I Got Pregnant At 14 | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
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DESTINY, 17, got pregnant when she was 14, had her son at 15 and now has a CZcams channel to help support her baby Sincere’Cordae. The teen mum thought it was going to be her and her son “against the world” and hid her pregnancy for as long as she could from her family. Destiny was completely shocked when her mother congratulated her pregnancy and was supportive as growing up her mum was 'strict'. Although she doesn’t condone getting pregnant at such a young age, the content creator tells Truly that she has no regrets and is focused on making her baby’s life as easy as possible.
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You're a beautiful attractive young woman u have your whole life ahead of u you will excel and prosper
Hey that’s me 😅 I really appreciate all the kind comments ❤️
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Go girl!!!! 👏🏻☺️
You are a good mum to sincere ❤
Change that child's name. He will be prejudged his entire life with such a stupid name.
I love that her mother allows her to "mother" her son and not take over. That is so important because her daughter has a proper nurturing attachment to her son. Love conquers all.
Totally, beautifully put.
Ur supporting this?
@@ifykyk679 Yes I support teen moms, but not teen pregnancy, but if it happens I support this people.
Loving your child is a prerequisite for proper parenting, not equivalent to proper parenting.
@@ifykyk679 the baby is already here what do you want her to do? I can’t support the idea of a teen getting pregnant but if the baby is already here I can’t jump all over the mums chest about it… it already happened I just have to support
Her baby is so freaking cute!🥰
And she’s so mature beyond her years. I’m also glad her parents also didn’t kick her out.
Well she was 14 years old so they couldnt kick her out of the house to begin with even if they wanted to do it as she was still a damn child
How are you gonna kick out a 14 year old lol
@@BeautyQueen2023Xsome people do. It’s awful.
I know I was like look at those juicy little cheeks and luscious baby hair! You know, I’d never want my boys or girls to have children at that age. However, if that did happen I would NEVER abandon my babies. My mom was around her same age when she had me. And not to toot my own horn but I believe I turned out pretty good and was born with purpose just like him. I think that by my mom being a young troubled teen with little to no genuine support, she didn’t really have time to really invest in me. So I had some hardships like sexual assault, bullied, abandonment issues ect. But now I use that as the staple in my testimony and help others heal from their traumas!
I’m sure that her story will help another young mothers out there. Maybe a new mom won’t be so afraid to tell their parents and be brave like she was. God bless this lovely family!
@@gabbycraft7035sure do and some award them to the state. A guy I use to know was given away. His mom said that she did it to save her other babies as she didn’t want him influencing the others. Bc he was unruly and disrespectful. She told me one apple was not about to spoil the bunch!
Imagine bringing your daughter in who was born in 2009 to have a baby . Idc what y’all say this is absolutely sad.
Exactly. But she is 17
Who’s 17? She’s 17 now ?
@@jordannewsom3606so she's 3 years older what's your point? Still under the age of 18 with the kids
It’s a bit disappointing but not “sad”. This was actually quite normal a some decades ago. Girls were married with children by the time they were 16 in some countries.
@@PandaHead602yeah look at the description
This girl is a better mother than a lot of mothers out there that have their babies at an 'accepted' age...she's really risen to the challenge, she's amazing.
Exactlyyyyy she really is. She’s very much more patient and mature 🙌🏾❤️
Fr
Yes, laying down and letting a dude get off in you, getting pregnant and living with your parents is truly amazing… yep… Not to many WM out there would make it raising a child with 99% of the financial obligations removed. So amazing….
@@Leonidas1014 better than a lot of kids out here doing drugs and killing people
How much of it is a challenge when you do it to yourself? That’s called a consequence to your actions lol. She’s supposed to be a good mom that’s her job.
Her mother is setting the perfect example on how one should be a mother.
She wasn't setting the example on how not to get pregnant at 14!
Yep
@@JulieDeuxFois true but I guess I was talking about more so after the fact you know?
@@JulieDeuxFois oh shut up! She can’t go back in time and change what happened things happen and don’t always go as planned shut up and stop being negative! Always in black people business go find you sum to do KAREN!
@@JulieDeuxFois well you don't know what went on alot of parents have the talk with their child and they still wind up pregnant
When Destiny’s mom Leilani started to cry about not abandoning her daughter I felt that. I hate teen pregnancy but not the young moms who are trying to figure it out. I am glad that Destiny is trying to do better because her family seems lovely and trying to make her life better
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This young girl is so mature beyond her years . She seems like a fantastic mother
Because she has too be I’m sure she still has child n or teen tendencies lol
So mature beyond her years indeed and still got pregnant at 14
@@ubogutony8456 just about to say that I mean ok fine sex is all good just wear a condom dam
This is just the beginning.
