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  • čas přidán 29. 04. 2024
  • Everyone’s been talking about Netflix’s latest show, ‘Baby Reindeer’, which follows the true story of an aspiring comedian who finds he’s being stalked after a seemingly innocent encounter. Our women are just some of the many who have been watching, and they feel like the show’s brought the dangers and realities of stalking into the forefront of people’s minds. They’ll be sharing some of their personal experiences of stalking, and discussing what you may need to do if you find yourself in such a situation.
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  • @julielewis5051
    @julielewis5051 Před 15 dny +210

    I do like Coleen but was extremely disappointed in her and Brenda when they said this poor man had encouraged it at a times! You'd never say this about a woman who was a victim of stalking. The series was showing a real situation where things arent black and white, the man clearly had his own mental health issues and had very low self esteem, so you can see why at times he craved the attention. These comments made me feel very uncomfortable for this poor guy

    • @mazda2038
      @mazda2038 Před 14 dny +60

      He himself admits he did encourage as such

    • @anisah8807
      @anisah8807 Před 14 dny +31

      Richard Gadd himself admits this tho, he kept messaging back and meeting up with her. A woman who had unwanted attention wouldn’t do this

    • @SaintMTi
      @SaintMTi Před 14 dny +20

      But he did encourage it

    • @flowerpink724
      @flowerpink724 Před 14 dny +2

      She was talking about her feelings throughout, not her overall conclusion.and she talked about her own stalking issue. And how she felt bad for the guy. Your comment is wrong. You obviously didn't watch the whole clip

    • @jacquelinehillson9589
      @jacquelinehillson9589 Před 13 dny +6

      Trauma makes folk do strange things.

  • @jacquelinehillson9589
    @jacquelinehillson9589 Před 13 dny +48

    Stalkers don’t care about restraining orders, it’s futile, it’s complex , you can’t reason with madness.

    • @angeleyes3396
      @angeleyes3396 Před 4 dny +1

      So true. You’ll save yourself time and a lot of heartache to either get them arrested or move/change your number.

  • @jacqui9176
    @jacqui9176 Před 14 dny +27

    The real Martha is ranting on her Facebook page, she isn't well, she actually looks, types and sounds very much like Martha.

  • @mazda2038
    @mazda2038 Před 14 dny +56

    Remember the actor who played him is the actual writer as well

    • @cherylvince3872
      @cherylvince3872 Před 14 dny +18

      The actor/writer is the guy who suffered the abuse

    • @jackd9928
      @jackd9928 Před 5 dny +3

      The same guy it happened to (allegedly). Never mind the writer.

  • @S-rn6xn
    @S-rn6xn Před 2 dny +4

    See how male victims aren’t taken as seriously? They talk about baby reindeer and say ‘oh he encouraged it’ but hen they show a video of a female victim where they’ve created a video and serious campaign yet don’t seem to blame the woman for encouraging it… why don’t they talk about the uproar in male victims coming forward to abuse from women?

  • @tarasmith2055
    @tarasmith2055 Před 12 dny +35

    He did not encourage anything. He was a kind person. And like all kind people he blamed and questioned himself. He felt responsible for this complete stranger. I know that feeling

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy Před 14 dny +17

    Psychology in Seattle channel did a fantastic analysis of this show

  • @user-nu2vg5lw3o
    @user-nu2vg5lw3o Před 15 dny +46

    I was stalked and the police asked me if I had encouraged it! 😢

    • @onehandednedned6673
      @onehandednedned6673 Před 8 dny +1

      Yes the police have to do that, cut ties or not

    • @afveteran
      @afveteran Před 8 dny +1

      Police can be insensitive, because their training I believe is shades of black and while to gray for instance. I think any person who is questioned by the police choose there words wisely and note the name of the police person.

  • @marionthomas5947
    @marionthomas5947 Před 14 dny +8

    This is where care in the community has got us to.

  • @melindacampbell90
    @melindacampbell90 Před 14 dny +7

    what's bizarre is the stalker came out saying they're going to take legal action against the makers of the show and yet they wanted to remain private, I'm like you've just outed yourself lol. I was stalked for years by someone I knew and nothing was done, there needs to be more put in place to protect women, children AND men because we will at some point in our lives have to deal with something like this.

