I Have No Jaw - But Still Found True Love | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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    JOSEPH WILLIAMS, who was born without a jaw, never thought he would find love - until he met his wife, Vania. The 41-year-old from Chicago has a rare congenital disorder, otofacial syndrome, which left him unable to speak or eat with his mouth. Instead, he relies on an eating tube and communicates through a mobile device and sign language. In 2019, Joseph and Vania met at work and became friends. Despite Joseph's facial difference, Vania fell in love with him. Their relationship has faced judgement from families, friends and even strangers online - but the couple, who have been happily married for two years, believes their love goes way beyond their physical difference.
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  • @NoroVideos
    @NoroVideos Před 5 měsíci +3163

    He’s not disabled, he just dropped his jaw when he saw her coming.

  • @kentrader2489
    @kentrader2489 Před 5 měsíci +4413

    He was a teacher's helper at the elementary school I attended as a kid. I've never felt scared, threatened, nor disgusted by him once. I'm so happy he is living his best life and is married! You go Joe!!

    • @Letizia2810
      @Letizia2810 Před 5 měsíci +117

      You must have been a real cool kid then. ❤
      I’m so happy to hear this lovely story.
      They are a wonderful couple.

    • @mygigi43
      @mygigi43 Před 4 měsíci +32

      That’s awesome!

    • @Vinlyguyx420x
      @Vinlyguyx420x Před 4 měsíci +25

      Yeah! Good for Joe! It’s always so awesome seeing people that helped influence you early in life, create an amazing life of their own! Power couple!!!

    • @zlumi428
      @zlumi428 Před 4 měsíci +10

      That's so nice.😊

    • @11luciacifer11
      @11luciacifer11 Před 4 měsíci +29

      Awwww wow, I truly believe she loves him. The way she's honest about being embarrassed and ashamed at first. But later only saw his spirit..... ladies, check in if you agree, looks are great but not everything. I rather be loved and treated respectfully and with care. And by the sound of it, he sounds very loving and caring. Whether or not he's conventionally attracted isn't for us to say. He's healthy of mind and body. So what his face is different. It's not ugly. He has great eyes. And not to be taken disrespectful. But he has to really think before he says anything because he's typing it out now. Honestly inspiring

  • @xRaiderz
    @xRaiderz Před 2 měsíci +614

    bro got a baddie. happy for him

    • @XxRaceRCxX
      @XxRaceRCxX Před 22 dny +8

      I hope that baddie isn't sleeping around

    • @mutesama1203
      @mutesama1203 Před 22 dny +111

      @@XxRaceRCxXProjection of insecurities and being miserable.

    • @XxRaceRCxX
      @XxRaceRCxX Před 22 dny +1

      @@mutesama1203 best case scenario

    • @spider-jonah-man7148
      @spider-jonah-man7148 Před 2 dny

      @@mutesama1203happens all the time sadly

    • @alexindi
      @alexindi Před 2 dny +1

      @@XxRaceRCxXwhy would she, she’s in love..

  • @gentlemanjack2477
    @gentlemanjack2477 Před 4 měsíci +1152

    This man is winning.. his wife is beautiful! She’s a kind human being as well. Wish them a long and lasting marriage.

  • @mygigi43
    @mygigi43 Před 6 měsíci +3939

    I bet that he’s a better husband to her than most men.

    • @angelmushahf
      @angelmushahf Před 5 měsíci +152

      Maybe. The dating market is rigged. Most men aren’t even looking for a serious relationship

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 Před 5 měsíci +70

      @@angelmushahf Don't believe everything you hear online. Most men cannot choose what to look for. They take what they can get from women and many get nothing at all.
      The discontent makes them say they stopped trying, but it means that they *did* try. After thousands of rejections people just burn out.
      Imagine the effort, time and money they invested. At some point you have to accept that women are not attracted to you and many men did.
      The dude in this clip here is an extreme outlier and also a juggernaut (like in juggernaut law).

    • @user-ue3xb8tz1u
      @user-ue3xb8tz1u Před 5 měsíci +58

      She's with him for media attention. I don't know why people fall for this.

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@user-ue3xb8tz1u Because the ones who don't, are less likley to have children. Nature does not care about morality or sense.
      If men who believe everything women tell them are more likley to have children with them (betha providers), then the male population will develope into this direction.
      If women who suffer from Stockholm syndrome are more likley to have children, then the population will increase the number of such people, untill most of them have this trait. Therefore it becomes normal and people do not see it as something special or bad. This is where we are now.

    • @kelechi_77
      @kelechi_77 Před 5 měsíci +176

      @@user-ue3xb8tz1uyou get with someone for years just for attention? Do you know how foolish that sounds?

  • @chronicallycassandra8907
    @chronicallycassandra8907 Před 7 měsíci +6148

    As a fellow disabled person im really impressed by her honesty in saying how it was uncomfortable and hard at first. These are normal emotions and reactions when meeting someone with a disability and rather then pretending those awkward moments aren't real or happening and instead acknowledging it just shows how true her feelings and love are for him. Love doesn't come easy and good things are worth working hard for. Thank you for seeing the human and the soul behind the disability and being patient with yourselves and mostly others. ✌🧡🦓

    • @LDuke-pc7kq
      @LDuke-pc7kq Před 5 měsíci +28

      I saw the Zebra and immediately knew this must be a fellow EDSer ❤❤🦓 Many Blessings to you :)

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +28

      One thing I hated was that she told people that she was embarrassed and ashamed of him. At first, being with him when people asked like that would piss me off, but now that you know him, you’re not like tf?