Inspirations to all 14yr old
I applaud these parents for being there for their daughter and not allowing the opinions of others to influence their decision to be there for their daughter. This young lady has wonderful parents. She will remember for the rest of her life how good her parents were to her. She is fortunate. Not many teens have such good and loving parents. May God bless this family richly!
@@Harsh_Singh1111 I think you need to understand that teenagers are gonna do whatever they want to do regardless if the parents are being good or bad.
@@Harsh_Singh1111 ikr
@@soffiesavage3241 mmmm no
@@Harsh_Singh1111 that's a total lie doesn't matter if you have good or bad parents still make bad choices heck there are even kids who had great parents that went off to be murderers
@@soffiesavage3241 exactly
To all the young girls out there please do not follow this example, having a kid is a serious situation not a game. They're human beings that we have the responsability to take care of. The way her parents reacted may not be the same yours will do so protect yourself during sex time.
They shouldn’t be even having sex at that age!! Sex is safe when you married or in a serious relationship! Smh 😢
@@caramileelliott1719They shouldn't but the desire and pleasure overcomes them.
@@caramileelliott1719 frrrr like....
@@caramileelliott1719literally
A 14 year old shouldnt even be having sex
I absolutely do not condone teenage pregnancy, but massive respect to this young girl. I’ve heard of so many bad mothers (of all ages, come to think of it) who’ve neglected and abused the children that they had never wanted in the first place… but she rose to the challenge and clearly cares deeply about her son from what is shown! I went to highschool with a bunch of girls who got pregnant in their teenage years and 9 times out of 10, it was their parents who ended up raising their children while they went out partying or whatever. Didn’t even make any effort to bond with their children in the slightest. At least this girl seemed to care a lot more, and because of that, the kid is loved. Which is important!
Well she had help from her parents and was still living with them not all teenage mother have that kind of luck
Same thing happened to me except i was 13 and had my son at 14. I absolutely didnt have the support she has. It was DEVASTATING!
Girl, that was too young!! That’s good you kept the baby!
In life we may get similar experiences but different outcomes
For some ppl it will be good while others may have it rough. That's just life!
13 jesus
i'm so sorry this happend to you, you deserve to be loved and supported, are you okay?
@@doomdecepticon933 no I'm def not alright, but I'm alive, I have some health, and I'm hopeful, and eager to one day prayfully some time soon be alright
Applause for the parents. My mom and dad also did not abandon me when I needed them the most when I had an unexpected pregnancy at 22.. I just graduated from collge and no income yet. They provided for everything until my husband (my boyfriend then whom i eventually married) landed his first job when our daughter was 1yr old. I sooo love my parents. Now fast forward to now---14yrs later, still together with my husband. I love my parents. 🥰🥰
22 is an extremely far cry from 14 but I’m glad everything worked out for you and your family.
Far cry?
@@falaknazmayeda5747 yeah. 22-year-old is fully adult. She was a college graduate. 22-year-olds can vote, drink alcohol etc. A 14-year-old can’t even drive, can’t work and may have not even started highschool yet. A 14-year-old is closer to an 8-year-old in terms of what they are allowed legally, basically a whole child themselves but with reproductive ability.
@@MsFlamingFlamer It's heartbreaking, really
Ingnorethe weirdos trying diminish your experience ❤ I definitely would have also needed help at 22
I’m really glad that her parents didn’t just leave her and her baby on the streets, like some parents do. Part of being a parent is helping your children during the difficult, and scary, moments of their lives instead of throwing them away just to keep up appearances.
You are absolutely correct! I know parents who sent their children away, disowned them, etc
@BeatDaBlock you guys are lucky to have supportive parents... Meanwhile me who was been raised by strict parents, whenever i don't want to study they yell and yell😔they also don't let me drawing or do whatever I want.. They force me to become sci stud. Which is i hate the most and thanks to them i am stuck with science class! I really don't like to be in there but had to keep and force to be ok😔😫
Exactly. True unconditional love doesn't go away when times get hard.
She still shouldnt havent gotten pregnant so young
I’m glad this young mother has strong family support.
I’m grateful to see that she hasn’t taken her situation lightly and has no plans to have anymore kids until she’s grown.
Sincere has a ton of strong, loving family behind him for whatever life holds in the future.
