Being An Unmarried Mother In India…
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- čas přidán 8. 05. 2022
- Shruti Nakka found out she was pregnant and unmarried. She decided to abort the kid, but when she listened to the baby’s heartbeat for the first time, she decided to keep the baby. Despite being in a relationship for five years, her partner refused to take any responsibility. She has since raised her child single handedly. This is her story…
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I say this on behalf of all boys:
If you have the guts to get a girl pregnant, then have the guts to stand up to your family for her. She trusted you with her body, now you can't just break off and run away.
This lines boys don't understand they want just only lust and nothing else.
I will make it clear that I don't want a child and will use contraceptives. I will make it clear that if you get pregnant I will take no interest in the child.
It was her decision to keep the baby just by having sex someone doesn't define trust love and responsibilities . Overall it was all about choices
@@avishekmukhopadhyay6086 Watever man... I feel if the guy has the guts to get her pregnant then have the audacity to say he's a coward & he cannot do this, then any girl would be heartbroken in the end. I understand the situation he maybe in he was not ready to talk to his parents yet, not ready to take her responsibility yet... but all that translates that he was not ready to take this relationship seriously. And he should do a self-analysis after this of what kind of person he truly is. In the end, he is truly a Coward, but has the spontaneity of thoughts to let lust take over & have sex with her without a condom (sorry if you feel this is blunt) despite very well knowing the situation at his home & how he'll not be able to stand up for her.... let alone she did not even feel safe with him anymore to at least call him for help after she got kicked out of the house.. This speaks Volumes! Even though it was her decision to keep the baby, it was his responsibilty too to make sure she doesn't get pregnant then make her go through this tough phase all alone. I'm saying all this despite being a guy... coz I truly believe what I say & I know what single mothers have to go through alone.
@@varshajaiswar4343 It was about choices but definitely about responsibilties too!
A massive respect to the high school ex.. he helped her when she needed the most.. damn bruh whoever u r.. take a bow 🤩
Can girls do it for ex boyfriend please???
It's proves that boy's only have big heart ❤️
@@abdulmajidgazid.m.e6759 Boys don't give birth, As you know.
@@a_511kinderheimer why only birth?? There are many problems exists!
@Dakait Dude
No shit 😂
She not only hunted for a job but worked during pregnancy whilst fighting all those circumstances. This is insane. Next time I give myself an excuse for not being able to do something I will remind myself her story. “There is no hope but what we make ourselves”. You are an amazing person Shruti. Love and respect 🙏
remember she choose to get pregnant and keep the baby, so i dont have any sympathies for this crap .
@@chalke007 no one asked. You'll never understand. Crap to you, bravery to someone else. We are humans with errors
@@clipsy-tipsy5755 yes you asked if you are posting a life story then you have asked to comment on it. If you dont want criticisms them keep your life story privet . And this is not a error. This is deliberate mistake. And if you choose this life then you dont have the right to cry on scoial mefia that . Look how VICTIM i am . I dontr give a fk if she suffering. its her choice . But dont call this stupidity and irresponsible behavior BRAVE . Bcoz this is 100 mile far from anything remotely brave.
@@chalke007 people get inspired not to lose hope. Like she almost committed suicide, other people who almost gonna die or live life which is different than your ideas of Life, they get hope. Let them live. Those who think this is bullshit, i respect that as well.
@@clipsy-tipsy5755 she choose the life so she has to face the consequences. So we should not look at her as brave women , but a women who is paying for her mistakes. She choose to get depressed she thought that the man would follow her stupidity and that backfired royally and thats why she thought of suiside . Did i said anything about she dosent have right to live? nope i am just against the notion that she did something brave . She was stupid and she is paying for it. Nothing against her. So moral of her story is dont give birth if you cant afford the struggle .
My girlfriend got pregnant and our families forced us to abort. When we went to the hospital and saw that the child was formed I decided not to go forward with abortion. I decided come what may be but I will not leave her and my child in her. We went against our families' decision and made this happen. I am a proud father today and my son will turn on this 31st. From a boy to a father, the journey was not easy for me.
God bless you.
God bless you ya👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼a great man you are to support your family, wish u all the best
hey!? need somw suggestion or guideness
I got goosebumps after listening your story No doubt your brave enough to take care of your Son may Allah bless you nd your Son lots of happiness Ameen. Always stay blessed my dear sis ❤️❤️
And that man belongs to the streets. All men actually as you always hear stories of them leaving thier gf after getting them pregnant. Men are absolute tR@$h
Actually my father also hit my mom when he is drunk and he is also talking about a second marriage
I live very far from their
@@paridhipal6986it's Really very sad
May Allah give your father Hidayat to respect your mom.
I respect her what happened with her
But if we flip the situation and we hear the sentence when she said "he was not ready even after 5 years of dating" then probably we would have hear that it's her choice how much time she takes.
I'm in truly support to you but thinking in this way made me feel sad
Kudos to all ladies who are not thinking about social stigma, taboos but being a proud single mother . 👏🏻❤️
Stop glamourizing this.
@@ifykyk679 she isn’t glamourising but it needs guts to take a stand for ur baby
@@clumsyme179 there is a very thin line between braveness nd stupidity
@Nelumbo Nucifera hm.
@@ifykyk679 what's the stupidity in it ?
