Jocko Podcast 415: How to Find Happiness. w/ Arthur C. Brooks

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    Arthur C. Brooks is the Parker Gilbert Montgomery Professor of the Practice of Public and Nonprofit Leadership at the Harvard Kennedy School, and Professor of Management Practice at the Harvard Business School, where he teaches courses on leadership, happiness, and social entrepreneurship. He is also a columnist at The Atlantic, where he writes the popular weekly “How to Build a Life” column. Brooks is the author of 13 books, including the 2023 #1 New York Times bestseller, "Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier" with co-author Oprah Winfrey and the 2022 #1 New York Times bestseller From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life. He speaks to audiences all around the world about human happiness, and works to raise well-being within private companies, universities, public agencies, and community organizations.
    Join the conversation on Twitter/Instagram: @jockowillink @echocharles

Komentáře • 142

  • @jeckek9936
    @jeckek9936 Před 5 měsíci +29

    After all these years i finally realized who Jocko reminds me of. Optimus Prime.

    • @CreeperKiller420
      @CreeperKiller420 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Made me laugh because it's funny, and because I agree.

  • @dannycalder1638
    @dannycalder1638 Před 5 měsíci +29

    You can glean something from anyone. Even a friend of Oprah. Eat the fish and spit out the bones. Well done once again Jocko.

  • @squintz831
    @squintz831 Před 5 měsíci +12

    If you're not happy with what you got be greatful you didn't get what you deserve.

  • @scott-hr3hd
    @scott-hr3hd Před 5 měsíci +21

    Happiness can’t be “found” because it’s the level of appreciation you have. Looking for the next thing that is going to “make” you happy means you don’t appreciate what you currently have.

  • @user-kf8wb2cq4f
    @user-kf8wb2cq4f Před 5 měsíci +18

    This Brooks is something of a braggart, dropping stats and titles about himself, his wife and children. I find him.. Posturing.

    • @supersharkyTTV
      @supersharkyTTV Před 5 měsíci

      I do too to be honest. Im like man, like, say something inciteful, not rattle on about your life, idk, like I understand, thats what Jocko is asking him I suppose but he also tends to let his peeps come on and just do their thing.

