Military widow sued by mother-in-law in dispute over soldier's grave
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- čas přidán 14. 11. 2010
- After an Iraq War soldier's death, a tragic aftermath unfolds as a devastated mother fights her son's widow for his abandoned grave. www.judgejp.com/
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The men who died with Spc. Brandon A. Meyer were Sgt. James E. Craig, Staff Sgt. Gary W. Jeffries, Spc. Evan A. Marshall and Pvt. Joshua A.R. Young.
If anyone was wondering. Or cared........
Thank you for remembering those fine servicemen
IB2EZ2C much love and respect to those who gave the ultimate sacrifice. they gave their lives for our freedom. I won't forget their names.prayers to the families. and to you. take care.
Thank you to everyone who has sacrificed their life for our country. May they rest in heaven.
May they their souls rest in peace. 😢
RIP military men are true heroes thanks for sharing.
Perfect judgement. That wife should be ashamed of herself for her greed.
GREEDY EVIL WIFE. KARMA TO THE WIFE. RIP YOUNG MAN AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.
When this judge says "shame on you", you really feel it 😭
This judge is clueless and needs a few lessons in military education.
@@eileenmcdonald1599 how so? I’m not in the military so I have no idea.
Shame on that judge, too. She asked the widow what body parts were found AFTER the mom said she didn't want to know that information. Maybe that's why she's a TV judge. Ratings mean more than feelings.
@@taestyinbusan3163 I was going to comment the same thing! Shame on the judge! Why does it even matter what remains were found? She was just being nosey
This case was also on judge judy
I am a military wife and I pray my relationship with my in laws will never ever be as toxic as this. May his soul RIP despite all this drama.
I'm sure if check the wife's accountings you'll see why she wasn't "able" to just call that poor lady and sympathize in her pain.
400.000$, ask for 15.000$ refund without shame and claiming that the soldier asked to be burnt what a coincidence that the army would gave her 10.000 dollars/year if she did.
As a French and so American ally citizen, I appreciate your bravery and you values.
Have a nice day.
I never see my husband's family. He been gone 12 years
Simone Scott-Rhone the reason why this relationship is toxic is because the the daughter in-law is a total cold hearted twat. A mother’s love for her child is so much stronger than a wife’s love for her husband! Not even in the same category
@@tanyabrown332 ;Now so true about a mother's love,even more reason once she gained custody of the grave love should have made her spare herself the knowledge of what remaining remains, forced to listen to by inconsiderate judge she and husband"the pastor" lied about Jew comment lost credibility then son's wife she's young and said nothing about love so do you think$5000. hurt her pocket Mom and Dad should be thankful no grands with her exist they had friction before son died probably want hear from daughter-in-law never again
Helena Washington.. id say the daughter-in-law is of the Princess age. That’s the age where she will only think of herself. (The young ones)
I think after being televised and discredited on national television will make her see the whole thing differently. At the moment she sees herself as the victim. It want be until she is years older that she will understand the magnitude of what she has done.
I can't believe she asked "what remains?"
After the mother said she didn't ask, the judge should have left it at that, instead of asking the wife.
@@THEDISH54 The mother said that after the question was already answered.
@@sweetsweet81 No, she said she didn't want to know when she was first asked. That straight away should have told the judge not to go further with it. but she did.
Agreed. The details really didn't seem important for this case. And even if she really needed to know, she could have at least done it without having everyone hear it.
Dave K because the judge is a piece of shit that wants to act tough!
Htotha Hizzie how do you prepare to know that they found your sons legs after 6 months??This dude think just like that judge did for a min smh
As a U.S. Army military widow, this case makes me sob. The deceased young soldier's grieving parents should never have been put through this horrific ordeal. I have no kind words for the widow.
I have no kind word about his fanatic ugly “religious” parents .
Suing a 20 year old girl paralyzed with grief and depression . They should have given her support and helped her, not pick a fight with her. She’s still a kid, they are not. How do they expect her to handle this alone???
. I can’t imagine going through all this hardly out of my teens. It must have been seriously traumatizing . And the parents adding to that. That is really cold hearted!!
@@malina1239
Really?
This young girl seemed to be the cause of all the problems.
The fact that she made over $400,000 from the taxpayers and could not put a headstone on her husband’s grave says everything!
The fact the mother was reviving all the bills shows this young woman did not honor her husband.
The fact that the military had to get in contact with the parents because they could not get ahold of the wife says how little she honored her husband.
I don’t believe a word the young woman said.
The fact that she sold her husband’s plot for $15,000. to his patents is beyond disgusting. If she loved her husband and honored him she should have just given them the rights to the grave.
She was not paralyzed from grief. If she was grieving then she should have reached out to his parents for support. Instead she ignored them and would not even tell them the day he was going to be payed to rest.
She was the one who was picking fights.
She was a bitch she didn't love him
@@bobp1016 what are you talking about???
She’s a 20 year old girl who lost her husband. She lives in a different state from his family, who by all accounts seem to have a real issue with her because of Jewish background and God only knows how they treated her beforehand. And they start issues with her because they want her to agree to have her husband buried in an entirely different state from her! Then they give a grieving young woman 8 months to get a headstone up and are already taking action to have her right to do so taken away from her?? Are you kidding me?!