Stay strong girl! Irrespective, such unsupportive “fathers” are a waste to the society.
he must not be termed as "father".
such a coward.
True
@@acommenter1255 I don't think so how people's judge someone by seeing one side of story? Reality may be different
She is also responsible. Why did she sleep with him?
@@sahilsarang6945 ok,
she took the responsibility na?
did he?
Being a man, usually find women braver. Respect her decision.
Indian-culture has rightly termed woman as 'Shakti'.
This shows that for healthy-society, performing one's duty is more important than hanging-on to social-status.
Indian culture n society r just Hippocrate,it show it is the best but reality is that it is the worst.
yes!
Women are mentally more stronger than man. All moms are warriors.
Why u had unprotected sex if u were not married.
@@deepak-fx7vq are you asking him? Or her? Or both?
Dear sister, it must have been hard beyond explanation for you to sustain a traumatic childhood and an even traumatic relationship. This is what a real life hero looks like....like you. Yes, you had nerves of steel and it's only natural to breakdown at some point in your life. People breakdown so that they become stronger versions of themselves. Loads of love and luck to you. May you find all the happiness you deserve. 😘😘
Strongest mother shruti🌹
Tqusm Firdos ji🌹🙏
Sitting here and writting a comment is so much easier but going through that for every single moment is the real deal. Girls like you are making a great change in our society. Be proud of yourself..love and hugs ❤️
Yeah you are right she must have gone through a lot.
Girls like you r making a great change.. our Society will become "Bin Bihahye MAA Society" or "Society of NAZAYAZ" 😁😁
@@armyabesha9486 She is not sufferer... She is Duffer......5 long years🙄
Exactly u r right
She is dumb. Now acting proud and all.
Really proud of you as a woman . I can understand the confusion you must have been in till he was born. I was married but separated from my husband when I was 4 months into the pregnancy. My kid changed the world for me, made me stonger.
GOOSEBUMPS. You're such a strong woman, Shruti! Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Sending you and your adorable son lots of love and light.
We should not promote such stupid things
@@stupidpersonnoarguments7870 who are you to say this. If one type of family is good then other one also should be and we should not interfere in others life as they are adults also. Single mothers should also be respected and
appreciated for raising their child alone.
I bow down to you and your guts lady , really hats off. People like you radiate so much of courage and inspiration into someone else's life without even knowing so that when time comes they can take stand for themselves. Lots of blessings and Respect
You are very brave to be a single mother in India, where society is very judgemental. i too was a single mother 31 years ago and inspite of my coward boyfriend leaving me in the lurch at the last minute, i decided to keep the baby and my parents were of course upset but they atleast didn't kick me out and supported me. I couldn't continue with my studies and it was a few years i struggled, but later i got a teaching job and managed with the support of my parents. Today my daughter is 31 years old and i am proud to say i brought her up well, she got a good education and she is working in a really good job in Canada. Now i have moved on and remarried but i never regretted having my daughter and glad i didn't listen to people who advised me to have an abortion.
I just have one question if you don't feel offended, did your daughter asked you to live with her atleast once, as you said no that she has got a job in Canada so did she asked you to stay with her, answer it only if you don't feel offended
@@mishtisavage4353 yeah
@@mishtisavage4353 no, i am not offended. my daughter comes back every year and i havee also been there thrice, but i prefer living in my own country.
You and your parents are really good example of what we call a family, I knew it too difficult to be pregnant with this kind of situation and shame on that coward man who leave you like this alone, I am 😊glad to hear that you save the life of an innocent child and hats off for your kind, gentle parents that supported you, I hope everybody get parents like them, and I really wish that this bad and ungrateful society do some change in it, people don't think that their words hurt other people who are already suffering and depressed😫 them and these things force the depressed person to do things like suicide, however I am 😊 so happy for your marriage, show this nonsense society that if a girl or a woman decide to achieve any goal , she always get her goal.
This is a male dominated society and all women have to face a million of times of pain and problem, in each and every field.
Mam,its not easy.U did it.Lot of respect for u.
I remember once in seventh grade my social science teacher (who was also my relative) had shamed single mothers in a class and called them "irresponsible" despite knowing the fact that my mother was one herself. Being my teacher, the way she told that to the whole class made me embarrassed, hurt and disappointed at her. But I am proud of my mother because despite of having such unsupportive and ignorant relatives around, she stood tall with me. A year later, she married for the second time and now after five years we live a nice and "complete" family. Not gonna lie, the time that I was with my mother alone will always be stored in my mind as a golden gift.
In my earlier years I never knew what having a father felt like, so I could never relate to what my friends used to say about theirs. But I was aware that fathers are a basic necessity for children while they grow. I emphasised with people with fathers even though I myself never had one. Just shows that a woman has enough power in her hand to break social myths and raise a kid with empathy and kindness so that it can reflect that in the world and respect anyone and everyone with differences.
Your social science teacher was 100% right - because children from single mother household have horrible impact on society. This is supported by sociological data - so no need to take it personally.
@@gangadin2873 Obviously. I mean, how do you expect children who aren’t emotionally, financially or physically supported by their fathers to be like? Also I didn’t take it personally. What I wanted to say was that even though people like me aren’t usually provided with the normal basic rights that every other child has, we are able to love and care for one another. Not everyone has the same style of dealing with things, and due to emotional poverty, we often end up being in trouble. But whose fault do you think it ultimately is? Ours? Or society’s itself?
