How to Spot an ESTJ in 2 Minutes...
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You know you’re a ESTJ when you watch this video first because it’s the shortest
If you're ESTJ you'd not probably watch it at all. Cause you' re doinf something in real 😏
I- yes indeed.
😂Me
Lmao so true, I rarely watch anything more than 10 mins
Omg so true
"while an entj will keep the ship towards the right destination, the estj will make sure the ship is kept afloat" damn! that sums a lot of difference in terms of our leadership style.
my dad is an estj while im an entj.. this is so true.. he is soo productive and always acting but doesnt rlly have a bigger picture goal.
I really admire ENTJs and ESTJs energy in becoming a leader. I envy you who have these MBTI Types. I wish I also have the same kind of energy as yours when it comes to having a huge motivation in accomplishing day to day activities 😭... -INFP
I wonder if you two have had quite some conflicts because I do have a similar experience being an ENTJ with a ESTJ mother
Definitely and under-rated type in the MBTi community. This type will give themselves completely to help others. They may be a bit bossy at times but their hearts will always be in the right place
only newbies or touchy feely types underrate them (mostly because of stereotypes of unhealthy estj). Other understand that ESTJ is what makes the world function, definitely at the very least top3 most important type.
Your right I experienced unhealthy ESTJ and then I found my mother is an ESTJ (well mostly it’s Exstj) and I believe she’s a healthy one and I admire her :) -ENFP
This makes me think i might be a healthy ESTJ but again i'm not sure
ESTJs are one of the best to rely on... They're not afraid of calling you out for your own good, pushing others to their best potential. A healthy developed Te is invaluable
I think this is why they come off as bullies though:/
Yeah but they often don’t get the fact that unsolicited advice, especially on stuff like your looks, your weight, your diet, and stuff like that is just FUCKING RUDE. My ESTJ mom is awful about this, and nags repeatedly. My ENTJ dad at least understands that even if he is going to be blunt, it’s way less grating to just do it once, and then drop the subject.
@@nerysghemor5781 omg my mom is like this too
@@kebdo3387 I love her to pieces but that aspect gets annoying.
@@nerysghemor5781 my dad in there hahahs
INFP here - it took me a long time to appreciate ESTJs and warm up to them. Now I feel a sort of a warm empathy towards them, realizing that there’s a pure goodness to their values, even if their execution can seem ruthless and superficial at first. I think of Dwight from the office as an archetypal ESTJ and I almost cried when he left the company because in his eyes he compromised his principles by covering for Angela. And then a few days in, people realize the office plants were dying, because it was Dwight who had been taking care of them all along without anyone noticing.
Aww thanks. Yeah, I like working hard but it can be hard if there's a lack of appreciation.
Thank you 😭 you don't know how much we appreciate that. We are called as Karens and Kevins, we are mostly hated, but they do not know the 'real' us. We are very empathetic deep inside this seemingly cold-hearted front. We are hated in the society because we are like mindless robots that can transform into a hulk anytime, but we are actually soft stuffed-bunnies inside. We had been through a lot that made us the way we are now. And people hate us for that but to see this comment makes me really emotional so, thank you! GOD bless and more power!
@@elishamercado2543 aww - thank you for saying that! I think one thing I sometimes found tough about communicating with ESTJs is that I would reach out emotionally and not get an emotional response back. So this comment also makes me feel really appreciated and touched! 🤗 🤗
Infp and estj are a natural pairing
“To make a well-oiled machine, sometimes people have to become cogs.”
- Nathan (2021) 👌🏻
Unsure whether triggering Fe users was intended or it's just.. collateral
then people do the minimum just enough to keep from getting fired
As an ESTJ.. I have come across this quite a bit. I have a few coworkers who "ride the line" and refuse to train for simple important tasks that will make them useful. It is beyond frustrating to me! One time I think I pulled an "unhealthy" move.. or maybe it was just a "truthful" move.. and said to said coworker "you have to learn it for the good of our department!" She just looked at me like a deer in the headlights. I walked away frustrated.. because there is only so much that can be done in a union based company.@@Crystal-oz5zc
I was raised by my Papa, an estj Colonel, masters degree, farmer, total man of his word. A man of service, he went to HVAC school when he retired so he could repair and service systems for people who couldn’t afford it. And probably the only person I’ve ever met with a stable and consistent personality in public and private life. Solid inner compass ❤️ As an istj, I quietly snuck into the kitchen to grab my coffee when he wasn’t looking. I needed quiet space to awaken and he always hit the ground running! 🤣 EXCEPTIONAL PROVIDER!