    • @crucifire9224
      @crucifire9224 Před 16 dny

      Ohh the real therapist show

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil Před 5 měsíci +28

    00:55 🏄‍♂ Jocko recalls a moment surfing when his friend, seemingly happy, suddenly asks about finding happiness.
    03:03 🌅 The friend, while chasing happiness through various experiences, dies pursuing it, leaving a lasting impact on Jocko.
    09:34 ⛪ Arthur C. Brooks shares a profound experience at the Shrine of Guadalupe at 15, sparking his journey to Catholicism.
    11:14 🔄 Brooks emphasizes choosing beliefs deliberately, cautioning against emotional swings in ideology or religion.
    18:43 🎶 Jocko's pursuit of excellence in French horn mirrors the dedication seen in sports, blending talent and hard work.
    20:19 🎓 Transitioning to a pro musician's life led Brooks to a tumultuous start, marked by academic struggles and a touring ensemble experience.
    20:48 🎶 Pursuing a career in chamber music meant tight finances despite world tours.
    21:45 🎼 Dreaming of becoming a soloist required being among the world's top three or four performers in the field.
    22:39 🌆 Living in New York City with fellow musicians brought partial success but felt peripheral to the desired achievement.
    23:35 💑 Meeting a girl in Barcelona sparked a risky, all-in decision to relocate and pursue a life together despite language barriers and differing beliefs.
    25:13 💍 A two-year pursuit led to marriage despite language and cultural differences.
    26:06 🎵 Transitioning from symphony work to jazz provided a liberating, less constrained musical experience.
    28:43 🎶 Classical musicians often play within the constraints of written compositions or conductor's instructions, limiting creative expression.
    30:37 🤔 Feeling constrained and unhappy as a classical musician led to introspection about career choices.
    34:08 🎭 Recognition in classical music is limited compared to today's internet-driven celebrity culture.
    35:30 💡 Encouragement from his wife prompted a shift to studying economics, perceiving it as an intellectual startup framework.
    38:55 🏫 Pursuing a master's degree in economics led to the decision to quit and start a PhD at Cornell, self-funding through savings and teaching.
    39:24 💡 Education doesn't require hefty debt; self-built learning is possible without relying on free college or government aid.
    41:44 💭 Admission into prestigious institutions can sometimes be unconventional, based on unique qualifications and unconventional paths.
    45:00 🌐 Complex problems in life, like love and war, can't always be predicted or solved accurately with complicated models or simulations.
    46:20 💔 Social media attempts to solve complex problems like loneliness with complicated algorithms, missing the genuine human connection.
    50:21 📚 Pursue endeavors that align with your passion and purpose; happiness often stems from doing what you genuinely love.
    52:37 🎖 Hierarchies and competition can drive excellence, but self-awareness is crucial to avoid getting trapped in pursuits you don't truly enjoy.
    54:57 💑 Essential elements for fulfillment include ambition, hard work, spiritual connection, and a supportive partner or community.
    56:36 🚀 Setting and striving for goals is crucial for human progress, but finding joy in the journey matters more than solely focusing on reaching the destination.
    58:00 🛠 Ambition isn't confined to climbing the corporate ladder; fulfillment can come from excelling in various roles or careers aligned with personal values.
    58:39 🌐 Life is a holistic enterprise encompassing work, faith, family, and friendships. Neglecting any aspect is akin to focusing on only one division of a company, leading to imbalance.
    59:08 🚶‍♂ There are four career trajectories: linear (focused on climbing the ladder), expert (slow and steady improvement), transitory (job supports a lifestyle), and spiral (a series of mini careers, personally designed).
    01:01:41 🔄 Embracing a spiral career trajectory involves understanding oneself as an entrepreneur, being mentally free to design one's path, and not being constrained by conventional career expectations.
    01:02:08 📚 Arthur C. Brooks transitioned his career multiple times, emphasizing the importance of periodic self-assessment and willingness to reinvent oneself, highlighting the freedom provided by the American system.
    01:04:27 📖 "Who Really Cares" book unexpectedly changed Brooks' career, leading to opportunities and transitions, demonstrating the impact of unexpected success and the need to adapt to changing circumstances.
    01:07:32 💡 Transitioning from academia to a think tank (American Enterprise Institute) allowed Brooks to engage in practical policy-making, focusing on spreading capitalism, individual freedom, and addressing social issues.
