ObGyn Reacts: Christian Sex Education
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- Today we're going through the Christian Sex Education film "How Is A Baby Made." I can't find any information on when this was released or what age groups it was aimed, but it's an interesting peek inside the world of religious organizations and their take on sex education.
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As someone who lives in a Christian southern town, our sex-Ed was basically, don’t have sex or die. Most of the teen pregnancies happen in the south, legit as a kid I thought a man and woman have to be married to have a baby.
We don't even have sex ed :)
Yea I'm from Arkansas and we were just taught about STDs and they basically said that if you have sex before marriage you'll get them, and that the only thing effective 100% against pregnancy is abstainance, and that condoms don't work if not used correctly, without teaching us to use em correctly
@@cwispygiraffe same here in texas
"What if I wanna have sex before I get married?"
"Well you'll just have to be prepared to die"
Where I'm from we don't classes dedicated to sex ed, we have biology class and guidance class may touch on it but I've never had a class like what I see on american tv
If a child is old enough to ask a question, they are old enough to receive an honest answer.
Ignorance does not protect but only leads to fear of the unknown and manipulability by others.
this is true
Yep. Kids need true answers. Age appropriate, but honest.
I completely agree. I remember being really disappointed when in a public bathroom, where there were signs not to throw stuff down the loo, including tampons. A girl (not even that young) asked her mum what the lady in the picture was throwing down the toilet and the mum said it was a mouse and just laughed. The girl was so confused! I feel like that kind of attitude just perpetuates a societal approach of shame around women's bodies, menstruation and menstrual products. She could have just said it was a product women use when they're older or something, she didn't need to give a full on sex ed lesson in the loos obviously. Lol
depends. You don't need to go into FULL detail because kids learn by copying, if they think that's what grown ups do they'll wanna try it. I know parents who tell their kids in parts.
@@RagDollCookie completely agreed
Until I was 14 I thought that if I slept next to a guy I would get pregnant
I thought sleeping next to a woman would get her pregnant
That's not ok
I mean if you sleep next to me then yes you would
Same 😂 I had "the talk" it just wasn't very informative
Some women get pregnant that way I learned. Not everyone does penetration.
A teacher at my Catholic school became pregnant and immediately went on leave. I later found out it was to keep the young kids from asking questions. Like when I asked my mom how she got pregnant. My mom told me that's what happened to married women. At 11, I thought, Great! I just won't get married then. I thought the priests said a magic prayer that made the newly married woman have babies at random. I'm so glad I realized what an ignorant person my mom was and educated myself at the library.
Wait until the books explaining sex ed are yanked out of the libraries and are labeled as pornography.
There shouldn’t be just one sex talk with your children. It should be a series of age appropriate discussions that span many years.
YES! I remember one teacher that told us about the practical part of sex, like how actually the sperm and the egg meet, and how important was concent and all that good stuff... That was actually how I learned what sex actually was. But that was ONE day of class, and in like 8th or 7th grade... Then every sex Ed class that we have after that was about how not to get pregnant or catch an infection or disease. But every year was the same information and not what we actually needed or wanted to know...
I agree. I’m a Christian, and my seven year old son has asked multiple times what part of the mom’s body the baby comes out of, so I explained, using correct anatomical terminology and an illustration. As his curiosity grows, I will continue to answer his questions in an age appropriate way. I want him to have the correct information, but not overload him and I want him to feel safe coming to me with questions. He knows a little about periods too, he was very concerned that mommy gets “really sick” once a month 😂 He also has a three year old sister, and I want him to understand what’s happening to her when she starts menstruating and to have some compassion.
10000%
Exactly! My boyfriend and I were both raised Catholic and the sex Ed was severely lacking-we plan on doing this with any kids we may have.
THIS
Two other issues not addressed by MDJ:
1. Fetuses don't look like babies when they're 8 weeks old.
2. Not all families live together.
Thank you! When I saw that image my jaw dropped.
1. It’s sex Ed I don’t think that divorce is really relevant
2. I don’t think divorce is supported by old school Christianity
But to be fair a lot in their video was also irrelevant lmao
@@thesadslav419 I think OP might've been talking about long distance relationships or something like that, more likely divorced parents but it's possible for a married couple to live far from eachother
Tbh for the first one this is for kids. They’re going through the process of how babies grow and stuff so it makes sense for the fetus to look like a baby. It makes it easier for the child to understand, so I think it’s a bit of a cute way to get across “this is a tiny baby, this is how big you were when first conceived.” Tbh if they didn’t gloss over the sex part and insinuate you have to marry someone to have a baby with them, I think this’d be pretty good. Shame they royally screwed it up.
I lost my 8 week old unborn sibling this week. I will assure you that he/ she (still too small for us to see gender) was infact a baby, who should have had a heartbeat. If you look really close you can see Matt's/ Felicity's developing face. Who we lost was a baby. A baby who people like you would have murdered without so much as a blink.
I went to catholic school and got the catholic sex ed talk. When I was 6, a boy(also 6) ran up to me and kissed me, I was terrified for years that I might have a baby and my parents would disown me. They never told us how babies got there or how long it took to have one. Until 8th grade I thought they just appeared inside you one day if you dated a boy or something. It was only then when my friend told me how it actually worked
You were drive by kissed.
That’s so sad. I feel bad for you 😢
They did their job as intended
My parents never told me about periods and sex. I knew all that only because of my friends. When I hit puberty, my mom regretted so much not telling me about periods. And she still refuses to tell me why we girls get periods. Luckily, my school had an sex ed program and explained all this. Not once but twice.
Does is pain?:V
To be fair, scientists still aren't completely sure why women have periods. The leading hypothesis is that it makes it easier to have a miscarriage at a moment's notice. Humans have highly parasitic fetuses, and they often cause damage to the uterine wall, so the mother's body will decide to have a miscarriage to prevent damage to the uterus and hopefully allow her to have a baby in the future. Routinely shedding the uterine lining might make it easier--at least in the early stages of pregnancy-- to quickly and cleanly remove a potentially dangerous fetus.
That said, she probably wasn't thinking about that when she didn't talk to you about incredibly basic stuff.
I'm sorry she didn't tell you about periods? Please tell me it was because you were a dude because if you were a girl I will be so mad.
@@mushu_beardie2556 dont women that have sex and like dont pull out or use condoms have miscarriages super often? my mom told me this and ive thought it ever since. so your egg is fertilized and then your period is delayed but randomly it comes back and its because you had a miscarriage? so pregnancy tests that give it to you 6 days before your period starts or smth like that arent good because youll know you had a miscarriage instead of just thinking your period is late?
@@ambrosesky About 1/4 preegnancies end in miscarriage, not including the estimated 2/3 embryos (fertilized eggs) that never implant (which is the beginning of pregnancy from a biological standpoing) and come out with the period. It's also pretty common to have a miscarriage at the very beginning after implantation. The 1/4 thing is likely an underestimate because a lot of pregnancies miscarry before the person even knows they're pregnant.
Women who have unprotected sex probably do have more miscarriages overall by pure amount, just since they have more potential for an egg to be fertilized, but proportionally they should have the same number of miscarriages/fertilized embryo as any other woman. If that's what you're asking.
Pregnancy tests can't even tell you if you're pregnant until at least 3 weeks after you had sex that led to pregnancy. If you're worried about knowing if you had a miscarriage... I don't really know. Pregnancy tests can't tell you if you've had a miscarriage. They can tell you that, yes, in this moment, you are pregnant. If you take one a few weeks later and it says no, after having said yes, then you've had a miscarriage. If you miss your period, it's best to take a pregnancy test, so you can deal with that information however you see fit. If you want it or don't, going to planned parenthood is a good option. They can either get rid of the pregnancy for you, or give you information on how to keep yourself and your baby healthy during gestation.
