I dated a married man, watched as he beat his wife and he still left me for her- Faith Ndunda

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  • čas přidán 30. 04. 2021
  • Faith Ndunda 23, is a student at one of the local colleges in Nairobi and she is admitting to having dated a married man who would beat up his wife because of her. When people around the neighborhood found out Faith was the reason behind the man's constant physical abuse towards his wife, they almost beat her up.
    On the other hand, Faith's parents had struggled so much to put up a small restaurant for her but she messed it all up, because no one from the estate will buy anything from her.
    So why is she coming out with her story begging other young girls to stop destroying marriages, What message does she have for the woman whose family she destroyed.
    Here is Lynn Ngugi with this exclusive episode of Tuko Talks
    I dated a married man, watched as he beat his wife and he still left me for her- Faith Ndunda
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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  Před 3 lety +136

    What message do you have for Faith, you can reach her on 0708840902.
    Follow her CZcams channel here czcams.com/channels/S4720wxsMNGQj59T2pABAw.html
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    • @adelidesimiyu5405
      @adelidesimiyu5405 Před 3 lety +16

      Lyn I dated a married man for 2yrs without knowing,😭😭😭it was really hard to forget our moment I tried to heal BT it was hard til now,bt I thank God I have moved on with my life BT he still wants me back

    • @doreenkathure1799
      @doreenkathure1799 Před 3 lety +13

      Please young ladies please avoid married men,its not worth your effort God is able to bless you with a husband of your own,let's always apply the Golden rule do unto others what you want be done unto you.God bless faith and keep her in the right path with God nothing is impossible.

    • @marywangukihungi
      @marywangukihungi Před 3 lety +6

      Lynn am in love with your blouse top.iko sawa kabisa

    • @aggiendegwa1776
      @aggiendegwa1776 Před 3 lety +11

      but lynn i sent you emails to share my story but no responce

    • @nellyrichy
      @nellyrichy Před 3 lety +7

      Nipoa ulijiondoa mapema hii ni kama tu curse by dating a married man koz hakuna day atakutambua

  • @katrinaaliviza457
    @katrinaaliviza457 Před 3 lety +352

    Let's take time to appreciate her friend caro. We all need such friends.

  • @lucyedwin5531
    @lucyedwin5531 Před 3 lety +121

    OOOH LYNN AS USUAL YOU'RE, A GORGEOUS WOMAN. CRYING 😥WITH FAITH. LYNN'S LIKES PLEASE ✅

  • @misswamboh9585
    @misswamboh9585 Před 3 lety +71

    Married men for me is a no go zone, I just tell them "go love and take care of your family.

  • @karksymon5269
    @karksymon5269 Před 3 lety +86

    The key point of Faith Ndunda is: "She want to save a marriage" keep up girl, you are one in a million.
    Thanks Lyne and tuko team.

  • @phyllisplays3811
    @phyllisplays3811 Před 3 lety +145

    No one is appreciating the friend, you are one in a million, need one like you.... GOD BLESS YOU!

  • @johannakadar4314
    @johannakadar4314 Před 3 lety +307

    Lynn is such a wise and compassionate woman. She knows how to talk, and aproach people whitout they feeling intimidated. I feel she can feel whit her interwiew "subjecs" yet she is not affraid to speak the truth. She is a realy good reporter

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi Před 3 lety +11

      Thank you so much🙏🙏

    • @natasha-juliet8525
      @natasha-juliet8525 Před 3 lety

      Exactly💯

    • @pandorastelevision9442
      @pandorastelevision9442 Před 3 lety +3

      Lynn is a darling

    • @phoebewanjiru1955
      @phoebewanjiru1955 Před 3 lety +4

      It is good you have found yourself. When you enter somebody's marriage you bring death to it. The pain you cause the married lady, the tears, you will one day pay. If not you, it will come through your children. You become cursed and the curse runs now in your descendants. You have done well to repent for God is love and forgives. You have been set free. You need to forgive yourself and those husbands

    • @blessings8177
      @blessings8177 Před 3 lety +1

      Very true

  • @irenewangechi3066
    @irenewangechi3066 Před 3 lety +84

    It takes 2 to tangle, the man is equally responsible for stepping out of his marriage, no one should cast a stone on Faith!!!!

    • @robertmoruri6762
      @robertmoruri6762 Před 3 lety +3

      Why you justifying that anyway 🙄 she's wrong in doing that...infact the consequences could be worse off Faith saying no to that man is everything you can control who you want to be with.

    • @naomigichuru7441
      @naomigichuru7441 Před 3 lety +6

      The society always judges a woman harshly and never takes the man at fault too. Remember in Chapter 8 of John in the Bible, they only brought Mary Magdalene alone and the man was no where to be found. But Jesus is merciful, He never judged her but said, go and sin no more

    • @patriciahkiio9692
      @patriciahkiio9692 Před 3 lety +2

      @@robertmoruri6762 that's how they says without having the knowledge that you have the right to refuse him cos he's married that's simple

    • @millicentokoth9103
      @millicentokoth9103 Před 2 lety +1

      Justifying nonsense, they were both wrong

    • @storeplace4097
      @storeplace4097 Před 2 lety

      ​@@robertmoruri6762 Hehe if anything the man is the one in the wrong. Kwanza he took advantage of this young girl mbona hakuendea mkubwa???? ati you can control kwani yeye hajui ameoa? he is wrong for doing all he did ata kuchapa bibi manza he is evil in fact unafaa ukikatiwa na mschana say you are married sio we mwenyewe like a pig unakatiana HE is shameless huyu alijiaribia, but the guy is fully wrong. ameharibu ndoa yake MWENYEWE huyu hangeingia.