And the mother ADMITS she didn’t CONTACT the widow to TELL her she was receiving bills for her son. How exactly was she supposed to know???? It’s fairly obvious that someone can’t pay a bill if they don’t know it exists.
This young woman was utterly pulled to pieces, by everyone here, she was barely given an opportunity to answer questions, let alone explain her side of things and this whole thing was horrendous.
His parents got caught being shady and lying over the Jewish comments, yet the girl is completely ignored when she tried to explain herself - like selling them the plot because they wanted to take it from her for the sister… it was like she didn’t speak.
Not saying she was perfect at all, but these parents aren’t poor innocent little victims here, that much is obvious. It’s awful they lost their son, it’s terrible. But it’s also a fact that when someone is married their spouse is the person with the right to make decisions.
My husband wouldn’t give a shit whether he had a headstone or not 8 months later. He’d want his family to look out for his wife and his children and help them through, not criticise and fight against every decision I made. And he has already made it clear he belongs with his family, as in, me and his children. So there’s no way being buried in an entirely different state would sit with him. He’d want his kids and his wife to have a place to come to remember and love him.
Aside from anything else - those parents are preaching the opposite of the Bible the “Christian” preacher father should well know. A man leaves his family and cleaves to his wife. Who is above all except God. You’d think good Christian people would know those most basic of Christian principles.
I have no kind words for the mother she has no say on were her son get to lay at rest that is up to the wife not her. She is a toxic woman who need her and her husband put in there place
As a Military widow ( my husband died in Vietnam) I know the pain of losing a husband..sad story
So sorry for your loss! This widow clearly did not love her husband and had no respect for his family though.
@@michelegray5970 We don't know what the widow's feelings were because she was not allowed to fully explain anything. she felt attacked. There is a lot more to this store as it pertains to the relationship between the widow and her inlaws. they are not as nice and upstanding as they seemed. just take the comments that the father-in-law made to the widow. I am a wife of a retired Army Staff SGT and the mother of an Air Force Staff SGT. God Bless our Military men and women.
This was hard to watch.....
iJemz Pissed me off
Mike D I'm pretty sure it pissed off everyone with military or without military connections.
iJemz ikr
senseless bitch
Mike D Pretty sad if she actually loved him. :c
iJemz I don't believe she did, honestly
She was cold and hardly cried. Only the mother showed any like...emotional pain
The mother just said she didn't want to know what the extra remains were and then the judge asks the wife what the extra remains were. Seriously wtf
i want to believe it was a test to see who has more empathy.
Yea I couldn't believe that. Did they have a choice on the televised setting? Because that was a very bad idea.
John Isaac Felipe i think it was all for views
Lydia K for a second I thought she was just ignorant, but I think the human curiosity hit too quickly before she realized.. my thoughts.
Right? I thought that was a slap in the face to the mom from Judge Pirro.
As a mother of two sons my heart breaks for this mom, I'm in tears.
mom was faking dramatizing it up and suckered the judge and other right in. I saw thru her tho
@@lyricberlin
Seems to me you did not see very much.
The young woman’s story was all over the place and the fact she did not have a headstone put on her husband’s grave says everything about her character.
@@bobp1016 do you know how fucking experience that is and his judge needs to get removed because the mom is a lying because you can see it on her face
As a soldier.. I have SEEN these fights between daughters and mothers. It’s so sad. But the army has paperwork for next of kin and who’s notified and who has control of the body.
The Army took Perfect Care of me and my Fiance's remains when he gave his all! They offered to fly me to Germany where his body had been taken. I chose to let his Air Crew escort him home to the USA. The Army flew me to Dover to meet his body on arrival. We chose to bury him at Arlington National, but had been offered by the Army to fly him "Angel Flight" back to his home State of Texas. During his Final trip home, Chris was never alone, There was ALWAYS a member of the Army with Chris' body. The US Army takes care of their Fallen!
Sheryl Johnson my condolences to you and family. And thanks to your husband for his service. May his soul Rest In Peace 🙏🏽
If you were is fiancee, where were his parents or had they passed away and he didn't have no immediate family left.
@@patriciaalston7623 It's kind of intrusive don't you think ?
He'll be remember for his bravery.
@@patriciaalston7623 not sure why that question or what it has to do with her loss? Why even give a love one of an American soldier killed on duty a hard time?
Thank you for your sacrifice to America and it's people. I am so proud they took good care of you and your family and I hope they continue to. If you believe...God bless you ... much love and respect.
"In peace, sons bury their fathers. In war, fathers bury their sons." - Herodotus
Alexander Whitehorse
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Sadly enough it's the truth, war is a bitch, no parent should ever bury her kid, it's the worst thing that can happen. It happen very close to me almost 30 years ago, still can't talk about it and there's no day it's not going to my mind like it was yesterday, every single detail like watching a movie. I don't know why I watch this, it's like my heart is tearing in peaces. No one can judge here not informed and knowing every detail. I cant imagine this is real becourse most people a not able to talk about the death from your child.
Herodotus words still stand true.
Thank You For Your Service, 👨🏼✈️ Brandon.