    01:13:10 ⚔ Analogizing the Surge in Iraq to life strategies, Brooks emphasizes the importance of combining strength, persistence, and brains for success, both in military operations and personal challenges.
    01:15:02 🌍 Brooks advocates for a strong America, acknowledging the dangers in the world, and emphasizes the role of the U.S. in promoting values, dignity, and freedom globally, maintaining a strong military presence when necessary.
    01:16:12 📄 While at the American Enterprise Institute, Brooks focused on influencing policy through congressional testimony, publications, and public engagement, advocating for ideas aligned with free enterprise and American strength.
    01:17:05 💸 Brooks successfully led fundraising efforts for the American Enterprise Institute, raising $50 million annually from private philanthropy, demonstrating a commitment to financial independence and ideological freedom.
    01:18:26 🇮🇳 India's economic transformation in 1991 led to the emergence of a middle class and entrepreneurship, sparking growth despite persistent challenges.
    01:19:35 🇩🇰 Denmark's high happiness ranking isn't a straightforward measure, considering different interpretations of happiness. Its societal success factors differ from those applicable to larger, diverse nations.
    01:20:59 🌍 Liberalization of economies globally since the 1970s significantly reduced poverty, showcasing the benefits of freedom, opportunity, and competition of ideas.
    01:21:26 🏞 Scandinavian happiness models, like Denmark's, suit their homogeneity but aren't necessarily scalable for diverse, larger nations like the United States.
    01:24:26 💰 Welfare, windfalls, and unearned success can harm personal dignity, motivation, and happiness, emphasizing the value of earning success for self-worth.
    01:25:52 🧘 The Dalai Lama's secrets for happiness involve wealth in broader terms, including fulfilling relationships, spiritual depth, and the accumulation of personal value beyond monetary measures.
    01:27:01 🌐 Decentralized command, a military principle, extends beyond the battlefield: distributing power effectively within organizations and societies leads to better outcomes.
    01:29:17 ❤ "Love Your Enemies" presents a radical yet pragmatic concept: to wield true power, one must practice loving enemies, focusing on their good despite personal feelings.
    01:33:00 📚 Strategic decision-making involves deep contemplation and structured discernment, engaging with the decision's specifics over time rather than waiting forsudden inspiration.
    01:36:03 📰 Brooks' writings for The Atlantic explore themes like measuring happiness, the impact of political news consumption, success addiction, and the unpredictability of a college degree's impact on life.
    01:37:39 🧠 Addiction and brain chemistry can lead to substituting one addiction for another, including shifting from alcohol to other pursuits like business or fitness.
    01:38:20 📚 Arthur C. Brooks merges neuroscience, social psychology, and behavioral economics to offer actionable happiness insights for everyday life.
    01:39:14 📈 The decline in fluid intelligence typically occurs in one's late 30s, affecting focus, innovative capacity, and problem-solving abilities, leading to career shifts and burnout.
    01:41:50 💡 Individuals often experience their peak innovative work in their 30s and 40s due to the decline in fluid intelligence, shifting into a phase wherecrystallized intelligence becomes more prominent.
    01:43:42 🧠 Crystallized intelligence, focused on wisdom and pattern recognition, peaks in one's 60s and 70s, enhancing teaching, mentoring, and leadership abilities over time.
    01:46:42 📖 "Build the Life You Want" isn't just an extension of articles; it's a collaboration with Oprah Winfrey, aiming to introduce happiness science to a broader audience.
    01:51:40 🧠 Metacognition is about consciously experiencing emotions, separating them from behavior, and managing them from the prefrontal cortex rather than letting emotions control actions.
    01:52:23 🧘‍♂ Techniques like meditation, talking to yourself in the third person, and journaling emotions help create a distance from emotions, allowing for conscious decision-making.
    01:57:09 🧘 Practice Metacognition: Detach from emotions by understanding you aren't your emotions. Utilize techniques like prayers of petition to help analyze and respond appropriately to feelings.
    01:58:19 🪞 Detachment in High-Stress Situations: In intense situations (e.g., military), practice detachment. Take a step back, slow down breathing, and widen your view. Detachment helps manage emotions and make better decisions.