As an ISFJ, I greatly admire my ESTJ father-in-law. He is always on the move, making sure everyone is taken care of, but not particularly demonstrative in his love, besides his actions. I appreciate his predictability, and his attention to minute, practical details, and I always got the sense that he appreciates my reliability, organization, and memory. Must be our mutual Si. I think mature, well-rounded ESTJs are lovely people, and not at all deserving of their bad stereotypes.
Thank you. Im an ESTJ and I have learned a lot from my ISFJ husband. He taught me how to be more patient with people and it has definitely mellowed me down. He does appreciate my directness and go-getter attitude.
This is so nice to hear. I can believe so many people comment “my mother was estj - abusive, perfectionist etc”
That is because you are a ISFJ, a Si user.
If you was a Ni user, you would see the absurd of ESTJs
@@DiegoBR Maybe I think Ni users are absurd. And considering Sensors outnumber Inuitives about 3:1, who’s to say that Intuitives in general aren’t the ones who are out of place?
its great to finally find a channel that does MBTI personalities in depth. i think I will give this a like and a sub to the channel
"Efficiently directionless" is a great way of putting it
My daughter is an ESTJ. She has to-do lists, her bag is always ready for school and homework needs no prompting.
I have an ESTJ friend who just graduated from high school (I’m a year up from him) and he’s going to school to become a composer. This past year he got 1st at state on the flute! If you could only hear how fast he played you’d be amazed haha
Me, an INFP, every time I meet an ESTJ:
👁️👄👁️ Who is this divine being who has mastered the secret to living as a mortal?
Me
As an INTP, I also have this kind of reaction when I meet an ESTJ or ENTJ.
They sound like the perfect life coaches to help one achieve your dreams :D they really got their stuff together I think thats really so admirable :D
Hahaha not so much. Most coaches tend to be more subtle in their delivery and sensitive. ESTJs do not spare anyone's emotions. Sometimes also narrow minded because we just want to reach the goal
I’m an ESTJ and all 6 of my friends are xxFx and I’m the only T. They tend to come to me for realistic advice :>> count on us to be honest if you’re a real friend of ours we have your best interest at heart ❤️
Your comment makes me think of the Geico drill sergeant ad.
I’m an INFJ and I love ESTJs. Almost all my favorite characters are ESTJs 😅
ESTJ is underrated!
I work at Costco in a sales department. At night we have to detail the "non foods" side. I have done this alone for well over five years. More recently I have moved up in seniority and others have taken over the task. Occasionally I have to close but I hear bad things about the closers that took over. I take this to my immediate supervisor and ask that I am not mentioned. I work like a machine getting my work done! Others.. don't! It is a balance of social and work ethic.
One night I left an hour earlier than the two other closers. I went to one of them saying "I will do (insert task) before I leave and pull some boxes." Also "oh, I have a flat up in an aisle. Most of the work there is done for you. Sorry I couldn't take it back. At least you have the flat to load more boxes onto!" When walking down the aisle to move towards clocking out.. the two girls are zoning the aisles. I had to keep my mouth shut! So much I could have said to help them do better.. yet I am only a coworker. The two of them .. body language .. and one saying "oh, don't worry about it Michelle.. we got this" in a VERY casual way had me worried! Part of the tone was quite "sweetly condescending" towards me!
I have a STRONG work ethic! I don't want to say that they don't.. but they have never quite learned to properly do the job! Only one of the two has a mild level of being receptive to assistance in teaching her some of the "ins and outs" of the cleanup routine. The other one says nothing.. or weirdly smiles.. never harsh.. and walks away and never does it!
