80 Year Olds Share Their BIGGEST Lessons (Advice From Old People)

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  • 80 year olds share their biggest lessons (advice from old people). Lessons that cannot be ignored...
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Komentáře • 554

  • @mariankeller5852
    @mariankeller5852 Před měsícem +211

    I'm 80 years old. The. happiest time in my life was when my kids left home and I spent 10 years alone ...I did what I wanted when I wanted..if I wanted company ..I found them....being alone doesn't equate lonely...your only if you choose to be

    • @kaeros5521
      @kaeros5521 Před měsícem +10

      True!

    • @lynndavid1066
      @lynndavid1066 Před měsícem +10

      Well said ❤❤❤

    • @A13JMC
      @A13JMC Před měsícem +3

      Quiet time is think things out time, be one with yourself. That means what? Get out of your car at a Byrne Dairy. Someone approaches asking for money. Or you get a seat at Byrne, and a stranger questions you about wearing sunglasses. A loud overbearing person. What do you do? Or at a Circle K gas station, an employee is talking to his wife, and I hear one of then say to the other referring to me, next time he's here ask him if he's gay or bi. Recognize threat situations and act wisely, get out fast, or avoid as a place to go as a habit.

    • @KittyT-wz7wm
      @KittyT-wz7wm Před měsícem

      Unless you have mental illness

    • @tigerkhanshort3053
      @tigerkhanshort3053 Před měsícem +5

      @@A13JMC The nerve of that person is obnoxious.

  • @donmilo4733
    @donmilo4733 Před 2 měsíci +238

    I’d rather be lonely then heartbroken

    • @diligentsun1154
      @diligentsun1154 Před měsícem +26

      The owner of a lonely heart is much better that the owner of a broken heart

    • @LaurenceDay-d2p
      @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem +18

      Or disappointed when you get betrayed or backstabbed.

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem

      Once upon a time a young divorced mother, after heartbreak, decided you are right! Determined to care for her daughter alone, she became a workaholic. In times not working, the young woman busied herself building a brick wall around her heart to never have it broken again. Self sufficient, she raised her daughter to understand working to earn anything she desired. As independent as her Mom, the little girl was working evenings during high school, so moved out to enjoy her new found freedom at age 18 as her mother kept working her career, and of course building her wall planning to work until age 80 or death, whatever came first. After her daughter moved out the mother was running errands on a lunch break & a truck hit her car sending her to the ER instead of back to work as planned. Unfortunately, doctors discovered arthritis had occurred during her years of working 20 hours per day on her job & wall. At only age 50 she had spinal X-Rays more of at least a 70 year old hard labor worker, she was warned that she couldn’t return to work & her situation had been reported to all labor authorities, so she would be required early retirement to prevent paralysis docs wouldn’t be liable for. Knowing her wall would be completed within a week, she went home to try to make sense of everything. Upon her 6 week medical visit, brick wall completed, she asked advice. Her specialist advised as follows:
      “We delayed telling you about early retirement bc I sensed you as an independent working woman like myself, but you now have a 5 pound lift limit you must adhere to, or at best you will be paralyzed from the waist down (wheelchair confined) from the bilateral sacroiliitis & degenterational disc disease in your spine.
      Fortunately, your only child is grown & you are still a reasonably young, attractive woman. You have worked an impressively long time so paid in enough towards your retirement to, not live as comfortably as you’re used to, but get by alright with a start over & long life ahead. I will provide comfort medications, so with support of your loved ones, no reason you can’t enjoy life at least another 30 years”.
      Dismayed, the mother went home with a heavy heart & heavier mind. Exhausted, she crashed on her sofa, replaying the information she received to try to understand. She WAS only 50 years of age, so perhaps she must start over. Having had already lost her parents in her thirties, she felt alone, respecting that her daughter had a life of her own which she was very proud of. Should she tell her, since they kept in touch by text but only seen each other on holidays? And WHAT had the doctor meant about starting over? Sure, she had loved, married & lost in her youth. She HAD bought & paid for her home & car, but how long would her car last? She simply couldn’t lay on that sofa wallowing in doubt, so she grabbed her evening shower & slipped into a robe, flipped on her coffee pot she reprepaired before leaving for her appointment, then walked painfully into her 2nd bedroom, which she had converted into a home office & flipped on her laptop.
      Her home office had a full length mirror which she had cleaned regularly but never really looked into until this evening, letting her robe flop open. Wow, that was a tired woman looking back at her! But actually, not TOO badly aged, considering all of the years of hours she had put in, working 12 hours a day handling & making OPM at work; looking around the room, she said aloud “and at home”, as she scanned her chair as the only comfort zone in the room. That chair was a “bonus gift” from the corporation she worked for. She plopped down in that soft, adjustable office chair (ouch) and wondered what to do now. Her mind slipped into overdrive, considering the hours she had spent building that brick wall to protect her heart. Then her confidence started to fade, wondering if it was too strong for her to remove if needed. Of course it was since she started building it at age 20 & only recently finished it. She didn’t even know her neighbors, her coworkers (friends?) had already quit calling, other than an occasional call for work related information. Remembering the last person she “had to let go” bc her Regional Manager had told her to cut him as dead weight. Everyone else was complaining about getting behind on assignments due to “earning his pay too” and “Why didn’t she just fire him since he didn’t want to work anyway”. It took her a year & the company cutting her bonus to finally just cut his hours so he would quit. So why even think about that now? Obviously distraction from the crisis at hand. I think we all do that sometimes.
      Back to the wall.
      The truth was coming in on her, as the room darkened: the brick wall she had built around her heat for protection was actually a prison. Her heart started pounding loudly in her ears, started skipping, then everything became dark.
      Moral of this story:
      Whether you are young or old, a student or working; it doesn’t matter if you live among a large family or alone. Keep your eyes & heart open & able to breathe. Young or old, we all need love as much as water & air to breathe. Her daughter was heart broken to learn her mother died of Sudden Death due to Heart Failure. What did that even mean? Perhaps her heart was overworked by trying to knock down that wall.
      Written by ©️Crystal K.C.O. Belle 2024 our year of the Lord who always knocks at every heart’s door at least once, but that door opens from the inside only. (He laughs at the different names, as when asked it, He answered with I Am, Son of God, The Word, laughed when asked “are you Jesus” saying “you say I Am”, bc He has a better sense of humor than any. Think not? Look in a mirror! I did & LoL! age 62 GBU all & as He said, “Love one another” ~