    • @dameanvil
      @dameanvil Před 5 měsíci +7

      02:03:32 📝 Journaling for Emotional Processing: Writing helps process emotions effectively. Encourage others, including children, to express themselves by being "metacognitive."
      02:05:36 ⚖ Focus Unfocused Fear: Address generalized anxiety by focusing on specific fears. Write down fears, analyze them, and formulate a plan. This process helps manage anxiety and provides a sense of control.
      02:07:02 🤝 Caring for Others: Engaging in moral deeds and acts of kindness for others leads to increased well-being. Helping others actively fosters a sense of purpose, control, and reduces anger and social isolation.
      02:10:44 🏠 Four Pillars of Happiness: Focus on four key pillars for lasting happiness: Faith, Family, Friends, and Work. These pillars provide enjoyment, satisfaction, and purpose, acting as essential elements in the "happiness 401k plan."
      02:13:46 🏡 Build Your Imperfect Family: Embrace family conflicts as opportunities for improved communication. Acknowledge imperfections, prioritize family bonds, and recognize the magic in familial relationships.
      02:15:51 💑 Complementary Relationships: Instead of seeking someone similar, complimentary relationships often work well. Embrace differences, appreciate each other's unique qualities, and understand that conflicts are a natural part of relationships.- 01:57:09 🧠 Developing metacognitive techniques helps detach from emotions, enabling better decision-making and control over reactions.
      01:58:05 🪖 Teaching detachment strategies, like pausing in high-stress situations, aids in managing emotions, especially in demanding environments like the military.
      01:59:45 🌊 Detaching from emotions by widening perspectives (like scanning after shooting) reduces anxiety, enhancing calmness and decision-making.
      02:00:28 😡 Reactive behavior, controlled by emotions, contrasts with managing emotions to make rational decisions. Teaching this skill early on benefits individuals greatly.
      02:01:41 📝 Writing emotions down or journaling aids in processing feelings, particularly during times of loss or emotional distress.
      02:04:13 😰 Unfocused fear leads to generalized anxiety; focusing fears through writing and analysis helps manage anxiety levels effectively.
      02:06:33 💕 Engaging in moral deeds for others contributes significantly to well-being, fostering a sense of purpose and control.
      02:08:29 🤝 Prioritizing helping others over self-care, especially in times of feeling low, significantly impacts one's outlook and happiness.
      02:10:44 🌟 The fundamental pillars of happiness: faith, family, friends, and work, hold greater significance than mere happiness hacks or trivial habits.
      02:13:05 📊 Developing a strategic plan focused on faith, family, friends, and work is vital for long-term happiness and fulfillment.
      02:13:46 🤗 Acknowledging and embracing family conflicts, along with prioritizing genuine relationships, enriches communication and depth within family dynamics.
      02:15:10 👫 Cultivating a complementary relationship rather than seeking similarity is crucial for a successful and fulfilling marriage.
      02:16:46 🧠 Understanding the neurochemical cascade in romantic relationships helps explain why boundaries matter in workplace interactions to avoid emotional entanglements.
      02:18:33 🤯 Intimacy-building exercises can create a profound sense of connection and even lead strangers to feel like they've fallen in love.
      02:19:59 💔 Dating profiles based on overly similar characteristics can attract compatible friends but not necessarily suitable partners. Compatibility and complementarity are crucial.
      02:20:27 🌍 Diverse relationships, embracing differences in culture, background, and race, may result in healthier, more successful romantic connections.
      02:22:57 🏢 Negative emotional contagion can undermine problem-solving in families or work environments, emphasizing the need to foster positive emotional environments.
      02:24:20 🤝 Forgiveness is crucial in relationships; explicit or non-verbal forgiveness can be effective, fostering healthier bonds.
      02:25:59 🔍 Brad Blandon's "Radical Honesty" suggests total honesty, avoiding even white lies, as it can deepen connections and reduce stress.
      02:27:38 🎯 Being honest with oneself is the cornerstone of radical honesty, leading to integrity in interactions and relationships.
      02:32:31 📚 Building and maintaining friendships requires conscious effort and purpose, not just relying on natural occurrence.
      02:33:55 🧠 Teaching what you know helps solidify your understanding, leveraging your prefrontal cortex for clearer comprehension.
      02:35:47 🧠 Understanding happiness involves recognizing our unique emotional intensity.
      02:36:12 🤹 Emotions vary in intensity, placing individuals in different affect categories.
      02:36:40 🧬 High intensity emotions contribute to creativity but require management.
      02:37:09 🧩 People fall into quadrants of emotional intensity, each offering unique gifts.
      02:38:33 📚 Arthur C. Brooks' latest book, "Start Strong," focuses on science-based life building in your 20s.
      02:39:29 🌐 Arthur's various online platforms: arthurbrooks.com, Twitter, Instagram, CZcams, and Facebook.
      02:40:10 😄 Humor in friendships, especially sharing memes, can enhance bonding positively.
      02:41:50 🤝 Close relationships thrive on affectionate humor rather than derision or contempt.
      02:42:57 💼 Workplace dynamics and personal relationships should be handled with care to avoid emotional entanglements.
      02:48:52 ❤ Close, loving relationships significantly contribute to happiness and well-being.
      02:49:19 🌟 Love is the essential element that brings happiness in life, a fundamental and reliable factor for a better future.
      02:50:34 ⚖ Choosing happiness often involves discipline and making choices for long-term fulfillment.
      02:53:04 ⏰ Preparation is key for initiatives like the DE RESET, ensuring a smoother and more successful experience.
      02:54:41 ⏰ Embrace de reset to set your life's trajectory positively. Get ready for it by stocking up on Joovv products for recovery and hydration.
      02:55:39 💪 Joovv products available across various outlets like Vitamin Shop, WWA, GNC, military commissaries, and many more for your convenience.
      02:56:21 🇺🇸 Origin USA, an American-made brand, offering quality products. Arthur appreciates their gear, like the moisture-wicking hoodie.
      02:57:01 🚫 Happiness is linked to freedom, and Origin USA is committed to supporting American-made goods over communism.
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      02:58:10 📚 Dive into a plethora of books from Arthur C. Brooks and Jocko, including lessons from "Way of the Warrior Kid," suitable for young readers.
      02:59:07 📈 Echelon Front provides leadership consultancy, live events, and online training to improve leadership skills in all aspects of life.
      02:59:48 🎓 Enhance your human interaction skills through leadership training offered at Extreme Ownership. Leadership is vital in various relationships.
      03:00:04 🤝 Support service members, veterans, and their families through charitable organizations like America's Mighty Warriors, Heroes and Horses, and Beyond the Brotherhood led by Jimmy May.