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +21

      You are too nice, though I have one, and that would turn me off. I get multiple people who tell me I hope your condition kills you, etc., horrible stuff. But if my woman said that, I would be hurt by it.

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@CedarMountainsnow Okay?

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci

      @@CedarMountainsnow that’s called being ignorant and a asshole

  • @mrharris2401
    @mrharris2401 Před 4 měsíci +240

    No jaw, but he managed to score one of the most lovely women I've ever seen. This story is crazy! Shouts out to both of them. I'm happy for them!

    • @jamesiewalters2360
      @jamesiewalters2360 Před 13 dny +2

      Don't need a jaw for a winning smile!

    • @Golf2foto
      @Golf2foto Před 5 dny

      Won’t HE do it!! ❤

    • @mrharris2401
      @mrharris2401 Před 4 dny

      @Golf2foto
      The guy with the missing jaw definitely did it. Surprised the mess outta me. Salute to him!

  • @jessicabowers4811
    @jessicabowers4811 Před 21 dnem +27

    He is proof that smiling is shown in the eyes not the mouth.

  • @YouTubeUzername
    @YouTubeUzername Před 7 měsíci +1242

    Dude bagged a dime, she looks like a goddess!

    • @Deniseeee84
      @Deniseeee84 Před 7 měsíci +54

      Facts

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv Před 6 měsíci +136

      She could be a model , she is beautiful

    • @JohnnyCage4Real
      @JohnnyCage4Real Před 5 měsíci +50

      She stacked

    • @xander_k_
      @xander_k_ Před 5 měsíci +46

      Fr no one else has any excuses

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +11

      One thing I hated was that she told people that she was embarrassed and ashamed of him. At first, being with him when people asked like that would piss me off, but now that you know him, you’re not like tf?

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ Před 5 měsíci +1599

    He was born without a jaw, not without a brain or the ability to take care of himself, work, love, or be loved... What is wrong with these people? Pulling out their phones and recording him as if he's an exhibit at the zoo or a freak show. They ought to be ashamed of themselves for being so disrespectful! 🙄
    I'm thrilled that they have such a beautiful and loving relationship! Everyone should be so lucky!🥰

    • @josdiaz6032
      @josdiaz6032 Před 5 měsíci +54

      I swear ppl are sick and evil

    • @kindnessandgracestaysmilin5990
      @kindnessandgracestaysmilin5990 Před 5 měsíci +44

      For real. I feel like social media has made people so cruel and like not realize the human aspect anymore.

    • @TheOshinoMeme
      @TheOshinoMeme Před 5 měsíci +1

      I mean... It trully show who really doesn't have a brain !
      But yeah It's a freaking sick world.
      I hope you all live well🙏😉

    • @romanbukharevich9841
      @romanbukharevich9841 Před 5 měsíci +7

      I agree

    • @allkapsdesign6414
      @allkapsdesign6414 Před 5 měsíci +7

      You are right.

  • @deyaniragutierrez8970
    @deyaniragutierrez8970 Před 8 dny +29

    I'm no body language expert. I don't claim to be. But in my humble opinion. This is very genuine.

  • @phyllisjohnson8456
    @phyllisjohnson8456 Před 17 dny +39

    He’s got a beautiful wife, inside and out. He’s doing better than most able bodied men.

  • @kitkat88816
    @kitkat88816 Před 7 měsíci +2241

    1:21 I love that she was real and honest about this a normal reaction it’s nice to hear someone talk about it truthfully

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv Před 6 měsíci +54

      Right! They are an awesome couple. She is the real deal

    • @_carbon
      @_carbon Před 5 měsíci +22

      100%

    • @user-ue3xb8tz1u
      @user-ue3xb8tz1u Před 5 měsíci +3

      She's with him for media attention. I don't know why people fall for this.

    • @OMWP3
      @OMWP3 Před 5 měsíci

      @@user-ue3xb8tz1u for the “bag” as people holler

    • @akagetobimaru1994
      @akagetobimaru1994 Před 5 měsíci +25

      ​@@user-ue3xb8tz1uDoesn't matter... watever it is,he's still a lucky man

  • @CaptainFalcon
    @CaptainFalcon Před 7 měsíci +1332

    Why cant all dating apps have an option for disabled people? like "Are you disabled? Yes or No" and "Would you be willing to date a disabled person? Yes or No" It would make disabled people love lives so much easier if they can filter out so many people unwilling to

    • @tem2198
      @tem2198 Před 6 měsíci +106

      Some people have a disabilty fetish

    • @CaptainFalcon
      @CaptainFalcon Před 6 měsíci +74

      @@tem2198 That's hot then. I'm disabled and I wouldn't care lol

    • @tem2198
      @tem2198 Před 6 měsíci +44

      @@CaptainFalcon I somewhat agree especially because of how hard it is to find people. I have Asperger and if I found someone I wouldn't tell unless they found out somehow, I rather be that quirky person that autistic person. But some people don't have that option and most people aren't going to understand. Right now the dating game is very difficult even for normal people.

    • @CaptainFalcon
      @CaptainFalcon Před 6 měsíci +11

      @@tem2198 Well said fam

    • @CaptainFalcon
      @CaptainFalcon Před 6 měsíci

      @@tem2198 You have a disability fetish?