If you have any more questions about reproductive health, planned parenthood's website has so much information about human reproduction, STDs, and safe s*x.
This also implies that you can’t get pregnant outside of being married. That totally won’t backfire.
Excellent point! Same with love being the necessary part. I haven't even thought about it for a second because of how illogical this is but if a kid is presented with something like this as their first "sex ed", omG.
It could’ve at least said it’s ideal to have children once you’re married, but it’s also possible outside of marriage. I don’t have a problem teaching kids that you should wait until you’re married to have kids, that’s just how it is in a lot of cultures and religions like Christianity. It’s a video made by Christians for Christians, so of course it’s going to promote Christian family beliefs. However, this video heavily implies that you can’t get pregnant outside of marriage, like your body somehow “knows” you’re not married so no babies for you
Man, imagine if that WERE the case! I wouldn't have to spend so much time/money/worry on birth control! That being said, now I AM married, and go figure, still don't want kids!
I definitely believed that for awhile growing up 😂
I had a best friend whose mother was a Christian preschool teacher and whose father was a worship leader at the church, and they raised my friend so sheltered that she LITERALLY believed until she was about 21 years old that you couldn't get pregnant unless you were married. Thank God she was asexual anyways so she never had to find out that that wasn't true the hard way. 😅
I grew up where the euphemism "sleeping with" someone was highly used. So, for the longest time, I thought all I had to do was fall asleep next to a guy and I would get pregnant. It was terrifying
It’s over used so much still today. I hate that euphemism so much.
I used to think that too lol
me too
It was a time where parents were being too careful and thought if they gave away too much it would ruin things. I always got embarrassed just thinking about it
Same. There was a boys meet world episode where Corey and topanga get locked in a big closet overnight and are found the next morning sleep next to each other and everyone around them acted like they did something awful namely sex. Lol
When my kiddie was around 5, they went to a fantastic school inside a University campus. It meant that 80% of the parents (not me!) were PhD students or lecturers in a range of subjects, and all of the parents were quite intellectually open! One day, a parent organised a play date for the group of 5 year olds, and while she was cooking, she heard one of the boys (not her kid) saying "the baby comes out of the asshole!" She stopped, and shouted in to the room "the baby comes out of the vagina," and the kid shouts "oh, yeah!" - a cute story, but also, it fills me with joy knowing that my kiddie had that environment where the kids and the parents all talked about the science of it openly, and answered questions honestly. My kid now, even though they don't have periods, advocates for their friends that do, and keeps pads in their backpack, and isn't afraid or embarassed to talk about sex and science and all of that jazz. They're a wonderful human being.
My child also carried pads & tampons as well as condoms for their friends whose parents wouldn't buy these things for them. I was happy to supply them.
oh nah
@@jacktheus2265 why nah?
Why is your kid a "they" 🤔🤔
@@tech_with_froches because they are non-binary, and use they/them pronouns.
What you said about being afraid of randomly getting pregnant hit SO hard for me. I was bloody terrified as a kid and God would just go "yeah time for you to have a baby" when I was still 9. I couldn't sleep at night, that was how anxious it made me. Parents, please teach your children that stuff, they don't have to be under such stress for no reason.
"...they show their love in many ways"
"I know, like hugging and kissing stuff"
"... ... ...Right"
THE MOTHERS PAUSE KILLED ME xD
Mom is thinking "As long as they're with someone who does foreplay, RIGHT DEAR?!?"
I feel like the pause was the voice actor reading the line thinking, "....Really?"
6:37 ish is the time stamp in case you want/need it
AND STUFF. XD yes, the and stuff is the crucial part...
xd
“Hey dad, where do babies come from?”
“The uterus.”
“But how does it get into the-“
“JUST AS GOD PLANNED.”
Is this true?
@@veniceshensoriano2742 ummm no lol
@@veniceshensoriano2742 no? The fuck
@@veniceshensoriano2742 No it was just a joke. I hope you’re doing the same.
ohhhhhhhhhh i dont know how its made im 6
I had a friend in high school whose family was extremely religious. She was told to never use a unisex restroom, because men also used those restrooms and she could get pregnant by sharing a toilet seat - but it didn't work that way with family, so toilets in their house, or grama's, etc, were ok. She was also told sitting too close to, talking to more than 1 boy at one time, or flirting, could make you pregnant. She was literally terrified of men and the boys at school because she was convinced she'd never graduate because she'd somehow get pregnant. But she was also open minded and listened to us when friends, teachers, the school nurse, etc, told her it didn't work like that. Whenever I went to her house she still refused to let me use the bathroom though, so she was still a bit paranoid about it all even after reading most every book in the school library about human biology. She told me it's the reason she decided to become a biologist, so I guess bad sex ed wins for once? >.>
There was a married couple from very religious families that went to their doctor after years of marriage, but they didn’t have any children.
The Doctor done many tests and examinations, telling them that they were both a healthy couple in their 40s,he saw no reason why they couldn’t have a baby. Then during a conversation something was said, that made the doctor ask some questions.
This couple had been married for about thirty years neither knew the physical requirements of making a baby, because no one told them how. Closed religious communities really need good education. This happened in the 1980s or 90s I think.
This is why teen pregnancy is the highest in conservative Christian areas, this video implies that 1. Cuddling gets you pregnant
2. You can only get pregnant if your married
That totally won’t cause any problems. I can totally seen teenagers being like “oh it’s fine we’re not married so we can’t get pregnant” yeah this is why we need to teach REAL sex Ed in schools and not allow parents to opt out of it. If they don’t teach their kid how to protect themselves from pregnancy and then get mad at them for being pregnant it’s their own fault.
I had to opt in to letting my kid learn about puberty in a public school. It's standard biology. I didn't have to opt in to learning about gastroenterology so why puberty!?
Infinite Lives exactly like if they don’t know there is gonna be a lot of confused and scared pubescents. I can imagine all the girls who think they’re dying when they start bleeding out of their vag
I mean, they teach it like that so they don't get pregnant, if they don't sleep with eachother then it's really hard to do anything of that nature, they knew better than to act the way they did, it's common since. I don't get why kids these days do the things they do.
@@charlesepperly1526 it's called the idea of the forbidden fruit. sex would sound extremely curious and mysterious, so they would want to try it without knowing anything about it. if something is hidden from you, you actively try to go and search it out, you don't just stay in place, and unfortunately immature kids will do it.
just because you tell a kid to do something doesn't mean they'll listen. you have to be smart about it, while staying truthful and honest.
@@charlesepperly1526 teen sex and pregnancy rates are highest with abstinence only education. The more info kids get the more likely they are to delay sex and be protected. That's just the reality. So if your goal is to decrease teen sex and pregnancy the best method is comprehensive education.
I feel like the repeating of "it's all God's plan" is like a huge middlefinger to people who try and can't get pregnant
LMAOOOOOO
@@HS-mn6jc I *think* he’s talking about an African Tribal belief that in order to get rid of an STD you must have sex with a virgin. Which everyone would think, “who would absolutely be a virgin?? Of course! A child would!”.
He might be talking about another religious belief, but yeah… it’s fucked up, but… that’s also a thing…
@Bea Adopting is of course a beautiful thing, still it can be sad when you can't get pregnant, so the phrase 'it's all Gods plan' just sounds tactless to me (especially with miscarriages). That phrase just lacks empathy to me.