My Sincerest Heartfelt Condolences to the Parents. 🙏🏼😘
God Bless your soul, 👩🏽⚖ JP.
My Deepest Respect Soldier. My Condolences for the actions of your family.
The only not horrible thing here is that poor young man never had to find out what kind of person his wife really was.
Maybe that's why he left in the first place.
Maybe that's why he left her to go to war????
You don't really know how the military works, huh? Or Wars.
Genius.
the only problem with that is he's watching this from upstairs
lancer D No...that's actually probably for the best.
lancer D, he probably knew when he was alive that she was a bad person. There's a common situation where you think you know a person after dating them, then you get married and find out what kind of a person they really are. The fact that he stayed married to her until he was killed is commendable, as it shows that he cared about her. I don't think the wife is all bad (most people are a mixture of bad and good), but what she did to her husband's burial place was despicable and truly evil. Judge JP was right in telling her off. And the woman's excuse for why she didn't put a marker on her husband's grave is lame. You don't need a Scripture on the grave, even if it was a favorite, it is better to just put a headstone on the grave than to let the grave be unmarked for something trivial. The man deserves a marked grave, and he wasn't getting even that. This is one of those cases where you have to shake your head and disbelief that something like this could ever happen. I have nothing but sympathy for that poor young man's parents. I send my condolences to the widow also, even though this trial has put her in a place where it is very hard for anyone to feel sympathy for her, because her act was infamous and disgusting.
I am a military wife and when a soldier dies the military is there whether you like it or not, they pay for the funeral and if you do have to pay out of pocket, they reimburse you. there is no reason he shouldn't have a headstone. that's an awful wife and a disgrace of a woman.
Yeah, how else do you explain Arlington and them what I think, are millions of fallen soldiers buried there, each with their own headstone and everything.
Dependapotamous
Lmao you beat me to it, she is the poster-child for a dependa lmao. She's that wife that calls in to his 1SG and complains when his unit isn't released by 1800 hahahaha she sure seems to know an awful lot about death benefits and money for someone who's never buried her husband.... she's just hoping
Brooke, you're the strongest person... Because without you, your husband probably would've gave up.
Some women don't understand that when they are married to someone in the military, they hold a specific responsibility that's greater than other wives.
RIP soldier. This is heartbreaking on all sides. I am shook that a judge raises her voice in an accusatory manner to both sides when she should remain calm and ask the right questions instead of jumping all over the place. Unimpressed.
That judge was crushing her face with every bang of that gavel.
Respect for the all brave soldiers who served their country.
This episode Is a tragedy.
No one wins in this case. It's sad. Being a military brat, then navy wife, I've seen to much of this.
The judge was wrong though, the military (his command, unit, etc) can and will intervene depending the situation. There is truth in each of their stories. But the fact remains that the wife is the closest next of kin. They werent married even a year, so I'm sure this discussion never came up, on the other hand, the moment you sign your life away to the military you have to fill out next of kin, and have you make a will.
Most do talk about what their will says and what they want. We spoke about it very soon after he joined as well as when we got married. We also bring the subject up if we feel our minds have changed. I would like to go to the body farm in Memphis TN when I go, and my husband wants to be cremated and toss half in the ocean and the other half stay with me so he can... in his words "keep half so I can keep an eye on you, I'll haunt you in a good way, " lol.
Anyways, mom over stepped her boundaries bc of her grief. And the wife, well, girl you cant do these things to a mother. I hope your next mother/father in law will be treated with more respect.
The whole damn war was a tragedy to us.
So its ok for another country to invade yours and kill your people? Fuck soldiers army navy and the war.
YouTriggered _ Sounds like “you’re triggered”
Prayers
Soldier would be turning in his grave. Sickening 😷
The pain is unbearable 💔 oh my if only people would let go of their personal feelings of hatred, anger, jealousy and gossip.. How much more would be accomplished through love and kindness, sympathy and compassion.
The military always supplies a beautiful headstone for fallen soldiers. My dad served in WW2 and lived a great life after the war. The military supplied a fabulous headstone.
Mom didn't want to know about the remaining parts, wife had no problem naming the parts... says it all
Good point!
People have been blaming on the judge such question, but it was a emotional TEST Screening ...
People take horrible news differently, the wife looked at the horrible information, his mother did not. Don't make such ludicrous and offensive implications that the wife didn't love her dead husband with crude evidence like that.
Says absolutely nothing at all. What's even your point? The wife didn't love her husband because she was able to name the remaining body parts?
:-(
The wife said what parts were found because she was asked by the Judge. It's not like she just blurted it out of nowhere.
Absolutely no need for the judge to ask what additional body parts were discovered when his mother clearly did not want to know. Shockingly unprofessional and tactless
It was later when the mother said she did not want to know.
@@mangkanor9403 Common sense not to describe which blown-apart body parts were discovered in front of their parents.
@@cbjones82 well. Ratings
Chris Jones she was trying to be inflammatory for TV... FUCK PIRRO. I was a fan of hers until this episode... she completely made the wife look worse than she was.