  • @monicanduta8167
    @monicanduta8167 Před 3 lety +262

    Dating a married man is like driving a government vehicle... Everyone knows that you will never own it

  • @annmuthemba8875
    @annmuthemba8875 Před 3 lety +350

    Likes za these two beautiful and smart ladies ziko wapiiiii

  • @marriagerevelation606
    @marriagerevelation606 Před 3 lety +339

    Sisi kama married women tumekusamehe n we have blessed you. Usirudie makosa.

    • @Skin4839
      @Skin4839 Před 3 lety +9

      Yes tumekusamehe! Please usirudie please Makosa! Coz Makosa ya kurudia sasa hiyo si makosa ni tabia

    • @catherinemutua4095
      @catherinemutua4095 Před 3 lety +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Nancybeibey
      @Nancybeibey Před 3 lety +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣goat wife nyinyi aki

    • @puritynjoki8882
      @puritynjoki8882 Před 3 lety +7

      Okey...na mimi kama mtumishi wa God nimemusamehe....vijana mheshimu ndoa

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Před 3 lety +9

      Kama a married woman nimekusamehe,,ukirudia tutakuchoma na acid.

  • @kristofinashinedima8411
    @kristofinashinedima8411 Před 3 lety +95

    god bless u. im 24 years old lady from namibia having an affair with my lecturer, he is not married but he has a girlfriend with 2 kids.ive learned alot from your story and im ending the affair now as im typing this

    • @auntyp2980
      @auntyp2980 Před 2 lety +3

      God bless you God will open honest ways for you to survive 🙏

    • @itsmosa2604
      @itsmosa2604 Před 2 lety +1

      Amen,I pray that GOD WILL GIVE YOU A HUSBAND.

    • @werskin463
      @werskin463 Před 2 lety

      @@auntyp2980 g

    • @katusaberosette4301
      @katusaberosette4301 Před 2 lety

      God bless u

    • @kateosmond1090
      @kateosmond1090 Před 2 lety

      That's way to go. You are still young. Trust me God will open doors for you when you trust Him. Men who are spoken for never marry nor settle down with the 'other' woman. All the best and I pray the Lord will direct your paths.

  • @rosekiriachiuri9759
    @rosekiriachiuri9759 Před 3 lety +107

    Baba Faith you have brought up a girl who will make you proud. God bless you.

  • @Njeri-
    @Njeri- Před 3 lety +282

    The fact that she came out shows how sorry she is, She is so brave and strong💖💖💖

  • @fedeliamueni8973
    @fedeliamueni8973 Před 3 lety +158

    OMG,kupitia kwa machozi yako you've already wiped away the wives tears and God has heard it from your mouth and ready to forgive you.I salute you for putting yourself in married women's shoes!Wishing you all the best in your life and happy marriage as well when your time comes

  • @WairimuKimani
    @WairimuKimani Před 3 lety +227

    This is what we call true repentance. If this woman starts a church in the future, please join

    • @tbetatbeta5934
      @tbetatbeta5934 Před 3 lety +4

      Happy to see you here madam Wairimu Kimani i love the work you are doing the society

    • @njerinajma5009
      @njerinajma5009 Před 3 lety +1

      Wairimu Kimani happy to see you here and I love your teaching about gospel be blessed

    • @sanchezfaust5983
      @sanchezfaust5983 Před 3 lety +2

      I agree 100%

    • @meriothm2856
      @meriothm2856 Před 3 lety +1

      Kumbe uko huku? I salute this lady

    • @mariammhamed3882
      @mariammhamed3882 Před 3 lety +6

      Am her neighbor at home I wish she spoke the whole truth I got mixed up in there story she insulted and humiliated the wife in public bila kujali, mbona hakusema all that in her interview, just to look good and very sorry.

  • @veroniqueazena9156
    @veroniqueazena9156 Před 3 lety +52

    Painful experience 😭another woman broke my marriage n av raised my two girls on my own.....she dd bad things to me n I left everything to God .... forgiving and living my life has given me peace.....may God bless you for minding marriages n talking to many

    • @violetnaineki1044
      @violetnaineki1044 Před 3 lety +2

      Oh dear hugs🥰

    • @euniceopar3268
      @euniceopar3268 Před 3 lety +10

      Your ex-husband broke your marriage. He was committed to you but still pursued that other woman

    • @eunicemungai1315
      @eunicemungai1315 Před 3 lety +2

      Hugs Vero be strong God is with you n your family

    • @jaciehutchins2542
      @jaciehutchins2542 Před 3 lety +3

      Both broke the marriage the word of God says marriage should be honored by all.

    • @userYouCantHandleThis
      @userYouCantHandleThis Před 2 lety +1

      Darling your husband broke your marriage.

  • @Stellageuz
    @Stellageuz Před 3 lety +428

    My ex-husband went with very many different women in Nairobi. I in the beginning blamed the women for it but at some point I also realised that it was actually his problem all along. I was also beaten up with the excuse that I was interrupting mpango wa kando's arrangement. In the end he was first of all with all the different ladies due to his own frustrations. The beating also had nothing to do with the ladies. So Faith, please stand up dust your shoulder off and start that life you're aiming on. And really I'm happy and proud that you shared your story. Mpaka lazima ningecomment na paragraph leo.

    • @kimaniruth964
      @kimaniruth964 Před 3 lety +23

      This is the best comment I have seen. We blame the woman and a man has control too.

    • @joynamikoye9513
      @joynamikoye9513 Před 3 lety +11

      I also went through this , I blamed myself for 3 years but God gave me the strength to walk out.

