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  • čas přidán 3. 12. 2023
  • What its like to be a Japanese woman and being raised in Japan?
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  • @tempestrx4611
    @tempestrx4611 Před 7 měsíci +96

    Being a housewife is neither easy nor something a woman should be ashamed of and i believe taking care of the house and family is a great burden and responsibility in my point of view props to you Asagi.

  • @MontanaBoyInJapan
    @MontanaBoyInJapan Před 7 měsíci +58

    Being a housewife was my wife’s dream. On our first date she told me she wanted to be a housewife and have three kids. I was happy to help her achieve that goal and we overachieved and had four kids. It’s a good dream, but glad you found the one right for you.

  • @ryanelkins9682
    @ryanelkins9682 Před 7 měsíci +25

    Every job you don't like should be a stepping stone to what you want to do. For example, I joined the US Navy to go to Japan and I achieved that goal even though I hated that job but I used it as a stepping stone to my ultimate goal of living in Japan. Currently I've been in Japan almost 10 years and am loving my life. Jobs aren't forever and can help you find your end goal. It might suck for a while or a few years but you will get there. Nothing is forever but happiness is always achievable.

    • @michaelrmurphy2734
      @michaelrmurphy2734 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Are you out of the US Navy now? Like that, going to university in America
      is a way to get to the US on a student visa. Then maybe find work after uni.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před 7 měsíci +3

      Can't agree more!

  • @Tetsujin-28
    @Tetsujin-28 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Asagi will always come out on top. Justin and Hiro will bring happiness and joy.

  • @shure81
    @shure81 Před 7 měsíci +14

    You seem so happy! Doing what is right for yourself is always the correct choice. All the best to you and your family!

  • @Robcal2008
    @Robcal2008 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Great video Asagi! Glad that you are happy and following your passion

  • @ChristopherVaughn
    @ChristopherVaughn Před 7 měsíci +2

    Asagi, I'm happy to see these slices of your life. May you have a very happy life as a wife & mother.

  • @Rg-es9kv
    @Rg-es9kv Před 7 měsíci +1

    so earnest and great, nice update i want to keep supporting!

  • @tayet6875
    @tayet6875 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @davidbrink3328
    @davidbrink3328 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Asagi i did watch the live stream Saturday night (for me) i’m glad you are doing what you want and very happy for you, also wishing you and your family a happy holiday season ⛄️🌲

  • @durandus676
    @durandus676 Před 6 měsíci

    I think it’s better that you went through things like that. I managed to somehow have both of my dream careers at the same time, it doesn’t overwork me, I enjoy what I do, but not “getting lost” is extremely isolating as a human.

  • @johnlarnelladams8783
    @johnlarnelladams8783 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I am glad you followed your passion of being a matchmaker. Sometimes are dreams can be attainable or difficult to achieve. May your life and endeavors be prosperous and exciting to you Asagi Sama! 😊 #FridayFeeling

  • @mscman5
    @mscman5 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Glad to see you are happy with the life you have made.

  • @alexb859
    @alexb859 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I'm glad you have the life style you have now :) awesome video!!!

  • @chelollo
    @chelollo Před 7 měsíci +3

    Hi Asagi.
    Plan here Performances there.
    The most important thing is that you come to terms with your life,
    if possible without psychologists, therapists or life counsellors.
    The way I see it, this is the case.
    Best wishes for you and your two heroes.

  • @davidhouston4810
    @davidhouston4810 Před měsícem

    Is that Little Hiro making an appearance? I like your Videos, it reflects Real Life, Not the Fake street interviews.

  • @vinling2767
    @vinling2767 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Congratulations on your beautiful family! I'm so happy for you all! Welcome to wonderful world of parenting. It's an adventure and investment.

  • @leswhynin913
    @leswhynin913 Před 6 měsíci

    It's great that you found a path to personal happiness

  • @rileyholden-zc9ip
    @rileyholden-zc9ip Před 7 měsíci +2

    You are a wonderful person

  • @Saitoisis0nfire
    @Saitoisis0nfire Před 7 měsíci +2

    What a cutie vídeo! Happy that you found your own way in life :)

  • @ricdale7813
    @ricdale7813 Před 7 měsíci +1

    House Wife is a full time/ no days off un paid job. Also a House Wife wears many,many duty hats and juggles far more than one,3 or even 5 tasks at a time. Dont let anyone tell you any different.

  • @vasyear
    @vasyear Před 7 měsíci +1

    thanks for the look in on your life

  • @21Kikoshi
    @21Kikoshi Před 7 měsíci +2

    Many modern western women would hate to be that, they feel like its oppression forced upon them by a biased patriarchal society.

  • @squidwardtennisballs3390
    @squidwardtennisballs3390 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Amazing family! :)

  • @nienor1510
    @nienor1510 Před 4 měsíci

    That's really interesting. You can never predict how things will turn out. I had pretty much the opposite, my parents pushed me into a career which I never wanted and when I met my husband I was very happy to get married, settle down and have a family. When I was young I never would have wanted to go to the Women's college but now as an adult I think, damn, I wish I could have done that! 😂 We don't have that sort of thing where I am from, women are expected to get a career and it's looked down on (generally) to be a house wife. 🙄

  • @argusburebistus8602
    @argusburebistus8602 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My wife is Norwegian ethnic Sami i am Romanian and wen we meet first time she was raging feminazi her body cover in tattoos man hating headbanging heavy metal band now she is a happy hippie mom we got 8 kids and more on there way, from having a carrier to glorified housewife......we live off grid on a farm somewhere in the Carpatians Mountains somewhere in Transilvania....