@@TemplarGaming316 Well in court you need all the information you can get and she just asked the question and the wife just said it which probably wasn't well thought out but it's not like she is gonna wait to think of something to say she needs the information to understand everything no matter how upsetting it may be. And the wife didn't do all this stuff while the mother did so much for the sons grave place and wouldn't have known about the parts if she did take responsibility
I lost my brother to an IED over in Iraq in 2003. I'm so fortunate that he came home in one piece, although it was a closed casket. As a veteran and from a family of veterans, this is absolutely disgusting.
My heart breaks for that mother, I have 4 sons and can't imagine. God bless their family, I pray she finds some kind of peace.
This was very hard to watch. I'm a vet who took place in the initial invasion and was in Iraq for a year. I was disabled from an IED that also caused a fellow soldier to lose his leg.
Many soldiers get married before they go to war because not only do they get paid more, but the wife will receive benefits. While she may have just been avoiding things because she didn't want to reminded of the event, it appears more likely that she did not have the love for him that he deserved, especially posthumously.
Regardless of either lack of love or strength, she was most certainly in the wrong. We have to do things we don't want to do in times of adversity. This soldier deserved better.
I hope you don't mind me asking What's IED?
Improvised explosive device. In layman's terms; a bomb.
D X Are those the type of bombs which are home-made?
Pretty much. A lot are artillery shells rigged for remote/wired detonation. Just google IED, its on wiki if you want to learn more.
This actually made me cry.
Dude, the judge should not have asked when SHE KNEW the mother did not want to know. That was not okay. It was completely unprofessional. I can't believe she put her through that...
I totally agree
I completely agree when the judge asked the wife I was hoping she would say I'd rather not say as his mother does not want to know, but no she said it out loud knowing it would hurt his mother! Disgraceful! His wife knew him for 14 months his mother knew him for almost 21 years there is something wrong with this. That wife took the money and ran with it.
You're right. I think she made an honest mistake though. It was unprofessional like you said, but she did a great job. She's one of the best judges I've ever seen. She pinpointed all the facts and ruled justly. I can see why she was angry at the end when everything came together.
Sometimes, you really need to sniff through the evidence to reach a fair judgement, unfortunate that it was a very emotional trial but you have a job to do.
are you professional? or just another hipster
Unbelievable! This man gave his ALL and didn’t deserve such disrespect.
Wow. God bless the family, my heart goes out to the parents. That so called wife should be ashamed of herself.
What kinda person would not spend anything of what she received on her late husband's tombstone?
exactly. !!@@arsenhere7020
The soldier obviously married this chick for the benefits. There was no love between the two
Nasty woman, the wife. Disgusting.
Great point.
Mother and judge are the nasty pos
The fact that the widow didn't bother to get a headstone and sold the grieving parents the plot tells me all I need to know about her character.
The military gets the headstone.
@@RVBadlands2015 But if they dropped the ball I'm sure she cold get a little something with over 400K.
Your not supposed to put a headstone up for the first year anyway, you have to let the dirt settle so the stone doesn't sink.
@@timthompson8235 strange that out of all the funerals I've been to, the headstone was put in within a month at the latest. But I doubt she held off for that reason.
@@tmendez31 You know it does depend on the stone, we've always had to wait a year because we demand large benches.
The so called judge is a disgrace. The mother said she didn't ask for specifics of the additional parts, but the judge kept pushing for the information. How cruel. And when you ask a question allow the person to finish.
I can't stand the judge. The inlaws were crap.
Agreed. I find her a bitch. And this family is just hateful.there is no rule as to when a friggen headstone has to put a grave.
The young widow trusted the military and funeral home to do the right thing, she was in over her head to arrange burial so young and with the loss of her husband. I think the in laws are reacting to their loss by attacking her. I hope the widow never has to deal with that family again after this.
I agree, She didn't let the widow answer any questions, she just kept cutting her off. She didn't walk in the courtroom with an opinion that was down the middle. She came guns blazing for that young widow. She may have not made the right choices but she was very young. Sad situation all around.
Probably because the judge already saw through her bullshit story where she tried to blame the military and the coroners.
This is so sad, how horrible to fight when the young man lost his life 😢
Wrong... when there is a disagreement of remains the military does in fact take jurisdiction. However, the spouse does have the final decisions unless there is a POA beforehand.
Only when there is complete indecisiveness not this case because there was not even a conversation to begin with.
In this sort of circumstances the military should take over so their boy won't be sullied in his HONOUR
Yup.
It is big brain time
I was about to say, if there was a disagreement at the time, and I understand why there would be as the mother wanted her son close to home despite the son's wishes, I could see the military taking over the situation. Unlike JJ< Judge Pirro doesn't always get it right.
Her former daughter in law is a gold digger - period.
how can she do such a thing for the man she claimed she loved??? how heartless and lack of human soul can you be to do such a thing?
I am TOTALY SHOCKED !!! She just got 450,000$$$$ and she wouldn't put a head stone on his grave? i am sure the mother is telling the truth and that blond bimbo is a monster
i am speechless!!! GOLD DIGGER !!! how can she behave like that?
