How to Speak With Confidence - 10 Secrets to Speaking Confidently

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  • čas přidán 24. 10. 2019
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Komentáře • 758

  • @motivatedtann8178
    @motivatedtann8178 Před 3 lety +8

    For a native Chinese, you've delivered these pointers so fluently spoken English. It was excellent!

  • @explorerendeavour3009
    @explorerendeavour3009 Před 3 lety +564

    #1 Speaking is a skill
    #2 Make it about your audience
    #3 Visualize yourself as a
    confident speaker
    #4 Know your stuff
    #5 Learn how to tell story
    #6 Dress confidently
    #7 Practice makes permanent
    #8 Know your audience
    #9 Don't dwell on your mistakes
    #10 Change your physiology

    • @ofwcelinepinagpala2114
      @ofwcelinepinagpala2114 Před 3 lety +13

      thanks for the summary I screenshot.

    • @dnoray1
      @dnoray1 Před 3 lety +2

      Live this summary really helpful to me-:))

    • @beckabejuela6716
      @beckabejuela6716 Před 3 lety +2

      Great , I have been speaking for ten years just the way I can, its only now I learned from you formally. Thank you for this skill shared

    • @ooieng8238
      @ooieng8238 Před 3 lety

      P

    • @Radhal08
      @Radhal08 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much for the summary.

  • @LisaB_12204
    @LisaB_12204 Před 9 měsíci +9

    I am an English as a New Language teacher for the beginning class. I have no fear of speaking to my students only when my focus is completely on them and their needs. I've learned to stop confessing to them my errors and inadequacies. I appreciate hearing your testimonial about you growth with English. That's what I listen for. Thank you. Wow! You read to your mother! I was thinking of having my students read such stories. I did use my favorite children's book. I used it for pronunciation and vocabulary. I will bring it back this quarter. Thank you.

  • @feliciabazan783
    @feliciabazan783 Před 2 lety +8

    I will never fall asleep if I have a teacher like you. Thank you for imparting your thoughts. Bless you 🤗💕

  • @nadinedavid1501
    @nadinedavid1501 Před 2 lety +22

    You are truly an inspiration especially to a foreign person trying to learn a new language which is extremely difficult as an adult and when your alphabet is completely different. To sound native is very difficult to achieve but you aced it !!! But with inner confidence one can achieve almost anything !! 👏👏👏

  • @savageintheconcretejungle5891

    Stumbled when telling ppl not to use filler words but immediately recovered seamlessly. That’s theory and practical lumped in one. Brilliant

  • @fuifuiahkuoi3058
    @fuifuiahkuoi3058 Před 2 lety +3

    As an AAPI I really appreciate your videos on communication! Your wisdom allows me to see my potential in improving my knowledge & efforts in becoming better. Thank you Dr. Lee!

  • @edgarbanosa9074
    @edgarbanosa9074 Před 2 lety +6

    1. Practice makes permanent.
    2. Process makes perfect...,thank you very much...

  • @trangnguyen5293
    @trangnguyen5293 Před 3 lety +6

    A big thank you from me. My name is Trang. I'm living in Australia and studying English just one month ago. I came here in 2015 without how to speak English. I overcame a lot of obstacles until I could speak a bit of English, and I am continually learning, practising and understanding more in English. Thanks again for your helpful tips to build my confidence when I talk in English. You are an amazing

  • @TITOFROG1
    @TITOFROG1 Před rokem +5

    Thanks Dr. Grace. You are an awesome and giving person for helping all of us improve ourselves on so many and varied ways. Wish you nothing but the best and continued success.

  • @ivainezharris2279
    @ivainezharris2279 Před 2 lety +14

    These are such powerful and refreshing points for public speaking. Thank you Dr. Lee.

  • @monichu91
    @monichu91 Před 3 lety +17

    ❤️ Thank you so much, I am sending this link to my daughter who is struggling with speaking, talking and she was and still has this shyness of speaking out even at this age considering as an adult now. Your help will be immensely valuable. 🙏

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 3 lety +4

      How did it go? Was your daughter able to get some valuable takeaways from this video? Is she in a more confidence space now?