@@lonelyartist4 As someone who can't get pregnant and even miscarried - I don't feel it this way. I am convinced God's plan is always to give the best to me, even if it might be difficult - like not having (my own) baby. So if you are an unbeliever, you don't have to care about the phrase at all (you don't believe God even exists), if you are a believer, you trust Him and His plan for you through ups and downs... :)
Thank you.
This makes me so glad to have parents who weren't afraid to answer my questions, and for teaching me to never be afraid of asking them.
I was raised in a Christian family and never received any sex ed. I am current 13 and have learned it all from the unreliable sources. Thanks, internet.
Same here, literally know everything from internet. That leads to some wild stuff I'm into now
Oof. I'm glad you found a good channel for education at least. Planned Parenthood's website also has some really good explainers about human reproduction. I recommend them if you want something a little more comprehensive than CZcams videos that might only cover bits and pieces of the whole reproduction picture. They have a "For Teens" section on their website too that has a lot of stuff that's important to know but that you might not have even thought to ask about. They don't just do abortions. Their focus in on all reproductive health, whether it's keeping a healthy pregnancy healthy, ending a pregnancy, or not wanting one in the first place.
I'm so sorry to hear that. That shouldn't have happened.
They really swerved around just talking about it. “Special love times” doesn’t cut it, guys.
@@sanmukh6894 the point is that most parents don’t educate their children about sex. They rely on teachers in schools to do it for them and then they’re taught BS like “special love time”
@@ashleydiane87 yeah and if schools go into too much details, some parents get upset and accuse teachers of teaching pornography :(
🤣
Or some schools actually go into a bit of detail but then make major errors on even how the parts work. Then when students who got actual sex ed outside of the school ask about the disconnect, the students get shamed by the teacher.
(Um, definitely not speaking from experience of having to tell a grown adult that a boy's first erection is in the womb, not early puberty, and that this alone isn't what allows a guy to get a girl pregnant…)
Absolutely!!!! This is a dangerous thing to say in many ways. Just ugh no
"And families are people living together."
Divorce/shared custody: *exists*
It exists. But it isn't the best option. No one plans for that, but you have to build back after a split happens. I think the video was trying to show the goal rather than all the possibilities.
Matriarchal/patriarchal families/children living with their uncles, grandparents, neighbors, etc: exists.
Me a divorcee's child: *disappears*
@@englishislit7720 divorce is not the best option...
Hmm... this floor is made of floor
I went to a catholic school and my friend's mom who taught kindergarten at the school divorced and she didnt get an annulment (a piece of paper from the church saying the marriage never existed, basically) and they basically asked her to resign. Families that dont all live together face a lot of shame in christian communities unfortunately.
I go to a Christian private school and they teach us everything we need to know. Not all Christians are like this
Honestly for the age of the intended audience and that this is a Christian video, I feel like it was more detailed than I would expect.
One of my biggest problems is how Christianity never talks about the families that don’t work, like abusive households and children who weren’t expected, etc
It's no wonder so many people have religion based trauma
@Duck
I do, I was raised in a Christian household and was forced to go to church, but turned out to be an atheist, but I see your point. I just didn’t wanna type that much and simplified my comment as much as I could
There’s different types of Christianity, heavily influenced by culture as well. The Bible actually does talk somewhat about bad relationships and gives a guideline about how people should treat their spouse. I think the problem is very conservative cultures that don’t discuss it. I was raised Catholic and the old school Catholic version of marriage was you stayed married literally no matter what. My god mother (person responsible for your Catholic education in the family) told me even if your husband beats you you still stay, you just go to your parents for a couple days to cool off. Craziness!! In really Christianity allows for divorce in those types of situations and the Bible tells husbands not to be harsh with their wives, or god will literally ignore their prayers. It also tells husbands to love their wives like Christ loved the church which is a tall order considering Jesus was tortured and died in the cross for the church. Then we define what love is, since that is different to different people, and it literally tells you in Corinthians (that verse everyone uses at weddings).
@@CMM726 Exactly. A friend of mine told me that her grandma would get beaten on a daily/weekly basis by her husband, and has been for decades, but because of those very beliefs she never got a divorce. Thankfully her abuser died a few years ago.
@@newtonthenewt1400 yea I think it comes from the old European cultures. Not sure the culture of your friends grandma, but culture and religion meshed in midevil Europe in some very dysfunctional ways. In Spain divorce was illegal for many years, while Spain claimed to bee a Catholic country, which claims to be a form of Christianity but the Bible literally allows divorce and gave divorced women certain rights under the ancient Israel system of government outlined in Leviticus and exodus. The Catholic Church was very corrupt and didn’t allow people to own a Bible, and many couldn’t read, so that’s how they Kept their power over the masses. Single mothers usually make up a huge portion of those impoverished and the church is supposed to care for single mothers and orphans. I think they figured they could keep tithes for themselves and not Allow divorce, thus keeping husbands providing for families even at the detriment of the women and children suffering from a violent male abuser. The church was teaching everyone the virtue of staying married. My dads side of the family is Italian American and they really believed in the Catholic values of staying married and keeping families intact no matter what. Some of that is great but in cases of sexual or physical violence the person needs to leave.
Even God is rolling his eyes at this. I'm picturing the Robert Downey Jr. meme. Haha
True. I also like to think that he'd be like Chris Evans Captain America sighing meme too.
Except that God doesn't exist lmao
Haha same!
@@lorenzospadoni3155 except he does
@@lorenzospadoni3155 hahahaha
I love your reaction to this film! When my mom decided to talk to me about sex she pulled out the Bible, read a couple of verses and said "wait untill you are married". Thanks mom!
As a christian, not all of we are like this☠
My mom grew up around a lot of amish people. She knew a young married amish couple who didn’t understand why they were’t conceiving. Turns out, they didn’t understand what they needed to do to make a baby, so they never did the sex part.
💀💀
That is hilarious.
Imaooo
Did they every learn? Bet their minds were blown if they did.
What confuses me is that most Amish are farmers. Who have cows, sheep, plow horses ... and probably know how to get a new plough horse. ??
I'm also troubled by the little girl saying, "I can take care of it just like one of my dolls", and mom's response is, "Yes darling." A baby is not a doll. It is not easy to take care of. It isn't "a fun time", nor can you ignore it when it's no longer amusing to you. There are so many very real things that get ignored with this kind of "education.'"
I swear you are just looking for things to pick out because people are bashing this video right now lol. It was just a side thing. Kids say that all the time and even the smartest of parents still usually say yeah.
The whole tone of this video is disturbing. Like, being a member of a family is all happy happy joy joy, love and roses. Do these people even live on the same planet as me?? Being part of a family was great at times, but also a complete pain in the --- at times... We loved each other, basically, but there was a lot of squabbling, crying and kicking as well. Unlike your dollies, sweetie, the baby will cry, poop, and eventually grow big enough to get into your stuff and wreak havoc. Get ready, it's gonna be hard!
@@i-lovliesk-diamonds7317 no? Because it can end up actual problems?
Exactly. I really have a problem with painting being an older sibling as fun and games. It's not easy. Not in the slightest.
Not to mention that it's the daughter, the female child, saying this, while the brother (the male child) says nothing. That just pushes more gender stereotypes onto children.
This is why I am so glad we have streaming. I no longer have to risk going to a movie theatre, sitting next to a guy, and walking out pregnant.
6:00, if your balls are arranged this way, you should ask your parents if they are siblings
Why? What is wrong with them?