  • @mugiwara9727
    @mugiwara9727 Před 3 měsíci +39

    Her saying she was embarrassed of him at first sold me fully on the legitimacy of her love for him
    A fraud would've made it seem like it was paradise.
    A lucky man found a real one. God bless her soul!

    • @kenthefele113
      @kenthefele113 Před 2 dny +3

      That’s how you know someone is a good person. They’re willing to admit when they’ve made mistakes.

    • @queenmisanthrope
      @queenmisanthrope Před 19 hodinami

      @@kenthefele113I don’t think saying she was embarrassed of him at first is a mistake, it’s just how she felt in the moment

  • @RoseRaines
    @RoseRaines Před 2 měsíci +98

    This woman is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.
    I’m glad both of them found such an equally beautiful souls to spend their life with.

    • @SSGSativa
      @SSGSativa Před měsícem

      Was just about to type that first sentance till I saw you already did. And I 100% agree with your last sentance as well. I hope they both live super long lives together happily ever after.

  • @briana_patrick
    @briana_patrick Před 5 měsíci +1210

    Its comforting to see stuff like this, because its a reminder that there is someone for everyone. Not everyone dates based on looks. It puts my mind at ease.

    • @aubreyplazasuncle
      @aubreyplazasuncle Před 5 měsíci +37

      dont let the incels see this

    • @yei123mar
      @yei123mar Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@aubreyplazasunclelol. Search, "Man with woman without a jaw." Women care about resources not looks. He may not have a jaw, but has a decent income.

    • @carterblunt4192
      @carterblunt4192 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@aubreyplazasuncle Too late. And yes, I'm pissed. But a huge W for him.

    • @wodahs4200
      @wodahs4200 Před 5 měsíci +4

      No there isn’t. This guy is lucky. And there isn’t an even number of men to women on the planet so by the numbers there is simply not someone for everyone. Thats a fantasy.

    • @yei123mar
      @yei123mar Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@wodahs4200 There is an even number more or less, but that's not really necessary. A guy can have two wives or a gal can have two husbands. Repeat this until a perfect 1 to 1 arises and that's it. You'll quickly realize that with something like 100,000 polygamy relations the rest balance out.

  • @EnnVee959
    @EnnVee959 Před 7 měsíci +1969

    Wow Vania is physically a beautiful woman. I am always touched when someone who could probably have her pick of men chooses the one that we might least likely think she would choose, given her above average beauty. I am moved to the point of tears.

    • @facellina
      @facellina Před 5 měsíci

      Only physically ugly people hate ugliness or disability.

    • @DisciplineOverMotivation-rj6tc
      @DisciplineOverMotivation-rj6tc Před 5 měsíci +197

      Never esteem any person that high. No one is better than anyone despite how you may internallly rate someone aesthetically

    • @MPPG663
      @MPPG663 Před 5 měsíci +115

      ​@@DisciplineOverMotivation-rj6tcIgnored the entire point to make a sanctimonious comment. I hope it helped.

    • @ChosenRellll1111
      @ChosenRellll1111 Před 5 měsíci +56

      God sends people for the ones we see as unqualified! 😢🤍It's a beautiful thing!!

    • @jackchop1576
      @jackchop1576 Před 5 měsíci +56

      Talk about a passive aggressive, backhanded compliment.

  • @americanmade-1
    @americanmade-1 Před 4 měsíci +371

    Women are so amazing. Youd never see this the other way around.

    • @diddlydooha
      @diddlydooha Před 4 měsíci +62

      yup yup yup... true dat

    • @tammi67able
      @tammi67able Před 2 měsíci +24

      You never lied

    • @jiggaman000
      @jiggaman000 Před 2 měsíci

      thats not true. There's videos of Men getting with Women with disabilities. You're sexist and a misandrists.

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 Před 2 měsíci

      exactly, because women get with men for their money. thats how smoking hot women can get with 70 & 80 year old men, morbidly obese, disabled or disfigured men... they're just waiting for the guys to kick the bucket. if you don't think she's having relations with other men, you are delusional.

    • @rasluffi
      @rasluffi Před 2 měsíci

      Somebody married that two headed conjoined freak, wym?

  • @tyborg314
    @tyborg314 Před 4 měsíci +188

    I'm alone and feelin sorry for myself that I don't have a woman, but I couldn't stop smiling during this, so happy for this guy, shit happy for them both

    • @napleieunice
      @napleieunice Před 3 měsíci

      Iam here for you dear where are you ??? Iam also alone

    • @t-alimichael3363
      @t-alimichael3363 Před 2 měsíci

      I'm single and here

    • @ommyannie4633
      @ommyannie4633 Před měsícem +1

      Lot of single ladies everywhere

    • @SaamiyaSucdibbe
      @SaamiyaSucdibbe Před měsícem +1

      After 2 months did you have any one

    • @User1xcds2283
      @User1xcds2283 Před 22 dny

      Wow i hope my lovelife is the same like them, being alone and single at age of 40, its kind a feel missing part..

  • @RaraAviss
    @RaraAviss Před 5 měsíci +596

    People denying an atractive woman the right to fall in love with disabled person or even a just a peron who doesn’t fit into a beauty standards is so sad. As if disabled person could only marry somebody desperate and undesirable for others. I can bet they would not be so shocked if she was not so good looking.

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před 5 měsíci +42

      True enough. If she was below average looking, it is still remarkable. She's actually a knockout in all respects, so it is extra surprising.