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +13

      Pardon typos due to medical issues with my vision but this answered one of you so I can not edit. Thank you for your time & yes, I have lived alone for decades, but have never been lonely & I take His advice by loving everyone, although some from afar. ~

    • @GrooveMan21
      @GrooveMan21 Před měsícem +3

      @@diligentsun1154 So the story goes.😄

  • @lynnehorizon5532
    @lynnehorizon5532 Před měsícem +160

    Sometimes we are forced into being alone and then you realize you actually like it.

    • @HarrySmith-hr2iv
      @HarrySmith-hr2iv Před měsícem +6

      Well said!

    • @STAYPUT1209
      @STAYPUT1209 Před měsícem +3

      Super relate.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @LaurenceDay-d2p
      @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem +3

      No company is better than bad company. Some people tolerate abuse because they fear being alone - and end up worse off.

  • @LaurenceDay-d2p
    @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem +197

    I have lived alone and liked it since I was 18, and have never felt lonely. I like my space, and I like my freedom. The idea that single people are lonely and miserable is nonsense.

    • @debbiesittard7653
      @debbiesittard7653 Před měsícem +18

      I love being single and in this day and age of psychos being on every corner I would not trade my singleness either. I can do what I want and go where I want. You can't put a price on Peace and Solitude.

    • @LaurenceDay-d2p
      @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem +12

      @@debbiesittard7653 Good for you! There are millions of single people who will agree with you. All the best.

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES Před měsícem +8

      I agree. Im alone in a lot of ways, but still have many pleasant exchanges throughout my day.

    • @SantiagoRodriguez-th3ej
      @SantiagoRodriguez-th3ej Před měsícem

      ​@@debbiesittard7653loneliness equal to Alzheimer!!!

    • @onlythewise1
      @onlythewise1 Před měsícem +1

      not

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic Před měsícem +199

    Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings

    • @StandShining
      @StandShining Před měsícem +8

      And also to you @Luckystoic💐🕯️🙏💙

    • @yemisitijani1218
      @yemisitijani1218 Před měsícem +8

      AMEN, and you too.❤❤❤

    • @Luckystoic
      @Luckystoic Před měsícem +7

      @@yemisitijani1218 GOD BLESS YOU❤

    • @jangriffin-fi1yx
      @jangriffin-fi1yx Před měsícem +7

      Thank you wishing you same back ❤ all the best always.

    • @Luckystoic
      @Luckystoic Před měsícem +5

      ​@@jangriffin-fi1yx GOD Bless you❤

  • @davidalexander2167
    @davidalexander2167 Před 2 měsíci +198

    Loneliness is not the absence of people it's the loss of one's self .❤🙏🌞🦋

    • @vickymoshi6038
      @vickymoshi6038 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Sure and lack of self love

    • @michaelkeeton2979
      @michaelkeeton2979 Před měsícem +9

      Loneliness is when others don't reciprocate love . loneliness is the weight of others selfishness!

    • @emmanuelimumolen8660
      @emmanuelimumolen8660 Před měsícem +2

      This hit hard.
      When you love yourself and value the moment you alone with yourself, tell me how you would be lonely?

    • @victoryamartin9773
      @victoryamartin9773 Před měsícem +2

      True; every day that I gain a sense of who I am and what I like is a day I feel a little less lonely.

    • @jangriffin-fi1yx
      @jangriffin-fi1yx Před měsícem +4

      I love my own company never get lonely can live how I want blessed as have 4 wonderful adult married kids & 7 Grandkids we are a close family get together often. I also have a beautiful dog ❤ Will always miss my Husband wish he was here but know he's in safe loving place without pain/suffering. I think someone who has to be entertained surrounded by lots of people is actually lonely I find this quite sad.