    • @GabrielDixonRibeiro
      @GabrielDixonRibeiro Před 5 měsíci +5

      Thank you my friend, from Russia

    • @user-kf8wb2cq4f
      @user-kf8wb2cq4f Před 5 měsíci +3

      Thank You

  • @mariojorge9529
    @mariojorge9529 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Loved this one. Thank you very much, Arthur, Echo and Jock! May God bless you all and all of us!

  • @patg.7563
    @patg.7563 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Although I didn't agree with everything Mr. Brooks said, so much of what he said and his insights into human nature were spot on, and super intriguing. Thank you for having him on the podcast Jocko. It was an excellent conversation.

  • @thegritinstitute
    @thegritinstitute Před 5 měsíci +3

    So appreciate this. Arthur Brooks brings absolute gold in this book. Grateful for the perspective and direction.

  • @lwelk273
    @lwelk273 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I have had the greatest of days and events in my life and still searched for happiness. Best way I found the solution was to serve those in my family and those around me. It gives back to fill my personal meaning of why I am here and what I bring to others in this journey. Best Jocko .....dropped some merch under the tree this year for me.

  • @joryiansmith
    @joryiansmith Před 5 měsíci +5

    This was a really insightful and amazing conversation! Thank you Jocko and Arthur 🙏

  • @jdnrust1590
    @jdnrust1590 Před 5 měsíci

    I have found an endless stream of living water that fills me with joy. Happiness I don’t know but joy that surpasses knowledge I have.

  • @HeibesHealth
    @HeibesHealth Před 5 měsíci +3

    Yes! Arthur Brooks! If I see him on a podcast, I listen/watch.

  • @lauraporter3434
    @lauraporter3434 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Indescribably helpful... so glad to find intellectual+ spiritual hope..as I go to teach in the darkness this morn

    • @bardoface
      @bardoface Před 5 měsíci

      Indescribably helpful? Lol grow a brain, girl.

  • @indivisible885
    @indivisible885 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I'm try so hard not to bagg on this guy, until, he tells the story of meeting and courting his wife, and now I've completely changed my mind on him. Thats an incredible feat, my hat is off to you, sir

  • @Rapfan965
    @Rapfan965 Před 5 měsíci

    What i take from this podcast is the fact that RIGHT PARTNER can push you to be the best version of you,

  • @danielmathews4926
    @danielmathews4926 Před 5 měsíci +3

    🎉 thank you brother, I’m not perfect but I continue trying to do my best

  • @doughboybellmore2347
    @doughboybellmore2347 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Happy is where it is at.

  • @theoryofm1nd
    @theoryofm1nd Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great interview!!! I learned more cool things about Albert C Brooks in the 1st 1/2 hour of your expert questions!!!
    I especially like your "What's going on there???"
    : )
    Tony from Seattle

  • @believestthouthis7
    @believestthouthis7 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Psalms 144:15 KJV - Happy is that people, that is in such a case: yea, happy is that people, whose God is the LORD.
    Happiness for me comes from a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. As a former unbeliever this world only offered me fun and distractions. I was always feeling like I was missing something.

  • @garybellish9586
    @garybellish9586 Před 5 měsíci +10

    See Jocko, one doesn't need to do BJJ to be happy and complete 😂😂😂

  • @traviscarlton4500
    @traviscarlton4500 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Jocko Echo Team- Attention- You should create, market, and make easy to buy a- Full Complete Content Book Package- Includes all books covered on all podcasts along with the corresponding podcast number and possibly corresponding notes or comments/summaries. (1-415)
    First “Adish”

  • @director2bob
    @director2bob Před 5 měsíci +3

    Jocko....please run for President. You would win by a landslide. I am serious. I love you man.

    • @h.l.69
      @h.l.69 Před 5 měsíci

      Sorry, but the presidental candidates are obviously not democratically selected in USA.
      The proof: out of 300 000 000 people, the choice last came down to a senile pedophile (Joe Biden) and a narcissistic criminal (Donald Trump). Well, ok, I guess Trump has something to do with kids too, since he used to go to Epstein’s parties. Well, anyway, some the hell how both have spent some time in the office. I guess China did not congratulate the US as a joke when it addressed it as a secret dictatorship.
      Sorry, I am a little drunk. But think about it...