My immediate supervisor respects me for bringing up concerns. I do wait and give many chances for correction before I call on him privately. See, I almost never see him and he tends to rely on me to report to him.
Yeah, I'm about "what time do I leave? how do I plan to maximize getting my work done? What can get done, what can't? If I work only five hours.. I can ask to stay one more hour without penalty to get the work done!" - signed, your friendly neighborhood ESTJ.
Unfortunately I don't make friends easily. I never have!
I appreciate 2 minute video idea, right to the point, efficient, and not wasting my time
I’ve wanted to do that series for a long time. The challenge of needing to condense things down to their essential elements is deeply appealing to me. Glad you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
The world needs more videos like this
My maternal grandfather or my second dad, he’s an ESTJ. Sometimes he acts totalitarian and is not much about liking individualism, but deep down inside he’s a family man (traditional) and he loves us all. Everything you said in this video is completely true about them, and sometimes I’ve noticed that they are the most misunderstood and underrated type. I’m an INTJ female and I admire the ESTJ’s for their hard work,dedication, commitment and effort they make especially when it comes to family matters. Thank you guys for existing. 😂❤😅😊
Actually statistically speaking INTJs are the most misunderstood for a vast number of reasons. ESTJs maybe known for their work ethic and all but most of the time it's hard to find one who actually is open-minded, and I can tell you as one who has an ESTJ dad(an unhealthy one) I can tell you they tend to have a hard time accepting constructive criticism but they can call out as many ppl which I don't like that double standard as opposed to INTJs who are very open minded(INTJ btw) and they don't need to be domineering to get what they want, they see things in a very abstract way and are very open to new and creative ideas, again ESTJs are already known for their get from point A to point B mentality but in terms of true character morals, between the 2 it would go to INTJs hands down.
As an ESTJ, this was a great video. The ESTJ functions make more sense in urgent situations. When people want to rest and unwind we can be burdensome. I think it's easier to understand us when you realize that we have trouble turning that sense of urgency off. It's too easy for our Te and high Si to constantly foresee potential danger and problems.
Even if I want to have fun, or to make sure my family or friends are having fun, it's hard not to do it in a to-the-max way that can be draining for them. I'll go to the party and tell ten lighthearted jokes and everyone is laughing, but in the end my presence can still feel overwhelming to some people. Or someone needs help and before I can check myself I do a bunch of things to help them and then they feel shamed or condescended to by my actions. Even as someone who tries to avoid being the stereotypical overbearing ESTJ, it's hard to get it right sometimes.
That´s interesting, as an infp i struggle to understand estjs but basically you guys find it hard to not be "on" all the time it seems. This sense of urgency you mention, how does that work in a normal situation vs a an actual urgency, like do you sort of gear up even more in an urgency, or is it more like that´s the default mode and urgencys feel like your right element? Maybe it´s a dumb question but as a typical lazy infp i can´t quite understand the nature of that.
@@draug7966 Hi, thanks for the great question. The second description you gave is exactly right. When the real urgency comes it feels comfortable, like I'm in my right element. Of course I experience fear, adrenaline, etc., like anyone, but I feel very at home with certain kinds of urgency and often feel like they make me calmer than I was before. The one thing that I really hate is being startled, which to me is just an awful feeling. Perhaps this is because as an ESTJ I feel obsessed with "seeing the problem coming", if that makes sense.
I don't think INFPs are lazy, I just think that their activity is in the inner world and thus not visible to other people and often not appreciated. If you think of a Catholic or Buddhist monk or nun in a monastery or convent, I think the INFP is a little bit like that. Some people might feel that what they're doing is a waste of time, but if you believe in the spiritual life, then you think that what they are doing is very important. As an ESTJ I'm very aware of the passage of time, which people measure with external objects in motion: very thinking/sensing. When you're caught up in Fi like INFPs often are, by definition you lose track of time, and thus you seem inefficient and "lazy". But perhaps that time spent in your feelings moved you further along in an important inner journey that you are making.