  • @laminage
    @laminage Před 2 měsíci +363

    Don't depend on your children too much. They wont' be there and they may resent you. When you get older, you have to change your health habits. No smoking or drinking, watch your diet. Exercise. You're children may contact you for a monetary loan, unless it's money you can afford to "lose" please don't do it. Also do your best to keep the house clean. Your peace of mind is a must. It's quiet, peaceful, and zen. You can take care of your business without being pestered.

    • @marciastewart1527
      @marciastewart1527 Před měsícem +74

      Everything you said makes sense. I’m 90.. I live alone & love it.

    • @DeeDeeOrr
      @DeeDeeOrr Před měsícem +48

      I'm 60 and building a life alone. Blessed to have a sister who does my laundry and picks up my meds. Grateful to have such good family. Stroke survivor. Still effected on left side of body.

    • @janetrobinson8925
      @janetrobinson8925 Před měsícem +27

      Great advice thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

    • @axeljacobs9723
      @axeljacobs9723 Před měsícem +11

      It‘s: Your children, NOT you‘re children. You‘re is a contraction of „you are“

    • @eyeswideopen4319
      @eyeswideopen4319 Před měsícem

      Seriously, that's YOUR response to this persons post? Thanks for bringing negativity to a positive post. Get over YOURself!​@axeljacobs9723

  • @jammyjay917
    @jammyjay917 Před měsícem +85

    The only one true person you can rely on, is yourself 🥰🥰

    • @romanastrasheim5226
      @romanastrasheim5226 Před měsícem +7

      AND GOD ...❤

    • @user-by4xn8ur8t
      @user-by4xn8ur8t Před měsícem

      ...now about to say that...AFTER GOD JEHOVAH...AND HIS ONLY BEGOTTON SON CHRIST JESUS...OUR RANSOMER🤗​@@romanastrasheim5226

  • @roxypoxy3609
    @roxypoxy3609 Před 2 měsíci +209

    Being alone isn’t bad.

    • @Linasstargaming
      @Linasstargaming Před měsícem +9

      Being alone proves and shows that your content with you and others are not needed for you to feel alive or loved. Youve got you , noone can make you feel more better then what you can make yourself feel. Noone. Hence noone needed. We can help them out in life but you love you.

    • @LaurenceDay-d2p
      @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem +11

      Better than being surrounded by aggravating, two-faced, dishonest people.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93 Před měsícem +1

      If you feel this video is good and meaningful, please comment number 1!

    • @marimuller9530
      @marimuller9530 Před měsícem +2

      Being alone without money makes you bitter , empty , cause you can't enjoy life to the fullest. I would love to go overseas , but not financially possible for me as I have to work to support myself , never inherited money or properties from family or husband. How do you enjoy life to the fullest without MONEY???????

    • @LaurenceDay-d2p
      @LaurenceDay-d2p Před měsícem

      @@marimuller9530 Budget carefully and manage your income.

  • @mavispocorni1593
    @mavispocorni1593 Před měsícem +88

    Be aware of the truth.Sometimes you are with someone and still feel lonely .

    • @debbiel8585
      @debbiel8585 Před 2 dny

      Amen

    • @stephengolden6080
      @stephengolden6080 Před dnem

      @@mavispocorni1593I've never felt lonelier in my life than when I was in bed with the wrong woman.😐💚✌

  • @user-tn8fd4xo8t
    @user-tn8fd4xo8t Před měsícem +115

    Am a 84 yrs old seven minutes ago. All my life, I've been alone and never felt lonely. I am a known as a recluse. I love my life.....

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  Před měsícem +7

      thanks for your sharing!

    • @nahawi1479
      @nahawi1479 Před měsícem

      I am 55 years old and being alone since last thirty years.
      Infact being alone at home doesn't bother me but outside is my daily Drama.
      My Question is it better if I move to a city where everybody is more liberal?​@@Official_Wise

    • @jangriffin-fi1yx
      @jangriffin-fi1yx Před měsícem +7

      🎂 Happy 87th birthday ✨️🎈🎈🎈🎉🎊 well done going good guns ❤

    • @A13JMC
      @A13JMC Před měsícem +4

      Everyone should be living to outlive the Chinese guy that lived to 256! Someone will break his record!

    • @EC-yd9yv
      @EC-yd9yv Před měsícem +9

      🎂🎉🎈🌺
      🎼 Happy birthday to you..
      Best wishes for your 84th year😊🎉

  • @ignacioremis4624
    @ignacioremis4624 Před 2 měsíci +150

    I wish this video would be mandatory for Children in Middle School it would help them avoid a lot of useless Pain.

    • @henrycharles3533
      @henrycharles3533 Před 2 měsíci

      Schools are not there to raise awareness.....they are there to indoctrinate future plantation workers, serfs, to serve the system controllers

    • @acornsucks2111
      @acornsucks2111 Před 2 měsíci +10

      You assume they would listen, but a good thought.

    • @pamelarose9712
      @pamelarose9712 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Very, very true!❤

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +5

      @@acornsucks2111lol, I am now old, but say “I made my most important life choices as a teen, back when I knew everything”. That WAS the blueprint for the rest of my life, now age 62. Awe, but have never had a regret about having my precious son. :)

    • @suellenzimet251
      @suellenzimet251 Před 28 dny +2

      People can be lonely in a crowd and happy by themselves BUT A LITTLE BIT OF BOTH IS PERFECT.

