Love, Simon - Simon Yells At Martin
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"I’m supposed to be the one that decides when and how and who knows, and how I get to say it, that’s supposed to be my thing! And you took that away from me. "
MagnusGmng what a great quote
Lindsay damn right
That's just hurts
Quoted yay
When and where
i will forever love the fact that in order to keep the films pg 13 rating, they could only say one curse word, and they used it for this scene. so perfect
I know! Considering that in the book Simon curses a lot, lmao
Well the teacher in the cafeteria did say “shitty”
I honestly find it so dumb with the restrictions with curse words
@@brado1912 You can say shitty multiple times without getting an R rating. You just can’t say “fuck” more than once or your movie automatically gets R
A re-release or a sequel with a R rating of cuss words for $500 Alex.
This, this made me smirk. Martin deserved everyy word Simon said to him
And why do I think the audience would have loudly cheered if Simon had punched Martin right in the face??
foxxy roxxy MSP how could you smirk I was fucking crying so hard lol
@@ChespinCraft yeah I was crying too, I was so sad and angry at this scene lol
I haven't watched the movie, but I relate to Simon too much. Luckily I was able to sneak back into the closet but basically, my sister talks too much..
@@ChespinCraft crying of laughter right
Being outed is one of the biggest nightmare for any closeted kids. "Helping" to out them doesn't just pull up the band aid off, it also meant the wound and scar may not have healed and not ready to face the world. Remember this whenever you does it.
ok but like that metaphor was an amazing one to use
Yes! I was outed and I would never wish that upon anyone, thank you for understanding how it is. Stay blessed ❤️❤️❤️
Take it from someone who’s been outed, it really sucks and people are extremely judgmental, they think you don’t trust them because you didn’t come out even if you were going to but someone did it before you could. People at school though are the worst, they make you into a joke and people send someone over to you to ask questions then start talking about you behind your back. The stares are even worse though because you don’t even know what was being spread about you, but they just give you that look.
That Art Kid and if you’re a girl dating another girl they start to demanding you two to kiss
That Art Kid then family finds out
Why do gay people have to go through this crap? Why do some feel that it's not just their right but their duty to make gay people's lives a burden to them? I'm 73, and still do not understand.
I'm 60, myself. I've friends and coworkers who are gay. I just accept them the same as I would anyone else. Who they choose to love doesn't make a difference to me. I accept them for who they are.
Yall old
We may be old; but we can remember a time when gay people repeatedly had the crap beat out of them just because they were gay. Check out the history of the Stonewall Inn. Check out the history of Harvey Milk. Check out the history of Alan Turing.
@@cullrz3410 old is gold :V
You guys are the best. Thanks for understanding, even though I don’t know you, your support helps me out. Thanks for all you do.
I applaud to the actor cause I felt that “get the fu*k away from me” in my bones 😭
yeah nick’s acting is truly great
Simon was so right in what he said to Martin. He had every right to be thoroughly angry with him. Martin screwed up big time!!
Martin thoroughly deserved what Simon said to him.
He brought that upon himself by his cowardly action of posting the emails.
He never stopped to think about the implications of what he did.
He even made Simon set up his own friends.
I have had this argument, and I don’t disagree with Simon… but Martin’s apology is so sincere. I can’t help but pity him here.
It is a very real moment…
@@chriss3625 it is sincere, to a point, the line that hurts his credibility is that he wanted to get the attention off himself after that homecoming fiasco.
Let's not forget that HE was blackmailing Simon. HE totally misread how well she liked him. He chose to ignore how those two jerks treated other gay guy all the time. It wasn't until the cafeteria incident that he was forced to see what a jerk he totally was towards Simon. Simon should have closed the web browser which would have avoided all of this, in the first place. Then again, Martin should have had the courage NOT to blackmail Simon. Had Martin not blackmailed Simon, Martin wouldn't have been put in the position where he humiliated himself at homecoming.
Being outed is not that big a deal. Its mean, but its not like sexuality is sacred.
@@Harry-bn5mp I would think that being outed would depend upon the situation of the person being outed. Imagine if it would put a teenager into a homeless situation.
If I were Simon, I would've either knocked Martin TF out or ripped him a new one by saying "Your constant urge of blackmailing is the reason no one wants to date you, let alone be friends with you."
