Exercise 9: Your Attitude

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  • čas přidán 4. 04. 2024
  • Welcome back to my monthly series of exercises from my book, "The Laws of Human Nature." Today, I examine changing your attitude.
    Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently, The Daily Laws.
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Komentáře • 175

  • @RobertGreeneOfficial
    @RobertGreeneOfficial  Před 2 měsíci +61

    What lesson from "The Laws of Human Nature" do you want to learn more about? ⬇

  • @brokensystembrokentrust
    @brokensystembrokentrust Před 2 měsíci +42

    Who else has been binge watching Robert Greene?
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  • @wangcheng3940
    @wangcheng3940 Před měsícem +299

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago, The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 Před měsícem +3

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 Před měsícem +2

      Amazing. how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 Před měsícem +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @wangcheng3940
      @wangcheng3940 Před měsícem

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    • @NVishuddha
      @NVishuddha Před měsícem +18

      😂these courses/gurus getting out of hand

  • @Zenia.Creates
    @Zenia.Creates Před 2 měsíci +79

    An attitude of gratitude always improves the mood! 🌞

  • @danielagneww
    @danielagneww Před 2 měsíci +105

    Attitude affects decision making. Your lens affects your attitude. Attitude affects circumstances. Great content love your stuff! 👍

    • @nevergiveup5939
      @nevergiveup5939 Před 2 měsíci

      Why are we here in this life? Why do we die? What will happen to us after death??

    • @juliolopez9152
      @juliolopez9152 Před 2 měsíci

      Wait don't you believe in god? So we are here in this life because everyone has a purpose in this life.

    • @danielagneww
      @danielagneww Před 2 měsíci

      @@nevergiveup5939 Don't have the answers to the universe bro.

  • @DouBBy-The-Great
    @DouBBy-The-Great Před 2 měsíci +35

    I've embraced my darkside, and applied war strategies in my life; my empathy and curiosity are honestly super powers at this point... Thank you Robert.

  • @alariaesculenta8177
    @alariaesculenta8177 Před měsícem +17

    "You are the source of your own problem".... I wish I could tell that to a particular friend .... I'm grateful for having developed the ability to be grateful, voluntarily

  • @ericO141
    @ericO141 Před 2 měsíci +9

    That's my favorite chapter of my favorite book. After reading it for the first time, I almost cried. Changing your attitude is life changing and what I personally needed to change the most and still need to improve each day. Like Ryan Holiday says in Ego Is The Enemy:
    “My friend the philosopher and martial artist Daniele Bolelli once gave me a helpful metaphor. He explained that training was like sweeping the floor. Just because we’ve done it once, doesn’t mean the floor is clean forever. Every day the dust comes back. Every day we must sweep.”
    He's talking about Ego, but I still think it applies to basically anything, including the attitude.

  • @harunaharuna4326
    @harunaharuna4326 Před měsícem +8

    Robert Greene you are like a father to me. I love your words of wisdom. Thank you so much.

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Před 2 měsíci +23

    You’re amazing, love listening to your wisdom. Thank you Robert! 🥰⭐️💃🏻

  • @alinajo3582
    @alinajo3582 Před měsícem +14

    This is so true and I can't refute it. The evidence is everywhere. I see people--of wide-ranging intelligence, skill levels, care, diligence, ETC.--achieving some enormous goals just by being action-oriented and bold.

  • @screechandmoan
    @screechandmoan Před měsícem +5

    I appreciate this outlook, but there is a little to it that has more to it than what is said here. If you fail at a business venture, that's not a "so be it" and that's it sortof outcome. There's serious financial consequences to failing, and it's gonna take more than attitude to recover from that particular failure. It's gonna take a LOT of time AND luck.

  • @presciousdiamond8397
    @presciousdiamond8397 Před 2 měsíci +14

    I am currently reading "The 48 Laws of Power " and I love the book . I am fascinated with the insight behind historical events. I really appreciate the time and hard work invested 😁 in the creation of the book.❤

  • @preprodpost
    @preprodpost Před 2 měsíci +17

    I don't know if you read your comments but I wanted to say thank you so much for the work you do. You have saved me in more ways than you will ever know. I always joke that you are my honorary dad, my advisor and guide. I have read each one of your books (looking forward to the next one) since 10 years+ and I was able to transform my life. BTW I am an African woman (former refugee) who had no one to turn to and your books inspired me and helped me through the worst of situations. I wish you all good things in your life. Thank you again!