  • @markg6860
    @markg6860 Před měsícem +47

    I've been single for over 20 years. Now, I never get lonely ... and the freedom is priceless.

    • @sissyparker2525
      @sissyparker2525 Před měsícem +7

      You are a winner!! I'm 80, been alone for almost 40 years. Been told that's not healthy. Guess that depends on your version of healthy!!😂😂😂😂

    • @markg6860
      @markg6860 Před měsícem +5

      @@sissyparker2525 It's all mindset. I'm an introvert, so being by myself has never been a problem. You can be in a room full of people and still be lonely. Also, many marriages today are not solid ... more of a convenience or social expectation. If you happen to be in one with someone who is no longer "the one", that can be very stressful.

    • @glennso47
      @glennso47 Před 26 dny +2

      I get more lonely in a crowd than I am when I’m alone.

    • @glennso47
      @glennso47 Před 26 dny +1

      @@markg6860The one thing I liked about the pandemic was the social distancing. 😅

  • @SteveSedberry-cz1er
    @SteveSedberry-cz1er Před měsícem +64

    some people are like clouds.
    when they disappear
    it's a beautiful day. (or night!)

  • @judyhalsell9510
    @judyhalsell9510 Před měsícem +60

    I am alone at 76 years old. At first it was really bad but not now. I read the Bible and have found good pastors to listen to. The verse “ Be still and know that I am God.” Has helped me. I am no longer lonely or sad. I love this video.

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise  Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing this thought!

    • @stephengolden6080
      @stephengolden6080 Před dnem

      @@judyhalsell9510 Let go of pain and your soul, heart❤, and mind can be at peace. ✌💚😐

  • @janejustice8556
    @janejustice8556 Před měsícem +34

    I love being alone and living alone but also love being with people

  • @arthuroldale-ki2ev
    @arthuroldale-ki2ev Před 2 měsíci +82

    I am 77+ and now self Hermitized , as one might say, Todsville , the days are not long enough, I have so many little interests, with a background of classical music, suits me, yes sireee!

    • @jangriffin-fi1yx
      @jangriffin-fi1yx Před 2 měsíci +7

      Good on you me too. How lucky are we? I am nearly 72 yrs old & love my life so grateful to be who I am & way I feel. Blessed with such loving family who would help in a heart beat but love being independent. Love old age answer is to keep as fit/healthy as can go with flow. Love going out but love coming 🏡 no place like it. Life to me is going to get better as time goes by. Happiness comes from within that's fir sure. Certainly don't care what anyone else does have. My time now going to enjoy every moment while here on earth 😊 all taken care of when we pass ❤ Keep having great life 🍀

    • @newlynn7338
      @newlynn7338 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Thanks again am so broken

    • @jangriffin-fi1yx
      @jangriffin-fi1yx Před 2 měsíci

      @@newlynn7338 well we can't have that 🤗 Remember you are the master of your life it is up to you to change what not happy with. Try get organised have routine that you get up each morning do exercise then come back energised ready to have breakfast get some basic jobs out the way. Tell yourself you are proud of yourself that you are going great & will benefit from looking after yourself. Don't be too hard on yourself if tired & miss you have to pace yourself. Even join walking fitness group if need motivation or start 1. Getting out & about good for you from head to toe enjoy after awhile uoy will hate to miss that time. You come back home & appreciate all you have more will be happier. On outings you meet people never know what's install I've gone to coffee mornings with people I've met out there never feel you're the only 1 who feels like you do most people are same. Remember gave to help yourself change what don't like there's always ways around everything seek & yoy will find. Try stay positive "movement" simple inexpensive walking riding a bike or swimming impregnates those thoughts makes feel wonderful & answers fixes problems. Believe in yourself small steps changes huge & life changing. Don't settle to doing 0 about your life don't feel too sorry for yourself always someone worse off alround tell yourself. Appreciate your life don't waste it. Help others pay if forward. Wishing you happy life 💖

    • @jcook2433
      @jcook2433 Před měsícem +5

      Also perfectly content to be me and find pleasure in anything and everything.

    • @ItsMefromSnuffys
      @ItsMefromSnuffys Před měsícem +5

      Still nice to have a little company on ocassion

  • @A13JMC
    @A13JMC Před měsícem +75

    It's better to be by yourself than to wind up with a person who is not right for you. Be selective of people, aware of your environment. Think as an adult for as long as you can. Some of my mom's last words. "I may be old, but I still have young thoughts". Think about that.

    • @imnitguy
      @imnitguy Před měsícem +3

      I'll raise you - "Choose your life's mate carefully; from this one decision will come 9/10's of life's misery or happiness." Credit: Life's Little Instruction Book

    • @moonraker124
      @moonraker124 Před dnem

      100% agree..........

  • @alanhill769
    @alanhill769 Před 2 měsíci +81

    I must play this video regularly. Thank you.