That's a problem I have with the movie I would have had Simon give Martin a whole reason you suck speech and maybe bitch slapping but this movie plays it too safe
Bruh I would’ve run Martin over with my whole car
I totally get where you guys are coming from. But this is why I like Simon. The responses you both have is coming from a place of pain. Where you respond to hurt with hurt. That doesn't make the world a better place it just creates more hurt. I think Simon handled it perfectly. Where he was upset for what Martin did and he left it at that. He didn't need to hurt Martin. By not insulting Martin, Martin is never going to do this again if anything. Martin will regret this moment for the rest of his life. As a result if he sees an injustice happening to someone who is gay he is going to be first person to step in and try to help. He well fight the hardest and the longest for that individual all to try and repent for what he has done.
@@MiamayaJones y'know what, girl? You've got a massive point!
Edit: Thanks for the correction! It's very much appreciated!
@@millenialfragrancenerd94 thanks
This part in the movie made me cry.
Raquel Gomez same 😭
Me too. After this I came out to my mom in front of my ex boyfriend
Same
A sharp ring of truth when Simon says that he is supposed to decide who knows, when they know, and how much they know. That's how you are able to help control how you're seen and decide who you can trust, and it's mortifying when that's taken away from you.
I couldn’t have said it better myself 🙌
This scene broke me because I was outed when I was 17 and it actually broke me
Ashleigh Haight but to know you’re here and you’ve come this far, is heart warming ❤️
OhMy_MovieScenes you are actually the sweetest person ever ❣️
Ashleigh Haight just remember there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being gay.
This happened to me too but I was outed when I was 14 and it was a tough thing to get through, but I'm here now and happy
I got outted when I was in 5th grade this scene got me all emotional but now I'm happy where I'm at
Watched this movie at my college on a giant screen in a field, everyone cheered so loud when simon yelled at him and it just made me so happy
Martin before this scene: “WaIt! HoMoPhObIc PeOpLe ArE rEaL??? wTf??? 😳”
i will always feel simon's anger when he says "that's supposed to be my thing". wow.
That F-Bomb hit hard istg
@Jack Gilmour It's a good use of it as well, it's not like the cliche random PG-13 f bomb, but a very powerful one.
Same with Bohemian Rhapsody
Freddie Fucking Mercury.
Here is a story. I came out on my Instagram (no family there, only my closest friends) and I forgot that my step sister followed me. She decided that she had the right to tell my stepmom who in turn told my dad. So they already knew and we're just waiting for me to tell them. I found out that she did this today when my dad told me that he knew already (I came out to him about a year ago) I wanted to drive the 3 hours and punch my step sister in the face. She had no right.
BeccaSlays that’s hard to hear. Any personal information in your life should be your choice to say or not to say. Which makes it hard to watch this scene because people think it’s okay to make others choices when really, it can do nothing but hurt.
Slap her before I do
@@rons_seb i would have if I lived near her
have you learned not to post anything you want kept from anyone on Insta? der
moosuch1 shut the fuck you up you inconsiderate asshole. I hope in the sixth months since you posted your reply, you had some sort of epiphany about wha ou said here
My empathy went through the roof with this scene. Simon didn’t deserve to be outed in such a humiliating, cruel way, and Martin absolutely deserved every word Simon said... but I feel bad for him, too. They’re both hurting SO MUCH in this scene. Just... Martin’s face. He did a shitty thing, and I shouldn’t care about his feelings, but they’re just so LOUD.
Me too, I felt awful for Simon because his selfish friends were avoiding him, and he was basically alone with coming out. Even though Martin was a being a piece of shit for blackmailing and outing Simon, when he yelled and blamed Martin for everything, I felt a little bad for him. Even though he deserved every bit of it ! 🥺💔
Say what you will about Love Simon, but they got this scene so right
Love Simon is a great movie!
what happened to martin was nothing like get over it you got rejected but what he did to simon it was so much worse goddd it makes me so angry jfc
Especially since he did it to himselfhe had like five conversations with that girl and then he went in front of everyone and declare his love what a dumbass
I love that he said the F word even though it's a PG-13 movie
they get 1 f word
Martin deserved every word here. He had no right to out Simon, and even though the film tried making us understand him, that still doesn't count.
All because Abby didn’t feel the same way for him
@@Im_alivexx fr petty asf
My stepmom outed me and I’ve been sobbing all day… all that I could think of was this scene. “I’m supposed to be the one who decides when and how and who knows and how I get to say it. That’s supposed to be my thing, and you took that away from me.”
Oh man, I'm so sorry about that:( she really doesn't have the rights to do that. Are you okay now?
are you all right now?
I’m really sorry she did that to you. Shame on her
This scene just hits so hard 😔 Seriously, NO ONE ever has the right to out someone like that. No matter what it is, it’s not your secret to tell.