17 Months - and still no headstone - case in point
+SimsMoyal What's really messed up is the life insurace is 400,000 and the funeral is 50,000.they are 2 separate payments. I'm in the Army and have had this whole talk with my husband which is not an easy one. I wrote my own will at 18 years old...... this woman is a monster.... even though my husband is my beneficiary I still expect my parents to have most of the say about my funeral. holy cow dependapotomus.
+Natalie Vlogs i agree my brother served and deployed and after watching this i thought to myself typical dependa. Sad thing is i could see my brothers exwife doing something like this to my family.
I don't write comments on videos, but I'll make an exception in this case to say I agree with you. The daughter-in-law wanted to keep the $400K for herself. The fact that she uses the phrase "I had to pay out of my pocket" pissed me off. She wanted the money and no responsibility. She is an awful person and she is what is wrong with military spouses
The Judge wouldn't let the wife answer most of her questions. The mother & father-in-law are racists and I'm sure they made this young woman's life hell. The judge made it worse. Pirro is terrible.
His mom didn't need or want to hear the gorey details. That was vile. And to profit almost a half a million dollars on a 14 month marriage and have the audacity to sell him back to his mom for 15 grand....disgusting.
Imagine if they went to judge Judy..
albert7139 oh I would love to watch what happened I can imagine the gold digging whore walking out in atleast million dollars in debt
Too much cry.. would never work in judge Judy court...
I didn't like Judge Judy. She had a big mouth and didn't know when to shut up and was degrading like Joe Brown used to be sometimes. Unfairly.
albert7139 hahahaha if judge judy hand this case this wife will be roast like a pig😜
Judge Judy would have had a normal, rational woman in tears, but not this one. Something's definitely wrong with Caitlyn but it would take a mental health expert to determine what that is. I have my suspicions though.
it's 6 years since this aired, I'd love an update on what the wife did next? I think it would really tell a lot.
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Who would marry this heartless bitch?
the wife was a horrid evil woman, she purposely caused distress, she purposely prevented any contact with them, she even dangled the corpse of the family's son to their family in exchange for money.
bob See, that's an evil wish. Since we've all done things that we're not proud of, we have no right to harbor hatred toward anyone. I hope that Caitlin regrets her selfishness, and learns to show love toward others. If we follow this path God's blessing will be upon us. BTW, Caitlin's death survivor benefit was not ill-gotten gain. She was the young soldier's widow and deserved what she received. Maybe if Caitlin had truly surrendered herself to Christ, instead of merely going through the outward motions of a religious conversion, she would've handled this situation much differently.
Why should anyone take you seriously when you literally believe there's a magic sky daddy? Prove he's real THEN spout you're stupid bullshit, not before.
The Wife only wanted the money sad.Mom is still grieving I hope she finds a 🕊️ piece of peace. Lord please cradle her broken 💔 heart
Nothing ever good comes from war😔.. heartbreaking. My heart breaks for his parents
9:42 *he's not just a bunch of parts.... (heart broken).*
Forgotten Memory 💔😭
I could here my heart snap and then burn
The worst part...
I could feel my heart crack
Made me think of my late mother when I told her I was getting married a week before I signed my army contract and my now ex wife wasnt lucky enough to have me Parrish otherwise I feel like this is what she would have had to deal with...
Rest in paradise soldier.
So disrespectful.
Thank you young man for your service thank you for my freedoms my son served over there he came home alive God-bless you God be with you
My question why wasn’t the funeral paid for by the government.I’m so sorry this happened
Upon request, the VA will provide a headstone or marker for any deceased vet for free.
Again that proves this wife if you could even call her that, is a pos! As a female vet who sees men treated like this by their wives makes my blood boil
My heart just breaks for this dear mother. My son served in Iraq and made it back home in one piece, not whole, but bodily in one piece. I pray this mother and father have the peace that only God can give. I am so sorry for what she went through and still going through. 😪
She was grieving so much that she wanted this case aired on TV. The parents seem like attention whores
Mom and dad deserve 20K . That is heartbreaking. I could not imagine treating my in laws that way. she made out with a lot of $$$.
She the wife
@@cwstewartjr1973 you totally missed the point
@@elisa96996 she the golddigging widow
I wouldn’t talk to the MIL either if she wouldn’t respect what the husband wanted. Ugh this whole thing just pissed me off. The judge was on the MIL side from jump
What proof did she have no last will and testimony no your a ducking idiot just like the wife
The whole thing is so devastating!!! My heart is devastating for his parents.
I'm am so sorry that his mother had to deal this absolutely disgusting behaviour from his wife. It's bad enough that she is grieving for her loss and then she had to deal with this. I'm so sorry
it more disgusting that the wife barely even looked sad talking about the death
Mykki Brown It's 2 years later from the death to the taping.
Mentholian Smoke still have some remorse
Mykki Brown Who are we to say she doesn't cry about it or think about it?
Mentholian Smoke she didn't even flinch at the mentioning of her husband's legs not being on him.
I am an Army Combat Veteran, how utterly disgusting the spouse is ! He should have never married that PIG, thank God there were no children to see how little she cared about her Husband who made the ultimate sacrifice one can do for another. His life.
Women don't care about men, The only reason women feel sadness in this scenario is because they lost a provider.
+TYRES1987 So using you logic, the mom did not care about her son?