    • @Trizahfx4456
      @Trizahfx4456 Před 3 lety +7

      Am proud of coz he is your x

    • @Stellageuz
      @Stellageuz Před 3 lety +15

      @@chrisView mine ended really really well. As we speak I'm doing better than the father of my two kids. I shut the doors drastically and it was apparently for the better. I do secretly wish that the mpango wa kando's would see this story. My ex is still out hunting for the next victim. My girls are now teenagers and really it had to be as it is. God has been faithful for the last 9 years and he keeps proving his presence 🙏

    • @josephinekamau2521
      @josephinekamau2521 Před 3 lety +9

      This is me too I moved out of him now 6 yrs happily single with my child

  • @empresssandy9565
    @empresssandy9565 Před 3 lety +653

    Aaaaaah watu wa tuko hmjawi npea like jameni mm bwana ya mtu ziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

    • @Tuko
      @Tuko  Před 3 lety +22

      Ndio hio like kamum:)

    • @daphinnasike4244
      @daphinnasike4244 Před 3 lety +5

      Lny loves the name kamum🥰

    • @nellykatrina7901
      @nellykatrina7901 Před 3 lety +6

      Likes hupelekwa wapi?

    • @vick7186
      @vick7186 Před 3 lety +2

      I hope hizi likes zenye umepewa zitakulipia rent this month.

    • @deniswafula3847
      @deniswafula3847 Před 3 lety

      Not big issue having aside chick as long as you both know it

  • @Edie254
    @Edie254 Před 3 lety +22

    "Meeting a married man is very hard, you can't meet a married man anyhow" this statement only should open our ears.... Faith i love your courage, you are going far... Cheers to Tuko talks

  • @nellywairimu8085
    @nellywairimu8085 Před 3 lety +34

    I felt that part when she said her dad paid her fee.I let my parents down and they still had my back 💯.God bless all parents.🤗

  • @madidis9269
    @madidis9269 Před 3 lety +278

    my husband left me na madharau,,the pain I felt I will never let my fellow woman feel the same,,for me I let God hundle my case,the kids are growing up without their dad yet he is alive

    • @mamaboys1047
      @mamaboys1047 Před 3 lety +8

      My story too I let God handle mycase

    • @reginadavid4454
      @reginadavid4454 Před 3 lety +5

      Be strong 💪🏽

    • @euniceodera9484
      @euniceodera9484 Před 3 lety +22

      Can't judge you, I am also going through the same. I left it for God to handle, I love how my life is unfolding now. The key is to depend on God.

    • @phaniceaudi1116
      @phaniceaudi1116 Před 3 lety +5

      Going through the same

    • @rosestasang3396
      @rosestasang3396 Před 3 lety +10

      Same case here niliachia mungu..I see him every day but hata support ya mtoi hakuna

  • @tindykoome2627
    @tindykoome2627 Před 3 lety +113

    You are free faith.
    No more tears.
    Happy for you.
    God bless you.

  • @tamica962
    @tamica962 Před 3 lety +22

    It’s okay Not to be okay . Being vulnerable and telling your truth and owning it is courageous. She apologized and healed from her past. That’s one step to greatness. Thank you Tuko talks . This hit hard.

  • @g00.41
    @g00.41 Před 3 lety +34

    Am an old man, a Kenyan living outside Kenya. I have taken my time to listen to u young lady & thank u for your coursge & speaking out. I have studied spirituality (Metaphysical/Mind Sciences) & in short, this is about the human condition. I wish to tell u this. Everything happens for a reason & we, as human being we do nothing or we do not plan to do anything. Like what u have gone or going through. Everything happening is live doing it. Live living through us & doing whatever it's doing for it's own reasons. As humans it's later we connect dots backwards to find meaning. Like u, one day looking back u will come to connect dots & is when u will see how God prepared u through what u have gone through so that he can use u in mighty way. Never give in to guilty. Forgive yourself completely. Already, u ar a very strong woman. Pls, surrender & let God use u.
    Lynn & your team, thank u for what u ar doing.

    • @shirunjuguna9186
      @shirunjuguna9186 Před 3 lety

      09)8łp

    • @raeloka7642
      @raeloka7642 Před 3 lety

      Well Said,God has been preparing her for something bigger
      And also whatever Satan meant for Evil God turns it to his Glory

  • @linamos7685
    @linamos7685 Před 3 lety +325

    Am forty years and single, I have never tried coming near any married man because this kind of stories help me keep my focus, may God hold your hands sister.

    • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
      @user-wr9fn4ny4i Před 3 lety +8

      God's time is the best my dear.

    • @user-hd5jo5uj8t
      @user-hd5jo5uj8t Před 3 lety +11

      Am also single dear tuko wengi and am waiting for God's time since its the best time

    • @naomymose1866
      @naomymose1866 Před 3 lety +3

      Same case here but am working out country, God give up one thing then the lest,

    • @gladyswachira466
      @gladyswachira466 Před 3 lety +2

      Nice keep holding up.👍

    • @amasyamasy2738
      @amasyamasy2738 Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly good lesson someone marriage no gone zone so far need a single man

  • @kingsolomon0
    @kingsolomon0 Před 3 lety +302

    Even if your sins are as red as Scarlet they shall be as white as snow .

  • @stellanagita5644
    @stellanagita5644 Před 3 lety +55

    What u should be saying is that married men should stick to their wives and stop having relationships outside. The pressure should be put on the man. He is the problem.

    • @lkem1310
      @lkem1310 Před 3 lety +3

      I totally don't blame this lady but the man

    • @propagate7791
      @propagate7791 Před 3 lety +16

      Your statement is excusing the decision made by the willing woman, and that’s a wrong message to be sending to women courting married men. The pressure is on both; accountability should be with both parties. A woman knowing a man is married should not get involved... just as a husband should honor his wife. A better statement is “married men be faithful to you wife... and women stay away from married men”...

    • @CynthiaMata.
      @CynthiaMata. Před 3 lety +2

      @@propagate7791 you said it well

    • @Julie-lr6ji
      @Julie-lr6ji Před 3 lety +4

      Ladies must not say yes to a married man.Its "we" who have the power and that's why Eve's name is always all over and not Adam.