@@MM-gk1tm Actually i can somewhat relate to that, i often manage to "keep my cool" in situations when others get all worked up and run around like headless chickens so in a way that´s a bit similar. It depends on the situation though. Seeing the problem coming is relatable too in a way, i think that´s why infps often get stuck in "analysis paralysis" cause we like to make sure we don´t screw up, that´s another reason why it looks like we never get anything done. I can kind of admire the strong drive you guys have to get stuff done but at the same time i honestly think you´re a bit too obsessed with it. My stepdad i think is an istp and he is a bit like that too, gets a lot done, but he also knows how to chill when he feel like it. I think estjs would be happier and also easier to get along with if they could just relax a little more and know that it´s ok to not always be on top of everything, that your achievements or your effectiveness don´t define your value, at least not outside of work. But you seem aware and i respect that, i see many estjs in comments who seem to think they´re gods perfect creation and everyone else is too sensitive or too lazy or whatever, your thoughtful comments is a welcome change from that. And you´re right, there is ALWAYS something going on in the infp inner world lol.
@@draug7966 Great points. In fact I often feel like I am the one who is too sensitive; I'll notice things that are in some way wrong, but I'm the only one they bother because the people I'm with don't notice them, so if I wasn't so sensitive to it then they wouldn't be a problem.
My father and brother were very introverted growing up which helped me to realize early that people experience the world in very different ways. Also, I went to smart kid school and was on more of an achievement track when I was younger, but I was fortunate to see even in high school that the ambition seemed to be bad a corrupting effect on a lot of my ENTJ/ESTJ/ISTJ fellow-students. It really changed my feeling about being too driven. So I think I was fortunate to be rescued from those kinds of habits early.
Not being in denial is a great first step for any type to grow, so keep it up! This is helping people too.
16 personalities being kidnapped and interacting with their kidnapper
HAHA YES
INFP: "This is just as awkward as any other social interaction."
An ISTP is always the kidnapper...
We ENTPS are to lazy to be kidnappers and to obnoxious to be victims (for longer than an hour), so...
Yes please 😂
this describes my estj mother perfectly haha
And mine :)
Eep. I'm so lucky that my mom is an ENFJ.
@@gracielarycerz9317 mine too ;)
I can't help but notice a lot of similarities here to how you described INTJs. I know these two types are very different but I can't unsee it now.
I’m an ENTP and my wife is ESTJ. We have a unique but cool relationship. I’m probably more like Jacques Cousteau, Sir Edmund Hillary and Neil Armstrong heading off into space, off into the mountains or down to the depths of the sea but she is the wise and graceful Sherpa, the luminous and trustworthy space station and the glorious and steady ship floating confidently on the waves that I can always return to after I’ve exhausted the grand exploits of the day :) Love you lady 😘
You're Walter in the second half of Secret Life of Walter Mitty lol
@@sarahberkner or that lol
This is one of the most beautiful Declaration of Love I've seen ❤. My husband is an INTP and he just tells me he's lucky...😀
Just go to any office anywhere.
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When my ESTJ friend stays over he's usually been up in the roof well installing some new fandangled electrics before I've even crawled out of bed and latched on to the caffeine spout.
Caffeine spout...excellent.
ENFP here... I could use one of y'all in my life! Especially at work to develop systems with me 😃
video idea: how to get along with your opposite type(ex: infp with estj, istp with enfj, etc)
I am an ESTJ mistyped as an ISTJ. Thanks for this 😄
Wow, I just realised that I really am an ESTJ.
Shoutout to the discord server
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They be zoomin 🏎 💨
His talking voice is so crisp and clear love it.
I schedule when I'll have a cup of coffee (strong, black, no sugar) so that I can get stuff done more efficiently than if I was "caffeine sober".