  • @musicbroadcast2023
    @musicbroadcast2023 Před měsícem +2

    Mr. Greene you are a gift for the world

  • @PandaemoniumGaming
    @PandaemoniumGaming Před 2 měsíci +20

    I love these small lessons. Great video sir 👍

  • @user-pz6bv9mh9o
    @user-pz6bv9mh9o Před 2 měsíci +8

    Thank you Robert, am a young lawyer struggling with insecurity boss, but now I found a rest!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před 2 dny

    Adapting our perspective can transform challenges into opportunities, fostering growth and innovation. 📸

  • @fujosej
    @fujosej Před 2 měsíci +2

    This attitude is the most dangerous and powerful at the same time. The last one , this is true. I thank you for the knowledge.

  • @RodrickNgonyoku
    @RodrickNgonyoku Před měsícem

    Ironically I just finished reading this chapter on the Laws of Human Nature. Great recommendation.

  • @user-ok1pv2rn5r
    @user-ok1pv2rn5r Před 2 měsíci +3

    Dear Robert,
    Dropping in to say thank you so much! 🙏🏽

  • @Pompomgrenade
    @Pompomgrenade Před 27 dny

    Everything this man says is deep and responsible... Outstanding guidance

  • @t.8490
    @t.8490 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you, Mr. Greene for this video. 🙏🏻

  • @BeateBVBildVoigt
    @BeateBVBildVoigt Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much ❤️☘️👍

  • @MichaelSchmidt-wi9be
    @MichaelSchmidt-wi9be Před měsícem +1

    Mr Green is brilliant

  • @Ramenko1
    @Ramenko1 Před měsícem

    This is one of the most mindblowing videos I've ever seen. Thank you, bro.

  • @BhartiJoshi158
    @BhartiJoshi158 Před 2 měsíci +5

    It was needed. Thank you, Sir✨♥️

  • @thegoat1261
    @thegoat1261 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Amazing Mr Greene, this advice is perfect for me at the moment❤

  • @shatakshipandey8014
    @shatakshipandey8014 Před měsícem +1

    attitude is getting good.

  • @mathew9851
    @mathew9851 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you Robert!

  • @denisse.duobert
    @denisse.duobert Před 2 měsíci +2

    I loved everything you said. An adventurous and positive attitude is the best attitude. It is better to try things, even if they don't turn out as you expected, somehow you always get a gain, be it learning, experience, fun, and in the best of cases you get what you are looking for or maybe more. ^^. ... . Besossss Robert 😘😘

  • @emekecho2024
    @emekecho2024 Před měsícem

    Thanks, Robert Greene.

  • @crystalali4106
    @crystalali4106 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for creating this invaluable channel.

  • @cassiefrey8582
    @cassiefrey8582 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Such great and quick reminder, thank you.

  • @anantgosai8884
    @anantgosai8884 Před měsícem +1

    Amazing facts and video! Thank you legend!

  • @ZachBratland
    @ZachBratland Před měsícem +1

    Thank you Robert⚡️🎵

  • @Lisa-mg5lm
    @Lisa-mg5lm Před dnem

    Excellent video 😊

  • @areebahahasan7357
    @areebahahasan7357 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you.

  • @UniversalAbundanceLaws
    @UniversalAbundanceLaws Před měsícem +1

    If I have a hostile attitude towards others it's probably from trusting others who were only out to use me and get as much from me as possible, usually money. Most people cannot be trusted is what I've learned over the years.

  • @ip3931
    @ip3931 Před měsícem +1

    You’re brilliant.

  • @SiriNoloc1012
    @SiriNoloc1012 Před měsícem

    love this chapter is sooooo insightful and fasicnating!! Re-reading the LOHN now. Feel like its good to re-read when making big life changes. Youre the best Robert!!!

  • @crueldecember1094
    @crueldecember1094 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @eriklothbrok5249
    @eriklothbrok5249 Před 2 měsíci

    Great video, per usual. Thanks for sharing 🙏

  • @kritantsaobheekharry4791
    @kritantsaobheekharry4791 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love it !

  • @mukultinkari123
    @mukultinkari123 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I really admire you sir 😇❤

  • @amysattivaradar8552
    @amysattivaradar8552 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks Sir.

  • @vivstyle87
    @vivstyle87 Před 29 dny

    Thank you Sir, I always learned when I watched your educational video🫶

  • @Silverdragon517
    @Silverdragon517 Před 2 měsíci +1

    So true.