    • @oneforall9046
      @oneforall9046 Před 5 měsíci +12

      Preach, sad truth smh

    • @mariii000
      @mariii000 Před 5 měsíci +33

      same vibes as guys saying a pretty girl is “wasted” if she’s gay

    • @saintejeannedarc9460
      @saintejeannedarc9460 Před 5 měsíci +14

      People are just always surprised when we see an odd couple, just because, well, they are an odd couple. I just saw a very young pretty girl w/ an older, fat, and homely guy, w/ no money, and a cane, who uses a mobility scooter. They were super happy together, so all the more power to them. They still make you do one heck of a double take though.

    • @rexx9496
      @rexx9496 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Of course, because that woman would have a ton of options. She's as gorgeous as many of these IG models with a million followers and men throwing themselves at her. On the other hand that guy's dating options are going to be extremely limited. He's literally like the luckiest guy on earth.

  • @Prttyrddvlvt
    @Prttyrddvlvt Před 5 měsíci +817

    Growing up in Chicago I remember seeing him one day walking home from school in the 6th grade. My mom always taught me it wasn’t polite to stare but I stared at him. I wasn’t scared I was intrigued and wanted to know what happened. Of course I never asked and kept walking but I remember hearing a sound of talking from a device he had asking someone he picked up from school how their day was and I thought it was nice that he asked. I was 11 then, I’m 32 now but as soon as I saw this I recognized him. I’m genuinely happy for this couple ❤

    • @youtubehatestruthtellers8065
      @youtubehatestruthtellers8065 Před 5 měsíci +7

      You let Mr right get away

    • @SoapboxEntTV
      @SoapboxEntTV Před 5 měsíci +59

      @@youtubehatestruthtellers8065she was literally 11 did you read 😭😂

    • @youtubehatestruthtellers8065
      @youtubehatestruthtellers8065 Před 5 měsíci +9

      @@SoapboxEntTV it's called sarcasm. Do you.... humor

    • @DiamondsRexpensive
      @DiamondsRexpensive Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@youtubehatestruthtellers8065broken humour

    • @Kurojahr
      @Kurojahr Před 4 měsíci +11

      I grow up in Sao Paulo and remember seeing him in elementary school saving a cat's life how was drowing in some river, i wasn't scared at all. Now i'm 50 years old and this guy is my biggest inspiration.💪

  • @TheAginG420
    @TheAginG420 Před 2 měsíci +85

    That's pretty heartwarming. And the fact he's 41 makes me feel it's not over for me, either.

    • @kikithepupper6774
      @kikithepupper6774 Před měsícem +5

      It ain't over for you buddy. I know people who married in their 40s and they're happy..

    • @indipacifician3693
      @indipacifician3693 Před 24 dny

      not every woman is like that

    • @faodail3913
      @faodail3913 Před 23 dny +3

      My dad got married at 47, had 2 daughters, mum was 31 but even as a teenager, it was dad who was full of life and played cricket with us, rode horses with us etc. Guy in our church was even older, late 50's and found the most lovely ywife. Now he has 3 boys, full of life, everybody is eell and happy. Never give up!!!😊

    • @GloryToTheHighest
      @GloryToTheHighest Před 4 dny

      41 is nothing. The life is just starting for many.

    • @agentcodydanks
      @agentcodydanks Před hodinou

      It’s over for you lol

  • @beatonthedonis
    @beatonthedonis Před 22 dny +7

    He radiates confidence, masculinity and integrity.

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend Před 7 měsíci +282

    and she is drop dead gorgeous... outside.. and inside.... he is crazy lucky hands down.

  • @fouedmechergui2226
    @fouedmechergui2226 Před 7 měsíci +582

    I really appreciate her honesty and her fidelity. It's rare to find these persons these days

    • @onlycows726
      @onlycows726 Před 5 měsíci +40

      and people are still bashing her for it in the comments, if she expresses her former doubts truthfully unlike most she's a pos, if she doesn't have anything negative to say about the relationship then she's a liar, goes to show people will never pick a side

    • @kikithepupper6774
      @kikithepupper6774 Před měsícem

      ​@gaslightgatekeepgirlboss5255 Yeah you can't win with those type of people. they're just gonna believe what they want. They can't wrap around their head that they found love and they're happy

  • @AkelDaisy
    @AkelDaisy Před 2 měsíci +86

    The lady is even more beautiful than those who called themselves selective ladies

    • @NatsukiGenshin7
      @NatsukiGenshin7 Před 22 dny +5

      For real

    • @207humanity
      @207humanity Před 5 dny

      I’m sorry but what’s wrong with being selective? Especially when it comes to the inner qualities of your partner and the quality of the relationship everyone should be very selective. In fact, all women especially should be choosy because women are often the subject of domestic violence and die at the hands of their spouse. A woman must be careful and selective, not being like that might cost us our life. I seriously dislike this mentality that people should lower their standards to the point that they end up suffering in a relationship.

    • @chazj2425
      @chazj2425 Před dnem

      Wouldn’t find a man doing this. Men are just angry that women have started being as selective as them! Statistically men LEAVE their sick wives in droves 😂

  • @cherrysIushie
    @cherrysIushie Před 3 měsíci +70

    He has a voice box but we’ll never know what he would sound like. That’s crazy. A human that will never speak. He seems like a sweet guy

    • @alokmurmu7682
      @alokmurmu7682 Před 25 dny

      How he eat 😢??