"Christian Sex Ed is like Defense Against the Dark Arts under Umbridge. You don't need to know about it because you won't be doing it."
oh this one made me giggle thank you
Nail on the head my friend, nail on the head.
lmao
very true
😂😂😂
My cousin was raised in an extremely religious family and was never told how babies were created. She ended up getting pregnant at 17 and just had her baby. She still doesn’t know how she got pregnant. It’s sad.
Wait she doesn't know how she got pregnant to this day? How is that even possible? And if that's the case then you should definitely tell her..
@@RandomSwiftie13 Her parents are so controlling that when she asked them how she managed to get pregnant they literally told her “That was just Gods plan for you” she refuses to believe anyone who tries to tell her
Holy shit
That is very concerning. I hope she knows one day.
Ooof imagine sexual assault
My parents refused to explain what sex was to me, and for the longest time (until I started HIGH SCHOOL) I thought that how someone got pregnant was when two people kissed and really loved each other and suddenly the girl gets pregnant 🤦♀️
I had to learn about it from the internet because I wanted to look for fanfics about a show I liked
Mom still claims she never had any intention to explain it, ever, she was going to let us figure it out the hard way. And how my sister found out was by accident when she somehow found video porn online
Wait, your mother wanted you to find out the hard way ? What, does that mean she was ready to let you have sex and get pregnant to actually explain how it happened ?
@@enanoiii apparently yes, and I will admit that I didn't even know where my vagina was placed, I knew it was down there but for some reason I was so confused on where exactly it was. had to suffer from years of yeast infections before I finally told my mom and she explained what it was, because dumb young me though everyone got itchy down there
Your mom isn't a very good parent is she?
@@craycraywolf6726 shes a parent, not a good one not a bad one, but I will say she won't get to know me once I move out, this is just one of many reasons why
@@maggiemidnight8957 That's fair
It's hilarious, my parents never gave me sex ed, nor did my school. I ended up finding out about how it all worked when I was 11-12 years old, accidentally, on the internet. Then I researched a couple of medical articles (e.g., Healthline) on anatomy and understood what was actually going on. Honestly if it weren't for the internet, I probably would be completely clueless.
Me too. I learned about sex at 12 through the internet as well
My friend was told she should never, ever hold a boys hand because she would end up pregnant. So, all while we were growing up she would never let a boy hold her hand. Then at 15 she got pregnant. She had no idea that the sex act is what actually makes you pregnant. Her boyfriend didn't have a clue either. He just believed her when she said they could not hold hands. It sounds ridiculous; it is ridiculous; but if you don't give your kids honest and accurate information, that's the kind of thing that can happen. And my sex education wasn't much better!
I don't understand how that escalated in that way. Her parents just told her "don't hold a boy's hand" as if it would make her stop doing everything more than that and didn't bother to explain anything else or keep an eye on her? I wasn't taught about sex properly but also my parents never let me be alone with boys til I was basically in college. I'm not saying that's right, I'm just saying it's internally consistent...?
@@Topaz_Estrella c'mon on now, you can't expect people with kids to PARENT.
It's so much effort and time doing things that make you uncomfortable or you don't want to for someone else's sake instead of your own.
But also abortions can't happen because of EVERYONE ELSE'S sake, they'll be SO uncomfortable with your decision.
It's not about what's healthiest, it's about what conservatives want. DUH🙄 (/s)
No offense but how do you go from I can't hold your hand to I guess my vagina can hold your penis. ... Wait, I'm pregnant... What??? I mean, I was super sheltered but dang, this person is extremely uninformed.
this is why not having sexual ed is so dangerous!
Jfc.. how.. why.. 😭😭😭
The other problem with calling babies “God’s miracles” is that when someone wants to have a baby and is facing some difficulties (maybe one of the partner is infertile, for example) they’ll think that it’s some kind of God’s punishment and they are not worthy of this “miracle”
Just adding to the discussion as I’ve seen it happen
Or even worse she gets pregnant by being raped.
I feel like it's diminishes what a miracle is. There 7B+ people currently alive, miracles are supposed to be rare.
This is a really good subject that you bring up and it was an issue that went back even in Middle Ages. Every time a couple was infertile or had some sort of complications (disfigurment, dead or disabled baby etc) they considered it either THEIR sin that caused god's punishment or some sin of their forefathers that needed to be paid by them.
It is indeed a double-edged sword calling childbirth and pregnancy a "miracle". Yes of course the whole concept of pregnancy can be seen as a miracle of nature; how out of two small cells there is a potential of an actual living organism to be born but on the other hand, as you brilliantly stated, any complication might be perceived as "punishment" or "result of sin" instead of an actual medical issue that needs to be adressed.
Also as some commenters brilliantly pointed out here, there is nothing "miraculous" out of a pregnancy that is caused as a result of abuse or rape.
The last thing a 13 year old pregnant rape victim wants to hear is that the fetus inside them is a "miracle", which is another serious issue that needs to be adressed.
Maybe they are being punished. You don't think Jehovah plays favorites? Just look at the lives of the prophets.
Or the devil made them not able to have babies
I grew up Christian, and for the longest time ever, I thought you got pregnant from a tongue kiss, even with the same gender 💀
I can belive The "Kiss a boy You like/let him Kiss You" thing to Get pregnant, but a Tongue one With The same Gender, The 10 years old Me Wouldn't belive that tbh, but i Get your point.
@@NoSoyDib It didn't make any sense but I believed it until I was like 12 😭😭😭
I grew up with this type of sex ed, while my mother thought this would "protect" me, it did the opposite. I was curious and so how I learned more about it I was exposed to pornography. So moral of the story, just tell your kids the truth even if it's "not pure"
so you rejected the protection of your smart intelligent mother no doubt there’s plenty of us rejecting people:(including but not limited to parents):who maybe genuinely wanna protect us and that sorta that I see in shows films movies whatever
My school is a Christian school and they actually talk a LOT about sex ed. We learn that in a lot of different subjects and the teachers aren't really afraid of saying how babies are made. I remember one time in 8th grade where we actually had to do projects in groups in Religious Studies talking about sex ed and how to prevent pregnancies. No one in my school thinks that babies are made this way (first because it's stupid, second because the teachers really care about teaching that to us)
You are really fortunate then.
I went to a Catholic school and got abstinence-only sex ed, on top of it being terrible like the above video. Luckily, I was a giant nerd, and I already knew how biological reproduction worked in other animals, as well as how STI's are fought in humans with condoms, but solely due to my interest in science outside of school. I think they assumed our parents would tell us everything.
@@AbandonedVoid that's terrible! I couldn't imagine how horrible and uncomfortable that was
@@AbandonedVoid catholic schools seem to sin more than they don’t sin it’s kinda stupid
something I've noticed about even the more informative modern Christian sex ed classes is that they still don't mention same-sex couples or discuss abortion or sometimes even adoption. most don't discuss birth contr options besides condoms, so if yours discussed more than just condoms, i'm impressed. i was fortunate enough to have received good sex ed at my school, where we talked about pretty much everything except how protection works in same-sex relationships. again though I was very fortunate, as my older sister went to a Catholic school and received abstinence-only education. she was taught such ideas as the "chewed gum" or "used tape" analogy. if you don't know what those are I can tell you but my comment is already very long lol
This feels like the titanic: started strong and glorious, met the big evil sex-iceberg and sunk pretty fast
LMAOO
Lmaooo
H a
SEX-ICEBERG LMAOO
It started like shit, too. Talking about imaginary garbage, such as god and miracles.