    • @JupiterSlim
      @JupiterSlim Před 6 dny

      Yep and she just did a taped interview with Piers Morgan that will be coming out soon

  • @normaholloway9116
    @normaholloway9116 Před 14 dny +14

    My comment is not about ‘Baby Reindeer’, it’s about Coleen’s rude behaviour……….Janet apologised to Coleen for interrupting when expressing her thoughts…….but no apology from Coleen when she in turn interrupted Janet……….this just stood out to me.

  • @Liamgane2
    @Liamgane2 Před 5 dny +7

    If a woman was abused and stalked these woman would not be saying she encouraged it

    • @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165
      @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165 Před 5 dny +2

      Yeah leave that to men to say. Like they do on almost every case like this. "She was asking for it" etc.

    • @S-rn6xn
      @S-rn6xn Před 2 dny

      @@grrrrbabyverygrrr8165no they don’t at all. But look at the difference in the conversation about the man and women in this video… the man ‘oh he encouraged it.’ Then the women, they make a video campaign for it and take it seriously…

    • @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165
      @grrrrbabyverygrrr8165 Před 2 dny +1

      @S-rn6xn this was a very recent thing, though. Up until about 2015 and even now, women still get blamed when people attack them. Men need to start talking more like women did. But your support of each other is abysmal.

    • @hairgeek95
      @hairgeek95 Před dnem

      I read another comment they said he admitted that he did encourage it at some point.

    • @Liamgane2
      @Liamgane2 Před 21 hodinou

      @@hairgeek95 tbf most victims of abuse normally go back to there abuser and keep going back . Men or woman victims

  • @lenasims3085
    @lenasims3085 Před 15 dny +40

    I really cannot with Ruth as a moderator. The lady does not allow free conversation and she takes a whole minute to ask a simple question.

    • @monalisa7
      @monalisa7 Před 15 dny +3

      Agree with you today. I thought Charlene was Interruption Queen but Ruth was just as bad today. Didn’t let Brenda finish.

    • @katiecashman922
      @katiecashman922 Před 15 dny +1

      Agreed

    • @95jujo
      @95jujo Před 15 dny +3

      No . Ruth is a great anchor. Charlene seems to have nowt to say. She has not been stalked. 🤷‍♀️

    • @sabinabirnie3761
      @sabinabirnie3761 Před 14 dny +2

      I do wish Colleen would not dye her hair such a severe color, I always find myself looking at her hairstyle and not concentrating on what she is saying, I like her very much and prefer her as the show’s anchor to Ruth. Colleen is an attractive lady and it would be nice to see more of her face than this mass of black hair.

    • @natsdaley9615
      @natsdaley9615 Před 13 dny +1

      She's married to Eamon Holmes nuff said

  • @carolclapp6732
    @carolclapp6732 Před 15 dny +6

    Absolutely enjoyed it

  • @antoncannon7279
    @antoncannon7279 Před dnem +2

    Trust Colleen to make another topic all about her!!
    Bore off 🤣🤣

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 Před 13 dny +6

    This goes both ways!!

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy Před 14 dny +6

    Its a brilliant depiction of Narcissism

    • @catfae5033
      @catfae5033 Před 6 dny +1

      Just imo Id say more Machiavellianism . I don’t think Martha loved herself and he wasn’t rich or famous or anything so there was nothing for her to gain materialistickly she was obsessed with him . Very complicated person I’d love to know what a psychiatrist would think

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 Před dnem +1

      Nothing to do with narcissism.

  • @mary_syl
    @mary_syl Před 10 hodinami

    Just because he was nice to her, didn't immediately set boundaries or underestimated the threat from her does NOT MEAN he encouraged the stalking!!!! 👿 Shame on you!! He did not deserve being terrorized and STALKED by this woman! She went after his friends and parents too! She's a criminal.

  • @theeggtimertictic1136

    Its about damage. Damage ruins lives and has ripple effects.

  • @uxtp29
    @uxtp29 Před 14 dny +7

    Please spare us from the hasbeens and their unsolicited opinions

  • @Andtherewaslight427
    @Andtherewaslight427 Před 15 dny +4

    I am on the first episode.

    • @bluecheesey701
      @bluecheesey701 Před 15 dny +3

      Is very good I watched it all lastnight, gripping

  • @kelly6696
    @kelly6696 Před 2 dny

    How can you analyze it when half the panel haven’t watched it through?