    • @shtface9637
      @shtface9637 Před 24 dny +4

      Maybe with technology, a new jaw can be created some how.. I know it's more complicated than it sounds and probably super expensive. But lately I've been hearing about some crazy technology I never thought was possible.

    • @joshdaboss2365
      @joshdaboss2365 Před 20 dny +1

      He’s the black Claude

    • @EmiliaRobertson
      @EmiliaRobertson Před 5 dny +1

      @@alokmurmu7682 he eats through a tube in his neck I think. Hope this helps 😊

  • @JH-nf9in
    @JH-nf9in Před 5 měsíci +95

    That man has the kindest eyes

  • @destin.marie.
    @destin.marie. Před 7 měsíci +595

    As someone who is also disabled hearing her say she was ashamed and embarrassed in the beginning really made me sad. It my greatest fear to be someone my partner is not PROUD of. I applaud her honesty and she seems to love him now but it stung ngl.

    • @Netti103
      @Netti103 Před 6 měsíci +178

      I also appreciate the honesty. The internet couple with the guy who is very small-Shane-I feel like she isn’t honest about some stuff that she initially thought. I like the honesty better.

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv Před 6 měsíci +156

      I’m sure it did sting but we have to appreciate her honesty. And the fact she was able to look past his disability and get to know him is awesome. Most ppl are far too superficial to even try. But most would feel that way in the beginning. I have to say to that seeing some one as pretty as she is not hung up on looks and truly interested in what’s on the inside is a breath of fresh air. She isn’t fake that’s for sure. Good for them, wish them all the happiness in the world.

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv Před 6 měsíci +10

      Yea idk about them. I mean this guys disability isn’t that big of a deal, I mean it is, but nothing like Shane. And I think Shane is so funny but idk what I believe about them.

    • @seadragonpirate8195
      @seadragonpirate8195 Před 5 měsíci +14

      It's the truth 🤷

    • @kaitlinski493
      @kaitlinski493 Před 5 měsíci +87

      Those are normal human emotions, and reactions to severe deformities. You can't let other peoples reactions control how you live your life. They will either get over it, or not.

  • @khoiiifish
    @khoiiifish Před 16 dny +7

    Her honesty is refreshing. And it’s exactly how you know she’s sincere and truly loves him. Likewise to her mother, you can tell she took that from her. Nothing but blessings to their family!

  • @amesblitz339
    @amesblitz339 Před 4 měsíci +43

    It's so lovely that even without a jaw or chin, you can see his smile of happiness. I hope they have a long and happy life together.

  • @AriaDonnaC
    @AriaDonnaC Před 6 měsíci +354

    marriage isn't about looks, you can date someone for looks. marriage is finding everything you need in someone and every small imperfection about them becomes so beautiful.

    • @indianreaction445
      @indianreaction445 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Hi I love you ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Pheneria-dv6zw
      @Pheneria-dv6zw Před 5 měsíci +4

      Amen

    • @AriaDonnaC
      @AriaDonnaC Před 5 měsíci +23

      ​@@Chris-fw5plI'm guessing you're single lol or divorced

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +14

      They always say it’s not about looking bad, but if a 400-pound guy went up to them, they would walk away.

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +9

      @@Chris-fw5pl I mean we know damn well she’s lying. They always say it’s not about looks bad but if a 400 pound guy went up to them they would walk away

  • @wrghty
    @wrghty Před 7 měsíci +354

    Fair play to her man, cause many wouldn't give this man a chance of love. I'm so happy he found someone to love him unconditionally, he deserves it

  • @Carp90s
    @Carp90s Před 2 měsíci +19

    That’s a beautiful woman who has put a lot of effort into the love of her man and it shows. Their love is so genuine and infectious.

  • @Monstacheeks
    @Monstacheeks Před 3 měsíci +15

    His wife is a Jaw Dropper! 🔥🔥

  • @Achillias
    @Achillias Před 7 měsíci +348

    Dude is very lucky to have such a beautiful woman as his wife. Kuddos to them.

    • @LittleCraftyKitty
      @LittleCraftyKitty Před 6 měsíci +52

      She's lucky to have him as well ❤ such a sweet couple ❤

    • @BrianDonato
      @BrianDonato Před 5 měsíci +13

      Lol what a backhanded compliment calling someone "lucky" for their spouse.

    • @Achillias
      @Achillias Před 5 měsíci +14

      @@BrianDonato You'll need to work on your comprehensive reading skills, because it's bad.

    • @DesireandLoss92
      @DesireandLoss92 Před 5 měsíci +13

      I think she is also lucky.

    • @BrianDonato
      @BrianDonato Před 5 měsíci +11

      @@Achillias Um what is the reasoning behind your comment? Calling someone "lucky" is very obvious saying that someone is getting something they don't deserve, that they didn't earn, by chance essentially ... How do you know he is lucky? Maybe he simply has amazing character and found someone after working on himself and whatnot. Calling that "lucky" is definitely a rude thing to say. Of course you follow it up with criticizing my reading skills. Lol.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 Před 7 měsíci +322

    She a real one! Im so happy these beautiful souls found each other!

  • @lc285
    @lc285 Před 4 měsíci +15

    He's helping her become better.

  • @angelazimdars1122
    @angelazimdars1122 Před 4 měsíci +26

    This is a reminder that we are visual beings, but at heart were soul beings. I have cerebral palsy, and one of the major reasons why I'm picky about my partner is...
    the vulnerability that the "disability" gives you. But that's also what makes us a little different. I've always admired that we were able to see a soul a it better because we had to take a step back and be more vulnerable than a lot of other people. So people can believe what they want, but it's a soul connection. It's not about the temporary matrix body because deep down, our souls know that it's bigger than that.