He’ll be alright ❤️
Kudos to this family for keeping it together through a rough time and supporting their baby when she needed it most. Keep being a great mama💕💕
I'm not too much in favor of pregnancy at such a young age
She really is, I watch her CZcams and she’s so mature and level headed
Toxic
Okay....
whos u , then u shut ur mouth if u have nothing nice to say then don't talk at all
@@lilybeth1484 how’s that toxic
Let's not normalize CHILDREN getting pregnant at 13/14. She's lucky to be in the position of having loving parents, where I'm from, your life could literally ruined completely.
Parents, do better, teach your children protected sex or to wait till maturity before sex.
Thank you!!
Teen pregnancy rates have been going down for decades now
I don’t think they want to normalize it, just show how important support is if a teen does become pregnant. Especially now, when so many girls are forced to give birth even if they don’t want to.
What do you mean "forced to give birth" how else do you think she's going to have the baby? 🙄
There is an age limit for giving birth because it's a traumatic event & a girls body isn't mature.
I'm amazed there isn't more deaths with kids having kids
I don't condone teenage pregnancy but I still congratulate her on how well she's going through being a teen mom. 14 is definitely too young but she's done quite well. And her parents too for supporting her instead of kicking her out. I knew someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents kicked her out once they found out. Lucky enough she had her boyfriend's parents to take her in. They're still married to this day with three kids (she's 4 months with her third). Some teen pregnancies don't come out well while others, like her story, does.
I don’t get how your own flesh and blood could just abandon you like that. It’s cruel
I love how your parents were mature enough to realize that you needed support during such a challenging time and they stepped up and didn't allow their beliefs to get in the way of that. Know that you are very blessed cuz a lot of us didn't have that!
They felt guilty about the situation that's why they helped her
She seems so level headed and mature. She's gonna be an amazing mom
An amazing mom? With no income, house, car, education or husband. Ok.
@@Bert_de_Wit She has a great support system. Life isn't perfect. She may obtain all of those in time. But she isnt alone
@@Bert_de_Witshe doin better now than most parents do with they own kids 20+ so yes obv
@@Bert_de_Wit yes she is. You don't need a car, house or a husband. Lmao go off.
@@abeeromesele4331 yes you do you need all of those things to raise a kid in a stable household this LITTLE GIRL has a good support system financially,mentally,physically a lot of “older moms” don’t have that this girl is privileged what y’all need to stop doing is talking down on older mothers who can’t control the fact that they don’t have a support system that’s not their fault y’all keep screaming this CHILD Is a good mother but y’all not mentioning how much harder motherhood would be on her if she had to DO IT ON HER OWN….
Ugh…such a beautiful family man. Ofc it’s not ideal and not the right thing for a 14 year old to get pregnant, but what’s done is done and I’m so happy that she has the support of her family to help her and to allow the baby to also have a beautiful safe life. Such a sweet fam
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@@Nash_14 shut up
@@Nash_14 😂
I was living with my dad when it happened. He told me if I kept it I wasn't staying in his house but if I didn't keep it he would never forgive me. My mom and stepdad stood up like this. He drove 3 hours in one way to pick me up. My mom didn't come because when I started high school she wanted to put me on birth control because mom was 17 with me in her stomach when she walked across the stage for her high school diploma. My dad was 19. He told her he did not want me on birth control. They fought over it. I had no clue they had even talked about this. When I told my mom about the pregnancy she asked to talk to my dad and that was when all hell broke loose. She told him "I told you so"
I was 15. Had sex the first time and pregnant. Outsiders always have something to say. I got called all the stereotypical stuff. Almost raped by guys at school because they knew I was easy and "I wanted it" I could not have male friends in fear that they would try something if given the chance to despite me not being interested and only nice to them. The females didn't like me because they thought I was going to steal their boyfriend and adults thought I was a bad influence. Moving 3 hours away from TBD we grew apart. Everyone who knew me as the girl who only ever had 1 boyfriend and was a good person was gone. New life, New 1st impressions. The new school wouldn't accept me while I was pregnant. This was back in 1994. I went back after i had him. Times have changed some. I'm glad you didn't go through what I did. Stay safe and make good choices is what I tell my kids everyday.
Wow man. This is amazing. I love this. You don’t see this too often. Many parents judge their children and leave little to no room for mistakes with minimal guilt. I’m so happy she has this support system.
