Why did Kandi give Todd an Ultimatum?

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  • čas přidán 22. 10. 2023
  • When is it ok to give your mate an ultimatum?
    #kandiburruss #todd #toddtucker #couplesgoals #couplesgoals #hair #kandi #makeup #rhoa #glam

Komentáře • 287

  • @Mochasweet34
    @Mochasweet34 Před 8 měsíci +43

    These two make a great couple they have chemistry and will SAY ANYTHING! 😂

  • @jamesmarie
    @jamesmarie Před 8 měsíci +19

    Todd ain’t slick. He writing his next movie talking to the glam squad.

  • @caramelb3442
    @caramelb3442 Před 8 měsíci +45

    I love these real conversations!! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jcrumpley35
      @jcrumpley35 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Me too! I got my husband looking at it. We relate! It's real and love the balance! They go get a spin off! BROVO! Another one for Todd and Kandi! Lol #Toddtucker#Kandi#Brovo

  • @michelemoore1689
    @michelemoore1689 Před 8 měsíci +22

    It took my husband and I eight years.
    I decided that after all those years and we are still together we should just go ahead and get married... So, that's when I had to give him an ultimatum. He had already been married so he was content. So, I agree with Todd and Kandi, most men need a push..

  • @lirrajae12
    @lirrajae12 Před 8 měsíci +5

    not Todd with the serenade🤩 lololol This IS GOOD STUFF Ya'll Love the Tucka's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @whimhill1
    @whimhill1 Před 8 měsíci +37

    Todd you’re a true team player and Kandi you’re a gentle genius!!! Wish I could pick your brains for 1 hour!!!

  • @Millah323
    @Millah323 Před 8 měsíci +4

    😜🤪😝Todd needs some backup... Where his boys at right now? They going in and he need help now!!!😅🤣😂

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Dats right Kandi gurl!! She not the CLEANUP WOMAN!

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Kandi is so beautiful

  • @kwilk0810
    @kwilk0810 Před 8 měsíci +22

    Todd is my dude he funny asl 😂😂 I love him and Kandi relationship 💯💯

  • @melissamcclam7640
    @melissamcclam7640 Před 8 měsíci +16

    TODD, U GOT IT ON POINT! My hubby said the same thing, we shld speak up n be forthcoming, because they will stay on the slow track and enjoy the ride, knowing they cant see their future w/out us being present!!

  • @blujai8607
    @blujai8607 Před 8 měsíci +31

    This is a great conversation. Please have more of these. Getting back out into dating is strange these days.

  • @shirleybost5018
    @shirleybost5018 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I love Todd and Kandi relationship and most of all respect ❤❤❤

  • @Mochasweet34
    @Mochasweet34 Před 8 měsíci +24

    Todd is hilarious!😂😂

  • @michelemoore1689
    @michelemoore1689 Před 8 měsíci +20

    Love Kandi! Todd you are so funny 😂

  • @alisetait3132
    @alisetait3132 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Kandi looks so pretty

  • @chattychairwoman
    @chattychairwoman Před 8 měsíci +4

    Both parties are confident and great communicators. Kandi and Todd can have frank discussions. Their conversations are authentic, interesting, and insightful. Most marriages don’t have this.

  • @keepsit100atalltime9
    @keepsit100atalltime9 Před 8 měsíci +49

    I'm with Kandi, Jodie should've said something way before 5 years. It just sounds like it's one of those cases of why buy the cow when you can get the milk free. Jodie, people are going to do what you allow them to do. Even if you get engaged your guy will still probably stall at least 5 more years. At this point y'all need to go to the courthouse. If he's not down then oh well. I would say leave but your kids have gotten attached to him. Men need to know that you will leave them if need be. Don't let him make decisions for you.

  • @harrisk54
    @harrisk54 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thats when you smile and blush... Come on Todd!!!