    • @animeti6694
      @animeti6694 Před 3 lety +3

      😂she clearly knew he was a married man and she continued with it she believed the stupid storyline of the narcissistic man.. I wish she told the wife about the man

  • @jnjerinduati
    @jnjerinduati Před 3 lety +24

    This is a very wise and bright girl. Then enemy knows it and wanted to mess her life. But God has saved her. Your destiny is blessed Ndunda!

    • @alexyegon2381
      @alexyegon2381 Před 3 lety

      She's going to do it again, how is she wise and bright dating a married man? She's absolutely dumb.

    • @jnjerinduati
      @jnjerinduati Před 3 lety +1

      @@alexyegon2381 She will not. You Can see the sincerity and repentance... No one us perfect. She's learnt her lesson.

  • @catherinewambui4595
    @catherinewambui4595 Před 3 lety +188

    Faith you are the most sincere gal l have ever seen.admitting your mistakes and asking for forgiveness is not for weak and timid.. you are such a strong gal.God will definitely give you your husband.Bravo gal.lam really proud of you for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

    • @monicahmwkali1209
      @monicahmwkali1209 Před 3 lety +2

      True

    • @favournganga4258
      @favournganga4258 Před 3 lety +5

      True,he who finds a wife finds a good thing and finds favour before God and man,my daughter, your own husband will find you.Young girls,this isn't love to you it's infatuation,to him it's lust and he wants sex from you.i have been married for the last 32 years,take it from me.

    • @jeniffermakau
      @jeniffermakau Před 3 lety

      Catherine tuko hapa pamoja. Good to see you here dear.

    • @christinewamaitha3972
      @christinewamaitha3972 Před 3 lety +1

      Very true, i salute her

    • @marykafietrasha4532
      @marykafietrasha4532 Před 3 lety

      @CATHERINE WAMBUI,I remember watching your story,I cried with you,I support your point these gal am sure she has saved alot of marriages out side there ad challenges side chic

  • @jacklineelias4492
    @jacklineelias4492 Před 3 lety +107

    Now i understand why benjamin zulu gets so offended when talking about under 25...gal you gorgeous and you are going places and the man doesn,t even deserve the wife that he has

    • @catherinenjoki2636
      @catherinenjoki2636 Před 3 lety +3

      I know...right....all under 25's needs to listen to him...

    • @ottykabasela4588
      @ottykabasela4588 Před 3 lety +2

      Under 25 issa no go zone...let them enjoy first life

    • @debbiethekenyan3274
      @debbiethekenyan3274 Před 3 lety +4

      Oooh Benjamin and his wisdom.God bless him.he is changing lives.

    • @annmwongeli2486
      @annmwongeli2486 Před 3 lety +3

      Zulu should have been part of this interview waar wangeona motto.

    • @ANNE_CHOSEN1
      @ANNE_CHOSEN1 Před 3 lety +4

      Zuluholics pre25

  • @tabshopehubchannel9884
    @tabshopehubchannel9884 Před 3 lety +72

    She is so much composed and strong. She has learnt her mistakes early enough and I applaud her! I love you gal! Dust off , walk with your shoulders high because you have been forgiven dear! One good thing our dear father does not keep any grudges and he loves it when we confess our sins!!!
    So proud of you gal !!!!

    • @miriamschiro8585
      @miriamschiro8585 Před 3 lety

      But sum1 that knows about her said she went back with the married man.

    • @eunicenjari3575
      @eunicenjari3575 Před 2 lety

      Strong gal here! Let us not condemn Faith. Sad, how we always see the bad side of women and the said married men walk like Angel's out there. You'll get where God intended you to be, keep the faith, Faith!

  • @NyabyizaJudith
    @NyabyizaJudith Před 3 lety +86

    HER FRIEND GOT ME IN TEARS..... WE ALL NEED FRIENDS LIKE HER!!!

  • @rowiekays338
    @rowiekays338 Před 3 lety +117

    This lady is what the younger generation needs, so bold, admissible to her own mistakes and using those mistakes as a lesson. Bravo my dear. I pray more younger girls will pay attention and stop dating married guys they will only destroy you and move on👏👏💖💖

  • @blessed8299
    @blessed8299 Před 3 lety +59

    She's too young to handle those heartbrakes at 23 i was so innocent

  • @dallenwaamber3420
    @dallenwaamber3420 Před 3 lety +28

    This is strong and loving girl I have ever seen, coz other side chicks doesn't have regrets of breaking other's marriages

    • @storeplace4097
      @storeplace4097 Před 2 lety

      Understand the moment the guy who should say no am married akianza kukatiana mwenyewe, HE has broken his marriage and also ukiona, they choose the young ones mtu wa 20 to 23 alafu they lie to them bora to twenties.. So ata mkishinda kublame girls mjue some even lie to them so badly and break their hearts and badae wanarealise ameoa wanatoka polepole but itarudia their kids because these girls are human. Few go knowingly some get stuck juu ya washafall but you know, its on the man ultimately to be faithful juu utablame wangapi when ni yeye tu na izo tabia talking so badlly about wife.
      So as much as some dont care, ujue uyo mtu ndio amebreak hana maana

  • @jacintamusyoka1478
    @jacintamusyoka1478 Před 3 lety +21

    It's very painful to lose your husband to another woman. I remember when I left my husband's house I was packing while crying with a two year old kid I went through alot with my baby but I thank God because he's always faithful.

  • @_mulayi5966
    @_mulayi5966 Před 3 lety +106

    She has a pure spirit. The Bible says a broken and contrite spirit he will not turn away. God will plead her case.
    I wish her all the best!