  • @MrMauricioelejalde
    @MrMauricioelejalde Před 19 dny

    Extremely interesting and daring!!
    We have to positive but not naive

  • @emekecho2024
    @emekecho2024 Před měsícem

    Good Health = Good Attitude
    Healthy people have a better decision-making process than the sick.
    The reality gets distorted when we are in survival mode.
    In good health we respond, in sickness we react.
    My daily 1st healthy step: Breakfast: Drink a cup of warm spring water for a healthier life.
    Add a slice of key lime. Detox and replenish.

  • @musicbrazilian7065
    @musicbrazilian7065 Před měsícem

    The Laws of Human Nature is my dream book. The book I yearn to read.

  • @rebecaguevara2108
    @rebecaguevara2108 Před 2 měsíci

    Estoy aprendiendo mucho con sus libros. Saludos desde Venezuela :)

  • @ourlovehowerica
    @ourlovehowerica Před měsícem

    Thank you for Aria da Capo intro. Amazing wisenes.

  • @nirzortalukder6832
    @nirzortalukder6832 Před 2 měsíci

    You're awesome!!

  • @jesuscisneros6773
    @jesuscisneros6773 Před měsícem

    I remember Carl Jung's analytical theory . Thank you sir Robert

  • @rrff1643
    @rrff1643 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks.
    Rachid

  • @dr_wnk
    @dr_wnk Před měsícem

    Calling out on someone's behaviour is an absolutely perfect strategy to give people a reality check. This starts with simple statements like "I know what you're doing". Statements like "don't talk to me like that" and I won't tolerate this behaviour" are powerful statements because reputation is extremely important to narcissistic individuals. It not only discourages them but also infuriates them. Be careful it can also make them violent like a mad dog. I have implied this strategy mostly as a last resort and I have gotten mixed results. Correct me if I'm wrong

  • @tammystegall5130
    @tammystegall5130 Před měsícem

    Ty

  • @Mr71217121
    @Mr71217121 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤❤thank you

  • @birthinfluenceembrace
    @birthinfluenceembrace Před měsícem

    Priceless content ❤😊

  • @annaapplebush5316
    @annaapplebush5316 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Excellent life lesson! Love it. Blessings from Hamburg

  • @shankarbalakrishnan2360
    @shankarbalakrishnan2360 Před měsícem

    A product manager said u dont know from where learning comes from but u can and should learn from everything and everyone how I beg to differ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @TheWorldsNo1Superstar
    @TheWorldsNo1Superstar Před měsícem

    The wisdom continues to expand our minds ❤❤❤❤ Feeling Grateful, Thank you Robert!!! #Sidowsobrino

  • @celestialtomas882
    @celestialtomas882 Před 2 měsíci

    Ajuda tomar decisões certas e agir rápido e agir certo para não perder tempo

  • @josephsboy4805
    @josephsboy4805 Před měsícem +1

    Let me pay attention to myself today and see what type attitude I have.

  • @Ultra-Luminary
    @Ultra-Luminary Před 2 měsíci

    I got told off so many times, in my younger days, because I had such an attitude!!!🙏

  • @Z97335
    @Z97335 Před 2 měsíci

    Chapter 8!

  • @katr.9902
    @katr.9902 Před měsícem +1

    You are essential to the betterment of my life. Your mind is a blessing to this world. Thank you.

    • @SiriNoloc1012
      @SiriNoloc1012 Před měsícem +1

      felt this! I genuinely cant imagine what my life would have been without his work. Started reading him at 17! That was 20 years ago.. still reading his work❤

  • @lijh
    @lijh Před 2 měsíci

    Gratitude does change the attitude, though there are no actual, physical, tactical, change that happens to the actual circumstances we find ourself in. No action, no change.

  • @aprilhcollier378
    @aprilhcollier378 Před 2 měsíci

    When are you gonna do guided meditations? I think it will help us “congeal” these strategies in our mind.

  • @more3520
    @more3520 Před 2 měsíci

    These facts have a certain bigness...

  • @nicolasblanckaert2035
    @nicolasblanckaert2035 Před měsícem

    I have a completely different attitude depending on what I'm looking at. Some of the things I do like "I'll be wet and what" and others "oooh noooooo it's slippery" but I'm most like "find another path to the same place"

  • @omarzidan.981
    @omarzidan.981 Před měsícem

    How do I improve or change my attitude, Mr Robert ?

