rarora8853 definitely, n they think we are asking too much
@@shrutigupta6114 Also the fact that they send Women to their maternal home during the hardest time of her pregnancy because in laws can't get her free service. The tradition of extorting Money from her parents for first delivery and several other functions. This country just exists to serve men.
@@Advocate-wb7ok kalyug h.. Isi lie is duniya me bachhe paida krna ab crime hona chahiye. Wo ye gandagi me ana deserve ni krte
My ex wife was having an affair while we were dating, contnued while we were married and is married to him, now. I would have given to have a married life and have kids. I guess most of us do not get what we yearn the most, in life.
Atleast you don’t have to pay alimony because she has remarried
@@Beaverton2830Are we settling for this bare minimum just because law dictates bias as we being men? Hamara dil nahi hota kya yaar? I personally know some men who are wronged by women like this and never recovered from the heartache and trauma. We men barely speak up and cry victim when hurt emotionally.
@@ROMI909 ... Alimony will stop when men stop marrying women. Just like what is happening in Western countries.. In Western countries, due to gender biased divorce laws, common marital property law and no fault divorce, men lose half of his property after divorce and so most Western men have stopped marrying women. So, only 50% of Western women are able to get married. Still all the unmarried women get pregnant and about 50% of children born in Western countries are born to unmarried women. Example. in Western countries, men are refusing to marry women. Yet, most of the unmarried Western women are getting pregnant and becoming single mothers. Now, more than half of children born in France - and 10 other European countries - have unmarried parents. The highest percent is in Iceland, where nearly 7 out of 10 children (69.4%) are born outside of marriage. Second is France, with well over 6 out of 10 births (62.2%) out of wedlock. Bulgaria, is in third place (59.6%). Other countries are: Norway (58.5%), Portugal (57.9%), Sweden (55.2%), Denmark ( 54.7%), Netherlands (53.5%), and Belgium (52.4%), Slovenia (57.7%), Estonia (53.7%), Czech Republic (48.5%), UK (48.2%), Finland (47.7%), Spain (47.6%), Austria (41.2%), Slovakia (41.0%), U.S.A (40.7%), Ireland (38.4%), Italy (33.8%), Germany (33.1%),.. So, we can see that even when men are refusing to marry women, to avoid paying alimony, unmarried women continue to become single mothers... Same thing will happen in India soon... Men will stop marriage, cohabitation and live in relationship to avoid paying alimony..
@@ROMI909 .. Alimony will stop when men stop marrying women. Just like what is happening in Western countries.. In Western countries, due to gender biased divorce laws, common marital property law and no fault divorce, men lose half of his property after divorce and so most Western men have stopped marrying women. So, only 50% of Western women are able to get married. Still all the unmarried women get pregnant and about 50% of children born in Western countries are born to unmarried women.
@@ROMI909 ... Example. in Western countries, men are refusing to marry women. Yet, most of the unmarried Western women are getting pregnant and becoming single mothers. Now, more than half of children born in France - and 10 other European countries - have unmarried parents. The highest percent is in Iceland, where nearly 7 out of 10 children (69.4%) are born outside of marriage. Second is France, with well over 6 out of 10 births (62.2%) out of wedlock. Bulgaria, is in third place (59.6%). Other countries are: Norway (58.5%), Portugal (57.9%), Sweden (55.2%), Denmark ( 54.7%), Netherlands (53.5%), and Belgium (52.4%), Slovenia (57.7%), Estonia (53.7%), Czech Republic (48.5%), UK (48.2%), Finland (47.7%), Spain (47.6%), Austria (41.2%), Slovakia (41.0%), U.S.A (40.7%), Ireland (38.4%), Italy (33.8%), Germany (33.1%),.. So, we can see that even when men are refusing to marry women, to avoid paying alimony, unmarried women continue to become single mothers... Same thing will happen in India soon... Men will stop marriage, cohabitation and live in relationship to avoid paying alimony..
Relax guys this is just hers
story.....
Husband had a story too.... That no one wants to listen
@@SlidingDoors2023 name one
It does takes horrific turn which we have never imagined
Proud of you. I too walked out one night some 20+ years ago. It’s the best decision I ever made and I’m proud of myself.
Are you sick man? Even if the other one in your relationship was a**hole. You're Proud of what? Falling in love with your choice? Then choosing a wrong partner? Then failing to have a successful relationship.
@@ssaeloh7395 she's proud of having enough courage to walk out. It's not easy to walk out even when we know we're getting abused and it's wrong because families are involved. So yes
Kudos! Kudos! Incredibly strong and brave of you to walk out of that marriage! May God bless you and your adorable child with everything you ask for and more! ❤
I so loved it.... I was like you....and I walked away and went back study again and graduated with two BA and also study to become JP and I Praise and thank God I achieved all these, and my kids did the same. To GOD be all the glory and honor 🙏
Will these people ask same question if it was a man instead of this lady... Would they want or have the patience to hear the wife's version too???
I became financially independent..thats what i love to hear. Thats my girl.😊❤
That shows your mentality aparna
. A women can think about herself only after getting success, however a man have to take care of his family along with the girl he is having in his life.