+TYRES1987 I love my husband. Emotions belong to humans of all sexes. And what about men who go onto social media to "date" lonely women for tons of money?? By your logic, every man would be scum.
kittypop1986 1 With the exception to blood relatives obviously.
Sam Of Sam Nation Women By nature are attracted to providers for their offspring. men can also be like this but it's not as common and in no way in our nature to want a provider female other than providing genetically. You only think you love your husband, i garuntee that if your husband lost his job and you had to provide for him and your children that "love" you felt would quickly turn into resentment.
I totally forgot Judge Pirro did a show like this. She's great!
God bless all the fallen soldiers. Thank you for your service ❤ Never forgotten
This is a freaking disgrace!!! Thank You for your service Spc. Brandon Myers.
I really feel sad for the mother the wife is a bitch I wanted to cry the mother is just ....... idk it's just so sad 😭😭😭
Btw the wife got fukn rekt m8
Daddy Plays Way to spoil it
Daddy Plays dude get off the internet, youre 10
Absolutely hate this judge! She has no business on the bench!
To all servicemen and women throughout the World who serve or served their country honorable and came home broken or deceased, I salute you. From a retired Aussie Armoured Corps soldier.
as someone who deals w/ Military furnerals. the military HANDLES all notifications that the service member OR serving spouse wants them to handle. Judge needs to get educated
Amen, the military will handle as much as the widow wants them to or all
The judge said it right. The widow was trying to say that the military took over and said they would handle notifications, but the judge said the military doesn't automatically do that. The spouse has to ask for them to do that. The judge had it right.
You didn’t even listen to what the judge actually said. She didn’t say that the military don’t handle anything like that, she said they don’t automatically do that.
Hannah Young exactly
Military should reverse the payments from such these people
The judge should have never said anything about the extra body parts, the mother was devastated
I would never want that made public let alone on tv. Regardless of the situation, u just put that images out for the family to feel the pain all over again. Thats a shame
I was shocked that she asked...especially after his mother answered "I didn't ask", when the judge presented the question to her...as a mother myself, I was floored...this whole episode is a travesty.
@@theamericanpatriot2015 Let me spell it out for you. She got almost a half a million dollars and couldn't even put up a headstone for her husband who gave his life for this country. That's pretty trashy if you ask me.
@@southerngirl6398 this is irrelevant to the point of the judge asking about what parts were found. That shouldn't have been asked PERIOD. It didn't matter and after the mother said she didn't ask... It should've been left alone.
I like this judge but, I agree 100%. There was no point in asking what parts were found, especially if the mother didn’t want to know anything about it. Pretty shitty! The wife shouldn’t have said either.
At a time when family should be closer than ever, it's heartbreaking to hear that this story is the polar opposite.
OMG I'm shook. This was disgusting. What a wicked wife... I could and would never do something like that. Despicable. Want to throw up after this.
As harsh as situations like this are, it's informative television.. you learn something. If you're a soldier you might want to make sure your burial arrangements are written in stone & provided to you wife for certain. Everyone deserves to be buried where they want to, especially those who make the greatest sacrifice.
before I deployed the 1st time I went to a lawyer and set everything I wanted in writing along with my will. luckily I didn't have to use it but I had friends who didn't and the whores they married before leaving did everything that blond piece of garbage did and worse. I did everything I could to help the families but it is what it is.
+Big Boss Thank you, sweetheart, for protecting us, for everything you and your fellow service men and women have done and continue to do. We Americans live our little lives going on about each day, going to Starbucks, taking our dogs to the park, paying our bills, watching crap reality TV, going out to dinner and our biggest "problem" being choosing which restaurant, while over there, you all were just trying to survive and keep each other alive. I can't even begin to show you how grateful we are. "Thank you" isn't and never will be enough.
+Big Boss Thank you.
+Big Boss thank you for serving for us. You are a unselfish human being with integrity
They do! I’m currently in service and we always ask the soldiers if they want a power of attorney, a will.. who do you want to have identify your body etc. this case is bull
This is so very heartbreaking. Growing up in a Military family, I can't even finish watching.... RIP Brandon.❣️ Thank you for serving our country.
What a good judge.. should have been you owe the mother 400 thousand dollars.. she had him For 20 years you had him for 14 months ... SHAME ON YOU.. KARMA WILL COME
The widow doesn't give a damn about him ..
She's cold as ice
Holy shit. Maybe the parents had always been disliked the girl when she was marrying their child. And the wife hated it. But, their ego shouldve been put aside for the proper burial for the husband. Indeed she should be ashamed :(
I wonder what Brandon ever saw in that woman. She was probably thrilled when he was killed in Iraq, not sad.
You said it. I think that the wife should've just put any problems aside and tried to deal with the in-laws on their joint loss. But some people let these things get in the way of what's right. It's like in Fences where Cory doesn't want to go to his dad's funeral because of the disagreements they had years ago.
sha - I believe she played to Brandon's sympathies. She was a damsel in distress and Brandon came to the rescue. It makes perfect sense given that Brandon was a soldier and she shows sociopathic tendencies.