Sincere is such a blessing....my youngest daughter who was 14 at the time made that same mistake but I am momma bear so I protected my baby as well....here we are 22 years later with that bouncing baby boy she had and he is just the most....(PROUD NANNA!!) Thats when I truly learned God won't put more on you than you can bare...Good job momma bear I fought for mine the same way... baby girl I hope to see your graduation pics on your channel as well as what college you choose....God bless family❤🙏🏼
The baby is the cutest ever omg. This whole family radiates positivity and warm energy
I’m happy her family decided to support her. ❤
And is the father in jail?
Wher is his father im just asking
@@randomperson94578 oh atleast she is a very very good mother ❤️
@@samarjaam3176 how can yall support this horrific thing?
@@ifykyk679 What do you want people to do? Bash her? Teen pregnancy is never good but it happens.
Her parents are such big supporters, they may have been disappointed in the unexpected pregnancy but they supported her all the way through and seem like such doting grandparents
Your mother is so sweet and loving. I'm so glad she loves and support you. I almost cried when I saw her express how she felt ❤
No one explained to her the “boyfriend “ will continue his life while hers is interrupted 😢 smh teach your children foresight
I was wondering that too. He was nowhere in the video
I was also wondering was they using birth control.
He must have flew the coop.That's what usually happens in teen pregnancy. Hit it and then quit it. No responsibility for me he said!😔
Yep. Now the financial responsibility is on her parents as his are not involved. She won't be capable or able to provide proper support until she has the education and job until she's in her mid twenties.
You teach urs
You can tell she’s a good mom, and I love that her entire family supports her while she goes through her transition into motherhood 🧸 I’m going through the same thing (pregnant at 24, birth at 25, currently 26) I always thank my mom for supporting us!
Not the same as a 14 year old teen mom
How in hell can she be a good mother at 14. She doesn't even know how to be a good girl.
She is a great mother ❤
@@DD-mc8ps she's still a child trying to raise a child. The black community think this is normal. How sad.
@@alicethegreat3742 it's not just the black community, it's every race that thinks it normal to have kids around 24/25
This brought me to tears. I’m happy her parents were there for her regardless. I know for sure it gave her more strength to keep pushing! Love❤
I'm sitting here clapping. Well done for supporting your daughter and your grand baby people, at the end of the day that child is part of the family. I hope the child's Daddy is in the picture too or at least helping with the cost of the bub so it doesn't fall all to her parents and her. I am an adopted person, my mother was pregnant at the same age, times were different and society was too. Well done guys I'm glad you have all stuck together for the sake of your daughter and the baby.
This is HARD! The strength of her mother 💜
Fr teach kids to wear protection if they're gonna do it at least make sure they do it while protected.
Ur none of those things please take care of urself raise ur baby please no more kids go back to school if ur not go 2 college and focuse on being the best u can be. Learn from ur mistakes
@@johnglow7845 I have a couple friends who were taught that during our early teens, yet they still had pregnancy scares from not using protection at times. Even though parents discuss safe sex with their children, they can still be hard headed and get caught up. Some just don’t always listen. 🤷🏾♀️
@@mimiglamz22 that's why u kick them out and let them fend for themselves
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Many parents do, or some don’t have the heart to and basically let them stay while being pissed. What sucks is that at 14 yrs old, they can’t even get a job unless it’s under table pay or a family member’s owned establishment.
I'm not gonna promote being pregnant at 14 but now that you are a Mother I'm wishing for you a good life full of joy and accomplishments. Finish school and get your education. You will need that diploma. You can do it if you believe in yourself and a little help from your parents would be awesome. Take care and may God bless you and your family.
She actually ended up graduating at 15.
She graduated early
She’s living a good life right now
Ion like your negative comment
@@zaizainiyah6460 it wasn’t an negative comment she just doesn’t agree with getting pregnant at that age. She even wish her the best at the end and encouraging messages too please people read carefully
Sending her mum lots of love, by watching it, I can feel her pain and cry. But our kids pick their own destiny. Stay strong and keep supporting your daughter as best as you can. ❤
Kids out here worrying about sex but not worrying about them books.
So true
You don’t know what happened about her you don’t know her life and what she’s been through quit it
Sex at 14 with a boy you met 3 months earlier is super reckless…Good that she has supportive parents but the lack of fully understanding the difficulties ahead just make this all the more a terrible decision.
Right
Again go watch her storytime it explains everything the baby father is no good fr
@@Cyb3rNiorhe is also a child so you can’t really blame him
Yeah because teenagers don't make reckless decisions everyday
@@dec1slh they don’t🥴🫠
That sentence "my child is having a baby" makes me sad as it happens too often in our society... I am however happy that you and your little baby and your family are happy and I love how supportive your parents have been. I know that was a hard pill for them to swallow and so many other parent abandon their kids in situations like this so I'm happy your parents handles it well. thank you for sharing your story. that takes a lot of courage. and ty for being an amazing parent❤️ sending much love to you and your loved ones.