  • @debtfree7338
    @debtfree7338 Před 2 lety +3

    Oh my God. You have nailed it on the head for me. I have been making it about me and never comfortable with my delivery of my messages. Thank you.

  • @mayshu1925
    @mayshu1925 Před 3 lety +180

    As a Chinese who also speak English as a second language, I am amazed with your spoken English!

    • @bmak0526
      @bmak0526 Před 2 lety +4

      she is originally from Hong Kong, not China

    • @monicaestrada6284
      @monicaestrada6284 Před 2 lety +1

      That's beautiful and a lot of patience and understanding how difficult many other different languages can be in China and Hong Kong

    • @MrLuhuazhao
      @MrLuhuazhao Před rokem +1

      @@bmak0526 I am very sure she is chinese.

    • @MrLuhuazhao
      @MrLuhuazhao Před rokem

      @@monicaestrada6284 you don’t think people in hong kong speak Chinese?

    • @motiveperson143
      @motiveperson143 Před 11 měsíci

      Same English is my second language and this year I am practicing on how to be confident speaker

  • @rashidaliosa8208
    @rashidaliosa8208 Před 2 lety +19

    A good teacher is one who teaches well, a great teacher is one who inspires- Dr.Grace Lee, I admire your unique and inspiring presentation.Your great.

  • @TheFredrico77
    @TheFredrico77 Před 2 lety +11

    I love the transcripts...it helps with memory. Listening and reading at the same time is fantastic for remembering the key points. Thanks Dr Grace 🙏🏽 😘

  • @rayhclee
    @rayhclee Před 2 lety +3

    Dr Lee, thanks a lot. You video is invaluable too many people and will a long way. I myself have been going through the same tough journey of learning to speak better. Good on you.

  • @barrysmith8193
    @barrysmith8193 Před rokem +3

    I’m retired from a full career of owning a design/build company. At 75 years old I’m committed to myself and my wife to not going down the “old people mindset” road. I’ve surrounded myself with a team of intelligent knowledgeable individuals that supports my goal and plan. Dr. Grace Lee is on my team daily to bring to me fresh ideas and current world wise thoughts. She is a must see for any age and any point in life.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před rokem

      I appreciate your kind words and authentic share. Grateful for your support, Barry!

  • @GaudzRamirez
    @GaudzRamirez Před 3 lety +6

    As I watched your video, I felt as though I was attending a seminar on public speaking. Thanks!

  • @swatipadhye2085
    @swatipadhye2085 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Dr. Grace, you are just like your name...Graceful...I stumbled upon your video just now after listening to it, couldn't stop myself from hitting the like and subscribe button. Felt like I found a pot of gold! You are wonderful and engaging..thank you for sharing and stay blessed...

  • @aliyilmaz4045
    @aliyilmaz4045 Před 3 lety +7

    You are a great teacher, wonderful teacher. I am proud of being your student in spite of my old age.

  • @passion-basedlearning
    @passion-basedlearning Před 9 měsíci +1

    You are great, organized, and able to clearly explain this complex topic"Speaking up in public". Words are powerless to express my gratitude to you. I thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @myraville
    @myraville Před 3 lety +4

    I love the way you communicate. You're so good. 🙏❤

  • @trivjay08
    @trivjay08 Před 3 lety +10

    I can see this channel growing. Thanks for sharing these gems!!!!

  • @MegaDonaldification
    @MegaDonaldification Před rokem +1

    You have just changed my way of thinking this morning. I never the act of types of winning speech, statement or pitch including the dreaded "tell me about yourself" at an interview was about having the audience at heart in tamden with some "emotional word" to create a story that will be meaningful to the winning process. The first 3 minutes 16 seconds is the best moment of my life. I have an interview in an hour 30 minutes and I am going to incorporate that emotional feeling the audience have only to elevate the moment with my solution.
    Thank you very much. I have seen this pattern on CZcams but I wasn't able to capture the one word that made the difference which is the emotional word that expresses the feeling one may feel and requires someone to help them stay on the right path. This is were I come in with the required solution to save the day or start them from where they stopped.
    DR, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

  • @determineddespite
    @determineddespite Před 3 lety +5

    I am so glad I found this. I like to believe that I am a confident speaker. I will there, eventually.

