How I Got My Feminine Fade | Black Women | Stephanie Long

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
  • Hi ladies, just thought I'd share some suggestions on what to ask for when going to the barbershop for a haircut. It can be very intimidating, cuz guys are definitely going to be paying attention. I'm sharing my experience with my barber who've I've been going to for 4 years now. I'll also share some tips on how to take care of and maintain your fade while starting your waves. The products I use in my hair are easily accessible and will not create product buildup. I hope yall enjoy this short instructional/how-to video.
    Hope y'all enjoy!
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    Steph💜
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Komentáře • 111

  • @donyettacureton5309
    @donyettacureton5309 Před 3 lety +46

    yes , im rocking my fade again i will never go back! you are rock you have to be confident to wear it and not be afraid. i get so many compliments . I love your look!

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly!!

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 Před 2 lety +4

      Yeah I’m just digging the low cuts and fades they be looking sexy as hell on us females ESPECIALLY if you have the face for it

    • @GeorgiaGirl__
      @GeorgiaGirl__ Před 2 lety +1

      Best decision ever!

    • @nana8135
      @nana8135 Před 2 měsíci

  • @cameronfranklin1436
    @cameronfranklin1436 Před 3 lety +33

    Bartering is an art. Some people just cutting hair. A talented barber will look at the face,shape of the head ,and texture of hair . If you bring a picture ,it will not look exactly like the picture but will fit it you and the above things mentioned

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 Před 2 lety +22

    I'm 21, been cutting mine since I was 18, and I've never looked back. 1.5 inches of growth is too much for me. I'm running to the barbers :)))) Its freeing , and I do feel the most confident with my hair short !!

    • @AeijaBlu
      @AeijaBlu Před 2 lety +5

      OMG ME TOO! I FEEL SO CONFIDENT AND BEAUTIFUL WITH MY FADE!!

    • @ruvimbopasi6214
      @ruvimbopasi6214 Před rokem +2

      Why is this mee😭, I grow it out for a few months cause I want braids, then 3 weeks into the braids I want a fade

    • @toastEDmrshmello09
      @toastEDmrshmello09 Před 2 měsíci

      Same! My mom asks me why I cut all my hair off and it's because I feel best and cleanest this way. It suits my personality!

  • @janetallen5912
    @janetallen5912 Před 2 lety +10

    Your hair looks great. I learned the hard way I have to direct the barber. They don't consider female vs male barber cuts.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 2 lety

      Girl, yes you do have to direct. I do I’m the beginning . However, my barber knows how I like my haircut. I’ll go back to it probably later on this year. I’m really enjoying some length right about now.

  • @mrsmurphy6371
    @mrsmurphy6371 Před 3 lety +18

    I love it . I had no idea it was high and a low fade . I just tell my husband grab the clippers and let’s get this hair cut. Right now I am just a tad shorter than yours and platinum blonde ( yeah Jasmine’s millions views video taught me how to color my hair ) and I love it . It’s so easy . Thank you for sharing Miss Stephanie 💕💕💕💕

  • @Hfg904
    @Hfg904 Před 3 lety +14

    Yasssss Girl !!!!!! I too am a girl rocking a fade and I am also about color 👍🏾 I LOVE my short hair ~ thank you for the tips and I also love your fashion sense! 🥰

  • @callieduval3000
    @callieduval3000 Před 2 lety +19

    Men love hair period but we love switching up our hairstyles and I am seriously thinking of cutting my locs and just starting over naturally and I love short hairstyles. It gives you that extra ump!

    • @latoyiadavis8269
      @latoyiadavis8269 Před 2 lety +2

      Did you cut your locs? I am cutting my locs.

    • @goodwill374
      @goodwill374 Před 2 lety +2

      Hey 👋🏽 . 8 years locd. Cut them back in august. First I shaved one side kept designs. Then I finally cut all off. Did the fade game for a while. Attempted growing it back out like pixie cut type….. needless to say. Going back to my barber tomorrow. 9 months without my locs still don’t regret anything.

    • @charlenehunter5098
      @charlenehunter5098 Před rokem +2

      Yes Callie thinking of cutting my locks for my birthday and yes that low fade looks good

    • @shawtness3
      @shawtness3 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I did this 2days ago , now i want to cut lower more so i have waves rather than lil inch of jerry curls haha

    • @prettybrwneyez7757
      @prettybrwneyez7757 Před 11 dny

      Had mine for 8 years. Just cut them off into a TWA with NO regrets. Loving my loose curls

  • @tanyamclin3153
    @tanyamclin3153 Před 3 lety +12

    Hey lady thanks for sharing to tips can't wait to see the Barbershop series

  • @KathleenVOTES
    @KathleenVOTES Před 3 lety +5

    Bam is correct! Thanks for the info. I get a barber asking lots of questions when they first cut your hair but it annoys me when they keep asking “are you sure?” You look beautiful!!!!