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I'm ISTP and supposedly ESTJs are my "better half" and it's true...Now I just have to meet someone with this guy xd
Makes me wonder what ESTJs think about ENTJs and vice versa. Most probably, ENTJs could direct ESFJs to the right direction (or a greater purpose as ENTJs can be philosophical that way) and ESFJs could show new methods of efficiency that the ENTJ would be so impressed with. Although, I do this double sided jealousy is a possible outcome
In my quest for understanding I came across a very insightful divider for the ENTJ and ESTJ. Imagine a ship 🚢. The ENTJ controls the direction of the ship and the ESTJ does the maintaining of the ship 🚢 it’s something to think about :)))
Great video Nathan. xSTJs are creative indeed.
1:54 I'd like to know how this passage applies more to ESTJs than it does to ISTJs?
It DOES sound exactly like an ISTJ
now a video on how to deal w an estj /half lh
as an infp with an estj dad, i need this.
Wish I'd learn how to change the mind of an estj. My estj boss is so static and stuck up in his old ways of doing things and rejects the idea that people are different. He does not like the idea of individuality and expects everyone to be fast and efficient as him. Send help. - INFJ.
@@usernamenotavailable I get this but it can be intolerable at work, no one can live up to expectations and when you consider leaving you wonder if you were that close to being sacked anyway. Wild guess there is a high staff turnover.
@@usernamenotavailable People in their grip state are hard to help/fix. The pain of remaining the same has to exceed the pain of working towards change-and change/adaptability is hard for them, esp. if the status quo is rewarded.
@@MoPoppins I see. Thanks a lot
I admire healthy ESTJ's -ENFP
As an INFP I vehemently dislike ESTJ's but ive got to admit the world would be a disaster without them.
perhaps you haven't come across a truly mature and well balanced ESTJ yet who cares for the feelings and pacing of others. I have a lot of friends who's INFP. My fiancee is also an INFP.
My ESTJ mom in her fifties has more energy than me, an INTJ, even during my teen years. 😅
How on earth do I differentiate if I am ENFP and ESTJ. Easy in theory, very hard in practice
Tymin Lannister is the ultimate ESTJ. Fascinating.
Goddamnit, thank you. Thank you. Sincerely, ESTJ.
Only 2 minute lol 🙈 Yup so efficient and not wasting my time. Thanks nathan!
Hi, love your channel! I had a sudden theory pop in my head and wanted your opinion on it (and everyone else who reads this😊). So its about the perceiving functions Se Ne Si Ni. Something ive noticed is that whenever im taking in information be it from listening to someone or reading a book i always imagine it in my head to process like if someone's telling me a story if i am actively trying to understand i will let it play out in my head as they are saying it, same with books, i am INFP and i was wondering is that is a trait common to high Ne users. My cousin ISFP does not do this and instead of having images pop in her head when processing information she is much more literal about it. She mentioned she always finds it weird in meditation sessions when told to imagine a candle or a scene at the beach, because she just processes the words literally and just repeats the word candle in her mind but she doesnt add an image to it. I don't know if im explaining this comprehensively but yeah she also says when she reads books she just comprehends the words without imagining the scenario, and i thought that might be more of an Se thing. For Ni, people always describe it as unconscious information intake so in this theory it would make sense that Ne is conscious through imagination and Ni understanding occurs without conscious effort. Not sure how Si would be compared to Se, and I also dont know enough people to be able to conclude whether my observations are really due to those functions or single cases, so it would be cool to know what anyone else thinks about this 👍
I think being conscious or not might depend on if that function is primary (the one the person leads with, almost on autopilot). It's so great to have people to think of these kinds of things. I'd think that took a lot of energy to relay, as an INFP. So thanks for sharing. Thought you would be ENFP tbh. Side note: just realized this must be what it's like for others to read my responses.
@@punkbunnee9558 haha heyy! Yeah, im not the best at explaining but i really thought i might be onto something so wanted to share 😊 and yeah i can see how i seemed enfp😂, my Ne was overflowing im usually only this hyper online i swear haha xd ; and i think u might be onto something too about the conscious use, whats ur type if u dont mind o:?
I think you're right and personally as an ESTJ I can kind of picture things in my head but I struggle with it. Part of that depends on the individual, I have ticker-tape synesthesia, I don't know if that's what your friend has but I often see the written words in my mind's eye when I'm thinking rather than pictures or an inner voice.
