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  • čas přidán 28. 04. 2023
  • In today’s monologue Abba shares his thoughts on what it means to be a man in todays’s society. Men were more than just providers, historically women have been providers too. Being a man is more than just making and spending money, it’s about being an example to look up to.
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Komentáře • 57

  • @KaySaOnline
    @KaySaOnline Před rokem +12

    I think people need to live with more depth. So many people are wrapped up with surface level understanding of things it perpetuates internal degradation. I like how this man is capable of reflecting and thinking through his own identity as a man.

  • @hughlowe4431
    @hughlowe4431 Před rokem +6

    This is the real , genuine message that every man needs to hear

  • @kappawam
    @kappawam Před 10 dny

    Profound information for the current shape of society.

  • @amolemomhlauli1773
    @amolemomhlauli1773 Před rokem +5

    How I wish this platform could bowl up....Our brothers need to hear this.
    Thank you, ABBA,for the teachings 😊😊

  • @primorantso7128
    @primorantso7128 Před rokem +7

    The Man or Woman in the mirror knows only Truth. Therefore, one cannot claim to be iNdoda by any physical attributes. Likewise with A Woman.
    Bua Monna

  • @MarksmanKnowsIt
    @MarksmanKnowsIt Před 13 dny

    Deep and well-articulated message.

  • @NellyN159
    @NellyN159 Před rokem +17

    Heavy stuff you talking about there ABBA. The way I see it ,we sometimes expect the impossible from our kings we are busy turning them into living corpses,they can hardly breathe. They are not even allowed to express their emotions without being shamed about it. You see these monsters whom are devouring us right now they were created by all of us unfortunately, we have wounded our devine masculine and denied him his femininity which allows him to feel an express all that he wants to express. After all those repressed feelings, emotions,as well his playful nature he becomes a monster. Before we judge men about all his failures to become indoda , let first take responsibility for the part we have played in turning him the way that he is today . One love my people ❤

  • @DingiNqaba
    @DingiNqaba Před rokem +3

    Very deep, people do not understand why I want to go back to the EC and be closer to my kids

  • @alwandekhumalo174
    @alwandekhumalo174 Před rokem +3

    This guy is the best

  • @odette.p.shongwe8408
    @odette.p.shongwe8408 Před rokem

    Food of the soul.we give thanks Abba❤.

  • @younesr2183
    @younesr2183 Před rokem +2

    We miss the foundation that's why we keep falling. Great message, thank you and peace

  • @cathrinenzimande8906
    @cathrinenzimande8906 Před rokem +3

    Beautiful message, we need more men like you. Priests and fathers of the home.

  • @masemolampho7564
    @masemolampho7564 Před rokem +1

    Thanks Abba I been looking for this episode

  • @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo

    👏 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I am so happy you get to use this platform this way, as it will allow you to reduce your injections when having a guest. preach Leader❤

  • @sihart
    @sihart Před rokem +1

    Great teaching high priest. Thankyou very much for the enlightenment. Uyasivuselela🔥

  • @mxcury3472
    @mxcury3472 Před rokem +1

    Masibuyele ebu dodeni ❤ i love this thought provoking conversations we need

  • @eyenavy1711
    @eyenavy1711 Před 7 měsíci

    this podcast needs more recognition

  • @Tefl-Tesol-teacher
    @Tefl-Tesol-teacher Před rokem

    Great one Abba, keep doing the great work ❤❤❤

  • @katlegomothwa49
    @katlegomothwa49 Před rokem

    Abba , thank you very much

  • @buntun3670
    @buntun3670 Před rokem +2

    Give thanks Abba - here is my little unpopular opinion(borrowed really). I agree 100% ubudoda is communal, it starts from within but confirmed by our actions and in how we manage our environment as PEOPLE. Its a pitty we have the expected group(males) not living up to this as leaders of households.
    I stick to leadership and households because therein lies the issue, we no longer have households led by amadoda, we have deregulated society and a deregulated consumer lifestyle where even sex is a commodity. And its getting cheaper and cheaper by the day. It used to cost the commitment of marriage but now it costs close to nothing as you point it out. Men and women think they are outsmarting each other in this trade but really they are fooling themselves.
    NB: The West is in a difficult time where they no longer have "men and women" defined by what'd between your legs.

  • @tsebolator777
    @tsebolator777 Před rokem

    Respect to brotherman u always drops teachings every aiwa siter di show I gain knowledge

  • @bbygzas7990
    @bbygzas7990 Před rokem

    As always....much more love than much love......respect. 😢😢😢

  • @KhweziNombembe
    @KhweziNombembe Před rokem

    Beautiful message makwande

  • @MandlaBonene-ov4tg
    @MandlaBonene-ov4tg Před rokem

    Give thanks for your Enligthment.