Good for simon. In lots of movies the protagonist forgives the villian and everything goes on and friendship prevails. But irl its not like that. You can cut someone off if you believe what they did was too big an impact on your life. Glad we didn't see them together again, Martin is a horrible friend
Martin isn’t a friend at all, you would never do that to a friend, no matter how bad of a friend you are
i read this book when i was 14, and i cried bc i felt so bad for simon. i was terrified of something like that happening to me. being outed was my worst fear. and then a few years later, my worst fear came true. my best friend of 12 years outed me and i felt my whole world come crashing down. a month later i watched the movie, and when it got to this part, i lost it. i cried harder than i think i'd ever cried before because i truly _felt_ what simon was feeling here. every single word he said rang so true to me - it was like watching what i _wished_ i could have said to her. this scene, this whole movie, is so fucking important, and i'm so happy that something like this could have even been made.
This is guaranteed to make anyone who’s been outed cry
I'm trying to figure out why Martin looks so mortified while he is getting chewed on. He deserved everything and then some more that was said to him. But the minute he gets put in his place he looks like he was the one who was wronged.
Because he's a clueless twerp who doesn't understand concepts like responsibility.
i feel his anger. i got outed to my school, too. it’s supposed to be when you’re ready, and it shouldn’t be anyone else’s choice to come out for you. it’s a shitty thing to do
I was outed so this scene in the movie really spoke to me. Simon said everything I wanted to say to the person who did it to me.
I'm so sorry that happened to you
@@beccagregory3586 I was outed to by someone at school half of my classmates in my school knew about that’s why I watch this movie and that’s why I love ❤️ watching this movie this movie made me feel good 😊 about who I am this is the way god made me I love ❤️ being a lesbian because it’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a lesbian because I came out 15 and then someone at school outed me and I didn’t want anyone to know but I graduate high school I’m a tomboy and a lesbian now I’m 19 years old
I was outed at 16 by my therapist so when I saw this scene in the theater I actually broke down crying. got a bunch of strange looks lol
itsgena You know what, fuck them. Obviously they dont know what it’s like
Did you report the therapist it's violation of confidentiality
Tyia Smith yeah that ^
Yeah, report that shit. Someone I know was put into therapy by her parents all the time, and with each therapist, shed make up a ton of horrific shit to see if the therapist would tell her parents or not, to gauge how trustworthy the therapist was. As far as I know, all told the parents.
That must have been a real shitty therapist
I got outed when I was twelve. I remember watching this scene in the cinema a day after it was first released - I'd read the book, and new how much this story resonated with me. But seeing it on screen? Everything I wanted to yell at the girl who took something like that from me at such a young age was being said on screen, and I just cried. This scene means so much to me, and it makes me hope that one day she'll get what's coming to her
I was outed to my school. I felt this scene.
I have never been outed but holy, this scene, it made me cry. the words "I’m supposed to be the one that decides when and how and who knows, and how I get to say it, that’s supposed to be my thing! And you took that away from me." really just got to me. I'm just really glad that I could come out myself and not let another person do it.
This was where I lost it in the theatre and started ugly crying
This film is very beautiful. For me, this scene is one of the most special. Nick Robinson's competence in making the scene and imprinting on it all the truth of Simon's feelings, is something that catches us. Kisses from Brazil.
Finally someone posts this clip
This part of the movie made me cry. This exact thing happened to me in school. But I denied it, because I was afraid. I am ashamed of myself for denying who I really am deep down. However, I am still denying it to the public and staying in the closet, I am afraid what people’s reactions would be like and I am afraid that my parents might kick me out.
Niall Alexander I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope good and positive things will come your way. ❤️ Don’t be ashamed, you’re perfect in your own way 💕
I’m sorry pal I mean I just got yelled at by my parents like Simon yelled at Martin and I feel like Martin I really hate quarantining I really wanna get the fuck outta my house cuz I am sick and tired of putting up with my parents bullshit
Hang in there. I can't begin to imagine how scary coming out is for you.
Come out when you are ready to handle it.
Simon was so pissed he forgot he was in a pg13 movie.
I really like this scene, say what you will about the film itself, I was outed in high school, and while I am still good friends with that person, I used to think about coming out and how exactly I wanted to do it a lot, and sometimes it still saddens me that all that time was wasted and the opportunity to do that was lost
This movie got to me on a personal level. Especially this scene. I was outed at work by someone I thought I could trust. This scene had me in tears because of how much I can relate to this
marvellous acting!!! literally felt the whole rush of him portraying his anger. i cant stop replaying
This is the thing most people besides the community don’t understand. It’s hard knowing that not everyone will accept you when you come out. But it’s even harder to deal with when people find out without your consent.