  • @mzlizb2153
    @mzlizb2153 Před 3 lety +7

    Beautiful, thank you so much for the tips on terminology ❤️🥰 Definitely gonna make difference when I go to the barber

  • @cameronfranklin1436
    @cameronfranklin1436 Před 3 lety +32

    You have to feminize the fade. You wear it . It does not wear you. One of my late Barber used to say.

  • @adorehathor
    @adorehathor Před 4 měsíci +2

    When you pulled out the du rags and was like, "dis one and dis one" 😊so cute

  • @Niseone58
    @Niseone58 Před 3 lety +9

    Hey Ms. Steph enjoyed the video and learning what to ask for at the barbershop. I’ve decided to embrace my gray so I love rocking a fade💕.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 3 lety +2

      You are so welcome and YES embrace it!!!!!!

  • @yolandaoliver5475
    @yolandaoliver5475 Před rokem +4

    Who needs hair with a face like that YASS SIS

  • @ShaesWorld81
    @ShaesWorld81 Před 3 lety +10

    Beautiful ❤️ I just cut mine off so thanks for the tips.

  • @ladyghana5603
    @ladyghana5603 Před rokem +3

    ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS 💥💥💥💥💥👍🏾👍🏾
    i’ve been bald blonde 👱🏿‍♀️ and beautiful for 4yrs. due to alopecia but i got much inspiration from you and Jazmine!😇i get so many compliments and attention it’s unreal

  • @teresasutton53
    @teresasutton53 Před 3 lety +9

    I love you so much.. you like a sister in my head 😍😂 I love your look and thank you for tips on cuts and also showing telling us products and also showing the pictures of products👍🏾 I love your 💄. What color is it?

  • @DreaRahming
    @DreaRahming Před 2 měsíci +1

    Gorgeous hun stunning thank you for telling me what to ask for

  • @gwendolynjones484
    @gwendolynjones484 Před 3 lety +2

    I have been a girl rocking a fade for many years... I don’t like my hair tapered either.. (skin showing)
    I use coconut oil...or Shea butter and occasionally I use a tap of edge control to lay down the hair that sticks up...only when I need a haircut..I don’t use doo-rags.. only because they give me a headache..no matter how loose I tie it.so I use a silk scarf..let me just say you are Gorgeous and you’re rocking that fade.
    I’m 51 and my hair is starting to turn gray...but I’m gracefully embracing it but I will color it every once in awhile..

  • @pamelalove2786
    @pamelalove2786 Před 2 lety +3

    Girl, you bad….You rocking it!

  • @mariaddubkg531
    @mariaddubkg531 Před 3 lety +1

    Very pretty lady. Loved all the hairstyles you showed including your Cesar cut

  • @BnanaPdn
    @BnanaPdn Před 3 lety +7

    Gurrrl, you better emulsify (with your bad self)... I love your style.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 3 lety

      Yes ma’am, you need the butter to melt 😂😂😂

  • @brookesimone5204
    @brookesimone5204 Před 3 lety +1

    wow its crazy ur the first channel i stumble across and your in jersey lol, im from asbury park i love meetthebarber’s work 💕

  • @JUST_MORELLA
    @JUST_MORELLA Před 2 lety +3

    I just chopped all off. Your hair looks 😊 amazing!! Where did you get and what do you call the brush you are using in this video??

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 2 lety

      Congratulations!!!!!! I use a coiling sponge and I purchased it from my local BSS.

  • @trivie70
    @trivie70 Před 3 lety +1

    You are amazing. Thank you for sharing. I'm thinking about doing a fade now.🤗

  • @donnawilliams6834
    @donnawilliams6834 Před 3 lety

    Im hooked. You look absolutely gorgeous. I want this style. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mocha8821
    @mocha8821 Před 2 lety +1

    You are gorgeous you make me wanna cut my hair again this would be the 4th time but I will keep it cut.

  • @lakithagoss225
    @lakithagoss225 Před 2 lety +5

    Always take a picture of your desired style to your barber. The barber will be able to tweek to style to your facial features.

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 2 lety +2

      Facts, they use it as a guide and can tailor it to you.

  • @sherondarichard9144
    @sherondarichard9144 Před 3 lety +3

    Love the tips

  • @annettegarcia789
    @annettegarcia789 Před 2 lety

    I just love your short look you are rocking that short cut Thanks for sharing love and Blessings to you #shorthairgirlsrock

  • @thetracyset
    @thetracyset Před 3 lety +5

    Cute style on you!