Long before I knew that my cousin was an ESTJ, whenever I was around him, I felt he was directionless. As an INTJ and also empath, I could sense "directionless" energy which then was stuck in my energy system for days that I had to find my sense of direction through many ways that I could think of. It was a torture to be with ESTJ as an INTJ
This is exactly why I resently gave up on the ESTJ in my life, I couldn't handle the directionless brooding...Not to mention he was a control freak.
@@irienerd8178 I feel sorry that you have to overgeneralize the whole ESTJ population based on one simple unpleasant experience you have with an ESTJ. Because some are the exact opposite to what you mentioned.
@@andrewk.l1887 I didn't "overgeneralize the whole ESTJ population" I specifically referenced the one I was involved with lol. Bless your overly sensitive heart, I'm sorry your feelings are hurt that I had a bad experience with an ESTJ in MY life. The irony of you trying to control what I experienced and trying to shame me for something I never said isn't lost on me. Maybe, you should introspect on why you are so upset at something not directed at you (or all ESTJ's) and while you're at it get thicker skin cupcake.
@@irienerd8178 I was thinking about that too. You did not generalize nor OVERgeneralize. ESTJ was also overproud about himself, constantly thinking that he was better than me when in fact he barely has any achievement. He was controlling, dictating, even the small things like the way I dressed up. Later on, I made him shut up by performing things better way than his performance.
@@WanderingAstronaut YES! This guy is the same, always looking down his nose at everyone while having absolutely NO right to, given his station in life...I'm glad you got to put him in his place, as for my ESTJ he gets nothing more from me. I'm so over "the woe is me woe is my life" and the "I'm better than you so I'm in charge" attitude. If he were really in control of his own life he wouldn't feel the need to control everyone else. As an INTJ, I hate it when people complain about something, but never do anything to fix it. TO me, fix it or STHU complaining about it...
How many of you have had people who've just met you guess that you are a completely different type than you actually are, and is it consistently the same type? I ask because I am definitely INFJ (8 tests over many years) but people constantly guess that I am an ESTJ. I think this may be related to zodiac rising signs, which is what gives people their first impression of you. I think some types may be more likely with certain rising signs. For example, my rising sign is Virgo which meshes perfectly with the ESTJ characteristics and I am very time efficient and always get my "to do" list done.
I've only interacted with one human who has guessed type and she was the one who typed me ESTJ. Online tests however consistently put me as F higher that T which is just very obviously wrong haha
@@Wardfire - thanks for the reply. At least your test was only one letter off of where you identify. That is interesting.
Test are not a reliable way to type yourself. You sound much more like a Te user than Fe based on this comment.
You wouldn't necessarily be an ESTJ just because you're hard-working and organized, and I would have guessed you're a thinker until you mentioned your interest in Zodiac signs.
Can you make a series on Ennegram?? Please.
I had an estj try to make me look bad at work so he could get my job. I fired him.
They never go anywhere unnoticed. 😊hockeys Don Cherry eg
Maintainer❤️❤️
Ah...the bully...one more type to the death note.
Why do ENTJs and INFPs don't go along most of the time?
INFPs want others to be happy whereas ENTJs want others to be their best. INFPs are very reticent to be critical of others because they do not want to hurt their feelings, whereas an ENTJ will deliberately be critical of others so as to guide them and spur them on to become better people. If an ENTJ is critical of an INFP, the INFP interprets this as heartless and cruel behaviour.
They actually both have an inner core of very strong moral principles and neither will compromise their morals when under pressure. It would be good if they could see and appreciate this in each other.
Edit: Actually, I would say that INFPs want others to find peace (rather than happiness). I think INFPs seriously wonder and doubt if happiness is possible.
I only saw these types interact once and it was like pouring water on a gasoline fire lol
I figured out that most people find their own type unsufferable in other people, is that true to you? Because i had hard time with ESTJs only and now i'm guessing i am one of them
Honestly I really like other ENFPs! I am probably the least romantically attracted to them compared to other types though. Don't wanna date myself ig lol
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@@summero-my5in I like most other INTPs to a point, not 100% sure I am one though
I don't think others are the same as us really. But as an ESTJ, I totally get why we wouldn't get along all that well with other ESTJs. Same with ENTJs. I think we are more territorial. We want to be in charge. So if someone does the same thing, it's messing with our system.