  • @marjorierivera3135
    @marjorierivera3135 Před 3 lety +13

    Such an amazing speaker, the points you raised are very helpful to us. Loved the fluency and pronunciation. I am motivated to improve my stuff.

  • @dawnrobertson4982
    @dawnrobertson4982 Před 6 měsíci

    @DrGrace, I am so impressed by the work you did to learn English, and to master phonetics. You are an example that one can accomplish what s/he puts their mind to. Thank you for being an inspiration.

  • @janemugambi6825
    @janemugambi6825 Před 3 lety +6

    Great content there. Thank you. I especially love no.4,7 and 8, because the struggle with stage-fright is real.

  • @gabrielartillaga1194
    @gabrielartillaga1194 Před 3 lety +3

    Great stuff! Thanks.
    I'm a senior citizen watching from Puerto Princesa, Palawan, Philippines. GOD bless.

  • @user-lb9tl1qt6l
    @user-lb9tl1qt6l Před 2 lety +5

    You can not imagine how helpful are your tips for me!! Thank you so much Dr Lee. You are so amazing! Wow! ❤️

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 2 lety +1

      You are very welcome! Glad to have you here on my channel.

  • @LongNguyen-ij1hx
    @LongNguyen-ij1hx Před 2 lety +1

    You are so wonderfully confident in speaking. You are a great inspiration! Thank you very much for sharing your valuable secrets to speakinging confidently.

  • @gaddielboe4064
    @gaddielboe4064 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow indeed being confident of yourself matters a lot. so great and motivational

  • @cksammi
    @cksammi Před rokem +2

    Hi Dr Grace, love your video here. I've always had issues doing any presentation because I'm also Chinese American but wasn't born in the US so I have a natural fear of public speaking. I'm a grown man middle age now and came here when I was 10 but I never did learn the English properly so I still make grammatical mistakes when I speak now and then, that's probably why I have a fear of speaking unless it's scripted and I can read then it's a bit easier but still get nervous. I do think that's my weakness and need to improve because of my career in sales. One thing I have learned is that is to speak slowly and also to take a breath in between sentences but of course this may make the audience fall asleep but at least I don't make too many blunders. Thanks again.

  • @ruckus181
    @ruckus181 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks Grace! Appreciate the insights :) And I always get stage fright

  • @edwardwong654
    @edwardwong654 Před 3 lety +4

    This is so good that I want to rewatch it again. And Bethesda is so grand although I remembered it as being decrepit and dangerous in the 70's when I was a little kid. Great complement to the usual Vancouver waterfront. My two favoruite running venues, Central and Stanley Parks. Cantonese is also my first language although I was born in Manhattan, but English is my de facto language. Great video and thanks.

  • @srherlina3751
    @srherlina3751 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for showing me such things how to be a confident person because when l start to speak in public sometimes l am nervouse and it makes me to loose the topic that l already prepare.

  • @messue428
    @messue428 Před 3 lety +4

    This was incredibly inspiring and helpful. Thank you.

  • @fadhilikisusange8650
    @fadhilikisusange8650 Před 8 měsíci

    I just found a new learning platform. Dr. grace you're so amazing for the incredible lessons.

  • @karinarondon5184
    @karinarondon5184 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you so much! Very helpful tips! Loved your presentation!

  • @DeliciaTrini
    @DeliciaTrini Před 3 lety +5

    Excellent advice! Thank you so much!

  • @bobbytryte2927
    @bobbytryte2927 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you, this is just what I need right now...Bless you

  • @anniehe7797
    @anniehe7797 Před rokem +1

    You are awesome Dr. Lee. I run every morning listening to your video. Learned so much and encouraged by you to overcome accent, stage frightening and build more confidence!

  • @sharonodonnell2786
    @sharonodonnell2786 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you, appreciate your grace, Dr. Grace. Have taken notes - much good content in this video. I have felt insecure talking in front of group #2 step may help this. Also, appreciate your articulate English & voice.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 3 lety +2

      Wonderful to hear that my video is helping you. Keep up updated on your progress!

  • @thomaskipkemboi2023
    @thomaskipkemboi2023 Před 2 lety +4

    This is beautiful. 10 strong and healthy points. Thank you

  • @korimlijanice9843
    @korimlijanice9843 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks coach, for sharing your experience how to improve speech this can help me to communicate with people.