  • @nancykymm542
    @nancykymm542 Před 3 lety +34

    I was once in this situation 😥😥being desparate in life but i think mine was worse but i just pray to God that one day i will have that strength to come out and share 😥😥😥

  • @laurynnakitare4025
    @laurynnakitare4025 Před 3 lety +13

    Having grown up in a polygamous family,I saw my mom suffer In the hands of another woman,till date I can never even smile or exchange pleasantries with a married man,once I saved this guy's marriage and to date he has never understood how a girl will refuse to date a man and help him fix his marriage,I told him he won't understand.

  • @euniemruka484
    @euniemruka484 Před 3 lety +24

    This lady is smart and very courageous. I love her

  • @teckie__songsofworship6680
    @teckie__songsofworship6680 Před 3 lety +169

    Anyone reading comments while watching🙋🙊...Tuko thanks for the great video.....The bible says only death should separate couples but nowadays the World is horrible💔

    • @elvinaduda4657
      @elvinaduda4657 Před 3 lety +1

      Death and adultery

    • @cherylmartin9031
      @cherylmartin9031 Před 3 lety +1

      How I hate girls like her....the pain of being cheated on is horrible.. the pain.....marriage will NEVER be the same. I hate homewreckers.....I hope your husband falls in " love" with another woman when youget married

    • @beatricegakui2914
      @beatricegakui2914 Před 3 lety +1

      Mine left me with 4 kids and went to live with his mpango wa Kando,our first born daughter was sitting for her kcpe this year,and he spent all the money,on that woman,I don't know s how she will join form one.

    • @Wakinyua
      @Wakinyua Před 3 lety

      @@beatricegakui2914 trust in God.

    • @willhector9478
      @willhector9478 Před 3 lety

      @@beatricegakui2914 Pray and fast the Lord will lift up a standard against the enemy, I pray for your family 🤗

  • @emilyobiri1716
    @emilyobiri1716 Před 3 lety +53

    This was about to happen to me but i thank God for the wisdom.19 year ago after completing my high school one of person so close to me and that i trusted so much was trying to push me into getting into a relationship with a husband of her freind because she thought i was in need of going to college and thought this maried man was my answer.i went on my knees and told God if it is your plan for me to go to college let it pass but not through me destroying someones mariage in the name of going to college.freinds believe me my God answered my prayers and i went to a prestigious college with God provision.

  • @rosenayiga7735
    @rosenayiga7735 Před 3 lety +11

    She is so much in pain we pray the healing hand of God be upon her and thanks for the friend Caro 😍😍😍😍Sending love and hugs

  • @ceciliawairimu4727
    @ceciliawairimu4727 Před 3 lety +5

    Am in tears, thank you for coming, for owning up your mistakes. Showers of blessings gal

  • @susanmwende11
    @susanmwende11 Před 3 lety +75

    I have been side chick to several guys ... knowingly
    But when I realized that I was proclaiming the spirit of being second..I cursed it
    I prayed against it and God blessed me a Great man🙏🙏

  • @trizawanyama1031
    @trizawanyama1031 Před 3 lety +46

    My mother put the fear of God in me concerning extra-marital affairs with the married men. I was tempted when I was in campus, but I remembered the beatings my mom promised me and I said to myself it's not worth it. Many times I found myself almost dating married men. Hawa wababa are very crafty. But I thank God I always left before I got pulled in. It's always the woman who is blamed and not the grown up, who is the married man. You are very strong faith. God loves you very much. I am so proud of you for sharing your story.

  • @jebetnaomi6723
    @jebetnaomi6723 Před 3 lety +17

    I was once cheating with married man that he is single wacha nikutane n yy nishike simu nikapata Dem ako n mimba I ran for my life I thank God for saving me

  • @zuhurakinyanjui7731
    @zuhurakinyanjui7731 Před 3 lety +18

    These are the stories we need to hear. All is well Faith. God is with you.

  • @hildanjagi6396
    @hildanjagi6396 Před 3 lety +122

    Society forget the man is equally responsible. Gal God bless you

    • @claireturyamuhaki2105
      @claireturyamuhaki2105 Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you,by the way he is more responsible

    • @clairekimono5083
      @clairekimono5083 Před 3 lety +7

      Actually if its percentage he is 90% at fault. Hes older and married and doesnt know that he is supposed to be loyal to his wife.
      I feel bad that society judges women more

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes the man is at fault.

    • @mercykagendi6806
      @mercykagendi6806 Před 3 lety +2

      He is to blame totally. They are lying about their status.

    • @jemmyshiko3527
      @jemmyshiko3527 Před 3 lety

      Woow she very courageous and she is able to admit her mistake and correct her mistake and save her family and her life.

  • @sanchezfaust5983
    @sanchezfaust5983 Před 3 lety +53

    She has the sweetest most honest spirit I have ever seen

  • @edwardnjuguna8601
    @edwardnjuguna8601 Před 3 lety +17

    I pray for young ladies chukuweni chali wadogo muanze maisha ata kama hatuna kakitu bwana, tushikeni mikono and God will bless you always.

    • @ellenpaul678
      @ellenpaul678 Před 3 lety +10

      The problem is when you get to have the money, you go after the young ones leaving the one who looked at you and accepted you when you yourself did not have a coin. The problem starts from there.

    • @Avril_jackie5840
      @Avril_jackie5840 Před 3 lety

      Ellen Paul😂😂😂😂

    • @ellygaytaow3369
      @ellygaytaow3369 Před 3 lety

      @@ellenpaul678 exactly...we really want to build each other from scratch but wenye unabuild nao ni bure kabisa.

  • @cycywanyeki
    @cycywanyeki Před 3 lety +33

    The root problem is these married men that can't be faithful to their wives......why commit to someone if you can't stick by your vows?....come out openly to your wife if you want a second wife instead of hurting her.......

    • @tracytiffany747
      @tracytiffany747 Před 3 lety +5

      Exactly,they are to be blamed bt the society has decided to blame the girl child...it's a shame..stick to your vows and respect your marriage.