This should not be normalized.
I'm so glad to see her happy and living good with her baby. Some get kicked to the curb or have a shitty home life
but her and her cutie both seem happy
Kudos to her mother! Accepting responsibility and stepping up. Her baby having a baby doesn't mean her baby doesn't need help anymore. It doesn't mean her daughter is grown enough to face the world alone. I'm glad she didn't leave her alone
Irresponsible to put that burden on your parents who aren’t even finished raising you!
@@kaylanetanya very true! Very very true! Her story is more of a lesson than a flex though. Parents and young girls should learn from this. It's important to take proper care of our girl children till they are able to make important decisions on their own.
Awww djdjdjrnfi9r
Even if she didnt want to help she has no choice. Mothers will forever be mothers even to kids that are not theres
@@hiiii2069 this doesn't apply to all mothers. I've heard of different stories where the girl is thrown out of the house to fend for herself. Only good parents would step up. Unfortunately, not everyone in the world are good parents. There are thousands of cases. You can google and investigate more.
I was terrified getting preggo for the first time at 36 . I can't imagine at 14.
Thank God for her parents key word” they wanted her to feel safe and loved”. ❤
I love the fact that you stayed strong.Go girl!!!!
I was a teen mom also …a little older at 18 but it’s still the same amount of feelings that happened with myself & parents …but having that support really helps tremendously! Idk how other young moms do it without that …I give this girl credit she seems like she’s doing the very best she can …and can we all just stop and appreciate her sons cuteness! And those cheeks! 😍😍😍
As a victim of teenage pregnancy, my mom literally turned her back on me. Life was really rough and at 40 her lack of support still affects my life today. I sought my way through college and graduated at age 30. You have such wonderful parents and I just want to tell them thanks. I hope your story encourages other parents to support their daughters despite the circumstances.
Not a victim
@@justkeepitanonymous419 you're so right.
How old were you? If you don’t feel comfortable with answering that you don’t have to, I was just wondering
@@gymnasticsforever110 I will be 41 this year.
You are a victim only if it was sexual assault that resulted to being pregnant
Omg he's adorable! While the circumstances of being a teen mother are difficult, she is blessed to have a loving and supportive set of parents! This child will be raised in a loving environment❤
My mom had me at 16. My grandma wanted my mom to give me up. She chose to keep me and always said she loved me from day one. My friends when I was a kid/teen was always surprised that my mom was so young. Though my mom was definitely my MOM and did a great job. You are a beautiful mother and your son is very lucky to have you as his mom ❤ wish you all the best! ❤️
I’m so glad her parents reacted like that!!! I know plenty of girls who didn’t have their child based off of societal fears and no support !!
I’m glad this story was told and she has an adorable son.
Plus young grandparents are fun!!! I had them
It's fun when you have the money to take care of everyone people react negatively because unexpected pregnancies can be a absolute burden it's 18 years of spending thousands each day on some one who cannot take care of themselves. So yeah people freak out over it.
I got pregnant at the age of 17. My mom was disappointed. I kept the baby. I graduated from high school. At the end of the day. She was supportive through it all. You have a good family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
He should’ve used safety ngl although im happy for u
@NARIT0 2.0 Well, I'm 37 years now. Back then, We wasn't thinking about it back then End up being a single mom. Now my Daughter she's 18 We are doing good
You're such a strong, powerful mom, I also had my son at 16, he is 13now. It's not an easy experience but it helps us to grow powerfully and independent. I love the love in your family, your parents are supportive. Also me it was only my mom who was there for me. The love between u and your son is amazing. Keep being strong and coming out to show the world that's it's okay to be a teen mom. You just won my subscription lol.
Good for you baby girl. You had the heart to respect human life and the faith to see it through. That baby is blessed as well as you. That child can possibly become an extraordinary human being. I will pray for you and yours. Glad you didn’t listen to the devil because the options that the devil gives you is to destroy that baby’s life. Who cares about what people think! Stay strong and live long! Love your family and the choice of life you took. They hate on your baby because they don’t have the love, faith and family you have. Soooooo proud of you and your family. That baby is BEAUTIFUL!
I got pregnant at 14 also. I'm 42 now. My children grew to be beautiful functioning adults. I also had help from a few supportive adults. Press forward and keep your head up.