@@srijoni_k
Possible. But it is your mother and father who put you in that situation. Look at the prison stats, broken relationship stats, drug addiction stats, poverty stats - all have significant disadvantage for single mother children.
@@gangadin2873 yes, that’s accurate, thank you for explaining.
Men in comment section : Why she did before marriage
Men in reality : if u won't do that after dating a month then I am going to other woman .
What if the girl really not want the guy to go away from her .
What a strong mother you are. Your son will be so proud to have a wonderful mother like you who never gave up on him. Lots of love and respect to both of you. ❤️
Girls please take a lesson on this, love and physical contact is very emotional thing for us. It's not the same for boys, especially who aren't raised right. It's more of curiosity n visual pleasure. So don't fall for any emotional trap in any way. In relationship intimacy is needed but understand if he cannot take a stand do not go this far. I salute for hardships u must have gone through. Our emotions can be weakness however can be most strongest weapon when needed. May u stay happy for lifetime ❣️
Us women in our 20's donot get this, we want to be like men in our physical relationships, our parents were right we cannot be equals at all in that sense our physiological wirings are more emotional than men, but we don't listen to our parents because it's "uncool"...
Power to this lady but donot become another such example
@@stankssmile5865 soo true 😔
@@stankssmile5865 Absolutely agree to this we don't want to compete here...It's said women are manipulative but men can be worse . I think most of us have been there.
@@stankssmile5865 this is the right advice. Women and men are not equals, meaning they are not the same. They are different. Men are driven by a need to spread his seed - its biology. Stop buying into feminist nonsense that women can be men and vice versa. Give yourself only to a deserving man - not the most attractive man. Talk to your mom - she knows better than your friends or worse the women who write in the media
@@snehalk.9423 Girls are worse....not vice versa. Men are not responsible for the sudden mood change. She agreed to abort mutually then suddenly her mind changed, still the man is being blamed. You got to stick to your words !!
This is such an eye opener to the girls who trust any boy blindly and gets pregnant without any commitment. I mean you are way more precious than that girl don't let him take you so lightly like a tissue paper- use and throw.
Make your parents proud, be financially independent and if you love a guy let him make a commitment first. You are way too precious to be broken!
Also, this girl hats off man that you literally survived a traumatic childhood and then a worse relationship and you are still going strong for your son. You are literally a strong and beautiful women. Keep going ✨💗
True...
So good to see Women understanding another women's pain and not judging her #GreatWomen #GreatQualities #HumbleEmpathy
Ryt
Unprotected sex is not the way when there's no commitment in the relationship. It isn't just about the father or mother, it's about the child that maybe born to people who can't even handle it. Yes one can do whatever they want with life, sleep around and stuff I don't get to tell you what to do, but remember the child didn't consent to that so u have to take responsibility accordingly. Play it safe, it's a wholeass life we are talking about.
@@m_1230 You're not completely wrong... But she had the option to seek abortion right... She could have done that if she was not ready to undertake the responsibility of being a mother. Her denial implied that she was psychologically and emotionally prepared to go through the process.
Also, it's the couple's mutual choice of practicing protected or unprotected sex (in case they know the consequence). If the couple is tested negative for STD prior, there will be no risk of transmission. Regarding the risk of getting pregnant(in case undecided), there are multiple emergency contraceptives. (Cannot ignore contraceptive failure rates also)
But yes, we cannot ignore the negligence and carelessness of people in all cases. Lack of knowledge and maturity cause most unwanted pregnancies. Does not mean such people need to be shunned although.
This is the example of how powerful women are.
I have never been in a relationship with anyone because I want a relationship that lasts till the end and I want to create a family of our own with that person, I want commitments in my relationships not break-ups. So I just decided that being single is the best thing for me till I find that one person 😌
She is a brave woman, the society can be so cruel towards mothers like her still here she is living a happy life with her son. And the dad of the child he lost an amazing person and his son.
@Park Y/N💯💯👌
This was my thought too, i fell in love with a guy at the age of 29, thinking all same as urs... He knew how much i love him, my family was aware about our relationship and they were ok... But still after 5 yrs he betrayed me, slept with other girl and married the 3rd one... Im 36 now... Trying to establish my career... Nothing can save uh other than a established career... Decided to be single forever... God bless uh, uh may find a right person...
I hope this woman teaches her son not to do this with someone else . One can't tell what can happen.
@@NeelamSharma23500 The man has clearly said he don't want child.
What if the sex is reversesd where the woman want abortion will you oppose that?
#Hypocrisy
@@NeelamSharma23500 Typical modern women who have enjoyed her 20's with boyfriend now crying for not getting attaintion from guys.
I literally cried...this was way too hurtful and heartwarming at the same time...stay strong Shruti ❤️ there are people who will support you and am one of them..
I literally cried hearing this. I am married and having one son. Fatherhood is one of my most sweetest routine life. kids are so adorable. When they wait for you at the gate after your job completed and called pappa aagaya 😭. it's all we need
yes you are cheering and celebrating lack of maturity, responsibility and accountability,
@@anandmehta2323 ?
@@anandmehta2323 huh?
Pagla gya woh @Anand Mehta
@@anandmehta2323 bhai tujhe angrezi nhi aati ya fir dimaag hi nahi hai 🤣🤣🤣
You touched my heart. So proud of you to stand up and face the world as a single mother. You set a new norm on courage. to many young girls in a situation. You're a hero and your child is a blessing.