  • @akinbobolaoluwatobiloba3097

    Your guides are quite simplified and educative.

  • @biubiu_xiner
    @biubiu_xiner Před 4 lety +58

    Thanks for the tips! I was not very confident almost in my whole life, but I recently decided to face my weakness, you are awesome Dr. Lee!

  • @rosamiagarnace6596
    @rosamiagarnace6596 Před 2 lety +1

    Blessings to you... You're so authentic...generous🥰to share ur gift💐

  • @monicaestrada6284
    @monicaestrada6284 Před 2 lety +3

    I feel it will be amazing and everyone will learn from each other

  • @elaineyaz6451
    @elaineyaz6451 Před 3 lety +4

    This is what I’ve been looking for. Public speaking is my weakness that I need to develop.

  • @shareewilliams6967
    @shareewilliams6967 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Dr. Grace Lee for this helpfu linformation and for sharing your gift with us. Blessings to you and your family

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your thoughtful message. Blessings to you too!

  • @micahdooley2729
    @micahdooley2729 Před rokem +1

    Great advice, Dr. Lee. You are an amazing person, and it is hard to believe that English is your second language. Thank you. 🙏

  • @abidemimustapha4515
    @abidemimustapha4515 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm not a stage fright because I don't look at the audience's eyes directly, I look straight to their hair, with this I don't have contact with their eyes to freek me out😀 It works like magic💥

  • @chillwithmari
    @chillwithmari Před 3 lety

    Thanks for this Dr Grace!!! U speak very well!!

  • @leeville2466
    @leeville2466 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much..my struggle I have to overcome...thanks for helpful tips

  • @sanatkumarghosh5123
    @sanatkumarghosh5123 Před 2 lety +2

    Two thing's are prime importance in public speaking,firstly ,you have a messege to deliver and secondly that you have a faith on the audience that your self-esteem will ultimately transform them. In the present speeches we have come accross most of it.

  • @WisdomSeries
    @WisdomSeries Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this Dr. Grace!

  • @natasharees8219
    @natasharees8219 Před 3 lety +3

    I have stage fright when I speak infront of persons like in meeting When I dance and teach dance, it is different, am so confident. Thank you for these stages. Will work on it

  • @sweetypatnett6123
    @sweetypatnett6123 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks, it was very informative. I had to overcome stage fright by pretending i was the only one there. Thanks for the tips! I still have a long way to go. 😊🙏😊

  • @leenszy3184
    @leenszy3184 Před 2 lety

    Yes! I have stage fright. I am thankful for this video.

  • @andypham218
    @andypham218 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your genuine and informative video.

  • @TaraGhimite
    @TaraGhimite Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you Dr Grace Lee

  • @lennymartins9231
    @lennymartins9231 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you. After listening to all the 10 points it has definitely given me courage and confidence.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 3 lety

      Awesome and glad to hear! You got this!

  • @ChaoItsNancy
    @ChaoItsNancy Před 3 lety +2

    love this grace!

  • @maxwellchristy8609
    @maxwellchristy8609 Před 3 lety

    Thank you very much...so informative..❤️

  • @wingsofinspiration
    @wingsofinspiration Před 3 lety +2

    Wow thats incredible👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽..Thank you so much for sharing this..I need it.

  • @jamirahnakandi2374
    @jamirahnakandi2374 Před 2 lety

    Am really changed with just the watch of this video........tnx so much for the tips.

  • @daklakdaily3671
    @daklakdaily3671 Před 3 lety +1

    What the best video ! Thank you for sharing with us . Have a blessed year there👍🔔🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @monicaestrada6284
    @monicaestrada6284 Před 2 lety +1

    I feel like learning and taking up a second or 3rd language is beautiful it's amazing it's a learning experience and you grow from it and you learn many different experiences from it visiting different parts of the world you need to know different languages and learning Chinese is a beautiful language

  • @wamboimugo5948
    @wamboimugo5948 Před 3 lety +14

    I appreciate listening to you, coming from Kenya where English is a second language, I
    feel uplifted by your encouraging talk thank you.