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I don't need u to take care of me..but I need to know ur ABLE! PERIODT

  • @ladye7757
    @ladye7757 Před 8 měsíci +15

    Again! I love me some Jodie. I wish she was my friend. She so real….”come over here and do a pool party.” 😂😂😂

    • @tabithabrice5905
      @tabithabrice5905 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Just invited herself to have party at their house 😂😂

  • @itstherealdre
    @itstherealdre Před 8 měsíci +18

    Jamie gon keep it real! Shes not afraid to ask some good questions! Speak on it be 🔥

  • @melodybambi1
    @melodybambi1 Před 7 měsíci +1

    TOD SPEAKING ON IT 😅😅😅

  • @tyrabnotbanks
    @tyrabnotbanks Před 8 měsíci +16

    Jodie I love your vibe boo but don’t be a placeholder. Men will waste your time if you let them. Trust me, men know what they want and if it’s not a YES than it’s a no. He’s comfortable since y’all are already living together and lives are intertwined… because let’s be honest… what if he never gets to where he wants to be financially? no marriage?… idk boo, I think you should consider YOUR happiness and what you want because it seems to be that he’s wasting time.

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Love u Kandi!

  • @teresahenderson954
    @teresahenderson954 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Praying for you. Y deserve happiness and respect. Peace of mind can't be brought. ✌️🙏

  • @creativeworks2228
    @creativeworks2228 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Todd got on a FULL BLOWN lace beard?!?!

  • @SetaAset
    @SetaAset Před 8 měsíci +2

    He's ready to dip. Kandi, you might have to let it go, I hate to say that...BUT!!!???

  • @theelest7275
    @theelest7275 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Hey Todd and The Glam Squad… and Kandi! 👋🏾

  • @true90skid
    @true90skid Před 7 měsíci +1

    Todd now u know Kandi Doesn't like being shown without her makeup 😅 she has said this so many times throughout the years 😂

  • @anniefisher9887
    @anniefisher9887 Před 8 měsíci +10

    I love Todd he is so awesome and funny 😂😂❤

  • @Yahisgood175
    @Yahisgood175 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I dont see what kandi said as an ultimatum , " she let him know what she was and was not going to tolerate.

  • @sharonwilliams5198
    @sharonwilliams5198 Před 8 měsíci +14

    i love y’all show!!! keep it goin, people love this yall!!!!! great show as always

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +13

    My father passed but my mom&dad had 11 kids TOGETHER and was together almost 50yrs&my mom to this day have never worked a day in her life!..now times have changed..bit I still agree A MAN SHOULD BE A MAN!

    • @amberlee582
      @amberlee582 Před 8 měsíci +9

      But she did work raising 11 kids

    • @mopeeps8240
      @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @amberlee582 that's a job in itself trust..so im def not taking away from that at all!..I was talking bout secular work

    • @blushbaby5278
      @blushbaby5278 Před 8 měsíci

      That was 50 years ago times are different

  • @luvmore09
    @luvmore09 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Todd truly needs his own friends....smh

    • @shebekalove1541
      @shebekalove1541 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Exactly !

    • @gregdabarber1
      @gregdabarber1 Před 7 měsíci

      He has friends this is his show

    • @luvmore09
      @luvmore09 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@gregdabarber1 Youre related???? We know its his channel. Next!
      who needs to see Kandi friends on his channel? Unless thats all he is Allowed To Be Around. Whose really wearin da boxers

  • @MzDale
    @MzDale Před 8 měsíci +3

    I agree with Todd, some men it’s a pride thing, it comes from a good place. They want to be able to have it financially before they get married.

  • @LashandaDavis-id1zj
    @LashandaDavis-id1zj Před 8 měsíci +7

    You really shouldn't have to give an ultimatum of that other person knows whT they really truly want 😊

  • @ebross4236
    @ebross4236 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Todd ready to bounce he put his time in.

  • @christinebryant8354
    @christinebryant8354 Před 8 měsíci +18

    I’m with Kandi two years & keep it moving if he doesn’t know what he wants to do. Five years is a long time for someone to figure it out. I definitely hear what Kandi is saying as well about not putting in the time. That extra effort if you not trying to put a title on the relationship or situationship what ever you want to call it. Jodi it’s time for your guy to make a decision.