We was the same age . I’m 45 now. With 2 grand kids. My boys are grown now with a child of there own my 31 year old has no kids yet. My 25 has one & my 24 year old has one.
Ridiculous
Nice. Keep going
@@user-so6rw5vk9q ridiculous
how did the nut feel???
l feel so happy l have watched her since her pregnancy and l feel proud to be seeing how responsible she is and how sincere has grown😭❤
Samee
Hey Dee, thanks for sharing your story, my mom also got pregnant at 14 and had me at 15, so I feel you, everyone makes mistakes, cherish your son and give him a kiss for me, so happy your mom stood by you. I wish all God's blessings for you and your family. Finish your education and reach for the stars.
I really like the way your mum handled the whole thing. I hope all mothers will learn from this. I wish the boy's father gets to take care of him financially and not leave the whole burden on you
As the mom of a 14 year old I just got ice cold.😪 My worst fear is that my daughter will struggle to have or never have a bountiful youth full of adventures with friends, studying abroad, travelling to foreign countries, working on a cruise ship during a gap year, staying in a college dorm with only exams and skipped classes to worry about, partying and hitchhiking Europe because of a baby when She's still a baby. I can only pray that she will enjoy her childhood and youth and then someday once she's establish a career and her own way and finances, (without the hardship of being a child parent at the same time ) be with the man or woman of her dreams and start a family when she's emotionally and financially ready to do so. You can say what you want but children having children is always sad. I admire the parents because I would be gutted for everything my child will never get to experience or will have to experience low key because she has a baby to worry about. All the best.
All that stuff is overrated. Family is the legacy you leave when you die.
@@xx-rr3ug she never said she doesn’t want her daughter to have a family! She just wants her to wait until she is financially secure before making that commitment
She has the best parents in the world and I'm confident she will follow after them. Love covers everything. Beautiful family. ❤
Shoutout to the parents for being a strong village for her and her baby that’s amazing
Yeah because they feel guilty about the situation
We shouldn't normalize being pregnant at such age coz its literally a tough job for someone who isn't matured herself. Its amazing that she handles it well but still there are lots of woman who lacks in handling and aren't aware of such situations so please don't see this as an example and do the same thing. Its your life do the best of it and take care of yourself❤
Also, they need to stop having sex at such a young age!! 😢
True, We need Jesus
@@xapfe7139exactly!!! That's where her parents failed her. I'm happy they are helpful now and loving the grandson.
@@vastclearing yes and education on avoiding stds!!
Aww she has the best mom ever! Super supportive parents. You could tell her mom had her kids young too. They all look like sisters. I’m so proud of the new mom and her son, even though you’re figuring it out, you raising your son with a happy family is so important. ♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When mom smiled and said, “no way would I abandon you,” brought me to tears 😩😭 she has an amazing mother. It’s so much to wrap your head around, and she handled it gracefully ❤
Im in tears too sis🥺
Her mom can’t abandon her. She’s a single mom herself! I believe the mom blames herself. It’s a cycle smh… raising babies out of wedlock
@shanias.3915 what do you mean "She's a single mom herself!" ? She has a husband and she could abandon her daughter it only takes one argument.
You guys can support this young lady being a mother without putting other mothers down…
Exactly! Like yes she’s a good mother, but so are most moms.
Mom and Dad are a blessing. Such a beautiful family unit.
Dating for 3 or 4 months...before.....watch yo kids, folks...
No talk to your kids. Give them better education, Empowerment and Encouragement.
Your kids could be getting abortions and you don't even know, so watch your kids duhhh
Ikr
@@jenniferbates2811 same thing
Right
Her family is everything a family should be. Wishing them the best.
And this is why o think a sec education for girls and boys should be taught separately because the outcomes are worlds a part
Facts
This is sad, she's just a child herself.... Being a single mother isn't a joke.
He's beautiful💙 You"ll be successful with your baby by your side!
While this is heartwarming and I am glad that mom and baby are in good health, I can’t understand what makes this extraordinary in any way.
Same.
Because of her age I guess
Yeah, I saw this all the time growing up in Oakland.
It's depressing.
@@AneirinRPG Nearly every healthy 14 year old woman has the ability to get pregnant. There is nothing extraordinary about it. Extraordinarily irresponsible, perhaps, but not extraordinary in nature whatsoever.
Her mom is as sweet just like mine ,I got pregnant @17 I was scared to tell my mom ,but she was so happy abt everything now my son is 4
She was happy? I would not be.