Respect for the woman.
Your son should be really proud of you.
We need more courageous women like you.
so you want your daughter to be pregnant in her collage days
?
What's sad is that her own father kicked her out when she needed him the most. I understand cultural restrictions etc but once you turn your back on your child don't expect them.to ever forgive you for abandoning them in their times of difficulties . If they do forgive you it's because of their forgiving heart and it'd not because you deserve it. This applies to both her father and the father of the child both of them abandoned their children.
You summed it up well.
"so true"
But do u really expect humanity from a physical abuser? He literally beat his own wife, so he doesnt care abt the women in his house
so what you were expecting him to act cool at his daughter who did what he expected her to never do? baap Bano pehle phir halki philosophy jhaarna.
@@thedine3417 I am a mother and even if my child does something I don't expect her or him to do I will still not abandon her/him. We as parents have a duty to discipline and protect and if we are not there for our children then we can't expect anyone else to be. Are you a parent? If you are, then I feel sorry for your kids as you have such philosophy towards what being a parent means.and if you are not a parent then try being one. When your child does wrong you have full right to tell teach them what is right but throwing them when they are most vulnerable (she was pregnant) means they don't deserve to be a parent.
Don't break parents trust or else KARMA will teach you the lessons.
sometimes I feel like that a woman has powers that are beyond anyone's imagination, only if that man knew how beautiful and happy his life would be with the baby, he wouldn't have thought of stepping out of her life. But it's good that she knows how freaking brave and powerful she is. I feel damn proud of her and loads of love to both of you❤️
I am a young boy and a student of Law and there is a subject of Law called JURISPRUDENCE under which we have to study the purpose of Law and for which we have to study the nature, behavior and functioning of the things concerned. So for my study, I wants some questions to be answered and I will be very thankful if you answer
I found that men has a lot of interest to change his partners, so my question is (1) whether women also has such interest or what is the INTRINSIC NATURE of women in this regard and Secondly (2)whether married women also sexually attracted by other man, even if they are in love with his partner and also is satisfied by him
Kindly reply only if you are a woman.
Not everyone likes kids some people are childfree by choice
bravo shows power of mother .
single mother more powerful who takes world single handedly
It's awesome how you took a stance and made a decision and carried on with it, with all the obstacles that you had to overcome.. much love and respect ,👏🏼👏🏼
Hats off to you girl. You don't have any idea how strong and perfect you are. Being a single mother is that tough that no one can even imagine and you're doing this gracefully. Loads of love and wishes to you and your son. Love from Jharkhand 💞
Shadi se pehle unprotected sex krna strong and perfect woman hota h kya???
I am a young boy and a student of Law and there is a subject of Law called JURISPRUDENCE under which we have to study the purpose of Law and for which we have to study the nature, behavior and functioning of the things concerned. So for my study, I wants some questions to be answered and I will be very thankful if you answer
I found that men has a lot of interest to change his partners, so my question is (1) whether women also has such interest or what is the INTRINSIC NATURE of women in this regard and Secondly (2)whether married women also sexually attracted by other man, even if they are in love with his partner and also is satisfied by him
Kindly reply only if you are a woman.
@@sanjaymahato7138 Ni hota hai but protection bhi to 100% sure ni hota na. Koi jaan kr apne liye Ashi life ni chunta but ashe hard situation Mai give up ni krna strong bnata hai.
@@user-B.K. it's really good to hear that you're a law student same as I. I'm also in the first year of my LLB and yeah I'm totally aware of this subject called Jurisprudence. Along with this I'm an upsc aspirant too so I'm having anthropology as my optional.
So your answer is.
(1) Yes, of course both genders have hormones. It's not only boys who change a lot of partners, there are so many women too. I have seen many cases of divorce where boys want to stay but the girl is cheating on him for other men. So yeah, this thing happens from both sides.
(2) Yes, they do. Not to women but men also do so. These are all biological. And because of this we have laws on adultery.
I personally don't support this kind of thing happening all around. As we know monogamy Is the ideal practice of marriage for an ideal lifestyle.
True 🌹
Why is no one mentioning her high school ex
Like he helped Her a lot even when her so called current boyfriend gave up
Like hats off to him
I feel girls leave such humble guys and be with guys like her sons dad....i mean being a girl i can know how genuine a guy is....
@@gossip.wave11 good to see someone appreciate guys like us
We are often take for granted and weak
@@b.h.kapadia437 yeah mostly good guys are taken forgranted...kehtey hein naa pyaar kisi se jyada karo toh unhey ghamand hota hein ki yeh insaan chodega nahi....i think this happens....
@@gossip.wave11 that's the sad play of life in her 20's women get all the attention reject good guys, once she messes up or hits post 30 she finally gets that those bad boys aren't going to be with her or change her and go calling the good guys in their past as a last minute resort
@@b.h.kapadia437 like you 😀
I adore her little boy. He’s adorable, Sending well wishes to the baby and brave mama.
So proud of you!! Your son is beautiful and perfect and I hope someday he will be grateful for the sacrifice you’ve made for him ❤️
I can totally understand what u have been gone through..No words..stand tall and strong..u are inspiration for many other who losses hope ..and this matter a lot...