  • @phill3208
    @phill3208 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Is there going to be any more Warrior Kids podcast? My kids love it!

  • @daveharringbone8512
    @daveharringbone8512 Před 5 měsíci

    Happiness was laying down in the nature of cape cod surrounded by love

  • @gordonriley4297
    @gordonriley4297 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you 🙏🏻 oos

  • @jasonburrs3142
    @jasonburrs3142 Před 5 měsíci

    "Keep this thought at the ready at daybreak, and through the day and night - there is only one path to true happiness, and that is in giving up all outside of your shpere of choice (influence), regarding nothing else as your possession, surrendering all else to God and Fortune."
    - Epicetus, Discourses, 4.4.39

  • @SaiyanMartialArts
    @SaiyanMartialArts Před 5 měsíci +1

    Excellent Podcast

  • @alanmiller5701
    @alanmiller5701 Před 4 měsíci

    This was a great podcast episode! JOCKO didn’t hold any punches, referring to him as a nerd; However, Arthur had a few zingers too. I loved the banter undertones. Good podcast!

  • @davidstephens5603
    @davidstephens5603 Před 5 měsíci +2

    "nerd central" fuck'n Jocko..LOL!

    • @cookkster
      @cookkster Před 5 měsíci

      Yeah that really made me laugh!

  • @mr.g816
    @mr.g816 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @joshbutler1249
    @joshbutler1249 Před 5 měsíci

    Yeah... this is the first one I couldn't get into.
    30 mins is all I could take of this guy. And I'm a musician.

    • @joejackson8513
      @joejackson8513 Před 5 měsíci

      I feel ya. Whereas some others do captivate you/me. That’s the beauty, I feel. The world is full of so many good people sharing different philosophies it’s actually hard to figure out which path to follow.

    • @XcessiveBandit
      @XcessiveBandit Před 5 měsíci +1

      Lmao facts once the guy started complementing george bush and describing him as compassionate i was like yeah im all set with this guy. Hes just really spewing nonsense about happiness another “guru” thinks he figured out happiness or whatever that means.

  • @arthurcitron9774
    @arthurcitron9774 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Spot on!👊🏻🇺🇸

  • @thesandman999
    @thesandman999 Před 5 měsíci

    Impactful interview. I bought the guys book and signed up for DEF RESET 24

  • @squintz831
    @squintz831 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Right now is a gift, that's why they call it the present.

  • @doyou7004
    @doyou7004 Před 5 měsíci

    @jocko how do you fight your own pirate copy of your own self. Do you attack, do you defend. How and what do you prepare for what’s coming. Is it really true that there’s only one country allowed to expand. Like the people you Americans were pirates against like the natives gotta learn how to make a pirate copy right? Fuck I love JD thank you for making me thinking differently depp!!!

  • @judegriggs
    @judegriggs Před 5 měsíci

    Liked most of what he talked about up until the O.W. comment. Glad to hear his positive perspective though.

  • @Dantick09
    @Dantick09 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Echo is like Jocko s Morty

  • @jamajnasoares5702
    @jamajnasoares5702 Před 5 měsíci

    10:30 DANG

  • @jake5085
    @jake5085 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Wonder if Arthur C. Brooks has ever been in any kind of physical altercation?

  • @WesTheDeal
    @WesTheDeal Před 5 měsíci +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @rodwheeler6438
    @rodwheeler6438 Před 5 měsíci

    You know what always intrigued me about soldiers is that before they would go and kill another man they would want to be blessed by a Catholic priest how ironic is that thou shall not kill, but then they want to be blessed

  • @davida3113
    @davida3113 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This guy is pretty full of himself and his ideas it seems

  • @MrTMS71972
    @MrTMS71972 Před 4 měsíci

    Syracuse!!!

  • @Sixsavagesamsoongreal
    @Sixsavagesamsoongreal Před 5 měsíci

    Chase the money
    Get gwop

  • @Jgvhdx
    @Jgvhdx Před 5 měsíci

    Damn bro. I lost a good friend from the army hung himself in his parents garage still hurts me today

  • @obsoleteprofessor2034
    @obsoleteprofessor2034 Před 5 měsíci

    1) Never change horses in the middle of a stream.
    Yeah...but what if the horse is dead?