  • @creativeworks2228
    @creativeworks2228 Před 7 měsíci

    ... and secretly TODD SAYING I WAS NOT REALLY ABOUT THAT MARRIAGE THANG. ..:)))))

  • @MzBRii913
    @MzBRii913 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Absolutely agree w/Kandi!

  • @KeyannaLaShawn
    @KeyannaLaShawn Před 8 měsíci +5

    Jodi funny, “To see what yo homeboys look like!”🤣🤣

  • @ValerieCampbell-fz7zo
    @ValerieCampbell-fz7zo Před 8 měsíci +6

    Ultimatums can be very useful…LOL

  • @dgardner7609
    @dgardner7609 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love this !

  • @DBlockBoi87
    @DBlockBoi87 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Jamie would never be “my girl” I would never say that again - like Todd said - why are you here with my boys??? 👀

  • @Papawheelie75
    @Papawheelie75 Před 8 měsíci +4

    16:00 she gone crazy talking about paying two rents. WTF

  • @brandonbrown1916
    @brandonbrown1916 Před 8 měsíci +13

    I really love this. I thought my man Todd went a lil hard in the beginning, but I also understand he doesn't have a sidekick/support system in a room full of women. But Kandi is my 1st wife in my head, so I ride hard for her. I will fight anyone in the streets bout her, but Im learning to lighten up a lil as her gusband lol. I know Todd know's he has a real one. As long as he don't cut the fool and set up a scheme, I rocks w him.

  • @Mbran03
    @Mbran03 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I'm a firm believer in what Steve Harvey spoke on in ALMTLW book, he said a man will not settle down until he 1. He knows who he is, 2. What he does, 3. How much makes. So you can be with a man for 20 years but until he feels like he is the protector and provider, he won't settle! No timeline will work. And then you pivot to one of Kevin Samuels takes where he states "men control access relationships, women control access to sex. These concepts go hand in hand!

  • @tmyni
    @tmyni Před 7 měsíci

    So Todd…….. they helped you clean….. you denied…. Then they supposed to…. Y’all a team? 😂😂😂❤

  • @ladytrustdaleo
    @ladytrustdaleo Před 8 měsíci +5

    Girl with the glasses gives authentic point of view. And conversation leads to allowing the mate to know what n where they fit in.

    • @HauseOfGlam
      @HauseOfGlam Před 8 měsíci +1

      😊

    • @tabithabrice5905
      @tabithabrice5905 Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@HauseOfGlamyes you need to be in front of camera with them enjoy your point of view

  • @jamesthomas2152
    @jamesthomas2152 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Great conversation

  • @mswardsar7718
    @mswardsar7718 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love this and the others conversations keep them coming ❤️

  • @MzDale
    @MzDale Před 8 měsíci +4

    She had to list like 50 million things and then Todd said ok you can get a lil rent mad funny😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +25

    Nah..I have a time limit..she's right..I'm goin to be 36&I'm not tryna date more than 2yrs!

  • @dionnescott6458
    @dionnescott6458 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I like Jami. Like a lot! She is very insightful.

  • @Deefamilyof3
    @Deefamilyof3 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Hey Todd, Kandi ,Jamie n glamsquad ❤❤❤.

  • @narvelljones9571
    @narvelljones9571 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is real talk nice CZcams show no acting

  • @cherylt3096
    @cherylt3096 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Todd’s funny 😂😂😂😂

  • @Dr.PhD-10
    @Dr.PhD-10 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Todd is hilarious 😂 😃 😄

  • @deeprice9830
    @deeprice9830 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Aloha Todd
    Love what your doing
    Keep up the good work
    Have a bless night ☮️

  • @Itscangrl
    @Itscangrl Před 8 měsíci +2

    I wish they did these live

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +4

    #kanditextganggang...don't take us for granted

  • @itzmee_kisha4600
    @itzmee_kisha4600 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Todd slick regret moving so fast in the relationship. Even tho it worked out😏

  • @reneturner9332
    @reneturner9332 Před 8 měsíci +8

    I’ve been married for 35 years and I never had to give him an ultimatum because I don’t control him. But What I will not do is make the outside p___y easy for him period. ♑️

    • @TheeOne4.44
      @TheeOne4.44 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Hello!🤝🙌🏽

    • @scorpiorules3709
      @scorpiorules3709 Před 8 měsíci

      People are looking at “ultimatum” as a negative. It’s simply about boundaries, it’s not a shotgun. Everyone is free to decline an offer, invitation and ultimatum.