I can't even imagine the strength it took from her to go through so much. You brave hearted woman you are the real queen. U are an amazing parent and may God bless you and your precious Lil blessing to have a very abundant life.
No need to sleep with someone before marriage
Yeah. These kind of girls talk about my body my choice blah blah blah. He also has choice to break up and leave.
@@alhubal6321 Astagfirullah she has committed zina and you're supporting it.
Repent before it's too late...
Keep fighting don't give up...thats all i can say to support you...its nice to see indian people understands a single mothers now ...such a relief..💜💜
As a mother... I truly understand ur emotions towards ur child. Motherhood is amazing.... it puts u in a vulnerable position in society ( being a single mother is the least easy thing, thanks to the ppl around u. Whether ur single... or a divorcee or a widow) but it makes YOU move mountains for ur child and tolerate the burns the world gives. It astonishes me how a man can escape society's wrath of shame in a mutual relationship. Just walk away...and he's safe.... how easy huh!
Stay strong and be a fighter coz u did the right thing in choosing ur baby. Having gone through a painful childhood, I'm sure ur subconsciously mind wanted to be a mother and give ur kid all that u didn't get. I understand u. I wish u the very best. And ur baby is a cutiepie. Lots of love! I suggest.. study simultaneously... Work.... exercise and maintain health... make savings. Health ... qualification ( to ensure job) and money are very important in raising a child.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SON WITH EVERY HAPPINESS YOU WISH FOR❤️
Wow .. excellent video 🔥🔥👍👍
Good message
I had goosebumps watching this
Lots of love and blessings to you and your son...You're a great inspiration to all the single moms...Ma stands for Shakti and you are the burning example...
Stop promoting such stupid
I feel so happy that you took the right decision for your baby.. i cannot believe that man left you knowing you have his baby.. i hope he comes to realise his actions.. don't involve in a relationship or sex if you cannot accept the consequences of it
@THE ZOLDICS well yes she did a mistake trustin the wrong guy...thank god she didn't do another mistake...she kept her baby and stood up as a mother no matter who said what..by the way she is neither crying nor nagging...from what u said i can affirm u neither are a mother never listened to the heart beating of a baby in your tummy neither do u have a child. U wont and cant understand such emotions so let it be.
@THE ZOLDICS although there is her fault for the issue. Abortion is a big step for women, there's a different feeling about becoming pregnant. A new life is inside a person. So she couldn't do it. Even she thought to do but couldn't bcz of her feeling we can't understand.also she showed courage for both of their baby, but he couldn't because of his family and log kya kahenge. We are always blinded up by log kya kahenge things so both of them should have been careful about it.
@THE ZOLDICS Wtf bro?stop spamming!!!You clearly are a hater!are you her ex?by any chance 😂
SHAME!
@THE ZOLDICS why are you spamming everywhere you fool
@THE ZOLDICS oh please that guy was coward and cheater they just want a girl for enjoyment later when things come to pragnancy they will not take the responsibility they will give you shit about their family and all I want to tell all the girls don't involve with any man in physical relationship if that man is demanding physical relationship to prove you love him that he doesn't love you at all
It's the people who break boundaries and stand up for what is truly important and right are the ones who pave the way for a better society. Hats off to you for being that person! Be strong and God is always with you.
You deserve nothing but happiness miss. I salute the mother in you. The world needs more people like you. When he grows up he will treat you like the Queen that you are. God bless all the single parents out there. ❤
I hearing in your story in tears in my eyes. Very strong woman you are. And I admire and respect for you
Baby saves mother . Scientifically when an organ or any internal part of mother is disturbed a child helps in keeping the mother strong and heals it. ....the bond of love is from a long time
It takes courage woman it takes a lot of self worth to do something like this in a society like ours ,you are the one heck of a courageous woman and i salute you
Big salute to you• Your bravery is incredible and an inspiration to others•
Tears rolled down unknowingly,, u r an amazing woman, no words can describe ur bravery...
I just want to thank everyone in the comment section, I am so glad to see my country, my home is progressing and accepting things that are absolutely normal and okay
ikr im so happy and proud
Actually our generation is far more open minded than our parents generation, and I'm happy Indians are changing
@@eveningafterrain yup
@@eveningafterrain To is ka kya matlad kisi ka sath bi so Gaya 😡
No country is not progressing in a right way because many girls are getting cheated by their trusted guys and this is happening because they are choosing money over honesty sincerity and loyalty
Our society has stereotypes based on the financial background . If Kylie Jenner gets pregnant without marriage, no one bothers but if any lower or middle class girl gets pregnant without marriage, it's a shame for the society . I would personally never risk getting pregnant without getting married because I can't manage a kid alone . It's a very difficult job . However I really appreciate this lady's bravery .My friend as well had 2 abortions in a 5year relationship because the guy was a coward to tell his family . I really wish there is a law in India where if a guy gets a girl pregnant, he should pay for the kids expenses equally. It's a shame that no one takes strict action on this . So so disheartening . I really hope this family gets all good stuff that they deserve
haha so you want western shit culture where you don't know who is your dad
who tf even knows about kylie jenner? also why do you want women to have a choice for abortion but guy should have no choice whilst paying? double standards?