  • @mended-christianmusic498
    @mended-christianmusic498 Před 5 měsíci +95

    Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.
    She is a gift from the Lord. ❤️

  • @pugnacious1
    @pugnacious1 Před 5 měsíci +286

    This is not a story about a disabled man with no mandible. It's a love story. He calls her his empress:)!
    Her honesty only shows who she is. She sees his heart. What a beautiful story!! I pray they have a long, happy marriage.❤

    • @AnAdorableWombat1
      @AnAdorableWombat1 Před 3 měsíci

      He's a disabled man with no mandible though…that is blatantly obvious.

  • @burly636
    @burly636 Před 2 měsíci +4

    People can’t believe two people can love each other if one has a condition. The condition doesn’t matter. Show them they are wrong.

  • @taramyers7857
    @taramyers7857 Před měsícem +8

    The more you look at Joe, you don't really see his disability. Joe looks fit and has all his limbs and his wife truly loves him. God bless you both.❤🫶🙏

  • @PrettyBaby293
    @PrettyBaby293 Před 5 měsíci +108

    It’s incredibly ableist to say things like “their marriage has to be fake”so because someone has a disability they don’t deserve to be loved past a platonic level?!

    • @taylornikii
      @taylornikii Před 5 měsíci +10

      I think what a lot of people do is project a form of a insecurity. That they themselves could not fall in love with someone with disabilities. Because they lack the attractiveness that allows us to desire someone. These same people are unaware of how many different types of attractions their are. Physical attractions is one thing but personality attraction is another.

  • @alejandram2843
    @alejandram2843 Před 5 měsíci +86

    He has very tender eyes 🤍

  • @sherlockhomeboy4031
    @sherlockhomeboy4031 Před 3 měsíci +10

    I love that he smiles with his eyes. Thats so beautiful

    • @lauraa2778
      @lauraa2778 Před 14 dny

      Yes! I was looking for this comment!!

  • @ministerofhiswill
    @ministerofhiswill Před 3 měsíci +8

    Yes, she is beautiful. More importantly, her spirit is more beautiful and Joe is blessed. They are blessed to have each other.

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain Před 7 měsíci +592

    you KNOW his personality must be incredible. its the truth not many women would want to date a man with a physical disability like this but this shows theres hope for people. having a kind warm heart is enough to find love

    • @kaitlinski493
      @kaitlinski493 Před 5 měsíci +9

      Well, yea. It would make it even harder if it was a genetic thing.

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +8

      One thing I hated was that she told people that she was embarrassed and ashamed of him. At first, being with him when people asked like that would piss me off, but now that you know him, you’re not like tf?

    • @PrettyBaby293
      @PrettyBaby293 Před 5 měsíci +56

      @@adamdavis5383to be fair that’s a normal response. Being around someone different that may not be socially acceptable will be embarrassing for others..it’s like when kids don’t wanna let others know they are friends with the nerd..because it’s not socially acceptable.

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@PrettyBaby293 I get what you mean, but hey, no one is perfect; everyone has something going on with this, whether mental, physical, or financially, or they just go batshit crazy.

    • @adamdavis5383
      @adamdavis5383 Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@PrettyBaby293 But hey, you have to be yourself and be who you are. You have to stand up for yourself, your friends, and those who mock you or the people you are friends with. Those who mock your friends are just insecure people who like to mock others for fun.

  • @baronessax2114
    @baronessax2114 Před 5 měsíci +204

    It’s men like him that make me forsake changing my physical appearance and finally embrace self acceptance. Having several facial deformities, it is difficult, but we need more people like him and myself who love ourselves unconditionally and bring more humanity to this earth by our mere presence

  • @MrsHart11
    @MrsHart11 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I know “of” this man. He is smart, kind, capable and knows sign language. I wish him well.

  • @Swagbosses7
    @Swagbosses7 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Im in tears i pray that i can find this kind of love one day.

  • @goldcoastlady5377
    @goldcoastlady5377 Před 5 měsíci +64

    "Stop looking at the physical, or you just may be missing out on your blessings"!

  • @kalismols606
    @kalismols606 Před 5 měsíci +72

    My goodness his wife is absolutely stunning what a lucky man and equally lucky woman!

    • @tabarnliss
      @tabarnliss Před měsícem

      She is stunning and incredibly smart, what a beautiful woman!

  • @username-mk4qv
    @username-mk4qv Před 2 měsíci +4

    People really do hate seeing people happy and loving each other. Seems like a cope.

  • @bernadettehunter1512
    @bernadettehunter1512 Před 16 dny +2

    I FOLLOW HIM ON TIC TOK, HES AN AMAZING MAN! IM SO GLAD THAT SHE GOT PAST HER FEARS AND FOUND TRUE LOVE IN HIM. SHES BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. KEEP ON SHINING YOU 2 SND GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS.

  • @i.a.7555
    @i.a.7555 Před 6 měsíci +119

    This is one of the few episodes from this series where I dont find their relationship off-putting - they are really in love and one is simply disabled. They aren't inviting strangers into their bed..they are just in love despite some hurdles.

  • @Stalemarshmallow
    @Stalemarshmallow Před 5 měsíci +154

    Even though he is missing a jaw and a chin he is still a very handsome man. And must also be a wonderful smart person with a great personality. Can’t take that away from him.