  • @shrgai8821
    @shrgai8821 Před 2 měsíci

    What's your opinion on Akira Toriyama? He was a legendary master and he somehow united the world through a fan community yet was aloof in nature... How can we describe his creativity and what lessons can we learn from him❤

  • @Atmarammahale
    @Atmarammahale Před měsícem

    I am in same situation in 1 month ago,i am trying to get her back,but she cheated on me.
    Then i realise doesn't matter,who leave you.only you the source of your happiness and good mindset.
    Focus on your goal,you will get much better than her.
    Change your attitude to see the world.

  • @HA4-7-8Productions
    @HA4-7-8Productions Před 2 měsíci

    I have always been really interested in the Jungian concept of the shadow and how to integrate that more into your life. I feel often in life we are expected to appear well put together because of this we often are not aware of the deeper parts of ourselves and we ignore it or worse actively try to suppress it. How do we integrate the shadow in a way that allows us to live life well and be a full person living and breathing as we are.

  • @naamnei
    @naamnei Před měsícem

    👍🏾

  • @user-io5mt1hf5g
    @user-io5mt1hf5g Před 2 měsíci

    Robert between these three men which one would you be if you could be one of them and this is just a question , so you’re free to pick none of them if that’s your choice , all three are listed below ?
    The Man Who’s Always Right
    The Man Who Always Wins
    The Man Who Has Everything

  • @mysterious_billionaire
    @mysterious_billionaire Před měsícem

    Is it better to take a major loss once to get rid of someone you know is a bully and not good for you once and for all, or should we fight and compromise in which case they'll stick around...??

  • @raoo55
    @raoo55 Před měsícem

    Please post the names of all your books and about whom you have written them, make that video so that everyone can get help by reading your book.

  • @gypsy2007
    @gypsy2007 Před měsícem +2

    This video is very confusing and it seems to be singling out one type of person. Anxiety happens in a lot of cases, if not all, from trauma. You can't think away trauma or adjust on will. What about the other types of people that could use changing? the perfectionist, the overly confident/narcissists? Judging someone's way of acting and calling it "attitude" feels like more pressure on some of us to try harder when we have already exhausted ourselved to fit in, and are finally finding ways to lower the stress and the striving. I think it's plenty ok to find our own way of being in the world. Are you anxious? Don't put yourself in situations where you will be triggered. Work on it but also know that you have a way of being (for whatever reasons this happened), and respect it. I can't stand pressure to fit in anymore. Perhaps because I am not older and wiser.

  • @machyavelli4890
    @machyavelli4890 Před 2 měsíci

    Wizard.

  • @nicholastracy4915
    @nicholastracy4915 Před měsícem +1

    Big bro saved me from a coquette... If I hadn't read the Art of Seduction multiple times in prison, I wouldn't have picked up on her coquetry. No hate for it, but don't want to be a part of the strange games.

  • @safwaannizamuddin1975
    @safwaannizamuddin1975 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Then what type of attitude should we have towards whether or not i should get involved it a relationship with this person... Like how to rationally make a good decision

    • @justaunknownguy9530
      @justaunknownguy9530 Před 2 měsíci +1

      He talked about this (the best attitude ) in one of his shorts . Where he talks about ultra realism (seeing things as they are not by your own clouds of emotions) it is also in his new book called the daily laws . On the other hand he talks about the power of daily habits

  • @user-nf7pr8ls4i
    @user-nf7pr8ls4i Před měsícem

    how to tune our attitide which is highly influenced by trauma and fear. I tried so hard but the air isnt fresh again as before😢. save me robert

  • @my_channel_44
    @my_channel_44 Před 2 měsíci

    'I don't like your attitude' 😊

  • @hireallymatters1027
    @hireallymatters1027 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I am very soft spoken kind person also I have low self esteem what should I do ?