No, I've read about this couple. They did care for each other. It was that she didn't get along with the in-laws and couldn't put aside differences once Brandon died. I don't think she was happy he was killed and did love him and didn't marry him for money. If he was still alive, they would still be married and maybe have kids.
the gold digger widow is a monster.
agreed straight golddigger... took the money and got ghost
Sociopaths usually are. She shows enough of the characteristics.
What a disgrace as a military wife to her mother-in -law throught this ordeal..She gave birth to her son and you treated her awful..So sorry for your loss.
Those parents are the problem in all of this.
Not only did this girl the money and run, but she did so in a heartless selfish arrogant and immature manner. To allow this young man’s grave to go unmarked shows just how much she truly cared for him. I would bet she never visits the grave and the family that loved him have to get on an airplane to visit his grave. How very sad that this young soldier married a woman that would hurt his mother so very much. shame shame shame on her.
Mary T I agree with everything you said Mary , She is a disgusting person inside and out
The only thing for sure here is that the girl definatley did not love her husband otherwise there is no way she could have treated his parents this way. She probably just enjoyed the accolades of being an army wife.
I think that Piss Poor Example of a Wife/Human being should have at least allowed His parents to exhume His Body and Allow them to bury this Hero to be Buried Whole as he and everyone else is suppose to be given the right to Also I saw Not one bit of emotion when ask about the remains that had been found whereas the Mother looked to be a Total Break down And little bitch knew what it would do to her She isn't planning on Visiting his Grave Let him go home where his Mother and Father will Visit him all the time I'm not a violent person but I would have thrown the gavel at her What a Disgusting Creature Karma is coming for you one day To the Young Soldier and his Family God Bless 😢 and RIP
The wife gets over $400,000 and she NEVER BOTHERS to put a headstone on her husbands grave?!?! SEVENTEEN MONTHS? 1) Seventeen Months 2) The U.S. Army could not contact her (FOR SIX MONTHS) about the other remains of her husband that were found... Yet when it comes to getting the $400,000 she's available. 3) The Mother visits the grave site EIGHT TIMES but the wife NEVER visits the grave site (except for the funeral)........ and finally 4) The wife SELLS...she freaking SELLS her husband's GRAVESITE? What? is she going into business?........ There is no greater pain than the loss of a child...No parent wants to outlive their children...This young woman was torturing the parents and using her husband's grave and his remains just to cause his parents pain...That is just WRONG...
Yeah, she is a piece of work. What kind of person sells a grave to the parents? WTF?
Excellent question...
Majid Al Aventador
Business and torturing her in-laws...
costa200
when the parents are bugging you to hand over the rights to the grave. Admitted in here, they WANTED the rights to the grave, before they wanted the rights on where he was buried.
This experience encouraged me to get my act together whenever my time comes.
This is so sad. Many times when there’s a death families just can’t cope..
The wife was way to young and inexperienced to be handling something like this.
Some young people are aware of what they are doing.
She was his wife. His wife is his next of kin. His wife has the last and final say so as to where his remains would be buried.
I'm questioning why the mother was the one who was first notified before the wife? Sounds like Brandon hadn't updated the Army as to his POA if something happened to him.
None of this makes sense.
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She's just evil
May be but she should have been given a chance to bury her husband without all the mother in-law drama. I think she fell apart as mother in-law got stupid and wanting her own way. Father in-law don't like Jews and said so. Horrible people. Yup I'd get as far from them as I possibly could.
The only issue I had was how the judge kept saying the wife "made" 400K from her husband's death as if it was some business venture.
It's true in this case unfortunately. That woman is a disgusting human being for how little care she had for her husband after his death and not taking care of the grave site. That's not how someone who served the country should be treated. My heart breaks for the mother. The judge was right when she told the widow she should be ashamed.
@ileanna Exactly. there is so much more to this story. If we dug deeper we would more than likely find that the in-laws are something else. only a little bit was let out there is definitely much much more.
@@lilcheatah no matter what the parents side did. Not putting a gravestone on his grave is just wild to me. 17 months because she was looking for a verse. I think after like 2 months, any person would give up on finding it and put one regardless. And if you do find it in the future, you can always update it. So I could get if she was spiteful to the family but to do her husband wrong like that is just insane to me. And she said she didn’t give her updated address, why wouldn’t you? What if something came up. So for 6 months they were trying to reach her about his remains. Idk man she sounds like a sociopath. She probably planted the IUD that’s how psycho and evil this woman is.
probably because the wife didn't spend any of it on the husband's grave. She treated his death like a cash cow.Fucking idiot.
to all those that have served Thank you for your service
I'm a court show junkie and have watched thousands of these, that "wife" is the most despicable person I have ever seen
As a Canadian I am thankful for his service.
This whole episode is just so heartbreaking my respect goes out to all the soldier that are fighting for the safety of their country's citizens
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OMG ... I feel so sorry for his parents. May their son R.I.P.
When the wife said the money came out of her pocket I knew she was in for it then, that just showed how greedy she was and a real wife would never put her mother in law thru such grief.
Also, why was the mother receiving the son's bills? In what state are parents responsible for the bills of their adult children?