@@MegaSlimgoody1 good thing you’re not her mom🙄
@@toriandreaa Exactly, nothing to be happy about.
Congratulations!
She was _happy?!_ _...yikes_
I am so happy that your mom and dad took the chance to think about it and also had the heart to be there for you regardless the mistake you they showed showed support and love and thats what good and decent families do not bash you but come to a realization that we need to support that is true love.
You're blessed to have your parents to help you. A lot of young mothers do not have support from their parents and loved ones. I admire your strength, integrity, and effort as a mother. Your doing your best as a parent. No matter what you go through with your baby, try, pray, and God will make a way, even if you may not have a lot to offer your baby. Love and quality time are what your son needs. Continue to stay in school graduate, and follow your dreams and passions. Having a baby young, should never defines you as a person or your future. Your son is adorable. He needs you. I support you 💯 percent.
Sugar, Sweets, and Love,
Simone🙂😀🙂👍👍🙏🙏✌️✌️☮️☮️☮️🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍♥️💕💗💗
I've never understood why or how any mother would think it wise to kick their child out at a time like this. Yes it's hard but if you love your child you would never punish her in such an unloving way. A mistake was made that has a long-lasting impact but what we do with it is what matters most. I applaud her parents and this teenager girl for making the most of this situation 👏🏿
Don’t kick her out, just guide her and make her help out with bills since she’ll be running them up. Teach her responsibility hopefully birth control and abstinence till marriage if someone will marry her with a kid. She thinks the pregnancy is cute, you can tell she’s proud.
Truth!
Me being 18 years old now even I know why some parents kick their kids out. It’s hard and nobody wants to care for an extra child why should they have to suffer the burden of your own mistake? Make that make sense? Yes, they should have sympathy, but they are not obligated.🤷🏽♀️
getting pregnant as a teen isn't a mistake, we know better at 14!
@@myahsolomon If your mom had an extra child, she wouldn't kick herself out.
As a person who doesn't have kids I would totally blame myself if my 14 year old child male or female was having a baby you have to monitor your kids and raise awareness give them hope let them know they have a choice help them develop critical thinking I always ask my 13 year old and 15-year-old niece is it smart to have children at this age it allows them to think don't just say don't have children allow them to question themselves I also tell them watch what a person do never listen to what they say cause us guys are known for love bombing women to get what we want peace and love everyone
DOnt blame yourself. Kids will blame you. So you'll be in blame but still a parent can only do so much
This makes me wanna cry!! I have 2 baby girls and want them to enjoy her life before having a baby. It is soo hard being a mother. I am glad her family is supportive and wish the best for her.
I’m so happy for u and that your family was so supportive and didn’t judge you. I can really tell u are a great mother
She's lucky she has two parents that can help her, that's all I can say.
Very lucky and maybethat's why she did it I can see the parents frustration in the video smh.
Blessed ❤❤
Frrrr
She’s truly well spoken n smart and praises her baby I’m so happy she told her family / mom girls don’t run don’t hide u need to do best for ur baby and ur self
That is the cutest baby I ever saw. ❤ wishing Destiny and her beautiful family all the best
This family has come along way. I'm proud of Destiny. I've watched her grow into a beautiful young lady and loving mother. I love the whole family. And Lolli had me me tears.... Much love to you all❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
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A friend of mine (22yo) got pregnant at (21yo), the baby is almost two months old now, she didn't get married, she stills living at her mom's house and continue her studies. I went to see her baby is so adorable, when I left hers house I realized something: the huge impact the huge difference when parents support their children in this kind of situation, she has help and is doing well. It was something new to me cause I'm used to see the opposite happening since I was young
still young but a lot of ppl get pregnant at that age !
@@anahla1546 My mom had my older brother at 20 but at that time she had already finished her studies and had a job, but I can look at myself with 21 and still in college, the life that I have it's different you know?
@@nerciiafumbanhane9709 yeah understandable
21 is a full-blown adult
@@shellpeters4046 I have aunties and cousins that had babys at ages of 15, 16 and 17, so I choose to talk about my friend for a reason only I know what happened to them and I couldn't stop wondering how everything could be different
No one hates the baby, its a fact a child can throw their future away!
1; If No one hates the baby how come their are mean comments around saying nasty things about the child?
2; Just because someone had a child young doesn't mean they have thrown their future away.