I really don't know how Simon refrained himself from punching Martin right here. An insane amount of self-control.
I WAS LITERALLY YELLING WHEN I WAS WATCHING THIS LIKE YES EXACTLY TELL HIM
This felt especially real to me, because I was outed by this girl I had a crush on when I was about eleven, and I hadn't even figured out my sexuality yet. I got bullied a lot, and this is exactly what I wished I could say to her. A few years have gone by, and she's really matured as a person, and she apologized, and we're friends now, but that experience still really scarred me.
this scene always makes me so upset that i could cry
this scene is everything. the process of coming out is something so personal, no one- and i mean absolutely *no one* but the person themselves gets to have any say in how or when they come out.
This scene made me sad
Me: *is someone who was outed to my whole family against my will (by someone in my family oof)*
Also me during this movie: I can't see through all the tears in my eyeballs
This movie really hit me where it hurt. It perfectly showcased how being outed against your will feels.
I remember seeing this in theaters and this scene will stick with me forever. Simon screaming at Martin, the emotion in that, the “and you took that away from me!” I still marvel out how many people don’t realize how important it is for a queer person to be the one deciding who knows, when they know, how the find out. Sometimes queer people will tell other queer people that I’m queer bc they don’t think it’s a big deal, but I agree with Simon. It’s MY thing.
I was outed by my mom to other people in my family that I wanted to come out to. The only person I got to actually come out to in my family was my great aunt, who was very accepting. This scene is exactly how I felt when my mom told me she already outed me.
I was outed when I was 17. Like, I told three of my closest friends one day at lunch, and one of them ended up reacting poorly to it because she was super religious. She actually started distancing herself from me after that. Then, a few days later, I noticed people at school looking at me differently, and people who didn’t even go to the same school as me were messaging me, asking if it was true. I wasn’t ready AT ALL for any of that. So much so that I forced myself back into the closet. Of course my friends knew the truth about me, but I denied it with everyone else. I haven’t even told my family.
Regardless of whether or not someone has came out to a few people already, that does not make it ‘safe’ to expose them to the whole world. If I wanted everyone to know, I would’ve shouted it from the rooftops.
(On the plus side, one of the friends I told ended up coming out as bisexual and the second friend was - and still is - EXTREMELY supportive of us so I don’t regret coming out in the first place whatsoever) :)
@Dante Matteo I was outed too when I was 17 I’m still 17 I had a crush on this girl her name was Raquel she was straight so I use to put your so beautiful and you’re beautiful inside and out stuff like that on Facebook I commented that on her Facebook page on her pictures and mostly half of my classmates and students knew about it and well they found I was gay because I liked her and well that was how I was outed in school
martin is one of the most infuriating character ever created, 🚫🧢
When I tell you I cried....
I came out after I finished watching this movie and holy shit did things go south quick. My parents just... Hated me.
i feel you, how do you feel? are you okay?
Ngl, I bawled in theaters during this scene
This broke my heart, I love Simon sm
The one scene that I know by heart
I wouldn’t have forgiven martin that easily
this reminds me of what my mom did to me.. i came out to her and she told my dad and he yelled and yelled at me for it, then they told the rest of my family. still today they always mention how “it was just a phase” because i don’t talk about it anymore. still a 2 years later i’m pan just as i came out. you know what mom and dad? i’m sorry, i’m sorry for who i am.
The thing that u hate the most about u, the thing u wanna cut out of u is the thing that is making you you. Dont be sorry for Who you are, but i am sorry for you that u got auch a shitty family that doesnt accept you as who you are. And idk what I am, maybe I am gay, maybe I am just bi or maybe I am straight but I have such fear that my parents will not accept me as the one who I am and that they will kick me out of the house after all these years, I think I know what u r going through and I am so sorry but I am sure u will find the family that will love u and will be happy that you are who you are
(Fuck I'm crying now sorry)
(Edit: if u read this far it would make me happy if u would respond to this just make sure things are okay with u, sorry2 )
Martin is lucky that Simon isn't a violent person, I swear.
Martin is so selfish, Simon had every right to be mad at him. Blackmailing is not a funny matter, coming out is supposed to Simon's thing and Martin should've respected that. But all he cares about is falling for one of Simon's friends and being popular in school. That's both sad and heartbreaking.
It’s been years since I saw this movie in theatres and this is the scene I will always remember.
They got ONE f-bomb and they used it so fucking well
This is ✨powerful✨
Damn, this happened to me, too. My cousin outed me to my entire family, friends, his friends, and their friends. It was like 200 people. I ended up getting death threats.