Funny story- My wife (prior to converting to Judaism ) was super catholic and never knew how babies were made! She also didn’t know about a period and thought she was dying when she got hers! We are in a Same-sex relationship and when we ‘got serious’ for the first time she asked “Can you wear a condom? I really don’t want to get pregnant.” At first I thought she was joking, but it turned into me educating her on sex. When I was growing up I learned what it was at 6- I just assumed it was normal.
Why would her ask for a condom if you are in a same-sex relatonship?
I’m going to start asking my husband if he wants “special love time”. 😂
When I was pretty young and asked how people have babies I was told “when you’re married and god wants you to have a baby, you have a baby”. For the longest time after that I declared I wouldn’t get married because I knew something of child birth and it sounded scary. I learned the truth at Girl Scouts a couple years slayer, when one parent left a book on where babies come from for another parent to use, and we girls got a hold of it and read it aloud.
"God made their bodies fit together in a wonderful way" and also the insinuation that women can only get pregnant when they're married just really grinds my gears. I imagine somebody without prior knowledge would assume if they're close to their spouse (and only their spouse) they'll just become pregnant, right? I feel like this helps perpetrate the "holding hands makes a baby" assumption that sometimes kids make. Infuriating!
Unsurprisingly, Ive heard "can't get pregnant horror stories" that are exactly this.
Um, those kids were holding hands a lot in the video..
@@Braneloc oh dear
I always thought that you have to marry someone that one day you get a kid. And now i know and it‘s actually stupid that the world tells you that you MUST marry if you wanna have kids. Even if i‘m not christian, i grew up in a very christian surrounding
Their bodies are made for each other though lmao
As a Christian, I absolutely hate how some of the persons in the religion twist and rephrase certain aspects in the Bible to basically imply that sex is impure. Like, children (specifically teenagers) need to know what sex is and they need to know that it is not wrong unless it's premature or done without consent.
I also hate it when Christians make it seem as if rape is a punishment from God. IT IS NOT.
It's basically a human's twisted instincts and sin. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I-as a Christian-have never heard someone say that rape is a punishment.
@@WandaMaximoff1998 neither have I. But I have heard people say stuff like “everything that happens to you is God’s plan,” which I think Christians need to stop doing. God puts us through trials, yes, but getting raped is a result of another evil person’s actions.
@@ohapplesauce agreed
@@ohapplesauce exactly
@@WandaMaximoff1998 I think they were talking about the putting the blame on a woman if she dresses inappropriately. Some Christians do that if you wear clothes they think are to showy
Up until I was about 11, I thought you bought babies at the store in the freezers 😂
As a Catholic, my parents never hid the truth about sex from me. They were always comfortable explaining how things work. Now, addressing the "miracle" bit. Is it a miracle? Yes. Is it God's blessing? Yes. Is it also part of science and how the way things work? Yes. This is how I understand it. Faith and Science go hand in hand.
Slightly
@@Ichigitchyyayadada
science = comes from intelligence given by
from god the literal creator
of literally everything but define faith?
@@noorbohamad5796 they forced galileo to renounce to his beliefs because "it is unholy"
@@Silly_Entertainment_Co.
sucks for Galileo but who forced
him to renounce what beliefs?
@@noorbohamad5796 the church
This is a true story but it sounds fake because it's so outrageous: A acquaintance of my boyfriend's, we'll call him Sam, met his wife a few years ago. She had just left another guy after becoming pregnant very early on in their twenties. Sam and her immediately became intimate during the pregnancy. He actually thought that since they had sex while she was pregnant, that the baby would (hang onto your seat) BECOME BIOLOGICALLY HIS... "I mean, the baby is probably mostly mine by now" were his exact words. After some questioning, it was deduced that he thought the fetus would absorb his DNA from his sperm, dead serious, no joking.
This is why we need to teach proper, age appropriate, sex ed. Seriously this guy exists.
Bless his heart...
OMG I’m rolling in the floor laughing at this one. This poor guy!!
@@prettyevil6662000 One of the strangest conversations I've had with someone ever! And we live in a fairly progressive state, so I know for sure he wasn't going to school in a sheltered, biased environment, except for probably in his home. Even I remember learning at high school in a co-ed health class about how sex and fertilization worked. There are some people who want to change things, to be more conservative with how sex ed is taught, but to the detriment of the students. There are appropriate ways to deliver material to age groups that are ready to, and need to, learn about those things.
@@CMM726 No kidding! He's one of those people that I'm glad I see him only two or three times a year at most and I don't have to talk to him for long..most of the stuff he says makes me want to bang my head against a wall..
I... I have no words.
I get sooo mad with the "god decides to bless you with this miracle" rhetoric (and I'm a Christian) because there's gonna be someone who has fertility issues and they're gonna believe that god doesn't love them enough to give them a baby. If they don't just get pregnant immediately after marriage, how do you think they're gonna feel? It's bad enough for the ones who can't have biological kids who don't grow up hearing this sort of thing.
One of the first things I figured out in my infertility journey is that the ability to bear children has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do with personal worthiness. I mean seriously, just look around you and then tell me that with a straight face.
That fad several years ago of women getting up in meetings and tearfully proclaiming, "I'm just so grateful Heavenly Father found me worthy to have these children," drove me right up a tree. Fortunately it's passed.
@@cathipalmer8217 WOW I truly feel for you, that sounds so annoying. I hope you're doing well.
I had to struggle through infertility hell for 7 years including the meds,shots, ultrasounds, losses and disappointments, but going through it and knowing now how many things have to go just right for a pregnancy to result (in my case and also just in general), I do feel like each of my children are miracles in their own right.
@@laceym3662 I'm sure your kids are miracles! I just don't think the way they talked about it in the sex ed video is healthy
@@TottosmileOh I totally agree. I guess I was just saying maybe my idea of what makes it a miracle changed a little. :)
That wasn't a sex ed video; it was a brief lesson on anatomy and pregnancy.
This reaction video was awesome, please post more!
Then they act all shocked and chagrined when their kids get pregnant. YOU DIDN'T TELL THEM HOW TO PREVENT IT!
This is just the basics, they can expand on it and explain things like how to prevent it later. What IS important to mention is how the…transmission of the sp*rm occurs, and ESPECIALLY that you should ONLY ever experience this process and have a baby growing inside you if you wanted it. Teaching consent at a young age is very important
Facts 👌😌
@@dennapin0 why'd you censor sperm? lol
I'm laughing at the hipocresy here. Like, how can you be mad at the child if it was "god's will"? xD Suddenly "god's plans" dont go quite with their ideals, huh
@@diablosjupi yep. Especially if it's out of wedlock like these guys probably want it to not be
"God has the hardest part."
All women who gave birth under extreme pain/dying at childbirth: "am I a joke to you?"
We are co-creators of the life God gaves us, but we are an instrument; but tell me, do the trumpet do all the hard work to create music? no, is the musician that does everything, it's not a flawless example, because humans do a little, but in reality we just let it happen in ourselves, God does all the real work...
@@pabloduarte1722 Sure bud, alright 😂
@@rainbowsong909 of course ☺️
@@pabloduarte1722 believe what you wanna believe but I 😀 you do realize you’re tossing aside and disrespecting millions of women who have died from giving birth to those creatures
@@joscarler IKR
as a person who grew up in a christian household I can confirm this is how my mom explained things to me. she told me about the sperm and eggs and I found out about sex from my friends who were not from school (I'm enrolled in a private classical christian school) because they assumed I already knew and would make jokes about sex sometimes causing me to look things up 💀
You're the funniest doctor ever! Keep posting great commentaries like this.
I'm actually not from a Christian family but a family where sex and pregnancy is kind of a taboo.