  • @michellebutler7729
    @michellebutler7729 Před 7 měsíci

    Sending Todd prayers🙏🏿

  • @kimgreenwell3499
    @kimgreenwell3499 Před 8 měsíci +1

    No Honey 2 months was perfect timing because a man usually knows what/who they want to be with ASAP. They are waiting to see if the woman has standards for herself & it's not a problem for the right man to consent to the standards.
    So Kandis was NOT thirsty, Dear. Ms. Kim from GA
    Where is your husband/man? Like Grandma use to say "don't throw stones when you leave in a glass house"!

  • @peeweemathis4253
    @peeweemathis4253 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Todd crazy🤣😂😂😂🤣😂Lmaooooooooooooooo

  • @scorpiorules3709
    @scorpiorules3709 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Todd needs to reframe this “ultimate” conversation to “ I accepted an ultimatum, cause the was no coercion. Either you is or you ain’t. Kandi’s not saying, she had a reputation. Had their sneaking been found out it would have been “Kandi Burrus yak yak yak.” Kandi’s saying I’m not willing to be a sneaky link while you play the field.

  • @user-ug6uf3gb3q
    @user-ug6uf3gb3q Před 7 měsíci +1

    Kandi gurl!! You don't see it?
    #RightNYoFace
    😮

  • @narvelljones9571
    @narvelljones9571 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Kandi knows how Todd gets when he drinks that's why she don't want him out so late

  • @naci315
    @naci315 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Y’all have to keep Jamie aka straight shooter aka take care of home mommy 😂😂 Jamie was like bang bang bang ‼️ 😂

  • @AbsolutAlim
    @AbsolutAlim Před 8 měsíci +4

    That’s when you smile and blush 😂😂😂

  • @delorismurray8635
    @delorismurray8635 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I feel you need to communicate with each other about where the relationship is going.

  • @traceejeanine481
    @traceejeanine481 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Rite Jodi. I feel like that’s an excuse no one is totally together . U grow together!

  • @jamesthomas2152
    @jamesthomas2152 Před 8 měsíci

    Oh no no no Jamie😅😅😅

  • @user-pk3py5jg2q
    @user-pk3py5jg2q Před 7 měsíci

    Girlfriend beating the hell out of Kandi's face.

  • @Tia3588
    @Tia3588 Před 8 měsíci +3

    The one with the glasses want a lot for just dating… paying all her bills and his bills…. Not even if we girlfriend and boyfriend I’m not looking for him to pay all my bills and his bills… baby we regular with regular jobs that’s not realistic….

  • @MikaNTey
    @MikaNTey Před 8 měsíci +1

    I like Jamie on Speak On It. Her on here is conflicting with the conversations im used to her having on Speak On It. Lol Her voice is too factual on this light hearted/joke around show😂

  • @kdperry1
    @kdperry1 Před 8 měsíci +1

    @ToddTuckerTV and @Kandionline. Sorry to add this comment here but I think you and Kandi need to do a Speak on it with Jamie or Don Juan hosting to shut this Keith Lewis mess down. You both know I’m #TeamToddandKandi ALL day but I cannot windmill with these internet trolls by myself. Help me shut it down!

  • @delorismurray8635
    @delorismurray8635 Před 8 měsíci +3

    The ultimate for me is if we going to be with each other or else we go our separate ways.