@@hidum5779 bro 🤣😂 you are right .... we know only one sided story so we can't criticize him without knowing much about him 😣
@@ashishpandeycherry2699 I'd definitely say he's a coward for not owning the responsibility. But these women here are so delusional, wanting all the freedom and none of the responsibility. Also speaking about kylie jenner, as if the whole India is following that foreign celeb like this op probably does. Making a fictional case out of her own damn mind. It is not considered acceptable, rich or poor to get pregnant before marriage and for a good enough reason.
@@hidum5779 True 🙏
No words no words no words speechless.... God bless you and your son. Society and we people have to change and Accept the reality.... My heart beating for you and i will pray for you... I m a mother too and can imagine the smile of kid which is the top most positive strength for us
Hats off to u girl ❤️ this is what kind of girls today's generation want ..thanks for breaking stigma ❤️ hope u n your son get each n every happiness ❤️
your story gave me goosebumps and im literally so emotional rn, I tapped on this video because of your kid and he looked very much like my nephew and I just wanted to see him laughing with the cute smile but then I read the title and I knew where it’d take my emotions. You’re literally the gorgeous and the bravest woman I’ve ever come across, I wish I could do something for you as in help you babysit your child or contribute financially but that’s still something I can’t since I’m not an legal adult but I could help you with all the emotional support and I know you’re better than all the men that hide behind their balls and I’m so proud that you decided to raise this sunshine.
You're one of the bravest women I've ever come across Shruti, I hope that you keep living your life your way and never let anyone bring you down ever again. Have a best life onwards ❤️❤️
I got goosebumps......she is so strong....thank you mam for being happy with your child and sharing your story ❤️
Shruti, you're a very courageous and inspirational woman. your strength is truly admirable. Pregnancy is a time of multiple difficulties in itself and to go through all that over it is just....... unbelievable. I hope and pray the world becomes more supportive and kind towards woman. The guy who left you in such difficult times is nothing but a disgrace to the mankind. He should be guilty for the rest of his life.
Awesome women, encouragement to every women, iam also suffering from domestic violence past 12 yrs I moved out recently with my son, now I am very happy and enjoying my freedom, be strong and a mother is the warrior u r the best example stay happy
Happy Independence.. Loads of love to you and your children
For god sake ...how can this be an encouraging thing to "EVERY" woman ???
You want all girls to leave a normal life and become single mothers ?? Are you normal ???
@@avishekmukhopadhyay6086 Beating your own wife is normal?
I am a young boy and a student of Law and there is a subject of Law called JURISPRUDENCE under which we have to study the purpose of Law and for which we have to study the nature, behavior and functioning of the things concerned. So for my study, I wants some questions to be answered and I will be very thankful if you answer
I found that men has a lot of interest to change his partners, so my question is (1) whether women also has such interest or what is the INTRINSIC NATURE of women in this regard and Secondly (2)whether married women also sexually attracted by other man, even if they are in love with his partner and also is satisfied by him
Kindly reply only if you are a woman.
@@indiangirl001 I am a young boy and a student of Law and there is a subject of Law called JURISPRUDENCE under which we have to study the purpose of Law and for which we have to study the nature, behavior and functioning of the things concerned. So for my study, I wants some questions to be answered and I will be very thankful if you answer
I found that men has a lot of interest to change his partners, so my question is (1) whether women also has such interest or what is the INTRINSIC NATURE of women in this regard and Secondly (2)whether married women also sexually attracted by other man, even if they are in love with his partner and also is satisfied by him
Kindly reply only if you are a woman.
She is just incredible!! She took stand for herself and for her baby....
She is one in million! 🔥
What a strong lady ...truly
Hats off this woman.. bloody gutsy woman you are !!.. you are really really inspiring because no matter what, you stood up for the word you have given to yourself !!!💪💪
Now that's the superhero story every kid needs to be shown, what a person 👏👏👏👏
You are the change in india!!!!
You are the bravest!
You have taught us to not give a fuck about how Indian low mentality society judges you and do what your heart tells you to do!
@THE ZOLDICS u are the Shame here do u realise that? If anyone clicks on you name all the comments u have posted can be seen. U Are that Shame Low mentality society that exists.
@THE ZOLDICS but why should she abort her child when she wanted to be a mother.. just because of society.. not at all.. she is the change.. and you guys have to face it. If a woman want to give birth to her child , she should do it... I am happy that these brave women are bringing change.. way long to go
@THE ZOLDICS you are right, it's not the thing the women did for which we should give her a round of applause. Look sex is important but before that communication, consent and commitment is important which marriage gives. That's why it may look like i have an old school thinking but if a man marries to a women it shows commitment. After that we should think about kids. Now the women is raising the kid, but about her relationship with her parents? Wo rishtey tohtut Gaye na
@THE ZOLDICS Hey you !! I have been seeing your comment here and there talking sh*t about that woman. See, that's what a mom does. She's about to become a mom. And she has all the rights of keeping that baby or not. And you should just stay out of that business. And no that is not at all shame. Iam pretty sure you have your mom right ? Just get some sense and shame from her.
@@nishagawade3545 marrige gives nothing . Marrige equals to bringing government in between your relationship . If being a good parent was dependent on marriages then in india there wouldn't have any dysfunctional adults with traumas like we have today bc of bad parenting techniques. Open your eyes more. Don't see sex as something bad ... sex is similar to hunger, it's natural to want to have sex similar to how it's natural to feel hunger for food. Things can happen and plans can change.