My parents never told me about anything, only some misleading information.
Therefore most of my childhood I seriously believed that if a man or boy got too close to me I would get pregnant.
When I was 7 I had a 'boyfriend' and we were skating when we both tripped and landed on top of each other, I was terrified and started crying - told him to go home and I ran home and into my room where I then cried.
I remember being so scared that I suddenly would start showing and "what would I tell my parents".
It was really dumb but when I tell you, the literal *fear*.
BRUHHHHHH 😭 I once "slept" with my brother (I was in middle school) and I thought that I would get pregnant because I slept side by side with him, it's embarrassing
@@lemmyseyohelo2543 sameee 😭✋
I have something similar to that. So when I was in maybe 2nd grade I didn't have a clue about sex and thought if I kissed a boy I would be preggers. So on one fateful day in gym class I ran into a boy and accidentally kissed him. I cried the whole day and didn't tell anyone why lol 😂.
I honestly thought i had become pregnant from toilet water splashing on my hooha😭
@@lucy_kitty_chan447 OH NOO 😭
My aunt was told not to kiss boys because she’d get pregnant. It was the 60s so talking about sex was taboo back then.
She was 15 and started getting really sick with hyperemesis gravidarum and my grandparents thought there was something seriously wrong with her and took her to hospital after several days where the dr said she was around 3 months pregnant.
My aunt said “but I haven’t kissed any boys I promise!”
The dr then scalded my grandparents and then kicked my grandparents out and told her how babies were made!!!
When she said “I did do that, but my parents said if you kiss a boy you’ll get pregnant so we never kissed.”
W doctor
Satan laughed nearby.
Bruh why are they scared to do the talk
@@ididsomeunspeakablethingsa4899 it was 60s where parents put ppl in unmarried mothers homes, used the mothers as slaves and then took the baby and adopted it out
@@kittymacca80 What you're talking about happened way before the 1960s and was far worse in the earlier years. However, it still happens now, especially in communities where people associate sexuality with morality.
My parents didn't talk about sex of any kind until I was a young teen, and I had a pretty scare conception of how babies were made as a child. I had asked why a woman on TV in a show was already pregnant when she was getting married and my dad told me she 'did something wrong'. So I thought for years as a child that if I did something wrong I'd get pregnant before I'm married, but I thought it just meant doing anything wrong. I sort of eventually figured out it wasn't just anything but realized when I learned about sex that my dad meant premarital sex as being something wrong.
This was the same exact video my mom watched with me when I was 8yrs. old. Then answered my questions afterwards. The question I asked was HOW DOES THE SPERM GET IN THERE? She did the finger in the hand circle thing 😂 It's funny how I can remember that day and I'm 38 now lol!
Is anyone else here weirded out by religious teachings that valorize motherhood and heterosexual biological families, but find sex dirty?
Yaaaas. I hated how my parents said things like you won't find a husband if you don't have a nice attitude and a way to man's heart is though his stomach (know how to cook, basically) etc, etc. When literally having a family of my own was considered abandoning my sisters and playing with the devil????
Well, God set up marriage to be a man and woman. Nothing else is included in that. And sex isn't dirty. It just is made dirty by humans by messing it up. Doing it before marriage is one way, same sex another, multiple partners, cheating on your spouse, etc.
@@LeShiny-mg1cd This is not true at all. Because you define "good" as what society says is okay. God has written in the bible what "holiness and righteousness" truly is by His standards, not humans. And there's no such thing as being too close to God!! Most, are too far away from Him, thinking that being a good person is how you please Him. News flash, no one is a good person. We all sin. Constantly.
@@LeShiny-mg1cd He wants us to pray, continuously. You're just making up stuff from your butt.
@@jazzy_for_jesus6048 your concept of marriage is very recent. Same sex couples have existed forever, and exist in the animal kingdom as well. The only time sex is "dirty" is when it's rape, or cheating. I suppose that's one thing we can agree on.
"God's answered our prayers"
I guess saying "OH GOD, OH GOD" is a kind of prayer
“JESUS CHRIST!” Sounds like a direct call to the heavens to me.
LMAO
Ofcourse it is its from the Bible i read it. thats why saying OH GOD but not praying and saying it in a shocking rude way is bad u can only say that if you are praying or talking to God
@@alpha_jasperflair1097 I hope you realize we’re joking around. If you don’t know how it’s a joke then you’re too young.
What would Jesus do? Saying your own name is narcissistic, yelling oh god invokes his dad, and Mary, mother Joseph is as bad as yelling your parents names. Hard luck man!
Thanks for the entertainment value!
I had a friend who's mother told her that kissing would get her pregnant. Well, she got pregnant without kissing anybody. Kids need to know the truth so they can make better choices.
Não sei Rick, parece falso...
Damn I didn't think that could happen (i mean that i didn't think you'd be brainwashed enough to think that kissing would get you pregnant but actually having sex wouldn't)
If you aren’t knowledgeable enough to know how babies are made, you are NOT ready to be having sex
@@catarro8045 lol dude
Oh no no no that's horrible the poor girl
"when two people love each other"
*Shows a picture of Suzanna and Jeremy, brother and sister *
*Sweet Home Alabama starts playing in the background *
Yeah I kinda cringed at that too. I was like, 'big yikes'.
The parents are probably brother and sister too
@@sleepyote yeah, probably
STOPPPPPPP
Oof yikes
Actually I loved the message at the end even though it was kind of weird that they did not include ACTUAL sex ED
We actually used the book version of this when I was a kid (homeschooled). This was probably about grade 1 level when I read it. A few years later (definitely before 10) got the next book (I think it was called something like "How your body is changing") which went into more detail about sex and also discussed puberty. I don't think I missed too much information but I did also go to a public high school.
"Any questions?"
"Yeah, what's sex?"
"Who said anything about sex?"
"It was at beginning."
"Any questions?"
It's a infinite loop 0-0'
As someone who likes to cuddle my friends a lot, I'm glad God has decided that it's not the right time for me to have 1000 kids a year yet :)
no man you clearly need to be married
XD same!
hello anthony janthony
200L
@@mountainmickey2434 I was confused then I freaked out seeing their username
Thanks to the blessing of the internet and wikipedia and CZcams, I learned how babies are made at 9 years old.
9:54 what about the ones that don’t?
I am a Christian, but thank goodness my parents did not raise me using this video. IF ITS SEX ED, DON’T LEAVE OUT THE SEX
I am a reformed christendom and sex I learnt from movies schools colleges and parents
@@glassflower1316 How are you a reformed Christian? What do you mean by that?
@@chrisprizzle278 reformed evangelical evangelist christendom trinitarian
@@chrisprizzle278 calvinist
@@glassflower1316 great, the invasion started already
The video every 10 seconds:
"JUST AS GOD PLANNED"
But isn't it all Gods plan😐🖐
@@vintagejenjen no
@@vintagejenjen no
@@vintagejenjen no
@@vintagejenjen no
Im so glad my mom taught me about pregnancy and periods, im still a child, but she wants me to know about this stuff and what happens, she warns me about dangers and everything so i can be careful, she also comforted me when i got my first period and showed me about it, im so lucky to have a mom like her :)
When I was younger, I asked my mum where do kids come from and she said you can only have a baby if ur married and only if you pray every day he'll make you pregnant. In year 5 ( or fifth grade if ur American) , I learned the dark truth.