Pakistan ke saath saath tumlogo ke liye bhi alag se country bna deni chaiye , rho aur chalao desh akele
@@AnimeDelight01Lol! U have never seen a working woman in your life...U would not have said this if u had financially independent women in your family and I don't see anything wrong with her comment.. Being financially independent is important for both men and women..Damn sure your mother is a housewife other wise u won't have said such thing
But she tolerated till so many years.... yrr.... hats offf...🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ means heart has sacrifice and strength together 😍😍💪💪💪💪💪💪🤞
POV :You actually don't love him, it was just attachment, admire it. The thing u did isn't called love.😅
Utter bullshit
Huge respect to mom like her ❤
One sided stories don't make sense
@Rukhsar Ahmad
Aur tum sexist ho
Exactly ... We need to hear both side before coming to conclusions 😅😅
Single moms always one sided story 😂😂😂😂
Incel spotted
@Rukhsar Ahmad aur tum menhater feminist ho na ?
Now a days independent means wearing short clothes to get attention+gossiping with other married males in bar at night and coming home at midnight...if hubby questions about this she will say u controll me,,i will do whatever i want...such a controoling husband....and dtrted playing victim card....😢
Man are always victim of this toxic feminism...and wtf about wearing short clothes ...if u will want sexual attention u will always wear short clothes 🎉....
here comes Indian men with their explanation... a big round of applause to you... short clothes = sexual attention... lol do you understand where you are pointing at? you are saying the world is a playground for men and women do everything for men and their attention. it's like a dressed up dog or a cat which is dressed by their owner and women is no different from that.
i won't mind if you directly put ladies in categories of cattle. it's apt for women those 2nd class citizens in the end of the day who lives in Care of Father, then care of husband and then care of son. useless gender at the end of the day.
Yeah right. I always wonder why men are shirtless in their house, beach and always wear baniyan, shorts. Seriously yaar, high time these ppl have to stay modest. That chest hair is even a bio hazard to look at. They really have to shave all their bodies every month before this hazard possess significant effects.😊
Praying for the day where men comb their hair properly and not do chapri hair cuts and dress in proper kurti and dhoti. Hail modesty 😂😂😅
And as you rightly said feminism questions unending Patriarchy and male privilege in society. So it's toxic for you 😢😢.
true ! These randis are talking too much nowadays .
No you wrong please try to understand the situation
Now a days people call themselves as “successful person” if they are divorcees! 😂
Understanding is very important even though you are rich or poor ❤️ girl you slay ❤️☺️
Proud of you! Being an example for others!
❣️❣️❣️ moms are the strongest person in whole world
Bikni pe ghumna tha usko isliye alimony le li
@@braKetVersemay god bless you with some knowledge to respect women's
@@carobar23 I really respects prosteetutes
@@carobar23 controlling dress ka kya matlab hua? Uncle? Dimag ladao thoda
You are a beautiful resilient person and a great mother. Wishing you a wonderful life.
I am so sorry you had to endure everything. I'm delighted you are happy and raising your beautiful son to respect women.
We have ladies in our family who are all independent. I really feel lucky that i have born and brought up in such a family that really respects Females. ❤❤
Great 👍
They're sluts who sleep with coworkers. Be proud of your working ladies 😂
O my God Bhagyeshree Di I know you since our school days you were just a year senior to me so energetic so bubbly, I was in Mumbai and used to watch your videos many a times as I left all my connections from Ajmer almost for ever.
Keep going on, lots of love❤
Nice one mothers can do anything. Young beautiful mom and handsome little son God bless prayers for u and family🙏
Smart girl. You did the right thing by escaping with your child and showing him the good things in life like bravery and strength.
Never judge too early by listening to one's side of the story! You never know who's the actual victim
Exactly 💯
And victim of what? Being left? Videos like these get fact checked. She just left the relationship, ain't nobody victim other than her and her son
@@megumi1370 social media is just nothing but fake media it only shows one side of the story where is other side . Can you tell me what actually happened between them may be she play the victim card who knows
Victim of what? He didn't leave his job, she did
@@twoshakesofaratsass4748that's what the video shows us
But we don't know the actual picture
I am not against that woman
I am just being neutral
If I would have seen this video/short 5-6 years ago I would have believed this woman blindly
Back then there were not so many case studies on internet about fake allegations ,but nowadays there are so many fake allegations
If there was a man in this short, still my reaction would be same
If this video is well checked before uploading then the woman is completely right
I just want to say that we didn't knew the actual truth
There is always two sides to the story... wanting to hear other side of the story...as well
Ohh really In reality the other side sometimes good but not always jinhone apni bahu jla di ho usme doosre side ka kya sunna h tumhe
Tum waha the kya jo itne confident ho … lawyer hai bhai … pela hoga poori family ko
We always see one side of the 🪙 … and now a days time has come when especially females are very intolerant as compared to previous generation 🙏
They will never show other side, this is feminist propaganda to incentivise women to break marriage, women nowadays are just looking for excuses for walk off, most times the fault isn't there at all, women just assume and because toxic channels such as this spread such gynocentric nonsense, women have no repercussions of their fault. #feminismiscancer #womenisburden
@@itenigneer21were you there that are making idiotic assumptions?
im glad you got out and are doing well xxx
I'm proud of you and happy for you ❤
Great work Sister
Bless you and your son
Same story, I am an advocate and mother of a girl child, my husband and his parents always trying to dominate me and there is no affection and care from my husband, now I am living separate with my daughter
Beautiful sister with beautiful full heart no words super mom.❤❤❤❤
It's really an inspiration story u did a right thing
I need to hear husband's version too
🤦♀️🤪 omg
Me too😂😂 nowadays, people judge the whole scenario by just listening to one side...lol
Sure
The fact that she's taking care of their son alone speaks miles
Indeed...n he will definitely have strong excuse of leaving his son n wife all by itself
Exactly. Too many people forget that there's another side to it as well and leap to the woman's defence. Sometimes _she_ is the problem too.