  • @MealTeam6
    @MealTeam6 Před 5 měsíci

    I never or very rarely comment but I feel like I had to. I’ve only got as far as where you are discussing music but this guy kind of showed why he never made it big in classical music as a solo artist. The ones who do make it are great, if not the greatest, masters of creativity within constraints. It is akin to being a great architect. The musicians who recite perfectly get stuck playing for an orchestra. Nobody is going to want to hear you perform something solo if you have nothing to add to it. You’re not going to be signed by a label like Deutsche Grammophon and you’re not going to sell tickets. I studied piano for 14 years. I did not want to make it, Julliard be damned, the sea called my name. I was the “Fred” who did not want to put much work into it at a certain point. As a reference, Glenn Gould was one of the most rebellious guys in a type of music that seemingly allows the least wiggle room.

  • @rodwheeler6438
    @rodwheeler6438 Před 5 měsíci

    And that is the fucking truth

  • @jamajnasoares5702
    @jamajnasoares5702 Před 5 měsíci

    50:57 SUPREME AMEM

  • @willivonen3886
    @willivonen3886 Před 5 měsíci

    Genjutsu.

  • @Jgvhdx
    @Jgvhdx Před 5 měsíci

  • @davelane4055
    @davelane4055 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thanks sailor God bless y'all and may the Lord bless MAGA and Israel

  • @aidenhavelka7693
    @aidenhavelka7693 Před 4 měsíci

    Jocko is so smart, but it is sad he has yet to realize that true happiness and contentment is found only in Christ Jesus🙏🏻. Detachment and discipline help, sure, but true fulfillment is found on the Cross.

  • @jake5085
    @jake5085 Před 5 měsíci +1

    “George bush is an extremely compassionate person” 🤔

    • @XcessiveBandit
      @XcessiveBandit Před 5 měsíci +1

      Yea once i heard that i was like yeah this guys all set. Might as well take down the whole episode the guest is a joke of a human. Happiness isnt found its attracted.

  • @DontLetTheOldManIn
    @DontLetTheOldManIn Před 5 měsíci

    The phrase “compassionate conservatism” was coined by, Richard, DeVos , founder of Amway corporation who wrote a book in the early 90s of the same name. Obviously, George W. Bush was familiar with him because they are heavy, Republican donors, and his daughter served on Donald Trump‘s administration, I believe as education, secretary, to mixed results, unfortunately.

  • @jasonritchie8357
    @jasonritchie8357 Před 5 měsíci

    🇦🇺🇺🇸

  • @ShinzoUchihaX
    @ShinzoUchihaX Před 5 měsíci +6

    Lmao grew up as son of a prof and artist while succeeding and playing in the best symphonies on the planet with the IQ to be a scientist going to school part time.
    Wow bud, how did you do it being more intelligent then 90% of the planet while living your dreams from childhood in a home full of love.
    The better question is how could you NOT be happy with this.
    Ridiculous

    • @cw5894
      @cw5894 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Right? Lol

    • @ShinzoUchihaX
      @ShinzoUchihaX Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@cw5894 my favorite part before turning it off was hearing him brag about being lower middle class right before he mentions his international travels for vacation as a child. You know, cause thats how everyone in the lower middle class lives, taking sightseeing vacations around the world.
      What an absolute joke lol, im surprised he made it on with this complete and utter and trash.

  • @jake5085
    @jake5085 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Catholic Church is where you will find all of your happiness 👍

  • @jake5085
    @jake5085 Před 5 měsíci

    George bush is a great person

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace Před 5 měsíci +1

    I need a car

  • @robertpaulson6388
    @robertpaulson6388 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Tell us how a person that makes 35 - 75k / yr supporting a home & kids have happiness.
    Most folks can't afford jitsu classes, going to the beach, and jumping out of balloons.
    Regular folks here in USA die not being able to afford Healthcare or in car crashes going to our shit jobs.
    Semper Fi

    • @deborahcooler8392
      @deborahcooler8392 Před 5 měsíci +1

      You adjust your goals and change your perspective. I can be happy with my simple life surrounded by good people and family. Be thankful and focus on what you have, not bitter for what you don't. Believe me, lots of people have it worse than we do...From someone who's been through and seen a lot of 💩 BTW: Lots of folks can't afford to buy Jocko's stuff, either, but I get a lot of value from his FREE media presence. 😉

  • @chrismcdonald5775
    @chrismcdonald5775 Před 5 měsíci

    It doesnt matter if i watch 12 hours of baby shark on youtube, if i leave autoplay on, the first video will be your podcast.. how does that work. Im not even subscribed.