    • @samwallaceart288
      @samwallaceart288 Před 16 dny +1

      Yeah he's got great eyes and nose; definitely better to have good eyes than a good mouth

  • @everyaudiobooks
    @everyaudiobooks Před 14 hodinami

    True love is the only most searched aspect of humanity, blessed is this couple to find one another! If you want love , you certainly will find yours. God bless.

  • @raewren
    @raewren Před 10 dny +1

    I love his smile. It’s just so pure. The light that radiates from him!
    Don’t come at me. You don’t need a full face to smile. You can see it if you know what you’re looking for.

  • @crypticvinforever6350
    @crypticvinforever6350 Před 5 měsíci +131

    Ok but THIS WOMAN IS DROP DEAD GORGEOUS! LIKE. BEAUTY QUEEN LEVEL, A HINT OF LELE RICHON, N HER BODY LOOKS NATURAL N HER PERSONALITY IS STELLAR

    • @Kiara_kh
      @Kiara_kh Před 3 měsíci +20

      She's married chill

    • @sadepennbrook
      @sadepennbrook Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Kiara_kh😂😂😂

    • @jasmineshelton759
      @jasmineshelton759 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I was really hoping a woman wrote this amazing comment, but

    • @felinemyprey
      @felinemyprey Před měsícem

      That's what I'm saying!!! Absolutely stunning!

    • @felinemyprey
      @felinemyprey Před měsícem +3

      ​@@jasmineshelton759I'm a woman and I agree. I can't even describe how beautiful she is. Her body is perfect too

  • @bully61
    @bully61 Před 5 měsíci +46

    Bro got a baddie

  • @rememberme4ever1
    @rememberme4ever1 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I like her. She’s honest. I see a lot of these videos where it is heavily censored with “oh I never noticed it or let it bother me.”
    Which isn’t true most of the time. People who have never been around people with disabilities don’t quite understand it and humans are unsure of what they don’t understand. But she got to know him and they truly fell in love. And I love that for them.❤ they both deserve the best. He seems like an amazing dude! Love how he talks about her.

  • @darthg6505
    @darthg6505 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This is what shows true beauty, Vania is a true Angel. This is what love is. I hope people can walk away a better person after watching this story. I am so happy for the both of them. 😁

  • @renegadejane6122
    @renegadejane6122 Před 5 měsíci +81

    Joe comes from my hometown. He was always so nice and had good energy. Very happy to see he is happy and found someone to treat him like he deserves 🙏❤️

    • @bernachukwureh2870
      @bernachukwureh2870 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I am wondering how he eats. Not trying to insult please.

    • @barbieon07
      @barbieon07 Před 5 měsíci

      @@bernachukwureh2870feeding tube

    • @ang1692
      @ang1692 Před 5 měsíci

      feeding tube via his trachea@@bernachukwureh2870

    • @prettyloubey8411
      @prettyloubey8411 Před 4 měsíci

      @@bernachukwureh2870I honestly wonder as well.

    • @Aaron-ih8mt
      @Aaron-ih8mt Před 2 měsíci

      I think he uses a syringe to inject the food into that feeding tube in his throat

  • @NocturnalRS
    @NocturnalRS Před 5 měsíci +37

    Bruh she is legit a supermodel, Imagine how many people looked her in a superficial way...

  • @vignesshwarvenkatachalam7786
    @vignesshwarvenkatachalam7786 Před měsícem +2

    I could see him laughing despite not having a jaw. This teaches me that beautiful things are felt by heart. ❤

  • @carlosbanegas6616
    @carlosbanegas6616 Před 2 měsíci +2

    She is beautiful not just in the physical sense but her spirit and soul

  • @CoolHandLulu87
    @CoolHandLulu87 Před 5 měsíci +123

    What a beautiful woman she is, inside and out. A beautiful soul to choose him. I'm happy for them both. ❤

  • @nueythepyasuwan
    @nueythepyasuwan Před 6 měsíci +72

    She is gorgeous. Lucky man. I’m happy for them

  • @AnAdorableWombat1
    @AnAdorableWombat1 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This is absolutely beautiful. Jo is remarkable. Despite his disability, he still works hard and lives his life to the fullest. “Stop looking at the physical because you just may be missing your blessings”…absolutely true. Thank you Jo and your beautiful wife❤

  • @chunwong1807
    @chunwong1807 Před 4 měsíci +3

    She is so beautiful and has a heart full of compassion and kindness

  • @sammietulip7948
    @sammietulip7948 Před 5 měsíci +104

    I remember noticing him at a fair for people with disabilities in Chicago downtown about 20 years ago. I wish them well. ❤

  • @taleishaadams6899
    @taleishaadams6899 Před 5 měsíci +44

    Forget the jaws. His eyes are gorgeous!

    • @mzyotruthnlove8263
      @mzyotruthnlove8263 Před 5 měsíci +6

      Yes, his eyes are beautiful 😍.

    • @crazylittleangel
      @crazylittleangel Před 5 měsíci +2

      And are we just gonna ignore his body? 😍

    • @SilentNoMore64
      @SilentNoMore64 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I just commented that too. He's actually nice looking. He just doesn't have a jaw. I wonder if they could fabricate one.

    • @g.pearson4726
      @g.pearson4726 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes. He has beautiful eyes
      And he and his brother look a like.
      The brother is fine.
      They would have beautiful babies if they chose to☺️🥰💖💕

  • @Hooperd2023
    @Hooperd2023 Před měsícem +3

    I used to work with him! He’s such a great guy!