  • @toemanga
    @toemanga Před 7 měsíci +1

    I respect your decision ❤
    I wish i live in japan 2060 permanent 😊

  • @jerm8146
    @jerm8146 Před 7 měsíci

    It's much better to work all day to take care of people you love than to work for a corporation. Getting to spend all day with your child is a blessing that many people never get to enjoy.

  • @diaamuharam6602
    @diaamuharam6602 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @mr_ozzio5095
    @mr_ozzio5095 Před 7 měsíci

    Parents generally go by how they were brought up as children, then in turn bring up their family from that base. Be it good or bad
    As you and Justin are more modern and open minded, you'll both make family choices as modern progressive parents but with some good old morals!
    Hopefully living a long family life together

  • @AncestorEmpire1
    @AncestorEmpire1 Před 7 měsíci

    After watching Inception for the 50th time, I’m beginning to ponder: is it wiser to follow a dream or a reality?
    Also: why is western Godzilla now Mr Pink from Reservoir Dogs?

  • @DoomyRei
    @DoomyRei Před 6 měsíci

    Why Did I get ban

  • @michaelrmurphy2734
    @michaelrmurphy2734 Před 7 měsíci

    Hi Hiro!!! OMG, he is SO cute!!! Super Kawaii!!! Depending on the job you can work
    at home. Have your husband and family life and still make money from work.

  • @DominicanStud101
    @DominicanStud101 Před 5 měsíci

    Do you think that being a housewife is the dream for a significant chunk of Japanese girls today? I know it’s hard to generalize.

  • @massvt3821
    @massvt3821 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Millons of women raise children..and work. Let's keep this in mind...

    • @stupedcraig
      @stupedcraig Před 6 měsíci

      Not really. They put them in childcare while they work.

  • @MattMatt77
    @MattMatt77 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I am never going to understand why people Hate and Dread living a normal or average life.
    Interesting but very confusing.

    • @chinchiIIa
      @chinchiIIa Před 7 měsíci +1

      Because they're afraid of death

    • @MattMatt77
      @MattMatt77 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@chinchiIIa If they are "afraid of death". Then why is it that you're trying so hard to die alone? Because Covid what was almost 4 years ago now but it seems like everybody forgot but I was told that dying alone is the worst thing that can ever happen to you. But people still want to live a life of partying in your 20s, 30s and 40s. But then when you're ready to have kids you're not able to or you're too old and not physically able to enjoy it.
      You wouldn't have more regret in life not trying to live your average life. That's because you know what might be coming doesn't make it negative.

    • @deepzone31
      @deepzone31 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Social conditioning to think that everyone deserves to be the main character in a travel or romance showcase for the world. Meanwhile some of us are sitting around with a couple of kids living in a cul-de-sac racking up the 401K employer match and watching our real estate investments grow.

    • @MattMatt77
      @MattMatt77 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@deepzone31 Yeah lol
      I personally don't care much for Real Estate because there's too much drama for the profit you get from it. But I am retired do to investments I made out of high school and I saw that it was likely for me not to get married or have kids. So the money I have is enough for me to be happy. But I do find it to be very odd that people rather live a life like myself even though they complained about covid and how they couldn't go out to small talk with random strangers.
      Doesn't make much sense but I do feel that if you have an opportunity to do so much more in life you should take the opportunity

    • @treetopjones737
      @treetopjones737 Před 5 měsíci

      "normal"

  • @cooler2266
    @cooler2266 Před 7 měsíci +2

    You are so amazing 💖🩷🩷💌💕💝💗💗💞💟💘💘💓💓💓and I love your hair and your baby is cute ✨️✨️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️⭐️

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Lol that comes from you

    • @cooler2266
      @cooler2266 Před 7 měsíci

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan who

    • @cooler2266
      @cooler2266 Před 7 měsíci

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan you did amazing

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před 7 měsíci

      @@VampireHunterR I mean... what about the person who buys a chair for a Japanese half daughter who doesn't even exists? Lol

  • @bmtenoch8230
    @bmtenoch8230 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Japanese wife is the best wife

  • @MadDogRyan
    @MadDogRyan Před 4 měsíci

    I’m a dude and want to be a house husband because my dad wasn’t around much as a kid and I want to be there for my kids more than anything, my mom hired me as a housekeeper so I’m calling this my training arc

    • @blume0121
      @blume0121 Před 2 měsíci

      Doing home office is also an option nowadays

  • @spa6hetti
    @spa6hetti Před 7 měsíci +1

    Being a good housewife and mom is the most important job in the world, as far as I am concerned.
    Your career won't be standing beside you on your deathbed. Enjoy the adventure you are on. It will go by fast!

  • @thevictoryoverhimself7298
    @thevictoryoverhimself7298 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Its kind of sad that being a wife doesnt count as a "dream" or isnt seen as aspirational anymore. I wouldnt ever want to force anyone to do anything but we've had a good thing going for tens of thousands of years and it only changed in the last 50 years.

  • @arcticredpanda4598
    @arcticredpanda4598 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Your views are so low now.

  • @stupedcraig
    @stupedcraig Před 6 měsíci

    "Mother is God in the eyes of a child."