  • @InterestedCitizen
    @InterestedCitizen Před dnem +1

    If Richard truly did not want the real Martha (Fiona) to be flushed out, he should have insisted Netlix at least chose a very thin blond actress with maybe a Texas accent.

  • @sueleitch6396
    @sueleitch6396 Před 15 dny +23

    What happened to the man that abused him ?

  • @aliciascat9433
    @aliciascat9433 Před 9 dny +1

    Half of them haven’t watched and they are bluffing.

  • @angeljewellery___
    @angeljewellery___ Před dnem

    I found it extremely difficult to watch . This happens in our world . There is very little help available. These things are disturbing. And it’s complicated. This is more what we should be talking about - help for both parties .

  • @AT-AT-AT-AT
    @AT-AT-AT-AT Před 9 dny

    they cannon admit it…

  • @PelvisPresley7294
    @PelvisPresley7294 Před 7 dny +1

    Oh he encouraged it. You would never hear them say that about a woman. Women are innocent even when. Proven guilty. Zero accountability.

    • @deadshot3993
      @deadshot3993 Před 7 dny

      Welcome to a man world we always the blame

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 Před 13 dny

    This programmes not helping people who may be fearfully anyway?

  • @gigieyre
    @gigieyre Před 15 dny +1

    Colleen that color looks fabulous on you! Definitely your color. Love when Ruth moderates!

  • @msrainbowbrite
    @msrainbowbrite Před 15 dny +13

    i found it soo frustrating. When he had a chance to get out, he jumped back in

    • @benjames77bd
      @benjames77bd Před 13 dny +1

      They are not very bright

    • @FlyyHigh834
      @FlyyHigh834 Před 5 dny +2

      and kept going back to the creepy disgusting guy who R'd him

  • @teresadale542
    @teresadale542 Před 15 dny +10

    Colleen is true narcissist charm plays the victim the show went down hill with that pure manipulist on board

  • @HoneyHoops-ig9ws
    @HoneyHoops-ig9ws Před 15 dny +7

    Brenda looks so defeated today.

    • @rodgerkehl8399
      @rodgerkehl8399 Před 15 dny +6

      Wouldn’t you be? Sat beside the likes of Cawleen

    • @nickywilks7928
      @nickywilks7928 Před 15 dny

      I thought this when she was on last week.

    • @katfanker
      @katfanker Před 15 dny +3

      She never gets a word in, love Brenda!

    • @msrainbowbrite
      @msrainbowbrite Před 15 dny +1

      @@rodgerkehl8399 what is your problem with Coleen?

  • @happyperson1236
    @happyperson1236 Před 5 dny +2

    Of course a group full of women think it's his fault, if the roles were reversed they would not be as kind to Martha

    • @FlyyHigh834
      @FlyyHigh834 Před 5 dny +1

      it's not his fault but he had issues as well

    • @invisibleman4827
      @invisibleman4827 Před 17 hodinami

      ​@@FlyyHigh834And? Arguably that makes him even more vulnerable to her exploitative behaviour.

  • @amyclarke41
    @amyclarke41 Před 14 dny +1

    L gs 😊24 h r s b

  • @chezzachezza7325
    @chezzachezza7325 Před 12 dny

    Was so annoying fast forward the last episode

  • @rmcwil398
    @rmcwil398 Před 3 dny

    It was all his fault from the beginning. He was pathetic. He encouraged her every moment. Even when he confronted her he still managed to goad her into doing it more. No wonder the police don't take it seriously. He is not the victim, she is. She's a victim of his manipulation.

    • @theforeignone721
      @theforeignone721 Před 3 dny +2

      How did you watch the show and come to that conclusion??? Tf it was clearly her manipulating him

  • @garyowens777
    @garyowens777 Před 13 dny +10

    I'm sorry but this man is no victim he encouraged all of it wake up people

  • @i67x
    @i67x Před 8 dny

    I'm male, been groped numerous times. Never felt abused.

    • @invisibleman4827
      @invisibleman4827 Před 17 hodinami

      Most men do, even if you don't.

    • @abe9458
      @abe9458 Před 16 hodinami +1

      Not about you mate

    • @i67x
      @i67x Před 16 hodinami

      @@abe9458 agreed, it's not about the woke victim society either.

  • @Realist13
    @Realist13 Před 9 dny +1

    The true is, he caused everything that happened to him. A weak individual craving admiration