    • @_vincent_n_rocxy_1618
      @_vincent_n_rocxy_1618 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Learn about yourself - and know your worth.,

    • @siddarts
      @siddarts Před 2 měsíci +2

      Seppuku

    • @i_prizz
      @i_prizz Před 2 měsíci +5

      have firm boundaries thats it. you are you. you don't need to change your kind personality just learn the things that triggers you and find where they come from. when u do that u automatically starts to learn more about yourself and your self esteem will automatically grow.
      Take a paper and write down your limiting beliefs in it and understand their origin i.e., analyse are those beliefs actually yours or other ppls gyaan

    • @hireallymatters1027
      @hireallymatters1027 Před 2 měsíci

      @@i_prizz being a soft and kind person makes me realise PPL take you very easy person also I ve seen PPL have this authority kind of personality they are very respected by others also PPL have this a fear which I think its very necessary in this world , otherwise trust me PPL will try to attack you not maybe physically but emotionally, psychologically all you can do with this kind hearted personality is say to others that you can't hurt me or why you saying that this kind of stuff but they will anyway gonna say because they don't have this lil fear which is again necessary this is my own experience do share your thoughts

    • @christinacreates2393
      @christinacreates2393 Před 2 měsíci

      You should go to therapy. It takes time to change and you need to learn how to change. Go to therapy or read a ton of self help books.

  • @lekistaflurry6323
    @lekistaflurry6323 Před 21 dnem

    I have a question but would want to ask in person because the internet tear down so much😅

  • @kennysiu-HK
    @kennysiu-HK Před 2 měsíci

    You don't / can't change your attitude, you have to change your positioning comparing to your opponent (others).

  • @ivainyamutsamba8540
    @ivainyamutsamba8540 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤🇿🇼

  • @dogg208
    @dogg208 Před 2 měsíci

    is attitude and mindset the same?

    • @Ultra-Luminary
      @Ultra-Luminary Před měsícem

      The attitude is the action of the mindset...?...

  • @angel-no5sy
    @angel-no5sy Před měsícem

    Ok

  • @TB-ki1ux
    @TB-ki1ux Před měsícem

    DropComment& ThumbItUp 4AIgos

  • @travisortwein6974
    @travisortwein6974 Před měsícem

    Me? Im just hoping across the rocks asap to get to the other side

  • @SO.Broadcast
    @SO.Broadcast Před 2 měsíci +1

    these little snippets are kind of like auditory post-it affirmations. SO to summarize: get out of your own head! :)

  • @DEEPANSHUU-et4bt
    @DEEPANSHUU-et4bt Před 2 měsíci

    1 st view

  • @Zack-tl9tg
    @Zack-tl9tg Před měsícem

    THE ONE THING ABOUT ME THAT NO ONE WILL HAVE A SAY IN THE MATTER' IS THIS, EXPERIENCE SHAPED MY PERSONA' SOME MIGHT CALL AN ATTITUDE, I CALL IT SELF ESTEEM ' IT'S NOT AGGRESSIVE, IT'S ASSERTIVE!!!! I WILL NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO MAKE ME A SMILING, STEP--AND--FETCH--IT SUBSERVIENT!!! THAT'S WHAT REALLY BEING ITERATED!!! " DO HE REALIZE THAT HE'S A BLACK GUY,??? YES I DO, ONE WHO KNOW'S EXACTLY WHERE HE STAND'S, ONE WHO'S A BIT ARROGANT, NOT TO A POINT OF BEING OBNOXIOUS, BUT TO A POINT THAT OF AMERICANS WITH HARVARD EDUCATION AND ONE'S THAT HAS EXPERIENCE HAVING MOST OF WHAT THEY DESIRED IN THEIR LIFE TIME!!! SO DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HAVING THAT DISCUSSION WITH ME!!! I'M NOT OPEN TO THAT!!! PERIOD!!! I DIDN'T GO TO HARVARD, THOUGH EQUIVALENT PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS!!! AND WORKED FROM 14 UNTO RETIREMENT!!! THERE WERE ENTERVALES PERIODICALLY, WERE I WAS OUT OF WORK, BUT NOT LONG! ❤️🤍💙🇺🇸📚🙏🍷🙏🍷👀👀🙏😎

  • @teenoso4069
    @teenoso4069 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sounds like reheating stoic teachings on framing

  • @RGBReact
    @RGBReact Před měsícem

    impulse buying doesnt affect depressed people. attitude of adderall.

  • @pharaohcaesar
    @pharaohcaesar Před měsícem

    As a person of faith called to do a mission by GOD I am not at all in control of my own life. Have you written anything on Faith?
    I would have many of your points more meaningful 20 years ago when I was still in control of my life. But I gave that all up to follow an idea that is bigger than my life. I made a choice to follow GOD's decisions and I have no way to back out of that decision now.
    You speak a lot about what other people think and believe about an individual and how they can deal with that. But with a person like me other people's opinions are meaningless. The only opinion I worry about is GOD's opinion. The only choice I worry about is GOD's choice. These words must sound completely foreign to you.