  • @rashidabeasley3116
    @rashidabeasley3116 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Super cute

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze Před 2 lety +11

    Omg yes hairdressers and barbers shouldn't be trying to convince women not to get short hair or even go bald, it's their own decision and they are so sexist.

  • @latashaglenn7926
    @latashaglenn7926 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Don’t knock a bald fade, until you tried it !

  • @moonpiemoonpie
    @moonpiemoonpie Před 8 měsíci

    I’m so nervous about this transition I’m about to embark but I’m 29 and I’m so over my shoulder length hair. I big chopped to a twa 11 years ago but I want my hair exactly like this for my 30th. I want to grow it from the root and lose all this breakage.

  • @happy2bnappy575
    @happy2bnappy575 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are wearing that Caesar cut.

  • @mindisflowershop2017
    @mindisflowershop2017 Před 3 lety +1

    “However” 🤣

  • @latrishahayward9359
    @latrishahayward9359 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful! I love that

  • @marjorievuyiswa9559
    @marjorievuyiswa9559 Před 3 lety +2

    Love it!

  • @welcome2vonasworld821
    @welcome2vonasworld821 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing

  • @HomemakerDaze
    @HomemakerDaze Před 2 lety +1

    You look amazing!

  • @godislove6398
    @godislove6398 Před 2 lety

    Amen to That my Sister my hair does not define me !🥰

  • @shandranewell2837
    @shandranewell2837 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm all in the beauty supply store lol

  • @tracymoniqueah94
    @tracymoniqueah94 Před 3 lety

    GORGEOUS!

  • @capricew5
    @capricew5 Před 2 lety +1

    You rockin that......

  • @Faithful26
    @Faithful26 Před rokem +1

  • @HottgirlzinMiami
    @HottgirlzinMiami Před 2 lety

    It’s the girl rocking a fade is a bad chick for me❣️

  • @cherpierre8595
    @cherpierre8595 Před 2 lety +1

    It is beautiful

  • @KiyahPrettyBOMB
    @KiyahPrettyBOMB Před 2 lety +1

    Gorgeous!!!

  • @AsiaWilliams1731
    @AsiaWilliams1731 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes bald baddies winning

  • @ThePhoinix33
    @ThePhoinix33 Před 3 lety

    Would like to wear a fade cut. My hair now is bra length natural 3b . I have tension alopecia behind my ears any suggestions ?

  • @charlye6380
    @charlye6380 Před 3 lety +1

    Yes I beat that face, love the look, hey u rock short hair well.

  • @kemeyartusniki842
    @kemeyartusniki842 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful

  • @frenchygigi
    @frenchygigi Před 3 lety +1

    So just to clarify ideally you want to do this at bedtime and sleep with the dorug? Also I am traveling Friday early morning and unable to get the crinkle and curl by then do you have alternatives recommendations instead of the Taajid Waajid one?

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 3 lety +1

      Yes, do this routine at bedtime or right after you shampoo your hair. After shampooing, set your hair and wear durag while you do your makeup. Yes, you can use any type of wrapping foam that has no alcohol. Hope this helps hun 💜

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 Před 2 lety

    looking at your pictures, you look like one of those aunties that I wish i had :))))

  • @AyyoShyGurlTv
    @AyyoShyGurlTv Před 2 lety

    Beautiful 😍 🌟

  • @mrs.jsmith9879
    @mrs.jsmith9879 Před 11 měsíci

    Do u hve a picture of how ur daughter cut looks

  • @ThePhoinix33
    @ThePhoinix33 Před 3 lety

    New subbie

  • @glowingcrowns1692
    @glowingcrowns1692 Před 2 lety +1

    Feminine fade? I'm sorry there's no such thing. A fade period make y'all look masculine

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 2 lety +4

      Everyone has an opinion and that’s fine💜

  • @jandee74
    @jandee74 Před rokem

    i paused the video after 40 seconds….to much talking for such short amount of hair 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @monicabrown1359
    @monicabrown1359 Před 3 lety +3

    While it looks nice there’s nothing “ feminine“ about a fade

    • @EclecticNista
      @EclecticNista  Před 3 lety +28

      Well, I happen to think it’s the WOMAN, that makes it look feminine. Thank you and I like it for the everyday low maintenance.

    • @mzlizb2153
      @mzlizb2153 Před 3 lety +3

      WRONG 😑

    • @Cloudywithachancee
      @Cloudywithachancee Před 3 lety +4

      Girl keep tht bullsh*t to yourself