I thought for long time that i was an INFJ but i'm figuring out that i'm not that intuitive and, probably, the fact that i used to think i was INFJ is because i somehow developed both feeling and intuition in my early teenage years, making that the average in my mind. But, yeah, the thing i've heard is more about "cringing" on others, and the people who make me uneasy the most are ESTJ and ENTJ
Spot on
Is all remind me of my mother and im the one against her at one point and another side with her -entj
Can an Estj be very introverted? I think my older sister is ESTJ when reading the cognitive functions but she hates dealing with people and mostly likes staying home and doing her own thing.
Yes any type can be introverted. Te and Fi users commonly tend to think of themselves as more introverted.
Wouldn't introversion make an estj > an istj? 😏
@@granczykk87 Well they say you can be cognitively an extrovert but socially and introvert.
People would think I'm like that, when sometimes (especially as a kid) I just was on my own more than was healthy for me and I'm actually an extrovert who's just shy. ESTJs are more reserved than some other extroverts but still like to interact with people some, also ISTJs are somewhat similar so she might be an ISTJ.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. - ESTJ
Very well
Can you please do a video about the diferences of Entj and Estj? I am debating bewteen thoose types
Imagine a ship 🛳 the ENTJ is the captain 👨✈️ the one who is steering the wheel heading towards the direction. The ESTJ is the one maintaining order in the ship🧚🏼♀️organising and keeping the ship afloat ;)
INTJ-A Female & 5w4 here, & this fits my primary lover exactly. He refuses to take the online test btw, lol.
Why were the three days too long for me?
Can be ruthless
Keeps ship afloat
Creativity when solving problems
Standardization, sacrificing personal values
Intensity/activity
Gets the most done
My dad is ESTJ-A
aaa I've always called myself an ENTJ but both the ENTJ and the ESTJ "how to spot" videos describe me perfectly
I think perhaps that looking at the types through the lens of the 4 functions might be the easiest way to sort it out and the most helpful way to understand oneself. It can feel uncertain to fit people into general typing, but in your conundrum Si and Se and Ni and Ne are very different and you might quickly be able to tell which you live by and so have your answer. For example, do you often socialize by telling anecdotes about little funny or interesting things that just happened to you? That's an Si/ESTJ kind of thing and I do it non-stop. Do you really like fictional movies or books with a lot of plotting? That's something people with a higher intuition function often like. My ENTJ friend and INFP friend used to like talking about the plots of movies and novels even though they didn't have too much else in common.
Perhaps you could find an ESTJ who knows about Meyers-Briggs and I bet there's a good chance they will be able to tell very quickly whether you are an ENTJ or not. My old friend was an ENTJ and despite our mutual primary Te and ability to understand each other well I could really feel the difference between us in how we approached everything...
I'm an ENFP but my ESTJ mother's Ne is more developed than mine for sure
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What happened to Lu
This is off topic but I know I'm NTP. But really not sure if it's entp or intp. I guess I share similarities with both. Am I the only one that is pretty much split down the middle with extroversion/introversion?
Advice: search which are the cognitive functions of these two types
You can also be ambivert
Cogntitve functions. Not letters
@@hatterene39347 they're the same function in different order
Arabic translation🥺
INTJ partner in crime.
Estj been some of my best bosses tho
You’re about as consistent as a block of Swiss cheese.
Estjs I know: Ben Shapiro and Dwight Shrute 😆
Dwight Schrute is awesome lmao
Ben Shapiro is definitely an INTJ
@@eyesgravity9175 nah he’s been typed plenty and he’s definitely estj!
Ben Shapiro is ENTP. He loves to argue about anything with anybody.
@@mcpm1177 Nope. ENTJs have morals and ethics. He doesn't.
this dude is probaly intj