The Guy was very transparent from the start and they had mutual agreement that they were not going to have kids , so i dont see how he is being the villian here !! She still chose to stay around for 5 years with him despite him having no thought of settling down with her . She decided to be Strong independent mother on her own , why drag him in public and sully his name !
Exactly, she had the option to abort the baby and would have still gotten internet praise for it, but the guy doesn’t wanna be a father and walks away and he’s the villain 😂 the hypocrites man
Not to mention ,the baby has to grow up in a fatherless home thanks to her grasping for her 15 minute of fame . Stats of children growing up without a father are terrifying !
@@rehanatabassum532 Not having a problem is less of a problem than not having money. She is financially not stable. She is putting both of them in trouble.
My god listening her words only gives shivers..amazing strength ..hatsoff
Society Jaye bhaad mein...maa sabse badi yodha hoti hai 🔥
So inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing.
Same thing happened to me nw my child is 5years old nd iam a single mother
Glad to know about ur courageous moves. These steps deserve a huge huge reward. It may not happen soon but trust me that Almighty is not blind n u will b showered with every joy that u ever dreamt of!
Loads of care n concern ..
Take care ..
N yeah... never ever scold ur child❤️
@THE ZOLDICS what part of "I wanted to keep the baby" doesn't ring with you, I don't know. She didn't get preggo sleeping with a random guy. It was her boyfriend. He ditched her. She didn't choose to ditch the child. It's not called "nagging" bro. It's called "sharing". Nai sunna toh aage badh.
U r a wonderful mother hun ❤️
@THE ZOLDICS keeping the baby inspite of having to struggle so much in so called liberal societies been brave....she alone isn't responsible for getting pregy...it was consensual with her bf so ideally it's both responsibility...now the bf ditched doesn't mean she should also start behaving irresponsible....though it's choice to keep the baby or not...and she isn't nagging..she is sharing her story to insure other girls with same situation
It takes a lot of courage to do this in India. Mad respect for you 🔥
No its stupid and sets a bad precedent. Women need to choose better guys.
That's courage.
@@anandmehta2323 why don’t you say guys should have some balls .. to stand up for their girl
@@anandmehta2323 thank god someone with right mind
@@deepalakshmi5890 why would anyone stand up for stupidity this girl did?
Woww!! That really was a perspective change for me.
Kudos to such brave queens.❤
Such a wonderful story! Thank you for telling your story. God bless you and your sweet son!
So proud of u beta. Maa se badhkar is duniya mein koi yodhha nahi hai. God bless you n ur son with lots of love n happiness in life.
"Maa sa badhkar is duniya mein koyi yodha nehi"Kardi na bewakofi bali bat. Our life is not bollywood... Stop geving such a chep comment...
Father's sacrifices are always underappreciated, and this is the reason these days most of men are going in their own way MGTOW,
women will realise the importance of men when they will not find a man in her life
Do men carry a child in their womb for 9 months n bear the pain of giving birth. Father is a guiding force n support of every child but Maa ka sthaan hamesha upar rahega. Mata Pita Guru aur Devata.
@@moMdaD-fm3ng But here the father did nothing. Your comment is invalid for this case.
@@meenatiwari3468 baap ki problems baap hi solve kar skta hai. Just because women carry the child doesn't make them above men. Men do all the hard work and dangerous jobs in society. Agar baap ne chize provide karna band kar diya to society aise hi collapse ho jaegi.
That's why a mother is considered as the greatest warrior, god bless you and your son.
So so proud of what you did. More power and strength to you❤️ Your son will shine one day and you'll be proud that you had him.
Proud of you sister, you are a strong women i could say . I emotionally touched with your life and got happy tears to see your son's smile. You proved that women can do anything , i swear your son reach a place higher than you expect.👏🏻💖💐
I respect whether a woman wants to keep a baby or not, this is totally upto her but yes this is heartwarming,standing for ur unborn child alone is something to praise
I hope u and ur beloved son achieve all heights in life ❤
I got goosebumps when i saw ur son smiling.... My heart smiled.... We are so proud of you shruti...😘🥰
Beautiful mother.very powerful.this is how a mother should be.
Lots of respect to u shruti
Very emotional.. Lucky child having bold mother...
Your son is so lucky to have you.. thank you for deciding to not give up. Every child deserves to be raised with his loving mother by his side.
You are strong, remain strong....nobody in this world can put u down.....be firm....proud on u LADY.
We need more strong woman like these.... God bless you
Words can never praise your courage enough. I am a single mother too and know the journey well. I hope you do manage to get a good and safe support network around you and that you also take care of yourself now. Your Son was meant yo be. God bless you Sister. I hope you have employment, success and health always to raise your son. X
Kudos to you and your son. Truely You're an independent woman. He will be a very proud son that he has mother like you.
People don't realise the responsibility involved in a relationship and simply think vague romanticism is all that is. I'm sooo sorry for what you went through, it only made you sooo much stronger as a person and as a mother. More power to you.♥️
I like this kind of Strong woman proud of you all the best in future
You are soooooo great, I am in tears when u r telling about yourself……..I love u so much……why because u r a true mother to u r kid. U r inspiration. U got a great life ahead….god will definitely bless u more power…take care of u r lovely son.