  • @user-bx6cj3tt6t
    @user-bx6cj3tt6t Před 5 měsíci

    Think youll like new covid ..jason..

  • @smitty0375
    @smitty0375 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Normally I like ACB but I think he let his right wing capitalist flag fly since he was on Jocko's pod, had to cut this one short. But do your thing man.

  • @spylingual8573
    @spylingual8573 Před 5 měsíci

    Mary can't save you.

  • @rodwheeler6438
    @rodwheeler6438 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Do you know what’s so funny about you guys you speak of honor, but you have to become the very thing that you’re trying to defeat, which in the end defeats the whole purpose depending on your belief

  • @3ndoku5h
    @3ndoku5h Před 5 měsíci +1

    Is this guy also a fan of the Dalai lama missing little boys...

  • @bardoface
    @bardoface Před 5 měsíci +2

    Barfological. Hope you recover from that yawner Jocko

  • @Bjorn_R
    @Bjorn_R Před 5 měsíci +2

    I dont know why, but I genuinely dislike this guy.
    And the people who left denmark didnt do it for adventure.. what kind of nonsense is this.. Making the danes sound like a 5 million snooze fest population.. I think most americans would be rather pleased to be "content" if that meant they could live their lives without stressing about rent, food, education, healthcare and so forth..

  • @fhlostonparaphrase
    @fhlostonparaphrase Před 4 měsíci

    This is only the 2nd time I've given up on a Jocko interview/podcast, but I just grew weary of this guy.
    He probably means well, and certainly has a high opinion of himself, but his constant sucking-up to Jocko, references to "meditations" that sounded more like woo-woo, and he laughable claim that GW Bush was compassionate...some contributions to charity doesn't weigh up for the Patriot Act or the Iraq...debacle. I tried to go further, but then he started to go on about Oprah... Nope, not for me. Seems like he brainwashed his wife too.

  • @mag9410
    @mag9410 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Something about this guy doesn’t sit right with me. Is anyone else getting that vibe ?

  • @RAMPLA2
    @RAMPLA2 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Can i block a channel on yt This dude keeps showing up and i hate it.

    • @joshescareno2307
      @joshescareno2307 Před 5 měsíci

      Missing out turd. Jockos wisdom is beyond your comprehension

  • @christopherbench1513
    @christopherbench1513 Před 5 měsíci +49

    Friend of Oprah Winfrey? Hard pass on this one, sir

    • @danielbrown9368
      @danielbrown9368 Před 5 měsíci +28

      Way to be open minded

    • @user-kf8wb2cq4f
      @user-kf8wb2cq4f Před 5 měsíci +18

      ​@@danielbrown9368...No. Oprah is a dirty word to many people and sometimes "guilt by association" is spot on.

    • @bardoface
      @bardoface Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@danielbrown9368open minded? You mean easily invaded?

    • @danielbrown9368
      @danielbrown9368 Před 5 měsíci +11

      ​@@bardofaceonly the weak minds are easily invaded. Literally the definition of being weak minded. But bravo to your courage in admitting your weakness publicly.

    • @SiriusDogStar369
      @SiriusDogStar369 Před 5 měsíci +8

      Somehow, some way… I think that despite the Oprah debate, Jocko will still weather the loss of his fans that hate Oprah.

  • @TampaTyphoon
    @TampaTyphoon Před 9 dny

    "embrace diversity" no thanks pal, that lingo leads to a slippery slope

    • @renewed6250
      @renewed6250 Před 7 dny

      How so?

    • @renewed6250
      @renewed6250 Před 7 dny

      How so?

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      @TampaTyphoon Před 7 dny

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  • @AbuTarek1986
    @AbuTarek1986 Před 5 měsíci

    Stop recommending this CZcams!! Wtf

  • @TEM1
    @TEM1 Před 5 měsíci

    Sometime around 2008 Jocko started covering up the attack on a political candidate that lived at 1519 s. Elwood Ave Tulsa, ok in 1986

  • @scott-hr3hd
    @scott-hr3hd Před 5 měsíci +3

    Happiness can’t be “found” because it’s the level of appreciation you have. Looking for the next thing that is going to “make” you happy means you don’t appreciate what you currently have.