  • @gordonfernandes6873
    @gordonfernandes6873 Před měsícem +40

    As age advances deeply, it's slowly & gradually, recommended to detach oneself subtly & emotionally from everything & everybody...as this Gradually...It prepares oneself better, emotionally, mentally & psychologically , for the inevitable, once it comes ...!!! 🤔👌🙏

  • @gud2go50
    @gud2go50 Před 2 měsíci +63

    Their are so many nuggets of wisdom here that it is hard to take it all in. I wish I would have had something like this available to me when I was a younger man. I hope younger men and women take heed! But your never to old to learn anyway. Thanks for sharing!😊

  • @HughButler-lb6zs
    @HughButler-lb6zs Před měsícem +15

    The two.most important things in life is your health, and your family.

  • @SDC1949
    @SDC1949 Před 23 dny +10

    Alone does not necessarily mean lonely. Learn to enjoy your own company… Don’t be disappointed at other when they fail you. Be happy when they are gone. Life can still be good in old age.

  • @catalhuyuk7
    @catalhuyuk7 Před měsícem +33

    Freedom is more important than belonging, especially if there is no freedom in the collective.

  • @Qz3sv7F2Kb9w
    @Qz3sv7F2Kb9w Před 16 dny +6

    When you feel lonely just call your mind back to your soul.

  • @Fawe21
    @Fawe21 Před 2 měsíci +25

    I realized that you are never ALONE but always with the ALL ONE. This video contains many WOWS. Words of Wisdom.

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 Před 2 měsíci +44

    Life has the most joy when you share it with someone. Being alone is a rough adjustment for many people.

    • @jcook2433
      @jcook2433 Před měsícem +3

      Being alone can be rough but until you learn to be alone, you cannot discover who you truly are and when you are with someone you are not offering the best of you. ❤

    • @stephengolden6080
      @stephengolden6080 Před měsícem +10

      There are times, one can be more " alone," with someone than without them.😑

    • @marimuller9530
      @marimuller9530 Před měsícem +7

      Being alone is so depressing and I can't do anything about it. Being a widow for 10 years and 66 year old , is very hard to find a soul mate again. Men at my age want the young girls , OR they will go for a woman their age , but with MONEY. So if you don't have youth or money , you are the FORGOTTEN ONES!!!! Women lose their self worth after being single for so long. Happiness for me is to love and be loved.💕 Without love I am EMPTY!!! I SUPPOSE IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

    • @bobvandenbosch3304
      @bobvandenbosch3304 Před měsícem +1

      Give love and caring.then you willen be not alone.
      You want love a man fiindig
      Search for friendship go learn a lenguage or art.
      There you met people
      Friends. You can work in a house for older stick people.
      There you met others and make otters happy.
      Your have pitty with yourself
      Go out and make otters happy

    • @bobvandenbosch3304
      @bobvandenbosch3304 Před měsícem

      15:12

  • @yvonnequinones3972
    @yvonnequinones3972 Před 2 měsíci +37

    Very poignant, I needed this. In time I will reach my destination. My husband abandoned me, and my grief is real. Anger and resentments are eating me up. I must figure out another way to get through this.

    • @KenLevens-rf8sb
      @KenLevens-rf8sb Před 2 měsíci

      Tolle's Power of Now helped me several years ago when my fiance and I broke up. Also try Michael Singer books. I know of a woman who kept her resentments going for over 15 years--no one wants that. Best wishes

    • @chrisyates4640
      @chrisyates4640 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Let him go.
      The healing begins. But don't let him come back. When you let go you truly free.

    • @nicoleyaker8069
      @nicoleyaker8069 Před měsícem +5

      Me too, locked me out of our house pennyless. I’m so depressed. Homeless. Moneyless. If I didn’t have my daughter. I’d be dead. I know it.

    • @nicoleyaker8069
      @nicoleyaker8069 Před měsícem +9

      This really helped me to remember who I am. And to get my behind up and moving to get things done. I can do things with no transportation no money and I will pull myself forward once again. He hasn’t won. I will once again move forward.

    • @doricetimko5403
      @doricetimko5403 Před měsícem +3

      It is a gift. You are now free to choose your destiny

  • @cunite9263
    @cunite9263 Před měsícem +54

    Don't forget to include God in your journey in this cruel life who's the only one who can really help you!

  • @user-un9qn4zo6c
    @user-un9qn4zo6c Před měsícem +78

    When you have Jesus Christ in your life,your never alone❤

    • @romanastrasheim5226
      @romanastrasheim5226 Před měsícem +4

      ❤Amen

    • @bridgettstephens5582
      @bridgettstephens5582 Před měsícem +4

      Praise the Lord !! "For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not, I will help thee." Isaiah 41:13.

    • @bridgettstephens5582
      @bridgettstephens5582 Před měsícem +4

      Praise the Lord !! "For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not, I will help thee." Isaiah 41:13.

    • @maryannchausse370
      @maryannchausse370 Před 18 dny +2

      AMEN

    • @sjordan7085
      @sjordan7085 Před 17 dny

      LOL you are delusional, Jesus Christ was a composite invented by the Romans!

  • @jimmieoakland3843
    @jimmieoakland3843 Před 2 měsíci +40

    If you are having a hard time with something, maybe it's because it's a hard thing to do.

  • @jayyoo906
    @jayyoo906 Před 14 dny +3

    If I could not wake up tomorrow morning, I should retire myself, for good.
    This holds me up every day and enjoy every bit of time.