Mo one threw away there future, are u kidding me
U can do it girl I had my first child at 15 and Now she is 29 and my blessing is her and my four other adult children it was hard at first but there all college graduates and all the sacrifices I made no prom no real dates just my mom dad and me I raised her as a child and was called so many names and was told my child will be nothing and oh how I smile watching my kids success in this world so remember this don't allow no man to make u his foot stool focus on school and work and your baby nothing else because they will leave u and all u will have is your baby u make me proud I see myself in u
Wow, wow, her parents exude strength and love, I would have lost it in their shoes. Most of the time, people focus on the child and forget the pains the parents go through, especially when they are good parents. Girl, go get your diploma and educate yourself in the things you want to do in life. You have such an amazingly supportive family. You are blessed.
Nope ur not responsible her choice and her body u can only direct education and encourage her to follow a positive direction all u can do now is support her. She has 2 protect her body and take all the needed prevention not 2 get pregnant or a disease abstinence she should follow at this point so she can focuse on her sons get a job.finish.school.get a career.
I’m happy she has a support system but I would have not been saying congratulations she’s a child absolutely not.
Absolutely!
Our brains aren't fully mature until 25, she's a child having a child. I really hope that she gets the support she needs for herself as well.
What else could they do? The child was there so they have to take care of the baby. They weren’t happy.
They’re not gonna hate the baby 🤷🏻♀️
Something similar happened to my neighbour, a bit older but not married and young. She has a lovely little girl now. I think she still sees the father but not married yet! I hope they do.
@@stjohnssoup Being married is unnecessary. I just hope that she's taking care of herself mentally, physically and emotionally.
At least they didn't bring out a poster condemning her, ridiculing her, or shaming her!!! Quite frankly, I wish I had such a supportive family. But no.
Congratulations is for adults that’s all I’m saying 💯
It will be hard but girl you got this. There are so many resources out here and people who will help see you both through. You can still finish school, go to college work. A baby does not stop your life only. It makes it harder but it does not stop it. Stay focused and around the right people sweetheart and enjoy your beautiful blessing. I see you have an amazing family and support system and a great environment with nurturing parents. I wish you all the best. And remember, babies are a blessing and a gift. Not a burden. Only if we make it that way. God bless you all.😍💜💕🥰💯👍🏾👍🏾☺️
Things happen, even to the best of us. Love and support is needed, not criticism and shame. It's okay to express disappointment because that's understandable. It was awesome to see the love and support of her parents. ❤
Love that she got a great support system ❤❤❤
That’s something that’s hard to find
💪🏾Rare
Keep doing your thing girl! Be strong for you and your family. 🙏🏽
Stop promoting single motherhood. That's the problem with black Americans today m
Being a ho?
I was Very strict as I was told my daughter got pregnant at 15 years old. I supported her with her baby she’s awesome. With a mom like yours you will be awesome also you have a beautiful baby and wonderful mom🙏🙏❤️
That's one cute baby. Good on the young girl's parents for being supportive of her and beautiful baby 💜
It’s a blessing to have a good support system ❤ Shoutout to your mom!!
I love how they all understood the assignment and that’s a beautiful family working together and taking care of each other. I see a healthy and strong mother raising a healthy and happy child!❤
We shouldn’t glorify children having babies.
what a happy ending for now. I’m so glad she had support from her mom and understanding God bless❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ You are a wonderful teenage mom. Your mom and dad should be proud of you.
Yea i dont condone getting pregnant at 14. And i am so happy her family is so supportive. She sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders. My niece got pregnant at 13 had her daughter at 14 and my brother and sister in law...not her mom....they supported her. The father was there thru all of it and she had 2 more by him before she left him. He was getting abusive with her. But the man she met afterwards they have 3 kids together and are married. They just bought their first house. Thats what these kids need when they end up pregnant. Family is everything.
It's not a good idea at all you can see the frustration on the parents face because she's not getting it genetically it's her baby but financially it's there's which is unfare to them, then like you said the BFs who are just as clueless if some times abusive.. It's a mess and apart of why things can get ugly in the streets.
It's never GOOD when such young girls end up pregnant but she and her family have certainly made the best of it . Good parents for stepping up to make sure she and their grandson are in a supportive environment until mommy is ready to be on her own . And good for her for realizing her son needs a mother and not using her age as an excuse to not be a parent like a lot of teen parents do. Good parents, all of them
This is truly a beautiful family. So supportive. We were young and made mistakes. But this is a blessing. I had 1 child and couldn't get pregnant again. But I am thankful for the beautiful, healthy daughter. Young lady continued to be a great Mom and make sur you accomplish your goals.
He is such a beautiful baby thanks for sharing its life don't be pressed or feel down on your self be thank ful for your amazing parents that truly love you and support you...