My heart goes wow .you have taken a boldest step which everyone can't dare. It really needs courage ,lov nd compassion to bring out a life in this world. May universe grant all your wishes.lots of love 😘😘❤️ God bless you and the kid .my heartiest greetings and best wishes for you both 💐💫🍀
Men when it is about marriage: "my family is very conservative."
Men when they want to have some free sex: "let's do it anyway."🙂
I was also thinking this only.
the first dialogue actually comes from most women😂😂 anyways
@@kanakkaradbhajne7105 no
She didn't disclose much about her kid's father. Who was he? Why his family was so conservative? Was he from a different caste, region and religion? I won't fall for her emotional story without knowing much about her BF
@@enlighteneddespot945 Exactly I smell a rat here. I suspect she tried to baby trap him on purpose.
Great job,,,,nevetr give up.....from ur words anyone can tell that u are very strong women...always be like that,,,god bless u
You r really a role model for all the women out there in our very conservative country and society..the way you stood by ur decisions and ur courage is something that ur son will be very proud of when he becomes old enough to understand things.....
Damn the bravery 🙌🏻 I absolutely salute this lady for being so strong for so long and in all the hard times when giving up seems easier 💪💙 hope she does more well in the future for her son and herself. More power to her!!!
Awesome you are not just a braveheart but such an incredibly kind hearted woman. I completely relate with your story ..and I also feel that your pregnancy actually helped you see that you are with the wrong person. Thank you for sharing your story with us:)
You are very strong and your child has that special power of motivate his mother 😊😊
Listening story is easy but you have faced it, we can’t keep our feet in your shoes, hats off dear. Happy motherhood.
Same thing happened with me when I heard the heart beat I got tears n goosebump…due to health issue I didn’t knew I was pregnant n my baby was 3mnth old by that time…my family disown me but the father of my child took all the responsibility and she is now 1year old..now things are good in my life
Congratulations 🎉 on having a daughter.
@@ronitlenka9205 thank u so much
@@lifeisbeautiful6733 are u married now?
HARSHIT THAKUR yup🥰
I’m a Pakistani woman and I understand how hard it must’ve been for you .Our societies are not made for single moms and their children.Only God can guide and help you.May He protect you and make things easy for you .Lots of love 💕
Shutt up....she was having a live in relationship....with someone who is not even married to her....
And as a Pakistani Muslim God(Allah) said you can not touch a women(your wife) without giving her mehr(some amount she decides before marriage)... And Allah put in place monetary security for us.. Even if situation like hers occur after marriage.. You can keep the child comfortably without worrying.
I do feel sorry for her lekn yaar vo chor jai.. Hum kyaa bigaar laen gaen us ka.
@@aryanhassan4659 She's not Muslim bro.
@@aryanhassan4659 Hey! Watch your language! I’m a practicing Muslim and I know what my religion says.This lady is not a Muslim .The same rules don’t apply on her. I respect her for raising her innocent child in a society that bashes women for the same act for which a man goes scot free!
Thank you for being you ma'am ❤
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This is one brave soul. .Hope you and your son have a great future ahead!
I don’t know about you personally. But, your decision of keeping the baby and raising him alone makes is a righteous and brave thing. It’s a shame that Indian society is not typically very supportive in such scenarios with all those neighborhood shit talks.
Yes, we are not open minded like Europe but not conservative mind like arab, you see, all are supported given by comment from indian society
I dont about society but a girl has to reaalyy suffer a lot in such situations... so why do u expect the society to encourage such things???
She acted really stupid and got what she deserved. The man had already stated he didn't wanted a child but still she didn't aborted the child thinking that he will have a sudden change of a heart. Life isn't a Bollywood movie where the hero will begin loving her. She is sort of blaming the man but the point is he didn't raped her rather they had sex with mutual consent. Though the man didn't used a condom which is quite idiotic. Still she had the opportunity to abort the child but changed the decision to do so at the last moment. Both should be blamed for all this drama. The man told her himself that he has a very conservative family and she should have understood that the relationship wasn't serious from his perspective. It can also be that he talked about that to his family but got rejected to marry her but decided not to tell her. Men always leave a lot of clues if they aren't serious about a girl but many girls play dumb enough to not understand that or usually don't want to understand those out of desperation. Nevertheless she is happy and is able to live with her baby as a single mother is what now matters.
@@vaidehipandya7980 We don't need to be conservative like arabs we are already at a different level of conservatism. The "Log kya kahenge?" Conservatism
@@lokeeb1486 true 🙏
I literally cried. I am proud of you because you didn't gave up shruti ❤️. Just don't let people mock you down. You'll have a happy life with your son. He'll have the strongest mother 🦋✨
I am a young boy and a student of Law and there is a subject of Law called JURISPRUDENCE under which we have to study the purpose of Law and for which we have to study the nature, behavior and functioning of the things concerned. So for my study, I wants some questions to be answered and I will be very thankful if you answer
I found that men has a lot of interest to change his partners, so my question is (1) whether women also has such interest or what is the INTRINSIC NATURE of women in this regard and Secondly (2)whether married women also sexually attracted by other man, even if they are in love with his partner and also is satisfied by him
Kindly reply only if you are a woman.
@@user-B.K. Oh! you are a young boy (minor) not a man (an adult). Please get off social media and seek parental approval to comment.
Both of you live your life happy healthy and peacefully
Lots of love
So brave female you are
Don't worry you will become proud mother also in future
God bless you dear