    • @EliHank
      @EliHank Před měsícem +1

      🧢🧢🧢🧢

    • @Hooperd2023
      @Hooperd2023 Před měsícem +1

      @@EliHank seriously. Spoke to him every morning, he would write on his phone to reply . Great guy, they always walked to work together. You could really tell he had a great spirit and didn’t let his condition get him down. You could tell he was genuinely happy to be alive:

  • @frozengamer3030
    @frozengamer3030 Před 28 dny +3

    This is proves that you don't need a jaw to find love.

  • @AzazelFoxx
    @AzazelFoxx Před 5 měsíci +23

    "This is my wonderful Empress, Vania."
    Omg this man is so precious!!!!!!!!!

  • @e.r.9905
    @e.r.9905 Před 5 měsíci +32

    He was born without a jaw - but not without a heart! May God bless their marriage and show the people that true love does always see only with the heart!

  • @_HeARTSconnection
    @_HeARTSconnection Před 4 měsíci +4

    This fills me with such a beautiful feeling of pure love. I could almost cry in the best way...I feel warm on the inside after watching this. God bless them. ❤️🙏🏽💯

  • @Dehema00
    @Dehema00 Před 29 dny +3

    Bro is winning he has a beautiful girlfriend, strong relationship and here i am single

  • @melissahinkley7629
    @melissahinkley7629 Před 5 měsíci +75

    Cute couple!!! I'm glad that Vania decided to give her friend, Joe, a chance. He has such a big heart.

    • @2okaycola
      @2okaycola Před 4 měsíci +4

      They’re sweet together

    • @SilentNoMore64
      @SilentNoMore64 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I actually am very drawn to how beautiful and expressionate his eyes are. Truly they are a wonderfully blessed couple.❤

  • @helenhines2712
    @helenhines2712 Před 5 měsíci +84

    This is what you call true unconditional love. If this isn't true love, I don't know what is. May God bless you both and keep you in his care. ❤

  • @D12th
    @D12th Před 9 dny +1

    I have so much respect for this woman. She's amazing.

  • @pumpkinslice1811
    @pumpkinslice1811 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Omg she is legit gorgeous!

  • @MaeCheek3
    @MaeCheek3 Před 7 měsíci +145

    I love that Joseph and Vania put God at the head of their relationship...

    • @kris-tel
      @kris-tel Před 5 měsíci +9

      Yes I think that how they met, because God put each other in each other’s life.

    • @lovelife2186
      @lovelife2186 Před 4 měsíci

      K well let me try

  • @katlyndobransky2419
    @katlyndobransky2419 Před 5 měsíci +42

    I’m happy that she was honest. There are so many people that are missing arms, eyes, half their brain when they’re born. And it makes me uncomfortable because they’re not like me. And it is strange, but that’s natural. And you have to remember that they’re still people too. They didn’t choose this life. I’m happy he eventually found love, both are beautiful souls

  • @sidehustlevikki1066
    @sidehustlevikki1066 Před 2 dny +1

    We need more angels like her!

  • @masalamouth
    @masalamouth Před 4 měsíci +2

    Such a touching story... Wishing them a lifetime of happiness!💛♥️🙏

  • @tammydavis2047
    @tammydavis2047 Před 5 měsíci +70

    The way they look at each other is what I think everyone strives for. All I want in a relationship is HONESTY, that is the foundation! I am glad they both gave each other a chance.

  • @GoodWillPrevail
    @GoodWillPrevail Před 5 měsíci +52

    I have never seen anything like this. This lady is genuine and true and so is Joseph! I hope they have a happy life together.

  • @ElleMac-uo8oc
    @ElleMac-uo8oc Před 4 měsíci +1

    Their unique love, and honesty is beautiful

  • @dirtwidow12az
    @dirtwidow12az Před 2 měsíci +6

    She's so beautiful

  • @She_Rocks
    @She_Rocks Před 6 měsíci +22

    When you judge others think of it this way "what if i was the one with this condition"?

    • @ToLovelyJesus
      @ToLovelyJesus Před 5 měsíci +2

      Exactly, we would want to be loved.

    • @She_Rocks
      @She_Rocks Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@ToLovelyJesus ♥️

  • @angelafarquharson8637
    @angelafarquharson8637 Před 7 měsíci +39

    She is so beautiful inside and out ❤

  • @BadgerDevil
    @BadgerDevil Před 2 měsíci +2

    I'm glad they found each other.
    His eyes are so full of life, even though he can't smile, his eyes are full of happiness.
    She is also a beautiful woman, and he is very handsome, wish them happiness.

  • @ppoki8204
    @ppoki8204 Před 20 dny +1

    SHES ABSOLUTELY JAW DROPPING DAMN

  • @Anthony-sn8co
    @Anthony-sn8co Před 6 měsíci +54

    True love comes from the heart and not from the physique. I love you guys❤ God bless you

  • @charliebell4563
    @charliebell4563 Před 5 měsíci +21

    I hope she learns more sign language for him. Communication will improve drastically. I’m glad they love each other and are learning patience with one another. And I wish them a long and happy life !

  • @Elizabethperez___
    @Elizabethperez___ Před 6 dny +1

    This makes me feel like there is hope in the world❤ thank you for sharing this beautiful story!

  • @Lovehappyjoy
    @Lovehappyjoy Před 22 dny

    I love this couple and thank you for letting us be apart of it!