Former CIA Agent Explains How To Get Others To Respect You

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  • čas přidán 22. 06. 2024
  • #cia #respect #psychology
    Evy Poumpouras is a former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent and multi-media journalist. She is also the co-host of Bravo TV's series ‘Spy Games’ and author of the best-selling memoir, ‘Becoming Bulletproof’
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Komentáře • 127

  • @KMC78120
    @KMC78120 Před dnem +176

    If you find yourself in a situation where you have to demand respect you've already lost. Respect is given and earned, not asked for.

  • @ShermanBMason
    @ShermanBMason Před 14 dny +111

    I’ve learned that sometimes, your appearance is all you have to do to cause people to disrespect you. Don’t confirm those assumptions with lack of action.

  • @dylanhill1640
    @dylanhill1640 Před dnem +150

    You get what you tolerate. Sometimes walking away is better than going to prison.

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall Před 14 dny +40

    I'm good hearted to everyone but it usually ends up with people being mean to me as they think they can be mean or disrespectful with no consequences to them

  • @bookwormchats
    @bookwormchats Před 14 dny +9

    I know she talks about a former CIA but she's former Secret Service so shouldn't the tittle say former Secret Service agent.

  • @sharna0814
    @sharna0814 Před 19 hodinami +8

    oh, so that's why I have gotten disrespected for the past 10 years. Just because I'm being too nice to people.

  • @ReallyStrongGuy
    @ReallyStrongGuy Před dnem +42

    My typing teacher, Ben Enriquez R.I.P. said, “You can tighten up, then lighten up, but not the other way around."

  • @pj5873
    @pj5873 Před dnem +72

    Yep doesn‘t work with narcissistic family members. best is to ignore. or go no contact

  • @AndroSpud
    @AndroSpud Před 19 hodinami

    The words popping up on these videos is hella distracting and hard to read

  • @agentsmith7866
    @agentsmith7866 Před 16 hodinami

    People always say respect is earned not given. Kinda weird... because you have to give respect to get respect.

  • @cvstaden
    @cvstaden Před 21 hodinou +6

    So glad to be out of this nonsense and never again having to deal with staff who need a constant checking on and management. Sad but true that the average person cannot practice self - management and need someone to keep him on a leash.

  • @azarel7
    @azarel7 Před 14 dny +46

    Reminds me of extreme ownership. You have to look at yourself first and see if you're creating the issue. Great leaders think similarly.

  • @lennybreeze2381
    @lennybreeze2381 Před dnem +18

    To be honest some ppl are just disrespectful. If a person disrespects you, that's accountability on them. We all should have been taught basic home training on how to have manners and have mutual respect.

  • @HeavenlyLights
    @HeavenlyLights Před 4 hodinami +2

    Disrespectful bullies literally destroy good companies.

  • @bacul165
    @bacul165 Před 14 dny +19

    Well that's something every good teacher knows: Set your boundaries good and firm. Once that's established, you can get away easily with a more relaxed way of doing things

  • @mattcastellanos2178
    @mattcastellanos2178 Před dnem +8

    Agree with the CIA station chief. Still, meeting people socially naturally exposes you to social predators of all degrees. Upshifting to higher gears is sometimes required with such people, know and understand directness and walking away as tools, confrontation is not the goal but is in fact the last tool in the kit - use it wisely.

  • @spikestoyou
    @spikestoyou Před 14 dny +34

    This sounds great when you’re talking about people under you. How do you get people over you to respect you or stop bullying you? Where’s that advice

  • @CtrlAltDelite
    @CtrlAltDelite Před 21 hodinou +2

    I supervised/managed police officers using this model. I got great performance from them. They kept me out of trouble and made it easy to be their boss.

  • @user-hs4bw4jy7f
    @user-hs4bw4jy7f Před dnem +26

    People aren't afraid of conflict. There afraid of the truth .

  • @mickyeverton
    @mickyeverton Před dnem +1

    She is good & has a great delivery!! Was told many years ago PART OF BEING WISE IS KNOWING WHAT TO OVERLOOK!! 🙏🙏