  • @Shaolin91z
    @Shaolin91z Před měsícem +30

    Thanks Lord for your peace
    Thanks Lord for your salvation

  • @suffeedrmb3615
    @suffeedrmb3615 Před měsícem +9

    The more i think of my kids,the more i love .my dog

  • @sandylowhorn6091
    @sandylowhorn6091 Před 2 měsíci +29

    Amazing msg. Im 73 and wish i had a revelation of this when i was young would love to have all this wisdom now.🙏

    • @stephengolden6080
      @stephengolden6080 Před měsícem +2

      But now,you do.😑

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +3

      stephen is completely right. Every day is a new beginning regardless our age, as long as we wake another day. ☀️

    • @tigerkhanshort3053
      @tigerkhanshort3053 Před měsícem

      The person spoke about that, just be happy that you have it now.

  • @Sally-rc6ef
    @Sally-rc6ef Před 2 měsíci +48

    Excellent quotes ,can listen over and over again.

  • @chrisza7938
    @chrisza7938 Před měsícem +11

    Three things define you: Your patience when you have nothing, your attitude when you have everything and your wisdom when you aknowledge you have everything.

  • @yvonnecamacho9773
    @yvonnecamacho9773 Před 2 měsíci +163

    Always keep God Almighty and his son Jesus Christ first in your life!

    • @amitanand5471
      @amitanand5471 Před měsícem +5

      You are also son of God not only jesus

    • @marlo5239
      @marlo5239 Před měsícem +2

      AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +2

      @@amitanand5471thank you.♥️

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +7

      I wouldn’t want to imagine my Life without my best friend & Comforter. Life isn’t always easy, but I haven’t felt lonely in decades, although to many I appear alone. ~

    • @mailywong9612
      @mailywong9612 Před měsícem

      Amen 🙏

  • @buffalogal9139
    @buffalogal9139 Před 2 měsíci +28

    Really very good advice that we all need. Thank you.

  • @user-js3qz5zd2c
    @user-js3qz5zd2c Před měsícem +10

    My lord, my God, fade loniless and alone , Thank you JESUS.

  • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
    @JosephCollins-mk5ro Před 2 měsíci +20

    I Find That Money is very important too! Living by yourself is great if you are suited to That kind of life.

    • @GladysAlicea
      @GladysAlicea Před měsícem

      Yes, but money would be good. I’d travel everywhere and help the children and elderly.

  • @Lynnette4
    @Lynnette4 Před 2 měsíci +45

    Wonderful words of wisdom! Thank you so much!

  • @MindsetQuotes9
    @MindsetQuotes9 Před měsícem +21

    "Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference." From Winston Churchill

  • @londonkhareem6515
    @londonkhareem6515 Před 2 měsíci +24

    Thank you for this video

  • @DeliaHarger-cu7qc
    @DeliaHarger-cu7qc Před 7 dny +2

    On June 14, 2024, I lost husband in his sleep. I lost the man in my life of 65 years. He was my lover, my friend, my provider, the father of my children who I have only one left. I will miss him till the day I am with him again. God bless the man of my life!

  • @harunayahuza7399
    @harunayahuza7399 Před měsícem +10

    I'm amazed when the elderly tells their stories. I'm 60 yrs hoping to learn more.

    • @kandarbo5775
      @kandarbo5775 Před měsícem

      This is a blessing in disguise when the seniors narrate their experiences from which we can learn from (a food for thought).

    • @kandarbo5775
      @kandarbo5775 Před měsícem

      Prophet Muhammad (SAW)lived for 63 years,hence that is a yard stick any one that passes the age of 63 is a bonus for you .

    • @harunayahuza7399
      @harunayahuza7399 Před měsícem

      Aging in itself is learning and goes with certain tensions and tendencies. To aged to certain level too, has its own level of blessings and benefits. Not everyone gets to that. But to sit and chat with your geat ground children 're Greater part of the Joy in the world. We not the same., and our everything cannot be Same.

    • @harunayahuza7399
      @harunayahuza7399 Před měsícem

      Some of the Prophet's had very long Life's. Others too had very short Life's. These are all indications of the Power of Almighty GOD. Telling us that, even with your and the Chosen prophets are called to Him at His Reckon Time without any Hesitation whatsoever. That Tells the Mightiness of GOD.

    • @harunayahuza7399
      @harunayahuza7399 Před měsícem

      There are so many reasons behind the Age of the Chosen One's - especially, with regards to the Prophet's. The number of years given to every Prophet has its own Connotations and Scretcy and only known to He the Mightiest. To Prophet Muhammad ( swa) who Died at aged 63 , has so many dimensions and meanings at the Secret Realms. For example, the Number (3) is a unique Number multiply by (7 ) gives you ( 21) which is also quite and misterouslly . Multiply by (3) that gives you the Age (63) which is very very Unknown to Humanity. So, in short, the Number of Years given to every Humanity including the Prophets has its own Connotations and Scretcy. No one can Tell accepts ( HE ) .

  • @jimmycain8669
    @jimmycain8669 Před 28 dny +6

    Trust God, clean house and help others.