    • @thunziemafu4655
      @thunziemafu4655 Před 3 lety +3

      True. Its him who vowed to be faithful. And its also him who went and chased that girl.

    • @Lucy-ck9mn
      @Lucy-ck9mn Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly

    • @katusaberosette4301
      @katusaberosette4301 Před 2 lety +1

      God will bless u young girl,n please take heart.God will bless u

  • @mainamaish2328
    @mainamaish2328 Před 3 lety +94

    Yani nipewe like nimesoma all comments na sijaona mwanaume ata moja uku sai wawezi ongea🤣🤣🤣.......

  • @missmugoh4862
    @missmugoh4862 Před 3 lety +60

    Am a married woman but also married men should manner up and keep off single ladies cause there also being disrespectful to their wives

    • @chegemaureen9291
      @chegemaureen9291 Před 3 lety +5

      They should zip up🤮🤮🤮men men that why they die and leave us 🤣

    • @marthamuchuki6944
      @marthamuchuki6944 Před 3 lety +4

      They should change their behaviors too love is two way traffic we shd not blame the girls only

    • @missmugoh4862
      @missmugoh4862 Před 3 lety +1

      @@marthamuchuki6944 very true if we keep on blaming girls only these men will never know that they are doing wrong that's why they keep on repeating this thing called cheating every day

    • @phodzieretabale2478
      @phodzieretabale2478 Před 3 lety

      Sure

  • @preciousmwicigi7851
    @preciousmwicigi7851 Před 3 lety +20

    This has taught me a lot ..bet the girl was heavenly sent to me... am in the same situation dating a married man but you've made me realize alot of things... thanks saana

  • @malihaa5158
    @malihaa5158 Před 3 lety +9

    Your courage is on another level my dear sister, for a man to stand and admitt he has error on national television... it's not an easy task. May God bless you dear.

  • @zipporahwangui7581
    @zipporahwangui7581 Před 3 lety +144

    The heart break of dating a married or a divorced person 💔 plus kukupotezea miaka is unbearable.

    • @jebetrency5665
      @jebetrency5665 Před 3 lety +2

      😭😭😭 especially divorcees it's hell young girls 😭😭 only God knows

    • @shiruwangai8022
      @shiruwangai8022 Před 3 lety +1

      Totally agree

    • @ALI_ROBERT58
      @ALI_ROBERT58 Před 3 lety +1

      Mjuolz ndio alipenda sana

    • @lucymutua9525
      @lucymutua9525 Před 3 lety +4

      Elaborate abt the divorcees plz. One is already on my neck😥

    • @sarahkahare5588
      @sarahkahare5588 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lucymutua9525 yes nothing wrong with divorcee they are free

  • @bigtalker6181
    @bigtalker6181 Před 3 lety +113

    Nimempenda Faith aky ...am not married but this the character I will love marry ..lord bless me with one who has this kind of strength

    • @lyndenice6401
      @lyndenice6401 Před 3 lety +2

      Look for her broo

    • @janomaxofficial
      @janomaxofficial Před 3 lety +2

      She is not married too

    • @zhoorali8000
      @zhoorali8000 Před 3 lety +6

      she is single ambia Lynn acheze kama yy 😊😊😊😊 good luck

    • @bigtalker6181
      @bigtalker6181 Před 3 lety +1

      @@zhoorali8000 😋👍👍

    • @lyndenice6401
      @lyndenice6401 Před 3 lety +3

      @@zhoorali8000 hahahah exactly my point u never no what God had install for them

  • @maryndirangu2225
    @maryndirangu2225 Před 3 lety +7

    Caro, I have no words worth your selfless act. You are already blessed.

  • @malihaa5158
    @malihaa5158 Před 3 lety +9

    This Caro lady she such a positive vibe...be blessed. Lynn our girl thank you for this show, umetusaidia 🙏🏻

  • @brendamkangombekilimo5278
    @brendamkangombekilimo5278 Před 3 lety +136

    The man should also be held accountable. He knew he was married.

    • @atienoolangfamily3010
      @atienoolangfamily3010 Před 3 lety +8

      And they go in seducing woman knowing very well what they are doing

    • @rahmageldo4399
      @rahmageldo4399 Před 3 lety +13

      Well said..I Always blame married men not actually the woman,a woman can seduce a man but cannot take a man from another woman.He knows very well that's he is married why allow another woman in his life,that means he doesn't respect his wife and her position too.

    • @ruthmaina8919
      @ruthmaina8919 Před 3 lety +2

      It's not about the man!!!its about the lady who recognized her mistake and confessed!!!

    • @brendamkangombekilimo5278
      @brendamkangombekilimo5278 Před 3 lety +10

      @@ruthmaina8919
      Yes, she confessed and that's okay, but hakuforce huyo mwanaume into the relationship. The man was a willing participant as well. That's what I'm saying. Huyo mwanaume si alijua ako na bibi akienda kukatia Faith?

    • @marthamuchuki6944
      @marthamuchuki6944 Před 3 lety +4

      Sure bcoz the world always judge the woman 'quotes from wamuratha'

  • @khadijahnjeri.9905
    @khadijahnjeri.9905 Před 3 lety +55

    I lived with a married man without knowing he was married only for me to find out later when the relationship was too deep..lam still trying to heal though it's not easy.May God see us through this heartbreak.

    • @stepmum2451
      @stepmum2451 Před 3 lety

      pole...

    • @adyahunnie3045
      @adyahunnie3045 Před 3 lety +5

      Sorry dear....my current situation 😭 I pray to overcome all this drama

    • @PPOJ
      @PPOJ Před 3 lety +1

      Forgive your self first don't blame you .stop thinking about it pray God to help you.