  • @nyashamahleko7007
    @nyashamahleko7007 Před rokem

    This was Deep my Brother. Even me i have Self-reflect on me

  • @lufefekalipa580
    @lufefekalipa580 Před rokem +1

    I like your analysis of things bhuti wam.

  • @africanliberationstationwi2594

    Greetings My brother. I agree with you 💯 💯💯

  • @awomanmadeyou
    @awomanmadeyou Před rokem

    Abba the conversation as usual has only just begun...

  • @9twelve
    @9twelve Před rokem +1

    we said✊🏽

  • @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris
    @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris Před rokem

    Preach 🙌🏾

  • @tumishangwina848
    @tumishangwina848 Před rokem +1

    Can we please get more information on this topic, especially on relationships. I am a teenager going into my adolescent era, and I am being exposed a lot with what you stated, even more. And my gut feeling always feels weird when I encounter these situations, especially when it comes to a man having a high number of woman, etc. Because that's not me as a person. I would really appreciate it if you'd touch on the topic of relationships and how we are supposed to treat each other, the native African way from the male's perspective and the female's perspective. I'd really appreciate it if you do touch on it.

  • @hlogingwenyama8860
    @hlogingwenyama8860 Před rokem

    More videos like this specifically for teenage boys please

  • @sibusisomotha7145
    @sibusisomotha7145 Před rokem

    May we please get on episode talking and explaining about izithunywa zikamenzi🙏🏽 Give thanks

  • @masixolemphati408
    @masixolemphati408 Před 3 měsíci

    So should i as indoda make the effort to go back to a father that did not raise me, its personal but its a genuine question?

  • @thekword5885
    @thekword5885 Před rokem +2

    He needs to have a show discussing the mind and semen ejaculation connection.

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Před rokem

    ❤❤❤

  • @leratomonegi3337
    @leratomonegi3337 Před rokem

    🙌

  • @tulininefor
    @tulininefor Před rokem

    felt like you dropped it too soon....we need more of this I!

  • @Truly_Unbreakable
    @Truly_Unbreakable Před 5 měsíci

    Those are the same principles of a man.

  • @isaacmayieka8758
    @isaacmayieka8758 Před rokem +1

    give thanks . wish words indeed .a people without there history and culture is like a dead community

  • @darianclery4455
    @darianclery4455 Před rokem

    Ok yes

  • @michaelmbizane6014
    @michaelmbizane6014 Před rokem

    🕯️🥋

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Před rokem

    What is your opinion on the sudden surge of men claiming to be polygamists as a way to disguise promiscuous behavior?

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Před rokem +2

      Hi Lerato, you want to miss the next Episode. We feel you will have some thoughts to share afterwards. Thank you for watching as always 🌍🤎

  • @thembamatlala588
    @thembamatlala588 Před 9 měsíci

    Monna le Ndoda or Indoda, not the same. Nna ke monna cause I have learned.

  • @user-iv5jb1yu4h
    @user-iv5jb1yu4h Před 5 měsíci

    😂😂😂it's always Dlamini what did I do every topic is Dlamini

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 Před 11 měsíci

    Re nna monna when the concept was destroyed. Secondly the concept has been sold that a man is just a provider due to his economic availability. Thirdly it's his sexual standing. We must go back to the Ntu and redescover the meaning to what it means to be a men. Finally let me say this the concept of a man has been dictated by women whom themselves do not know keng monna. Pula

  • @shaunwordplay3111
    @shaunwordplay3111 Před 8 měsíci

    I love this. Lol why did you have to say uDlamini. Anyway women are born women, men become men but unfortunately not all men become this.

  • @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i

    Wena TshayiNgwe kudala ndiyilindele lencoko and andikayimameli yonke

  • @RainEmpress888
    @RainEmpress888 Před rokem

    I've heard someone say "a re sana bo Ntate, ke banna fela...ba nna" basically translating to everything you are speaking to in this video. Men are really sleeping on themselves therefore sleeping on us as women and daughters. Go senyegile ka nnete

  • @ngakabulelani2682
    @ngakabulelani2682 Před 5 měsíci

    Camagu

  • @brownzhou1636
    @brownzhou1636 Před rokem

    Sbonge ayah

  • @thelionofjudahfakenews9456

    Am a from the Caribbean i dont understand the African language parts..wish i good get a translation r a sid of wall u all saying.. respect to the Chanel

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Před rokem

      Thank you for taking your time and watching. We are working on adding subtitles on episodes more consistently. We hope to have funds to get someone to do these full-time, we will get there soon.