Mother: Cries when she talks about her son
Widow: Barely anything at all
I think that says it all
Yup!!!
a3grimreaper I don't cry in public no matter what i'm talking about, I usually go cold and put a wall up. But I'm pretty sure you're right. She has no care for her husband. Think she was just in it for the money
Razor Smith There is no medication for being greedy! She had red eyes, she managed to have that but ... BUT her demeanor when speaking of the man she supposedly loved gave her away !! No way sir, she was in it for the money and she was one of the "lucky" ones who's husband died... Brandon thank you for your service, Brandon's family - you've raised a fine gentleman who is now with Christ !! Although we do not understand His purposes, we can only trust that He allows all pain for His purposes which are always holy and just. Condolences and blessings to your family... .
a3grimreaper its called composure
Spellbinder its called bullshit
Why Judge would you ask the widow in front of the deceased soldiers mother what other body parts were found? Extremely insensitive!
That was horrible
Agreed. I can't believe there's not more outrage over that comment... I almost started crying, you could almost feel that mother's pain.
Evelyn Stevenson the mother CLEARLY did NOT WANT TO KNOW, it's utterly despicable of BOTH the Judge and the wife!!! I'm just dumbfounded!!!
Because it validated what a terrible human being the wife was.
I think she was testing the wife to see what she'd do. Maybe if the wife cared about her in-laws' sensitivity, she could've told the judge, "I'd rather not say aloud in front of them." Then she could write it down and give it to the judge. But she just answered like she didn't care about their feelings.
Note to self! Don't ever piss off this fine Judge.
How sad I pray for that mom, cuz I am a mom and when my son was in Iraq, I prayed to God and said Lord my son Belongs to you so if you're going to take him, I will still praises you no matter what, you are my God and I said he is in your care and your will be done. And I jus gave my son back to are creators, and was glad I prayed that prayer cuz he brought my son home safely. Praise you my Yeshua!
....the mother should be compensated for wayyy more than just $5000. The wife should pay for the flights to Cali, the burial move to Nebraska, the 15000 fee she made her pay, those bills, and the headstone. smh Dependas make me sick
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I learned in History class that this country was built by black people but I think that if white people built this country this kind of thing wouldn't happen.
+Sém ....annnddd what exactly is are you saying?
I'm not exactly sure how it pertains to the video dude, but ok? Sure?
just makes no damn sense dude. I'll just assume you're a troll and I shouldn't take you seriously, nor should anyone else.
As a mother of a son that is enlisted in the army, my heart breaks for that mother.
Poor wife f the mom
There are no winners in this case
So you would be nasty about his wife.
As a mother, period, I can't imagine going through this. Karma is a mf'er! Wife is profiting of her husband's death! 17 months and no headstone? She thought family wouldn't go to graveside in cali so many times! Never underestimate a mother's love!
The mom is whiney.
She saw an opportunity to deal with her inlaws and she took it and ran with it.
Really how can the mom be that way
This made me sad. Rest in Paradise Bradon thank you for your service.🕊💔
wife wife wife!!!! what a mess................so sorry MoM your son married her!
Such a selfish disgusting person. Who treats a mother who lost their son the way you did. One excuse after another. Thank you Judge Pirro for seeing through her lies.
Ye thats discusting selling the grave sight to his mother so she can give him a headstone. Its sick really
Whyyyyyy did she need to know what remains were found? God that hurt just watching the mothers reaction. I can only imagine how that feels.
Stop acting like you aren't a human being. We naturally are curious of things. Perhaps she had no idea the mothet was so fragile about it. And from the look on her face it seems like she regretted asking the question. Everyone is nosey but some can control it. Some can't.
@@Rhythm1293 there's curiosity then there's common courtesy. You don't discuss things of that nature, especially in front of the deceased person's parents.
@@ImmortalAbsenon judge was in her right to ask. She may not have understood why the military didn't wait until they had entire body. She may have wanted to know in order to understand why the grave needed to be reopened. Or, to see what kind of person each of them were. The widowed wife could have much more tact. As a military veteran, I assumed it was his legs; however, there were many way she could have told the judge without being so blunt and uncaring of her in-laws.
@@beckyl9454 I'm grateful someone with logic, understanding and knowledge replied to my comment, as opposed to the usual kind of CZcams comments I'd receive. Also, I'd like to thank you for your service and sacrifice as a Veteran.
Don't come to court and sue if you cannot handle the ugly details that will inevitably be brought out. That's the way it is.
I rewind the verdict so often because as a vet I feel the justice in Pirro’s anger!!!
Same bro don't ever piss her off
This judge is a waste of air.
@@eileenmcdonald1599 I'm starting to think you may be the wife.
@@sf8884 safe to say, they were both about 19 to 21. What person knows how to handle all that and knows about settling estates at that age? She is also dealing with grief and that completely went over anyone's head. Do tell if you knew how to manage a burial and settle estates and whatever else is needed at that age.
One the judge needs to be removed two the mother and the father need to be put in their place they had no say in anything that happens to their son because they aren't married to him
That was pretty cold of the judge to ask what specific remains, it made no difference to the case. That was bad bad bad of the judge. Bad call. Bad judge!
wow, very cold hearted widow, God forbids she ever has a loss this big. The mother is broken hearted, I hope she somehow found peace...