Mining for GOLD in Your Client’s Long Story

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
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    00:00 Intro & Story Telling
    00:47 Take Charge?
    02:28 What Question Was Asked?
    03:00 Set a Parameter
    05:00 Why Do People Share Long Stories?
    07:04 Mining for Themes
    09:15 Continue with Agreement Setting

Komentáře • 24

  • @JTLifeCoach
    @JTLifeCoach Před rokem +5

    Lyssa, you're a rock star! Thank you for your time and energy to educate the coaching community!!

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem +1

      You are absolutely welcome! [air guitar in the background] :)

  • @CorrinaGordonBarnes
    @CorrinaGordonBarnes Před rokem +5

    Helpful, thank you. I love the question (I think I heard it from you in another video): "From the story you just heard yourself share, what stands out as most important?"

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      I am sure I have asked that question on another video and in real life as well. Good catch!! :)

  • @cindyjobsadhdcoaching461

    So many of my clients with ADHD are verbal processors and great story-tellers. Thanks for the education.

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      Hi Cindy exactly! 😀 I think about how any of us feel when we’re basically invited to zip it. Learning to navigate the value of the story is so helpful to being able to hold the space.

  • @gakkaba6272
    @gakkaba6272 Před rokem +1

    Thank you! This was very timely and helpful.

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      Yay, I love hearing that it was helpful and that the timing was good :) What was your take-away? And what will you use in your coaching?

  • @JenKumar
    @JenKumar Před rokem +1

    I appreciate this vantage point and refresher.

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      It so easy to forget that the story might be telling us something :) Thanks for the comment.

  • @adepejuadegoke9960
    @adepejuadegoke9960 Před rokem +1

    Thank you. This was very useful.

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      😃Yay, glad to hear that! Thanks for commenting!

  • @lenaz5226
    @lenaz5226 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much , extremely useful ! I would love to see more coaching demos if that is possible ❤ ❤❤

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem +1

      I have more coaching demos on my website, you can sign up for the free versions there, and I have others as well. 💖

    • @lenaz5226
      @lenaz5226 Před rokem +1

      @@LyssadeHart thank you I will

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      @@lenaz5226 Wonderful! :)

  • @Icecandy1882
    @Icecandy1882 Před rokem +1

    Another helpful video! Thanks

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      You are welcome! Glad it was helpful and thanks for commenting!😃

  • @patrickwilliams8646
    @patrickwilliams8646 Před rokem +1

    Lyssa. What was the name of the transcription service you mentioned?

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      Hi Patrick, It's RaeNotes. I have a video that explains how I use the service, plus there is a link in the text that gives anyone who uses it 20 minutes free and me 20 minutes free. Win-win. Here's the link to that video. And, I hope you are well! ✨ czcams.com/video/3RO-b4fBBmk/video.html

  • @sabinebarth2220
    @sabinebarth2220 Před rokem +1

    I am always looking forward to new videos of you!
    If you need new inspirations for new content, I would be very interested in your expertise how to handle someone, who cannot stop ranting about other people, blaming them for everything and trying to change them instead of themselves😊

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      HI Sabine, Thank you so much for your kind words. I will think on that topic and either do a video soon or get back to here on my thoughts. Thank you!!

    • @LyssadeHart
      @LyssadeHart  Před rokem

      Hi Sabine, @Sabinebarth2220 I've had time to mull this question over, and I will have a video coming out soon! This week I'm visiting on organic coaching conversations, but I hope to do the next one for your question and release it next week. Thanks again for reaching out!

    • @sabinebarth2220
      @sabinebarth2220 Před rokem

      @@LyssadeHart wow thank you, I can‘t wait!