  • @ShesaidHesaidTheysaid10_10
    @ShesaidHesaidTheysaid10_10 Před 2 měsíci +12

    What a blessing! Thank you, though not 80, but great for any age! 🙏🏾❤️

  • @sksharma6741
    @sksharma6741 Před 2 měsíci +16

    Excellent thoughts Thanks sir

  • @user-hn4oi7yz1h
    @user-hn4oi7yz1h Před 2 měsíci +13

    Life isn't easy, should say it hasn't been for me, however it has been an upward spiral. I am grateful and hope I have learned important lessons about many things, including self. I believe life is wonderful, love it!

  • @Jannasieck-xb7wt
    @Jannasieck-xb7wt Před 2 měsíci +29

    Amen they need to learn being alone is not a bad thing

  • @richricogranada9647
    @richricogranada9647 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Many thanks for the ultra wise human who wrote those quotes. They are so true, and should be taught to young humans in school. Wisdom is the best retirement.

  • @BigHammerz
    @BigHammerz Před 2 měsíci +6

    After listening to all of that i can honestly say i feel more like i do now than i did awhile ago.

  • @byron8657
    @byron8657 Před 2 měsíci +21

    In order to be strong learn to walk alone! Miyamoto Musashi Ronin Samurai Warrior

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro Před 2 měsíci +3

      If its good enough for a Samurai Warrior its good enough for me. Lol.

  • @EC-yd9yv
    @EC-yd9yv Před měsícem +3

    Teaching wisdom vs much nonsense in today's schools etc. would be a nice shift , indeed ❤🙏✨

  • @garyhobbins4746
    @garyhobbins4746 Před měsícem +7

    We learn how to survive alone and with others.

  • @ageeibc6029
    @ageeibc6029 Před měsícem +11

    Harry & Megan need this video urgently.

    • @flipdiva0007
      @flipdiva0007 Před měsícem +1

      Not sure who really cares about them. Let them live their life in peace and without judgements.

    • @moonraker124
      @moonraker124 Před dnem

      They are too far gone and up their own arse to be bothered, sod'em.....

  • @samperiannan306
    @samperiannan306 Před měsícem +20

    God said I never leave you. Until death he will lead us. Old Age God will carry us. In Jesus name. Isaiah 46:3

    • @wbl5649
      @wbl5649 Před měsícem

      He also said "it's not good for man to be alone"

    • @moonraker124
      @moonraker124 Před dnem

      @@wbl5649 Get a dog...

  • @CeMan8385
    @CeMan8385 Před měsícem +18

    Not everyone in the Bible got married and stared a family, alone never he's with you always thank you Jesus

  • @carmenthompson9803
    @carmenthompson9803 Před 4 dny

    God will be with you in hard times he's healed of cancer

  • @estherojo9286
    @estherojo9286 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Thank you Sir for sharing your wisdom wellbeing, good living life words and messages with all humans in Jesus Christ name amen 🙏

  • @ArchieThomas3seesea
    @ArchieThomas3seesea Před měsícem +7

    Angelina Jolie, in a movie said live each day as if it's your last, as one day it it will be.

  • @Pete-lp5pw
    @Pete-lp5pw Před 15 dny +2

    I’m 72 years old and I’m so grateful for the years I have been able to live. I’m still married to my beautiful wife who I have been with for 47 years. We have both had blessed lives and I hope we will be together in the afterlife.
    I served 30 years in the Marine Corps and at times that strained our marriage but we worked through it. Other things strained it but we prayed together to our Lord and things are good again.
    These sayings are so true and I try to live by it. But every now and again something sets me off the Marine Corps mouth comes out in me and I will curse up a storm.
    I learned at a young age to listen to older people because they have been around a long time and they have experienced a lot of things.
    I hope that some common sense
    comes to society today but the world is a crazy place to be these days. I’m content to live with my wife in our little corner of the universe and watch the insanity pass us by. God have mercy on this world. It’s gonna need it.

  • @jameshunter3867
    @jameshunter3867 Před měsícem +5

    ...Sage counsel indeed!

  • @allihhussainmazari168r
    @allihhussainmazari168r Před měsícem +7

    The more you control your secrets the more you control your life.
    Imam ali a.s

  • @jcook2433
    @jcook2433 Před měsícem +6

    Wisdom. Thank you. So often I meet others who do not understand how I can be so content amusing myself just by learning, being and doing. I think we grow when we have time to be alone and can then give more understanding to others when we are not alone. It feels good being content to be who we are, whatever that may be.❤

  • @user-ke6jo9yc2z
    @user-ke6jo9yc2z Před 2 měsíci +13

    Wow wow wow its fabulous ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @richardadams6988
    @richardadams6988 Před měsícem +6

    Being old....well I not lonely....I'm just boarded.....

  • @jothompson774
    @jothompson774 Před 15 dny +1

    Avoid people who have "good intentions" judging you by their perceptions of your life and in the process of helping you actually pull you down. Don't let them reach over and rub your arm as if they pity you. Beware of others negative actions toward you which pull you down. Avoid those people.

  • @user-sj6tn7nw6b
    @user-sj6tn7nw6b Před měsícem +4

    BEAUTIFULLY SAID!!!!