Outing someone has to be one of the worst things you can do to someone who is gay. Y'all don't know the pain and damage you can cause to that person, especially if they're not ready to come out.
My favourite line and scene and i cried
Can I just say that i love how mature Simon was here? If this was any other guy Martin would wake up in the hospital. But everything Simon said would hit a lot harder than any punch.
i honestly did not expect this film to have a curse word
this is maybe the only scene in the movie that’s truly 200x better than the book
I’m so glad that Simon finally said what he wanted to say to Martin, it was really so unfair of him, it hurts that gay people go through stuff like this, Martin blackmailed him and said he’d out him if he didn’t get between his friends crushes on one another and help him get with Abby because he liked her, Simon hated doing it, he went along with it because he didn’t want to be outed, and then after everything he’d done, Martin went and outed him because Abby said she didn’t feel the same way he felt about her and he’d embarrassed himself in front of the school and wanted the heat on Simon, how could he say he didn’t think that Simon would suffer through anything when he clearly wanted that for him so everyone would stop making fun of him for humiliating himself. It’s never right to out someone, it’s up to that person to decide when they are ready to come out and who they come out to. Just as Simon said, at least he still got to tell his parents himself, but Martin screwed with him big time and ruined his friendship with his friends.
0:29 when you’re trying to tell your friend a joke but they finish it instead
I felt this in my BONES after being outed
I love this movie
I couldn't really understand back when I watched that movie for the first time but since then I figured out that I am bi and the thought of coming out to certain people horrifies me. I'm definitely not ready and neither was Simon and it was such a horrible experience. Now I understand this scene and I feel it with my whole heart.
0:17 always makes me tear up bcs it’s so real and it’s such a real fear for closeted people and the actor did such an amazing job portraying that
I LOVE this scene
This scene is soooo cathartic
I love so this movie
I Fr balled my eyes out with this movie 😭😭😭
“I didn’t think people still did shit like that.” Oh honey, you have a lot to learn.
I'm not gay as far as I know, but I know a lot of people who are and I would hate the person who would ever do that to my friends. So I think that Simon handled it very well. And too all the people who see this: don't be afraid to be who you are and when this happens or happend to you, Just know you're not alone.
GO, SIMON.
Another day everything turned completely upside down😈
😭💙✌🏼I love this Movie
They spent their one f-bomb well
0:32 Simon throws an F word at him.
Nick is so hot 😍
I can't get enough of him 🙊🥰
whenever i read a wattpad story about some jealous and vile person out someone else, my mind always goes back to this and i get so angry, fuming almost
I was outed as well, I know how I feels
yeah it's no joke. i'm so sorry that happened to you and I hope you are ok
Some people never fucking learn. Here after online idiots made kit Connor feel pressured to come out before he wanted to. Don't go trying to get people to come out before they want to or assuming people's sexuality.
thats exactly what I was thinking about and why I came to watch this scene? it almost makes me cry thinking about how real Simons words are when you think about Kit’s situation.
Team Simon wooool you go boy you tell him boy
Simon has the right to be angry at everyone. Martin was a piece of shit, and his friends didn’t even try to understand why he did what he did. I get that what Simon did to his friends was kind of an asshole thing to do, but he was just trying to protect Blue and himself. His friends have the right to be angry too, but I think they should have at least tried to understand why Simon tried to keep Nick away from Abby. But I still think Simon deserves to be as angry as he wants at Martin, the school, his friends, and I guess blue. I just feel bad for him, and I can relate to having to hide a part of you that you don’t want anyone to see, because you don’t know how they’d feel about it, and that’s not only because I’m also gay.
0:13 *HE WAS RIGHT IN DOING SO. SIMON DID THIS TO HIMSELF.*
Earlier in the movie he's like why is coming out a big thing tho.
It shouldn't be a big thing. However, we live in a society where his literal safety can depend on who does and doesn't know.
That scene was T E N S E. I got goose bumps. And I gotta admit, I thought Martin had low self-esteem and might turn out to be suicidal in the next scene.
Putting this here for me. ❤️
0:17 "I don't care if you didn't think that my coming out was gonna be a big thing, . Look you don't get to decide that. I'm supposed to be the one that decides when, and where, and how, and who knows and how I get to say it, THAT'S SUPPOSED TO BE MY THING, And you took that away from me!"
This happened to me yesterday and I was angry bc I was supposed to be the one to tell my parents 😔 and the people I trusted .
This scene hits differently now for me...
I wasn't outed so I don't know how it feels. I do know that if someone tried to out me, I'd beat them to it🤦