My dad was a Southern Baptist pastor. When I was 8, my mom gave me the basics, but it was more or less to teach me to be afraid of boys. When I was 12, she stopped letting me have sleep overs at my best friend’s house because her teenage brother was a delinquent, and she literally told me, “You get your periods now. That means you can get pregnant.” I took that to mean girls can get pregnant ON their periods, that that was the fertile window. 🤦🏻♀️ When I was 14, I had a crush on a boy from my youth group. One night before I went to bed, my dad stopped me and told me, “I need you to understand that if you ever get pregnant before marriage, I still have no choice but to disown you. You will not be allowed in this house ever again.” I learned that birth control pills cause abortions. I was taught that if I wasn’t a virgin on my wedding night, I would be worthless and my husband would never fully love or trust me. I learned that abstinence was the only way… At my Christian high school, whenever a girl would get pregnant, she would be expelled for breaking the code of conduct. However, the same punishment was not doled out to the boy who got her pregnant, or to other teenagers who were having sex without getting pregnant. I’m every imaginable way, it was taught that pregnancy outside of marriage was the ultimate sin and the only way to avoid that was abstinence.
I am 34 years old now. I married and I have a two-year-old. Becoming a mom really drove a wedge between my parents and me. As soon as I became a mom, I just absolutely cannot understand how they can treat me this way, have any parent threaten to throw out a 14-year-old, or how anyone could make a teenage girl feel like her entire worth is found up her vagina. That’s what Christian sex Ed did to me.
It sounds like your parents were just fearful people who sought to control you with fear which such a shame because that really isn't how christians are to raise their children. You are going to be the generation that changes that so good for you.
As someone who is a conservative Christian who believes in reserving sex for marriage, this horrifies me. A pregnancy is not a sin, the sex is. And sex is only a sin when it takes pleasure without giving totally of oneself to faithfully love the other person and the family the sexual act could potentially create with him/her. What you have just described is a hugely damaging issue in Christianity. So many women get burdened with so much shame and are blinded to the beauty of the human body and of sex. When I discovered Pope St. John Paul II's teachings from "Theology of the Body," as a high schooler, I was blown away by how much sense it made and how beautifully it presents the human person. I wish evangelicals would reference this, because, in my observation, there isn't anything that compares in Protestant Christianity.
wow thats just horrible im sorry you had to go through that, hopefully you raise your child in a way that you see sense in (a proper way) and educate them properly, its so extremely crucial
Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry for that all being your history. I’m sure you are a great and honest mom to your little one ❤️
Nothing like having your own kids. I grew up in an abusive environment and thought it was normal. It didn't really hit home until I had my own kids just how messed up things were.
As a survivor of r4p3, this makes me so sad if a child went through this “education” and went through child abu53 or r4p3. Also as a Christian, we need science!
I am sorry for the trauma you’ve experienced, as someone who can relate, I hope you’ve been able to experience healing and not just be a “survivor” but are learning to thrive. And as someone who did grew up with an even more sheltered version of this… speaking up about the traumas was essentially not an option.
Yes ! This happened to me as well, i was never had sex Ed in school and it was never talked about by my parents. I had no idea that it was SA or r4p3 until 3 years after it happened.
@@amygunzenhauser5634 what?
I never understood why some Christians (and some other religions as well, not just them) are so against science. If God is real, then why is it out of the question that he would have given mankind smart ppl who could use evolving technologies to help us understand how the universe works?
@@nolaray1062 yeah not all of them but those few are very annoying because it makes all of them look bad. Everything in Christian scripture that is meant to be taken literally has some from of scientific explanation, and it really annoys me when people try to disprove any religion with stuff that’s meant to be taken figuratively
Thank you for addressing the actual _sex_ part of sex education and how the lack of it can cause anxiety for those who didn't learn. "Recipe for disaster" is an understatement. When you mentioned that, I immediately thought of the shower period scene from "Carrie". That's an extreme example, obviously, but Stephen King didn't come up with that out of nowhere. Many readers and viewers could not believe that people like Margaret White (Carrie's mother) exist (including Piper Laurie, who played Margaret in the 1976 film), but that lunatic fringe is real. Again, Stephen King couldn't have simply made that up.
so i went to a private Catholic school. sex ed was in 7th grade. basically they taught us parts but never explained the fact that the guy goes into the girl and thats how it happens. they just said the sperm goes in and meets the egg and fertilizes it.
How to explain it to children:
- Use anatomically correct terms
- Possibly diagrams
- Explain the act of making a baby, how the baby grows, birth, periods, and puberty to both male AND female children
- Explain transgender and gay families to children
- Explain that some people don’t want to get married or have children
- Explain safe sex and STIs
- Explain abortion, adoption, and surrogacy
- Explain breast feeding
- If your kids are growing up religious, please don’t force it on them or only explain things through your narrow religious lens. It’ll cause anxiety, hatred, and probably some accidental pregnancies.
Personally, I won’t explain to my kids unless they ask until they’re in late elementary-middle school. (Ages 10-12)
This is perfect! It’s really important to teach your kids about LGBTQ+ families, especially if your religious, so your children learn to treat others with love (and feel loved and acceptance if they end up coming out)! Christians and other religious people, historically, haven’t been, and still aren’t, the most excepting/tolerant people... teaching your kids sex ed with an open mind can fix this.
@@roosterb007 there is no reason to teach it in sex ed as most of these things have been proven to be byproduct of the brain haulting development when young due to trauma,
@@captainstabbin5374 lol no. I need a source on that
@@roosterb007 in Russia, it is against the law to teach children about LGBTQ. It's bullshit but it's more of a political talk.
Another one! Talk about intersex people!
Also I'm telling my kids over a few years. It will likely start off basic around 5-6, but then get more detailed.
10-12 is too late. It was too late for a lot of people. I think you should be talking about consent as early as 5 years old, even if it isn't sexual consent, or it's just "if someone starts touching your privates or makes you touch theirs, get away from them. That is not okay. You need to tell me if that happens."
I'm a Christian parent, my children have been taught sex ed and actually understand what sex is and know about protection stds ect, children need to be educated correctly so they can make wise choices and there is still a way 2 teach our kids and still keep our faith.
Faith has no place in education
@Gem Williams not that I need an answer, but its for you to think about: are you sure your kids feel comfortable coming to you to ask you questions when they're closer to dating age & their hormones are working overtime? Are you sure they won't feel reluctant because they think you might chastise them instead of support them?
@@zayatamburelli5322 well having sex has things to do with religion because that can play a big part in who you do it with and decision making etc. Also religion can be in education if people want it to be, especially if they are teaching their own kids lol
@@lorriefinley3129 not at all, I have a completely open relationship with my children and I answer them honestly. My kids will talk 2 me, but like you said how can any of us be sure if our kids will tell us everything christian or not?!
@@kathryn_is_weird you're really going to say that it's fine people let an ancient book where pretty much everything is scientifically proven to be false, decide how their sex and love life goes? AND it should be in our education? What mad house did you escape?
It's really important to give children a proper explanation about sex before they get "educated" by their peers. Once there was a boy, who heard from his friends that sex is when "a person kisses someone else while they are both naked". One day this boy took a shower and their family cat entered the bathroom and waited for the boy. The boy got out of the shower and was happy to see the cat, so he gave it a usual kiss on the forehead. But a moment later the boy realized he was naked and the cat was obviously naked, so he got really scared. He started crying, ran to his mother shouting that "he just had sex with their cat". Imagine the mum's face before she understood what really happened!
Oh my god...
The ‘special hug’
With a dance that you do when hugging
I love how she just had a gummy bear ready just to correct their measurements
You never know when a gummy bear is most needed.