  • @carolynswan1171
    @carolynswan1171 Před 8 měsíci +4

    My thing is if we are dating 2 years then we’re getting married or we go our separate ways. I’m not being no one girlfriend for the rest of my life i love your Channel Todd ❤

    • @lakersin556
      @lakersin556 Před 8 měsíci

      So you're willing to start over after 2 yrs because a person haven't proposed? What if the next person does the same, Start over again?

    • @carolynswan1171
      @carolynswan1171 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@lakersin556 I’m just not willing to be a girlfriend 2 or more years I’m a woman of a certain age it may not make sense to others but that’s how I feel because I know some people are living together for years and doing everything that married people are doing and still labeled as boyfriend and girlfriend. So forget shacking and living like a married couple when you can make it official. But to each it’s own

  • @talentedcreole9340
    @talentedcreole9340 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I've also noticed, Todd feels more confident around only women, and the reasons why are multiple. #1 he's below average height, #2 head insecure around taller put together men. #3 kandi wants more bedroom intimacy, but he can't keep up. #4 Todd has been given the golden key yet has obstacles who happens to be her morher. #5 So he feels like he's married to kandi, and her mom??

  • @ebonyriley2684
    @ebonyriley2684 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Todd getting them divorce documents locked in loaded.

  • @kimgreenwell3499
    @kimgreenwell3499 Před 8 měsíci

    Todd is a really good looking Man & Kandis you know you Tight; I truly Love them as a couple ❤🎉!

  • @IAmAboriginal-ov1vw
    @IAmAboriginal-ov1vw Před 8 měsíci +3

    Kandi you got sum snakes in yo grass 🐍

  • @jamesthomas2152
    @jamesthomas2152 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Good point jamie

  • @ebonyriley2684
    @ebonyriley2684 Před 8 měsíci +1

    How about damn babe your make up is stunning.

  • @evadale1500
    @evadale1500 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Beacuse she has POWER over him manipulation

  • @ahsat1020
    @ahsat1020 Před 8 měsíci

    Hey Todd and glam squad & Kandi

  • @marrioneatman5571
    @marrioneatman5571 Před 8 měsíci +2

    OMG!! TODD WHERS THE GUYS AT. WHERS YO HOME BOYS.

  • @anniefisher9887
    @anniefisher9887 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love this is so funny 😂

  • @ardeenminor9466
    @ardeenminor9466 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Todd, Kandi had “production plans” while dating the “production guy” bc you know and see she does not waste any opportunities when it comes to making money…so you were not an “ultimatum” you were “a plan”🤔😊

  • @priaplush5143
    @priaplush5143 Před 8 měsíci

    ❤Todd and the Ladies

  • @GoldenGlam95
    @GoldenGlam95 Před 8 měsíci +3

    You get what you require

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Todd I don't always agree with u..but after 5yrs if they don't have it together or have an EXACT plan..they ain't gon getit together&it's time to go

  • @mopeeps8240
    @mopeeps8240 Před 8 měsíci +2

    And yes it should be VERY CLEAR IN THE BEGINNING wat the goal is

  • @MzDale
    @MzDale Před 8 měsíci +1

    Did Todd just say mark my territory?

  • @DaRealRoniRoss
    @DaRealRoniRoss Před 7 měsíci +1

    Kandi made Todd a millionaire I’m sure he had ideas and opportunities before Kandi but he wasn’t as successful as he now. This is due to his wife Kandi having the money and connections to make things happen. Todd you should be more appreciative to your wife she upgraded you and helped you 100%. I’m sure you went hard with your ideas in the past but they don’t pan out because you couldn’t get the capital but once you got with Kandi she made it happen for you bro. Praise your Queen and keep her happy .

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před 7 měsíci +1

      According to Todd he made Kandi who she is today lol. He said her light was dim when he met her and after he came along it shines brighter 😆.

  • @LowkeyMikeyyy
    @LowkeyMikeyyy Před 8 měsíci +1

    Jamiiiiiiii ❤

  • @nikki6978
    @nikki6978 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Kandi just be TAAAALKING. We all see how controlling she is. But it works for them so good for them