    • @binti_jannet
      @binti_jannet Před 3 lety +2

      Don't worry. Everyone has a past, may God heal you and help you overcome them all.🙏

    • @zainabaminah4176
      @zainabaminah4176 Před 3 lety +1

      @@adyahunnie3045 same

  • @yeningai
    @yeningai Před 3 lety +3

    You're my age and you've helped me. A sister from across the world. I haven't done anything yet but the thoughts have come. Thankyou so much. God bless you.

  • @Dee-or3vp
    @Dee-or3vp Před 3 lety +12

    Fai you got this ,you will heal in Jesus name and God has another chance for you, and Lyn for advising her as a daughter 💜

  • @zainabinti5170
    @zainabinti5170 Před 3 lety +119

    There is a married man who even called me evil because I refused to date him. He cried like a baby.😥. All they want it's sex because wifey is too tired obviously she looks after the entire household.

  • @estherkingola8325
    @estherkingola8325 Před 3 lety +53

    That word tuokoleane hit me so hard...sobs...today was supposed to be my wedding date..my ex slipped from our ex relationship to another lady..I tried to talk to the lady so as "tuokoleane" but wapi .....I was in depression for some good days..but I thank God Himself now I can write here taking my imaginary vows in my wedding....what was not meant for you will never be yours .....warembo tuokoleane....though men are not stolen they go...

  • @John.Mwaura
    @John.Mwaura Před 3 lety +5

    I have decided to donate my two eyes and ears after watching this emotional and inspiring video . Now I can leave this planet very happily and peacefully. Thank you so much for uploading such an inspiring and heart wrenching video.
    Huge respect to you 🙏🙏

  • @marynjeri522
    @marynjeri522 Před 3 lety +11

    Faith is too mature for her age! So proud of you!

  • @ednahmomanyi7413
    @ednahmomanyi7413 Před 3 lety +57

    My ex husband did this to me up to an extent that he broke my leg and I went for surgery..... tears are rolling down but with God everything is possible

    • @jackiemish4082
      @jackiemish4082 Před 3 lety +2

      Sorry dear 😭😭

    • @kimsamespa8490
      @kimsamespa8490 Před 3 lety +2

      😭😭😭😭

    • @therealist9853
      @therealist9853 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm so sorry dear. I'm glad he is now an Ex.

    • @annahnzisa3502
      @annahnzisa3502 Před 3 lety +4

      Don't worry that's the past.God has a great future for you dear .He will restore what you have lost ,wishing u more gratitude and God's blessings.

    • @MRSMALEL
      @MRSMALEL Před 3 lety +1

      Pole Ednah.They always pay in the end.

  • @moraasheila6963
    @moraasheila6963 Před 3 lety +132

    The day wives will start holding their husbands accountable maybe they'll be more at peace. Utapigia wanawake wangapi kuwaambia waachane na bwanako. He's the one going after them and in some cases the ladies don't even know.

  • @tintinlove7405
    @tintinlove7405 Před 3 lety +4

    So much courage from this young lady.the message was strong and straightforward. Thank you Lynn you are wonderful.thank to her friend as well,who is a shoulder to cry on.

  • @paulinemmirembo8060
    @paulinemmirembo8060 Před 3 lety +10

    I just love this young lady for 1.Owning the mistakes and 2. Coming out publicly to speak about it. This is a total repentance am proud of you gal.

  • @lucilleparker8827
    @lucilleparker8827 Před 3 lety +75

    Omg she is such a courageous young woman and she has owned up to her past mistake. She just need to heal! Very proud of you girl 👧 👏 ❤

  • @natasha-juliet8525
    @natasha-juliet8525 Před 3 lety +64

    The fact that you saw your mistakes in what you did,sis that's a good thing...and we re learning from your mistakes😍😍

  • @yvonnenyamari3235
    @yvonnenyamari3235 Před 3 lety +14

    I literally cried 😭
    God has forgiven you already 🙏

  • @rossitahwayua9171
    @rossitahwayua9171 Před 3 lety +6

    Caro God is watching you....Your reward is greater than u will ever imagine. God bless

  • @onejikospeaks
    @onejikospeaks Před 3 lety +78

    Who else is cutting onions? I really admire her sincerity and God has already forgiven her. When we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us. Now go and live your best life Faith!

  • @shirokamau2058
    @shirokamau2058 Před 3 lety +58

    Faith you've done the right thing. Lynn Ngugi you are such an amazing person. unaongeanga with so much grace. God akubless kabisa

    • @cannywanja1364
      @cannywanja1364 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for coming out gal...u have helped many

  • @annngugi70
    @annngugi70 Před 3 lety +7

    I really got emotional aki i hope every woman dating a married man can watch and listen to this and end adultery..

  • @janengari827
    @janengari827 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you Faith for coming out and pouring yourself. This is part of your healing process. I thank God for Carol for holding your hand at a time like this. Pursue on your studies and when the right time comes God will give you the right partner. Make friends with your parents and consult them all the time. They have been praying for you. God bless and heal you.

  • @judyrosh8773
    @judyrosh8773 Před 3 lety +63

    Wapi likes za beshte wa Faith,, nakupenda bure sweetie

  • @jumanatv417
    @jumanatv417 Před 3 lety +42

    I have been there and I got nothing but pain and heartbreaks... I got mine now and can't wish anyone to take him as I was doing before to others, and those girls who are still there and believing in them I wish they wake up from that deep sleep... Thanks 🙏

    • @tulennyaga1966
      @tulennyaga1966 Před 3 lety +3

      I have never destroyed any marriage, but mine has always been destroyed😭😭😭😭😭

    • @jenipherachieng9837
      @jenipherachieng9837 Před 3 lety

      @@tulennyaga1966 exactly sometimes you are genuine but the hubby ni shetani tu

    • @lyciakavumbi7294
      @lyciakavumbi7294 Před 3 lety

      @Kayl kayl 🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @shadeikasurelyrepentancech7877
      @shadeikasurelyrepentancech7877 Před 3 lety

      @@tulennyaga1966 i wouldnt say d girls or ladies destroy your marriage as a woman i say its the damn man dem that wont stay faithful

  • @hannahngeru9691
    @hannahngeru9691 Před 3 lety +8

    This story is deep,you date one,two,three people who are all married. ( unknowingly for the two)It's not your fault girl.Pray hard.