Gotta have a snack
@@NiaWokeUp _the forbidded gummy bear_
@@ember2933 yummy :D
Yup ... exactly how I learned it growing up ...
As a guy, I wasn't as worried about it, although there was the anxiety of getting someone else pregnant by being near them.
I was still always so confused about exactly how it worked until much much later when I figured it out with the help of some graphic graffiti on one of the bathroom stalls in high school...
perhaps thats why girls thought "boys have cooties" or whatever in grade school XD
One time when graffiti is useful. 😂
Huh. My parents were always very honest about it all. I knew exactly how it worked. It’s truly eye opening to me that there were high school kids walking around, not knowing how it works and feeling genuine anxiety that they might accidentally get someone pregnant.
Thanks for your comment!
One way to find out XD
Well at least u found out
Had the best 1st grade teacher back when chalkboards were still around she took the time to draw and explain it all in detail. Mom was a bit taken back when I got home and started talking about it then followed up with the question what else was I told that wasn’t true learned a lot that day😂
Really cool video!
My Christian parents are cool and wanted us to know what really goes down. Sheltering your kids bc you’re worried that they’re gonna rebel is only gonna make them rebel quicker and rebel more
I watched this happen in real time to so many kids in my HS.
Same here. I'm Christian myself and my mom is willing to answer any questions I have about sex.
*I just don't usually go to her for advice, cuz it's feels so awkward to talk about.*
Ikr
@@queenofuganda7718 dont feel awkward, they know that its their responsibility as a parent to teach you about life 🙂.
@@queenofuganda7718 I don’t want my parents asking me why I WANT to know about it lol. I’m not interested but sometimes your mind just wanders, haha
And also yah same here my parents told me what happens and didn’t hide it from me lol
The severe lack of serious sex education is truly horrifying. Every young teenager needs to be aware in order to prevent serious illnesses or a pregnancy from occurring. Lying about it solves nothing
Plus there's women condoms and protection and male protection with condoms for outside of marriage
@@glassflower1316 true but there’s those type of people who would say “sEx beFoRe mArriagE is a sIN!” and stuff like that which is kinda ridiculous.
@@spacedorito9592 I wouldn't say it's ridiculous it's just called people have different values then you not everyone thinks the same you know. I'm not talking about skipping sex Ed by the way I'm mentioning that sex before marriage being sinful Is just how some people think there's nothing inherently wrong with it.
@@chrisprizzle278 I know, I’m taking about people who forced their values on other peoples’ throats.
@@spacedorito9592 I understand that all too well. My parents tried to shove there catholic faith down my throat to make me religious. It had the opposite effect and I've rejected my faith and have been a aethist for a couple of years now.
I had my first period in year 6 but I know plenty of other girls had their periods earlier. Its so important to know what is going on with your body and how you can protect yourself well.
I remember very well that my science book in year 3/4 so when I was 9-ish had detailed descriptions and depictions of female and male genitalia but also instructions on keeping them clean, what to do when you get your period and it even featured an illustration of a couple in missionary position having sex, showing how they fit together. It was all super informative and I am glad I had an extensive education over time as well where we learned more about pregnancy itself and even about abortion rights/where to go to when you need help etc. even though we were at a catholic school. Learning about pregnancy and the "miracle of birth" way before you really learn about sex isnt very helpful I think.
But even if you have reasonably good sex education, you cant be certain that you were taught everything and should stay interested to learn. For example, my current boyfriend didnt know that you shouldnt just flip the condom around if you have put it on the wrong way round the first try. When I told him he was mortified at the idea that he unknowingly risked someone getting pregnant or getting STDs from him because it had happened before with other girls. He just didnt know. And didnt know that there was something he didnt know. Luckily nothing happened but it is so important to pay attention and maybe catch up, read instructions etc just to be on the safe side.
Where did you find that book, I need it.
Ah yes, hugging = pregnant. We don’t need sperm!
The "this only happens when a man and a woman love each other" also leaves the door wide open for not recognizing abuse - because it obviously only happens because the other person loves you and god wanted it that way😔😶
Exactly! It couldn't possibly happen when your stepfather climbs into your bed one night, because you already don't even like him.
@@lynnebucher6537You didn't get SA-ed, right? I'm so sorry if yes.
Yeah, you can only get pregnant if you are in a loving marriage, because r@pe definitely doesn't exist, right 😁
Or, let's be real, just shagging.
You can get pregnant without love nor abuse.
This breaks my heart. I hope families don't have to go through this again, but of course, someone ruins it for everyone.
"Familes are people living together." That's a solid line. It doesn't matter if you're married or friends, and it doesn't matter your gender. Families are people living together. My husband and I, and our animals, are a family!!
I was actually surprised and pleased at how very non-judgmental the video was overall. It was clearly coming from a heteronormative perspective, but they just talked about people loving each other, didn't act like breastfeeding was disgusting or shame the woman who fed her baby with a bottle, and focused on how important it was to care for the baby and that the whole family could be involved in that. They did massively screw up by leaving out the actual explanation of sex, but I was expecting a lot weirder.
What if you have a roommates then?
@@iambekers. Yeah, I think I'm going to live alone for the rest of my life
You said people not animals
@@Zaher74 roommates can be family if you are good friends and very close.
I can’t wait for someone to use that video in an analogue horror series.
Son: dad where do babies come from?
Dad: from the uterus
Son: but how did it get th-
Dad: MIRACLE
I grew up in a very conservative home schooling family. I remember my mom telling me about eggs and sperm and how they make a baby but when I asks how the sperm got in the woman my mom said no one really knew 😂. I used to think it happened through the mouth when kissing but I wanted to grow up and be a scientist who studied people to figure out how the sperm got in the woman.
Your comment makes one laugh but is so sad at the same time ❤️
Yea I could never
Did you ever become a scientist?
This is super sad and funny but it is so wholesome that you wanted to solve the great mystery of how people get pregnant.
But honestly, what is so terrifying about parents saying "penis in vagina"? Why is that so scary?? 😂
When I was in sixth grade, back in the Jurassic, there was a girl in one of my classes who freaked out and had to be sent home whe she discovered she was bleeding all over her white skirt. She thought she was dying. She was from a religious family and no one - not her mom or any of her older sisters - had ever told her about menstruation. I don’t know how she escaped hearing about it at school from other girls, but she did. In those days we didn’t get “health and hygiene” classes (sex ed) until high school.
I am so thankful that my mother adopted a policy of “if my child is old enough to ask, they are old enough for an age appropriate answer“!
I love this 🙌🏼
That's how I taught my daughter when she was about 5 and asked me "Where do babies come from" and "How did the baby get in my tummy". I was clinical and honest with her. She's almost an adult and is not sexually active because she understands HOW babies are made and that they are a HUGE responsibility.
Same with my mom
7:35 I think the “special love times” is actually sex they just don’t say it.
I don’t remember how I learned where babies come from. I just know it wasn’t from an adult in my life (parents/ teachers/ grandparents etc.). Maybe it was CZcams, a friend or a forum. Either way, it clearly wasn’t in any way traumatic for me.
I'm glad that this video spelled out that the vagina is its own hole, and that urine comes out a different hole. The number of people I've seen who think pee comes out the vagina is absolutely staggering.
75% of adult men, for starters.
I didn’t learn that the urethra and the vagina were separate holes until I was in college. Mom and I talked about a relative’s baby who was born with “plumbing problems.” I was surprised that women don’t pee from the vagina like men pee from the penis.
Yep. A friend of mine thought that until very recently. She’s just turned 70!
I was thrilled with that
@@moonloversheila8238 😮😲🤯☁️🕳️