  • @judithcardeno1924
    @judithcardeno1924 Před 14 dny

    Big help !!!!! thank you very much for sharing 🥰

  • @williammastropieri2144
    @williammastropieri2144 Před 2 lety +1

    Dr. Lee
    You are great!

  • @prof.jojopangan2407
    @prof.jojopangan2407 Před 2 lety +3

    Dr. Grace thank you for sharing your wisdom on building confidence in public speaking. -Prof. Jose Journal

  • @swagatikanayak2778
    @swagatikanayak2778 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank u so much for the content . I can't stay with out subscribing whn I heard ur content .. Awesome 🙏🙏

  • @amsaluabeti9663
    @amsaluabeti9663 Před 2 lety +1

    All the things you mentioned are supportive thanks for the taughts and your expirience

  • @orjinm3072
    @orjinm3072 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Dr Grace Lee,this is my first of coming across your program. Am highly inspired and grateful

  • @SnowS162
    @SnowS162 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I love your channel Dr. Grace Lee. Seeing you are Asian like me helps me feel like it's possible for me to improve my communication skills too. Thanks so much.

  • @maureenbrown7270
    @maureenbrown7270 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you, thank you, thank you . Your presentation was awesome.

  • @ajinkyakhandare4748
    @ajinkyakhandare4748 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks Dr.grace Lee for this fabulous video 😊

  • @ayimdora297
    @ayimdora297 Před 2 lety

    THANKS OUR DEAR DOCTOR.

  • @ivykhoo783
    @ivykhoo783 Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Grace, you are courageous and strong.

  • @user-vd8oc5lg4e
    @user-vd8oc5lg4e Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you very much Dr. Very helpful

  • @harbanskaursarpanch5944
    @harbanskaursarpanch5944 Před 5 měsíci

    You are great dr.grace ❤

  • @yappriscillia5258
    @yappriscillia5258 Před 3 lety +3

    Love it esp your articulation . You did not mince any words ! Thank you for your infectious zest .

    • @markbuck9843
      @markbuck9843 Před 3 lety

      Hope you are safe in this pandemic Yap?

  • @abegaelpening5352
    @abegaelpening5352 Před 3 lety

    Wow..what a helpful tips..Thanks Doc.

  • @samrag9101
    @samrag9101 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Doctor for your time and efforts.. very usful content looking forward to see your next interesting video😊

  • @mariedebrosse808
    @mariedebrosse808 Před 2 lety

    I am very agree with you. Thank you very much!

  • @spotafricamedia1416
    @spotafricamedia1416 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Grace

  • @andresreyna1472
    @andresreyna1472 Před 3 lety

    Super, I am so glad to find your page. Gracias!!!

  • @danakampurira2219
    @danakampurira2219 Před 2 lety +1

    You are the best mentor I have ever seen

  • @AwesomeThreeEs
    @AwesomeThreeEs Před 3 lety +3

    This is very true. You are an effective speaker and got my attention 👍👏😀

  • @arttutorials8163
    @arttutorials8163 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks for great tips!
    Also, I use to love the Book of Nonsense as a kid! 😊

  • @juanitaespino7969
    @juanitaespino7969 Před 3 lety

    Thank you very much appreciated good education lots to learn more.

  • @purpleplanet3138
    @purpleplanet3138 Před 3 lety +1

    You are a gem! Loved, subscribed!

  • @joannekaravara4032
    @joannekaravara4032 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks I am being motivated by your speech

  • @adebolaadejumo8576
    @adebolaadejumo8576 Před 3 lety

    Thank for your point on been able to face the audience very helpful

  • @margiemartinez6314
    @margiemartinez6314 Před 2 lety

    You are Awesome and amazing woman. A chinese but very fluent in English....you have the talent and skill in public speaking....a wonder woman you are... Congratulations! Love listening....

  • @royallen1711
    @royallen1711 Před 2 lety +4

    Informative and well presented. Thank you!

  • @agnesriadi255
    @agnesriadi255 Před 4 lety +11

    Dr. Grace Lee, your lessons are so meaningful and valuable. I learn a lot from your theory and experiences. Can you cover the topic on 'effective communication in business negotiation'. Thank you very much in advance.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Před 4 lety +3

      Thank you for your comment, that's a great suggestion. I would be happy to answer your question in my Ask Me playlist.