  • @juliejoshua9880
    @juliejoshua9880 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks young gal, you will go far for creating awareness. From a mess to a message, pain into gain. You're a victor. God forgives n restores. You're a heroine. An ambassador telling other side chicks to respect the marriage institution.

  • @hillarysadika3314
    @hillarysadika3314 Před 3 lety +113

    As your high school teacher, l am very sad and it's very unfortunate you had to go through that ordeal, but I'm proud of your courage to come out and speak it out.

    • @janetnalianya8887
      @janetnalianya8887 Před 3 lety +2

      Waaa!!!!!! Unfortunately.

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 Před 3 lety +9

      Teach others as the new term begins.the church no longer does that

    • @levinarisper9703
      @levinarisper9703 Před 3 lety +4

      I pass the same situation like that but I thank God, today i am proud to say am independe woman 🙏

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi Před 3 lety +2

      Uzuri amewacha

    • @winniegithinji1984
      @winniegithinji1984 Před 3 lety +2

      Give other students examples

  • @makulaikuku6909
    @makulaikuku6909 Před 3 lety +140

    Wale wapenzi wa tuko toka tz like tujuane hapa toka enzi za vera

  • @christinembithe4664
    @christinembithe4664 Před 3 lety +15

    Am dating a married man by the na (baba faith)... Plz mama faith I have made up my mind.... Me and your husband is a NO... Story zake sitaki.. And one day nitakukol nikuombe msamaha

  • @elssynyambura2340
    @elssynyambura2340 Před 3 lety +11

    I was a victim too😪😪 i believe God will forgive me 😭

  • @evangotho5688
    @evangotho5688 Před 3 lety +27

    Faith is courageous and at her age has shared her story which many young girls are not willing to accept consequences of breaking marriages. I celebrate her brevity and pray that God may continue to uphold her.

  • @deega1234
    @deega1234 Před 3 lety +46

    I think most people have a phase of fantasizing what it's like to be with a married person. It might be just me, but the thought of dating someone married just irks me. Leftovers is what comes to mind. Baby, I want the whole meal.

    • @azamtn
      @azamtn Před 3 lety

      good luck

    • @aggreyogweno7305
      @aggreyogweno7305 Před 3 lety +1

      Heavy to bear.

    • @evawandera9478
      @evawandera9478 Před 3 lety +1

      Wanawake mutashinda hapo mukiweka hopes, thoughts zenu kwa wanaume whether married or not. The world of today has nothing like my husband my man etc in its menu

    • @ireneorina3560
      @ireneorina3560 Před 3 lety +2

      @@evawandera9478 humans may change but the truth remains hata uifiche bado ni ukweli even your heart knows that

    • @evebossmama1854
      @evebossmama1854 Před 3 lety

      That whole meal is also someone's ex hahahaha 😂😂 puh!!

  • @monicawangare7571
    @monicawangare7571 Před 3 lety +4

    Wooow I literally broke down and I can relate to this story its really nothing but the truth but once more no one is a saint thanks Lynn

  • @winnienyaga4512
    @winnienyaga4512 Před 3 lety +4

    I thank God for this sister,her destiny is great. When others seek justification and sympathy for-their evils,this great warrior is contritely admitting her faults and is dusting herself and warning other errant women out there. You are going far my sister.

  • @adelinehelga1858
    @adelinehelga1858 Před 3 lety +51

    It take's guts and courage to open up like these 😩siz thank you for the message na muachane na wababa kabisa so true 😎

  • @Jesus_girl65
    @Jesus_girl65 Před 3 lety +104

    You never destroyed your friendship with your friends because they were never were to begin with, God says, ' you weren't rejected, I hid your value from them because they were not assigned to your destiny.

  • @bethwarui9081
    @bethwarui9081 Před 3 lety +8

    This has brought Soo much pain, I remember my pain , ladies whether married or not wachaneni na mabwana za wenyewe😭😭😭😭😭 it is painful

  • @bridgetakunyili3118
    @bridgetakunyili3118 Před 3 lety +5

    I really love and appreciate the presenter. I'm glad Faith talked about this. Its really important. Its going on and people try to normalize it but I'm glad she revealed so much evils that can come from this issue.

  • @alyce9494
    @alyce9494 Před 3 lety +77

    As a married woman am not here to judge but to 👂👂am not idle either it's notification fault 😂😂. Watu wakupewa likes aki sio Leo wacheni hii story ya wapi likes.

    • @jaquellyneazangu7037
      @jaquellyneazangu7037 Před 3 lety +9

      I always hate that phrase of wapi likes, mi ndio wa Kwanza, sijui likes za who and who, if likes were selling for a prophit ingeeleweka, sometimes a story is so emotional it needs encouragement unakuta comments ni, nipeeni likes🙄🙄

    • @wacerahchege8
      @wacerahchege8 Před 3 lety

      @@jaquellyneazangu7037 I hate them too. Very boring 😎😏

  • @glorymtuy
    @glorymtuy Před 3 lety +65

    I prefer being single rather than be in relationships with someone's husband and expect one day I will be happy while he's wife facing such a heartbreaking time

  • @MuigaSNjoki02
    @MuigaSNjoki02 Před 3 lety +16

    I was once attacked by a side chick 😭💔 but aliwachwa pia sasa kuna mwingine .