  • @kandarbo5775
    @kandarbo5775 Před měsícem +5

    Do not have the notion that,your children should compensate you for what you had done for them.Most often they side with their mothers and May allocate a fix pay for them.If you don’t expect anything from them then you shall have a peaceful state of mind in the event that they failed to live to their promises.

  • @jangriffin-fi1yx
    @jangriffin-fi1yx Před 2 měsíci +4

    Yes love living my life the way I want to ❤ everyday is exciting never know what's going to happen. Love people love but lucky I feel as love my own company never lonely or bored don't believe in that word as always so much to do in life. Appreciate what you have where you have come from always be hopeful. Personally have gone through worst I feel in life. I know great loss, heartbreak & hardship I tell myself not going to be abused used can face what ever comes my way will be able to handle. Not ever running from anything again don't have to as only do right things not wrong. Love life determined rest of my life is going to be wonderful in everyway. Dreams come true & miracles happen all the time 🙏 thank you God for everything & more 🌟 Will always do my best & trust the process ❤❤❤

  • @loegemini-tl2qi
    @loegemini-tl2qi Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is the things I do and work on YES! THANKS!!

  • @maryratton1557
    @maryratton1557 Před měsícem +2

    So true of words to follow in one’s life .

  • @mariannethames962
    @mariannethames962 Před 17 dny +1

    Soo much wisdom and so true. This was wonderful. Good to read every day until memorized. Thank you!

  • @vivianooi8281
    @vivianooi8281 Před měsícem +2

    Thks n GB all

  • @terrymcdermott8320
    @terrymcdermott8320 Před měsícem +6

    When truly alone you'll become aware we ain't alone. ❤

    • @crystalbelle2349
      @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +1

      We certainly do. Thanks for confirmation lol.♥️

  • @julieverma1865
    @julieverma1865 Před měsícem +5

    I am very good with being on my own and alone matter of fact I like it

  • @charlenefriess2128
    @charlenefriess2128 Před měsícem +7

    Did you ever think you wouldn't care about a lot of the stuff you used to? It kind of sneaks up on you, just when you realize it. Then you wonder why you didn't see it before.

  • @jeanettelove8490
    @jeanettelove8490 Před měsícem +3

    Thanks for the wisdom 🧡

  • @ElizabethThage
    @ElizabethThage Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thanks for motivation

  • @sallyclay1974
    @sallyclay1974 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Very true

  • @jinxysanchez2990
    @jinxysanchez2990 Před 23 dny +2

    I want to quit - I'm already a ghost. Loneliness has never been a problem but cruelty is. I'm too weary to fight.

    • @moonraker124
      @moonraker124 Před dnem

      We ALL get to that point, rise up and keep the faith...........

  • @streamingnowstreamingnow2568
    @streamingnowstreamingnow2568 Před měsícem +4

    If it "Takes a Villiage to raise a child" where is the villiage when the child becomes an Elder and needs more help and care then their baby self?

  • @lindaphillips3916
    @lindaphillips3916 Před 2 měsíci +8

    AMEN❤

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro Před 2 měsíci

      I wanted to be a Catholic Priest from the age of Seven to 37! I wish someone had told me I would not be suitable!

  • @crystalbelle2349
    @crystalbelle2349 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for very good advice, regardless of age. Listening or reading are key elements of personal growth.

  • @alexholland1318
    @alexholland1318 Před měsícem +2

    This is so true

  • @mel_arquiza
    @mel_arquiza Před měsícem +2

    An elder advice got all the merits and wise expertise for their real wisdom need to know what we are? and what we are all miissing and never heard so we all need to listen very carefully. Thank you for the sounding wisdom of advice. ❤❤❤

  • @MrRocksoil
    @MrRocksoil Před 18 dny +1

    That was superb an essential framework for anyone's life.

  • @ceeceecole1323
    @ceeceecole1323 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Excellent

  • @newlynn7338
    @newlynn7338 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you

  • @mangiamo74
    @mangiamo74 Před 2 měsíci +12

    The narrator's voice sounds like Morgan Freeman.

  • @NicolasDifroscia-jc8sn
    @NicolasDifroscia-jc8sn Před měsícem +2

    Well said in time everyone goes different ways 😔❤️

  • @cindygreenberg1368
    @cindygreenberg1368 Před 20 dny

    Thankyou for saying that

  • @Vonne292
    @Vonne292 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Thank you for these words of wisdom ❤

  • @hangingwithrain
    @hangingwithrain Před měsícem +2

    Thank you so much

  • @phooichunlau7827
    @phooichunlau7827 Před 7 dny

    Thanks for your wisdom 🙏❤️🥰

  • @dorisingram1368
    @dorisingram1368 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I love this wisdom I love it it's good to my soul 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @dintong
    @dintong Před 9 dny

    Vitamins for all of ages , the young and the old ones. Let's appreciate lives which had been given by our God!.

  • @lyndadunn2777
    @lyndadunn2777 Před měsícem +2

    Would love a book with these gems printed in it. Thank you for these many inspirations.

    • @imnitguy
      @imnitguy Před měsícem

      There is one, it is called "Life's Little Instruction Book,"